Hello! Outwardly masculine and confident submissive boy here looking for his forever someone.

I’m 5’8” and getting leaner and more muscular as I progress in my fitness journey. I’m currently 225lbs, down 12 lbs since January and getting leaner and stronger everyday. I’ve got brown hair, green eyes and freckles, and I’m happy to show you pictures if requested.

Current circumstances: I’m a respiratory therapist at a major hospital in Las Vegas. I came here for the job and to be closer to family. I’m hoping to make Las Vegas my permanent home, but since my job allows me to work pretty much anywhere there’s a hospital in the US I’m willing to relocate for the right person.

Non-kinky interests: My major interests include learning languages (I speak Japanese pretty fluently, conversational in Mandarin and Spanish, and I know enough to get in trouble in a few others), Singing, history, geography, critical thinking and epistemology. I like to cook all sorts of things and meal prepping is important for my fitness journey. I’m really into being crafty and making my own whenever circumstances allow (Alcohol, gardening, ceramics, backyard blacksmithing, etc.) I’m a bit of a weeb and a gamer. I’m a big animal lover, especially parrots. As part of my fitness journey I’ve gained quite an interest in kettlebells as well.

I’m a Jew. I’m not very religious and I have serious doubts about the existence of a god as defined in the bible, but ever since the events of October 7th and the surge of antisemitism around the world as a consequence of that, I feel like I have no choice but to be proud and support my people and my heritage. I don’t expect you to be interested in it or to make any changes to your lifestyle, but it’s a big part of my identity so I feel like it’s important to mention.

Kinky interests/vision for the relationship: I would love to find that amazing loving, smothering, mommydom but I feel that I’m kind of an outlier in that I genuinely want that within the context of a committed, loving, relationship that will ultimately turn into a lifelong marriage. I’m not looking to jump into anything right away and I want our relationship to be about more than just sex, but I genuinely feel like I could never really be happy with a woman who didn’t at least enjoy adult nursing and pegging. If this world were perfect, my person wouldn’t just be my wife and my mommy, but she would also be my partner in creating an urban farm that allows us to have a little slice of paradise and get at least half of everything we eat from out backyard or that lot we revitalize together.

Pluses but not requirements: being into combat sports/martial arts
being into any kind of weight training
wants to learn to speak another language or can teach me one
likes trying new and unfamiliar food

Requirements
between 25 and 50 years old. Very loving, somewhat smothering and very physically affectionate

Thank you for reading this far! If you want to get to know me better, tell me about yourself and what you’re looking for in a relationship.

First, some practical information. The fun part comes after ;-) Warning: if your messages show in any way that you have not read (or do not care about) the points below, I might ignore you.

1. JOI=jerk off instructions. I enjoy edging a guy, orgasm control, observing a big penis. 
2. I use Skype or TG. Skype might be outdated for some, but I used it when studying abroad and it works fine for me. Do not ask me to use other platforms.
3. If you have no intention or opportunity to call on a short term after messaging me, don't message. Message at a time when you can actually play. Or your message will end up on a big pile of other messages.
4. For now prefer a guy who is younger than me but you are free to try if you are very confident ;-)
5. I verify with a picture (I can write a note for example), when I see the guy on cam on Skype. Don't ask me to send a picture here on Reddit; I don't want to send my picture to 100 guys here on Reddit.
6. I want to cam myself when I'm doing a longer term thing with a guy, or before meeting up in real life (if it gets to that). Don't ask me to cam on a first session.
7. I prefer to watch you normal/non-nude at the start. So not naked right away. I'm looking to build up some tension. For example, the cam in front of you (so you don't have to hold it). I respect your privacy, so no full face required (just no eyes is okay for example) if you don't want that.
8. If you don't want to go on cam for me, I respect that, but then you're kind of missing the point of this post and it will likely not be a match.
9. I can mic occasionally, but quietly usually (have housemates and little privacy)
10. Don't send me d\*ckpics. Also generally not interested in reading your measurements.
11. Mention some basic info (such as age) when messaging.
12. If you have/want to ask me what I think is hung, then perhaps we're not a match (and I won't answer it either).

So what am I looking for? I'm looking to explore my size-fetish and JOI/milking; it's obviously not the most important thing in the world, or in a relationship, but for this online-thing I want to explore some SIZE. This means that I'm looking for a hung guy; I want to experiment with JOI, edging a guy, comparing the penis to objects, roleplay about size, you name it.

When messaging, be willing to have or create a Skype (or TG)!

Hope to hear!

Hiya, I'm Yannik, 26, from Germany, and I'm looking to get to know somebody interested in developing a serious, kinky, and loving friend- and relationship. c:

The ability to be myself and therefore be submissive and vulnerable within a loving relationship is something that is incredibly precious, which I deeply desire. The incredible feeling of being able to be yourself and be appreciated for who you are and cherishing someone else in the same way elevates an emotional connection to a completely different level. Nothing beats looking into someone's eyes and realizing that you complete their desire. That's ultimately what I'm after.

Of course, for that, you need an emotional connection to begin with. I personally value honesty, fairness, openness, humor, and good food. I'm looking for someone to laugh, cry, cuddle, and share my life with. Somebody whom I can trust, share passions with, and create our own beautiful niche in a world that often leaves a lot to be desired.

 So if you are from Europe, after something serious/irl, roughly between 20 and 30, monogamous and do think that we could match after reading this waaaay too long post, do message me. It would make my day. c: Bonus points for a small introduction.

A little about me: 
26, from Germany,twinkish minimalist grunge/alternative look, long brown hair, short sidecut, skinny, and relatively fit. https://imgur.com/a/sVtYcDK

 Music is a big passion of mine; I play drums and won't leave the house without my headphones. Genre-wise, anything goes as long as I like the vibe; however, there is a certain propensity towards heavier music. (Semi-current top 30 in case you're interested: https://imgur.com/a/kQUrCEY). I do enjoy all kinds of gaming and nerd stuff, be it boardgames, videogames, or cardgames—preferably together with friends having a good laugh and just enjoying our time. I have a pretty substantial pile of shame when it comes to books and movies. I enjoy both, but getting around to it is a different story. The last book I finished reading is Sartre - Le sursis / The Reprieve. The last movies I watched were 20 Days in Mariupol and Ultrasound.

I'm keenly aware that 90% of those hobbies involve sitting around; I'm totally cool with doing stuff together that involves leaving the house haha, such as riding my longboard or just strolling through the city and getting some good food. c:

 I'm very talkative when I'm comfortable and enjoy talking about almost anything that comes to mind. If I can't contribute anything meaningful, I'll just make stupid jokes. Also possible are deadpan sarcasm replies or me starting to tell random stories that don't at all seem connected to bring across that I can relate to something you told me. (Might include stories I already told; my brain is very good at forgetting things.) Preferably, we can make stupid jokes and laugh a lot, but also have some more in-depth conversations c:

I tend to think a lot (some say too much) about various topics; among them are minimalism and non-conformity. I'm currently in the home stretch of my philosophy bachelor; I'm working part time, but nothing special

Kink-stuff

 Now before we get to the kinky part, I want to emphasize that for me, kinks aren't necessary requirements; I view them more as a list of things that can be enjoyed or explored together if we're both into it!

To me, a gentle femdom oriented relationship would be as fulfilling as someone who is equally intrigued by the more dirty parts of kink. Ultimately, what makes my brain go numb is mutual enjoyment and the feeling of somebody else being in control. c:

If I had to choose between strictness and gentle femdom, I'd choose gentle femdom any day. :) A versatile dynamic in which everything between light/casual/gentle domination and strict orders are options is a huge turn on. Also, I'm very obedient, so you don't get a lot of brattiness from me. c:

Very much into (occasional) orgasm control, desperation, and denial—giving up the right to cum quickly turns me into a horny mess that can't focus on anything except the desire to be used. (Hence, it needs the right occasion because it can get quite exhausting.) But its totally worth it. The mindstate of being under someone's control and getting reduced to their horny, easy to tease slut is exactly the right mindspace for me. c: (could try using a *comfortable* cage with the right person) This goes hand in hand with edging, getting edged, edging on command, or as part of sex—I love being desperate for someone else. c: (Grinding also qualifies, probably my favorite foreplay, the feeling of intensifying lust is marvelous.)

Oral fixation is the name of the game: I love (having) to use my mouth to worship feet, armpits, rimming or licking. Just grab me by my hair and show me where you want my mouth to be. Alternatively: I'm on my knees on command, taking sneakers off to kiss, lick, or smell feet puts me into sub-heaven instantly. Smell is optional, of course - but a big turn on in almost every regard, especially because the knowledge of this makes it way too easy to tease me. Unsuprisingly, this oral fixation also extends to spit. Being told to open my mouth just for someone to spit into it is so simple, yet it does all the right things for me. (I do also swallow and love playing with cum, cleaning up creampies, having to lick it from every possible body part, self-facials - yesss please )

Humiliation and degradation are two more buttons I'll willingly let you push. Partly just a way to approach other kinks (e.g. feet, smell), partly a way to verbally degrade me, call me all sorts of names, or even better, make me do all sorts of dirty and disgusting things. Playing with disgusting stuff is incredibly effective, for me, being horny overrides most feelings of disgust. If you're into someone getting incredibly turned on by what should be disgusting, there is plenty of fun to be had together. c: Unsuprisingly, all of that culminates in me being very much into piss. Depending on how you go about it, it pushes every possible button. Humiliating, degrading, disgusting, dirty, and objectifying.

Public play is also something I'd try out more with someone else; it's pretty exciting. :p

Limits:

(extreme) pain, 24/7 / TPE, permanent forced appearance change, cigarettes, vomit, needles, blood, sounding, ageplay, sleep control, micromanaging, food play, strong/constant discomfort,

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If you made it to the end of this and are still with me, you should probably consider hitting me up, just saying. c:

Kind Regards,

Yannik

Hi all, I met some really cool people on here last time I posted and actually made a really good friend. Now that I've got a better idea of what I want, I've decided to post again. 

My name is Dan, and I'm a 23-year-old sub living in the UK. Currently, I'm living in a houseshare with a friend, so I get a good amount of privacy, which saves on rent. I work as an economist, which I'm very passionate about (don't worry, I won't mansplain inflation or quantitative easing to you). But it has started to get stressful recently, and I'm considering a career change to something better paid and less stressful, easier said than done, I know.

I'm a pretty active guy and enjoy exploring and keeping fit. Currently, I play rugby (recovering from a cracked rib), go swimming, and work out at the gym to stay active. However, being active isn't a requirement for me, as I also love a chill Sunday movie marathon and listening to my vinyl (sneak peak of my collection). 

My other hobbies are: reading (mainly nonfiction), hiking, gaming, board games, cooking (recently been obsessed with Thai food), movies/TV, music/festivals, going out for a drink/meal, and travelling. 

I've been solo travelling a lot this year to experience new places and put myself out there, so I'd like to find someone else who loves travelling; I've been to Marrakesh, Lisbon, Rome, and Dublin. I just really enjoy exploring new places and cultures (especially the food).

Physical stats: 6ft1, brown hair, white British, blue eyes, broad shoulders, facial hair, athletic build, and some freckles.

What I'm looking for:

•Between 20-26. • Intelligent, open-minded, and emotionally mature. • Single (not sure I have the mental capacity to navigate a polymine field atm). • I'm an absolute sucker for ginger and black hair as well. • likes or at least can tolerate rugby. • active and enjoys travelling • Will challenge me to master chef style cook off tournaments.

I'm a pretty soft guy, and I enjoy being praised, looked after, and dominated. I love strong-willed, decisive women who are intelligent and know how to bring out my submissive side. In return for your praise, head scratches, and decisiveness, I'll cook us meals, pamper you, and provide all the affection and conversation you need.

NSFW:

Kinks: femdom, FLR, chastity, pegging, pet play, praise, toys, anal play, JOI, CEI, orgasm control/denial, edging, giving full body worship, bondage, collar/leash, latex, CFNM, spanking, and face sitting.

Toys: dildo, chastity cage, buttplug, handcuffs, blindfold, collar, anal beads, ball gag, and a spanking paddle (I come fully equipped).

Thanks for reading. If you've made it to the end and not run away yet, then feel free to drop me a message. You don't need to send a photo immediately, but just include your age, location, dom style, and a few of your interests.

Hey, thanks for clicking on my post!

My name is Josh and I'm 20 years old. I'm from Germany and I'm currently doping a dual study in business informatics.

*What are my hobbies and interests?* ⚽🎮

Well, I really like sports! I go to the gym 5x a week, and sometimes I like playing soccer or basketball with my friends.

I'm also a bit of a nerd. I love Marvel, Star Wars and Disney in general. I also collect Lego Star Wars and Marvel! Otherwise, my taste of music and movies have a huge variety, I watch everything for real (except for horror movies, there I wet my pants hahah). And of course I also enjoy video games from Nintendo or just Minecraft and Valorant!

*What do I look like?* 👦

I'm very tall, slim and have some muscles. I have brown, curly hair and brown eyes. I usually wear glasses too. I would describe my style as pretty casual or just simple streetwear. And you will be able to see me when we have known each other long enough and a certain amount of mutual trust has been established.

*What am I looking for?* 👤

I'm looking for more than just a Domme, a Sub or a Switch. I am looking for a partner, much more for a friend. For me it's important that it's not a blunt relationship between dom and sub, but much more of a friendly relationship, which then results in something like this :).

To make the whole thing more concrete, I am looking for someone with whom I can...

...chat normally like with friends,

...exchange thoughts regularly,

...have deep conversations with,

and much more. I don't want to go too much into the sexual side of things because I think that will just happen depending on the vibe.

*What do I offer?* 💼

First of all, no money. I want someone who likes me for the person I am, not someone who likes my money. But I want to be a friend to you, someone you can tell anything to and who is there for you when you need help. Someone who can hopefully make you laugh and make you happy. And above all, someone who appreciates you with respect and dignity and loves you. I will do everything in my power to make you happy. :)

*What do I want sexually?* 🫢

I am a switch! Means no matter if you are a sub, a domme or a switch we will find a way :). If you think you have taboo kinks or something, don't worry, I'm very understanding with most kinks and I'm totally okay with them. My only dealbreakers for me are incest or blood.

*What do I expect from you?* 👆

Respectful and friendly interaction is very important and, in my opinion, underestimated. Otherwise, I would just want openness and honesty. It would be great if you are from the same or a close time zone, but if you think you fit this description perfectly, than shoot your shot and who knows :).

Anyways if you've read this far I've probably talked your ear off and you're already tired of reading. Still, thanks for reading and I would love to hear from you. Maybe you could start by telling me a bit about yourself or just show me that you really read this entire post? :) If I am not the one you are looking for, I wish you all the best on your search for the right person!

Hello!

I'm back with more terrible fish puns for a title! Here's a quick run down about me and what I'm looking for in a D/s dynamic

About me:

I'm a 23 year old male submissive that just finished my masters. My kind of unhealthy and far too expensive interests include film photography, archery and a lil gaming!

Alrighty on to the meat and potatoes of this whole thing!

what I would bring to a dynamic:

• I've been a sub and active in my local kink community for around 5 years now, so I'm fairly experienced with in-person dynamics. Online dynamics are not something I'm hugely interested in.
• very much submissive, I'm not hugely interested in switching.
• submission for me is all about obedience and servitude, I'm at my happiest when I'm making my domme happy :)
• physically I'm 6ft, shoulder length brown hair which i either tie up (no pun intended) or tuck behind my ears. stature wise id say I'm an average build with a little chub but in all the right places! very happy to verify after talking a little.
• kink wise Il give you the basics: chastity is a huge kink for me, I love the relinquishment of control and I love the way a cage looks and feels while wearing. Also a huge fan of pegging and anal play in general as I adore the power exchange! One kink I'm experimenting with currently is feminisation as the idea of getting dressed up all cute by my domme is exciting for me! I have plenty of other kinks but I've got to keep something to talk about later!
• limits are: nothing illegal, no bodily fluids pee and blood etc, no sharps so needles and knives, nothing permanent and not hugely interested in bi stuff but could possibly be swayed.

What I'm looking for:

• Age wise id ideally like to meet somebody similar to my own age as it would be nice if we could form a relationship outside of a dynamic as well. However I'm open to all ages especially if you're an experienced domme as I'm always looking to learn and expand my knowledge, so 18-50 is my ideal age range.
• Hoping to form a D/s dynamic with a dominant woman both long term and more casual arrangements are okay. Domme style isn't much of a concern for me as I have experience with harsher and softer/mommy domme styles and I've responded well to both in the past.
• I'm hoping you have experience as a domme, though I'm open to all experience levels as I've still got room to learn and grow myself.
• Only looking for people within the UK, ideally close to London or in the South of England as I'm hoping this will be an IRL thing as I'm not interested in a solely online dynamic.
• I'm okay with being recorded for the content creators out there as well!

Well that's it! That's me in a nutshell, hopefully you liked what you read!

If you have any questions please let me know! Happy to send pics of what I look like after chatting and please message me with the word “green” 💚 in your first message so I know you’ve read my post.

This may be a total shot in the dark, but I'm looking to connect with open minded potential play partners in Southeast Asia, where I currently reside. I have met a few lovely Dommes through other platforms who helped me develop my skills and attitude as a sub,, so here I am on Reddit looking to explore further. My age preference is 22-35 (exceptions can be made on the upper, not lower end of this scale).

So, a little about me:

I'm a 29 year old sub - tanned complexion, slim / lean physique (I've been described as "lithe") but not excessively femme femme (sorry for all you femboy lovers out there). My biggest interest is the outdoors (especially the water). I love swimming and being in the sea in general. I also enjoy hiking, running, and generally keeping fit. I'm also prone to the occasional TV-show binge.

Kinkwise, I get off of the pleasure of others. Call me a "pleasure bottom", if that exists. My Domme's pleasure is what turns me on, and for me is my central purpose in the context of my submission. In terms of kinks / fetishes, I'm very open, but favourites would be worship, humiliation, assplay, nipple play, impact play, tease and denial, bondage, name calling, collars and leashes, bodywriting, exhibitionism, objectification. Again, I'm open to exploring.

My limits are scat, bloodplay, sounding, excessive emotional torture.

I'd prefer to connect with people within Southeast Asia (or those who travel here regularly). I'd love to coax some of you kinksters out of the woodwork. Alternatively, not too opposed to online dynamics if the vibe is there.

Also, I'm happy to share pictures. Attraction is important, and if we meet I would expect that we know what the other looks like beforehand. This doesn't have to come quickly though, and I understand that this dynamic takes time.

I hope to hear from some of you!

X

Hey I’m a 23 year old student (just graduated) living in Liverpool. I’m 6’0 and weigh around 65 KG. See pic :) https://imgur.com/a/rIEAEQH. In my free time I enjoy learning new, especially history but can be anything random. I also enjoy cycling and watching some football.

Kink wise I’ve never done any thanks to be a virgin. I will give things I would love to try. Chasity (I own 2 cages), Pet play, pegging, hypnosis, edging and denial, light humiliation and ruined orgasm, punishments/ funishments and rewards + many more. Turn me into your slave in and out of the bedroom. Also from being a virgin I get hard at the slightest breeze. In terms of limits just the normal bodily fluids, permanent damage.

What I’m looking for? I want this to be IRL at some point. So please be from England and the northwest is a big plus. I would love a long term relationship but happy to see where things go. I also have no idea what type of Femdom I want. I don’t know if I want a mommy domme or more aggressive like a mistress. So at the minute I’m open on anything but no findom.

In terms of what you look like I’m open to pretty much anyone. Age 20 to 40.

Please put some effort into your reply (ASL).

Thank for reading, hope to please you soon:)

I am a 33 year old guy living and working in Denmark for about a decade. Have always felt submissive towards women romantically and sexually.

I'm looking for a long-term, monogamous relationship with someone who wants to be worshiped, served, and be in charge of me in bed. Enjoy torturing me though be considerate and caring at the same time.

But also someone that enjoys/wants getting a bit spoiled. I like giving messages, preparing your breakfast and bringing it to you in bed, doing your chores sometimes, trying to impress my partner and so on :)

I'm interested in something in person or online initially but eventually IRL.

I'm unmarried, have no children. Have a good job and a decent lifestyle. Workout regularly and enjoy being in nature. Have a passion for music and art. I consider myself as a kind, empathic and affectionate person with some humor.

I'm tall with an average build. Pale skin with dark brown hair and eyes. I grow medium length beard if that’s important to you. Decent looks I think, and put some effort to be well dressed.

Kinks: Bondage, obedience, pain play, head scissors, pegging, foot worship, pet play, breath play, slapping, spanking, tickling, and more. Also, have a bit of a bratty side in hope of being punished :)

I’m open to try out new activities as well but my hard limits are: findom, unhygienic activities, scat, vomit.

Looking forward to hear from you :)

I am looking for something ongoing/longterm if we click. I'm a busy little boy, but I want to make room for you. Have had various online play partners, but they seem to fizzle out bc of life - so making this ad is my attempt at finding a regular online playmate hehe.

I'm a really good boy who listens well and I absolutely LOVE being told what to do and to follow instructions mommy!

What better way to take my mind off things than becoming someone’s mindless little slave and doing anything for their entertainment? ;) I hope you would be in charge of my every move, instructing me, controlling me, edging me, using me till you're satisfied, and eventually milking me for every drop I have. I want you to take over my brain, whispering to me, coercing me into giving into the pleasure, to keep stroking for you, keep edging over and over... I would also love showing off to you and do exhibitionism.

I want to be treated like an object, feel dehumanized and like my only purpose is to please and serve my superiors. Humiliate and degrade me to your heart’s content just because you’re bored or because you want to take your frustration out on someone... You don't even understand how much I need this. It's all I think about everyday and finding someone who's able to do this to me and with me. I also have thongs that I could wear for you and two toys that you can control with your phone!

Now, the part you've been waiting for—My Kinks & Experience

• Orgasm control/edging
• Toys (I come with accessories)
• Free use (love the idea of being used while sleeping and open to cnc play)
• Breeding (Yes, Please, let me put a baby inside of you mommy 🙏)
• Taboo/¡ncest (would love to play this dynamic with my mommy / step-sis)
• Exhibitionism (When I feel it's safe)
• Terms (Cum dumpster, fuck toy, little one, slut, whore, good boy - make me melt)
• Trust and communication

I’m open to other kinks!

Here's the list of hard nos:

• Anything illegal (I'm trying to avoid prison, thanks)
• Anything permanent (Scars, burns, etc.)
• Body shaming (We're here to have fun, not ruin each other's self-esteem)
• The usual no-go's: kids, animals, blood, scat, & extreme violence.
• Anal
• Face photos/videos

A little more about me:

Some of my fav activities include going to the gym as of recently, motivate me please, and make me your fuck slut. I enjoy strolling around the city when I have time and discovering hidden gems. As for favourite food... I'd say Italian; can never go wrong with that 🤌🏼🤌🏼

If you've managed to get through my rambling and are still intrigued, message me and tell me about yourself and what you’re looking for. ☺️

🤍

Hi, I'm a local to Vegas, 36, 6'2, thicc and working on it (I've been called cherubic), introverted, submissive butt slut, service sub, with an oral fixation and a diaper fetish looking for a kinky, romantic, relationship with a top. Now that we're clear there, let's get into who I am:

• Single, no strings attached, pansexual adult with most of my life together
• I live on my own, with an appreciable job, a car and most anything you might consider 'adult'
• I'm a tech nerd, I spend a lot of my free time playing PC games, I like competitive games and always take the support / heal slut role if I can.
• I'm a huge hockey fan (Go Knights go!)
• Star Trek, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Below Deck (guilty pleasure), The Office, Parks and Rec, The Guild, and most 90s and early 00s comedy movies with a special place for Bio Dome and Weekend at Bernies.
• I like fast cars, and long drives listening to 70s, 80s and 90s pop and early 00s emo music. House music, trance and The Midnight are welcome too.
• I'm an occasional drinker and frequent stoner, I don't judge until it gets hard.
• Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy quotes make me melt.
• I am a constant ponderer of life, the universe and everything. I love science and astronomy. Who are we, why are we, are we the only? I want to believe.
• I am a 'leftist' in that I believe that we should all care for ourselves, our fellow humans and the place we call home. Human rights, health care, the future of humanity in coexistence, these should be the priorities of the next hundred years.
• I recently got my passport and am hopefully looking for someone who'd like to travel a bit.
• Childfree as hell, children are the future but they're not part of my future.

What I'm looking for:

• Hopefully you if you're reading this, but honestly I'm open to anyone who resonates with anything I've written here. I idealize a dominant personality that complements my subby desires to please, because we're all looking for our matching puzzle pieces.
• Someone who wants to keep me diapered and embarrassed as much as possible
• Someone who isn't afraid to speak plainly of their wants and needs, to help me accommodate them the best I can.
• Ideally, someone who isn't afraid to make plans and bring me along, but also willing to accompany me on the few, far between plans I would like to do.
• Someone who enjoys live music, I love to see my favorite bands, and hopefully see yours too.
• Someone local or at least on the same continent who is okay planning to meet up if we hit it off, as physical connection is so important. I want to end up not living where I am in the next few years so bonus points if you give me a reason to make it sooner.

My Kink Summary:

• I am a big masochist, pain is pleasure (please spank/hurt me), with an overwhelming obsession of bottoming for anal and anal stretching, giving oral, and a diaper fetish. I also love humiliation and degradation.
• I don't identify as an adult baby, but a bedwetting history and a kink for diapers puts off a lot of people. And the ABDL accessories are fun and adorable. There's a lot of devious scenes between these interests to be had!
• I am also open to a cuck relationship as I realize a small dick bedwetter isn't everyone's preferred partner. I'm willing to strap on in return too!
• Forced service is a plus.
• Power exchange, rules, and punishments for breaking them, are the key to my subby heart.
• Open to try most anything twice, and decide after that if it's right for me.
• Not into chastity but absolutely into orgasm control.
• Open to gender bending (I love pink but I'm not a sissy), forced bi, group play.
• No real age limit either way but a little experience is preferred
• Limits: blood, needles, findom

Consent is everything.

If you made it this far, thank you! Please send me a message, I'd be happy to chat!

Hello, everyone! Today I'm reaching into the void of the internet in the hopes of finding someone cool and patient to talk with. Cool because having kinks is the equivalent of adding sunglasses to sex, and patient because I'm knot of anxieties.

About me:

I mention the height thing, (5'2 or 160 cm I think) because I'm also looking for someone that is ok with that. And I understand that not a lot of women are into that. Which is fine cause I'm not an incel about it. We all have our personal preferences.

With that said, I personally don't have a lot of them haha. Or perhaps it's more accurate to say that I'm attracted to feminity as a concept. And that concept can take form in multiple ways that are equally alluring. Sadly, this doesn't mean I'm pansexual or something like that. It just means I'm horny for women hahahaha.

Either way I'm not looking to exchange pics from the get go. But if you must know, besides being pint sized, I like to keep my dark hair a lil bit long. Although it's kinda wavy and it does its own thing half the time. My body build is pretty middle of the road, and my complexion is relatively light. All in all, and despite my low self esteem, I like to think I'm decently attractive. Far from a model or movie star, but you know, I don't complain either.

What I'm looking for:

With that out of the way, I have spent years exploring my kinks through writing as a hobby. However, lately I've been craving something a bit more intimate than online roleplay. And perhaps with some luck, find someone that I can be comfortable enough to explore in person. Although that is more of a nice to have, than the main goal of this post. I'm just as happy developing internet friendships.

Regarding kinks:

When it comes to kinks, there's lots I either enjoy or I'm curious about. But I mostly like to please above it all. So I enjoy any kink the most when it's making someone happy. With my limits being stuff like filth, extreme violence, bad smells, cucking, etc.

If you are still curious, (Although none are necessary, mind you.) some kinks I like are lactation, pregnancy talk, petplay, dubcon, sleeplay, incest, femdom of any flavor, maledom, anal, oral, leashes, footplay with clean feet, worship, spanking, bondage, risky play, fantasy girls, outercourse, etc.

I'm more interested in what turns you on though.

Conclusion:

In any case, if this schizo rambling caught your attention by any chance let me know! Tell me something interesting, like your biggest fantasy or what you had for breakfast.

Hello! 26 year old here who is well educated with several degrees, certificates, and licenses, and always committed to growing more. Sexually. I’m a boy who enjoys stronger affectionate women who like to control their spouse, peg, and humiliate them in private while being a normal presenting couple in public. Chastity is okay, Switch is Ok.

I also enjoy doing all the chores around the house and giving massages. I am very high energy. Always have been. I'm 5’11 180p big booty, with an average dick but good size dick. (sorry size queens). I also have a twinkish build despite my muscular frame.

Outside the house, I enjoy working out, trying new food, and a whole host of other dorky hobbies like coin collecting, Roman history, writing, watercolor painting, watching sports, and building stuff. I used to be a cook in a restaurant before I got my degree.

Looking for that cool girl who's always felt like she should have the dick and be calling the shots and wants to feminize a boy who will light up her world. I know this all sounds corny as hell so if I didn't scare you away. Please go ahead and message me.

I hope this message finds you well.

Are you interested in the type of Mommy that will tell you have pathetic you are while glaring down at you with lovingly cold eyes? Maybe you’re a little attention whore who’d like to let women devour you with their eyes while doing the most lowly and humiliating tasks for their pleasure and satisfaction. If the idea of being absolutely infatuated and addicted to your Mommy is one you long for then look no further, it seems we are trying to make the same kind of special connection. If being mean, bossy, aggressive, and a huge tease is appealing to you then you may just be lucky enough to make my acquaintance.

About ME -

Name: Mona (Miss/Mistress) OR Your Grace

Age: 25

Location: USA

Blurb: I’m a 25 year old college student and found Femdom through a book I found about it at 18. I was always more aggressive, even sadistic when it came to expressing my affection and Femdom is the perfect outlet to do that. I always loved the idea of someone telling me how awful I was to them and the worshipping me for it so I can reward them with my affections.

Some of my hobbies include Baking, Video Games, Horror movies, Make up, Dancing, Cooking, Boardgames, Camping, Dress up, Reading, Gardening, Animals, 420 🍃, Knitting. I love horror in general really and enjoy being scared for fun. One of my favorite pass times is watching true crime.

Description: I am a 5 foot 2, African-American woman. My hair is currently in locs that go down to my tailbone. I’m pear-shaped, and definitely on the plump side, although I will quit call myself a BBW, however, definitely ‘mommy shaped’. I have brown eyes and bronze skin.

My kinks listed below are not all mandatory, some are, ask me for clarification.

“Tell me every terrible thing you did and let me love you anyway.” — Edger Allen Poe

Kinks: MD/l, humiliation, body worship, pet play, feminization, degrading, spanking, discipline, bondage, sensory deprivation, edging, primal, denial, chastity, pegging, TPE, domestic servitude, face slapping, breath play, CNC, objectification, chastity, face sitting, exhibitionist, voyeurism, sadomasochism, kidnapping, tasks, JOI

Limits: Scat, illegal stuff, heavy gore, sounding, urethra play, forced bi, vomit.

What you should expect: 🍃Praise. 🍃Small Rewards. 🍃A lot of VCs w/ me. 🍃My moody, bitchy attitude. 🍃PLENTY of attention and quality time. 🍃My subpar gaming. 🍃Something long term, otherwise don’t waste my time. 🍃For me to relentlessly tease and bully you. 💕 🍃Daily or weekly tasks. 🍃 …Plenty more. 🥰

If you DM me: 👿Don’t expect me to be sexually available to you in the start. 😈Do send your name, kinks, hobbies, location, a picture, age, a bit about your submission, and why you’re interested in me. 👿Don’t be owned or in a relationship. 😈Do show interest in something long term. 👿Don’t worry, I’m more than willing to share a picture as well. 😈Do have a strong understanding of communication, bdsm fundamentals, and boundaries, I will only warn you once. 👿Don’t inquire if you can’t hold a conversation. 😈Do inquire if you’re under 35.

Hi! 👋 I'm a 22 y/o tomboyish trans girl femdom from the southeastern US on an indefinite break from college while I sort out life things. I'm looking for dynamics that could turn into a great friendship, or a blossoming relationship ❤️. I'd love to meet new people in the community! If you're alternative and enjoy gaming, I'd love to talk to you more 😊

Personally, I consider my style of domination fairly gentle/casual. I don't enjoy starting dynamics from absolutely nothing, so I'd prefer to start things off simple, and see where it ends up over time. I absolutely prefer sexual dynamics, but I can only enjoy that sort of thing with someone I trust and enjoy in general. I may be demisexual, not sure yet.

My interests outside of kink are writing, thrifting, computer things (tech shit in general), cooking, gaming Webfishing and Darkest Dungeon as of recently), leathercare, and I love watching sumo wrestling.

As for kinks, I have my kinklist pinned on my profile (and some of my pics 🤯) but it kinda sucks so just keep reading. I love petplay, cnc, a little bit of praise and degradation, role reversal, uniforms, gear, bootblacking, and leather (latex too… just shiny shit in general tbh). These are just a broad swath of what I like so please don't worry if you're not into everything I like! My hard limits are scat, watersports, and sissification.

Just as a quick aside, I'm not into monogamy, I'm a trans woman with a deep voice that doesn't like skirts and loves topping 💕 (I'm a switch though), and I can switch from kink things to regular shit in conversations pretty regularly. Put your favorite color in your dm if you read this

So, if you're interested in dm'ing me, first of all, take a deep breath if you're anxious about that sort of thing, write something nice and long about yourself and why you think you'd be a good long term sub/friend/lover, add a picture if you'd like, and send it 😊. If you just send a "Hey 👋" I'm probably just gonna block you, take your chances if you want. I can't guarantee that I'll be able to answer your message so I'd like to apologize in advance. Hope to see you soon 💋

Hello. I'm a single 43-year-old man from Florida. And all I'm looking for is to just connect with gentle / soft / caretaker Domme over a voice call.

I've had a very tough month and would just love to listen to a woman telling me it'll be okay and providing me with some comfort and praise.

I'm not looking for a relationship or a dynamic or even a hook up. I would just like to enjoy a woman's presence and energy while we talk on a voice call.

Because of this, I'm looking for a gentle or soft Domme to speak to. I would like woman who can be soothing and is empathetic, a woman who can help calm my thoughts and anxieties tonight. A woman who will let me listen to her speak so her voice can put me at ease.

I'm not into being humiliated or used, but rather would like to engage in pleasant conversation at the least and, at the most, be comforted and even praised.

If you'd like to know a bit about me, I'm an Aquarius, an INTP, a liberal, and born and raised in South Florida. I've studied literature when I was younger and recently graduated from a film school. Currently, I'm involved with a local stage theater writing and directing showcases of short plays. My other interests include history, comic books, and tabletop roleplaying games. When it comes to music, I mostly listen to stuff made before the year 2000, especially rock and roll and 90s music.

I know this subreddit is NSFW, but our conversation doesn't have to be. I'm just looking for a pleasant connection with a woman who would like to be a caretaker for me and say nice things to me. So if you don't want that to be sexual, then it doesn't have to be.

There's also no pressure to do this more than once, unless we vibe well and both want to. So no pressure at all to make this long lasting. If we connect for just one night, well, it's still a connection, and therefore worth it to me.

I am just fine with speaking to women who are older or younger than myself, but I do ask that you be at least 18-years-old.

If you'd like to do a voice call, then feel free to send me a chat or DM.

Thank you for reading this.

Hey there! I am a single 23 year old computer science college student looking for a monogamous and long-term connection with someone around the ages of 20-30.

I am 5’9 (a lot shorter on my knees :) and Caucasian with short brown hair, green eyes, glasses, and light skin. I am fit/slim, but not muscular. Here's a sfw picture of my body type: https://imgur.com/a/wyQHpq6

I am a big fan of cooking, notably grilling and braising. I probably have more than double the pictures of food than myself (good food is unfairly photogenic). One of my dreams is being able to cook and enjoy delicious meals with my partner.

Video games are one of my pastimes, and I am on an amateur competitive League of Legends team. I also play a rotating mix of games on Steam. Currently having a blast with The Division and Grim Dawn. In general, I gravitate towards the genres of roguelikes, looter shooters, tactical, rpgs, grand strategy, and simulators.

In terms of media, I’m a massive fan of time travel, mind-fuckery, science fiction, and psychological horror. I just started diving into cosmic horror and I am already hooked on Lovecraft. Some of my favorite books are Recursion, Silo, and House of Leaves. My favorite tv show is Counterpart.

A fun fact about me is that I’ve been to most of the national parks in the western US, my favorite being Yosemite for its breathtaking landscape. A close second is Crater Lake, with its impossibly blue water and forested island.

I appreciate you taking the time to read my post! If you think I might be a match for you, perhaps be a whisk-taker and stir up a conversation in dms or chat. Have a wonderful day :)

About me:

Contrary to my username I am not actually a fern but I have a pretty nice collection of them. I'm 6'2"and thin but pretty fit with brown hair and pretty blue eyes. I'm an environmental engineer and am really passionate about my work along with all things cities and environment related. As a person I'm very mellow, open, and easygoing, I'll try just about anything once and generally have a pretty positive outlook on life. I'm also a definitely a bit of a nerd, I'm very passionate about my interests and hobbies.

Hobbies/Interests:

Houseplants: Mostly tropicals but I have an appreciation for succulents Lifting: Definitely not an expert but I'm really enjoying it Sci-fi/fantasy books and movies Aquariums: Don't even get me started here Restaurants: Particularly Japanese and Italian! What I'm looking for:

Something ideally long term and in-person although I'm open to online if we really click well. I know I need a strong connection and to feel cared about in any dynamic. I like some rougher kinks but would like to find someone with more gentle vibes. I'm not into degradation or anything overly harsh. We can talk more about specific kinks as we get to know each other but I enjoy doing whatever it takes to please my partner and really love praise.

Next Steps:

Shoot me a message if you think we'd vibe, I'm usually a pretty quick texter. If you include a SFW picture with your message I'll return the favor.

Hi everyone I'm a 26 male at 5ft 5in and 170lbs I'm white and Hispanic looking for a mistress to train me to serve her, my ideal mistress is someone who is caring but strick. A fantasy is to be made to do chores for my mistress caged and ready to be used even if it's in the middle of doing dishes for her. I am really busy with 2 jobs from 7am to 9pm but am available weekends and maybe some late nights. I can't host but willing to get a room if needed. I'm looking for something discreet and fun. If it becomes a thing between us, I can't say I'm not looking for a forever partner but if not it's cool too. I'm kind, funny, serious, and sometimes stubborn. But I'll probably be one of the most reliable person you know if we get along. My ideal mistress would be kind, caring and strick. One who can be aggressive in her needs and rough when needed but equally kind in the aftercare. She takes wwhat she wants sexually from me and trains me to be her perfect slave. I am new to this so please be willing to train me. These are my kinks I know of, pegging, cages, femdom, bondage, light pain, light degradation, and collaring. Pegging and femdom are really big for me because the idea of a woman using a strap on me demonstrates her power over me making me feel lesser and inferior to her because maybe I couldn't please her right or to break me in as her fuck toy. I am very open minded so I'm willing to explore many kinks. I have little experience in bdsm but am eager to learn, I've tried bondage anal plugs and gags. Me and an ex tried pegging once but the strap she got was just to big 😱. Havent tried pegging since but looking forward to it again. Dm me ladies, I'm eager to serve and be used.

As the title unsubtly suggests, even a caveman needs a bonk and dragged back to NOT his cave. By all means feel free to check the rest of my posts to determine my worth. If not, by all means, read on :)

A bit about me, physically, first.

I am 6ft exactly. Black hair down to my shoulder blades. Black bearded. And starting back at the gym for the new years, burly turning muscular. I love to drink protein shakes, eat meat, lift, and get an ego boost from beating my personal bests. So... Caveman right? The real hairy and sweaty kind. The real loud laugh and rubbing my arms kind.

BUT!

Sometimes I want to relax, step away from the confident 'Dom' looking man. I want to be carried away - not physically, although, we can have a laugh if you wish to try. I am 110kgs after all. But I want to be whisked away, romanced, cared for, embraced.

What does that look like?

Well, I have expectations of grandeur; I also believed in romance novels and anime and such. I am a really creative person. I hate just sitting around absorbing ideas and watching the fruition of others's work, I'd rather combine them into my own thing. I have so many creative dreams from at least one mural on the side of a public wall, to fixing up my own burnt out classic chassis I found in a scrapyard some place. I want to write novels and make ASMR. I want to work towards these things. But such work and life-long dedications takes both time and money but worst of all, it gets pretty lonely.

Looking like me, you tend to be sexualised a lot. Feared, respected, desired for strength and power, yes, but sometimes objectified - which is what very little people recognise if not notice. Whenever I've been approached by women it's always, repeat, ALWAYS on the basis of sex or short-term flings. Nothing long lasting, nothing substantial, nothing to come home to. To be clear, that isn't your duty nor anyone's. But you have no idea; one time receiving a 'hey, how's things? how's your project coming along?' saved me from every negative end of every negative spectrum.

What does romance and care look like? Well, everything you interact with me with is done with an undertone or overtone of affection, wisdom, safety, and reassurance. Even go strict with it like scheduling, or even just a conversational check-in. You'd be surprised with just how little men can live with their entire lives, if at all.

But regardless, who am I?

As said, I am a creative. An academic at heart, creativity is my lifeblood. My whole family is filled with lawyers, soldiers, teachers, people that state the status quo in a now morbid and overtly realistic way. While my writing style and reading habits are similar, I still like to create a sort of 'waystation'. I am constantly experiencing and researching escapism and the benefits of just stepping away into a realm where everything unavailable or impossible is present in droves. Resilience. Fortitude. Value systems. Fighting in the midst of losing. Things lost in the pursuit of identity.

I really enjoy writing - as you can tell - if you were to meet me in person, you'll no doubt think that - based on looks as well - I am a very quiet person. I only speak when spoken to and i struggle to be interesting. But my writing is always going to outclass my tongue. And for that I am thankful because I also have a touch of hypergraphia. Always writing or thinking about writing, if I am doing something important and my mind drifts? I'm done for. Productivity be damned. I am also always drawing and getting better by the week. I do 3D modelling on the side and saving up for a proper camera.

The punchline?

Well, I suppose now comes the part where I go with the herd and dictate what I desire and dislike and outright ban.

Here's the thing though. I have no idea. I suppose beginning with my 'vanilla' kinks:

Breeding/pregnancy/birthing; Anal; and Free-Use. But is that any different to the average modern man?

Here're the more unconventional ones I am TRYING to get into:

Intimacy/Romance' Affectionate slow burn/gestures/or even respectful distance in spite of extreme desires; therefore Barely contained obsession/staring/silent examination. And finally, here's the more femdom 'focused' kinks - this one is hard however, since I consider myself relatively new. Only pornography, conversations on reddit, or fantasising through yearning and loneliness.

Gentle/loving/soft femdom Serving - touching, cooking, cleaning, and companionship and even remaining silent (which I kind of love the most if not deep and meaningful conversations). Pegging and bdsm submission (I am new to this side of the D/s scenario, so be aware I may pull back.)

Endgame?

I have no idea. Want to find out? Because I am inexperienced, and I admit that freely, I still recognise a desire to simply be loved rather than always do the loving. I placed my trust too frequently and too deeply to really believe exactly what I want exists. I am always fantasising and I suppose it negatively informs my standards to solidifying but I aim to keep my mind and horizons open.

Please don't be afraid to message at all. I know I wrote a lot but I want people to be clear on who I want to be elsewhere in my life. I am always seen as a monolith of strength, but even then monoliths struggle and crumble. I won't say I want to submit. I suppose I just want to be teased, I want to feel that tingle of attention and a soft hand on my shoulder.

Life has been giving me some bad news recently could use someone to talk to aha

Hey!

I'd like to be able to chat and get to know someone that hopefully forms a connection or make friends. Don't really have any friends :)

My name is Callum and I'm 20. I'm 6,1 (was asked before) so I'm not super tall but not short. I'm autistic so I can be a bit awkward and blunt/overly honest. I'm very loyal though c:

I enjoy playing video games, listening /singing to music,  love animals (especially my dog) and watching shows like criminal minds/doctor who/ vampire diaries.

I like a wide variety of music. This ranges from artists like Sabrina Carpenter, Ariana Grande, Taylor Swift, NF , Bring me the Horizion , Post Malone , Avril Lavigne , hozier and many other artists !

I enjoy the kink world especially talking about it and learning more I have a good amount of knowledge myself. I'm Submissive feel free to ask me anything! :)

My goal would be to either make friends or find a connection for a relationship that has femdom mixed in.

I haven't been in a relationship before or done anything in real life aha c:

Hi there, as the title say im quite bored and looking to have fun with someone. I explore my kink by myself for a while now and would love to experiment with someone.

My kink are mainly bondage/selfbondage, post orgasm, palming and tip polishing, estim. I do enjoy some good joi sometime too and i would never say no if you ask to sit on my face. Im pretty open mind in general and alway down to explore and try New things.

Im looking for a girl around my age (+/- 8years difference) that would want to talk about our kink and find New idea to try. I prefer long hair to short and do oove when a girl take care of her body and appearance. Ideally, i would love to meet at some point to have fun, but since its pretty hard to find someone around here, online will do to.

About myself, im 28 white guys from Montreal Canada. 6'1" and in decent shape. I do enjoy to do a lot of sport and hang out with my friend on the week end. I prefer a night at the bar with friend or a coozy night in to nightclub and party. Otherwise, im pretty easy going in general and will most likely say yes when propose something to do.

Come and say hi!

Hello,

I am a 45 year old single man, fairly fit, educated, a good career I am proud of, and for the most part happy with life. I’m a native New Yorker that has my own place and feel pretty well rounded. I’m looking for a real, ongoing connection in some way. I am OK starting slow and even part time as we feel things out.

I’ve had some experience taking the lead in relationships in the past, but I’m more interested and experienced with submission and reversing roles for quite a while now. I’m now posting this year in the hope of making a connection with a woman who is into role reversal and exploring taking the lead, being physically/ sexually assertive, making relationship decisions, giving direction for fun, pleasure, and companionship. I’m typically an independent person and have a full life with responsibilities, but submitting and putting my partner on top greatly appeals to me. Preference is for someone in the nyc area (open to outside the area if the connection is great).

I’m open to connecting with either someone experienced or someone who is new to this and curious. Either way I would want to kind of grow and learn together, the way a pet gets to know their owner and what she likes and expects, or the way a dominant person gets to know the limits and boundaries of their submissive, seriously and intimately. What I mean to say is that I am open to exploring this gently with a newbie or going in more deeply. Ultimately I would want to be pushed mentally and emotionally to submit myself to your pleasure and give you control of my physical self.

I’m a pretty balanced person, I like to go out with friends, explore the city, have drinks on occasion, check out museums, bands, some intellectual pursuits. I love biking, soccer, and started indoor rock climbing. I consider myself balanced and emotionally stable. I also feel like I have a good amount of skills and services to offer, I have a background in public health, but also enjoy film, philosophy, and teaching. I like to cook, and especially baking healthy treats, and enjoy communication and conversation.

I had a bad experience on reddit in the past and for that reason I prefer to start a little slow and casual, and build up and blossom as we connect more over time. This means not jumping into something full time, but feeling things out and see how that goes.

The connection is important to me, not looking to get too vulnerable with someone when trust hasn’t yet been established. You might say I’m old fashioned in that I believe in forming a connection and having it grow.

I know this is long, but I hope someone reads it and feels a connection with it. I’m open to starting a conversation and just see where it leads.

If possible, please include age, location, and a physical description in your message just to cut down on out all the spam!

thank you very much

Hi everyone!

While I feel like a lot of people in these r4r subreddits have a very specific person in mind I am looking for something a bit different and I hope it resonates with some of you.

While I did recently discover that I love being a sub sometimes, I feel like after a while I still love turning it around and taking up the dominant role. So I'm truly a switch that is looking for someone else that also enjoys both sides of the Dom/sub dynamic. I think this will be great to help us both push each other and explore new things on each side. I have a fairly technical job so I use this as a fun creative outlet. I love creative writing and consider myself a fantastic detail oriented erotic writer.

I'm an overall kinky guy, that is open to discovering new things and leaning more and more about these communities. I am 6'3" tall with a slim but fit build. I play a lot of different sports which keeps me pretty fit. I believe fully in getting to know each other and trusting each other before diving into the kink aspect. Without good trust and communication a switch dynamic wouldn't work.

As far as my kinks I love orgasm control, denial, teasing, edging/JOI, voyeurism, exhibitionism, and tasks/rewards.

Outside of kink I love the outdoors and I am always experimenting in the kitchen. I'm a huge music nerd and try and see as many live shows as possible throughout the year. Happy to share music recommendations or talk about our favorite concerts. I think we should enjoy our conversation outside of our kink dynamic. That aspect is also very important to me.

I'm looking mainly for females or I am also open to trans females. I do believe physical attraction play a role in a dynamic like this.

I really hope I can get some fun replies from other people that feel like they don't fit fully in one camp or the other. Looking forward to chatting!

Hi everyone! I'm Jess. I'm a 26 year old, submissive transwoman living in the CST time zone. I'm looking for a dominant woman that can make me squirm.

About Me:

• I have had about a decade of online experience with kink and basically zero in person experience.
• I live in the CST time zone, but am open to partners in any part of the States.
• I'm a massive fuckin' nerd. I love tabletop RPGs, Shounen anime, and video games. It's not necessary that we share the same interests, but it's definitely a big plus!
• I've got a bachelor's degree in Computer Science (Game Development), and I'm working as a software developer for a fortune 300 company. I work weekdays, but I work from home so I have a lot of freedom to spend my time doing whatever I want as long as I'm getting my tasks done.
• I'm 6'4" with long blonde hair and blue eyes. I'm not exactly skinny, but I'm hoping the diet I'm on, the exercise I'm doing, and Zepbound make relatively quick work of that problem lol
• I've got such a weakness for goth women. I mean, who doesn't, sure, but like. Y'know. If you've got colorful hair and mental illness, PLEASE hit me up

What I'm Looking For:

• I'm looking for an online dynamic with a dominant woman between the ages of 20 and 35
• Being honest and open about expectations is extremely important to me. We should be able to express ourselves freely with each other in order to build a strong foundation for our dynamic.
• I'm looking for something long term. The type of dynamic I'm hoping to create won't happen over night. It'll take time for us to get to know each other, to learn what makes each of us tick. If after a while, we've decided we're compatible, I'd definitely be down to meet in person
• I want someone who will make me feel comfortable in my body and who will push me to always love myself. Understand that I am a work in progress, and that that just makes the process of you turning me into your perfect girltoy all the more rewarding.
• Arguably just as important as the kink side of things, I'm looking for a friend first and foremost. I'm looking for someone who I can message throughout the day to ramble about the game I'm playing or the manga I'm reading. I'm looking for someone who will want to watch shows or play games together while in VC. I want someone who I can trust and that I know cares for me immensely.

Kink Information:

• We can discuss kinks privately because I'm really more interested in who you are as a person, but I'll give a short list here.
• Orgasm control and denial is probably the biggest kink I have. Giving up control in general is really big for me. What do I need to think for? You know so much better than I do.
• Mental domination is a close second, I love having my mind molded to become my partner's perfect little girltoy.
• Mild degradation and humiliation are also big. The blush on my cheeks is directly correlated to my arousal.
• Others include bondage, breeding, anal, breathplay and breath control, MD/lg, occasional brattiness, very light pain play, and overstimulation or mind break. Pretty open to anything though, so if you don't see it here, feel free to ask!
• Not too many limits. Scat, blood, and severe pain are kind of the big three.

I think that's everything? I'm pretty sure I hit on everything I wanted to hit on. If you think we'd be a good match or if I sparked your interest at all, please don't hesitate to message me! I promise I'm more nervous than you are lol. reddit DMs or the Chat feature are fine, so use whichever you prefer. If you actually read all of this, thanks so much! Hopefully we'll be chatting soon <3

Thank you for clicking on my post!

A little about me I am a 29 year old, white male, 225, 5’11. (There are pics of me on my profile if you’re interested). Vanilla me is an absolute homebody who likes anime, video games, I am trying to read more, I started sculpting with clay again(but not very good yet), the occasional hike/ walk and weightlifting. I used to play sports and have tried to maintain the athletic body type as much as I can! My sweet tooth actively works against me on that front though.

Kinky me has only had 1 domme that I was in a relationship with she was quite a bit older than me too, which I liked but never really thought about either. She showed me a lot and we did our fair share of exploring our kinks including: feet/body worship, pegging, cum clean-up, restraints, humiliation, chores, chastity, collar and leash and a few others, but I gotta keep some of the mystery right?;)

As far as who I’d like to serve. I would like someone who is fit as well and ideally likes going to the gym or some type of physical activity. HoweverI’m not too picky, I would say I have a wide range of attractions :)

Fair warning I have the occasional bratty moments, but it’s really a cry for attention or so I could see your power;)

Thank you for reading! If you decide to message me maybe start with your favorite show:)

Heya:) Hope your day has been faring well!

I'm a bit of a homebody and introvert. Got a medium build, standing 5' 10" and weighing in at about 150lbs. Got brown hair of medium length. Soon to be short probably. Curls are starting to creep in as it grows, and I'd like to be rid of em. Got brown eyes too, hiding behind glasses. Have facial hair that comes and goes. Not tied to it, so it could stay or disappear depending on preferences

Fill my free time with most the usual stuff. When it comes to music, my ear has a bias towards instrumentals and rock, but I'll listen to an array of genres. Enjoy games too: video, card, board. Be happy to play something! Depending on the game I can be a bit competitive though lol. Bit of a nerd when it comes to computer hardware, so like to read up on that, though I haven't been making much time for it lately. My humor ranges from dry to dark. I am pretty funny... though I have to remind myself that looks aren't everything. Awful fond of voice calls, though its not a requirement by any means

I'm looking for someone to build a quality connection and perhaps explore my submissive side. I've only dabbled a little bit, but looking to dip more than just a toe. Done a little tease and denial, humiliation, and cbt. Don't much mind if those aren't your cups of tea though. I'd like to explore what you like. That being said, I'm definitely not interested in financial domination, waste play, or anything risky/public

Hope to hear from you! And best of luck finding what you're after:))))

Hi there,

I'm a 28-year-old guy from just outside Orlando, Florida and I am seeking a real connection with a dominant woman who knows what she wants, and how to get it. Feel free to reach out if this stands out to you, I'd love to talk. I live alone and have been described by close friends as silly and compassionate, inclusion is one of the most important things in my life. I'm seeking a female-led relationship, the type of dynamic I am looking for is a life partner who is firmly in control, to what extent we can determine what works best for us, maybe we're just friends who enjoy a specific dynamic or we really click and find ourselves immersed into a full fledged FLR - I'm honestly quite open and happy to discuss what works best for us.

About me:

Basic stuff: I work a full-time job but also have a side hustle writing, I promise this is not nearly as exciting as it sounds but it is an increasingly lucrative thing that I'm looking to make my full-time focus sooner than later, still figuring out when sooner is though. I'm 5'7, about 160 lbs active gym goer and looking to constantly improve PRs and work on my physique. And as I recognize this is important to some people, I do not drive, my eyesight is very poor and as a result, I cannot legally drive, this, however, does not stop me from living an entirely independent life, most people don't actually know/can't tell until I tell them that I cannot drive.

Personal Interests: I love hanging out with friends and doing who knows what, I will admit that I am a bit of a homebody but my greatest joys in life are typically with other people, doing pretty much whatever. I am sober as in I do not drink or smoke but totally cool if you do as long as it is responsibly. I love going to thrift stores, eating great food, and really just exploring. I'm pretty nerdy in that I would say my single favorite thing to do is learn be that via YouTube videos, Reading or just getting out and trying something new, Psychology however is what interests me most and I could spend hours and hours talking about the weird ways people act and why. I also really enjoy movies and would love to know your favorite, I love anything funny or scary, and the Shrek series has a special place in my heart.

Kinky Stuff

I am relatively inexperienced but I am someone who learns quickly and has done a thorough amount of research, enough that I feel that I can confidently serve a woman, the biggest part of all of this to me is the sense of belonging, the feeling of being owned by someone who wants the best for me and thus inspires me to want to be the best possible version of myself for them. I do not take this role lightly and it would be a privilege to be yours.

The Person I'm looking for:

I'm looking for a dominant woman In or near Orlando. My ideal partner would be someone emotionally intelligent and capable of communicating in a healthy, consistent way, nothing excites me more than knowing exactly where I stand with you, for better or worse. (So I can improve to better serve.) Body type is unimportant to me as all women are beautiful in their own unique ways, as long as you take care of yourself you are my type. Age and your experience level are mostly unimportant to me as long as you're 20+ and know what it is you're looking for. Just to reiterate the connection is what is most important to me, knowing that someone has my best interest at heart and I have theirs, knowing that while I am still very much a person with real feelings but I want to be yours, completely.

Thank you for taking the time to check this out, I look forward to speaking to you soon.

Hello everyone. I’m a 24 (almost 25) year old man looking to get to know people that share some kinky interests with me.

About me: Im 1.78 meters tall (around 5’ 8”) I have a normal body type, im not fat but im also not that fit. Im kinda hairy and have green eyes

Vanilla interests: I’m a huge nerd, I enjoy reading (any kind of book really, from novels to science), playing video games and watching tv series and movies, but I also enjoy hanging out with my friends, partying and cooking, and studying (as I said in a huge nerd) I’m a med student in my last year of school.

Kinky interests: Really any kind of D/s relationship sounds cool to me. I especially like chastity, tease and denial and orgasms control (I own several chastity cages and I’m able to go a long time wearing them) I also enjoy humiliation and degradation (I like it more if it’s on the gentler side, but I also like other types of it) I don’t have any experience in real life play, but I had played online and while I don’t have much irl experience I have plenty of theoretical knowledge about BDSM. Limits: scat, pee, anything illegal, blood, needles, anything that could make a lasting mark, public play.

I’m not the greatest at introductions, so maybe I didn’t write all the important info, so if any of you have any questions, hit me up and I will gladly answer them.

Hey there!

We’re an established group of 5+ years looking for an additional female slave (this is a blackmail owned group). All of us are in our thirties and are sane, understanding, working professionals. Communication and play happens in a group chat and all participate. Both male slaves are owned via blackmail to our female owner. A high level of trust has been built up over the years and all parties are welcomed, included and made to feel safe.

The ideal candidate will be very submissive, have a flair for exhibition and be comfortable playing in a group with both men and women. You will be the property of the Domme owner (she will be the only one with compromising blackmail details) but will be on the bottom of the totem pole and will be frequently used by the male slaves as well.

Our owner’s kinks are wide and varied and you will be expected to accommodate her interests. Your hard limits, of course, will be respected and your kinks entertained and engaged with. I do want to be clear though that you will be property and will be forced to obey. You can anticipate all manners of humiliation, degradation, dildo/toy use, bondage and much more. The kinkier and more adventurous you are the better.

Happy to answer any questions you may have! I, as one of the male slaves, will talk to you initially (nothing sensitive or exposing will be asked or requested) and if it seems like this may be a good fit, you’ll then speak individually with the Domme.

One last thing - nothing financial will ever be asked and real life obligations will always be respected and take precedence over play.