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so someone had the idea of a nonbinary meme sub, and thus this was birthed approximately a big number days ago. any takers?

so someone had the idea of a nonbinary meme sub, and thus this was birthed approximately a big number days ago. any takers?

Please see the rules wiki for further clarification on any rules, and click here for some more good subs! Short link for the sub is r/ennn


Subreddit Rules:

  1. No bigotry- No -isms or -obias; to include, but not limited to sexism, racism, ableism, homophobia, xenophobia, transphobia, enbyphobia, kinphobia, or pluralphobia. Ironic bigoty is still bigotry. No slurs, no ifs ands or buts. If you are mistaken for a troll, you will probably be treated as a troll. Refer to rule 8 for clarification.

  2. No identity policing- This isn't the place to try and prove if someone is Real Certified Me Approved Transgender and you do not get to judge if someone is TransEnough™️

  3. No Spam- Of course in a meme sub we are gonna see 6000 reposts with the same title worded just slightly differently, but y'all know the drill; at least try to be cool.

  4. Selfies ≠ memes- We bet you look great, but this isn't a selfie sub! Try out r/transtimelines, r/nonbinary, r/enby, r/transpositive, or any other selfie accepting sub!

  5. No transphobia- No transphobic shit. Don’t do it. Don’t be it. Don’t crosspost it. A righteous ban hammer awaits edgelords. Also goes for ironic transphobia. For example, don't post transphobic memes just to make fun of them. let's try and make this more a place for having fun, cool?

  6. No advertising- At least not without mod permission. If you have for instance an etsy shop where you sell pride related items, message the mods first and ask if you can advertise. Advertisements not preapproved will be removed, and if you break this rule multiple times you may be banned. Also goes for other types of advertisements like "new sub" ads, but we will probably approve those anyway!

  7. No toxic behavior

  8. be cool- cmoooooon


Submission Rules:

  1. This is not the place for serious discussion- Other subs like r/nonbinary and r/asktransgender are more suited to long serious discussions like "what do you think about x" or "am i y?" threads, but it's perfectly fine if the content here sparks serious discussion in the comments. However, this is not a debate sub and you are encouraged to report transphobes and trolls to the mods rather than engaging with them. Serious meta posts discussing issues concerning this sub are also fine. If you have non-meta a discussion post you really want to make, message the mods – we may make an exception.

  2. Pics and videos only, please!

  3. Credit!- If you're posting someone else's art, please credit them and link back to the original art!

  4. Edit out names- If you screenshot a thread or messages from somewhere like reddit, tumblr, or facebook, edit out any names/usernames that could lead to harassment. See the rules wiki for further clarification

  5. This is not a nsfw sub, but if your submission is at all NSFW, tag it!

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70,760 Subscribers

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Not only are they way more comfortable than pads, they also help with dysphoria

20 Comments
2024/11/30
02:53 UTC

279

Had my consult call thingy this morning SHUT UP BRAIN LET ME HAPPY FOR LIKE A MINUTE - Jamie

6 Comments
2024/11/29
14:57 UTC

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Me (the Lebron of getting misgendered) prepping in my room before Thanksgiving dinner

1 Comment
2024/11/28
13:58 UTC

224

No I'm not alien I'm a demon from hell what's so hard to understand here?

15 Comments
2024/11/28
10:37 UTC

153

🫧🍭🎡🍭🫧

2 Comments
2024/11/28
05:06 UTC

30

i love metal but uh...

8 Comments
2024/11/27
13:54 UTC

458

Bad Guys 2 Character Is Peak Gender Envy

16 Comments
2024/11/26
06:17 UTC

409

My Unrealistic Goals

16 Comments
2024/11/25
21:52 UTC

52

I made a gender hear me out cake with my sister I need this to be a trend (video in German)

1 Comment
2024/11/24
14:30 UTC

277

"Gentleman"? hmmm...

4 Comments
2024/11/23
21:08 UTC

614

Screw you, algorithm!

If I see another ad for makeup, I SWEAR…

On this subject, a question: which gendered products would you say are better than their counterparts, and why?

I’ll go first: woman’s shampoo and conditioner. The fact that they’re split allows the application of one and/or the other when you need it, where you need it. Not every hair needs both, and some just need conditioner on the tips, not at the roots. There’s only 2 in 1 (or even 3 in 1, the horror) in the men’s section.

14 Comments
2024/11/22
18:02 UTC

814

Some reflections

"The diagnosis of gender dysphoria requires that a life takes on a more or less definite shape over time; a gender can only be diagnosed if it meets the test of time. You have to show that you have wanted for a long time to live life as the other gender; it also requires that you prove that you have a practical and livable plan to live life for a long time as the other gender.

The diagnosis, in this way, wants to establish that gender is a relatively permanent phenomenon. It won’t do, for instance, to walk into a clinic and say that it was only after you read a book by Kate Bornstein that you realized what you wanted to do, but that it wasn’t really conscious for you until that time. It can’t be that cultural life changed, that words were written and exchanged, that you went to events and to clubs, and saw that certain ways of living were really possible and desirable, and that something about your own possibilities became clear to you in ways that they had not been before. You would be ill-advised to say that you believe that the norms that govern what is a recognizable and livable life are changeable, and that within your lifetime, new cultural efforts were made to broaden those norms, so that people like yourself might well live within supportive communities as a transsexual, and that it was precisely this shift in the public norms, and the presence of a supportive community, that allowed you to feel that transitioning had become possible and desirable.

In this sense, you cannot explicitly subscribe to a view that changes in gendered experience follow upon changes in social norms, since that would not suffice to satisfy the Harry Benjamin standard rules for the care of gender identity disorder. Indeed, those rules presume, as does the GID diagnosis, that we all more or less 'know' already what the norms for gender—'masculine' and 'feminine'—are and that all we really need to do is figure out whether they are being embodied in this instance or some other.

But what if those terms no longer do the descriptive work that we need them to do? What if they only operate in unwieldy ways to describe the experience of gender that someone has? And if the norms for care and the measures for the diagnosis assume that we are permanently constituted in one way or another, what happens to gender as a mode of becoming? Are we stopped in time, made more regular and coherent than we necessarily want to be, when we submit to the norms in order to achieve the entitlements one needs, and the status one desires?"

  • Judith Butler, Undoing Gender
17 Comments
2024/11/21
22:44 UTC

160

Just replace elegant woman with gentlemen then you got me

1 Comment
2024/11/21
19:07 UTC

828

gender neutral pronouns

26 Comments
2024/11/21
06:41 UTC

495

Logically I know that name/pronouns/whatever don’t equal gender but the doubt is real

22 Comments
2024/11/20
19:49 UTC

433

Do it already!

9 Comments
2024/11/20
18:58 UTC

180

Hmmm yes COUNTING genders how many???

16 Comments
2024/11/20
17:31 UTC

285

Democracy knows no gender

3 Comments
2024/11/18
15:40 UTC

270

Society if gender didn’t exist

10 Comments
2024/11/18
08:01 UTC

250

Me cause I outed myself and my teachers gonna call me by my chosen name now (my class doesn’t know yet)

9 Comments
2024/11/18
07:15 UTC

527

sorry this is binary domain

4 Comments
2024/11/17
16:45 UTC

155

We spend years telling kids that “girls are this” and “boys are that,” but as soon as somebody doesn’t fit nicely into our two imaginary gender boxes…

2 Comments
2024/11/17
13:25 UTC

605

I can't be the only one

10 Comments
2024/11/14
13:42 UTC

19

This is my first post here and I felt like filling this in, also what's a "safe" outfit?

3 Comments
2024/11/14
09:28 UTC

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