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I'm 32 years old guy looking for a FAT girl. Yes, I said fat girl with all the love in my heart because I really, really like fat women who are curvy, plump at the right places. As long as you are plus size and curvy in the right places, religion doesn't matter to me. If you're from Pune, we can talk on text and see if we vibe with each other before meeting.
I'm 5'5'', dark skinned, a little chubby and hairy but easy on the eyes. I am looking for a plus size woman who loves to receive and give warm hugs and loves cuddles a lot. Likewise, I like myself a clingy, plus size woman who knows what she wants. I'm a decent guy who prefers plus size women because of many reasons. One of them is their juicy, fat asses. My love language is physical touch, and it would be great if yours is the same. I'm a nerd about manga and anime, so we could talk about our favorite manga or watch anime while cuddling in the bed under the sheets. I want to make you feel as comfortable as possible.
This will be something like a Friends with Benefits thing, with an emphasis on the 'Friends' part. I really value being comfortable and friendly with each other before diving into the deep end. We can take our time to build upon the friendship part before we move ahead to the benefits part. If we decide to text and feel comfortable with each other, we can see if our vibe matches and meet IRL to move ahead. I value and respect your privacy as well as mine.
Thank you for reading till this. If you feel intrigued, reach out!
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In a very CNC/primal/taboo headspace. Please message me if you are interested to chat / play on this subject. I would prefer this is to eventually happen in real but thatās not a necessity if we can keep our online dynamic hot enough.
I live in bombay and i have a place of my own and i don't mind travelling if we vibe very well sexually. Of course, I would take care of bed & breakfast!
For money, i work for a tech firm. Otherwise, interested in art in form of cinema, stories and sex.
What really excites me is oneās ability to talk once our clothes are off. Seeing sex as form of communication, expression of vulnerability just like many other form of communication.
Also, if you are neurodivergent, queer and not-heteronormative, a huge+.
Things i am absolutely NOT looking for :
Few things you should know about me
If you have read till here, start your DM with an answer to this question - āWhat made you send me a DM ? Anything that you are seeking in particular ?ā
See you in my DMs.
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Hey hey! Iām 25 Male from Bangalore!
Iām looking to connect with someone from the city who is chill, easy to vibe with and who is open to exploring something sexually!
About me : Iāve usually been into softcore for the longest time. Curious about trying penetration for quite a long time. Looking for someone to get me through it.
What I like? - Cuddles, kisses, chest play, oral play, blindfold play.
Fetish: Men in tight trunks just do the thing for me. Thereās nothing hotter than a man in some good tight Calvins š¤¤
Kinks: Though Iām a pretty plain vanilla guy, I occasionally enjoy the dom-sub dynamic (both ways). I also sometimes like some semi-gentle spanks.
If you can host in the city, hit me up:)
Hey, so I am a 22 year old male in college. I love to play golf and tennis and I am into modern Indian art. I love 80s British pop rock music and my favourite movie series are Indiana jones and back to the future. I am avg built, around 6 feet tall.
So I love being told what to do, and I wanna please my women. So if you are looking for someone like that, I am your guy. I would be a fun person to ride, oh and btw I am known for having a decent personality. I guess one good thing about me. I would love for someone to ride me.
I am a fairly fun person to be with, so shoot me a text.
Hello to the person taking the time out to read this post.
A little about you: You are a fellow Redditor in search of a fun loving, laid back company that involves conversations, getting to know one another better and are perhaps a little self aware. 18+. It isn't the rule of thumb for you to be in the same city as I am. If you are, extra brownies for you. Just kidding. Take them all, anyway.
A little about me: A working professional during the day, music connoisseur during the night, enjoys subjects ranging from spirituality and philosophy to psychology. I have a certain penchant for the dark and twisted as well. I enjoy Techno/Psychedelic Trance the most.
A little about what this post is about: this is an attempt of mine to find someone to talk to about everything that we deem fit. The mundane talk of everyday life to discussing our real thoughts that lay within
The NSFW bit of this post: yes, I enjoy sex and I have my own set of kinks and fetishes. This would be a part of our conversations as well. If we agree to meet in person, please be mindful that we may engage in play time (read the title again, haha). Pictures (with or without face, depending upon what we agree to) would be appreciated and reciprocated. Im equal parts gentle, kind and equal parts nasty and feral
Come in now, would ya!
Hey, I'm 23 y/o and single for quite sometime now. Not that am desperate to talk to someone but it would be nice to have someone to talk to about anything without caring what they might think. I'm very open minded and would like for you to be the same ig..
A bit about me, well it's been a few months in Bangalore now and apart from the weekdays, weekend is the most free time i get :P and it makes me feel lonely. I'm 5"10' and I wear glasses, like to swim or play volleyball or football and I sketch sometimes, I can share some if you like and If your wondering how look well I look decent dw :P.
Idk what or who I'm looking for here but I don't wanna feel lonely... Maybe a connection or maybe someone to flirt with or maybe just physical or maybe something serious? I'm very open-minded so be fine with things. Let's talk and let me get to know you or hear about your day maybe make you smile or laugh if your also feeling the same as me.
To whoever you are, I hope we make some good memories.
I am 27 age guy from Pune, clean and hygienic, looking for someone who has a lust in enjoying submissive or dom, I am ok for both.
Things I am ok to try - any kind of stuff being rough to dirty talks, passionate kiss to pounding cocks, I am also a squirt master and great at eating too.
My limits - not ok with BDSM stuff or sadism yet but I am ok to try starting from some small steps.
Also perks of being FWB with me,I Iike edging and long sessions, making my 6.5" thick cock cum is something I really like to challenge š My back thrusts is really an 'aahhhhh...ummm' moment.
Drop me a chat request if you would like to talk more and proceed.
Looking for someone whoās at least 24 years old; the kinkier the better; preferably on the submissive side.
Planning for this to be a short term engagement for now. If things click, we can see how it goes.
Plan for this to be something strictly casual.
Letās get together, escape the real world for a few hours, have some nice fun and blow off some steam.
About me: Laid-back, fun-loving, married with a dad-bod. Fair skinned; about 5ā9 tall. Introvert. Have a quick wit and specialise in dry humour, if that matters to you.
Hit me up so that we can take this forward.
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Hello! I hope this post finds you well and you are having a great week so far!
I'm hoping this post strikes a chord and resonates in the quiet void of this community
A brief about me:
Kink Preferences:
Behind closed doors, I have plenty of kinks and things I want to explore.
If you have any requests, specific kinks, needs or limits, I will gladly accept it and incorporate it into our encounter.
If youāre looking to explore - feel free to DM me
Hello everyone, I'm 28 I've been living in the US since 3 years now and i was back in india for a month, I'm single and like the title says just looking for someone to vibe with. I lived in surat for 25 years before moving to the US in 2021 but couldn't find anyone interesting and fun enough, everyone was so self contained and shy and conservative and cringy and annoyingly dumb (i can go on forever) to even initiate a conversation let alone carry it.
Maybe that's why almost all of my friends are online friends from different places in India and other countries, one of them told me about this sub so I was wondering if i could find someone similar here, just someone cool to hang out with.
I'm from Surat so it's a given that I'm a foodie. What else? I play a lot of games and I'm also a big film buff I watch one movie or at least one episode of a show every night. I've been doing that since 2016 maybe more I'd love to have someone who has the same kind of taste in movies as me. (ENORMOUS, GIGANTIC JOHN WICK FAN.)
And I'm also too lazy to type/read long paragraphs but here i am š . Also whoever you are I hope you have a great sense of humour (is dark humour too much to ask for? š) I hope I met the minimum words requirements cause I'm running out of things to say now.
Hey there! I don't really know what to say, but I'd love to chat with awesome girls on Reddit for kicks. I'm super bored, so hit me up if you need someone new to chat/rant/sext with.
A little about me: I'm a single, tall guy who thinks he's a star because I love astronomy. I binge-watch movies, TV series, and anime like it's my job. I'm pretty chill, enjoy my own company, but also love engaging discussions over coffee or a drink. If you're up for a chat, a good rant, sext or just want to laugh at my terrible jokes, hit me up!
Have a great day!
Hello. I will be in Bengaluru for 2-3 days for a work trip next week. After that I am taking a few days off work to travel in Bengaluru and Mangaluru. Haven't been to either place before and have no idea what to expect.
If someone wants to get along for a drink, meal or something else in either of these places, send a message. I am a bit aloof with new people but warm up well after getting comfortable, most of the time anyway. 38, male, in open marriage, hovering between fit and dad bod most of the year. Interests are travel, books, nature, food and animals.
Hello,
I am a 27 year old guy super bored at work. The weekend got over in the blink of an eye and feeling the Monday blues. Looking for someone to just flirt with and make this day better.
Your age or relationship status doesn't matter as long as we vibe well. There's nothing specific that I'm looking for, we can just go with the flow and see where it goes.
I'll tell you everything you want to know but in private as writing down 'Myself' in a post doesn't make sense to me.
Message me if you're equally bored and looking to make things more lively and fun.
My chat is open, see you on the other side?
The perfect mix - pleasure, deep talks, and the kind of intimacy that lingers. We all crave connection, whether through touch, words, or the warmth of being held. I offer all three.
Iām 26, well-read, well-mannered, and dangerously good company. I love cooking, working out, and indulging in food, conversation, and pleasure.
In bed? I take control but always make sure you feel safe and cared for. I listen to what you want and give it to you, making sure every moment feels like itās exactly what you need. After the passion, Iāll hold you close, making sure you feel completely relaxed and cherished, like weāre in this together.
If that excites you, Iām open to anythingācasual, passionate, no pressure. Just be real.
I can sext or meet if youāre in Hyderabad. Just donāt slide in with a plain āhi.ā Give me something to want.
I'll be honest, I've always loved being the kinkier one. Nothing is more satisfying than seeing a woman lose her "innocent girl" persona and completely submit herself to you.
And you know it's not just about the sex, there are so many trivial things that continue to create the tension which is unleashed in bed. Well, that is what I'm looking for.
I want to get to know you
Have a connection with you
&
Help you lose your mind to filth.
A little about me:
24 y.o, medico, passionate about cinema, art & music. Been hitting the gym for a while now while training for athleticism simultaneously. Currently exploring new (weird) hobbies as well. I've had the opportunity of talking to some wonderful women on here so hoping the post resonates back this time as well!
Please be:
a woman, interesting & sensible. and before I forget,
the kinkier the better!
Hii I'm 24M here and I'm looking for someone to build a genuine connection with. Something that probably starts out as friends and we can just go from there.
I generally tend to be a homebody even though I do like exploring new places especially landscapes. I'm also more of an introvert generally. I like watching web series at times, and love reading fiction and listening to music. I also like reading about space and astronomy which I find pretty intriguing.
I would prefer someone around my age but wouldn't mind someone older too. So if you wanna take a chance with this :p, hit me up with something about yourself or whatever you'd like!
Sometimes I think why I'm even doing this, but then hopeless romantic movie buff inside me wanna create those stories! Oh yes I happen to be kinky, but without consent I won't even touch that pinky! And on consent, I also like CNC š«£
You would be thinking what's this post about, well to get what I lost maybe? Passionate romance, meaningful talks, sweet affection and even hard fuck!! Well you would ask, why lost? Well break-ups happen, and someday we move on! But then those memories of love, sex & little moments hit back. Then we think, can't I have that again???
But, but...... yes, there's a big but! I do crave that all, but this time want someone who stays herself, and accept me for me! Not to confuse you, but being a writer love writing paras like that. But coming to the point, want something where we can be weird, crazy, even flawed! But don't judge each other, and rather build each other!!!
Maybe reddit isn't the place to be so romantic old school, but then even world finds that crazy! So trying here too!!
Chalo ab yahaan tak aagayi ho, toh kuch toh chance hai. Haan thoda zyada hogaya, but yahi toh romance hai š Aise toh I'm open minded also, have some weird kinks? Woh bhi we can share over drinks!! Ab agar aur jaan na ho toh text karna, but with this emoji š¹ start karna. Wanna know if you read it all!!
And I'm currently in Mussoorie, but keep travelling/staying in Chandigarh & even Delhi is open for me.
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I want to train a random women from Chennai with my BBC, im 5'11, fit, and hung guy, view my profile for my pics. Any inexperienced women, who wants to explore her sexual desires, im open to try anything we can start from scratch like foreplay, kissing and fingering, we can go slowly as you like, one of the things i love is training my girl to squirt, will make you have a squirting orgasm with my techniques and making her go all the way down while blowing me, and we can try some other fun stuffs. I love pleasing women, and i love eating ass(only if you want it), i can give you the best orgasm you will ever have and we can cuddle too until you are ready for your next orgasm,i have trained virgin girls who have not even kissed to deepthroat me and take my dick like a pro. Im ready to help you explore your kinks.
I got No preferences chubby or slim I dont mind, just be yourself, If you are a virgin and have not tried anything sexually, dont be shy ,message me what you are looking for and we can have a great time together.
As the title mentions I am looking for a kinky girls who loves getting her face fucked, who loves the feeling of a cock in her throat and love to take it all the way.
you know who you are dumb horny, kinky stupid slut whose pussy becomes a wet mess just from thinking about being bent over spanked, you day dream about getting vibrator taped to your pussy and your mouth fucked like a worthless whore, you like to see handprints on your ass and bright red colour on your funbags, If you are into these things let's talk more and have some fun.
P.S: Not looking for roleplay or something online only if you are into that don't bother dming
Greetings,
I'm not your typical software developer ā by day, I conquer code, but by night, I delve into the captivating world of BDSM. For the past six years, I've been on an exhilarating journey of self-discovery, boundaries, and profound connections.
Picture this: the soft drip of wax, the rhythmic thud of impact play, the artful intertwining of bondage, and the thrilling exploration of control. These are just a few of the exhilarating avenues I've explored in the realm of BDSM.
Now, I'm on the hunt for a partner in pleasure, a woman who's ready to embark on a journey of kink exploration with me. Whether you're a seasoned player or a curious novice, I value open communication, enthusiastic consent, and a shared sense of adventure.
If you're enticed by the idea of pushing boundaries and uncovering new desires together, let's chat. In this world of trust and exploration, we might just find a connection as dynamic and engaging as we are.
I'm eagerly awaiting your response to ignite our passions and explore uncharted territory.
Heyy, I'm a 24 year old guy and am currently staying in Bangalore and work a job here. I'm looking for someone to talk to and see where things go and hopefully form a deep connection where we both can be our true selves with each other.
I'm a very affectionate person and and am an ambivert but I guess am more on the introvert side of it. I like reading (both fiction and non-fiction) a lot. I also like watching web series, being out in nature, listening to music (a lot of indie and folk).
If you feel we might be a match, do hit me up (maybe with your fav song or anything) :)
Calling out for Curious and Submissive Females. #BDSM #DOMINANCE #BONDAGE
This is for someone who has just started enjoying being submissive or have just curious about exploring this particular lifestyle.
Being submissive is beyond handcuffs, blindfolds and shades of grey. Itās about being vulnerable, giving up every last piece of your dignity, getting slapped, spanked, bitten, humiliated, and giving all to your master to have his/her way with you as they please.
Such an act of giving all your control to someone else does not make you any less. In reality, itās YOU who have all the control, giving your will away to someone consensually makes YOU the most powerful person in the room. You are the strongest mentally knowing that there is nothing the master can do that can hurt you anymore mentally and you come back wanting for more. And youāll take it MORE, happily while the tears of the joy are running down your cheek.
DM me if you are interested.
Hello.
I am an open minded, kind, confident man, sometimes sadistic, always passionate. I've been described as a gentle Dom with a mean streak and I guess that suits me well. I like confidence, intelligence and a hint of the right type of cheekiness....love an insane adrenaline rush.
Iām drawn to well articulate replies, hedonism, passion, wit, and curious souls. Respect, chemistry and consent is a must. The rest is for us to explore. I like to be Dominant as it grounds me, I find stability in Domination.
Someone who wants to submit but is hindered due to time constraints/ other factors. Working full time leaves me with little time to indulge in dedicated play sessions, but I do get free pockets of time everyday. Hence I'm looking for a submissive who would like a slightly higher degree of freedom yet be passively submitting to me through rules, rituals, tasks and occassional live sessions.
If you're working full time, partnered, workaholic or an insomniac, I feel we might be well suited to each other's needs. We can be in a relationship of convinience without the stress of time limitations. I'm open to slow burn....sending messages which have to be acted upon whenever you read them and not be expected to reply immediately. I'll be happy to take it to physical meetups if time and distances permit.Ā
Appearance wise, I've been told I look decently good and younger than my age. I have short hair on my head, no facial hair and a bit of a dad bod.
##Ā Essential requirements
Female (Equal respect for all identities, but this is just my personal preference)
Submissive (to me, not necessarily in other aspects of life)
Willing to verify
Willing to send pics/vids of self and tasks
Willing to communicate without hesitation
Willing to be friends when not in play (very important)
Willing to shift to an alternate communication platform
Willing to be patient
Willing to trust
Your ethnicity, location and relationship status won't bother me. I am extremely kink friendly and up for discussing almost any kink/dynamic except those involving scat and violence. If you'd like to explore such a dynamic with me, do get in touch and let's discuss. Let me know what you're looking for in your message.
Keeping my fingers crossed!
Best,
Sam
I think you want to text but just overthinking it? I can hold conversations and make sure neither of us get bored.
Hey Girl, i am a 24 year old guy living in Mumbai looking for a 19 and above girl to vibe and potentially have some good time (casual and no strings attached) with. Age and religion doesn't matter to me as i am really open minded and just the maturity and the like mindedness is what I want. If you are from Mumbai we can keep it on text and meet up when both are comfortable but if outside Mumbai we can continue online and then maybe plan a trip or something? I hope you haven't judged me on my username, ik it's too NSFW but i love to do it, and do it really really well.
I really don't judge so text me being yourself and i am sure if not something NSFW we can keep it SFW (yes i am not thirsty for sexual things), and when i say i don't have a type i mean it so just text, what can go wrong?
Yes ik i have a blank profile but it's my throwaway, so again i hope that's not a reason you don't text me
I am 6ft tall, broad shoulders, lean i would say. Being really honest i am a very decent guy who does have a lot of friends but just looking for someone to explore and have fun with. I am really emotionally sorted with no baggage at all and understand the meaning of limits and space so you don't have to worry about that but i am here if you have some baggage and unsorted shit and want to get through it. I can actually be a person who gives a lot of attention and also be the one who won't give a lot of fucks but just focus on how we enjoy? Depends on what we both want, hence communication is the key and i am really good at it, so hope you put in efforts too!
I am looking for something like: we talk (text/call), we vibe, we decide meet, we like each other, we decide to flirt and give each other some honest validation, we talk slow and makeout the same way.
This is me trying something new. This would be something more of a Friend's With Benifits/ONS than anything else. Yes ik Bumble, Hinge and Tinder are places to get this but i don't want to put myself out on those platforms and prefer to keep it this way.
If you are the clingy/needy type i really really like that.
I have got replies in the past which have been underwhelming or something what i wasn't looking for, so i really respect your time. Please don't text if you wanna just ghost or not put in efforts. So if you do decide to text we start of anonymous and check the vibe, if we get comfortable we meet and see where it leads us. I like to keep my life to myself so whatever happens between us will stay between us and you don't have to worry about anyone else knowing about it.
We can keep it the way we both agree on and are comfortable with, i can be the guy who can take time to know you and bond and gel, or just the the one who takes you out the same day.
If you are seeing this post late and wonder if i am already talking to someone, just text me and I will let you know if i am, better late than never!
Thank you for the read!
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Ahoy!
33 y/o guy with a cute smile (have been told so) with a career in tech ( but not a tech bro ), a calm presence with a life that has been a wild adventure of extremes, I thrive on intellectual chaos. I like to read, anything everything from systems theory to modern french history, particularly energy and clean (itās one of my passion). After taking a break from dating, I am giving it a one more shot but i am
What Iām Looking For:
AĀ childfree, progressive partnerĀ who sees life as a playground of possibilities, not a checklist. Someone unapologetically herselfāsexually liberated, intellectually fearless, and allergic to societal scripts. Letās skip the small talk and dissect the big questions: How do we live ethically in a burning world? Can love exist without ownership?
Why We Might Click:
Imagine slow mornings with coffee andĀ SapiensĀ debates, weekends volunteering at climate marches or getting lost in a neon-lit bar abroad. Iām driven but not ruthless, my version of āMachiavellianā is designing a life thatās sustainable, joyful, and defiantlyĀ ours. Letās be catalysts, not conformists.
TL;DR:Ā Childfree, progressive, and insatiably curious?
Don't you sometimes just wanna ring up or text someone and just talk and be free with without worrying about any judgement of consequences of what you're sharing? I've always found internet friends to be the best for this and looking to add a couple more if possible (never can have enough friends can we?). As a guy, I've found that it's easier to open up like that to females but if you're a guy and chill, you can hit me up too.
I'm best at conversations that are a bit on the serious side, like science, philosophy etc and not very good at celebrity gossips or similar but don't mind it. We can chat on reddit for a while and see if we sync before moving to other platforms. Thanks for reading.
Well I am looking for someone , who thrive in novelty. For whom new experiences and new people are like an adventure and the predictability of life is a burden. I am more into sub women but I dont mind a switch either. I believe in things falling in the realm of grey with few exceptions. I would love to have someone kink friendly , non judgemental and empathetic. Mostly looking for a NSA type of setup or idk maybe a kink partner with a good vibe. If this catches your attention then do hit me up in the DMs
Hey, Iām a 27-year-old guy from Pune, and Iāve always been attracted to older women (30-50). Right now, Iām in the mood for some exciting, naughty conversationsāsexting, teasing, and maybe more if we vibe well. I love a woman whoās confident, knows what she wants, and isnāt afraid to explore.
If youāre feeling a little neglected or just craving some fun, letās talk. No drama, no pressureājust pure enjoyment. Message me if youāre in the mood.
First things first -
Adult Breastfeeding - ABF - Where there is a lactating woman involved and yes, I actually do drink the milk.
ANR - Adult Nursing - Where there's a non lactating woman involved and just dry sucking of the breasts. Also super hot, ngl.
Since a lot of messages actually start with these questions, i thought I'll make it clear to all. :)
Yes, I'm actually in an active adult Breastfeeding relationship with my neighbour. We got close during the lockdown, but got much closer after she had a baby and her husband who works on a ship for 9 months of the year, left after paternity leave.
One thing lead to another, and I ended up fulfilling one of my longest desired fetishes.
We ended up doing more stuff with each other but no PIV at all.
Anyone else with a similar experience or an ABF experience? I'd love to know!
I'd love to talk to fellow desis who have any such similar experiences or would like to know more about it. I've had a bunch of women reach out in the past and I'd definitely like to talk about it with more women, so feel free to reach out.
I'm not into degradation or anything creepy,but sure enjoy a nice sexual conversation.
Thereās just nothing like providing incredible, toe-curling, thigh-shaking pleasure to someone else. It's truly one of the simple (maybe not so simple) pleasures in life.
Anyway, as the title suggests, Iām looking for a woman who is interested in receiving oral attention. Iāll try to keep this short and if youāre interested we can get into more details.
It's totally alright if youāve never orgasmed from oral or with a partner, thereās no pressure to get anywhereāno performing; no trying; no orgasmic destination. Letās just enjoy it for what it is
Iām a non-psychotic, normal guy who is honestly just looking for something more specific that dating apps and meeting girls out is a bit difficult.
Maybe you are on the lookout for a patient partner to pleasure you and progress at your own pace
A quick bit about me - I consider myself fortunate enough to be where I am today. I lift weights, I run, I play a sport. I am a naturally curious person and value this in others as well. I was in a serious relationship before. Itās just that Iām looking for something more specific here
I am drug and disease free, non-smoker, I drink occasionally.
If a day or evening of pleasure is something you are interested in then at least shoot me a chat and letās see if we click and like each other.
If this got your attention and sounds at all appealing to you, Iām looking forward to hearing from you.