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    24[M4F] Bangalore/Online - Tell me, is it too bad to water your plants even when it rains?

    If you're in Bangalore you know how good the weather is right now and a couple days ago I saw someone water their plant even during this rain, well to be honest I did think of how dumb that must've been, but i myself have a few plants and the happiness they bring me when they flower or attract a bee or let an ant built it's nest in them. Made me want to be there for it even if it rained. So just was wondering how happy that plant must've made that person for them to water it even when it rained. What about you? What would your first thought be?

    Anyways, Ima 24M, from Bangalore.. writing this to find you watching some YouTube and sketching whatever really. And i think it'd be nice to make a friend and tell a few stories, listen to few stories..and even make a few stories?

    So what do I do to keep myself occupied? Apart from work, i swim. Although i haven't in a while cause of some things and it's gonna end soon and ima pick it up the very next moment. I go on hikes, well i have a motorbike and I love waking up early driving to the bottom of a mountain, breakfast on the way and hike to the peak and just sit there taking all that in..i have alot of sky pics too so if you like the sky, I'm your guy. And I sketch, well I'm not very good at it but I just try to put out whatever I have in my mind and it really feels something. Sometimes these sketches are something from my dreams, oh yeah i have a dream journal. Did I tell you that already? I can tell you some stories from that too. That's pretty much about me.

    What do I offer? Firstly and most important. Definitely the friend you can rely on. Not someone who'd only laugh with you, cheer for you or bring only happy news. I also wanna be someone who you can talk shit with, oh your neighbour just doesn't shut up? Well tell me about it. Although i too might not shut up sometimes if I'm too excited but that's for another day. Oh feeling down? Please talk to me, you are welcome to borrow my ears at all times. Feeling like ice cream? Here I am!! What is that? It's late? Well i stock up on ice cream so not a problem!! And that's what you can expect.

    What about you? Well just be you. Maybe around my age or older but in Bangalore would be nice. But hey I have met a few of my online buddies so if you're not from here but things work out, You'll see me with a bouquet of your fav flowers and some chocolate when I visit. >!Read !<>!this !<>!far? !<>!Shhh !<>!if !<>!you !<>!just !<>!wanna !<>!see !<>!them !<>!flowers !<>!, !<>!the !<>!keywords !<>!peach !<>!and !<>!I'll !<>!get !<>!it. !<

    Lastly, do you just want someone to vent to and pretend we never met feel free to talk to me. Yes and this is for everyone reading this, i know i might not be the best choice for whatever it is, but I am a choice and I'll try my best to be there for you and just listen to you.

    Alright then, have a nice day!!

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    2024/05/19
    13:38 UTC

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    37 [M4F] Bangalore - Married guy with a hall pass looking for some NSA fun

    Looking for someone who’s at least 24 years old; the kinkier the better; preferably on the submissive side.

    Planning for this to be a short term engagement for now. If things click, we can see how it goes.

    Plan for this to be something strictly casual.

    Let’s get together, escape the real world for a few hours, have some nice fun and blow off some steam.

    About me: Laid-back, fun-loving, married with a dad-bod. Fair skinned; about 5’9 tall. Introvert. Have a quick wit and dry humour, if that matters to you.

    Hit me up so that we can take this forward.

    !lock

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    2024/05/19
    13:19 UTC

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    27 [M4F] Mumbai - Craving intimacy and physical touch? This is for you.

    Eye contact, holding hands, cuddles, light touching, gentle kisses, non-gentle kisses, neck kisses, cheek kisses, forehead kisses, bites, prolonged hugs... I could go on. These are just some of the things that I'm craving for because it's been a while since I was last with someone, and if you're in the same boat, read on.

    Before anyone suggests dating apps, I should have you know that they have messed with my head in the past so I'm really not resorting to them again.

    In my head, this is how it goes. We go out for a quick ice cream or coffee date, and get familiarised with each other, and then take it from there depending on the vibes. But hey, I'm open to ideas.

    About me, I'm your usual 27 year old small town guy who is often mistaken for a 22 year old. Currently I'm pursuing a professional course and that's what brought me to Mumbai. I just lack a little romance in my otherwise perfect life right now. I'm kinda athletic and love playing lawn tennis, skipping rope, swimming and pushups. I can enjoy my own company pretty well, and absolutely love going on solo trips. A few other things I love are desserts, watches, my work, long drives, telling special people random things, good quality stationery, healthy flirting, cooking, wearing kurtas, The Office, Modern Family, Rick and Morty, and food, off the top of my head. I can appreciate tf out of a well made fudge brownie, and don’t even talk about rasmalai because that’s bound to get my mouth watering. Currently I have a few different playlists for different moods, but Spotify called me a ‘Hopeless Romantic’ in the last spotify wrapped, so make of it what you will. Apart from all this random stuff, I’d say I’m pretty cool to talk to. I’ve been told I can make people around me comfortable. Honestly this is just the tip of the iceberg and there's a lot more to explore.

    So if you resonate with this post even a little bit, and you're feeling spontaneous enough to meet on this election weekend, you should not shy away from sending me a text. I'd appreciate if your opening text is something purposeful rather than just a 'hi' or 'what's up'. And please be open to verify. Let's plan and make this real.

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    2024/05/19
    13:05 UTC

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    30[M4R] Mumbai - Fooled around with a neighbour & it was the hottest experience in a while.

    I'm a 30 year old guy from India. Recently, had an interesting experience with my neighbour, who has just delivered her second baby.

    We basically live one floor apart from each other, and her husband lives and works away, on a ship or something to do with shipping.

    She recently had her second child, maybe about 4 months or so now. The husband has moved back for work, and his and her mother keep coming over to help her with the baby et al.

    Things took an interesting turn a few days before Christmas when I was over at her place because her MIL called me over to help them figure out a new washing machine. While I was there, I happened to see her feeding the baby and saw a hint of the side boob. I almost immediately had a boner lol!

    A couple of days later, I get a call from her where she asked me to come over and take some food which was made by her MIL, who'd told her to send it over to my place since my mother likes it. When I went to collect it, she called me in and we got talking, regular small talk.

    Then she suddenly asked me out of the blue - " You were staring at me while I was feeding the baby the other day. I guess you enjoyed the view " and laughed. I was stunned and couldn't react.

    I slowly muttered that yes I did get a glimpse and eventually had to admit that I did like the view (after she coerced me to speak out).

    Then from then onwards we'd chat a lot over text and one fine day she called me over with the pretext of some work. When I went over, she basically sat me down and started to feed the baby in front of me! I was stunned, both by her actions and looked at her ample tits out right in front of me. She could see that I had a boner and was uncomfortably sitting there trying to hide it. Eventually, the baby was done and she asked me if I wanted to try it. I didn't know what to say but she held my hand and got me closer to her. I couldn't resist and latched onto her boob and the milk was watery and tasted different than what I'd expected but it was just so hot doing it like that, I just continued to suck on it.

    That was the first time, and then we've continued to do it often. We've fooled around and done a lot of stuff but still haven't had vaginal sex. She's still not up for it, but let's see.

    Happy to talk and share more with anyone who'd be up to chat about this. I'd love to talk to more people into lactation and possibly others with experiences with lactation.

    Let's talk!

    P.S - Yes it does involve her cheating, so if that triggers you, then let's not talk about it.

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    2024/05/19
    12:40 UTC

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    32 [M4F] Bangalore - Seeking a Fun and Adventurous FWB Connection

    I'm looking for someone who is interested in the physical aspects of a relationship. Ideally, I'm hoping to find someone who I can connect with on a deeper level and have ongoing sexual encounters with.

    I value honesty, communication, and mutual respect in any kind of relationship, and I hope to find an FWB who shares those same values.

    It's important to clarify that I'm not interested in sexting or virtual relationships. Instead, I desire to meet someone in person and explore the potential for a deeper connection if we find compatibility. I'm excited to see where this journey takes us!

    About me: I’m a typical introvert who enjoys staying at home. Good looking. Clean and hygienic. !lock

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    2024/05/19
    11:26 UTC

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    35 [M4F] Bangalore - married man looking for a friend and more

    I'm a married man in search of a married woman who is looking for a discreet and fun connection. I'm not here to disrupt anyone's life or relationship, but rather to add some excitement and passion to our otherwise monotonous lives.

    I'm hoping to find someone who is in a similar situation as me, someone who understands the importance of discretion and keeping things private. I'm not looking for a long-term commitment or a serious relationship, but rather a fun and flirty connection where we can explore our desires and indulge in some guilty pleasures.

    If you're a married woman who is in Bangalore and also looking for some excitement and passion, please reach out to me. Let's start with a simple conversation and see where it takes us. I look forward to hearing from you soon.

    Best regards,

    !lock

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    2024/05/19
    11:26 UTC

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    24 [F4M] Mumbai - Make me your slut if you can 😈

    Hello everyone, ayesha here a 24 old dirty wild cat from India ,apart from roleplays I am looking for some Male buds who can degrade , humiliate and abuse me , making me their slut and make me feel like a worthless cunt .

    Note - to grab my attention, write long degrading messages , you can include creative scenes in it , just it should make me wet after reading it. Make me your slut if you can , it will be worthful for sure

    I want rough alpha males who can send dirty degrading, humiliating, abusive and dark messages to make me wet enough all day long.

    (Note : only mature 18+ guys are allowed for this post and one more thing dont ask for my pics please, that irritates me a lot because I am doing this all for only fantasy purpose)

    Read carefully then message : Not looking for any rp , only I want dirty degrading comments which can make me wet and horny as fuck . So if you have that capability dm me with a kinky degrading long message and include word randi in that message specifically All the kinks written in the post are purely for fantasy purpose only dont try to do it in personal life with anyone

    My Kinks

    Soft kinks : To get pussy ,pits , navel and asshole licked . Pissing on my partner, recieving golden shower , foreplay, rim job .

    Dark kinks : slavery , non c○n sex , exhibitionism,,sadomasochism, pussy tormented, boobs tormented, heavy spanks , brutal whipping giving and receiving both , nipple torture, pussy torture, nipples twisted, shock treatment , and many more like this .

    Limits :scat , puke , blood , gore.

    Thank you for reading my post ❤

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    2024/05/19
    11:15 UTC

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    21 [M4F] Mumbai/Anywhere - I just want someone to talk to and spend time with

    I want people to stick around because they want to not out of pitty. It's not that I don't put in any efforts I really try to hold the conversation but it doesn't work out. I don't wanna be stuck like this for ever. It's getting really lonely here. I want to have someone I can talk to and share stuff with. I want someone ai can spend time with. I want someone who is interested in me and genuinely likes spending time with me maybe even flirt a little. I just feel so alone and lost. I don't want things to be this way forever. Please help me! I crave human interaction. I have need and my needs aren't being met much less satisfied. The truth is I can't be high maintenance becauseI don't really have anybody who would tolerate that much less actually give 2 shits. If they think I'm too much they'll just leave. Main nakhre kar hee nahi sakta kyunki mere nakhre uthane wala koi hai hee nahi.

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    2024/05/19
    10:09 UTC

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    26 [M4F] Delhi - This Is A Sign For YOU To Stop Scrolling!

    Let me guess, you were on Instagram a few moments ago. Scrolling mindlessly, your finger flicking down the screen as reel after reel which came your way. The first one was about the next place you should go out to eat in Delhi. A few more down the line, some meme which fit right into about how your life was going and you chuckled, and by that you let out a breath of air from your nose. The next was about which celebrity wore what while catching their flight to go to god knows where. And it continued, until you found yourself drifting off. Again.

    And now you're on here, on Reddit. Your feed is full of subreddits which reflects what you follow elsewhere. Fashion, make up, memes, cute puppies and kittens, art and going by the trend these days; what everyone wore to the big fat Indian wedding of the season. You hate how excessive it was, but can't really be really into whatever news or photos you can get your hands on. But then there are also other posts. Posts which are blurred. Posts which you don't generally click on, unless the title really catches your eye. Perhaps, this post? Maybe this appeared on your feed, found it interesting enough, and you're here. Or you're someone who lurks on r4r. Regardless, what matters is that you're here, and reading what I write. And let me go on a whim, and figure what you might be like.

    You're a normal woman, or so they think. You're fairly or somewhat close to your family, rather close to the few people that you call friends. You're fun to hangout with, maybe like going out. Maybe sometimes you're tired of loud bars and repetitive music, and would want nothing more to have a quiet night in. I know, we all have those days. Perhaps you're into fashion, music, food. Now this part I'll have a hard time putting a finger on. So, I'll let it slide for now, I'd rather have you tell me about it.

    But then there's the other side of you. The side your friends and family don't really know about. Behind the exterior lies the other side of you. Much like the blurred posts that pop up on your feed. The posts which you find yourself going through late at night in the dark, the glow of the screen illuminating your face, as these visuals fuel the fire within. Your thoughts, desires and fantasies are a far cry from the image that people have of you. And at times you find solace in places like this, where you cease to exist, and you're just a username. And you scroll. Photos, gifs, stories describing acts and situations and dynamics which would make most of the populace turn red with shame and scandal. But not you. This is what you truly desire. That in you, lies an innate need to let go. To just do as told. Maybe you've revealed this side of you to a few fortunate individuals. Who've gotten a glimpse of the insatiable wanton whore which rests deep in you. But it's not for everyone to see, or know.

    Dating apps, while fun haven't been the best way to go about things for you. Yes, a few worthwhile situations here and there, but not what you truly desire. You've gone over Reddit and the posts at times make you cringe. A lot of the posts just reek of desperation, and that's clearly not your scene.

    But then just out of the blue, you came across a post which caught your eye, and just out of curiosity you clicked on it, and here you are. This is a strange post, isn't it? Who the fucks writes like this? Me. I the fucks write like this. To be honest, I've been doling out a lot of words the past few weeks, for my professional life, and I was just done with writing dry walls of texts. I'd also made a promise that I'd write more, for myself. But this post, is for you.

    So if you find yourself slightly confused, slightly amused, slightly intrigued and wholly amused, my job here is done. But it's your job to send me a message. Not a 'Hey' 'hi' or 'Hello'. I've enough of those already. But if you find yourself liking what I've written and it resonates with you, you know what to do. This was your sign to stop scrolling, and do something productive. Like maybe talking to a man who just might be what you've been looking for all this while. But hey, I can't tell you to do anything. It's not like I'm your dad. Nor am I your..... You get the gist. You know what to do.

    !lock

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    2024/05/19
    09:38 UTC

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    25[M4F] Mumbai/Online-Looking for wholesome company, NSFW preferably cuddles, making out or/and ANR?

    Straight to the point. I'm looking for someone in the city to get together with. Make out, cuddle and do NSFW things.

    Hit me up if you are aware of ANR. You get bonus points

    Are you in the city? Are you coming here as a tourist looking for some fun? Are you 20+ at least? Do you like cuddles, and getting your breasts sucked? Then you definitely fit in my category.

    Are you 30+? Then you 200% fit in my category. And yes I have a thing for older women and I am experienced.

    Some things about me are listed below.

    I'm great at conversations and I am respectful. We can have wholesome conversations about random topics ranging from ghosts, paranormal things till world politics, till Bollywood gossips, I'm kinda a jack of all trades. Or you can tell me some interesting stories about you. I love to listen.

    I'm a working individual and know how to be respectable in a conversation. I like watching sitcoms like Modern Family, The Office, but have also started exploring new shows, like I started watching "Only Murders in the Building" and it's quite interesting

    If you're interested in how I look, I'm tall, fair skinned (if it matters), I look cute (as I have been told)

    Let's see how the chats go. Let's see if our vibes match because that's the most important thing. Let me know if you want a FWB kinda thing. Let's explore that option too, discuss interests and kinks, etc.

    Also, if we meet, we will verify. For both of our safety.

    How has this week been then? What are your weekend plans?

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    2024/05/19
    09:25 UTC

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    29 [M4F] India -Seeking a long-term partner to create a shared future together.

    A 29-year-old, 6'1" ambitious and ambivert individual, hailing from India but frequently traversing the U.S.A and Dubai and various other countries due to my role as a seasoned tech entrepreneur specializing in web3, crypto, and international relations.

    Emerging from humble beginnings and crafting my own path, I've deliberately steered clear of relationships until now. At this juncture, amidst numerous aspirations, I find myself inclined to explore the romantic realm. Seeking a partner who not only aligns with my ambitions but also becomes an integral part of my journey.

    My diverse set of hobbies encompasses reading, primarily non-fiction with sporadic forays into fiction, extensive travel to 12 countries and counting, chess, debating, swimming, yoga, trekking, hiking, and maintaining a fitness routine. I thrive on embracing new experiences, driven by a natural sense of adventure.

    In my quest for a meaningful connection, I desire a woman who seeks a long-term commitment, with unwavering loyalty and honesty as non-negotiable values. Kindness holds a special place in my heart.

    Feel free to direct message me, and let's explore where this journey takes us.

    P.S: Please don't just send a simple "hi." Introduce yourself with some basic information at the very least.

    !lock

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    2024/05/19
    09:17 UTC

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    35 [M4F] Delhi - Looking for a classy woman to abuse, use as a piece of meat.

    Remember Ved from Tamasha? I’m in a very similar situation. Thoroughly bored from life and looking for an escape. I’m an articulate, fit and a fairly attractive man looking for a smart and interesting woman to satiate my depraved desires. I’m a gentleman as well as a feminist who would treat you with respect outside of sex but as a piece of meat when in heat. I’m looking for a classy woman who loves being crude during sex, someone who would love to get abused and humiliated by me while getting fucked. I’d love to listen to your darkest, most depraved desires as well as share mine. A wise man once said, “Give a man a mask and he’ll show you his true face”. With the anonymity that the internet offers, it’s that true face of yours I want to see. Goes without saying I shall also reveal mine.

    Some of the kinks that I’m into are: degradation, humiliation, rimming, pissing, impregnation, lactation and celebs.

    If you’re an independent and classy woman who would love to experience sex in its raw and primal form, feel free to ping me.

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    2024/05/19
    08:54 UTC

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    26 [M4F] Pune - Looking for Female Friend

    Hey All, so I am genuinely looking for some Female friends here I have working lately not in touch with any Female friends now as it's been long time i wanna break chain not want to be alone lol. If any Female here is same (TBH I don't think any) still can give me a ping we can talk casually try to be friends and then in future we can look forward to other things. About me I am Genuine guy not creep but cant help this time. I am kind of active in lots of activities (Extra sports n all) I like walking long walks 👣, Silent places Deep talks. I am from wakad Pune. I am quit Good in Rps as well. Dm me.

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    2024/05/19
    08:49 UTC

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    40 [C4F] Bangalore - looking for a unicorn or a voyeuristic one !

    We are a couple in Bangalore and looking to to spice things up. We have posted before and received a couple of offers, but couldn’t find the “one” yet. We are looking for a lovely lady who can meet up in person or one who can join us virtually - non judgmental, easy going and respectful.

    All privacy will be respected and we appreciate the same as well. Let’s not waste each other’s time.

    Please DM if you are interested. Single men, bulls , donkeys and what not please stay away !

    !Lock

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    2024/05/19
    07:59 UTC

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    30[M4F] Mumbai - Any lady who would love to get boobs sucked nicely? With benefits to you

    I love sucking on boobs of ladies who are slim/medium type. Love to lick pussy as well if you let me. I am single and staying alone.

    Sex isnt mandatory for me. All i want is to suck boobs and lick pussy deep and nice. This comes with benefits to you. Chubby and lactating ladies, i am really sorry, cant give you the pleasure.

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    2024/05/19
    07:51 UTC

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    27 [M4F] India/Bangalore/Online - Sweet Friendship, Support and Heartful Conversations

    I want to be hopeful and optimistic but the vast number of online disappointments make it difficult. Here are some things I don't want. Please don't contact me if you are not interested in reading the post. or do not want to talk long term and would be planning on ghosting me or disappearing within 1-2 days.

    I am someone who is quite a sweet and effortful person. I would love an online connection with someone similar to me and have good, intellectual conversations and also share some laughter and affection. Affection can light us up and make us happy. (Even platonic connection is fine.) I like giving and receiving affection in the form of cute, little nicknames for each other, checking up on each other, asking about each other.

    I hope my words sail to some worthwhile eyes on the winds of destiny.

    I have grown wary of superficial connections, no effort replies and even abrupt ghosts.

    I would like someone with whom I can exchange sweet words with. I am quite a romantic person and I was more so as earlier. A lot of responsibilities were thrust upon me with time, but I have rediscovered that side of myself. I would love to have a pretend romance with an online companion - where we pretend like we are long lost soul mates and trade fiery words of sweet passion for each other.

    But, that is completely optional. I am fine with a wholesome, platonic connection as well.

    If you've reached this far, it's because of some happy confluence of my words, the Reddit algorithm and fickle fortune.

    Our meeting seemed to dangle so much on fate, it's only fair we pay our dues. Give it our best shot. Do justice to the matchmakers of heaven - The directors of this romance.

    I'm on the quest for a sweet companion. Someone with a good heart. Kind and empathetic - Like my own. The good person at the end of the romcom when the attractive antagonists lose their allure.

    I love bonding with someone through heart to heart conversation. Through exchanging genuine care and concern. Through passionate exchange of our interests and hobbies. Through clockwork logging of our daily lives. Through mindful curiosity in each other's interests. Through mutual preference for glitter over gold, depth over deception, charm over carelessness and symphonies over superficiality.

    The conversation starts out with pleasantaries and outward introduction of our demographic information - the most rudimentary. The most formal. Gradually, the outer layers crack and a mild joke cuts across the mask and we're another layer deep. Common or different tastes in art are the usual social custom for making new acquaintances.

    Soon, our conversation flows like a roaring river eliciting deep intellectual and emotional responses from both of us.

    We're discussing prized memories and cherished fantasies of the future. Chalking out hypotheticals and admiring the other's world views. Pretty soon, we're suddenly bare and feeling a strong bond by virtue of what we've shared.

    Small silences punctuated the conversation. These silences were not awkward. It was a comforting waterfall of connection. It was the silence that followed from both of us knowing and enjoying the bond created by our hearts.

    I loved the feeling of ending a conversation with a stranger on the first day with the feeling you've known them for years. I harboured romantic beliefs that such a connection must be the byproduct of a relationship in a previous life !

    Here are a few things about me -

    • I love staying at home.
    • I do not drink or smoke and don't like going to noisy pubs. Although there are times when friends or office parties are conducted there, it's something I just tolerate.
    • I love reading. I am interested in programming, Mathematics, Chess, Science, Psychology, Geopolitics, Space, Literature (fantasy particularly or late but I like all kinds) and Self Help (Productivity and Positive Psychology) - and a lot more ! I'm generally intellectually curious and a lifelong learner.
    • I love following updates on things I'm passionate about and sharing them regularly. I love following podcasts and blogs and videos on them and sharing and discussing them. I also love explaining a new thing I have learnt as it helps me understand it better.
    • I tend to be positive and look at the brighter side of life usually. But I also like sharing the problems I am going through and like listening to your's.
    • I love animals. I have a lot of pets. I am also quite close to my family and am surrounded by my loving pets (5 dogs and 4 cats). I recovered from dengue last month and they were always around me all the time. It felt very good.
    • I love putting in effort into messages and writing effortful messages and generally use complete words and not much abbreviations. I love crafting a symphony of text.
    • I am usually quite calm and supportive and remember things that are told to me in conversation. I like getting emotional and expressive and am soft hearted and sensitive. I am also quite mature and enjoy talking to similarly mature people.

    Do not reach out to me if you're just bored, did not read the post, don't like anything about me or my profile or don't know what you want or don't want to invest in having a good connection or don't even have the intention for talking for a few weeks. I am already quite hurt at repeated ghosting so please do not even reach out to me if you intend to ghost by tomorrow or next week.

    Here's what I would like from us

    • Genuine interest, care and empathy for each other - Making each other a priority though we are strangers at first. That's part of the excitement in jumping head first into this ! That does not mean we do not respect each other's busy schedules or commitments. I'm looking for something really genuine.
    • Regular effortful messages, and remembering things the other says
    • I love sharing or explaining anything new I learn, whether it is a blog post, podcast, video, book or a general thought that came through my mind. It would be great if you love listening to good explanations and are interested in such things. I'd also love it if you too like sharing blogs or podcasts on topics that you are interested in but it's not necessary.
    • I also love self improvement and sharing progress or motivation as we are doing things towards our goals and dreams.
    • I love voice calls as I love the sound of voice. I would love it if you are someone who is excited at having regular voice calls (2-3 times a week) or at least exchanging voice messages at times !
    • We don't need to have similar taste in art (music, TV shows, movies). I am open to learning about new kinds of interests and new subcultures !
    • Openly sharing our thoughts on the bigger ideas and arcs of life and also venting about the smaller frustrations
    • Being excited at receiving messages from the other person every time we light each other's phones up.
    • [Optional] Some online romance where we sometimes say things to each other that make us blush like our first crush. A little romance to brighten each other up. Though this is completely optional. Sometimes sharing sweet, romantic messages with each other and maybe even doing this on voice calls too.

    Also would be nice if we can just share photos so we can visualise what we look like as I like sharing photos when I go somewhere. I just like getting this out of the way. It doesn't matter to me what you look like, but I do like to know whom I'm talking to make us blush like our first crush. A little romance to brighten each other up. Though this is completely optional. Sometimes sharing sweet, romantic messages with each other and maybe even doing this on voice calls too.

    Also would be nice if we can just share photos so we can visualise what we look like as I like sharing photos when I go somewhere. I just like getting this out of the way. It doesn't matter to me what you look like, but I do like to know whom I'm talking to.

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    2024/05/19
    06:47 UTC

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    25 [M4F] Bangalore - Is there a feminine urge to "heal" men?

    Do women have a natural urge to "heal" men, to help them become better versions of themselves?

    I know that women are generally more empathetic and compassionate than men, but does that trigger the urge?

    While it's clear that both men and women have the capacity to heal each other in relationships, the idea of women being the primary healers of men is a complex one. Is that problematic or just sweet? Is it unhealthy? Does it bring imbalance in the relationship in the long run?

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    2024/05/19
    05:59 UTC

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    33 [M4F] Mumbai - Coffee?

    Sunday is far wide open. How about a meetup at a coffee shop for an unfettered conversation? Call it meeting of minds

    If either of us find that this coffee shop meetup was a bad idea, upon arrival, the safe word for barista should be, “One latte … to go!”, and we can part ways.

    I don’t think intention needs to be defined rn. We can draw boundaries, for sure. And let’s split the bill.

    Sundays can be a lot of things, but having an instantaneous date/meetup has never been part of my Sunday. Let’s see if there’s anyone naive enough to jump on this offer.

    What’s your availability? We can pick a Blue Tokai (preferred) or Starbucks (the new CCDs) somewhere to our proximity. You can be dressed in a hoodie (in this summer heat!) and wouldn’t care less.

    Let’s Brew It!

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    2024/05/19
    05:57 UTC

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    40 [M4F] #Chennai - Mental Dom Seeking submissive girl (real)

    There are many kinds of submissives, I seek the one that is very mental and is fascinated by the concepts obedience, service and suffering. I also enjoy a woman that can express herself clearly and can articulate her thoughts well. I have been in 10+ relationships over the past 15 years, ranging from 2 months to many years so I know what I am interested in.

    I am certainly not seeking an endorphin rush bottom. I rarely get interested in pure bondage or spanking. I am very turned on my more mental concepts, in fact, I need to feel that the submissive is truly wanting to submit to me and is willing to suffer for me to actually get a turn on.

    I am not here to offend anyone but rather find the submissive that is the right fit for me. The person I am looking for is a female, age/size is not a big deal as long as there is a mental connection, race is absolutely not an issue.

    I promise that I will be kind and courteous under all circumstances. I do not believe in reacting aggressively as it does myself or the other party any good. I will be direct and if this is not a good fit, I will happily admit it and move on.

    Please also do check my profile before reaching out to me. I look forward to hearing back from the right submissive.

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    2024/05/19
    04:49 UTC

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    32 [M4F] Bangalore/Online - Looking for my kinky freak in the sheets, lady in the streets.

    Ok. You know how it goes. I write a heartfelt post, you PM me, we talk, share a few dirty moments together and there is that initial surge of getting to know someone new and slowly it all fades away! But I’m an optimistic person by nature so I’m going to hope for instead us to talk to each other, become friends, exchange dirty dirty filthy letters, fall madly in ‘lust’ with each other and then they write history books about us!

    All that is asking for too much, but let’s start and see where it goes. Keep an open mind but keep your expectations reasonable. And hope for the best!

    Why I think you should consider me as your daddy:

    1. I have a way with words. I know just saying that doesn’t mean anything. I mean I can go into detail about how I’m going to eat you up like it’s my last meal on this beautiful earth and then kiss you with the same mouth and make you mine so you know I mean it, but that should be reserved to the PMs. Wouldn’t complain if you did the same

    2. I’m a little shy myself. I mean you’d think that with all the dirty writing that I’m doing, the last thing I’ll be is shy. But that’s just how it is. Words make me open up.

    3. I am a decent conversationalist as well! (I think) It could come as a surprise but yes it exists! I can be happy talking all the time about how we’re fucking at the edge of the mountain while on goers are disgusted by us, but I equally enjoy, to talk about normal stuff. Or even things that are close to your heart! Want to tell me about how Susan from accounting is an ass to you or how you just got a new puppy or how your old back pain is acting up?! I’m all ears.

    4. I’m more or less prompt with my messages. I try to respond as soon as I can as long as it doesn’t intrude on my work. But if I’m home, and awake (and not saving kittens!), I tend to reply in in time. I do have busy workdays as well sometimes, but I try to fulfill all my commitments. Appreciate it if you do the same.

    5. I make an effort. Easy to say, but I’m making this long of a detailed post aren’t I? If we connect, you’ll be damn pleased you decided to send me that initial message. And if we don’t connect, I will let you know that and part ways graciously.

    6. I’m dope to be around with.

    As for the actual BDSM, I am very into B/D and D/S of the BDSM. Have dabbled into S/M as well. I also am very into just dirty chat in general with me being the real me and you being the real you. To control is amazing as well

    What I’m ideally looking for is a proper dom/sub dynamic. Where we begin slowly but there is potential for me to be a positive influence on your life. Ranging from good orgasms to good health. Taking the problem of choice out of your hand and letting daddy decide as many aspects of your life as you desire (Or as little as possible) and make life a tad easier by taking the burden of decisions away from you.. All this with mutual respect, consent and well defined boundaries. I want to like this interaction to have a net positive effect. You feeling safe and secure and confident is my utmost important goal, even though I will be the dominant one.

    If you like this and want to talk, reach out! When you do that, tell me a bit about yourself, your likes, dislikes. Age no bar, location no bar!

    !lock

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    2024/05/19
    04:06 UTC

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    26 [M4F] Bangalore - looking for a long term FWB

    Been around the city for a while now, life’s been so busy and haven’t gotten much time to socialise. Now that I’ve taken a break from everything I’m looking to get back into having some fun. I’m looking for a girl who’s above 18 (please don’t get me in trouble), with whome I could be a friend, a best friend, a friends with benefits, or anything that’s casual but deep and meaningful. This will be our little secret and nobody has to know.

    On the outside we’re just another, besties, we are hanging out, watching movies, getting coffee, chilling in the park but on the inside we are laying it down like there’s no tomorrow. I am looking for someone to make good memories with and to go pound town when the sun goes down. But for the sake of safety let’s make this exclusive.

    As a person I’m just a 6ft dude, a southie, I like football, TT, anime, and Spotify. I like coffee, cola, and thick shake, and quite possibly… you. I like to talk about basically anything, “meaning of life”, “Barbie and Ken”, or “dirtiest kink”. Life is too short gotta make the most of it, with someone you can vibe on some deep level it will be complete.

    I’m not gonna type a lot and annoy you but, I’d say I’m a very high libido guy so I might need someone similar. I’m looking to get naughty when we’re home together or away or even during office hours. Some organic kinky friendship and a cosy, genuine companionship.

    So I’m looking for someone from around here, because the nature of this relationship calls for proximity but then if we vibe I don’t mind the distance. Your experience or anything, doesn’t matter, a respectful and non judgemental connection is what matters. So whether it’s dancing in pubs or temples let’s do it, I’ll be waiting for you on the other side.

    !lock

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    2024/05/19
    03:36 UTC

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    23 [M4M] Bengaluru - Bisexual/femboy this side, looking for someone to cuddle and chill with 🍃🌸:)

    Good morning folks! Hope you guys are doing good :)

    Little about myself - I'm bisexual and dusky. I like to dress up and do a little make up ( no worries - I'm very much comfortable with my masculinity) Hobbies I would say, I enjoy playing badminton, movies and a little bit adventurous activities.

    I'm looking for older guys preferably (25 +). I'm not a sissy or submissive. I'm more into romance and passionate love making. It can be something meaningful where both of us can be comfortable and vulnerable with each other . If you don't mind we can do fun stuff and chill. Or if you just want it to be a one time fling or just physical intimacy also works.

    Requesting only genuinely interested folks to ping me, if you are going to ghost after sometime, kindly don't reach out to me

    Women who are interested in dressing up and chilling can also ping me, couples as well.

    Ps - If there any fellow femboys from Bengaluru, who'd like to meet up, dress up and chill can get in touch. If also women who are interested can reach out. Thank you :)

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    2024/05/19
    03:21 UTC

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    33 [M4F] #Bangalore - Seeking a submissive partner for mutual growth and exploration

    Desire plays a big and pivotal role in our life, desire comes in many forms, instead of running from your desires and feeling ashamed why don't you embrace them. If you want to try to be a sub , do it, listen to your desire and embrace it.

    I am looking for a sub for a long term D/S dynamic, who wants to explore her submissive side and learn more about herself and the lifestyle. The energy of the moment is everything.

    Things I want to do/ explore.

    • Rubbing you down with oil
    • Tieing you up with zip ties + Blindfolding
    • Teasing you with ice cubes
    • Enjoys lots of foreplay
    • Messy 69 / Oral
    • Lots of Kissing / Physical touching / Teasing
    • Spanking
    • Fingering you
    • Cuddles / Spooning
    • Shared shower

    I want you to use your submissive behaviour to feel emotions unimagined, Joys never before thought possible and affection without measure. The energy of the moment is everything.I will settle for nothing less, and neither should you.

    So a bit about myself: I am 33, from bangalore, I like to make people laugh, I do enjoy cooking. I work as a software engineer though i sometimes write snarky things on internet.

    I love to chat (getting and giving attention), I would love to see this making you smile from ear to ear!, getting more and more comfortable, building up a connection and trust.

    Over the times I have observed how everyone has a trigger, whether it is a physical trigger or a mental one. Some get triggered by the look or by the outfit, and some get triggered by a look or smile. We all have triggers, but my trigger always starts in the brain. So what is your trigger?

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    2024/05/19
    02:40 UTC

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    24 [M4R] Hyderabad - Looking for someone to watch all Ghibli films with and read banned books! :3

    Hey! I'm Nush! I'm looking for someone to share myself with, shower them with love, and do fun stuff together!

    I feel like I'm emotionally in a place where I can work towards building a relationship which hopefully would last forever, and I'm really excited to meet someone new and share experiences with!

    I understand the importance of persistent effort in maintaining a relationship and I'm more than willing to go beyond whatever is expected for people I love! I'm just trying to be the best version of myself, for myself and for you. Here's a lil information about me, if I seem interesting to you, I'd love to talk to you and know you better. :D

    A lil info about me!

    📏- (Make a mental avatar of me) I'm 6 feet, Indian. I have dark brown eyes, short wavy black hair with brown streaks, I'm pretty athletic in my build, broad shoulders, long legs. My aesthetic constantly oscillates between nerd and stripper.

    🖋 I'm an author and a poet. I like keeping things, ideas and people immortal in my work. I'd like to think of myself as a hope collector, who likes to collect abandoned hope, repurpose it, and make it into something you would want to have in your life.

    🤯 The only high class meme enthusiast. This is a consequence of being on the internet for far too long. From tacky Facebook memes to Gen Z humor, you can bet I will be gasping for air.

    👟 I'm really passionate about the environment, and I'm very eco-friendly. I love guerilla gardening and being a rebel against the capitalist system. I'm always open to having a healthy discussion/debate even on things I don't agree upon.

    🍮 I love cooking! I'm always looking forward to learning new cuisines! I also like to grow most of my ingredients. I'd say food is one of my love languages!

    ⭐ I really like anime, I've had this weird generational habit of collecting different rocks (Rockhounding), I hit the gym everyday, I try to be spiritual, and read. One of my recent obsessions has been chess! I'm also fascinated by history and art.

    🏳️‍🌈 I'm bisexual and an LGBT ally! I've been in the worst depression and I've made it out. Here to give away all my love. ❤️

    ʕっ•ᴥ•ʔっ

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    2024/05/19
    01:55 UTC

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    23[M4F] India - Seeking Companionship, GF & Partner.

    Hey, Hope everything is going good at your side, all is well and good at my side too.

    Life is getting pretty much sorted now a days, earlier understanding adulting was kind of difficult, for me, it, for now boils down to 4 Simple things and have enough money, to do good work,to have good sleep, take good care of self and spend time with good friends. It is at peace for now and wanna build some good memories to not to suffer in future and build a bank to rekindle when we look back into the past.

    So yeah, kind of short philosophy for a simple and happy life.. but yeah I have higher level meaning for life...which is a secret,only the closer ones knows😁😁😁

    A bit about me:

    I am kind of hustler, i like to grind my mind to learn and work like hell, the adrenaline boost i get i enjoy it.

    I would like to have some good companionship to talk about my day and also have a contended heart to have a special person in life and fall in their lap and hug them at the end of the day to ease out and enjoy my weekends and life. I want to know about you, be with you and support you, also in your endeavours of life and be there for eachother

    I like to bike and go into nature, we could togther go out into nature on a ride, read, sketch, photograph and travel to new places, I like to stimulate my memory and build new pathways. Movies are not my cup of tea, Podcasts are ... I like to learn and apply the wisdom to improve life around myself... I am kind of romantic and serious too...

    I have built myself differently, so I am Vegetarian, Got Very Health Concious, Loves to Exercise and Read, I am strictly against intoxication( so no drinking and Smoking of any kind) and I like to travel, spend time in nature, write some poetry, draw and listen to good music, read and listen some good science related or helpful, philosophical stuff.

    I am 5'8" and 63Kgs, Its a good BMI, can say I am kind of Fit. Not very Religiously but into the philosophy of Sanatan Dharma and Buddhism, I respect all religions tho.. I worship Science, Art, Design & Wisdom.

    Professionally, I am into Tech Sector with a Creative Role.😉, Currently a freelancer...tho

    I am looking for a special person, who also share values like me and is open minded. Simple, Meaningful and Quality in Life, is what all I want.

    Hope to hear from you and get to know you better.😊

    In India, I am based of Hyderabad.

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    2024/05/19
    00:46 UTC

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    30 [M4F] Bangalore - Wholesome FWB?

    So hello there,

    I’m a 30 year old male “techie” (lol) from Bangalore looking for a FWB.

    I’m ideally looking for someone who is fun to hangout with, is independent, opinionated. Also someone who can keep up the with the texts at least the initial days .

    Id expect you to atleast be equal in energy while we forge this haha, idk how much of friends Vs benefits we would want but we can adjust according to how we vibe. But I’m definitely looking for a friend first benefits later if you catch my drift.

    I would love it if you are movie enthusiast, watching movies in theatres or home and discussing character arcs, motivations.

    While I have started enjoyed watching movies solo like spideverse (thrice, it was that good isn’t it?) Oppenheimer, dark knight ( they had re released!) MI7, I miss having someone to discuss when the movie ends lol. Some of my favourite movies and series are Succession, Pulp fiction, big lebowski, bojack, fleabag etc.

    If you are into dance music, I’m pretty well versed with the scene, so we could go to raves together. I know a bit of djing myself so could nerd about that to you. I used to pencil sketch a bit in the past so maybe if you are into it, would love to rekindle that hobby. Id love to visit museums and plays and basically explore the artsy world.

    If you are into F1 like I do, could go to the f1 screenings. Also recently into board games so I’m game for that too! Also I’m open to try any other thing you might bring to the table.

    I would like for us to vibe first here on text. You know take it at each other’s comfortable pace before me hang IRL before we take anything further.

    Also please be a single woman over 24-25 years of age,not looking for anything around or from poly or married or any other scenarios.

    Aight! Cheers! Hit me up!!

    Edit:

    Please be up to verify at least over voice that you are a girl, I am so exhausted talking to empty profiles that pose a girl lol and please spare me if you are a spaced out/bad texter and not so sure about doing this. Thanks!

    !lock

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    2024/05/18
    19:36 UTC

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    31[M4F] Kerala/online - Connect with a Man Who Admires Women over 40

    As a man in his thirties, I have always been fascinated by the grace, wisdom, and experience that come with age. There's something truly captivating about a woman who has lived a full life, with all of its ups and downs, and has emerged stronger and more beautiful because of it.

    If you are a woman over 40, I invite you to join me on this journey of discovery and connection. Let's explore the depths of our shared admiration for the beauty of age and experience. Together, we can create a community of like-minded individuals who celebrate the strength and vitality that comes with maturity.

    I believe that age is just a number, and that true beauty shines from within. I am eager to connect with women who share this belief and are ready to embrace their own unique brand of attractiveness. Whether you're a successful businesswoman, a talented artist, or simply someone who has lived a rich and fulfilling life, I want to hear your stories and learn from your experiences.

    Together, we can create a space where we can share our passions, laugh, learn, and grow. We can explore new hobbies, travel to new destinations, and indulge in the joys of life's simple pleasures. And as we do so, we'll discover that the connections we make here will be deeper and more meaningful than any other.

    So if you're a woman over 40 who is looking for someone to share your experiences with, I invite you to join me on this journey. Let's explore the beauty of age and experience together, and create a community that celebrates the true definition of attractiveness. Together, we can discover the power of connection and the magic of maturity.

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    2024/05/18
    19:32 UTC

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    23 [R4F] Goa - Looking for Fun & Friends (HELP)

    (if you're a guy reading this then please help a brother out and upvote)

    The situation: We are a group of two guys, no we are not loners or gay, our 'group' bailed on us and abandoned the Goa plan. But these soldiers did not rest their weapons & are taking it on the chin to carry on ahead with it.

    But the problem is: that the clubs there will not be so sporting or supporting of these two blokes. And we do not want to appear like creeps to 'hunt' for women just so we can get a free entry or cheaper entry to the club.

    The solution (at least I hope): We find a group of you lovely ladies having their Goa trip right around our dates. We can tag along to clubs and pubs together. Whats in it for you? Free ride/pick-up drop service I guess lol?

    All in all just looking for someone to tag along with, make new friends and have a good time there. Hope we can find someone here. Fingers crossed!

    The dates to goa are 30th May - 3rd June. Let me know if by any miracle you'd be interested, and our dates align.

    Looking forward to seeing you in my DMs! :)

    (Second time's the charm 🤞)

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    2024/05/18
    19:01 UTC

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    39[M4F] Bangalore - Mature & Meaningful/less friendships ?

    Looking for a simple consistent and drama free friendship, with a simple woman. I know this is a kink/fetish exploring sub. But I'm looking for someone to explore with, someone I can vibe with and not be a one time thing.

    Not my first rodeo with online dating. I've met & dated people from reddit & I'm aware of how things work here. I don't hesitate to talk about feelings and emotions. At the end of the day, this has to be mutually fun and shouldn't affect our life/peace of mind. I don't want to get involved in your personal life early on, I'll respect your privacy and not meddle with your business. If required, I can be the rubber duck who'd listen to you but I don't want to comment or advise you. But eventually when things get serious, I'm willing to be an active partner in crime. I've made several mistakes and I've learnt from every one of them. With all these experiences, I'm looking to take things slow and be extra cautious while getting started. After all we are adults and we should be accountable for our own decisions.

    About me: 39 yo single guy. I’m divorced, no kids, 6’2 and beefy body type. I workout a couple of days a week and I’m healthy both physically and emotionally. I drink socially and not a smoker. I’m clean and disease free. I'm educated and well traveled. Very basic & simple in every way. Outside work, I read a little, watch a ton of shows and movies and enjoy driving so I go on frequent long drives.

    I work in IT and my hours are flexible. I’m good at what I do and I’m a very ambitious guy. I’m looking for a slow start as friends with a woman with the hope of it leading to something serious. I’m very open, upfront and sex positive. I don't hesitate discussing sensitive topics like sex, feelings, family etc. I'm shamelessly honest and I'm not gonna list that down here. If we reach there, I’m happy to discuss it.

    My career ambitions made me move & never let me settle. I’ll respect you as a person and your boundaries. I’ve clarity on what I’m looking for. I’m not looking to get involved emotionally on day 1. We can be friends & I’m looking to take things slow. I’m aware of myself and when things don't go well, I’ll discuss & call it off early rather than fucking up big time later. I’d appreciate the same from you as well.

    I can verify myself and you should be too. I’m looking for someone over 30. The older the better, mature emotionally. Be healthy, clean and disease free. If you’re intrigued by this idea, DM with a short intro. Thanks for your time.

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    2024/05/18
    18:44 UTC

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    32[M4F] Chennai - Looking for something casual and flirty with like minded person

    Hey

    It's been awhile since I came here. In the past I've met some amazing people here and made some wonderful memories. And also some not so nice ones. I learned alot and grew in the process.

    First and foremost I'm not in a position to commit to a relationship. I have a lot in my plate and a relationship is the last thing I need. But I do miss the company of a like minded person. We humans are wired that way. I prefer interesting conversations where we learn about each other and ourselves in the process.

    A little bit about me: I'm an introverted person. You can find me in malls or shopping in t nagar occasionally in Saturday evenings. Or having pani puri with a friend or two. But I do venture out on occasions. I would love to travel with the right travel buddy. I prefer nights over days. I am nerdy about computers, headphones, anime, sci fi, etc. I love listening to music of all kinds and spending time learning about music setups. I have a good sense of humour and can give you a belly ache. I'm on a constant journey for a healthy lifestyle. I love to try new foods and places.

    I seek someone who likes to keep in touch regularly (chats and/or calls) and chill out. The ideal qualities I am looking for are mature, open minded, good sense of humour, flirty and light hearted. Also patient ennojgh to wait for my reply coz I don't use my phone at work. I prefer you're in chennai too. Not a deal breaker though. Age wise 25-40 (give or take a couple of years on both sides). Relationship status is not an issue. I'm single btw. Let's get to know each other and see where this goes.

    If you're interested, send a DM or chat request. I'll get back to you when I get some free time. I prefer moving to a better platform once we establish a connection.

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    2024/05/18
    16:46 UTC

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