Dear Adventurers in Desire,

I’m a 47-year-old man from the NYC area who has recently discovered the world of tantric sex—a path that’s opened my eyes to the profound beauty of deeper intimacy, connection, and pleasure. I’ve come to realize that there’s so much more to love and desire than just the physical; it’s about savoring every moment, feeling every breath, and truly seeing the soul across from you.

I’m hoping to find a woman who feels the same pull toward a more meaningful connection—someone who wants to explore the art of tantra, where we can share slow, lingering moments filled with presence, energy, and passion. Whether you’re new to this world or have some experience, I’m open to discovering it together, allowing every touch, every look, every shared breath to mean more.

Beyond this, I’m an athletic, adventurous guy who loves staying active, learning, and experiencing all that life has to offer. If you’re someone who believes that the journey is just as important as the destination, let’s connect and see where this path might take us.

Looking forward to the possibility of something extraordinary

Hello,

Since no one reads these im putting this at the start. READ

When sending a message, please include your NAME, AGE, LOCATION AND A PHOTO IF YOU WANT A RESPONSE.

Some things about me :

\-Love to travel just wish I could afford to do it more im really interested in going to Italy and Japan among other spots. Would absolve to see the northern lights sometime!

\-- Really love all kinds of animals, probably watch 150 videos a day of dogs etc llol

\-- love to have deep logical discussions about all sorts of topics, lost cities, weird history, paranormal, ufo etc

\-- one place id like to visit for atleast two weeks is Japan

\-- accents are a bonus

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* enjoy cooking / bbq / trying new things

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* Collect cards & Funko pops as one of my hobbies

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* Not a HUGE gamer, but I do enjoy gaming for sure. I currently have a Switch OLED, would be great to have someone to beat in Mario kart

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* Speak my mind, I don't walk on eggshells around people

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* Enjoy all types of music and genres, basically if I like it ill listen to it, I have a HARD NO on anything in the ska/punk/ excessive needless horn sections etc

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* I do not drink alcohol ( it's by choice because the taste is utterly disgusting and I truly don't know how people drink daily lol ) yes I know....crazy an adult doesn't like alcohol.

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* I am 420 friendly and insist you are also.

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* I am 6'0 tall, very very broad shoulders / frame , basically built like a professional football player haha, never been a small dude, never will be

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* I have a bunch of tattoos and plan on getting many many more, eventually want to be mostly covered ( HUGE BONUS POINTS IF YOU ARE HEAVILY TATTOOED)

OBVIOUSLY like many people, there is much more to know about me but as ive grown tired rewriting these over the years, just shoot me a message to get to know each other.

NOW THE FUN PART:

HARD NO THANK YOU IF THE FOLLOWING APPLIES:

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* If you refuse to talk daily, make 50/50 effort etc

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* NO single moms

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* NO cigarette smokers

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* NO heavy drinkers

NO short hair cuts / mens style haircuts

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* NO black woman ( includes 50/50 )

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* NO ONE with a OF account / history of one ( ill find out )

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* NO history of physical or mental abuse

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* NO unhygienic people ( this includes 4" nails etc" )

\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* NO rainbow army supporters on any level

This post will trigger many, and that's the point. Fragile people aren't the ones I want in my life.

Never married, smart and educated, successful career! Looking for someone who is also preferably educated, stable life, got their act together. But 2 out of 3 ain’t bad!

Interests:

• sports
• concerts

-comedians

• science
• anything outdoors

-gardening -home projects

• reading, movies and tv
• trivia
• politics
• history
• birding

Transplanted New Yorker in Florida, Latino, separated, 5'8 with a dad bod (working on losing it) shaved head, beard, left-leaning, agnostic, dog dad, 80s/90s geek, foodie, 420 friendly, eclectic music taste.

Love having stimulating convo on a variety of topics; movies, politics, current events, sports, traveling, etc. I'm cool with exchanging pics early.

What am I looking for? I'm single for the first time in a decade, so nothing serious. Whatever happens happens. Please be in or around Orlando or NYC, unless there's mutual willingness to travel for a connection. If you're young enough to be my daughter, don't bother.

I am a canadian man that just want to discuss life in general with women about my age. My interests: kid's education, sports (running, fitness, hockey), reading, politics, history, cooking, technology and personal finance. My dislikes : cats and plants. Education : University

My rules :

• no pictures asked or sent
• no OF girls

Ladies ( married or single ) we are a couple of straight males and we would love to provide you with a 4 hand full nude body massage ( not professionals )and afterwards enjoy some mfm action. We are both ddf and vasectomy safe Both are HWP one is 6 inches and the other is 8 inches also one is 53 yrs old 187 lbs and the other is 46 yrs and 175 lbs.we are both ddf and ok with DVP and DP and 420 friendly and kink friendly. We host in one of our homes in New Albany Indiana approx 3 miles from the sherman mitton bridge and 8 miles from downtown Louisville. We are not interested in men or CDs or Trans so please dont waste our time or yours we dont give a damn if your oral skills are great your a male not interested We are both easy going and drama free and not trying to change anybodys situation just looking to have a good time. We dont live together and have completely seperate lives so we do need to schedule a few days ahead . We are open to any race and if this is still posted we are still looking.Thanks

Visiting relatives for the holiday and can only handle like two or three of the bunch so I'm trying my best to only interact with those or to simply distract myself with my phone. I love talking to people and getting to know them too. I'm open to every topic but would love if you bring a bit more to the table than a simple "hey" or unsolicited pictures of any kind. I know the nature of this sub so I'm not against going a more NSFW route either if we hit it off but you'll have to bear with me a bit as I have to share my room for the coming days.

Like today I found out I don't like when people make that weird slurping sound when they drink their hot coffee. Either wait for it to cool down or drink it straight and accept the burning tastebuds, cowards!

I also found out that people have this common habit of replying on here and then either disappearing after a few exchanges or just not saying anything at all after the initial response to hello. Strange stuff that I don't entirely understand but I guess that's part of how things go here.

It's Friday, and I came home early since I didn't want to stay out late, but I also don't feel sleepy enough to go to bed. Hence, here I am. Looking to shoot the shit, and see where the conversation goes. I'm a firm believer in not ruling out what you might find when you open yourself up to opportunities.

Are you able to guess the song that's stuck in my head these days, with just one clue?: vegemite sandwich

(tagged NSFW because why not lol)

I’ll be brutally honest…I have little to no belief that I or anyone will actually meet someone on here that they have an actual friendship with. Is it possible? Has it happened before? Sure. But is it likely? I doubt it.

90% of the time the conversations lead nowhere. The other 10% you might get a few days into talking & one of you ghosts the other.

With that being said,I’m just here to have some decent conversations about things I’m into (movies,games,basketball,football,baseball,cryptids,UFOs,paranormal etc).

Many years ago I began to give up on people…Everyone seems too wrapped up in themselves. Social media definitely hasn’t helped. It’s one of the major reasons why people have become so rude & anti-social.

41 years old,married. I’m just an average guy with a home,cars,work,family. I just so happen to be on Reddit now & then. Figured if I had a good conversation now & then that could be fun. Not expecting much.

If you’re up to talking send me a chat & tell me about yourself.

Hi! How’s your weekend going? Are you more of a stay in on the weekends with a movies/book or do you like to go out on the town? Or maybe a mixture?

For me I’m more of the stay in a chill type but I do get the itch to want to go out and do some exploring.

I’m 35M, white, blue eyes, brown curly hair and a slim build. Personality wise I’m a night owl, goofy, flirty, sarcastic, open minded and empathetic.

I love movies/tv shows, board games, sports, road trips, history, trying new foods and going on adventures.

If interested in chatting and getting to know each other to see if we vibe then I’d love to receive a message or chat from you! 😊

Keeping this short and sweet!

Non-vanilla relationship is highly preferred.

Business owner, so flexible schedule, but I do stay pretty busy. Give me a reason to take more time off!

Attend 30 shows/concerts a year. No country, New pop, or hip hop

Old fashioned values mostly, but progressive in many ways.

Cheers

I am 46 M from Seattle (WA state), Indian origin, well educated / well read. I love to be outdoors, travel, read and volunteer. My other areas of interest are economics, tech and finance.

I am looking for a mature (very important), independent lady with similar interests for a LTR (open to short). Let's get some shared activities in.

Honesty and open communication is very important to me.

I am not into playing games, will not ghost and expect not be either because as adults, we should be able to communicate in words.

Let's chat, if this piques your interest.

I miss having a chill person to chat and hang out with on the daily. After coming home from a frustrating day at work, there's nothing I like more than to relax and shoot the shit with someone while watching a movie/show or playing a game (DBD, 7 Days to Die, Don't Starve Together, and others). 

I'm not ready to give up the spooky season yet! I still have a backlog of scary movies that I didn't get a chance to watch in October, so all horror fans are welcome! I also have not seen some of the newer movies (Alien: Romulus, Deadpool & Wolverine, Beetlejuice), so those would be some options as well.

I'm a homebody, so I'm usually home besides the occasional outing. I will be traveling to Italy soon, so if you've been and have any tips or advice, I'd love to hear them :)

I'd prefer someone that is around my age, matches my dark humor, and is not easily offended. Just would be easier to get along with.

If this post somewhat speaks to you or if there's anything else you'd like to know, feel free to shoot me a message. Direct messages work better than chat on my end (no idea why). Then, if we mesh, we can move over to Discord.

Thanks for reading! Looking forward to hearing from you :D

I swear…I had just typed up the most sincere and genuine post ever and then poof I deleted it.
So, I’m going to try again. Ready? Here we go! I’m a pretty decent fella if I must say so my self. I got out of a 18 year marriage in early 2024 and haven’t had a ‘relationship’ since

Let me tell you a little about myself. And then what I’m looking for.

I’m 5’8” with brown hair and glasses and a little facial hair that’s turning white. I’m not a perfect man at all but I am working on myself and push myself daily to be better at life. I really enjoy laughing and being silly. But I can be serious. My love languages is quality time, words of affirmation and physical touch.

I’m a little below Savannah, GA but I’m very much open to a ‘long’ distance relationship within a couple hours if you’re okay with it. I know life can be stressful enough and I don’t want to add to that stress.

I enjoy sports, watching because I don’t play anymore(thanks knees). Unless it’s air hockey. Is Pinball a sport? I’d really like to go see more events. Baseball games, football games, hockey…etc. but if you look good in a jersey I’ll be focused more on you than the game.
My son is important. My greatest achievement. He’s my reason for ________. If you have children I’d expect nothing less from you. They take priority. If you don’t have kids, that’s okay. They just better make you smile. lol.

I’d like you to be genuine and kind. Open to communication. Quick to listen and slow to judge. Love to laugh and okay crying in front of me if you need to. Sharing memes and music can be how we send our smiles to one another. There’s nothing I would ask of you that I wouldn’t return to you myself.

I have a Christian background, most of my teen and adult life. But I’m not here to judge your beliefs and am open to all walks of life. I’m always up for spirited or serious conversation about the hard subjects. I’ve voted both blue and red before, and not going to hate on you for whatever color you are.

I’d love to do something crazy with you that we’ve never done before. Take a cruise, a roadtrip to nowhere, crash a wedding or whatever.

I love new relationship energy but I’d like that energy to last more than three days. And if the energy mellows not be afraid to talk about it and light a spark.

I’m not necessarily looking for a life partner here. But I’m open to it. I believe everyone comes into our lives for a reason. Maybe we’re going to come into each other lives to teach each other to smile again. Show each other the respect we deserve. Handle one another’s hearts gently and prepare each other for whatever comes next.

My thumbs are tired.

Let’s write a chapter…your first task is to get these melancholy songs off my Spotify playlist and change them out to happy tunes we can bellow out in the car together.

Thanks for reading this. I appreciate your consideration. Hope your day is full of smiles.

https://imgur.com/gallery/OczAKWs

I am extremely passionate about fitness and healthy nutrition. I do 645 minutes per week but mostly cardio. I likely exercise more then I should but I am pretty dedicated and focused.

If you wish to message me open chat and introduce yourself. (NAME, AGE, LOCATION)

So if you car (“body”) is lacking regular maintenance perhaps you should bring it in. I can give it the attention it needs and perhaps has not been been getting lately. Regardless of the size of your door handles and knobs, if they are not getting the true attention they need in order to insure they are working right and very polished, then this is a job I can handle. Besides your knobs, perhaps your bumper has not been gently touched in all the right locations, including just outside your engine, which is quite sensitive but perhaps totally ignored.

Your oils need to be slowly building up inside of your engine and perhaps overflow out a bit and perhaps be used to polish and buff your two aching knobs. Yes they are sensitive, but I am truly an expert in buffing them to the parameters that your engine require (per your instruction manual). I am also fine gently polishing and buffing your engine too, even wiping away any excess oils and leakage that may result during this polishing and buffing. I do have a very nice thick long tool which I can use to give you the final buffing you need inside your engine. It can be gentle at first then very hard and fast at the end to insure the job is properly done. Or done how you instruct me too, since this is your engine. Then I can give you some of my very special warm cream in any location you want. It will feel very soothing and I promise to pay more attention to your knobs and complete the buffing the right way before I am through. I have many years of experience and know how to polish and buff better than most men. But it is now up to you to let me demonstrate to you how skilled I am.

The mechanice is white, 6’, 200, clean shaven, very skilled hands, my equipment is well maintained and will work long and hard to get the job done the right way, I never take short cuts. I am an expert with all models, any age, paint color and size. My objective is to make your engine purr the way it should be and I recommend that if you like how will I tune up and drive your engine that you will take it back for regular maintenance. Just remember it must be used to keep it in good shape and regularly maintained,

It’s Friday night and I’m ready for and like you really need some fun, flirty, thoughtful, respectful, hilarious, gregarious, mischievous attention. It’s been a long week and all I want is someone to keep me company to talk about love, hope, sex and dreams (a song reference, too).

Long divorced professional man who wears a cape night and day. Rock n roll fool trying to live the Golden Rule. Seen the world, have plenty to say and yes I love the company of f a good woman. Let it be you.

I am dipping my toes back in after a hiatus. I am looking for something unique with a twist, that one new human connection that we can embrace and enjoy and mold to our liking. Let’s carve out our own little corner of the world and decorate it however we want, with all the colors of Life’s palette.I am 45, married, discreet, and genuinely happy with my reality but could use a little bit more excitement and exploration. I love to listen to music, play sports, write poetry, and laugh. I remain an optimist but also have rolled with enough punches to be pragmatic about it all.Physically, I’m 5’11, white/pale, with strong legs, broad shoulders, and athletic under 200 lbs. I am an experienced former Dom turned total beta sub. I love to wear sexy, colorful thongs and gstrings, as well as chastity cages and butt plugs. I love being teased and denied and called names like a pathetic pussy free gooner loser. I enjoy deep degradation mixed with praise after I stoop so low to please you.

Other things I enjoy: ballbusting, ass worship, being spit on, piss drinking, and I’ve even fantasized about being used as a full-service toilet though I know it’s not for everyone. I am looking for a real woman who is smart, confident, and emphatic as well as empathetic. If you are genuinely interested, I’d love to know your age, what really resonated with you, and your favorite thong color to either wear or see me in.

Also, kaena if you’re still out there I’m back and I miss you!

Are you a plus size woman in need of a discreet, online friendship that lets you be yourself and explore your desires? Maybe you’re married or in a poly relationship, and you need to keep this connection private. I’m here for you.

I’m looking for a woman who enjoys the idea of having a dominant pocket friend – someone to share a kinky, fulfilling experience with. If you have submissive needs and want to explore that side of yourself in a safe, comfortable space, let’s build a connection based on trust. We can dive into the details once we’ve established mutual comfort and understanding

This will stay entirely online and private. Ideally, I’m seeking women aged 30-55, with a strong preference for those 40+. If you’re in the U.S. and crave a genuine, attentive connection, I’d love to chat.

About me: I’m 33, 6’2”, 260 lbs, with broad shoulders, a hairy chest, and a beard. I have green eyes, I’m college-educated, and I’m here to offer you the attention and understanding you deserve. If this sounds like what you’re looking for, let’s start with a conversation and see where things go.

Chat me with your age and what you’re seeking – let’s see if we vibe!

I post this today not just because I’m lonely but because I’ve got that funny feeling…can you feel it?

Hi, I'm AJ. My life is a wreck at the moment. It's ridiculous that I should be here trying to meet anyone when things are in such disarray...except my gut tells me that YOU might see this. I also believe that you don’t get to meet people at “the right time”—not for you & not for them.

I’m looking for connection—like we’ve always known each other. I want us to feel close. I want us to feel that excitement when there’s a new message.

I'm funny, talented, have too much time on my hands and I care about kindness almost more than anything else in the world.

I always say I don’t know why I’m here—but it’s not true—I’m looking for you. If (you think) I mean YOU, please let me know, I’d like to chat!

I am single, my kid is grown, I’ve got health problems that sap a lot of my time and energy right now—but I’m still trying. I AM taking care of myself, even if I’m not any damned good at it. I mean, somebody’s gotta do it, right?

You could think of me as an old punk rock kid. I’m also a musician and I’ll show you pretty music, if you let me.

My sense of humor can be larger than I am and I crack jokes constantly—and they’re not all dad-jokes, even though I do have a license. They are not all very funny but that doesn’t bother me. They can’t ALL be winners!

If you think, somehow, I’m talking to you, please send me a chat message. Tell me your first name, or whatever you’d like me to call you--tell me how old you are and tell me something that gives you butterflies (the good kind).

Please include a photo of yourself & I’ll respond in kind.

AJ

P.S.—Did you ever miss someone you hadn’t met yet?

Recent Selfies: https://imgur.com/a/t5HwS4Y

I never thought I'd be here, writing this post, but life has a way of throwing curveballs. I'm a 52-year-old man living near New York City, and I've been married for over 20 years. When I first met my wife, I was captivated by her charm, her confidence, and her passion. It took me years to realize that those same qualities masked something darker—a narcissism that slowly consumed our relationship.

At first, I thought it was just a rough patch, the kind every marriage goes through. But as time went on, I saw the signs: the constant need for validation, the manipulation, the way she twisted every argument to make me feel like the villain. I stayed for our children. They were young, and I didn’t want to shatter their world by breaking up the family. I put on a brave face and convinced myself that staying was the right thing to do.

Years passed, and I hoped things would get better, that she would change or that I would somehow learn to live with the constant emotional drain. But recently, something happened that made me realize just how deep her manipulation goes. I discovered that she has been hiding money, siphoning it away for years without my knowledge. Not for our family’s future or for the kids’ education, but purely for herself, as if preparing for an escape plan.

This discovery broke me. It felt like the last piece of the puzzle fell into place, confirming what I had feared for so long—that her love was always conditional, and her loyalty was to herself alone.

I’ve come to realize that I’m no longer willing to live in this emotional prison. I’ve spent too many years feeling isolated, unheard, and unseen. I miss the feeling of a genuine connection, of someone who cares and wants to know the real me, not just the version they can control. I don’t know what I’m looking for exactly. Maybe a friend, maybe more. I just know that I need to feel alive again, to feel desired, and to have someone to share a real, meaningful conversation with—without the weight of judgment or manipulation.

If you're someone who understands what it’s like to feel lonely in a marriage, who craves real intimacy and connection, I’d love to chat. I’m not looking to rush into anything; I just need to feel something real again.

Thanks for reading.

Recently married 🤫 looking for fun I would love to meet someone and give them everything they want. I want to treat them like a princess and let my hands explore them, until the pop. DM if u want to meet and have fun

Hello, lonely people. I’m lonely too. It’s cool to see that we already have things in common.

I’m from a town close to Portland Oregon. I’m a middle aged man who lives out the daily grind of commuting, working, commuting, and then finishing out my evening as a family man (cooking, cleaning, spending time with the kids).

I’m a science geek, gamer, avid audiobook listener, and aspiring kayaker (meaning I bought a kayak and don’t know how to use it yet.)

I went through an ugly divorce after a long ugly marriage and the entire saga really cost me most of my social life.

I’m a busy man and don’t have a lot of free time so I’m reaching out for online friends.

It would actually be really cool to make some local friends so we can unite in our love of the area as well as discuss the crazy things we see living in the weirdest city in the nation.

I’m not going to list a bunch of things I’m looking for since I enjoy getting to know people of all walks of life.

I will however say that I prefer someone who isn’t too uptight or easily offended. I want to be able to talk about anything we want and I prefer to use whatever words I have at my disposal.

I may modify this later as I’m not leaving too much detail about myself here, but for now I’m hoping people reach out and we can get to know each other naturally rather than me submitting a resume here.

I’m looking forward to getting to know some interesting people!

I have a weakness for good banter and accents. I'm looking for a chat that goes beyond hi and grows into a genuine longterm connection and very open to possibilities.

I'm down to earth, nature lover, curious about almost anything and everything, happy and content with life, easy going along with a lot of other things you can find out as we get to know each other. And you're someone who is single and genuinely curious and interested in getting to know each other, happy and settled in life, and can hold a conversation other than just hi.

Do be single, between 32 and 55 years old and open to getting to know someone regardless of geographical distance and open to and can overcome it.

So c'mon, drop me a pm, tell me where you're from, your age, and what has been the highlight of this year for you so far. I'm more likely to pm/chat that is more than a hi. :)

Plus point if you're open to sharing pics and moving to other mainstream msging apps once we're comfortable.

See you in my inbox! Cheers! ;)

I like to communicate with deep and mature souls, especially men over 35 years old. They usually read more history and wisdom, and the conversation is also at a higher level. I hope our communication is not only interesting, but also can bring thoughts and enlightenment. I hope you live in the United States, no matter where in the United States, as long as it feels right for each other, I am happy to move to your side. I am also willing to meet some people who really want to build friendships and become the kind of friends who can talk about everything. I hope our interaction is not just chatting, but sharing each other's lives and views. Let's immerse ourselves in the ubiquitous dialogue!

In this rainy day I hope to find a kind single childless marriage minded man, who will have place for me under his umbrella.

Please, no low effort messages, fed up with one line messages, it's disrespectful and will be ignored.

Europe, 35 y.o.,168 sm/58 kg, pale skin, average building, long hair. Not too ugly. No kids. No bad habits. Hobbies: books, old movies, cultural events (museum, gallery, theatre). I search for intelligent ma rriage minded man, who has time, romance, opportunities, interest and efforts for me. Who will not demand sex before marriage. Who will never make me to feel, that I'm not good enough for him. Who has respect and will not hurt me. Who is able to take initiative and to write first always or at least tend to it. Who is able to organize our meet in real life very soon.

I sincerely don't expect other people to live up to my expectations. Those, who seemed to be very close to my description at first, gave the worst contact later, we stopped talking in 5 minutes. Those, who were far from my description (not absolutely far, but didn't match in some points), were very pleasant people. That's why this description is not strict demand in most of points. But definitely that can be red flags for some people, maybe, I'm not good for you, so I just save your time, in case if we are too different.

1. That one, who will want to ma rry me and will be able to meet in real life soon. Please, write in your FIRST message, when you are able to meet, if we match. Yes, it's silly to ask, when it's not clear, if it's worthy to meet in general. But why to start conversation, if no opportunity to meet in foreseen future? Relationship with a big distances demand permanent efforts. 99% of all dialogs will end in hour/day/week. Maybe, in your current life situation relationship are not priority and you have no time to stay in touch. Then better even not to start.

2. I wish to meet that man, who is stable both psychically and in his work. Often someone writes, starts conversation, but later his bad mood, difficulties at his work, unstable psychic begins to ruin conversation. It ends with his ghosting and his "offends". If you can't stay stable for me, please, even don't start. I used to work at very stressful job and understand, how strong pressure and responsibility can be. If you can't control your mood, don text.

3. You can live anywhere, if you are ready to make efforts for meet in real life. If you are not ready to make any efforts, date locals. Obviously, when there are real feelings, there is wish to make efforts, but there is certain type of people, who will never do anything, they just entertain here without anything real in mind. Even not able to write adequate first message. They send short one line messages and wait, that they will be pursued, what is maximum disrespect.

4. Very important! You are officially single, not in any form of relationship and don't have kids. No exceptions from this rule. For a pity, many people are not honest and hide their status. Relationship, that started from lies, will end soon. Please, don't lie.

5. Expect, that I'm not from your country and you will have to travel. If you date only girls from your own country and can't travel, please, don't text. I wish your documents are in order. I wish you have passport or can get it soon.

6. I search for honest serious, quiet, logical, intelligent man, who has own place or plan to have it soon and can be a provider. Your age, appearance are not important. I prefer older person, who already knows, what he wants, who's love language is acts of service, not just words. Honesty is extremely important.

7. You shouldn't be pushy about having kid fast. If you want many kids, please, don't text. You are heterosexual, no exceptions. Sex is not a main thing in relationship for you. If it is, please, don't text.

8. You shouldn't demand to share expenses, because I wish to be stay at home wif e (though I have high education and work experience).

9. You can take my problems, as your own and will not run away, when know about my health problem, that demands surgical help (not plastic surgery, but more serious. Not in urgent condition, but if not to do anything, then can become urgent. All papers are on hands, ready to prove that need, when we meet, both in papers and in together visit to surgeon). Why do I mention this? Because 99% of men expect to build relationships with successful, healthy woman without any problems, who will never need any help from him, who will not be a burden in any way, who will stay young, sexually active and healthy forever. Most of men event don't have an idea to do anything real for her. They call that "to be with a girlfriend". So I just save your time in case, if you "want a girlfriend experience" without any responsibility.

10. You are able to make voice and video calls in teleg r1am, when I ask for it (of course, after work). If you can't for any reason, please, don't text. Some people are not able to use that messenger for many reason and they tell, they don't have camera, microphone, phone or something else. Before texting, please, check, if you can have it. No, I will not ask you to get any cr1 ypro cur rency and your num ber is not needed there.

11. I am very introverted by nature and when like someone, this person becomes almost a center of my world, I don't need any other men, I'm one-man-woman. I wish someone, who is same, one-woman-men. I'm jealous and will not forgive lies and cheating, even very light things like flirting with others. I will not run after any man and will not beg for attention. That means: it is you, who is expected to develop conversation, to text first and to offer something. If you are more in passive position and expect me to pursure you, then please, don't text.

12. You will get your own space and time, I try to be respectful and understanding to your needs (until it doesn't include other women).

13. Often people hate those, who are different from them, simply just for fact of their existence. So I need someone, who will not be irritated with my existence and hobbies (mentioned it in the beginning). I don't expect you to share these hobbies, but I just ask to be ok with it. It's difficult to imagine, that someone, who is deeply in gaming, sport, cosplay, k-pop will accept me as I am. I can't share mentioned activities, just not my thing. But I definitely will be ok with you doing your hobbies. Even if I can't join.

14. Very important ! Low efforts message will be ignored. First message MUST have at least 10 sentences about you and date of possible meet, if everything works. Respect my wish, please. You don't have to be big conversationalist, but a short message is a personal disrespect for me. Hope, you are respectful gentleman and will make efforts.

If you feel something common and think, you can be that man, then, please, write me about yourself and let's start our conversation. Thanks for your attention.

I have been getting that itch for some human interaction. I have two boys at home with me who are great but sometimes you just need to talk to another adult ya know? Id love to find someone to talk to and hang out with IRL! Not looking for pen pals but someone who would actually want to meet up while the boys are in school to grab lunch, go see a movie or hell, go to a museum or park. Genuinely get to know each other and become good friends. I'm not pushing any kind of relationship agenda but if the stars align, I'm not opposed to it. I'm definitely more focused on friends first and someone to talk to while I'm at work or alone at home while they are in school.

I love to do all kinds of things. Really into my health journey right now so it'd be great if we could go for a walk or workout together and share recipes. I love cooking, gardening, home diy projects, thrift/yard sale shopping, arts and crafts (sewing, drawing, painting), cooking/baking, reading, complete concert junkie, going to plays, museums, national parks, hiking, kayaking, camping, collecting bad taxidermy.

I'm a clean and tidy type - messes give me severe anxiety. I have ADD an am on medication for it, I love to laugh - it's the quickest way to my heart, very down to earth, I don't take myself too seriously, I have a good job/house/car/truck (my baby), I don't care about race, height, or body type.

I'm 5'9, swf, grey eyes, shoulder blade faded bleached hair and natural roots (I dye it and change it up) a few piercings, lots of tattoos (and want so many more) and plus sized. (No, that doesn't mean I'm hourglasses shaped or have a tiny waist with thick thighs and a donkey you can bounce a quarter off of) Just a boring old potato on stilts.

Anywho, reach out if you wanna chat and get to know each other! PLEASE send a little info about you instead of just "Hi"

CONDITIONS

Please be a woman, childfree, religion-free, and plus-sized. Thank you.

MY FEATURES

Atheist, skeptic, antinatalist, misanthrope, efilist. Introvert, deep thinker, politically left-leaning voter. Scientific and evidence-based worldview. Has some mental quirks. Not the best but not the worst in social situations. Not an animal person. Other likes: PC gaming, PC hardware, horror stories, very hot/spicy food, creative writing (fiction and non-fiction), drinking alcohol. Gainfully employed in IT career. Has own house in a suburb of Bloomington, Indiana. Drives a plug-in hybrid car. Debt-free. Disease-free. Vasectomy. Vaccinated against Covid-19, the flu and HPV. Exclusively attracted to plus-sized women. Caucasian, long blonde hair, earrings, average body size. Pictures available upon request.

Hello, wonderful women of London in your 40s and beyond! 🌟

I'm on a quest for companionship with a lady who's not only carried her years with grace but has also embraced her curves with pride. If you're looking for someone who appreciates beauty in all its forms, someone to share laughter, stories, and perhaps more, then let's embark on this journey together!

About Me:

• I've navigated through life with humor, kindness, and a love for the arts.
• Passionate about exploring new places, whether they're in London or the depths of conversation.
• Seeking something genuine, where we can share both the simple moments and the potential for something deeper.

If You Are:

• Confident, embracing life's journey with all its ups and downs.
• Looking for a connection that values personality, depth, and the joy of company.
• Open to new experiences or deepening connections with mutual respect and understanding.

Let's connect! Send me a message, and let's see where this could lead. Whether it's an afternoon in a quiet park or a cozy dinner with wine, I'm excited to meet you.

Can't wait to hear from you!

P.S. If you're into music, books, or have a taste for spontaneous trips, we might just click perfectly.

Married dad here who really enjoys chatting with others online and getting to learn about them.

I’m currently training for a half marathon and stay pretty active with running, cycling, and hiking.

I enjoy reading, and usually go for sci-fi and fantasy novels.

I’m a big baseball and college football fan, and I follow other sports as well.

I also have a few pics on my profile that range from fully clothed to the Full Monty if you’re interested in taking a peek.

Feel free to message me if you’re interested in chatting.