/r/PaganR4R

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This subreddit is for all varieties of Pagans to find other Pagans for in-person friendships, platonic meet ups, dating, friends with benefits, long term relationships, or other nonhierarchical, group activities.

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52 [M4M] Hellenic pagan

I am a Hellenic and Roman pagan, also practice shamanism extensively. I’m looking for friendships and chat. I am increasingly practicing dionysian worship, which I’m hoping to take more into harnessing the power of kundalini. Maybe not quite tantra, but in some way reviving classical ecstatic practices.

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2024/04/26
17:57 UTC

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22[MTF4R] US

Hi everyone I’m new to the Reddit pagan community and looking to make some online friends to maybe chat and talk over discord. Some info on me, I’m an eclectic pagan and witch and pretty shy when it comes to meeting new people. Some of my interests lie in demonoltry, chaos magick, tarot, and plenty more. I was out of practice for a few years but have got back into it in the last few months and maybe looking for mutual information sharing as well. Feel free to message me if you’re interested in chatting and maybe being friends. :)

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2024/04/26
04:13 UTC

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19[M4M] SW Michigan, US

Hello! Im a Celtic and Norse polytheist and witch looking for a relationship. I like hanging out in nature, my hobbies are art and writing abut looking to find other stuff to do. I currently have no pagan friends or even anyone to celebrate the holidays with. If you’re a pagan guy 18-40 please dm me 🙏.

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2024/04/25
23:56 UTC

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21 [M4F] Pennsylvania, USA.

Hello, my names Kenny and Im a Hellenic Polytheist. Im 21 and live in New Castle, PA, USA. I make this post as I wanna find a women around my age that shares a similar set of beliefs as me. As I find dating athiests, and Abrahamics not working out in the long term. I wanna meet someone who can spirituality connect with me and I them. I find it extremely hard to find any pagan women around my age as well as near my area, so I pray that by putting this post out there maybe I'll find a best friend as well as a partner I can spend my life with. I enjoy video games, books, anime, and all sort of amazing shows on the many streaming platforms. My DMs are open to anyone who's interested in getting to know me.

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2024/04/25
02:44 UTC

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22 [nb4a] Colorado- baby witch looking for friends and knowledge

Hello there I’m 22 years old non-binary and new to witchcraft. I wanna make some friends who I can talk to and learn more about witchcraft through. I have a big interest in witchcraft, Wicca and paganism. I wanna know more about all of it and get more into the community.

I’m into learning more about crystals, tarot, god and goddesses, eclectic witchcraft, the sabbaths, good books to read, and anything else you would love to share.

I’m also into video games, reading, art and crafts, nature, animals, cartoons, animation, YouTube, music, nerdy goblin things and more.

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2024/04/21
16:22 UTC

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28[M4A]USA,Arizona

Hey everyone!

Names Roman, and I’ve been struggling to find other Pagan friends. I really don’t have many friends irl to begin with, but that’s more of a choice than a problem lol. Anyway. I’m personally a Lokean Heathen with specific dedication to Loki and Hel. Would love to find others in the US and maybe state with similar interests. DM’s are always open. 😁

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2024/04/21
03:34 UTC

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23[F4R] Manchester, England. Looking for friends

Hello, I’m a 23 year old woman. I recently moved to the area and I’m looking for people to meet up with to talk about witchcraft. I’m fairly new to the craft and want someone to help keep me motivated to learn. A little about me, I’m particularly interested in divination and herbalism. I currently live on my own with two cats. I like writing and painting. Recently got a house with some garden space, so I’m trying to get into gardening. I’d like to meet someone who I can practise with, visit magical places, have some experiences together and go on a spiritual journey with.

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2024/04/19
06:07 UTC

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33 [M4M] Indianapolis, IN

Gay cisgender male here! I'm new to paganism, but I consider myself an expert at being gay! In the process of transitioning to a new apartment and job position, so I'm looking to open myself up fully to these changes and join with someone else on a journey of mutual discovery. I'm looking for someone kind, but kinky; interesting with a dark sense of humor, but a heart of gold. That's not too much to ask, is it?

I'm particularly drawn to Cernunnos, Pan, and other similar gods of nature, fertility, and green things. I would like to become more close and enamored with nature to try and improve my physical and emotional health. I'm a vers top and enjoy cuddling, touch, and exploring desires together in an open, healthy, and adult way

3 Comments
2024/04/18
22:56 UTC

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24 [F4A]US Looking for friends

Hey there! Been about half a year since my original post so I figured I'd try again. I am in Southern US looking for friends to talk to and maybe hang out with one day. I love cats and have fuzzy babies of my own. Recently got back into pottery because I managed to snag an open studio access slot at my college before they sold out. Hadn't realized how much I missed it until now. I go almost every day if I can to work on little projects. I love creative writing and am currently working on a series. Marvel and Studio Ghibli are favorites of mine for movies. I am a Norse Pagan who practices animism as well. Loki likes to play tricks when I'm bowling. At least I think he does. I can't explain some of what goes on during any given game so I assume he's having fun with me 😆

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2024/04/17
00:56 UTC

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21[F4M] NY/CT Area - Looking for someone genuine to spend time with.

Hello, I'm 21f and living in the NY/CT area. I'm happy to meet people around new England but would prefer in-person contact as well as online. I'm an eclectic pagan, I pull from quite a few systems but, if anyone asks, I tell them I'm a polytheist. I'm currently gaining a degree in psych and was recently accepted into an educational psychology PhD. I'm looking for like-minded individuals, maybe you're an academic or scholar yourself and incorporate this into your practice. I don't do hookups or fwb. I'm just looking for friends at the moment but if it grows into something more, why not?

I consider myself apolitical. I much prefer to discuss philosophy, comparative religion, art, or magic over politics/current events. I'm not into much media, I like reading nonfiction books, writing poetry, and making my own art. I'm laid-back and open-minded.

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2024/04/15
19:51 UTC

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50[M4F] Hampton Roads VA

Hello group. I'm a long time Pagan ( Shamanism) and have never had much interaction with other pagans. I am interested in meeting new people who live in the same region. My only requirement is that you must love animals. I'm a very open minded person, very compassionate and caring, and very creative.

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2024/04/14
19:03 UTC

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22[F4A] Bristol County MA Baby Witch LF Anyone!

Hello! This is a shot in the dark seeing as I haven’t seen anyone from my area but I’m looking for folks from Bristol County or surrounding counties to be pals (maybe more with time)!

I’m a devotee of Hekate and currently in my shadow work and learning phase. I’m currently graduating college in May for Animation and coming back home. Im a gaming nerd and a generally shy person but I’m trying to break out of my shell. I’d love to meet people irl to talk to.

Shoot me a message!

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2024/03/23
23:55 UTC

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23 [TM4TM] Midwest US looking for fellow transmasc demonolators for connection or relationship

hey there! thought i’d take a crack at this subreddit.

i’m a practising demonolator from the midwestern area- Iowa to be specific. i’m hoping to find connections with other transmasculine demonolators within the Miswestern region, as i think it’d be nice to connect with other t guys; especially if they share similar spiritual views.

platonically, i’m fine with any age. roamntically, i prefer my potential partners to be 24-32, though 20-23 also works. the dealbreaker is 18-19, monogamous, and not kink friendly.

other info abt me: i’m t4t gay, i’m poly and fairly kinky, and have been on T since september 2023. i’ve been involved in the occult since i was 14 and specialise in both folk and ceremonial magic; my specific demonolatry path is the Draconian Tradition and i hope to one day have a full membership at the Temple Of Ascending Flame. outside of my occult shit, i’m an avid ttrpg gamer, an aspiring writer, an artist, and i love reading. my pleasure read is Dune by Frank Herbert.

for now though, asking for connections via reddit will do. if you’re interested in chatting, send over a selfie and state your favourite book!

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2024/03/23
10:14 UTC

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24[F4M]Poplar Bluff, MO looking for someone to create a connection with

Hello, my name I Melissa and I’m looking for someone to create a connection with. I’ve struggled with my personal life and I’m working to build my life back up. I’m a single mother that became Norse Pagan about a month ago. I also practice witchcraft. Unfortunately, I come from a highly religious family. I’ve always been loyal to my partner, and I take care of my family. I’m loud, kinda annoying, and emotional. I love animals, music, books, crafts, and food. Just a warning, I have ADHD and CPTSD, so I have issues. Due to my family and personal support, I’m not leaving Southeast Missouri again

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2024/03/15
03:15 UTC

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20 [F4A] In New England Looking for Connections

Hi there! My name is Maria and I'm a newly-practicing Pagan, learning to work with the Irish Gods. I'd love to find fellow pagans in or around Massachusetts/New England. Friends, relationships, community, anything. Even if you're far away, I'd love to chat and I have nobody to discuss spirituality with in my day to day life.

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2024/03/12
00:04 UTC

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27 [NB4R] Houston TX USA - looking for friends

Name's Lionel, but I live with my dad whom I am not out to because he's phobic, so please refer to me as my deadname around him. I'll let you know what it is once we talk some.

I'm AFAB + trans + genderqueer. I live in the Oak Forest/Garden Oaks area, JSYK.

I'm a Kemetic witch with side interests in Loki and Dionysos.

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2024/03/11
19:59 UTC

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20 [M4F] Looking for a soul mate

Im a greek pagan guy from Pennsylvania , USA looking for a partner around my age who shares the same passion of paganism and the reverence for the Gods an Goddesses. I enjoy video games and watching shows. I love anime and I enjoy reading as well.

Id love to go out on a date in nature. Im still working on getting my driver's license. But I hope to one day take my partner on romantic dinner dates or go to the movies.

3 Comments
2024/03/06
10:50 UTC

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30 [M4F] Ruhr-Valley, Germany - Inexperienced Norse Pagan searching for someone to go on a date with or to have some nice connections and exchanges

Hi,
I'm Dennis, and while I identify as a pagan for pretty much half my life now, up until recently I didn't do much more then occasionally pray and trying to live in an honourable way.
A year or so ago that changed and my practice has become gradually stronger, to the point where I'd want my next (and hopefully last) relationship to be with someone who shares that with me.
So while I would very much like to find my special someone, a connection with other pagans would also be very appreciated.
Thanks for reading,
I'd love to hear from you

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2024/02/19
23:13 UTC

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24 [M4R] Online - Looking for fellow pagan friends

Hello everyone!

I'm Alex, 24 years old, from the USA, and currently a computer science student in college.

I'm a Graeco-Roman pagan and I live in the Bible belt of the US, so it can be pretty easy to feel out of place here. I don't know any other single pagan person so im looking for an online pagan friend to have someone to talk to about that stuff :)

I have several hobbies, such as programming, painting, arts and crafts, gardening, hiking, playing video games, books (sci fi, horror, philosophy, classics), creative writing, houseplants.

As to regards to my practice, I'm polytheistic, animist, and I'm into things like divination, astrology and folk magic. I'm very much still developing my practice and beliefs so it would be nice to have someone to talk about each other's practices and interests :)

If you're interested feel free to message me! I accept all genders and Identities as long as you're okay that I am POC and LGBT.

Hope everyone has a great day!

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2024/02/19
17:45 UTC

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30 [M4F] United States – Let me be your superhero.

Hello, my name is Greg, and I am north-eastern Pennsylvania. I am looking for a serious relationship with someone who I have good chemistry with, and who shares my values. I graduated with a bachelors degree in communications. I am ENTJ according to the Meyer-Briggs Personality Test. I am 5'11, chubby, with dark curly hair, and brown eyes. I am very left-wing in my politics, and I am an atheopagan if that's a deal breaker. I am a socialist, environmentalist, and sex-positive feminist. I am child-free, and not interested in changing that at this time. No Trump supporters, or anti-vaxxers need apply.

My hobbies are anime, video games, table-top roleplaying games, Warhammer 40K, Yugioh, and Tarot. I mostly listen to metal, alternative, and punk music. I am mostly a night owl, and I love spending time with my friends and meeting new people. I don't really drink that much, but I do like a nice mix-drink or glass of wine. My idea of a perfect date is spending the day together at a museum, zoo, or an aquarium then going somewhere nice to eat after. I also like the idea of a beach date, or dinner and a movie. My love language is quality time, words of affirmation, and physical touch. I would want someone who is a little clingy, and emotionally available. Voice chatting is very important to me, and once I trust you I would like to talk on Discord or Facebook Messenger. I hope you are okay with plenty of cuddling, making out, and physical intimacy in our relationship.

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2024/02/18
10:36 UTC

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22 [M4F] Malaysia(planned on going to Brazil) looking for any possible lovers/chieftess

My name is Daemian Hawk, and I'm here looking for a romantic partner, a possible chieftess and, hopefully, my soulmate. I am currently in the broom closet but will soon be free. There may be better times to make such a post, but I hope it works out.

I hope to meet someone who is understanding, loving, and family-orientated. My interests are fantasy (sci-fi included), philosophy, mystical practices, history, cultural studies and more (learn more personally) I'm 5'7 tall, curly black hair, brown eyes, INFJ, Dyslexic, traditionalist but more open-minded, meritocratic, prefer green than concrete, dropped out from middle school ever since, good at cooking, cuddle bug, gamer, a potential house husband, loves to garden in the rain and climb trees :3 I plan to create a village with my clan(found family). If you are interested, you can help make the dream come true and we both can become it's leaders. Important note: I won't be accepting those from the USA due to my experience and advice given to me. Feel free to prove me wrong, but that's my only 'rule' for lack of a better word.

That's all for now. Thank you for taking the time to read this post, and may everyone have a blessed day.

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2024/02/14
08:32 UTC

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20 [F4R] Wisconsin Coven or Friends

Hello! I was looking for some friends or people who would be interested in starting a coven/just getting to know people. I do have a discord for people to join if they are interested. I am a college student who's getting into their craft and wants to learn from others. I'm queer so I'm very interested in queering the craft/getting to know people who are also queer and witchy. Happy to have conversations with anyone interested!

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2024/02/13
02:33 UTC

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50[M4F] Atlanta area Occult Magick friend in Atlanta area.

HI, I've been intrigued by occult for most of my adult life. My focus has been more modern spirituality while focusing on my career. I actually found dating fairly hard to meet people even with those similar interests. As ive moved into more Magick practice ive decided to specifically look for peoplewith same interests. On the surface i probably look like a regularcorporate dude, in good shape, normal looking life. Lol. I would love to find a soulmate but I'm really looking for friendships. If it turns romantic great but really looking for someone to do things with that I can discuss and grow spirituality with. I usually date outside my race (W) but I'm open to all.

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2024/01/17
19:46 UTC

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24[NB4R]North TX/DFW - Looking for friends & potential coven-mates!

Hey! I'm Virgo. I'm 24 and I live in North Texas. I'm looking for other witchy/pagan friends to talk with and maybe meet up with, and perhaps form a coven with! My practice is a bit all over the place, but here are some important notes: I am wildly supportive (and a part of) the LGBTQIA+ community, so I have minimal interest in the "divine feminine/masculine" concept I do not vibe well with Wiccans/Wiccan laws I am currently researching traditional witchcraft and chaos magic I do not worship any gods or goddesses, but I love hearing and learning about them from all different cultures!

If this sounds like something you can vibe with, feel free to message me directly!

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2024/01/01
08:39 UTC

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28 [M4R] Washington, USA- Norse Pagans in Seattle/Tacoma?

I've been in Washington for bit over a year, and made the decision to try to be more active in my faith, and to socialize more with the local Norse Pagan community. The goal is to try to make a few friends, learn from people who have insights that I lack on the path, and hopefully knit myself tighter into a sense of community in my recently adopted home State. I've considered myself Norse pagan for about 5 years, but the last couple have seen my focus diverted to other matters and the spiritual in my life was the most neglected aspect. I think it best if I approach this as if I had newly come to the table, and hope to find people who are as enthusiastic in sharing what they may have gleaned as I am in learning. Here's to hoping for community.

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2023/12/31
08:16 UTC

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30 [M4F] United States, or Online – Emotionally supportive man looking for intimate relationship.

Hello, my name is Greg, and I am in north-eastern Pennsylvania. I am looking for a serious relationship with someone who I have good chemistry with, and who shares my values. I graduated with a bachelors degree in communications. I am ENTJ according to the Meyer-Briggs Personality Test. I am 5'11, with dark curly hair, and brown eyes. I am very left-wing in my politics, and I am an atheopagan if that's a dealbreaker. I am a socialist, environmentalist, and sex-positive feminist. I am child-free, and not interested in changing that at this time. No Trump supporters, or anti-vaxxers, need apply.

My hobbies are anime, video games, table-top role-playing games, Warhammer 40K, Yugioh, and Tarot. I mostly listen to metal, alternative, and punk music. I am mostly a night owl, and I love spending time with my friends and meeting new people. I don't really drink that much, but I do like a nice mix-drink or glass of wine. My idea of a perfect date is spending the day together at a museum, zoo, or an aquarium, then going somewhere nice to eat after. I also like the idea of a beach date, or dinner and a movie. My love language is quality time, words of affirmation, and physical touch. Voice chatting is very important to me, and once I trust you I would like to talk on Discord or Facebook Messenger. I hope you are okay with plenty of cuddling, making out, and physical intimacy in our relationship.

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2023/12/25
05:03 UTC

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31 [M4M] Ontario, Canada

Hello, everyone! I'm from the province of Ontario, Canada. I'm an eclectic pagan - a mix of Wiccan traditions and polytheist reconstruction with a heavy focus on Celtic mythology and LGBTQ+ themes in many different beliefs. I've started to become an active solitary practitioner for some years and built a beautiful altar at home. I'm living in a small town and it's hard to find other Pagans here, so I have to travel across Ontario, from Toronto to Ottawa.

History is my passion and I have a degree in world civilizations from ancient times. Some of my favorites are Ancient Egypt, the Aztecs, the Maya, the Celtic peoples, and Ancient Persia. My focus is reconnecting to my Irish heritage and I learned a lot to understand the old Celtic ways and beliefs. Bonus point if you love history, too!

My goal is to find a gay-friendly coven somewhere to connect with like-minded people. I hope to start participating in group rituals and festivals rather than doing it at home all the time. I would love to share the experience with someone and maybe fall in love with him.

Some fun facts about me: I know ASL (American Sign Language), Sagittarius, love to travel around the world, movie/TV series enthusiast, passionate hiker and enjoy nature, bookworm (I have too many books to count!), and I'm politically liberal.

Feel free to DM me! Blessed be. ;)

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2023/11/29
23:39 UTC

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29[M4M]Texas

Hey there! I'm a Pansexual/Gay Trans Man. The names Cyrus and I live in East Texas (ETX). I'm separated, but still married, and sharing living space. Getting my place together soon. Looking for friends first, and maybe we could have something more. I'm American/Brazilian🇺🇸🇧🇷 and speak Portuguese. I'm a Dad to twins. I'm into leather working, reading, history, science, bushcraft, DIY, games, sharks, anime, space, vinyls, animals, design, nature, self sufficiency, and lots more. I want to get started in blacksmithing and bladesmithing. I can't do horror movies. I do enjoy Tales from the Crypt types. I'm disabled and have health problems that comes and goes. I've been doing better lately. Neurospicy and a picky eater. I'm new to Paganism, but really into Hellenism, traditional Pagan holidays, tarot, reiki, spells, palmistry, ect. My life goals are to be as healthy and active as possible, love what I do for work, and live, more or less, off grid. I want to be self sustainable and homestead. Wanna homestead with me? 😀 Private time: ↗️ Vers Top, Dom, BDSM, Kinky AF. Love cuddles. ♥️

PSA: I'm a man, not a woman. I have a deep voice, as well as body and facial hair. Ages 27-35, plz.

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2023/11/27
04:11 UTC

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28 [F4R] Waterloo, ON Canada

I am very new to exploring my witchy side :) I would love to find a couple people in my area to connect with and learn from or learn together. I have been working with crystals mostly but and starting to focus more on the basics right know and would love to learn more about other tools and ways of doing things with witchcraft.

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2023/11/21
21:46 UTC

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33 [F4MF] Austin - poly primal tantric nomad seeking life partners

I am an intense, polyamorous, switch, bisexual, nomadic, shamanic, half Greek, tantric practitioner, and empath

love language: energetic touch Kinks: using kink as a means for spiritual/emotional growth, exhibitionism, primal, (ask for my other kinks)

SEEKING: 2 Life partners

First partner: Male 27-38 Dominant leaning primal fiery switch You are like thick slow moving magma. You have some Native American or UK ancestry You are a Deep intense powerful empathic magickal conductor Leader

Second partner: 27-38 Any gender other than male beautiful, airy, playful, fae-like, ethereal, inter-dimensional, deeply submissive, pain slut, intuitive

RELATIONSHIP INTENTIONS: All of us are deeply and powerfully intuitive, empathic magickal, mindful and intimate. Our relationship is principally a spiritual path for us. Other purposes of our relationship are deep intimacy, spiritual growth, companionship, adventure partners, play partners, teammates, emotional support, and empowerment. We are all very capable of and love power, surrender, vulnerability, support, intimacy, authenticity.

We all own our power, desires, and mistakes.

RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS: Our lives rapidly organically grow to interweave together. Our lives, our bodies, our desires, and the whole of our beings fit together perfectly like puzzle pieces. We three are the core group, the foundation. We have a bond as deep and as solid as the roots of an oak tree.

We have the perfect balance of freedom and connection; like dancing serpents, we weave in and out of each others lives sometimes all three of us taking time to ourselves or with other lovers sometimes just two of us spending time together while the third takes time to themselves but most often we live and love our lives together.

LIFE STYLE: We live, love, play and work together as powerful sexual, magickal, and nomadic teacher healers. We have no children. Together, we bring in more money then we even know what to do with, all while traveling the world living mostly naked in nature on our sail boats and/or campers. Together we are positively impacting the sexual well being of the world. We are living to our fullest potential.

Please private message me with a photo and a little about yourself if you are an interested nomadic, polyamorous empath into emotional/spiritual growth

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2023/11/18
16:13 UTC

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