/r/PaganPenPals
A place to find a Pagan pen pal and exchange letters, emails, postcards, instant messages, or whatever you please.
A place to find a Pagan pen pal and exchange letters, emails, postcards, instant messages, or whatever you please.
Only posts and comments made for the purpose of finding pen pal matches are allowed.
Advertisements for online or in-person communities are not permitted.
Overtly sexual or romantic posts and comments will be removed and directed to post in /r/PaganR4R.
Hierarchical posts and comments, such as those seeking or offering mentorship or menteeship, are not permitted.
All posts must have at minimum 400 characters (roughly 80 words) - tell us a bit about yourself.
Addresses, emails, and the like should be exchanged via private messages, not in posts or comments.
Banned users cannot comment. Therefore if you receive a comment from a user on your post before receiving a PM / DM, you can be sure that they have not caused trouble in this subreddit before.
If someone messages you without a comment, please feel free to ask them to make a comment in your thread first and cite this rule.
A simple "PMing you." will suffice; your comment does not need to be lengthy.
Do not:
• proselytize - attempt to persuade others to convert to a religion or belief system.
• evangelize - promote or preach about a religion, with the purpose of conversion.
• gatekeep - arbitrarily restrict who has rights to an open community or identity. There is no "correct" way to be a "true" Pagan.
• advocate for cultural appropriation - support the idea that anyone, uninvited, can publicly claim practices and / or the identity of a closed religion or culture.
Incivility is defined in this subreddit as:
• abusive language - remarks intended to be insulting, mocking, belittling, dismissive, or threatening,
• pushing personal boundaries - insisting on debate, aggressively / intrusively critiquing or challenging beliefs,
• trolling - intentionally instigating conflict, and
• calling for violence.
We do not tolerate support or promotion of folkish or far-right ideologies, talking points, content, apologia, sympathies, or organizations.
This includes any exclusionary or supremacist views, arguments in favor of the restriction of personal autonomy, and recruitment tactics.
Should your profile reveal that you submit or support language or content in violation of this rule, you may be permanently banned.
/r/PaganPenPals
Hi! Still finding myself and studying. I would love to have some meaningful exchange and learn more about different paths. I look forward to meeting people with different paths that are willing to share their experiences working with deites, ancestors, and etc and hear about how you chose that path.
I specially love crystals and have started learning tarot :)
(english is my second language, I speak portuguese and some spanish, so feel free to message in any of these languages)
I am a 33 year old eclectic pagan witch. I have been studying witchcraft and metaphysical topics since childhood, but practicing for around 15 years. I am hugely interested in tarot and astrology, and I tend to gravitate toward the Greek pantheon. My practice has been primarily solitary, but I have found myself craving more community and connection, and I currently lack any pagan friends. I am truly looking for anyone who considers themselves a pagan and possesses kindness and an open mind with ideas to share.
Some of my other interests include writing, singing and music, vintage and antiques, art, crafting, history, theology, psychology, philosophy, and so much more. I am a serial hobbyist who loves to learn and to talk. I am very creative, passionate, and curious.
I am a Cancer sun, Leo moon, and Sagittarius rising. What about you?
I just want to meet someone like that so that we have common interests and hopefully help each other grow?
I used to have a friend with whom I shared my beliefs irl but I moved to another place so now it feels kind of lonely and I want to keep myself grounded. I hope that’s ok 👍🏻👍🏻
if any of y’all are interested let me know. My time zone is in Europe so I would prefer if you’re from there because of schedule, however it’s also okay if you’re from somewhere else.
Hey! I'm hoping to find a lady to get yo know and chat with. If you're also on the pagan/witchy path even better! Even more better if you share my ADHD tendencies. I am fairly new to the pagan path and witchcraft. So my interests are pretty ecectic currently. I have been reading alot into celtic and norse paganism as of late. Thank you for reading and reach out if interested. If you're also newish that'd be cool too so we can grow together.
Hello! My name is Heather, I and from the USA. I currently live in Kentucky, but I’m not really from there. I’ve lived in many states and love to travel
I’m a bit more traditional, as far as practice and lifestyle is concerned. I’m happily married (we’ve been together since I was 18) and I have 4 (going on 5) children who I homeschool. I prefer female penpals but I’m willing to write to males if it’s like a “family penpal” situation.
One of my kiddos has autism that’s pretty profound, which makes it hard to make friends in person because people can be judgy of him. I have been told by drs that I likely am as well, but my friends say you wouldn’t really notice unless you already knew a lot about it, but they’re also not surprised lol. I’m not sure what that means but on top of living in a very Christian state, well, I’m just glad I love to write because penpals are and awesome way of finding likeminded friends!
Besides being a norse pagan, I am pretty crafty. I like to make soaps, candles, wire trees, woven jewelry, as well as build wooden furniture and do a little wood burning. I really like home renovation and dream to someday own my own land and house. I love to read and learn and I am current writing a pagan friendly homeschool curriculum.
Hi! my name is Mars and i’m 19. I’m from Italy and i’ve been studying wicca for a solid 4 years now. This year I started to seriously practice and I’m still learning a lot. This year will also be my first time celebrating Samhain!!! Here i don’t know any wiccan or witch, so id really love to have someone to share my experiences with and maybe become friends :) Also i recently got into tarot reading and i LOVE it.
Here are some info about me: i have a dog (black lab) and two cats, i still go to high school as i lost one year unfortunately, im vegetarian going vegan, i love to take walks in nature with my dog and i also love hiking, i like to cook, and in my free time i like to make art projects such as painting, sculpting or whatever it is lol.
If you are around my age feel welcome to contact me❤️❤️ (Please be over 18 yo)
Hey! I hope you can be my place 😇 i live in the UAE where there is NOTHING or if there is is highly underground as witchcraft its illegal here 🙈🙈🙈. I have had witchennes with me all my life , naturally, but i feel its time to learn more. i would say im an eclectic witch , i have been reading tons of books and scriptures and experimented with spells but always on my own. I would love to find my community. If you think you might be able to help me i will be happy to fill in any form needed 🙏🙏🙏 also best i stay here or on discord?
My path is.
Thursatru working with the Primordial Forces, I also work with Hades and have an Interest in Ares. I do work with others.
My main interest is learning about forging ingredients of any kind. I just want to obtain that knowledge more than anything. I'm also curious about what working with Ares is like. I understand that one practitioner towards another will be different, and I get that. I also wanted to say that instead of typing more about me you can click on my profile and look at what I've posted and commented on to gather information about me as a person. If you're interested, yes you can send me an inbox message.
Thanks for reading :)
My name is Vi (23/F) and I have been practicing for 9 years now. I was raised with magick and have followed a pretty light to gray path the majority of the time. I've always loved necromancy and speaking with spirits but I am lately being called to work w more demonic energies. I'm wanting to learn as much as possible about them and would love to chat w someone about them!
Sagittarius/Sagittarius/Aquarius Manifesting Generator Life Path Number 22
hi there!
my name is collectively Bento, although i go by many other names. i'm plural, unlabeled gender-wise, 19 years old, and go by they/it pronouns collectively. i am disabled as well, so my energy is very low a large portion of the time.
i've been a practicing witch for a solid 2-4 years, although i've been very on-and-off due to low energy. i'm also a Hellenic polytheist, though i've only considered myself such for a week or so now. during the past few weeks, however, i've been learning everything i can about the gods (while trying to keep my energy in check). i have more beliefs than just Hellenic polytheism as well, but i won't go in-depth about that here lol.
most of my interests outside of my craft includes, but is not limited to: analog horror, certain games (Minecraft, FFXV [somewhat], and animal crossing are all the first games to come to mind), character and story creation, plants, crystals/gems, and more! oh yeah, and i'm into diamond painting.
most of what i'm looking for is someone who can relate to me on at least a few of these things, although i'm welcoming to others who are interested in other things as well! even being a Hellenic polytheist isn't mandatory as i'm always open to other beliefs. i simply want to be able to talk about witchcraft and our personal beliefs together.
my main preference for communication is Discord, as most of my other friends and communities are through there, so my chances of seeing your messages is a lot higher that was as opposed to using phone messaging. just keep this in mind when DMing.
Hello, My name is Patrick. I am a 34 year old man living in Barcelona, Spain. I am originally from the US. I was raised Mormon but left the church when I was 14. Since then I have been formally initiated into Gardnerian Wicca, the Minoan Brotherhood, and Thelema's O.T.O. I am also taking the OBOD Bardic training. Informally, I have studied and continue to study Quareia, other forms of Druidry, non-Wiccan witchcraft, renaissance astrology, and medieval grimoires. The nucleus of my interest is in fin-de-siecle British magick, though yours need not be. I am interested in people's ideas and lived experience.
Outside of the occult, I enjoy various arts and crafts, especially painting and knitting; cooking; and spending time out in nature, whether it be in parks, hiking, or camping. I do not favor the beach as I burn quickly, though a beach at night can be very fine.
Any sort of contact is fine, though my preference will be for slow media, so even if we end up speaking through email or instant messenger, it will likely take me more than a few minutes to respond.
Hey all! Im a practicing norse pagan out of midwest/south US. I would love to meet both likeminded people and discuss with anyone of pagan beliefs!
Ive only been practicing a few years so im relatively uneducated in some aspects and would love to seek advice and connect.
A little about me; I am an artist! I am a contract stage manager and actor and so I travel around working quite a bit, i have a cat that is the love of my life. I enjoy reading, games, writing, all types of things and I would love to chat :)
Hi! I’m aqua (she/they) and I’m a sea witch slowly getting into Hellenism, and am looking for fellow witches and/or Hellenist to befriend, share tips and discuss our practices :)
About me: I am a Bahamian Sea Witch who has started to try dabble in Hellenism since last year (2023)- I’m not that well practiced due to ADHD and religious family stuff. I am an artist and love the ocean, fandom and world building/ DND- I also play a lot of indie games, especially farming sims. Feel free to free to message me if you are interested : D
(feel free to message me even if this post is old)
Hello! I’m a 26 year old woman living in Finland and I’m searching for another European woman to write to, preferably within the 20s-40s range. I don’t care about location as long as it’s in Europe, I’m trying to make more connections on this continent. I’m open to all traditions.
I’ve been a practicing pagan for nearly 14 years now, and I take it rather seriously. I practice an amalgamation of my ancestral beliefs - Slavic, Finnic, Turkic, and Baltic. Slavic polytheism is how I approach things the most, though. My whole family is from the USSR and I was raised with a dual believer background, so paganism was a logical jump for me.
In the past, I’ve had wonderfully fulfilling experiences with Hellenismos and I credit Dionysus for saving me. I even have a tattoo in his honour.
My husband and I will soon be moving to a different part of Europe (likely Italy) and I plan on incorporating that region’s pagan history into my practice too. Because of this, I’m particularly interested in Roman polytheists.
I hugely value ancestor veneration, animism, and spirit work, as well as keeping folk traditions alive. I’ve been practicing folk witchcraft for quite some time. Apart from that, I’ve also been a semi-armchair occultist for close to a decade. I have success stories but have mostly just immersed myself in interests such as the PGM, planetary magic, ceremonial magic of different kinds, and western esotericism in general. Would be awesome to connect with someone who’s into that too.
Aside from spiritual pursuits, I adore history and have a BA in it (hoping to further my studies), foraging, hiking, horse riding, self-sufficiency and hobby farming, metal and Nordic/neofolk, cooking and baking (especially recreating historical recipes), video games, etc.
Looking forward to hearing from you!
Hello everyone,
Welcome to my little corner of r/paganpenpals. I'm not really sure what to put here, so I'll try to be thorough.
I'm Alice, I'm a 36 year old, disabled Army Vet. I'm also a transgender woman. I live in the New England area of the United States. I'm a Norse Pagan, and I belong to two pagan organizations, ADF and the Troth. I have been a fully practicing pagan since about 2013. My main gods/goddesses are Odin, Thor and Freya. I'm a pretty big geek when it comes to things, and I love horror movies. I'm also a bigh rocker and I love punk, rock and metal, but I'll listen to just about anything.
What I'm looking for is a penpal that I can write to through snail mail. I'd love to share things like trinkets, runes, and other things I make for my penpal. Also sending instructions for a really cool spell that I just did. Someone I can get excited for and get to bust out the fancy stationary and fountain pen for. That kind of thing. You can also send me stuff but it's not expected, even if it's just the instructions for a really cool spell you did.
Looking forward to hearing from you
Hey everyone! I’m new to paganism and would love to make some friends. I don’t know just yet what path I’m going down, but I’d say it’s probably eclectic, maybe centred around Celtic paganism.
For some more info about myself, I’m a genderfluid otherkin from Long Island, New York. I used to be a Christian as a child, but left it as I realised it wasn’t for me. I’ve been in the process of discovering myself, and realised paganism is definitely the right direction for me.
Hello! My name is Rachel and I reside in Maine, USA and I am looking for a consistent pen pal. I have found that Reddit is an amazing way to find pen pals and I have the privilege of having some amazing pen pals. I am looking for a few pen pals who are interested in good old fashion snail mail. I love getting creative with my letter writing and including extra goodies such as stickers, recipes, drawing, etc. I also love sending packages during holidays, birthdays, and exchange (I love to create artwork and have exchanged my artwork with peeps who also love to create and will send their art).
Let me share a bit about myself—I'm a 33-year-old bisexual polyamorous woman residing in Maine, USA. While I've traversed and dwelled along the East Coast, my current focus is on stabilizing my finances before broadening my horizons. As an artist, crafting and creating are my passions. I enjoy embellishing letters with drawings, stickers, blank coloring pages, and even tea bags—anything to add flair to our exchanges. While reciprocation isn't mandatory, it's always welcomed!
In terms of spirituality, I identify as a Norse Pagan. I'm open to communicating with individuals of any religion or culture, but I prefer conversations without attempts at conversion. If discussing my beliefs makes you uncomfortable, feel free to let me know.
Beyond that, I harbor a not-so-secret fondness for frogs—they hold profound sentimental value and are undeniably adorable. Additionally, my interest in minerals, crystals, and rocks has led me to explore their identification.
To sum it up, if you're intrigued, drop me a direct message with a brief introduction about yourself. Cheers!
Hello! As the title says, I am looking for like-minded pagans. I live in London (UK). I still consider myself a "beginner", I occasionally pray to the Gods, but I still do a lot of research and I have yet to perform an 'actual' ritual. This is mainly because I'm still in the 'broom closet'. Anyway, I would like somebody (preferably a woman but I'm open to all genders), to converse about Kemeticism and Hellenism with.
My other interests and hobbies include; drawing, writing, gaming, cartoons/anime, comics/manga, metal music, feminism, socialism, and alternative subcultures.
Hi everyone! I have just begun to delve into witchcraft and am finding that I quite like it! Long story short I am researching and trying to steadilly practice. I do not currently know any practicing witches but I would really like to!
A little bit about me, I put green witch since that's what I've always been drawn to. This is also the medium at which I receive confirmation and messages. But I'm definitely not trying to limit myself this is just what I'm comfy with right now. I am very nature oriented (it's my whole career) and also have a lot of hobbies. Like way too many, so let's add penpal to the list! Recently I have picked up collaging specifically. I think you will find that i am very down to earth and will always try to helpful and kind. <3
Like the title says I'm just looking for a friend to reach out to when the craft is getting beyond my comprehension (which is quite often). And also just to have someone to relate to because I know you won't look at me like I'm crazy 🤠. I am down for dms, emails, snail mail, etc. I love the idea of sending letters but hate the hassle, but if you are willing to commit, I am too! :)
Y'all have a wonderful day, I hope you find the penpal you are after. 😊
Hi! My name is Alex. I am 15,genderfluid he/they, but I am turning 16 soon. I am a beginner Witch and I have been pagan for a few years, practicing only recently now I'm able to. I am currently only working with Greek gods but am doing research into other pantheons. I live in England, I'm a bit of a nerd and I'm autistic.
I would love anyone to be friends with, preferably around my age. I have a lot of animals and like to read and write in my spare time along with other creative hobbies.
I don't mind doing mail or physical post cards but would prefer text/email.
Hi! My name is Specter and I’m 17, I’m based in Canada and I’m gender fluid/non binary. I would love a snail mail pen pal or an online pen pal but id prefer a snail mail pen pal. Im interested in herbs, crystals, tarot, etc. I’m autistic and have adhd with many special interest such as reading, art, drawing, music, musicals, frogs, video games (my favourites are sally face and cult of the lamb), cosplay, kickboxing, rugby,etc. I have a dog (chalupa Batman) and a cat (ekko) and I would love to make some new friends!
Hey all! Nice to meet you, I’m Crystal, an Italian Wiccan, I’m studying in the tradition of the Temple Of Ara founded by Phyllis Curott since 2022.
I’m writing here ‘cause I’m at the beginning of my spiritual journey and I would really like to share with someone my spiritual path, the difficulties and the glad moments that I will experience on my path. I would really enjoy to learn more and share knowledge to grow up together having fun!
About me: I’m an Italian lgbt polyamorous 28M, I’m studying psychology, I enjoy meditation and would like to learn more about yoga and taiji quan sometimes soon. I love reading especially sci-fi and thriller but also noir and fantasy. I love animation movies and my music tastes are pretty various. Recently I’m growing curious about China and Chinese myths and traditions.
Hope to find some friends here, for mailing or instant message… so let me know if you’re somewhat interested in knowing more about me!
Greetings all! I've been a practicing pagan for about three decades now; I started with Wicca and have since expanded into Druidry so seasonal celebrations and nature are very central themes, plus I honour both a Roman patron deity and an ancestral patron saint so my practice is honestly quite a patchwork quilt at this point. I'd be curious to deepen my knowledge of Druidry, learn about Italian witchcraft/stregheria, or study kitchen/garden witchery (and I could certainly use pointers on establishing a more regular practice overall), though I'm also happy just to chat with friendly fellow-pagans of any stripe - I'm also a baking enthusiast, a SCAdian/medieval-style calligrapher/illuminator, a retrowave fan, and a generally nerdy sort when I'm not wandering the nearby woods or browsing the local farmers' markets.
English is my primary language, though as an autodidactic student of French, German, and Italian, I'd enjoy the chance to practice these as well. Please comment/DM if any of this fits your own vibe!
M42 looking for pagan friends
New Pagan Geek Seeks
M42. I’m a new pagan (an eclectic solitary Wiccan). I was raised Southern Baptist but never identified as such. I became an atheist in my teens, turned agnostic sometime in my twenties, and became Wiccan last year.
I began to feel there was more to life than I knew, so I decided to read up on various religions. I discovered that my much of my own personal belief system matches up with a lot of Wiccan thought. I chose to be a solitaire because worship is a private personal thing for me. Unfortunately that leaves me pretty isolated so I need some pagan friends.
I worship Goddess and God, and view all other divinity as aspects of them. I believe in the web of life, that every small thing we do affects everyone and everything else.
I’m currently building my own personal solitary tradition. I’ve decided to craft it to honor my DNA heritage, incorporating some aspects of druidry (Celtic) and Heathenry (Anglo Saxon). I’ve just recently begun trying to learn more about my alpine pagan heritage.
I’m politically and socially liberal but hate talking about politics and social issues. I’m inclusive, support BLM, and an LGBTQ ally but not I’m not “woke” (I view that as another word for politically correct). Real life problems give me anxiety and generally depress me, so I shy away from the news.
Obviously I love the outdoors. I hike and meditate outside whenever possible. I’m a nerd in that I love all things horror, sci-fi, and fantasy, especially films. I also enjoy juvenile, crude comedy as well as George Carlin, Louie CK, Gabriel Ingleses and Patton Oswald. I enjoy writing. I’m an 80s-90s comic book freak. Paranormal/Cryptid buff. I’ve been a pro wrestling fan since I was a kid. I’m a punk that doesn’t look punk. I’m a Child of the Fence. I’m a MSTie. Since becoming Wiccan I’ve developed a love for stones, rocks, gems, and other shiny things pulled from the ground.
If any of that sounds like something you’d like to discuss message me! If it doesn’t, message me anyways. There’s a lot of stuff I’m sure I didn’t mention.
(Previously posted under an old sn)
Like a lot of people, I live right in the middle of nowhere, USA (or if you’re in another country insert yours here lol). Plenty of Christian communities, little to nothing else unfortunately. I’ve met a few pagans nearby, but trying to get everyone together is like herding cats I swear. So I thought I’d turn to here!
A big about me: studied veterinary medicine in college, ended up working in a veterinary lab. Obviously an animal lover, especially cats, even if I don’t work with them directly. Also a huge nerd for anything science, history or philosophy! I’m big into reading, gaming, some hiking and/or hanging out with my cats lol. I’m open to any/all flavors of paganism, I find all of our beliefs so interesting and moving! It’s probably easiest to communicate online but we can figure it out as we go! Feel free to drop a comment or a message!
Hi! I'm a genderfluid/trans person, who's a bit new on the path. In the past two years I've been researching and pondering, and I'm finally starting on my spiritual journey.
I'm a syncretic Christopagan- combining and blending Christianity with the Pagan ways (currently only Norse). If you have any questions about that, feel free to let me know (I get that it's confusing or seems oxymoronic- it's actually a lot easier than it may seem), and will start to dip my toes into witchcraft once I feel more confident in my spirituality.
I have a cat of 9 years that I love, am a bit of a book-nerd, and somewhat of an artist. I'm a Gemini, with a penchant for collecting cool or strange bottles- I actually have a shelf dedicated entirely to tea bottles or sparkling water cans. I live in rural West Virginia, USA, and love Appalachian folk tales and myths.
I'm a big fan of friendly debates, ranting about current faves in media, reading fanfiction, and reading/watching/listening to plays/musicals.
My pronouns are he/they/she, and I'm currently going by Fors! I'm hoping to chat either here on Reddit, or over on Tumblr.
I've always wanted to find other like-minded spirits to share sentimental slips of paper with in the magical box of mailing, so here I am!
I'm pretty much what it says on the tin, a 34 yo, gay man living in rural Kentucky with my lovely partner of 13+ years. I'm an earthy guy, Capricorn rules my chart heavily, and I'm a bit of a homebody, preferring to spend my time shuffling around the kitchen cooking and crafting, curled up with a book on the couch, or laying out in the sun listening to wind sing through the trees.
Spiritually, I suppose I've always just labeled myself Pagan, although these days Ive been circling the groves of druidry.. I'm an animist and an earth worshipper, and rely heavily on spirit work, trance, and soul flight.
I love sketching, or dancing, or playing the lyre (I built one this year and I've been teaching myself how to play whenever I can, although right now I've mostly been playing the Game of Thrones theme with gusto!). So, I'd love talking with others that are of the crafty, geeky, and artsy variety as well as share a reverence for the earth and all the spirits that hang out here.
Lastly, I will say that I'd like to chat in dms beforehand to make sure we're a good fit before exchanging anything like addresses. I'm looking for someone at least 30+, who loves to write and share, and would be just as giddy as I am to send/receive letters as well as cards in the post.
So what do you say? Give me a reason to buy some pretty stationary and cards and sit by the window, penning lovely letters, won't you?
So to putt it somewhat short i am looking for friends who are into witchcraft and wanna get to know one another. Im open minded/down to earth and easy to talk to id imagine. I have tried to search on discord servers but most i find seemed to be wicca specificly or 15+... and as a 23 year old.... i'll pass... So if anyone got questions or want to chat feel free to DM or send a discord friend request as my discord name is in my bio. Happy night💗
Hi, I'm 17 and I've only recently gotten into witchcraft although I've wanted to get into it for a while. My name is Saga and I work with Athena. I am from Sweden and I have 2 adorable dogs that I love, I'm studying media at the moment too and it's a lot of fun. I'm looking for someone to discuss witchcraft and the like with and someone to ballpark ideas with. I don't really know anyone who is into this type of stuff so it would be really cool to have someone to talk to!!!
hii !! im, as the title says, a 15M eclectic pagan looking for fellow pagan, witch, or similar friends !!
i currently worship Loki and Dionysus, and i work w/ Lucifer. i’ve been doing witchcraft on and off for about 3 years ? i think ? i have very bad memory lol- im interested in religion (I like researching all types but esp non abrahamic ones), chaos magick, demonolatry / demonology, manifestation / subliminals, and infinite realities theory + reality shifting :)
my other interests are art, animation, music, science, space, psychology, activism, politics (specifically far left politics), cults (i do not approve of cults in any way, it’s just an interest in how they function and form), alt fashion + alt subcultures like goth, punk, emo, scene, etc, and fanfic !
media i like are mcu (ik ik, but dawg i can’t control my special interests 😭), lmk, ninjago (yes, i like the lego show for 7-10 year old boys, shush), tmnt, bnha, chainsaw man, mob psycho 100, dungeon meshi, fnaf, vocaloid, and i don’t remember things about myself ever so i forget everything else that i like LOL
im also queer and disabled !! im a queer genderqueer trans man who uses xenogenders (he/it), and am both physically and mentally disabled, i have cfs, pots, esotropia, arthritis, and autism, adhd, bpd, cptsd, did, am somewhere on the schizo-spec, and the usual depression + anxiety that comes with the other mental illnesses. yes, i know i have lots wrong with me, i really am just that fucked up 💀
please keep in mind the did part, while i am the host and am usually always in the front, sometimes other altars will front. we collectively go by the creepy crawlers, and if you want to refer to all of us, please use they/it and call us by the name sleepy or sleeper :) if you want a list of other altars in the system you can ask us for our simply plural, but we don’t update it often and sometimes forget to set who is fronting
we don’t want any sysmeds (ppl who think systems have to be disordered / traumagenic to exist) interacting with us, same thing goes for people who believe systems in general arent real, believe in core theory (the theory that only one member of the system is the “real one”, the “original”, and that all the other members are just parts of the “original”), or believe that functional / healthy multiplicity isn’t possible and that the only way to recover is through final fusion
im specifically looking for pen pals similar to me in age, practice, and interests :3
thank you for reading, have a good day / night, and blessed be 💚💚