/r/PaganPenPals

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A place to find a Pagan pen pal and exchange letters, emails, postcards, instant messages, or whatever you please.

About Community

A place to find a Pagan pen pal and exchange letters, emails, postcards, instant messages, or whatever you please.


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Rules

No Off-topic Posts or Comments

Only posts and comments made for the purpose of finding pen pal matches are allowed.

Advertisements for online or in-person communities are not permitted.

Platonic and Non-hierarchical Posts and Comments Only

Overtly sexual or romantic posts and comments will be removed and directed to post in /r/PaganR4R.

Hierarchical posts and comments, such as those seeking or offering mentorship or menteeship, are not permitted.

400 Character Post Description Minimum

All posts must have at minimum 400 characters (roughly 80 words) - tell us a bit about yourself.

Don't Publicly Post Personal Information

Addresses, emails, and the like should be exchanged via private messages, not in posts or comments.

Comment on a Post BEFORE Private Messaging the OP

Banned users cannot comment. Therefore if you receive a comment from a user on your post before receiving a PM / DM, you can be sure that they have not caused trouble in this subreddit before.

If someone messages you without a comment, please feel free to ask them to make a comment in your thread first and cite this rule.

A simple "PMing you." will suffice; your comment does not need to be lengthy.

Be Respectful of Our Differences

Do not:

• proselytize - attempt to persuade others to convert to a religion or belief system.

• evangelize - promote or preach about a religion, with the purpose of conversion.

• gatekeep - arbitrarily restrict who has rights to an open community or identity. There is no "correct" way to be a "true" Pagan.

• advocate for cultural appropriation - support the idea that anyone, uninvited, can publicly claim practices and / or the identity of a closed religion or culture.

Be Civil

Incivility is defined in this subreddit as:

• abusive language - remarks intended to be insulting, mocking, belittling, dismissive, or threatening,

• pushing personal boundaries - insisting on debate, aggressively / intrusively critiquing or challenging beliefs,

• trolling - intentionally instigating conflict, and

• calling for violence.

Practice respect.

No Folkish or Far-right Rhetoric, Content, or Associations

We do not tolerate support or promotion of folkish or far-right ideologies, talking points, content, apologia, sympathies, or organizations.

This includes any exclusionary or supremacist views, arguments in favor of the restriction of personal autonomy, and recruitment tactics.

Should your profile reveal that you submit or support language or content in violation of this rule, you may be permanently banned.

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22yo(f) Baby Witch looking for Pals

Hello! I’m Villie (nickname) and I’m a new witch seeking to grow alongside someone or multiple people!

I’m not sure of my path but I think eclectic fits me most. I’ve been spiritual for years but finally took the step to start learning witchcraft. I’m currently learning from and following Hekate.

I’m an art student that loves cartoons and games. I don’t have much to say about my practice at the moment because I’m so new but I’d also love to learn from someone more experienced as well!

I’d love it if you’re interested to drop a small intro down below before moving forward! Ty :)

8 Comments
2024/03/21
20:03 UTC

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Thelemite seeking penpal

A family member of mine is seeking a penpal whom he can relate to. He is currently incarcerated but will be released within the year hopefully. He is just interested in like minded individuals to write with about different topics. If interested please private message me and I can send you his information. He is from the south, enjoys music and deep conversations. All walks of life are welcome. No judgements here.

0 Comments
2024/03/20
19:02 UTC

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35F Eclectic Green Witch looking for friends

A practioner of many forms of divination, charm spells, amulet creation, candle magic, lucid dreaming, herbal and plant magic, Feng shui, talking to goddesses and gods for over 20 years, I find solstice in nature around me. I have an artistic touch and have created many of the tools I have used in my craft, and find there is an art to shopping with the divine, ancestors, or spirit guides in mind when looking for craft related items. I make my own sigils and journals (in the past) and love all forms of art, dance music as it is what lifts me up when I need a boost. I am familiar with kitchen witchery and crafting with intention, warding and shielding. I am open to receiving all kinds of communication except email, preferably text message or snail mail.

As a reminder of the rules, please post something to introduce yourself on this thread before pm ing me.

7 Comments
2024/03/17
09:40 UTC

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26F New Luciferian Witch

Hi! I had a mental health experience that ended up being really spiritually influential. I thought that I was possessed by a demon that claimed that Lucifer sent him to teach me to pray to Lucifer. I have a treatment team including a psychiatrist, therapist and care coordinator. Please do not message me saying to get mental health treatment because I’m in it. I’m looking for people to talk to about my relationship with Lucifer. Discord is not really delivering on people to talk to about him. I’m new to witchcraft and I’m currently learning how to set up alters.

1 Comment
2024/03/17
00:02 UTC

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24F Norse Pagan Witch looking for friends

I came from a Christian background and recently became pagan. I’m practicing witchcraft, and building my life from the ground up. I love animals and nature. I’m a single mother, so I get very busy sometimes. I have ADHD, so my attention span is nonexistent, lol. I’m loud, kinda annoying, love crafts, and I’m open to all forms of communication, and getting to know people from all walks of life, although, I do not like hypocrisy or liars

3 Comments
2024/03/15
01:13 UTC

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Late 30's Druidic Vitki and all around WyrdWorker looking for connection (M/NB)

I’m just a well-seasoned Vitki who’s been around for a bit. I’m old enough to remember the big steel stereo that came with a cassette player, record player, and radio my grandpa took pride in, and when Big Macs came in styrofoam containers. I was here before dial-up internet, and I remember when you used to be able to sit in a viewing room to watch planes leave the airport.

In terms of my big ole pagan journey, I was raised in a very non-Christian household with my maternal grandparents while my paternal grandparents are still super traditionalist Catholics. I’ve been involved with Seances, tarot, and folk magic practice since I could walk, and when I hit my teen years I had a big period of questioning every belief. That was when I dove into Grimoire tradition, Medieval Witchcraft studies, and Religions of Antiquity. At 18 I declared myself a pagan and got serious about practicing Western Esoteric Tradition. But the practice felt hollow after a year of practice, so I went back to studying. Long story short, I kept bumping into heathenry but I never wanted to commit. After several major life events and a profound moment of disassociation, I reached out to the gods for aid. And wise old Wodenaz answered my prayers, amongst others of the Aesir, Wan, and Eoten. That was over ten years ago, and I’ve been practicing Fyrnsidere ever since. My hearth is built around Woden, Frig, Loki, Angrboda-Gullveig, Ingui-Freyr, Eostre, Tiw, Hretha, Thur, Sunna, Hel, and Baeldaeg, with sacred animist practices revolving around Red-tailed Hawk, Crow, Rattlesnake, Coyote, Wolf, Elk, and Spider. My craft is built around things my ancestry and my faith would have familiarity with and incorporates Tsilagi, Deitsch, and craft perspectives from West Germanic influences. You'll likely see a Cochrane tradition and ADF influence here and there.

My hobbies include collecting a whole lot of books, beading and faith-inspired crafts, foraging, gardening, and tabletop roleplaying games (DnD 2.0/ADnD-3.75/Pathfinder, d20 Star Wars, World of Darkness, and Call of Cthulhu are my jam). I have two cats, no kids, no partner, just myself. In my day-to-day I work in Mental Healthcare for a Nonprofit Company, and I also have a small professional divinatory and spiritual advising business. My preferred means of conversing is digital (Email, DM, Discord, Text) and honestly, I'm just looking to find others of like mind.

2 Comments
2024/03/14
21:21 UTC

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41F, shaman, clairvoyant/audiant, tarot practitioner, recently into runes, looking for friends (IM, Discord, voice messages)

Hi1
My name is Darya, I'd love to meet new like-minded people and to talk about stuff I can't talk about at work )

I am really into Tarot practice but I got very disappointed by Tarot exchange chats, maybe I was unlucky but I had a feeling that people treated that like a game. and they didnt really care about the answer. I know I can see important and deep things about people, and put it in words..
My special ability is a clairaudience, I can listen to the deep layer of vibrations when a person speaks and hear things that are beyond words and beyond language and beyond even physical conditions of the speaker. I use it at work a bit (I'm a language teacher), but i's not very often when this deep level of analysis is needed on English lessons )

Now I'm really into runes, and though I have no theoretical background there, they keep appearing in my life. I'd like to ask my questions to someone more experienced.
Sometimes I ask a question, think of a problem, close my eyes and just see a rune stave that I can draw out. But I can't deconstruct it into runes, I can't say if it's something correct, something working, or just a geometrical fantasy, or even worse, some bad sigil...
I'm into some Egyptian gods, I reverre and respect Hellenic gods, but most of all I talk to the earth and the trees.

I'm a language teacher and a linguist, I'm writing a novel (VERY SLOWLY), and recently I started to work with wood and learning to be a violin repair man (don't want to say "luthier" because I guess I won't manage it in this life, starting so late..)

I have a dog and two cats, I have a summer cottage house (we can't live there in winter) which is literallty in the middle of the forest, in a very small almost abandoned village which is 70km from the nearest big city. I go to therapy for 14 years, and it helped me with my magic things too )

will be waiting for your DMs and I must say in advance that I totally prefer IM (Telegram/Whatsapp/Discord) and ideally voice mesages or voice calls )

3 Comments
2024/03/14
10:07 UTC

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PenPal

Good morning, good afternoon and good night to everyone! I'm a bi 22 y/o herbal witch who recently started in the immense world of witchcraft and that'll love to become PenPal with anyone! I'm looking for friends who can guide me and help me with the studies of witchcraft, I'm also open to the exchange of book material and spells/tarot spreads in these exchanges! I'm all for digital but I'm in preference with PostCards and with letter exchange!

Please remember to first comment on this post before you send me a message to talk about anything! Thank you!

2 Comments
2024/03/13
20:37 UTC

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31F looking for friends and late night chat about witchy things

Hello, nice to meet everyone here, while I mainly focus on being a Lokean Witch, I'm ready to branch out and see if there is anyone that can exchange/bestow knowledge between one another. I'm looking to branch out more or so in the Hellenic part of studies etc. While I work part time with Hades and starting to work my way to Persephone part time, I would love to see if anyone works with Persephone as well and also want to branch out to any Anubis workers as well. I also would love to expand my knowledge on different types of witchcraft as well :) because often times I'm up at odd hours and I wish I had someone to talk to while my wife and my boyfriend are busy/asleep and can't text me. So, I figured I would reach here. I only have Discord to chat on and I hope that won't be a problem for anyone. I'm also from the states, but I'm willing to chat with people international :)

Also, here is something important to know. You don't need permission to send me a inbox message. I would rather you inbox me than me because. I'm a new Reddit user. Therefore I'm massively limited to on how many users I can message daily. It seems I can only message new people with two or three invites every 24 hours. So, please send me a DM instead if you're interested, thanks so much :)

4 Comments
2024/03/13
15:07 UTC

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20F looking for friends :)

My name is Maria and I'm new to practicing. I'm currently following a path of Irish Paganism, trying to connect with Irish deities. My current focus is learning and educating myself as much as possible, especially about the mythology.

I'm currently devoted to the Morrigan and I'm finding a lot of joy in practicing with her. I'm working every day to learn more and connect deeper.

I'd love to chat with anyone who's interested in deity work, even if you aren't particularly into Celtic practice.

Please feel free to message me :3

4 Comments
2024/03/12
00:11 UTC

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41f looking for friends

Hello, My name is Raylin. I'm looking for friends to talk with about things that interest me and just want to have someone to talk to. I love to cook, read, listen to podcasts, and conspiracy theory and going down into "rabbit holes" just to understand the universe more. Things that interest me can be a whole gamet of topics. Hope to find a pen pal to talk with and get to go down rabbit holes with.

2 Comments
2024/03/09
02:17 UTC

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17m Hellenist looking for anyone who wants to IM

Hello! I’d love to make some pagan friends online! If anyone is interested let me know!

I worship Apollon, Zeus, and Hestia.

I’ve been a Hellenist for 2 years.

I’m a musician and a phlebotomist, I’d love to have a pagan friend to talk to.

I live in the US, Texas specifically. West Texas near NM. I plan to study endocrinology and or nano chemistry.

I have a music group, I’m the bassist. Tootles!

5 Comments
2024/03/07
21:50 UTC

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21/F Lokean and eclectic pagan

Hi there! I am a 21 y/o queer witch! I’ve been a practitioner on and off since 2018. I worship Loki but believe in pantheism, focus on Norse paganism though.

I’m a professional naturalist living all over the US and devote my life to storytelling and teaching of nature and its beauty! I’d love to just have some witchy friends i can talk to about the craft and deities! Specifically, I’d really like another Lokean to talk to, and prefer queer folks for my own comfort.

Thanks :)

2 Comments
2024/02/29
07:57 UTC

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18/F

I used to practice in middleschool but my life got really hectic and I’ve just recently picked it back up so I’d still consider myself a “baby witch” i dont stick to one group of gods or have strict beleifs and im super nonjudgmental. I know I have Celtic roots but I’ve never felt super connected with that still trying to figure out who I am/what I want to be. Id love someone to chat with and get advice from!

4 Comments
2024/02/28
23:11 UTC

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I thought I might try this again, 50/m Norse pagan

I have been a solitary practitioner since I moved to Fl 18 years ago. I would love to correspond with other Pagans of any tradition I am definitely a nerd I play D&D with my son. He is my DM ( I raised him right ) I am getting back into the SCA after 18 years as well I make armor,forge knives, read constantly, hike ,camp,and Kayak. I am open to any race, age (just no minors) gender identity, Orientation, or location, I am also willing to go old school snail mail if that suits you Shoot me a message if you are interested in chatting

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2024/02/28
16:21 UTC

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37m Green Witch from USA

I'm a 37 cis-male Green Witch from the Eastern United States. Currently living in the Greater Philadelphia Area. Most accurately, I'm an Eclectic Polytheist, but Green Witch is easier to say. I like gaming, sci-fi, fantasy, reading, movies, board and card games, but I'm also an outdoorsy Eagle Scout with an adoration of nature, which is likely how a young catholic child ends up a pagan. 😂 Intense sense of humor alert! I'm not single at all, just want to connect with friends and like-minded people. I have an intensely inquisitive mind, listen to crazy podcasts and read about all nature of things. Politically, I've been unaffiliated since I could vote and have political beliefs on both sides of the frustratingly bipartisan American political spectrum. I'm open-minded as heck and a good argument can go a ,ong way toward pulling me one way or another, but facts are always the best. I enjoy cooking and baking, I will never go vegan, but I respect those that do. That's a challenging path I could never follow. Let's connect on here or elsewhere! Just here first, if you've read the rules. 😂 😉

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2024/02/22
22:38 UTC

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20 nb pagan from USA

I'm Astrid! I'm a nonbinary pagan/witch living in Florida, USA. I've lost touch with my practice for a few years now and I'm looking for some new communities and people to share my practice with. I tend to go for eclectic styles of magick and witchcraft, and I worship deities in the Greek pantheon and Yoruba traditions. I also read tarot cards and I'm a huge reader! One of my main goals is to have some sort of pagan book club. Message me if you'd like to chat!

5 Comments
2024/02/21
19:23 UTC

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21m USA pagan

I’m a pagan witch who hasn’t practiced in awhile and honestly I feel like I’m feeling the repercussions of it, if anyone is interested in chatting about general witchcraft/pagan topics I’d love to talk, i’m interested to see how others practices and I’m more than willing to let you in on mine! I’ve been practicing since I was 16 I do dabble in a little bit of everything. Don’t be afraid to message me!

3 Comments
2024/02/17
19:18 UTC

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39, NB, witch from Europe

I'm Haplo, 39, Alexandrian witch, familiar with ceremonial magic but also interested in folk witchcraft/magic (not to be confused with the right leaning neo-nazi bs please😅). I like plants, nature, gardening. Also crafts, I just like making different things. Cooking when I feel enough peace of mind to make and try new things. I think it would be fun to get in touch with people who are also from the Netherlands like me, or atleast in Europe. Snail mail would be fun. It's been a while since I wrote an actual letter tbh. But e-mail or dms or talling on discord or whatever is also ok I guess.

I don't see this as very interesting or important about me, but many people seem to want to know, so I will say that I am non-binary, (idgaf about what pronouns you use for me tbh) and neurodivergent.

5 Comments
2024/02/14
16:04 UTC

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31 F, Norse Pagan.

I'm looking for someone to have conversations about Norse Paganism, your spiritual path, what got you on this spiritual journey, I'm so curious to learn about other people's path. I have a lot to say and I really would love to have some new friends :) I don't do social media at all, so the only communication we could exchange outside of Reddit would be Discord and I hope that isn't a problem :) I would prefer to chat there :)

P.S.

I love hearing other people's stories :)

Also, please be Rokkatru friendly!

6 Comments
2024/02/07
22:32 UTC

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28m Druid Looking for a penpal!

I'm a 28 year old cis gendered guy looking for a pagan pen pal who also appreciates the nostalgia of sending and recieving letters, cards and photos through the post. I've been pagan since the age of 15 - dabbled in solitary witchcraft and then in the past 10 years or so settled on druidry as my chosen path. I would welcome a pal of any pagan path, though.

I am based in the U.K but would welcome a pen pal from anywhere in the world. Happy to start with a P.O box if you'd feel more comfortable!

I consider myself to be a druid in training with the ambition to finally join an order sometime this year.I would consider myself an animist who likes to try communing with land spirits and the tree spirits in my local area, as well as give offerings to the ancestors and house spirits. I yo yo between being a hard and soft polytheist and currently my main god is Cernunnnos. I feel the calling of other celtic deities on my periphery but have traditionally worshipped the triple goddess of wicca.

I am also trying to get a local in person moot off the ground and an online seed group.

In other areas of my life I am a trainee therapist and psychologist and am fascinated by the overlap between psychology and magickal practice. I live with my long suffering fiancé and our pet tortoise - photos of whom will be gladly shared I promise!

...Here's to hoping a like minded soul will take up my offer and hopefully we can build a friendship!

3 Comments
2024/02/06
01:17 UTC

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Kitchen witch looking for a penpal

hi, this idea seems so neat and i am so on board for something like this

I go by Mortis in spiritual circles, and i would describe my practice as a bit of a mix of a lot of things, though i primarily do kitchen magic and death work. i consider myself a bit of an eclectic or chaos witch. I do things in a very unconventional way, and i am very "Off The Beaten Path".

i am fine with online exchanges, though i prefer the idea of letter writing more, as i can be a sort of "dry texter".

4 Comments
2024/02/04
17:18 UTC

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FREE Blade!!

My name is Blade, and I am looking for some interesting and open-minded people and conversations.

There is a variety of topics and areas I am interested in, and I can hold a conversation about almost anything. When I was not incarcerated I liked to play sports and workout, read fiction books (fantasy, Sci-Fi, and anything deep and powerful), and I enjoyed writing music as well as playing videogames. I love being outside and being active, and I like animals. Since I've been incarcerated I've taken the time to focus on me and my goals for when I get out. I am very creative, and recently finished a book which is in the process of getting published, and I started writing a second one. I still write music, you can find it on social media. I also write poetry, and draw and tattoo. I am a spiritual person. Ultimately, I focus on myself and how I can get better as a individual. I workout consistently, and would like to become a certified personal trainer. When I get out I want to travel the world and experience and learn about different cultures. I look forward to hearing from you.

If you decide to write me, they have a new paper mail policy, it may take a minute to respond. I can respond through electronic communication Texasprisonphone.comor Securus 02320091 Blade Bell

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2024/02/01
15:35 UTC

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Baby Witch Looking to Learn From and Make Friends with Like Minded People.

Hi! I (19m) am a Celtic pagan and Morrigan devotee in the American Midwest. I was raised in a very christian household but have been practicing on and off for about two years now. I still don't know much and I don't really have any friends at all to speak of, much less pagan/witchy friends so talking to some people who I feel comfortable asking questions with would be a massive, massive help. Any religion is hard to navigate on your own but paganism is extremely difficult lol. So much to learn and hard to tell which resources are real and which ones are... not.

So I guess I'm just looking to make some friends in the witchy/pagan community and hopefully learn some things too! Feel free to comment or message me!

2 Comments
2024/01/29
18:12 UTC

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Write me, fellow Witches and Pagans? 🌿💚

Hi there! I'm 27F panetheistic Germanic-ish Pagan from Australia. I've been practising for about 13 years, but still adding and learning new things to incorporate into my craft every day. I'm hoping to look at ancient Celtic traditions in the coming months. I'd love to hear about your own practices! I'm a bit of an anthropologist at heart and I appreciate all paths and ways of worshipping, be they Modern or Reconstructionist, though my personal craft leans closer to the latter.

I'm looking for a traditional penpal. I would love to be able to send you letters with wax seals and maybe a photo or two. I'm very open to international correspondence and while I'd prefer someone my own age, I'm happy to write to anyone over 21. Please write me as often or as little as you please! Even just a card on the High Holidays / Sabbats would be a heart-warming gesture, though we don't have to limit our interaction to Pagan topics, if you're willing to share more details of your life with this happy stranger.

If any of this takes your interest, please send me a dm so we can exchange postal addresses 💚

3 Comments
2024/01/26
03:25 UTC

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Looking for a Hellenistic/Celtic Pagan

Hello, I’m a Hellenistic and Celtic Pagan looking for someone who is also either Hellenistic or Celtic Pagan, or if anyone else has a mixed belief system like me I’d love to talk as well! My belief structure consists of about 75% Hellenistic beliefs and 25% Celtic beliefs, and I commune with Dionysus. I’ll leave more details for discussing later. I’m from the US and only speak English. Other things about me are that I’m 21 nonbinary and kinda bubbly, but pretty shy at first.

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2024/01/24
05:20 UTC

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Amazigh pagan trying to find someone to learn

Hello everyone my name is Vic I'm 17yo and I would love to meet another amazigh pagan because I started getting into paganism. I'm a kabyle and I live in France. So I speak english, french and german but I'm trying to learn amazigh. I've been cutted from my culture and I found out about the religion and I would love to practice. Rn I'm not doing much just protection spells cause I'm a baby witch. I have discord but also instagram. I try to find a pal to discuss with about the amazigh polytheist religion. Aside from that I like history, metal, languages, markiplier and sport

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2024/01/21
09:06 UTC

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18 afab, looking for fellow young adult witch/pagan friends 💕

Hello! My name is Anabelle! I'm an 18 year old Hellenic pagan witch from the Midwest United States looking for witchy and/or pagan friends to chat with over the web (: I've been practicing for 6 years now and primarily focus on spirit work, tarot, crystals, and astrology. I work with/worship Dionysus, Hestia, Aphrodite, Hekate, Athena, Nyx, and Gaia. I have a few witchy friends irl but we don't really talk about the craft a lot so Im looking for someone I can relate to online. Looking forwars to meeting you 💕🍄

6 Comments
2024/01/17
15:44 UTC

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22F, Looking for friend or pen-pal!

Hello! I have been practicing witchcraft since I was about 14-15. I started out with tarot and crystals, but over the years have expanded my practice to include other forms of divination, herbalism, and manifestation/intention based practices.

I am looking for someone who would like to primarily communicate online (email, social media, etc.) but is also open to sending letters in the mail occasionally.

I would like to find a pen-pal who fits all or most of these descriptions:

  • Female
  • 20-25 years old
  • Autistic/neurodivergent
  • Atheist/agnostic/does not believe in specific gods or goddesses
  • Enjoys spending time in nature
  • Tarot reader
  • Likes fantasy and DnD
  • Likes vintage and witchy fashion
  • Lives in the US (if open to sending letters in the mail)
4 Comments
2024/01/15
18:43 UTC

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40F looking for someone who is just starting the journey

I came from a country where they sometimes called a "place" where creatures lives. And I came from that place and they always say if it is true. I can't even say yes, because I haven't seen one. Just old stories....

I am more drawn to be a witch and into crystals. I have been thinking of this before but I am hesitant, I know my mom is also kinda a witch. She's been burning leaves way way before. She didn't even realized what she was doing with bay leaf. She just say it's for the insects. And I tell her things like my wish and desires because sometimes it came true. It's like her prayers are more heard than mine.

6 Comments
2024/01/15
10:42 UTC

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