/r/PaganPenPals
A place to find a Pagan pen pal and exchange letters, emails, postcards, instant messages, or whatever you please.
A place to find a Pagan pen pal and exchange letters, emails, postcards, instant messages, or whatever you please.
Only posts and comments made for the purpose of finding pen pal matches are allowed.
Advertisements for online or in-person communities are not permitted.
Overtly sexual or romantic posts and comments will be removed and directed to post in /r/PaganR4R.
Hierarchical posts and comments, such as those seeking or offering mentorship or menteeship, are not permitted.
All posts must have at minimum 400 characters (roughly 80 words) - tell us a bit about yourself.
Addresses, emails, and the like should be exchanged via private messages, not in posts or comments.
Banned users cannot comment. Therefore if you receive a comment from a user on your post before receiving a PM / DM, you can be sure that they have not caused trouble in this subreddit before.
If someone messages you without a comment, please feel free to ask them to make a comment in your thread first and cite this rule.
A simple "PMing you." will suffice; your comment does not need to be lengthy.
Do not:
• proselytize - attempt to persuade others to convert to a religion or belief system.
• evangelize - promote or preach about a religion, with the purpose of conversion.
• gatekeep - arbitrarily restrict who has rights to an open community or identity. There is no "correct" way to be a "true" Pagan.
• advocate for cultural appropriation - support the idea that anyone, uninvited, can publicly claim practices and / or the identity of a closed religion or culture.
Incivility is defined in this subreddit as:
• abusive language - remarks intended to be insulting, mocking, belittling, dismissive, or threatening,
• pushing personal boundaries - insisting on debate, aggressively / intrusively critiquing or challenging beliefs,
• trolling - intentionally instigating conflict, and
• calling for violence.
We do not tolerate support or promotion of folkish or far-right ideologies, talking points, content, apologia, sympathies, or organizations.
This includes any exclusionary or supremacist views, arguments in favor of the restriction of personal autonomy, and recruitment tactics.
Should your profile reveal that you submit or support language or content in violation of this rule, you may be permanently banned.
/r/PaganPenPals
Hello, my name is Zagreus (spiritual name for anonymity). I first got into spirituality back in 2020 but then when life started going back to normal I left that part of me behind and now I am actively worshipping, something I never did as a witch who was scared of diety work. Speaking of, I am a pagan first but am dabbling in witchcraft so if you wanna talk about witchcraft that'd be lovely.
I worship Dionysus, Hestia, and Athena. I believe in all gods, not just the Greek, so I'm absolutely open to talk to people of other paths. I'm a college student with a busy life, especially right now because finals and holidays, so I will try to talk when I can but I may take a bit sometimes. I would like to talk via reddit because I don't want to give my other social medias to people I am not close to.
I don’t do a lot of witchcraft anymore but I’m extremely spiritually inclined. I see spirits and fae and sometimes they talk to me. Dream walk though I can’t exactly decide where. Spirit mentors do I think. I love anime, most music but I really like 40s music- rock or idk whatever. I’m also super big into art. Writing poetry. Someday I hope to write a book. I, well since my abilities are advanced I don’t do much spell work or whatever anymore because there was a time I was attacked by a bunch of malicious entities. Got real bad. But I used to be extremely knowledgeable when it came to crystals, energy work, Tarot, meditation. I understand the universe and the realm god better then most so I wouldn’t be against teaching theories. I’m a bit shy now but it would be nice to have a friend. Anyone who wants to talk really. That’s about it I guess. ✨
I’m really protective of animals and nature. I’m an animist so I view everything through a soul lense as equal and lovable. Not by vessel.
Hi there! My name is Olivia. I am still beginning in my practice of witchcraft and would love to make some new friends here! I am hoping to meet a pen pal, someone who I may write to or text about learning more about spells and witchcraft as a whole. I am deeply connected to my spiritual side and would love to share my love of tarot card readings, crystals, and deep conversations with you! Hopefully this message finds you well🥰
Hi all !
I am Séraphine, a beginner witch and pagan living in a small french town with my two cats (a mother son duo).
I spend my time drawing, reading, watching weird art house movies, finding new bands on bandcamp, and collecting hand made dolls. I also go to a theater club each week and have a show at the local radio station, where i read strange stories from around the world.
As for my practice, i would say i am an agnostic eclectic pagan. Dionysus reached out to me three years ago, when i was struggling with depression. Before that, i was an atheist, but i enjoyed going to pagan and/or witchy meetup because i was fascinated by folklore and myths.
I also work with archetypes, toys, and pop culture. Children books characters, outsider artistes, surrealists, cheesy monster movies, etc..
My spirituality is a mixed media collage of different textures and colors.
As you can probably see, my english is far from perfect, but i hope to make some progress. :)
Being autistic, i would love someone to share my nerdy interests with. Outside of witchcraft and paganism, i love learning about folklore and folktales, weird movies (kinda obsessed by the Czech new wave), goblincore fashion and aesthetic, outsider art and surrealism.
We can share playlistes, pictures of our trips and our pets, stickers and tiny plastic animals.
That's all i can say, i think.
Have a good day 🌞/night🌛. Séraphine.
P.S: Because of my disability, i can't write handwritten letter. I use a small printer connected to my phone and stick the printed note to the postcard. Hope this is ok for you. :)
Hiya! I’m 17 turning 18 in a month and looking for people in the Uk that are like minded and open to making friends! I’ve been practicing witchcraft since I was maybe 12 or 13 and recently reconnecting with my practice, my family as a whole are pretty witchy and we celebrate the pagan holidays every year which I love. Outside of witchcraft I love reading and literature as well as indie music! Lmk if you want any of my socials!! Ty :D
Edit: closed
Hi there! So I’ve always have a love for witch craft and magic, I started getting into it when I was I was a teen but due to life fell off, now I’m in a huge transitional period of my life looking to channel my energy into something positive. I’m finding myself more into manifestation, meditation, health, cooking, self love, and working with the seasons/moon, things of that realm. I’m interested in a mentor of sorts, someone I can ask questions too that will help me find myself in terms of the craft. I have so much to learn and I just want someone that’s willing to teach. My life has been full of pain, loss, trauma, and abuse. I’m in the healthiest relationship of my life engaged to an incredible man with an awesome e step son, but our life is a little uncomfortable cuz of living situations. I am, as stated, 27F Aquarius, a hair dresser and barista, covered in tattoos and piercings, I read my own tarot and mediate daily. Hoping to have the money to buy crystals soon, mostly just reading books and looking through Reddit. If any one vibes with what I’ve said, I’d love to hear from you <3
Hello everyone,
I practice astral projection and dream magic. Currently, I am secular though I am open to work with any deities reaching out to me. I have over two years of experience astral projecting, and I'm looking for anyone interested in sharing skills with me. Currently, my focus is on improving my energy sensing and manipulation. On the side, I practice tarot divination, crystal healing, and plant and animal communication.
If anyone is interested, please feel free to reach out. My response rate is usually a day or two due to my busy schedule. Have a good life!
I really hate small talk and introductions… I’m just awful at it lmao, but I’ll give it a shot! Thirty years old, don’t really give af about labels. It is nothing personal. I love getting to know a person, but when a person is only their label, I find it hard to connect. People are deeper than that. I guess that’s what I’m looking for? Deep conversation, but can keep things lighthearted at the same time c:
My beliefs are pretty eclectic and all over the place! Just ask, and I’ll spill what I think! The catch is, I want you to spill what you think too! A story for a story. It’ll be fun to open new doors with a friend :) the boiled down version: I believe the earth is our mother and everything is connected.
When I am not studying , I’m reading, painting, writing, long walks, being out in nature, crocheting, dancing, listening to music, strumming the guitar sometimes. Sometimes being a menace to people I love 😂 I absolutely LOVE philosophy, poetry, and history.
I don’t mind what medium we use for conversation! Thats up to you :3 if you’re interested, I don’t bite!
Hello everyone,
I'm Ter from central Europe and I would love to exchange letters with someone with a deep connection to Nature. Im'm in love with all the rocks, trees and plants. The plants would probably be a bad idea to send as we might contaminate our ecosystems. Maybe dried leaves would work? I would love that. I collect anything and everything outside and love to experience Nature even outside my country. We can get somewhat personal and share details about ourselves if it feels right but we don't have to.
Hope to hear from You soon! T.
Hey! My name is Kassidy and I am 19 years old, will be 20 this month actually. I am a hereditary witch and was sort of born into it, so I have been pretty much practicing my whole life. I am open to any type of penpals. I love to write letters and so I am mainly looking for snail mail but again, I am open to anything. Age nor gender matters to me. I want to meet other people from all different walks of life and hopefully make some deep bestie connections lol. I have dabbled into a lot of different types of magick and more.
If you are interested, you can comment and I will reach out or you can privately message me as well. I do not discriminate and I am a very open-minded individual. I am an open book and totally open to anything! No weirdos though please 🤣
Hi! Still finding myself and studying. I would love to have some meaningful exchange and learn more about different paths. I look forward to meeting people with different paths that are willing to share their experiences working with deites, ancestors, and etc and hear about how you chose that path.
I specially love crystals and have started learning tarot :)
(english is my second language, I speak portuguese and some spanish, so feel free to message in any of these languages)
I am a 33 year old eclectic pagan witch. I have been studying witchcraft and metaphysical topics since childhood, but practicing for around 15 years. I am hugely interested in tarot and astrology, and I tend to gravitate toward the Greek pantheon. My practice has been primarily solitary, but I have found myself craving more community and connection, and I currently lack any pagan friends. I am truly looking for anyone who considers themselves a pagan and possesses kindness and an open mind with ideas to share.
Some of my other interests include writing, singing and music, vintage and antiques, art, crafting, history, theology, psychology, philosophy, and so much more. I am a serial hobbyist who loves to learn and to talk. I am very creative, passionate, and curious.
I am a Cancer sun, Leo moon, and Sagittarius rising. What about you?
Hello! My name is Heather, I and from the USA. I currently live in Kentucky, but I’m not really from there. I’ve lived in many states and love to travel
I’m a bit more traditional, as far as practice and lifestyle is concerned. I’m happily married (we’ve been together since I was 18) and I have 4 (going on 5) children who I homeschool. I prefer female penpals but I’m willing to write to males if it’s like a “family penpal” situation.
One of my kiddos has autism that’s pretty profound, which makes it hard to make friends in person because people can be judgy of him. I have been told by drs that I likely am as well, but my friends say you wouldn’t really notice unless you already knew a lot about it, but they’re also not surprised lol. I’m not sure what that means but on top of living in a very Christian state, well, I’m just glad I love to write because penpals are and awesome way of finding likeminded friends!
Besides being a norse pagan, I am pretty crafty. I like to make soaps, candles, wire trees, woven jewelry, as well as build wooden furniture and do a little wood burning. I really like home renovation and dream to someday own my own land and house. I love to read and learn and I am current writing a pagan friendly homeschool curriculum.
Hi! my name is Mars and i’m 19. I’m from Italy and i’ve been studying wicca for a solid 4 years now. This year I started to seriously practice and I’m still learning a lot. This year will also be my first time celebrating Samhain!!! Here i don’t know any wiccan or witch, so id really love to have someone to share my experiences with and maybe become friends :) Also i recently got into tarot reading and i LOVE it.
Here are some info about me: i have a dog (black lab) and two cats, i still go to high school as i lost one year unfortunately, im vegetarian going vegan, i love to take walks in nature with my dog and i also love hiking, i like to cook, and in my free time i like to make art projects such as painting, sculpting or whatever it is lol.
If you are around my age feel welcome to contact me❤️❤️ (Please be over 18 yo)
Hey! I hope you can be my place 😇 i live in the UAE where there is NOTHING or if there is is highly underground as witchcraft its illegal here 🙈🙈🙈. I have had witchennes with me all my life , naturally, but i feel its time to learn more. i would say im an eclectic witch , i have been reading tons of books and scriptures and experimented with spells but always on my own. I would love to find my community. If you think you might be able to help me i will be happy to fill in any form needed 🙏🙏🙏 also best i stay here or on discord?
My path is.
Thursatru working with the Primordial Forces, I also work with Hades and have an Interest in Ares. I do work with others.
My main interest is learning about forging ingredients of any kind. I just want to obtain that knowledge more than anything. I'm also curious about what working with Ares is like. I understand that one practitioner towards another will be different, and I get that. I also wanted to say that instead of typing more about me you can click on my profile and look at what I've posted and commented on to gather information about me as a person. If you're interested, yes you can send me an inbox message.
Thanks for reading :)
My name is Vi (23/F) and I have been practicing for 9 years now. I was raised with magick and have followed a pretty light to gray path the majority of the time. I've always loved necromancy and speaking with spirits but I am lately being called to work w more demonic energies. I'm wanting to learn as much as possible about them and would love to chat w someone about them!
Sagittarius/Sagittarius/Aquarius Manifesting Generator Life Path Number 22
hi there!
my name is collectively Bento, although i go by many other names. i'm plural, unlabeled gender-wise, 19 years old, and go by they/it pronouns collectively. i am disabled as well, so my energy is very low a large portion of the time.
i've been a practicing witch for a solid 2-4 years, although i've been very on-and-off due to low energy. i'm also a Hellenic polytheist, though i've only considered myself such for a week or so now. during the past few weeks, however, i've been learning everything i can about the gods (while trying to keep my energy in check). i have more beliefs than just Hellenic polytheism as well, but i won't go in-depth about that here lol.
most of my interests outside of my craft includes, but is not limited to: analog horror, certain games (Minecraft, FFXV [somewhat], and animal crossing are all the first games to come to mind), character and story creation, plants, crystals/gems, and more! oh yeah, and i'm into diamond painting.
most of what i'm looking for is someone who can relate to me on at least a few of these things, although i'm welcoming to others who are interested in other things as well! even being a Hellenic polytheist isn't mandatory as i'm always open to other beliefs. i simply want to be able to talk about witchcraft and our personal beliefs together.
my main preference for communication is Discord, as most of my other friends and communities are through there, so my chances of seeing your messages is a lot higher that was as opposed to using phone messaging. just keep this in mind when DMing.
Hello, My name is Patrick. I am a 34 year old man living in Barcelona, Spain. I am originally from the US. I was raised Mormon but left the church when I was 14. Since then I have been formally initiated into Gardnerian Wicca, the Minoan Brotherhood, and Thelema's O.T.O. I am also taking the OBOD Bardic training. Informally, I have studied and continue to study Quareia, other forms of Druidry, non-Wiccan witchcraft, renaissance astrology, and medieval grimoires. The nucleus of my interest is in fin-de-siecle British magick, though yours need not be. I am interested in people's ideas and lived experience.
Outside of the occult, I enjoy various arts and crafts, especially painting and knitting; cooking; and spending time out in nature, whether it be in parks, hiking, or camping. I do not favor the beach as I burn quickly, though a beach at night can be very fine.
Any sort of contact is fine, though my preference will be for slow media, so even if we end up speaking through email or instant messenger, it will likely take me more than a few minutes to respond.
Hey all! Im a practicing norse pagan out of midwest/south US. I would love to meet both likeminded people and discuss with anyone of pagan beliefs!
Ive only been practicing a few years so im relatively uneducated in some aspects and would love to seek advice and connect.
A little about me; I am an artist! I am a contract stage manager and actor and so I travel around working quite a bit, i have a cat that is the love of my life. I enjoy reading, games, writing, all types of things and I would love to chat :)
Hi! I’m aqua (she/they) and I’m a sea witch slowly getting into Hellenism, and am looking for fellow witches and/or Hellenist to befriend, share tips and discuss our practices :)
About me: I am a Bahamian Sea Witch who has started to try dabble in Hellenism since last year (2023)- I’m not that well practiced due to ADHD and religious family stuff. I am an artist and love the ocean, fandom and world building/ DND- I also play a lot of indie games, especially farming sims. Feel free to free to message me if you are interested : D
Hello everyone,
Welcome to my little corner of r/paganpenpals. I'm not really sure what to put here, so I'll try to be thorough.
I'm Alice, I'm a 36 year old, disabled Army Vet. I'm also a transgender woman. I live in the New England area of the United States. I'm a Norse Pagan, and I belong to two pagan organizations, ADF and the Troth. I have been a fully practicing pagan since about 2013. My main gods/goddesses are Odin, Thor and Freya. I'm a pretty big geek when it comes to things, and I love horror movies. I'm also a bigh rocker and I love punk, rock and metal, but I'll listen to just about anything.
What I'm looking for is a penpal that I can write to through snail mail. I'd love to share things like trinkets, runes, and other things I make for my penpal. Also sending instructions for a really cool spell that I just did. Someone I can get excited for and get to bust out the fancy stationary and fountain pen for. That kind of thing. You can also send me stuff but it's not expected, even if it's just the instructions for a really cool spell you did.
Looking forward to hearing from you
Hey everyone! I’m new to paganism and would love to make some friends. I don’t know just yet what path I’m going down, but I’d say it’s probably eclectic, maybe centred around Celtic paganism.
For some more info about myself, I’m a genderfluid otherkin from Long Island, New York. I used to be a Christian as a child, but left it as I realised it wasn’t for me. I’ve been in the process of discovering myself, and realised paganism is definitely the right direction for me.
Hello! My name is Rachel and I reside in Maine, USA and I am looking for a consistent pen pal. I have found that Reddit is an amazing way to find pen pals and I have the privilege of having some amazing pen pals. I am looking for a few pen pals who are interested in good old fashion snail mail. I love getting creative with my letter writing and including extra goodies such as stickers, recipes, drawing, etc. I also love sending packages during holidays, birthdays, and exchange (I love to create artwork and have exchanged my artwork with peeps who also love to create and will send their art).
Let me share a bit about myself—I'm a 33-year-old bisexual polyamorous woman residing in Maine, USA. While I've traversed and dwelled along the East Coast, my current focus is on stabilizing my finances before broadening my horizons. As an artist, crafting and creating are my passions. I enjoy embellishing letters with drawings, stickers, blank coloring pages, and even tea bags—anything to add flair to our exchanges. While reciprocation isn't mandatory, it's always welcomed!
In terms of spirituality, I identify as a Norse Pagan. I'm open to communicating with individuals of any religion or culture, but I prefer conversations without attempts at conversion. If discussing my beliefs makes you uncomfortable, feel free to let me know.
Beyond that, I harbor a not-so-secret fondness for frogs—they hold profound sentimental value and are undeniably adorable. Additionally, my interest in minerals, crystals, and rocks has led me to explore their identification.
To sum it up, if you're intrigued, drop me a direct message with a brief introduction about yourself. Cheers!
Hello! As the title says, I am looking for like-minded pagans. I live in London (UK). I still consider myself a "beginner", I occasionally pray to the Gods, but I still do a lot of research and I have yet to perform an 'actual' ritual. This is mainly because I'm still in the 'broom closet'. Anyway, I would like somebody (preferably a woman but I'm open to all genders), to converse about Kemeticism and Hellenism with.
My other interests and hobbies include; drawing, writing, gaming, cartoons/anime, comics/manga, metal music, feminism, socialism, and alternative subcultures.
Hi everyone! I have just begun to delve into witchcraft and am finding that I quite like it! Long story short I am researching and trying to steadilly practice. I do not currently know any practicing witches but I would really like to!
A little bit about me, I put green witch since that's what I've always been drawn to. This is also the medium at which I receive confirmation and messages. But I'm definitely not trying to limit myself this is just what I'm comfy with right now. I am very nature oriented (it's my whole career) and also have a lot of hobbies. Like way too many, so let's add penpal to the list! Recently I have picked up collaging specifically. I think you will find that i am very down to earth and will always try to helpful and kind. <3
Like the title says I'm just looking for a friend to reach out to when the craft is getting beyond my comprehension (which is quite often). And also just to have someone to relate to because I know you won't look at me like I'm crazy 🤠. I am down for dms, emails, snail mail, etc. I love the idea of sending letters but hate the hassle, but if you are willing to commit, I am too! :)
Y'all have a wonderful day, I hope you find the penpal you are after. 😊
Hi! My name is Alex. I am 15,genderfluid he/they, but I am turning 16 soon. I am a beginner Witch and I have been pagan for a few years, practicing only recently now I'm able to. I am currently only working with Greek gods but am doing research into other pantheons. I live in England, I'm a bit of a nerd and I'm autistic.
I would love anyone to be friends with, preferably around my age. I have a lot of animals and like to read and write in my spare time along with other creative hobbies.
I don't mind doing mail or physical post cards but would prefer text/email.
Hi! My name is Specter and I’m 17, I’m based in Canada and I’m gender fluid/non binary. I would love a snail mail pen pal or an online pen pal but id prefer a snail mail pen pal. Im interested in herbs, crystals, tarot, etc. I’m autistic and have adhd with many special interest such as reading, art, drawing, music, musicals, frogs, video games (my favourites are sally face and cult of the lamb), cosplay, kickboxing, rugby,etc. I have a dog (chalupa Batman) and a cat (ekko) and I would love to make some new friends!
Hey all! Nice to meet you, I’m Crystal, an Italian Wiccan, I’m studying in the tradition of the Temple Of Ara founded by Phyllis Curott since 2022.
I’m writing here ‘cause I’m at the beginning of my spiritual journey and I would really like to share with someone my spiritual path, the difficulties and the glad moments that I will experience on my path. I would really enjoy to learn more and share knowledge to grow up together having fun!
About me: I’m an Italian lgbt polyamorous 28M, I’m studying psychology, I enjoy meditation and would like to learn more about yoga and taiji quan sometimes soon. I love reading especially sci-fi and thriller but also noir and fantasy. I love animation movies and my music tastes are pretty various. Recently I’m growing curious about China and Chinese myths and traditions.
Hope to find some friends here, for mailing or instant message… so let me know if you’re somewhat interested in knowing more about me!
Greetings all! I've been a practicing pagan for about three decades now; I started with Wicca and have since expanded into Druidry so seasonal celebrations and nature are very central themes, plus I honour both a Roman patron deity and an ancestral patron saint so my practice is honestly quite a patchwork quilt at this point. I'd be curious to deepen my knowledge of Druidry, learn about Italian witchcraft/stregheria, or study kitchen/garden witchery (and I could certainly use pointers on establishing a more regular practice overall), though I'm also happy just to chat with friendly fellow-pagans of any stripe - I'm also a baking enthusiast, a SCAdian/medieval-style calligrapher/illuminator, a retrowave fan, and a generally nerdy sort when I'm not wandering the nearby woods or browsing the local farmers' markets.
English is my primary language, though as an autodidactic student of French, German, and Italian, I'd enjoy the chance to practice these as well. Please comment/DM if any of this fits your own vibe!