How many have a secret fantasy they wish their spouse would disclose and what is it? Mine for years was watching my wife woth another man and joining. I finally shared and she was so turned on and also fantasized about it for years before.

This weekend I (M49) made reservations for my wife (F49) to go to a nice restaurant. When she came downstairs to meet me she looked stunning with her long flowing curly hair, tight black pants and her lace lingerie just showing over her breast.

I was so proud to walk her into the restaurant and couldn’t help the other men and woman notice her too. I couldn’t help but look at her all dinner, just want to get my hands on her breast that were placed just right to tease me and she knew it. We had a lovely meal and headed back home.

When got home we had planned to sit and enjoy the nice evening with a drink. She went upstairs to change and when she came downstairs to meet me, she was only wearing a solid black silk night dress. She got comfortable and placed her leg over me while we watched tv. I rubbed her legs and feet for a good hour, once and awhile grazing over her bare pussy and hearing her moan each time. We knew were the night was going to go but we enjoyed the foreplay.

Once the show was done I put on her favourite porn actress and we sat on the couch watching together. My wife touching her clit, my fingers deep in her pussy while we watched Angela getting her pussy eaten. After my wife had a couple orgasms lying across my body, she got on her knees and suck my cock til I came in her mouth. I watched her swallow and she gave me a kiss and we headed to bed.

My wife is amazing. (Yes she is gripping my cock as I write this)

So last night me and my husband were laying in bed after we both had a long day at work. We were cuddling watching tv and chatting. We hadn’t had sex in days so I wanted to tease him to get something started. So while we were chatting I started rubbing his chest, he said wow that feels really good. I then slowly started to move my hand down to his pants and pulled out his BBC. After I pulled it out he said wow I didn’t know you were in the mood tonight baby. I said just watch and enjoy I will do all of the work for you daddy. I then started to stroke his BBC while rubbing his balls, the more he moaned the faster I went. He finally came and it was a massive load, one of the biggest loads ever. Once that was done I crawled on his lap and we started making out!

My wife and I are off to a pretty good start for our standards. We have had sex 9 times this year. We are off to a better pace than ever. We had sex twice yesterday. Does anyone keep track of the things you do and how many times etc.?

I want to introduce a sex toy to my wife for the first time.any suggestions?what's the best sex toy for a beginner?for g spot activation

My wife has been trying to put a finger up my butt while giving a bj/hj for two years. I always said no as I was not keen, but recently thought ok, if she really wants to what the hell fine. She stopped acted shocked and we had to have a big awkward long winded conversation about it the next day as if I asked for it. WTH? She had even brought up pegging that I would not be cool with unless she REALLY wanted it. Love my wife, happy with sex, what am I missing here

Hi, I am engaged to my gf and we are due to be married in a few months. At the starts she couldn’t keep her hands off me and always jumped me for sex. Last couple of months she hasn’t wanted it but still got me off. Lately though she has been wanting to receive again but never initiates it unless I do. Always late at night too.. she always say I will the next morning start it but than never does. She says she loves me and is still very into me, but I feel like there is something wrong. I don’t understand why she jumped me so much to not at all, yet tells me everything is ok. Any advice or someone going through this?

This is a must do item on the bucket list for couples once in life. Very adventurous and liberating experience!

Me and my wife married for last 8 years.we never tried role play.we have been talking about getting a 3rd for a few weeks.ever since our sex life has improved a lot.today I asked her to buy some sexy lingeries and we bought them together.planing to do some role play.i have Never done this before.anyone with experience please guide me through

Im talking sexual of course, whether it's happened once or it's a regular thing.

Do you guys ever get your partners to talk about the porn in the screen together ?

Would love to ask my wife to comment on the cock on the screen. She’s shy, but how knows …hoping it turns her on ? I like to just comment on beautiful people fucking.

Wife continues to push her sexuality. Hit the town butt plug in and no panties. Came home and had very fun restrained sensory play from spanking to edging with her toys. Asked her to tell me her naughtiest secret desires before letting her cum. The idea of another cock seems to be a theme. Loving this empty nester sexual awakening.

Wife and I were on vacation in the Bahamas. We had a car and drove to a fairly private beach all the way north. We were just enjoying ourselves and the beautiful weather and scenery. Then I saw her walk off toward a rocky cove to explore. I noticed how alone we were and immediately hopped on the opportunity for sexy time. I had my GoPro recording and approached her and she already knew what was on my mind. She smirked and gave me a look and shook her head. I kissed her deeply. Right before going down on her knees, she instructed me to cum fast. I told her that i was sure I would. She got right into it, sucking me beautifully in her two piece bikini with a good mouth and hand combo, the waves crashing pretty hard on her while she was doing it lol. She made sure to look up at the camera and make some good eye contact. With her technique, it wasn’t long before I unloaded in her mouth. She stood right up, gave me a kiss and we began walking back toward the car, passing by a family that was just arriving. Finished just in the nick of time!

My wife and I have been together 25+ years. Starting six months ago I often put my thumb on her butt hole during doggystyle. I am not trying to really penetrate, just applying pressure with the soft pad of my thumb. Think of a slow pressure push/massage on her butt hole. She never stops me but she also never asks for it (or even show a reaction). She is basically still moaning and breathing heavily from the vaginal penetration (i.e. nothing changes with or without the thumb).

I am not trying for anal, so why do I do it? She has an amazing ass and one day I couldn't resist and just tried it to see if she would slap my hand away. She didn't. A couple times when we were done she jokingly gave me a nickname associated with putting my thumb there. She is not one to really talk about what she wants outside of the moment so it it never goes anywhere. To be clear we do talk, she wants to hear what I like and she tells me what she loves when I give oral, THAT'S what she cares about and loves the most.

Should I try giving her a little more thumb to see if it increases her stimulation? We generally don't use lube since blowjobs + her being turned on is more than enough for PIV. Will slobbering my thumb with Saliva be enough to push it a little further? Not full insertion but maybe enough to actually put the thumb pad in (nail still out).

So wife and I have a good sex life up and downs like all of us. Lately has been good and we both had been more open about it. We did a 12 days before Christmas challenge and help her to be more open minded.

Yesterday we found we were able to stream the Babygirl movie we were not even planning to have sex. During a scene (not really looking to spoiler) I told her the problem was the husband for don’t ask more and follow her lead thru other previous scene.

I saw her slightly touching herself during some scenes but she didn’t even was getting closer to me when the movie ends she went to the toilet and came back with her dildo and her wand. Usually we play with both before having sex, sometimes she needs to finish after me and we use them as well.

She immediately start using the wand and told me to get on top so she can suck my dick. I was able to notice during this time she started to use the dildo as well and was obvious she was getting more excited than regular.

Suddenly she asked me to get down and gave me a looong passionately kiss. During the kiss she started to tell me that she has a fantasy stopped kissing me and push me back.

The she told me “look at me” she took her dildo and put it like if it was her dick. And not even ask she command me to get on her top again. During our 10 yrs of marriage she never takes the lead or had been dominant. I kind of knew where she was going and was a bit nervous where she was heading but I wouldn’t kill her fantasy.

So the same I was in top of her she was playing with her vibrator and asked me to bend over and kiss her, at this point there was no option. I did and she asked me to spread me butt. I thought she was going straight with the dildo but she was nice enough for putting the wand on my balls. She moved downwards and I have no idea when she grab the lube but she started to suck me and putting some lube on my ass. By then it was obvious.

Then push me back again and told me I want to fuck you, Get on top. at the same time she was holding her dildo 😳. I was shaking but same I wasn’t calling it out I had wishing for my wife to open up sexually that so I was totally engaged. And honestly seen her like that was super excited.

She tried to penetrate me in that position for some minutes (honestly she was not even at the spot) but I play it along and enjoy her arousement.

I thought I was safe but she put me on my back and asked me to open my legs. ( previously We had have some ass play before but super light and thankfully the dildo is smaller than my size and I’m average). She put on some lube told me let me know to if it hurts, put both of my legs in her shoulders and started to put the dildo in my behind, honestly was way more excited because her excitement than from what I was physically feeling.

We continue until 1am with both of us being penetrated everywhere.

Even during the sex she admits she wants a threesome (which I admit it was my fantasy during a game on the Christmas games, but she will choose the other girl.

At the end she just mentioned next Tuesday I will buy a strapon and be able to fuck you like I really want.

Why Tuesday I have no idea 🤷‍♂️

I have random thoughts about technology and the impact to our lives.

You: Happy wife, love your husband but never have been comfortable with adult material. I am using "adult" broadly to include images of sexy women. They don't have to be engaged in sexual acts or even nude. Just images of sexy women (lingerie, tight clothing, suggestive positions). You know your husband would never cheat on you but you're uncomfortable with him looking at this content.

Note: If you don't mind these things then sit back and enjoy the responses :)

Question:

If you fit the "you" description; how would you feel if...

You found a stash of such images on your husband's laptop. Does it change how you feel if you discover that all of the images are of you? With AI models, you discover he made an AI model of you and all the "sexy" images are of you and are so darn accurate it takes you a bit to realize they are not really "you". Assume that he is not into sharing and you KNOW he would NEVER share them or post them. Do you confront him?

Just a fun twist to ponder...

What’s something you tried, or your partner tried that worked for you lately?

New way of initiating? Something you hadn’t done in a while? Different locale?

I’m looking for ideas to spice up this weekend.

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If you want all the backstory on my wife and I and our recent conversation on opening up sexually, check them out first on my profile. If you don’t want to read all that, I’ll give a brief overview.

We’re in our mid forties and been married for 17 years and together for 5 years before that. She was raised extremely conservatively in a religious house with a pastor father. I am pretty much her first everything and our sex life is/was pretty boring, although good. She’s never used a toy before or even had any idea what that meant. We had a talk about exploring her sexuality this week and she said she’d like to try a toy, so we ordered a dildo (which I thought was way too big) and a vibrator for her. She said since she’s never used either before, she wanted to try them by herself the first time. I agreed.

The toys showed up yesterday and after the kids went to bed, she went off to the room behind a locked door to try out her new toys. She was giddy and it was so cute. I was listening from outside the door and after about 10-15 minutes I started to hear moans…

About 5 minutes after the first moans, I heard her grunting pretty loudly and then heard her say in a quiet and but visceral tone, “holy crap!!!” Then she grunted and moaned for the next minute or two, followed by 2 or 3 minutes of heavy breathing. I figured she was done, but then heard more moans starting. After being in the for about 45 minutes the door opened up and she peaked her head out and said, “come here.”

I quickly got up off the couch and headed into the room. When I walked through the door she was laying on the bed naked with a towel underneath her. The dildo, vibrator, and a bottle of lube next to her on the towel. I locked the door behind me and walked up to the bed. She was flushed, but before I could say anything she started talking.

“First off, that fake penis is way too big. I tried for 10 minutes to make it work, but I couldn’t get it in more than an inch or two. I need to keep trying though, because I want to get it in me. The vibrator… oh my!” I replied with, “oh my? Good oh my I assume?” She said, “umm yeah. Like oh my goodness it was amazing. I had 4 orgasms. I’ve never had 4 orgasms. It was amazing and made my toes twinkle.”

I laughed at her and made fun of her twinkle toes. Then she said, “are you ok if I use it again sometime when you’re not here?” I told her, “absolutely! Those are your toys and you can use them whenever you want. I’m glad you enjoyed it.” She smiled and swore she wouldn’t use them too much and it wouldn’t take away from our sex life. She said it actually has her really turned on and wondering what else she’s been missing. Haha.

I then asked more about the dildo, and what she was trying and why she couldn’t get it in. She just kept saying it was too big and too thick. I asked if she used a lot of lube, and she admitted she didn’t. I told her next time to try using lots of lube and be patient. She was excited to try again.

She then pulled me over to her and ran her fingers down my chest and stomach and grazed them across the front of my shorts as she kissed me. She then told me to take the shorts off and lay down. When I laid down she climbed on top of me and started nibbling my ear.

She worked her way down my neck to my chest and kissed all across my chest, down to my stomach. As she was kissing my stomach her hand reached down and grabbed my penis. She began kissing lower and kissed the tip, then looked up at me and said, “is this what you want?” I nodded and she placed the tip in her mouth and softly kissed it and sucked on the tip. Then she began working her way deeper and twirled her tongue all around like a pro. My mind was blown as this was the best blowjob she’s ever given me, and to honest, I was feeling real close to finishing within 30 seconds.

I gently placed my hand on her jaw to bring her off so I didn’t finish in her mouth. She opened her eyes and looked up at me, then kept sucking. That put me over the top and I panicked, guiding her off me a bit more forcefully. She started coming off as she moved her lips from down on it up my shaft to the tip. She briefly pulled her lips off, then placed them back on it and went down twirling her tongue again. She knew I was about to cum, and didn’t care.

I closed my eyes momentarily as I felt my penis start pulsating in her mouth. As soon as it did, she pulled her mouth off and began stroking it. I finished all over my chest and stomach and she continued gently stroking and squeezing me for a minute or two. Then she came up and gave me a big kiss. After the kiss she moved to kissing my neck, then licked some of the cum off my chest. She smiled as she looked up at me and said, “it actually doesn’t taste bad! I think I could do it.” I told her I’d believe it when I see it.

So have had an issue in the past with gag reflex when blowing my husband and I have now nearly overcome it altogether. Never thought I would get here but I genuinely enjoy sucking his dick now. It is as much of a turn on for me as it is him. Just thought I might share what has helped in case other ladies (or guys!) struggle with this issue and also curious what tips others might have for great BJs.

I have learned that the traditional kneeling position can be made easier for me by breathing deeply and that seems to relax the muscles in the back of my throat. Also, and I know this doesn’t work for everyone, but I give him oral almost every day and that has helped train my throat muscles.

The biggest change that has helped has been to change my position. I lie on the bed facing the ceiling and hang my head off the side of the bed. He stands on the side of the bed and enters my mouth. I use one hand on his balls and the other on his hip to encourage him to thrust deep enough. For whatever reason, I have no issue with gag reflex in this position. He can be down my throat and it doesn’t bother me at all. (Never thought I would say that!) Also, this leaves me in a position where he can touch boobs, pussy or whatever and we both love that.

Does anyone else have any tips for improving BJ technique? Tips welcome from everyone!

My wife and I recently got the Adventure Challenge In Bed book and have had a lot of fun so far. We both agreed that whatever we scratch off we have to at least attempt just so that we can try new things and then we discuss what we liked and don’t like. I know at some point in the book we are going to get a challenge that involves another couple. Something about having sex for an entire month and another couple does the same while a third acts as the judges and votes on who’s is better, or something like that. I don’t know the complete details because we haven’t gotten to that challenge yet. So my question is has anyone else done this challenge yet? Neither of us have friends that close that would be willing to do this without making it awkward. We still want to attempt it but don’t know what to do.

Question for any guys who take ED medication.

My wife and I are finally getting out on a big date night this Saturday and kids will be gone. For background I take 5mg daily tadalafil to help. I dont have erection problems but EQ hasnt been great now that Im 45 and it helps not having to worry about it. I typically take it around late afternoon so that it is sort of fully kicked in by the time my wife and I get to business at night. I tried bluechew in the past (30mg sildenafil) and the side effects were pretty annoying but EQ was really good.

So anyways my wife and I will be out Saturday night and not back until late at night so I doubt we will have any fun time but the next morning we have all the time we want.

I wanted to really give her a treat so I am wondering for any of you that mix cialis/viagra should I take my normal 5 mg of tadalafil on Saturday afternoon and then pop a blue chew early in the morning Sunday or maybe just pop another 5mg of tadalafil in the middle of the night so that by the morning im really good?

I have never mixed tadalafil and sildenafil nor have I taken 5mg of tadalafil and another 5mg 10 or so hours later.

10 years together and we are completely obsessed with each other. He's opened up about fantasizing me being fucked by other men, and he gets really turned on if I send provocative text message /nudes to other guys. I was reluctant at first as it kind of goes against my monogamous head, but I won't lie it really turns me on too. BUT I'm not comfortable the other way around (him sexting anyone). He knows that and as so we have a deal. I'm still afraid of how this could end...like someone finding out, ua adding another person to the sex, or even becoming a swinger. I know it sounds silly but when I'm horny I can't see straight and I know for a fact that he won't be the one saying no to anything. I'm just not that "progressive", lots of mental restraints, but a huge sex appetite which husband keeps on feeding. Anyone else experienced something similar?

(F35 here)

Jesus, last night was fucking sensational. I love how 12 years later we can still have the most incredible sex (Husband M32). I don't get how people feel sorry for married people, thinking they all have shit sex lives. If you've got 100% communication and hold zero judgement for whatever they are into, you're gonna be inseparable. There's nothing better than fucking your best friend. And hearing and moaning 'I love fucking you' and 'I fucking love you' as well as all the other dirty talk, it just makes it perfect.

New to this sub and not sure if this is appropriate here but seems like a fun sub to contribute too!

I started with a new fore play technique that is extremely simple and had great results. Figured to share it if anyone else wants to try.

(35 M/F) For as long as I can remember, my wife and I have always started off having sex by stimulating her clit to an orgasm prior to sex.

Naturally, when not using a toy, I’ve always focused on the top or down the front with some fingering to hit all the sensitive spots.

This time, I started normally for about a minute. Not sure why but I decided to move down to only play with the very bottom of her pussy and ignored the top for the time being.

Rubbing with just the slightest penetration, purposely avoiding any of the nerve endings at the top or inside, going pretty slow. Eventually, a slight stray rub up top but then right back down to the bottom.

Near the end you could feel her pussy trying to bring in whatever was available but I did not give that satisfaction. To say she was wet would be a massive understatement.

Then when it seemed like she couldn’t take anymore, I added an extra finger back to the top and finished it up on both ends.

It had no business being that effective with how simple of a change it a was. I’m sure a lot of you have done this but sometimes we can be oblivious to most simple solutions.

Does anybody leave a nice bra on to begin the fucking, then mid cowgirl unhook it and let the melons fall out ? Drives me wild.

Where does cowgirl rank on your list? What do you enjoy about it? Any special tricks or moves?

A thread here from this morning about frequency of masturbation was pretty alarming to read. Dudes, I really encourage you to avoid cumming without your wife, or to do so very rarely. Edging can be really beneficial for your performance and overall sex life, but cumming, especially if you do it quickly, ESPECIALLY if you have a sexually available wife, is just not a good idea. Keep that peak testosterone for her.

If your response to this is to think, "what's even the point if you don't cum?", then you have the answer to why you're not that good in bed right there. Learn to enjoy pleasure without orgasm, and even more importantly, learn that extending your sessions makes orgasms WAY BETTER. You should not spend your life having 2 second, hyper-localized orgasms. With breath work, edging, patience, you can learn to orgasm for much longer, and in a way that spreads throughout your whole body.

If you are married and are cumming alone every day, I really think you're doing so much more harm than you realize.

EDIT: I honestly didn't think this would be so controversial. Look, if your wife is sexually shut down, I empathize for sure. But I still don't think you're doing either of you any favors by training your subconscious that she is not the path to orgasm. I think you should be putting that energy into exploring, without pressure or coercion, why your wife so shut down, and if you've given up on that, you should probably just leave.

Okay, I understand that the testosterone science is not clear-cut, so whatever, ignore that part. I think all men recognize that your brain is different after orgasm. I believe that human sexuality evolved for the purpose of forging strong bonds, and I believe that's what orgasm has the power to do. If my wife was so unavailable for sex that she wasn't even open to any kind of mutual masturbation or sharing of orgasm at all, the marriage would be over.

Look, just try it. Try to learn to not enjoy sex just for the orgasm. Try to learn to not enjoy masturbation just for the orgasm. It makes everything better! It makes orgasm better! It's not about just being a nice guy, it FEELS BETTER when you can learn this.

If not, that's fine. No one is going to take your orgasms away. But if your first response to this is defensiveness... maybe explore that a bit more.

My wife and I have known each other most of our lives. She is an unbelievable mother to our kids. When I go down on her, I am so hungry to devour her pussy that I almost feel like an animal. I can't get enough. I love the way she looks, tastes, smells, everything. She usually doesn't take long and once she's done, I will kiss all around her legs and less sensitive areas until she's ready to go again. She's not super high drive so it's not as frequent as I would prefer but man when it's on, it's hot and I'll give her as many orgasms as she'll let me. I think I might enjoy it more than her.

First off, if you didn’t read my other post, it provides our entire background and you should read it first. Following that post I pulled my wife aside tonight and had the talk. We’ve had some sex talks before, but this was different. Way different.

Sorry if this got a bit long, I figured you would want all the details.

I took some of the advice from the comments and made this more about her and what she really wanted. I asked her initially if she was satisfied with our sex life, and she said, “yes, of course!” I then lightened it up and asked, “really though, is it great and mind blowing? I mean I’m sure there’s some fun toys or something else you’d like to try, no?” I laughed as I asked it in a joking manner.

She laughed and agreed the sex was good, but not mind blowing. I jokingly replied, “so you want toys then is what I’m hearing? Something that will blow your mind?” She said, “You’re a dork. I’ve honestly never thought about toys. That feels a bit taboo. I don’t even really know what trying toys means, but it could be fun and I’d possibly be open to trying. If we did, think I’d want to try them on myself alone first though, would you be ok with that?” I agreed.

She then said, “I honestly don’t know what toys there are for this type of thing. I can only imagine like a big fake penis. Is that what we’re talking about? That’s the only thing I can think that might blow my mind. Something a little bigger than you.” I told her there are many different toys such as vibrators and yes, dildos. I told her that she could pick a couple out and try them.

She was totally embarrassed and said, “I wouldn’t know where to begin, but honestly a big fake penis might be fun to try. I can’t believe I’m having this conversation with you.” As she blushed and nervously laughed. We then looked online and picked a vibrator and a dildo. She shocked me quite a bit actually by wanting a big one, like much bigger than I would expect or recommend.

She said, “If I’m going to try one out, I may as well try something big, right?” I hesitated for a minute, but then agreed. I was honestly in shock. She then said I should get a toy too, so I picked out something and we checked out. Next day air shipping means we’ll have it all tomorrow.

I then turned the conversation back to her, and asked if she had any fantasies or anything sexual she wanted to try. She replied, “nope, I’m happy.” I followed up with, “really? You mean to tell me you have no sexual fantasies or desires? I’m not buying it. You can tell me anything, you know that, right?” She acknowledged she could and asked, “well Mr. Fantasy, what are yours?”

I explained how I fantasize about her giving me spontaneous blowjobs, dressing more sexy both in private and public (of course on special occasions and not around the kids), and her sending me nude photos via text while I’m at work.

She laughed and said, “Spontaneous blowjobs? Really? I actually like doing that for you but thought you didn’t like it or would judge me. That’s why I feel confident doing it on our anniversary trips because it’s a special time and I don’t feel like I’ll be judged. If it’s something you want more often, I would actually enjoy that too. Consider it done.” I smiled and said, “Seriously? You thought I would judge you? Of course not. I would never judge you for anything sexual between us. It’s a safe space and I’m willing to try anything at least once. Shoot if that’s why you’re not sharing your fantasies with me because you’re afraid of being judged, then don’t be. We need to share our fantasies and desires, even if we don’t agree to pursue them.”

She got a huge smile on her face and gave me a big hug. She was relieved to hear me say that and I could visibly see a weight lift off her shoulders. She said, “You have no idea how nice it is to hear you say that. I’ve felt so judged by any sexual acts I wanted to try for as long as I can remember. It all felt so taboo and I felt ashamed of anything other than basic sex. Now that I say it out loud, it sounds dumb.”

I laughed with her and told her I’m so glad that we were having this conversation and that really nothing is taboo within in our marriage as long as we’re on the same page. She agreed and said, “ok, now that we’re on the same page, let’s address your other fantasies. Dressing sexy is just not me. I just don’t feel comfortable, but I can do it in private. Dressing sexy in public might take some baby steps and getting used to, but it could definitely be fun to try eventually. So I’ll work on that.”

I smiled and said that would be amazing and that we can start small with low cut tops, push up bras, or high slit dresses. She agreed. Then she moved on to the last one and caught me off guard. “Then we have dirty texts, really? You want me to be like a little slut wife or something?” Then paused waiting for an answer.

I freaked out, thinking I pushed too far. I thought for a second then said, “babe, not at all. I just think it would be fun and hot to have you distract me randomly. I think you’re so hot and I want to see you feeling hot and showing off.” She laughed and said, I was totally joking. I am open to it, but we’ll have to figure out how to I’m afraid the kids will look through my photos and see something they shouldn’t. So maybe we can do snap or something similar. You figure out the best course there. I’m willing to try. I have no idea how to be sexy or what is sexy, so it might be embarrassing, but again I’ll try for you.”

I acknowledged the effort and we talked about specifics for a bit. Then I followed up again with, “ok, so what are your fantasies? Give me at least 2.” She shrugged and said, “ok, but no judgement. First one is easy. I’ve always loved when you tickle my butt. I have fantasized about taking it a step further with a finger and possibly anal sex. Another one would be that since we met I’ve always fantasized about giving you a blowjob and finishing on my chest, face, or possibly in my mouth. Mouth might be gross, but I think it would be hot. If it’s not too gross, maybe even swallow it. I know this is kind of slutty and that’s why I’ve never said anything or tried it. Please no judging me. I know it’s a lot.”

I was shocked and told her as much in a good way. I explained that it’s literally every man’s fantasy to have their wives swallow. That’s not gross, it’s hot! Same for finishing on her face and chest. She smiled so big!

She said, “seriously? I’ve been so ashamed of that for years! Ugh. We really need to work on our communication. This conversation should have happened 17 years ago.” I agreed. She continued, “Now that we’re having this conversation, one more fantasy, well something that turns me on for as long as I can remember is the idea of someone accidentally seeing me naked. Maybe not even naked, but possibly a wardrobe malfunction.”

Again I told her that would be fun to explore, and asked her for some examples of what she’s thinking or would be comfortable with. She said, “a good example would be wearing no bra and a loose shirt where someone can see down my shirt. During our anniversary trip, I’ve thought about coming out of the bathroom after a bath naked with the window open and someone seeing me. Something about seeming truly accidental turns me on. I don’t think I could ever just flash a stranger, but the accidental thing makes it ok for me for some reason.”

I couldn’t believe my ears and again just supported her and said it would be fun to try. We wrapped it up by running through how we need to have a weekly touch base on how things are going and what we’re comfortable with or not. Also any new fantasies or things we want to try. That was her idea actually. She then said, I’m actually really excited about this and how fun it’s going to be.

Finally, she mentioned how she was nervous as the kids were getting older how we would stay engaged as a couple. Especially when they leave and we’re alone as empty nesters. She said this is going to be great for us to have a fun inside game or adventure that’s just between us.

I really want to find a sex club and fuck my husband next to other couples. Letting others watch while my husband gags me with his dick, pounds my tight ass, and absolutely sluts me tf out really gets me going. Anybody experience this with their partner?