/r/GetMotivatedBuddies

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Find accountability partners for health and fitness, studying, work, and healthy habit building.

Purpose

Find a buddy to get you on track towards your goals.
Mainly post buddy requests, but posts suggesting how to structure working with your buddies are good as well.

GM Level 1: General Motivation

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GM Level 2: Advanced Discussion

/r/GetDisciplined

GM Level 3: Accountability Buddy

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Rules:

Detail yourself and exchange info! Whether you communicate by text, phone, skype, carrier pigeon, etc. Send your buddy motivated thoughts, goals, listen to them, help them-more importantly PUSH THEM!, and you--push back! Teamwork!

If you do what 95% of what people are doing, you will get their same result. Get together and break those walls!

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31m looking for an accountability partner mainly for college (computer science)

31m looking for an accountability partner mainly for college (computer science)

Hello, I hope you all are achieving/working towards your goals!

I'm an avid book reader, I'm passionate about business, data, and marketing, technology.

I'm currently looking for an accountability partner for helping me stay on track studying.

Preferably a who loves to solve problems, and can help me stay on track.

EST time, looking for someone to:

check in daily Give support Bounce ideas/brainstorm Grow together Hold me accountable

What you get from me:

The listed above Plus techniques and ideas from many self development books: atomic habits, think fast and slow, etc. Empathy through firmness to help break down obstacles in your way And more

Let's help each other grow and achieve our goals and dreams!

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2024/05/18
01:59 UTC

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30F Looking for Accountability Buddy

Hi all,

I‘m looking for someone in a similar time zone (Eastern Standard Time) who is interested in becoming accountability buddies for our personal/ professional growth goals. Ideally, I‘d love to have someone that I meet with for about an hour virtually once a week and we can each discuss our goals for the upcoming week and check in on our progress towards our goals set from the previous week. I‘m mainly focused on my mental and physical health, and my professional development, so it would be great to have someone who is looking for the same!

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2024/05/17
23:17 UTC

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30 days water fast?

Hey everyone

I'm looking to do a 30 days water fast and looking for a buddy to keep the high spirits while doing so.
I'm mostly doing this to get rid of some excess fat and for the benefits of cleaning my body.
I've done this in the past and it feels really really good. I'm prepared with vitamins to keep everything going well, but my partner can have whatever strategy they want!

Anyone interested please add me on discord thelinarts or dm me.

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2024/05/17
20:44 UTC

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38 M dad looking for someone to talk weight loss and keep each other going

Hi, and thanks for scoping out my post!

I'm a 38 y.o. dad of 4 in the Central time zone (Iowa, to be precise) and I'm hoping to find a friend to talk weight loss, fitness, and keep each other going when the motivation is low.

Ideally, I'm looking to lose around 50 lbs. and put some muscle on so I'm actually as strong as my kids think I am...lol

Gender and age doesn't matter, as long as we click! I could definitely use a friend or friends, so the more the merrier!

I look forward to hearing from anyone! Have a great day!

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2024/05/17
15:11 UTC

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GMT+8 Looking for an accountability buddy

My Goal: finishing web development online courses before 1 September 2024

We can still maintain the peer relationship after this date, and I'm ok if you have a different goal, let's cheer for each other💪

I hope we can achieve our goals, so please make your plan, and be open and honest with how things are going.

Now I have a plan where we can text each other twice a day, once to tell each other what we are going to do today, and the other time to tell how the day turn out. But if you have a better idea, feel free to share it with me.

Please refer to this article How to Be an Effective Accountability Partner.

DM me if you're interested!! :)

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2024/05/17
06:41 UTC

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31F looking for long term weight loss accountability partner.

31F who has gained a decent amount of weight after pregnancy, and haven't made it a priority to lose weight until now. Ultimate goal is to lose around 90lbs, taking it one pound at a time.

Going to be doing calorie counting, with a focus on high protein. Looking to train for a 5k, and implement some weight training as well.

Would love to find people with similar goals to keep each other accountable, and discuss goals and progress on a normal basis.

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2024/05/17
01:21 UTC

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Looking for a virtual workout buddy

Hi there!

31F intermediate/advanced fitness level looking for a virtual workout buddy! I’m moving to Eastern Europe and will be getting up at 5am or so to workout. So Europe or more eastern counties or even the West Coast in the US would work!

Basically looking to create workouts together and maybe zoom during them or something? Not sure about expectations, I have never done this before! But I’ll be working out in my room and won’t have access to a gym so looking to be extra motivated!

Thanks for reading!

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2024/05/16
15:55 UTC

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Looking for a Writing friend in North Lincolnshire

Hi,

I would like to meet an accountability buddy who shares my passion for writing fiction. Ideally, I would like to meet up in person - somewhere public - monthly to discuss our projects as well as keeping each other accountable.

Thanks.

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2024/05/16
13:00 UTC

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Looking for a study buddy till atleast the 20th.

I have my clg exams going on rn. 2 more to go. I need to sit long hours atm but i'm not able to concentrate properly. It would be really helpful if you're studying too and we can be study buddies. We can tell each other what topics we intend to cover in a day or a few hrs and then check up on each other once in a while. My time zone is GMT +5:30 and I dont study late at night. Also, need not be the same subject at all, but the two remaining exams are of Physics.

If this feels suitable for u, plz do let me know asap. It will be of immense help to me!

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2024/05/16
12:05 UTC

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27F Looking for a writing buddy, +3GMT

Hi! I'm a hobbyist writer (short stories, fan fiction) with a professional background. Writing without a supervisor made me lazy and undisciplined. My goal is to write every day, make a schedule for stories and manage my projects as I would do at work (e.g, set strict deadlines, separate tasks)

I would like to share progress, schedules, and discuss writing process/professional goals in general. It's a hobby I want to treat as work. If you're not a writer, but you're disciplined, strict and passionate about what you're doing, it would be nice too!

PS I'm not interested in any groups or communities, only personal communication.

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2024/05/16
08:53 UTC

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Looking for accountability partner for a 20 day water only fast. message me if interested!

Hello! I’m a 24 year old female looking for someone who wants to be my accountability partner for the next 20 days in a water only fast. We can check how we are feeling and support each other through this journey. Please message me if you’re interested. Everything is better with support. 😄

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2024/05/16
02:18 UTC

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Weight loss partner

UK 25 year old female, 115 lbs, looking to lose 15 lbs. Looking for someone to keep me on track ! Open to comparing meal plans for the day and exercise etc. just need someone to check in really!

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2024/05/15
21:37 UTC

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40F looking for accountability partner for alternate day fasting/weight loss/fitness

Hi, Looking for female accountability partners to work on alternate day fasting and weight loss for at least a one month period. I need to lose about 30 pounds total, but looking to make some progress and kick start myself for the next month. Located in Eastern Canada.

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2024/05/15
12:27 UTC

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Seeking Brainstorm & Accountability Partner for Business, Fitness, and Life Goals

I'm on the lookout for a dedicated accountability partner to join me in discussing business strategies, fitness routines, and life goals. Here's a bit about me:

  • I hold a Masters in Industrial Organizational Psychology and have a background in consulting businesses on efficiency improvement and problem-solving.
  • As an INTJ personality type, I thrive in one-on-one conversations where we can dive deep into ideas and strategies.
  • Despite my expertise, I sometimes find it challenging to solve my own problems – that's where you come in!
  • I run a Staffing Firm and have a keen interest in optimizing workflows and achieving long-term success.

My ideal accountability partner is:

  • Smart, loyal, and honest – loyalty is key for building a long-term partnership.
  • Interested in discussing business strategies, fitness goals, and life aspirations.
  • Ready to commit to regular check-ins and provide constructive feedback.

What you can expect from me:

  • Thoughtful discussions and brainstorming sessions to tackle challenges and set actionable goals.
  • Honest feedback and support tailored to your individual needs.
  • A long-term partnership focused on mutual growth and success.

If you're up for the challenge and interested in teaming up, shoot me a PM.

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2024/05/15
05:09 UTC

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37M Looking for an accountability partner - get up at 07:15 weekdays - CET

I'm looking for a dedicated buddy to help me evolve and establish a consistent morning routine that can be maintained for years.

My goal (first step) is to get up every day at exactly 07:15 AM, (do 15” excercise) and I'd love to find someone who has a similar goal or is simply looking to improve their morning habits.

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2024/05/14
19:19 UTC

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Relationships Can Be Daunting

When you give a lot to a relationship and realise that it’s stalled for almost 6 months, and at same time you realise that you ain’t the same person as you were once: the one who had their own identity and one who once had a sense of self-love, which feels like a far fetched reality today.

I’m in hunt for one accountability partner. The idea is to keep pushing one another to keep going, and never look back. Now I know that I’ve been an optimistic person all my life, until this relationship I’ve had with someone kinda made me realize that I stopped caring form myself and putting efforts on pursuits that once truly mattered to me.

What I’ve in mind,

  1. Walk a day (or maybe get myself a month long gym membership)

  2. Practice mindfulness (via journaling: I wanna start off with venting, to begun with, and once I’ve it all off my head, begin action based journaling)

  3. Work on a side academic project: This is crucial to get myself going and/or move forward in my life. Think it will help me stay distracted, should the worse come upon me (break-up)

  4. Reacquaint with friends/family: I did have a healthy social circle. I’ve neglected them lately in light of relationship stressors. Would wanna break the ice with such people, eventually.

If you too are going through anything like this, let’s connect. Tell me what you wanna do with your life, and/or how can we help each other out or check on each other?

Toodles

PS I’m a guy

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2024/05/14
15:15 UTC

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23F work&study daily/weekly motivation GMT+2

Hi! 👋 I'm a 24-year-old based in Kraków (GMT+2), seeking an accountability buddy (or buddies).

My focus areas:

  • 🎓 Writing my BA in linguistics
  • 🖥️ Learning frontend coding
  • 🌸 Balancing work, studies, and self-development

My ideas for this:

  • 🌜 Regular check-ins (e.g., evenings)
  • 🍅 Pomodoro sessions (e.g., Forest app)
  • 🗓️ Weekly summaries and planning
  • 💭 Casual discussions (on struggles, study hacks, recommendations)

My mindset:

I prioritise balance, good nutrition, and daily movement while pursuing my dreams. I'm not into hustling. I'm seeking a buddy who shares this mindset 🥰

If this sounds like a fit, DM me - let's support each other! 🚀

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2024/05/14
12:04 UTC

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I’m looking for an accountability partner to start my own business

Hey everyone.

I’m looking for an accountability partner, who supports me to stay on track, while starting my own business.

I'm excited to hear from you.

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2024/05/14
11:29 UTC

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46M, Netherlands, Artist (creative), Martial Artist, Gym, quitting weed

I'm a US expat living in The Netherlands, stay-at-home dad. In the past few years I've taken up art and am working towards setting up an online shop and exhibits. I also formally train in Wing Chun and Bak Mei styles of Kung Fu, and would like to teach it in the future, should we move back to the US. Finally, I go to the gym 2x a week (we do exercise in Kung Fu as well).

I also need support with quitting weed. I smoke one joint a night before bed, and feel that I want to quit. I'm not a drinker and don't do anything else besides that one joint per night, except microdosing truffels, which doesn't give me a high but helps with focusing and creativity).

I feel that I struggle with keeping my routine during days when my kid is on vacation. I usually figure I'll do my kung fu and workout when my wife comes home from work, but by that time procrastination starts setting in and I find myself not going. Summer is coming up, so I'm looking for a buddy to help keep me on track with art and training, as well as someone to report my weed-quitting progress with.

Anyways, if anyone has similar activities and needs a motivation/discipline buddy, lemme know!

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2024/05/14
09:11 UTC

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22M Looking for LooksMaxxing Buddy

Hey, looking for someone that has the same general interest in taking care of their bodies and maximizing their aesthetics to their best abilities.

It can be either really casual or super focused, i am fine either way.

Wanting a buddy because sometimes going on a path with someone just makes it a bit easier and bearable.

Pm me if interested!

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2024/05/14
02:01 UTC

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Looking for YouTuber Accountability Partner

I am a YouTuber looking for someone to help[ with my producing content accountability. It is something I love doing, yet, when it comes to doing the work, I always find some reason to put it off. I am looking for someone who also is a YouTuber and understands the pressures of not meeting the personal expectations of delivering content regularly.

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2024/05/14
00:41 UTC

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Looking for a Partner in Productivity: Join the Quest for Achievement!

Hey there! I'm a 28-year-old guy with a passion for building businesses, particularly in the marketing realm. I've had some ventures before, but this time around, I'm flying solo and feeling the weight of that independence. It can be tough to stay motivated without a partner in crime, you know?

So, here's the deal: I'm on the hunt for an accountability partner who shares my enthusiasm for early mornings and hustling towards goals. Whether you're in my time zone or halfway across the globe in the USA or UK, if you're ready to rise and grind at the same time, let's connect.

Here's what I bring to the table:

  • Commitment to connecting daily
  • Providing encouragement and support during those moments when the grind feels heavy
  • Holding you accountable every step of the way

And what I'm looking from you:

  • Dedication to working during the same time slot
  • Willingness to stay connected via signal or other apps for easy communication
  • Openness to discussing our goals and progress
  • A self-driven attitude that matches my own passion for success

If you're ready to team up and tackle our goals together, shoot me a message.

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2024/05/13
23:23 UTC

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24F looking for an accountability partner to learn language with

Hi! I successfully met wonderful people through this sub who helped me to achieve some of my fitness goals. I am now aiming to get back to language learning after a long break! My current goals are :

  • Maintain my Spanish level especially the speaking skills (language exchange)
  • Get to A2 level in Farsi by the end of June (~mid July)
  • Improve my writing skills in English and get to the advanced level (C1)

I am not only looking for help but I’m also here to provide it too! I’m a French native speaker and a language enthusiast. I love learning and studying.

I’m in the GMT+2 /UTC+2 zone, timezone is not a problem. Likeminded people welcomed.

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2024/05/13
20:33 UTC

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Looking for Accountability Buddy

I’m 24F stay at home mom, if we become friends that’s a plus, I don’t mind discussing other topics but I’m really out of shape since I’ve had my baby. I want to get more active, get back into reading and lose this weight. I have about 60-65lbs I need to lose. I’ve started changing my diet up today but I think I will stick to it and do better with a buddy. EST time but I’m open for different time zones if no one is available in my area. We can talk on the phone and text.

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2024/05/13
20:25 UTC

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35/M Looking for accountability partner

I’m fairly successful from society’s perspective but personally I feel I have a whole lot to achieve. I’ve done some good things for my age but procrastination gets the best of me and catch myself changing my routines frequently, which is eating away at my productivity.

I’m looking for someone who has crazy high aspirations for themselves yet sane to behave like a commoner and easy to connect with. DM me if interested. I would like to connect with someone who is willing to connect daily to discuss their challenges and situations and let me do the same with them. I’m in the EST and have no issues with what part of the world you’re in, but preferably US or South Asia

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2024/05/13
14:06 UTC

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Looking for an accountability partner

Hi Everyone! I’m a 24M and am looking for an accountability partner for my photography business / general health and lifestyle / new skills like music and filmmaking / and just overall living an intentional life. Based in EST. This sounds wild, but I was hoping to have someone where we can both send a video back and forth each day to catch each other up on what we’re working towards, what goals we accomplished yesterday, big picture, etc! So if it’s similar goals it’d come most naturally to care about each other. Message me if interested!

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2024/05/13
11:52 UTC

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Accountability school partner

Hey guys, currently a sophomore studying CS. Long story short, I have a pretty shit gpa and need to improve it in the next two years if I want any shot in the job market. I was looking for someone in the similar field of any age who would be willing to be my “partner”?

Some things which I would personally appreciate: Having a structured idea of what to write to each other each day Having a set time when we could message each other Someone who is not flaky and willing to work together on issues

Btw: someone with more experience in this field would be optimal, though anyone in similar areas would be cool too. Would love someone who is strict-no bullshit

Thanks!

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2024/05/13
03:12 UTC

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iso accountability buddy

Hi, I'm 24F, PST time zone, searching for someone who will hold me accountable for maintaining a healthy lifestyle. I have been struggling with binge eating disorder for some time now and feel like I have tried everything under the sun to recover, but nothing seems to work. I am disciplined in other areas of my life like with work and exercise, but food addiction seems to be a different beast. I would love to have someone to hold me accountable, however I'm embarrassed to ask my friends and family for help in this area, so I was hoping I could find a likeminded person here. I would be happy to motivate you to reach your goals as well! Message me if interested :)

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2024/05/13
03:03 UTC

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Looking for accountability buddy

27F I’m looking for a buddy to keep each other motivated. I’m pretty disciplined when it comes to most of my life. But I want to push myself a little more because I have goals I want to achieve and I figured I could use some help.

My goals are mainly related to better time management, setting time for studying and keeping an active lifestyle.

I’m not particularly picky when it comes to the buddy. Ideally would love for it to be a girl. And I’m willing to offer support and encouragement whatever your goals are.

My time zone is UTC+2. So ideally we should have close time zones to be able to communicate and check in.

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2024/05/12
18:48 UTC

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Seeking Accountability Partner for Study and Project goals

Hey everyone!

I’m on the lookout for an accountability partner to buckle down and achieve some serious study and project goals together. Here’s a bit about what I’m hoping to find and offer:

About Me:

I’m Kai, a 26 year old python developer GMT +5:30
I’m passionate about AI/ML stuff, started learning about game development.

What I’m Looking For:

An accountability partner who is dedicated, motivated, and ready to commit to regular check-ins and progress updates.

Bonus but not required omeone who shares similar study or project goals and is willing to support each other in achieving them.

What I Offer:

A committed and supportive partner in your journey towards achieving your study and project goals.
Regular check-ins and updates to keep us both on track and motivated.

It would be great we could do pomodoro sessions together. I'm available to do sessions from 7:00 to 9:00 am and between 7:00 to 12:00 pm

How We’ll Work Together:

Daily checkins with shared task lists and goal setting to keep us accountable and organized.

If you’re interested send me a message or leave a comment below with a bit about yourself and your goals. Let’s support each other in reaching new heights!

1 Comment
2024/05/12
15:53 UTC

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