/r/GetMotivatedBuddies

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Find one-to-one accountability partners for health and fitness, studying, work, and healthy habit building.

Purpose

Find a buddy to get you on track towards your goals.
Mainly post buddy requests, but posts suggesting how to structure working with your buddies are good as well.

GM Level 1: General Motivation

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GM Level 2: Advanced Discussion

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GM Level 3: Accountability Buddy

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Rules:

Detail yourself and exchange info! Whether you communicate by text, phone, skype, carrier pigeon, etc. Send your buddy motivated thoughts, goals, listen to them, help them-more importantly PUSH THEM!, and you--push back! Teamwork!

If you do what 95% of what people are doing, you will get their same result. Get together and break those walls!

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20M EST Need Study Buddy

Need someone that will be okay to have daily study session on a call, camera or no camera is fine. Need Drill sergeant type support and will offer the same, need someone who will call me out on BS and not doing what I'm supposed to due and ill reciprocate if you want. Goals include fitness/school/work

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2025/01/31
17:54 UTC

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Looking for a Buddy(s)

Hi, I am Now 26, GMT 00 šŸ“󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁓ó æ Looking for a serious Partner(s) who are looking to also improve their life and Habits. M or F doesnā€™t matter, GMT would be best if it was -4/+4 but we can make it work. We can either use Reddit to communicate and establish our plans and Goals. And if we work well together then we can Talk on WhatsApp or Telegram.

The idea is we would check in the Morning to establish the Plans and Goals for the day, and then Check back in at end of day to see the actual results and discuss how the day went.

I am very active so my health and physical is already covered however thereā€™s always room for improvement.

I have a lot of ideas I want to implement and try out, I think I just need someone to push me and me to push someone as-well.

I also want to see other people succeed and improve their life and it will be great to see that journey alongside

My bad habits which I need help working on are daily things like:

Task Management Time Management Procrastinating Screen time

This year I want to practice Mindfulness, Put my Faith in God instead of putting my Faith in myself and try to find like minded individuals who are looking to Grow as people.

If any of this sounds like you, Get in touch. Look forward to hearing from you.

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2025/01/31
16:24 UTC

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Looking for an accountability partner for 12 weeks

Hello! Iā€™ve couple exams coming up in 12 weeks and looking to find an accountability partner for the study tracking. Goals are mostly keeping track of work goals every week and assignments. Please dm with your goals if interested. Thanks!

Time zone GMT+5:30

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2025/01/31
15:53 UTC

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Seeking a reliable accountability partner for ongoing support.

I am preparing for an exam, and I need to be consistent and good. I also want to achieve other things this year that require consistency. I am looking for an accountability partner or friend who can support me in this journey. We can share each other's goals and tell each other what we do every day. Even if you don't complete your tasks, you still have to share about your day to help maintain consistency and provide feedback.

I have tried this earlier as well, but many are inconsistent. Some message for a few days or weeks, and then they stop. So please only message if you will be consistent.

And also this is not only about exam. Even after exam I want to improve in many areas. So it requires long consistency.

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2025/01/31
15:37 UTC

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Book - 12 Week Year - look for Weekly Accountability Meeting Partner, Timezone in HCMC, male, every week

Hi All,

I'm looking for someone to serve as a Weekly Accountability Meeting Partner to complete my 1st "12 Week Year". We would meet virtually online using google meet(free) for 15-30 mins or so each week to discuss our goals and progress. I am open to working with anyone who has read the 12 Week Year and is interested. Please comment down below. By the way, I'm from Taiwan but studied aboard in Vancouver when I was a kid. So, I can do both Traditional Chinese and English.
Cheers,
Rex

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2025/01/31
10:29 UTC

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Looking for dsa, system design study partner

Hi

I'm looking for DSA and system design study partner. My preferred language is typescript (okay to collaborate in any other language). I've started preparing DSA, system design couple of months back. I want to get serious for the next 6 months in preparation.

My goal is to do couple of medium level leetcode problems in a day, and read system design for 30min to 1 hr.

I would like to collaborate with a study partner to share the system design concepts which I learn and vice versa. Also want to keep accountability of each other's progress.

Please let me know if anyone's interested .

I live in utc + 5:30 timezone

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2025/01/31
08:26 UTC

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Life After Break

Are you reeling from loss of a relationship? Do you look at mirror and see someone who's a shadow of oneself i.e. someone different from who they used to be before ... before they were in this relationship?

Pardon my confounding choice of words, as I'm in a state of emotional exhaustion. Trying to get myself back up, and this is where I need an accountability partnership.If you are someone going though something similar, send me a message, and we can connect to brainstorm about what we are struggling to work on (or how we are just staying afloat our emotions), and look out for each other in reading forward, past a chapter in our lives, that almost made us give up on reading altogether

Easier said than done - but try to love yourself, during such times ...

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2025/01/31
07:44 UTC

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20F looking for accountability partner

I am looking for an accountability partner, we can work together and help each other accomplish our goals. Someone around my age, I am 20 and live in my van and work full time. I don't have many friends and trying to get my life together alone has been unsuccessful, I need help. And I'm willing to help in return. I have dreams and ambitions I am just lazy depressed and lonely. I live in South Orange county California.

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2025/01/31
00:18 UTC

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Accountability Buddie Required

im looking for an accountability partner to hold eachother accountable and make sure our tasks are done on the daily.

i already have a system in place but my previous accountability partner had circumstances and couldn't continue with me. so i will add you to an already established accountabilty system.

my timezone is GMT+3 and work hours are througout the day, weekends are friday and saturday. but with the system it wouldnt matter, each one would log their tasks at the beggning of their day and whenever someone is available during their day will comment on the other person's progress and hold them accountable, encourge, help with a problem and motivate them.

tasks loging will be on notion and communication on telegram.

send me a PM if you are interested.

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2025/01/30
20:25 UTC

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22F Philippines- Accountability Buddy for Finishing Thesis

Hello everyone! Call me Pie, I am a junior in college. I am looking for an accountability buddy to help me as I finish my thesis. I prefer someone who is also pursuing the same thing as me ā€” thesis. I will try my best to also hold you accountable and motivated.

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2025/01/30
16:41 UTC

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27M Accountability Partner

27M UX Developer with a creative background. I enjoy collecting souvenirs, pets, motorcycles, visual arts, and music.

Looking for an accountability buddy for:

-Daily nudges & motivation for work/study -Supporting each otherā€™s mental & physical health -Casual friendship, cultural exchange, and lifestyle improvement

Iā€™m in GMT+3 . DM me if interested!

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2025/01/30
12:46 UTC

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20M (EST) need study buddy ASAP

Need someone that will be okay to have daily study session on a call, camera or no camera is fine. Need Drill sergeant type support and will offer the same, need someone who will call me out on BS and not doing what I'm supposed to due and ill reciprocate if you want. Goals include fitness/school/work

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2025/01/29
23:32 UTC

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"Hey! Iā€™m 16, from Malaysia, and looking for a 1-on-1 accountability partner for weight loss. Iā€™m currently at 64 kg and aiming for 50 kg. Iā€™m more of an introvert, so Iā€™d prefer simple daily or weekly check-ins (messages work best for me). Iā€™d be more comfortable with a female partner. dm me.

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2025/01/29
21:34 UTC

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28M / PST-Timezone / LF Accountability Buddy / Buddy itself

This is odd to ask for online, but I'd like to ask for an accountability buddy. Albeit, I am chronically online; I am trying to disconnect. I am asking for minimum weekly contact as I do not want this to be a job, but I very much would prefer daily in accommodation to build peer relationship within the same timezone. DM if interested for at least for this semester (3 months).

About me: Hardcore gamer trying to be a casual comfort gamer. Introvert IRL, but Extrovert online.

GOALS:

  1. Consistent study-time! Currently "Full-time!" CLS student.

  2. Less screens, more books! I'd like to increase my book consumption from 1 month to 2 by this year.

  3. Weight loss/Fitness? I'm novice.

  4. Better Sleep Schedule. I am a morning person, but I stay up very late.... I also don't drink coffee.

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2025/01/29
21:30 UTC

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Need an accountability partner to control my food delivery app purchases and check in with me. Any timezone works.

25F. I have been buying a lot of junk food and binge eating them. Moderation with junk food didn't work for me. So, I'm cutting them cold turkey to avoid being so tempted and maybe once I'm out of depression phase, I can eat them but now, I seriously can't moderate.

I need external help. I'll send you screenshot of my food purchases. And you can keep me accountable. I'm willing to do the same in return.

4 Comments
2025/01/29
11:09 UTC

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25f Need a study partner!

Hello!!

I am in great need of a study partner! I will send you gifs/emojis/texts after I finish each Pomodoro session. I am studying full-time right now.

We don't need to be in the same timezone but I am in GMT-8.

19 Comments
2025/01/29
03:52 UTC

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23F looking for creative accountability partner!

Hi, Iā€™m a musician and looking for a fellow creative to be my accountability buddy.

Someone who has to use social media as part of their career / business would be ideal

Ideally we would cowork via discord, zoom or whatever you feel comfortable with really.

We would encourage each other to meet our content posting goals.

I think the focus would be on encouragement and positivity but we could include constructive feedback if we build a rapport.

Iā€™m based in the UK but open to work in with anyone from any location. Would prefer to have a female accountability partner but Iā€™m open as long as there is respect :)

4 Comments
2025/01/29
00:39 UTC

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21M Looking for someone to hold me accountable

Hey everyone.

I'm finding myself procrastinating a lot despite having some major assignment deadlines to complete. I've been procrastinating a lot since my semester started and even before that, so I want to get to being more consistent with studying and not just that but also sleeping, exercise and a couple of other things, whilst wasting my time less, if possible. But mainly studying.

Would be great if we could also become friends. We can help keep each other accountable and hopefully improve together. My timezone is GMT+4.

Feel free to DM me! Have a great day.

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2025/01/28
23:51 UTC

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30 M - NZ - looking for accountability buddy

Hi everyone,

Iā€™m Tom, Iā€™m 30 and based in New Zealand. Ive had huge success with having an accountability buddy in the past so am looking to find someone to catch up with regularly to drive me forwards.

Things I want to do are; learn French, start an instagram account focused on my passions, and do research and work on a career / new life direction / business. On top of that Iā€™m building a daily morning habit of a walk / run, meditation and journaling.

I guess it would work best if you are in a similar time zone, although GMT would probably work itā€™s just reversed.

Iā€™d be up for daily check ins and potentially a weekly zoom call to run through our goals and how weā€™re meeting them.

Drop me a comment or DM if youā€™d be up for this! :)

A bit about me - I love the outdoors, nature, mountain biking, hiking and trail running, as well as reading, poetry, films, and music.

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2025/01/28
20:59 UTC

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18M Looking for A Project/Goals Accountability Partner

I currently have 2 web design projects and one video project for my old school and would like to get them all done before May, but I'm having a lot of trouble getting them done, especially with ADHD. Would like an accountability partner who could meet or check in at least once a week to check in and if possible give feedback. Would also help said person out with their goals throughout the year.

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2025/01/28
20:48 UTC

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25M Looking for Accountability Buddy

Hello everyone,

I'm currently interning at a small e-commerce startup and enrolled in a full-stack development course that I need to complete. I'm looking for someone who can:

Daily Nudges: Remind me to stay on track with my tasks and ask me questions to keep me motivated.

English Conversation Practice: Speak with me in English to help improve my conversational skills, preferably through calls or Zoom, to aid my interview preparation.

Exercise Accountability: Check in with me daily regarding my exercise routine.

Time Zone: I am in the IST time zone (UTC +5:30).

Additional Preference:

Programming Experience: Someone with experience in programming would be a plus.

In return, I'm happy to assist you with your schedule as needed.

If you're interested, please DM me. Your help would be greatly appreciated!

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2025/01/28
19:06 UTC

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23 M . GMT 5:30 looking for a accountability buddy

My goals includes studying more consistently , working out 5x a week ,Reading books and developing healthy a sleeping schedule. Your goals don't have to align with mine and we can make sure we motivate each other . Shoot me a text if you're interested

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2025/01/28
17:27 UTC

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38m 2025 New Year New Me Accountability Buddy

I have been slowly building better habits with the new year and want to step them up a bit more. I am hopeful to find someone to check in weekly or even daily to just help with momentum towards some shared goals etc. I have never done anything like this and have a lot of support irl, but we often have different goals at different times (which is great!) These are my current goals:

* Gym, exercise, and weight loss - I have been going to the gym and want to keep doing that at least 5x per week, if not more. I currently weigh 222.6 and my target is 185. As this progresses, I want to also focus on strength training and ultimately hit the 1000lb club (1000 lbs combined weight for bench, squat, and dl). Might not be this year, but I want to see how far I can go.

* Rucking - I would like to implement a couple of "rucks" per week to prepare for hiking season - this needs to be planned out.

* Tracking my diet and hitting macros daily - currently tracking lose it, but miss some days here and there. Want to make sure I get this daily. My current goal is to hit my desired 185 by June (more or less) - presently on-track (ish)

* I want to read 52 books by the end of the year - a mix of fiction and non-fiction. I read a wide range of books including fantasy, science-fiction, romantasy, manga, historical, and academic.

* low-buy & no-buy periods throughout the year as needed - I tend to accumulate gear and want this tailored down.

I feel like I am off to a good start, but would love to bounce ideas / be held accountable a bit more. lmk if you have any questions.

2 Comments
2025/01/28
16:39 UTC

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URGENT - ACCOUNTABILITY PARTNER - UK

Hey everyone

I am in need of an accountability partner to help me achieve my goals and stick to my tasks. So I donā€™t procrastinate and ruminate about my covert narcissistic ex.

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2025/01/28
11:07 UTC

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Need an accountability partner for my weight loss

Hii everyone, I am a consultant and for my job I have to travel a lot + have to stay in hotels, which led me to have a sedentary lifestyle resulting in my day-to-day life goes like this: 1. Wake up 2. go to work 3. watch webseries 4. Eat oily and sugary foods and 5. sleep.

I am fed up with this. I am 95kg now and I want change. I have two goals Weight loss and some upskilling I need to do for my job for this year.

For this goal I want an accountability partner which will help me in creating a plan for the year and he/she will do the compliance for me everyday

2 Comments
2025/01/28
11:01 UTC

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Looking for a Accountability partner

M 26, India. Looking for a Accountability partner to walk with me on the journey I'm about to embark on. I'm looking forward to build some good habits this year and try to be a better person. Few things I'm looking to work on -

  1. Career - looking to upskill and find better opportunity (currently working in IT)
  2. Health - trying to change my fucked up lifestyle, and workout 5 times a week.
  3. Relationships - after a long line of dating, taking a break and understand myself better so that I can be a better partner.
  4. Habits - pick up a few habits (open for suggestions)

If ur path kind of seems the same, DM me. We will see how we can help each other. Anyone is preferred.

4 Comments
2025/01/28
10:14 UTC

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Looking for a Study Buddy to Grind DSA in Java

Iā€™m a 26-year-old software developer looking to brush up on my Data Structures and Algorithms (DSA) skills in Java. Iā€™ve been working in the industry for a while, but I feel like revisiting the fundamentals and solving problems systematically would really help me level up.

Iā€™m looking for a study partner (or a small group) whoā€™s also motivated to dive deep into DSA. Whether youā€™re a beginner or someone with experience, as long as youā€™re serious about learning and practicing consistently, weā€™ll make a great team!

Hereā€™s what Iā€™m thinking:

  • Platform: LeetCode, HackerRank, or any other you prefer.
  • Language: Java (but open to discussing solutions in other languages too).
  • Schedule: Flexible, but aiming for at least 3-4 sessions per week (1-2 hours each).
  • Goals: Cover all major DSA topics (arrays, linked lists, trees, graphs, dynamic programming, etc.) and solve problems together, discuss approaches, and optimize solutions.

If youā€™re interested, comment below or DM me! Letā€™s share our goals, availability, and figure out a plan that works for both of us.

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2025/01/28
04:38 UTC

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M20, USA, Accountability partner(s) for daily tasks

Iā€™m working on a mix of goals like learning Spanish, fitness, and other personal goals but have been struggling with some senioritis as my school education is coming to a close. Anyone willing to do mutual daily check-ins?

Some goals of mine are:

Work on my proficiency in Spanish (Currently high A1 CEFR)
Read more books
Go to the gym 4-5x a week

Looking for somebody whoā€™s:

Around my age
Preferably in uni as well (not a big deal if not!)
Preferably in the time zones of UTC-5 to UTC -8.
A decent human being

What I Imagine:

Making a group chat (or something similar), where we are able to put our goals the night before or in the morning that we want to achieve for that day. Then sending photos of the task being completed or worked on.

If youā€™re interested in being accountability partners or even just friends, shoot me a dm!

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2025/01/27
19:05 UTC

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(NOT about the exams but:) Any NEETs around? Unemployed and not in school?

I'm a NEET (not engaged in education, employment or training) looking for an accountability buddy. It's hard. I'm trying to find other NEETs to keep me accountable
I'm 20F, open to people of any ages. I suffer from some physical and mental health issues right now and I'm trying to recover from depression and try to get out of this lifestyle.
If you're a NEET looking for accountability, DM me with your timezone (I won't reply if you don't mention your timezone because that usually means what I wrote was not read - mine is GMT)

2 Comments
2025/01/27
18:37 UTC

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21M , looking for an accountability partner to solve leetcode.

Hi! I'm a fourth-year student at a Tier 1 college in India, pursuing a 5-year course.

Iā€™ve taken the DSA course in college but havenā€™t practiced much (completed around 120 problems on lc so far). Haven't solved a problem in over a year.

Iā€™m looking for someone to team up with over the next 3ā€“4 months so we can keep each other motivated and accountable in improving our problem-solving skills.

1 Comment
2025/01/27
16:48 UTC

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