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I have recently felt more drawn towards Christianity lately. For context I was originally catholic until about 11 when my family started going to a non denominational church. When I realized I was queer I started realizing that my faith had been failing for a while and I felt that the things I was being taught weren’t making sense. I also felt that if god was real he wouldn’t let people act the way they do towards lgbt people, in his name.
Over the past few months I have felt more drawn to Christianity again. I don’t know why but I miss it. I loved going to church before I lost my faith and I found a lot of comfort in god. I miss having that but I also don’t know if I want to go back. I also don’t even know if I believe in god or I just miss the community I used to have with religion. I know at the very least that I don’t believe in the way I used to. And if I do it’s not a belief in an all powerful and all knowing god. I guess I am just lost.
I’m not looking for criticism on my beliefs or responses that essentially boil down to “god is pushing you back towards him”. I want to know if anyone else feels/felt similar and if anyone else has a looser interpretation of who god is (aka less of an all powerful and all knowing power) and just any advice for figuring this out.
As a former militant atheist, I want to accept that this higher power I think exists is god, I want to know why you felt like Christianity was right for you.
I’m so scared of going to hell and I feel like everytime I read some scripture telling you not to do something it’s always something I do I get so angry I get so frustrated and upset I curse all the time I probably say God in vain more times then I realize I smoke and I’m scared to repent for this stuff when I know I’m just gonna do it again and I wanna trust in God to help me work through these things but sometimes I have doubts and I feel so bad for it and I feel so guilty for so many things that I do and I’m so scared that I’m not good enough for anyone including God and I’m too self centered and disrespectful towards my parents and anytime I show these actions which I don’t think is a lot but I feel so guilty and I like to be selfless but I also feel like what I want matters too and everytime I try to mention things that I want I just feel like a selfish person and I do so many things that I shouldn’t and I just feel like a horrible person and I try so hard not to be I don’t wanna be that way and I didn’t think I was until I started thinking about it I’m only 15 I can’t even tell if I’m a bad person or too selfish or anything but sometimes I just feel like I am and I really don’t wanna go to hell
So I figured, how about I give you guys another clip from this landmark episode?
"What is an angel from God doing on the side of a queer?"
"Nothing that is made by God is queer. God loves all His creations."
I noticed the non affirming people have been commenting a lot of homophobia recently. Let's spread love and help each other to love and wanna be close to Jesus then hunt each other away from Him or the church. We are all in Christ and it's important to remind each other that we are loved and celebrated and created and all having God's promise for eternity. He won't ever let us down and you are wonderfully made, including your characteristics, personality and also, of course, your sexuality and relationships! ❤️
so, first of all, good morning, afternoon of evening, whenever you're reading this, so, I(17/yo) have been attending church a pair of days, i used to go to church until i was 12, and now than my granma died, i returned, but well, in the church im going there is this boy, who i think have my same age, i remember also watching him when i was 12-, He's such a handsome gentlemanly, even though i never talked with him, everyday i go to church he always shake-hands with me and we both just say hi to the other one, but i have been watching him and he is such a beautiful person who is in constant care for the others, he is the purest soul i know and i really want to get to know him, not necessarily to date him or whatever, but still.
But i guess i have two problems(??), the first of all, well, we are in church, there is a high possibility that both him or/and his family are homophobic due to their ''beliefs'', i do live in a country where its pretty common to see homophobic people, so, i should watch over that before anything.
And two, He's probably autistic, i know that this is not a autistic reddit but i wanted to mention it anyways, i think thats the why he is always such a caring and lovely person, but also could play against me the fact that he is highly different to me.
I don't know how to talk to him, i have been thinking and i have a guitar, and i do not know how to play it, but he does!! so i could ask him to teach me, but im still scared, its not that i would not want a friend in church, but im already thinking as him of a lover and its sweet, but its scares me.
In my whole life, im always watching other ''attractive'' males, and that always ends in nothing because im way to scared to even try to talk to them, but he is different, he looks sweet, he's handsome and we both are in the pure path to god!, i would love to have him by my side the rest of my life, and i know its sound crazy since i dont even know him, but im just a teenager who has never had a love so, what can i say, any advices? god bless and look over you all
I wish I could believe that it’s not a sin to be gay but my mind cannot accept it. I am gay and I have gay people in my family and it bothers me deeply that the Bible seems to be against it, but even though I’ve looked into reason why people don’t believe it is a sin it never puts me at ease or clicks. I don’t just wish I could be affirming for me but for my family members who are gay, I feel wrong on both sides and I don’t know what to do.
how am I supposed to live knowing that so much of the world hates me and views me like i'm vermin to be exterminated, because im gay? Does God feel that way too? They all say that He does. I can't stop crying. i don't know where to turn. Im in so much pain. I want to go to church to find some kind of comfort but don't know which to go to because I'm scared of homophobia and feel like I can't belong there and God hates me. Just cant stop crying
**AI-assisted summary of several conversations I have had with others, six personal essays exploring separate aspects of this topic, along with several biblical references. Copied from my Apple Notes, so sorry for formatting. This is my WIP "gay manifesto," if you will.
The conversation surrounding sexuality, gender identity, and biblical teachings has often been polarized, with conservative views frequently condemning LGBTQ+ identities as sinful or unnatural. However, an honest and thoughtful examination of Scripture and logic leads to a conclusion that such interpretations are flawed, oversimplified, and dismissive of both human dignity and the transformative grace offered in the Christian faith. This document seeks to present a comprehensive and nuanced argument, grounded in logic, compassion, and biblical analysis, that being gay, transgender, or queer is not a sin.
Sin, in Christian theology, is often described as the separation from God's will, a departure from the inherent good that God created in us. It is not inherently about identity, but about how we act and the choices we make in relation to our understanding of God's love and grace. Therefore, being gay, transgender, or queer is not inherently a sin—these are aspects of human identity and self-expression. Sin manifests in harmful actions, selfishness, and disregard for others, not in the way someone experiences their gender or sexual identity. To claim that a person’s identity—something so intrinsic to who they are—is inherently sinful does not align with the biblical understanding of sin.
The complexity of human identity—including gender and sexuality—reflects the rich diversity of God’s creation. Just as there are numerous neurological and biological variations in individuals, including autism, ADHD, and other conditions, there are equally natural variations in sexual orientation and gender identity. To argue that something as fundamental as one’s sexual or gender identity is a sin is to ignore the broader picture of human diversity that is evident in nature, in the way the world works, and in Scripture, where we see diversity in creation as “very good” (Genesis 1:31).
Treating LGBTQ+ identities as inherently sinful leads to repression, self-loathing, and harmful consequences. Numerous studies have shown that being forced to deny one’s identity or to live in shame of it leads to mental health crises, depression, and even suicide. God’s will for humanity, as revealed in the teachings of Christ, is not to live in shame or fear but to live authentically in love, grace, and truth. Forcing individuals to conform to an identity that is not true to who they are violates the very principles of love and care that Christianity teaches.
The argument often points to Romans 1:26-27, which discusses “unnatural” sexual relations. However, this passage, when considered in its historical and cultural context, refers not to committed same-sex relationships but to idolatrous practices that were prevalent in Roman paganism, where people engaged in sexual acts as part of religious rituals to false gods. Paul’s condemnation is aimed at idol worship and self-indulgence, not consensual, loving relationships. To apply this passage as a blanket condemnation of same-sex relationships today is a misinterpretation of both the text and its context.
The terms “arsenokoitai” and “malakoi” have often been translated as “homosexuals” in English Bible translations, but this translation is contested. Both words, when analyzed in their original Greek context, likely refer to exploitative sexual practices, such as pederasty (sexual relationships with minors or slaves), or abusive power dynamics in relationships, rather than the loving, consensual same-sex relationships that we recognize today. Paul’s teachings are more concerned with sexual immorality in terms of exploitation, abuse, and promiscuity, rather than the nature of one’s orientation or gender identity.
The common argument that Genesis 2:24—“Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh”—is a prescription for heterosexual marriage is problematic. While this passage establishes a foundational principle of human companionship, it is important to recognize that Genesis is a theological, not a prescriptive, text. God creates male and female in God’s image (Genesis 1:27), and the diversity of God’s creation is celebrated. Nowhere does Scripture suggest that a lifelong, loving relationship between people of the same sex or diverse gender identities is outside God’s creative intention. In fact, the New Testament frequently describes relationships in terms of mutual love and respect, not gender-based limitations.
“There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” This radical statement from the Apostle Paul speaks to the deep unity and equality found in Christ, regardless of societal distinctions. This passage has long been used to affirm the equality of women in the church, but it also speaks directly to the validity of different identities—cultural, ethnic, and even gender-based distinctions. In Christ, these distinctions are secondary to the unity of believers. To suggest that LGBTQ+ people are outside the scope of God’s love and grace is to ignore the spirit of inclusion that Paul emphasized throughout his ministry.
Ephesians 5 provides guidelines for relationships, emphasizing mutual submission, love, and respect. The core principle here is love, not gender or sexual orientation. The notion that a “biblical” marriage must fit a specific gender model (man and woman) is not supported by the underlying theology of mutual love and care that Paul articulates. If love is the guiding principle of Christian relationships, then loving relationships, regardless of gender, fulfill the biblical call to love one’s neighbor.
It is essential to recognize that many of the passages used to condemn LGBTQ+ identities were written in a historical and cultural context vastly different from our own. The ancient world, particularly in the Roman and Greco-Roman contexts, was rife with practices of sexual exploitation and objectification that would be unrecognizable in modern, consensual LGBTQ+ relationships. When interpreting Scripture, context is key. To apply ancient cultural practices to modern understandings of sexuality and gender identity is both anachronistic and misleading.
A central message of Christianity is grace—the unconditional, transformative love of God that calls all people to live authentically and truthfully. This grace does not condemn people for their identities but calls them to live in harmony with God’s love and truth. To interpret the Bible in a way that suggests God condemns LGBTQ+ people based on their identities is to misunderstand the central message of the gospel: that Christ came to save and redeem, not to condemn. As Romans 6:14 states, “For sin shall no longer be your master, because you are not under the law, but under grace.”
Many of the biblical passages that are used to condemn LGBTQ+ people come from a place of judgment. However, Christ is clear in Matthew 7:1: “Do not judge, or you too will be judged.” The harshness with which LGBTQ+ people are condemned is itself a sin, as it violates the command to love one another. Judgmental attitudes prevent believers from practicing the love and grace that Christ exemplified in his ministry. Therefore, those who condemn LGBTQ+ identities are often doing so in violation of the very spirit of love that is at the heart of the gospel.
The claim that being gay, transgender, or queer is a sin is deeply flawed, both logically and biblically. The Bible speaks more to the principles of love, mutual respect, and grace than to rigid, culturally specific interpretations of sexuality and gender. The belief that LGBTQ+ identities are inherently sinful not only misinterprets Scripture but also harms real people who are simply living in alignment with their true selves.
To those who struggle with these questions, I urge you to look beyond the narrow interpretations and embrace the full breadth of God’s love and grace. Let us live in harmony with the spirit of Christ’s message: a message that calls for inclusivity, compassion, and the radical acceptance of all people, regardless of their gender identity or sexual orientation.
As believers, we are called to live in love and truth, recognizing that each person is made in the image of God and deserving of dignity and respect. By reexamining Scripture with an open heart and a commitment to justice, we can affirm that LGBTQ+ identities are not sinful, but part of the rich tapestry of humanity that God has created and called “very good.”
I sincerely hope these thoughts give you a sense of peace while reconciling your faith with your identity.
I didn’t know how to name the title without it being insanely long, so here’s a synopsis: One of my best, very close friends who knows I’m gay didn’t defend me when talking to a group about being gay in a non-secular setting and eventually led to me separating myself from that group entirely. For background, me and my friends helped establish a Prayer Club at our school to get people more connected with God, and it’s been really good! Until our last meeting. The topic of homosexuality came up, and some of the leaders of the club went on an entire tangent about how homosexuality is a sin, a chemical imbalance in your brain and how you can control it. Which… is INSANE. But the more insane part is that my long time friend who helped start this club and KNOWS I’m bisexual just sat there and nodded her head and agreed with everything they said. After the conversation was over, I got really mad at her, and asked how she could just sit there and agree with all of that when one of her life long friends is sitting right beside her. She said those were her personal beliefs, and that’s fine on itself, everyone’s entitled to their own opinion, but she should’ve TOLD me that instead of me finding out in a setting where everyone was against me. After a series of long text messages and drama with the club leaders explaining how I’m bisexual and that it hurt me that they said all that stuff, they acted like I needed help, like it was an intervention to fix me. That just made me isolate from them even more. Finally, our plan was for me to do a small sermon on our next meeting, then the president of the group sends me a voice message and it says how the leaders have decided to “post-pone” my sermon until further notice. So I said “okay, then remove me from secretary and as a member of the club.” I blocked all of them and we haven’t spoken since… again this a really condensed version, but I’m at such a loss and I don’t know what to do or what to believe, was I in the wrong? Please help.
It jus feels like i’m trying to make up bible
Hi everyone, I wanted to extend an invite to a virtual affirming Bible study tomorrow night at 7:30pm CST.
ALL are welcome and safe in our group. We have lovely people join from all over the country and there always room for more people who want to study the word of God.
Send us a private message if you’d like the zoom link. Have a blessed day!!!
My partner (Bryan) spent the day at the hospital, because this morning his dad had fallen in the living room, breaking his hip. His mom & sister were also there. Their dad gets his pain meds, and the politics started.
Bryan deflected as well as he could, then he was driving his mom home, and started quietly crying. His mom asked, and so he explained the things we have personally been through, how we now get anxiety when going somewhere together, and how none of this started until Trump came around.
His mom says, “You brought it on yourself, you chose this.” Then she proceeds to ask him, if he was imagining it. We are 40 year old men, we don’t need to make up a story about having things said to us at Target, or being stared at while trying to go out to eat.
The entire reason we stay in this backwards area, is our mothers. His isn’t exactly a peach, but he loves her. Mine has dementia, and I won’t leave this area for her.
Does anyone have advice? I told him I had to walk away, and not talk about her. I know I’d get angry, make it worse, and he doesn’t need that right now. I just don’t know how to help people understand. I also need to find a way for them to reconcile.
Hi, I used to be a hardcore conservative Christian who genuinely thought homosexuality was a sin. Then I got into the world of biblical scholars like Dan McClellan and Bart Ehrman. And now I'm just confused in my faith, I want to believe but now that most of my "evidence" for Christianity is gone I don't know. What makes Christianity more true than other religions? They have eyewitness accounts, near death experiences, and the same "evidence" we have. How can you be so confident and stand firm in your faith?
So I was on TikTok and I saw a video of how a guy said that “God delivered him from homosexuality spirit cause it caused him pain”.I literally feel so bad for him.I would never discredit someone’s experience with God but,there’s so much trauma and pain behind people asking God to change their sexuality and it never has happened because there nothing wrong with them.Does anyone else have any insight on this especially homosexuality caused me pain part cause I’m so confused
I was raised in the catholic church, baptized as an infant. I turned away from religion for a while after coming out as gay because I thought my identity wasn't compatible with the church. Only recently have I come back to it. I realized that i didn't have to care about what others in the church thought of me, and that my relationship with god is personal, but that is not the belief of catholicism. So im wondering if I should go to a baptist church instead. Any advice?
They can take our freedoms of marriage and transition, but that can’t take that.
As a gay woman it’s understandable why our group of people are so terrified with this election. I have prayed to God that he leads this country to the right direction and not let evil prevail. After last night’s win I don’t know what to think anymore. I know people can still be friends if they have different political views but voting for trump automatically tells me what type of person you are. I have a few friends who told me they voted for him and my first instinct is to isolate myself from them because I want nothing to do with people who are supporting a man with those types of morals. So is it wrong of me to cut those people off? People who are against everything I stand for? Differences in politics would be disagreeing with what type of education programs we implement but NOT when it comes to lgbt, women, immigrant, and other minority group rights. I’m deciding to post this here because a lot of the times people say politics and God should not mix but in these moments it feels impossible not to. So if anyone has some words of wisdom I’d love to hear❤️.
Ok so only recentely I became an agnostic but for a lot of time I've been an atheist, I never believed, not even for a second but my best friend is a lesbian christian who has only recentely came out to me, she told me that she's scared for how her parents might react. This brought me curiosity about people in her same situation. So how is it? Being part of something where most people see your mere existence as wrong? How do you deal with it? I'd like to understand your points of view so that I can help my friend (Also sorry for bad english, I'm italian)
Sorry if this kind of post isn't really welome here, I would understand why not. I just don't feel like I have anywhere to turn to. I'm scared and tired and alone. No church. Homophobic family. No friends and certainly no Christian ones.
I'm gay and I've been going back and forth between non affirming and affirming theology for months now. It's been on my mind for years, it's always been on my mind, but only recently have I been forced to properly face it. I grew up in a conservative evangelical environment and I've always been too scared to because I felt like even considering an affirming position was opening myself up to being inadvertently deceived and led away from God. Following the world, being swayed to not take up my cross and deny myself like we are asked, falling to the flesh, being given over to my sin and temptation for willingly blinding myself to something so obvious, etc. I never wanted it to be this way, it just simply was (is?). Life is hard, taking up our crosses to follow Christ is difficult, but above all else I love God, I obey Him, and I will follow him - bleak way to put it maybe, but frankly to me it doesn't particularly matter how much it hurts if it's what He commands. I don't worship myself. I worship God. This life is short, He is sovereign, better things are in store afer this life if I follow Him and love and suffer for Him, etc. So I obey, even if deep down it still bothers me, because considering otherwise doesn't feel right either. Maybe sexless romantic relationships are the answer (this is what I've gone with for a while now. Felt satisfied with this 'solution' for a long while but now I'm no longer sure.) Maybe celibacy can be a wonderful way to spend life, with a proper support group. Maybe some people out there really can 'pray the gay away.' And so on.
But I can't ignore it and keep pushing it to the back of my mind anymore. I want to be affirming. I want to find out and be pleasantly surprised that God is affirming. I really do, so, do badly, more than anything. It hurts. I don't want to have to hurt anymore. I don't want to sentence everyone else like me to being alone. I don't want to continue being a cog in a machine for opression and unjust pain and suffering. But I don't want to be convinced of something that isn't true, or being drawn into twisting scripture, or accepting lies laced with truth just because of what I want. I don't want to be influenced or blinded by my own desires. Even if I want it desperately. I've been doing almost nothing but reading queer theology for the past week. But everyone's explanation seems different, from saying we should just ignore Paul and that parts of the Bible can be discarded as simply a product of their time (not something I'm willing to do; I believe that the Bible is the word of God, and hold it in high regard, and this is not something I am willing to change even if it's not popular among progressives) to providing alternative interpretations of the scripture that's there without just outright dismissing it. And no arguement feels airtight to me.
People say the verse in Leviticus can be accurately translated as 'men shall not lie with boy' but many, many scholars conclude that it does indeed mean 'man shall not lie with man,' not in the context of adultery, or pedastry, or incest or any of that specifically, just a blanket ban of homosexual sex, and hundreds of years of both Jewish and Christian tradition support this being the intellectually honest interpretation. People say that 'arsenokoitai' does not translate to 'men who have sex with men' but that too is very commonly interpreted by scholars to mean exactly that, even if the wording may be ambiguous and even if Paul 'made up' the word - it can be argued to be based on words found in Leviticus, it can be argued that other words existed at the time where (person)->koitai meant person who has sex with (person), etc. People say that even if it does mean 'men who have sex with men' that it's most likely directed towards men who engaged in oedastry and other exploitative sex practices of the Roman empire, and that gay relationships as we know them today, and this is the most convincing arguement I've seen yet - but 1. ultimately this is just speculation, 2. why couldn't it refer to both abusive dynamics AND any form of homosexual sex?, and 3. consensual gay relationships did, and always have existed. The general culture was different then, but saying they simply didn't exist feels like erasure of queer history. This comment here talks about a lot of things including that: https://www.reddit.com/r/GayChristians/s/mJfPMrseW4 and as much as I'd like to believe they're wrong they....seem to bring up a lot of solid points that I haven't seen anyone satisfactorily refute.
And I know there's points you can bring up in response to that - arsenokoitai being used later in history in situations that didn't refer to consensual male/male sex, even if consensual gay relationships did exist they were not the norm by far, scholars are absolutely not in complete agreement across the board about every translation. But none of it sits right with me. If I just plainly study scripture a condemnation of homosexual acts seems to be the most obvious and likely conclusion. But something doesn't feel right about just throwing my hands up and going with non affirming theology either. Does it? I'm not even sure what I feel.
On top of all this, say I eventually am convinced to the side of affirming theology. What if I'm wrong? What if everybody's wrong? I'm sure everyone here is well acquainted with the verse that says 'those who do these things shall not enter the kingdom of God.' Of course in affirming theology 'practicing' gay people aren't being talked about there, but what if they just...are and I end up being wrong? Christ covers all our sins, but it seems very clear if you insist on going on doing one of those things completely unrepentantly, calling it good, even if you truly think it's good, you won't enter the kingdom of God. People say it isn't but from my understanding this absolutely is a salvation issue. In light of that, no one can be 100% sure of anything. I want to be affirming. I wish I could. I really do. But is this something I'm willing to gamble my eternal life on? Wouldn't it be better to be 'better safe than sorry,' even if it means suffering? Surely no amount of suffering in this short life can compare to eternity with God. Paul even specifically talks about that.
I'm just....terrified. I'm lost. I feel alone. It keeps me awake at night and tortures me during the day. Every decision I could make feels like the wrong one, but at least one would be safe. Then again, taking the 'easiest' path is ultimately selfish and destructive if affirming theology is true. I just want to serve God and do what's right in His eyes. I don't want to be separated from Him. I don't want to be deceived. I don't want to go to hell.
I’m a girl, and I recently took up basketball, made the team, there’s this one girl, and she’s so beautiful, I really like her, before I told myself since I’m bi I’ll find a male I like and marry him since I’m a Christian, but I genuinely want to be with her. I’m confused.
I don't want to weaponise this verse and take it out of context to serve any other purpose than to remind us that Jesus died on the cross for us and came to fulfill the law. We can now only by faith be set free.❤️
I’m a Christian and don’t want to abandon my faith but I’m not attracted to men anymore. I don’t know why I feel the way I do but I can’t control it. I’ve never had sex or even kissed anyone but I no longer find myself attracted to men, just women. Why do people believe being gay is such a sin and am I wrong for the way I feel?
Let me start this out with this: I (23f) was straight when I was a toddler. My brother is 10 years older than me and I had the biggest crush on his best friend. I was a girly girl who loved dresses and makeup and acting like Sleeping Beauty. This all changed when my cousin started sexually abusing me from age 3-12. As my childhood progressed, I became afraid of intimacy. I lost all interest in girls toys and started dressing like a boy and playing with boys toys. Every time I’ve been with a man I just feel the same way I did when my cousin was abusing me. I have known I’ve been gay since middle school, but too scared to come out because I am religious and I’m scared that I’ll go to hell and disappoint god. My family is also religious, but very accepting and kind. I know if I come out they won’t care and won’t look at me any differently. My friends are the same. I’m just scared at the possibility that my friends will look at me, even though I logically know most of them won’t care. My main concern is that I’ll go to hell and god will be upset with me. I want to come out, I want to be in a relationship with a woman, but I’m unsure and scared of what to do and how to proceed. I have a feeling deep down if I wasn’t abused, I’d be straight. Please help me understand, thank you
Hello! I have been living in Helsinki for some months now and I just wonder if someone from this group also lives in Helsinki, and if they would like to chat and be friends :)
Edit: I should add I am a 25-year old male student
Hi guys. I’m a Filipino. I’m just checking if anybody else will be interested in joining an online bible study that can be done weekly. I saw a post that is looking for one and wanna know if anybody else is interested. I’ll be hosting and I’ve created a Discord for now because Google Meet and Zoom has cost for longer sessions. I’m thinking of doing a 30 min session for now on Philippine Time and we’ll add more time if needed and since I want to create a community and safe space for LGBTQ+ members. Just comment and send me a DM if you have more questions.