/r/veganr4r

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For finding local vegans for friendship, courtship or general support! Please see posting rules.

Hello and welcome to /r/veganR4R! This is the Vegan detachment of /r/r4r, so if you're Vegan, wherever in the world, looking to connect with other vegans, this is the place to be.

r4r = redditor for redditor

You can look for any kind of connection whether it be platonic or non-platonic. Requests for conversation pals, activity partners, roommates, genuine friends, dates, long-term romance, sex, or otherwise are all welcome here.

RULES

Reddiquette

18+ ONLY

NO CONTACT/IDENTIFYING INFO IN PUBLIC. No phone numbers, addresses, kik handles, Skype IDs, etc are allowed to be in posts or comments. No external profiles like facebook, okcupid, Steam, etc are allowed either. SHARE ALL OF THIS VIA PM ONLY.

BE RESPECTFUL. There will be no name-calling, shaming, coercing, sexism, racism, homophobia, xenophobia or any other prejudice, etc of any kind. Treat each other with kindness please!

NO HARASSMENT OF ANY KIND. No unsolicited genital pictures, stalking, doxing, catfishing, threats, etc. Ignore posts that do not pertain to you or that you disagree with.

NO ENTERPRISING, CAPITALIZING, OR SOLICITATION. Exchanges for money, goods, or services are strictly prohibited. No attempts at generating traffic or ad revenue are allowed.

NO SPAMMING. You may create a new post under the following conditions: (1) Your previous post is 24+ hours old AND (2) your previous post is no longer on "hot" or "new." You may update your previous post to let others know you're still looking, if you wish.

MARK NSFW POSTS AS SUCH.

If you encounter any rule breaking or are the target of harassment, use the report button or contact the moderators.

POSTING

Post titles must follow /r/r4r convention:

AGE [R4R] LOCATION - TITLE

Examples:

25 [F4M] Southern California - Looking for somebody to have drinks with.

23 [M4R] Melbourne, Australia - Need some new video/board game buddies.

31 [T4R] Tokyo, Japan - I'm hoping to explore new relationships.

27/26 [FM4FM] Germany - Couple looking for another couple for fun and adventure.

Tag Meaning M = Male F = Female T = Transgender R = Redditor / All / Other

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34 [M4A] Idaho - Looking for vegan friends for game nights

Me and my wife are looking for any Vegan friends in the Idaho area. We know its a limited space out here especially for vegans. Mainly looking for people who are down for game nights or just friends in general, we have other friends of course but finally trying to take that step to find vegan friends.

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2024/11/01
00:27 UTC

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33 [M4F] Spain/Europe - Easy to talk with —no obligations!

Who am I:

  • 33-y.o. male
  • Valencia/Barcelona/Madrid
  • Techie
  • Introvert
  • Daydreamer
  • Easygoing
  • Non-spiritual
  • Pragmatic
  • Curious
  • Healthy
  • Sane
  • Emotionally stable
  • Easy to get to know
  • ENG/ESP/CAT speaker

What can you expect:

  • Meaningful conversations
  • To vent if you need
  • To have lots of fun
  • Cultural exchange
  • To feel listened
  • To learn something
  • Privacy/anonymity
  • Leave whenever you want
  • No judging
  • No pressure —let's keep expectations low

My interests:

  • Plant-based diets 🌱
  • Activism ✊
  • Sustainability and climate emergency ⚖️
  • Photography 📸
  • Cooking 🥘
  • Engineering ⚙️
  • Art and architecture 📐
  • Nature ⛰️
  • Tech 📡
  • Politics 🤝
  • Feminism and human rights 💜
  • Easy board games 🎲
  • Anything you can tell me 🧠

If you want to get to know me or to have a casual conversation, drop me a line! 😊

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2024/10/23
19:59 UTC

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23 [M4A] Looking for cool vegan friends!

Hello everyone!!

I've been vegan for about 4 years now. I'm looking for primarily friends, but I don't mind flirting a little, too if we click. That said I'm straight.

All sexualities, gender or nationality are welcome. I really love deep conversations, journaling, cooking, and spending time with friends.

I'm a huge philosophy nerd as well. Hope to hear from you! :)

6 Comments
2024/10/23
16:39 UTC

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27 [M4M/NB] Carolinas or NV | Trans guy looking for love

Let’s get the Carolina vs Nevada thing out of the way first. I currently live in the Carolinas, I’ll be moving to Nevada in two-ish years. So if you like what you read below, you’re in NC/SC and willing to relocate if things work out, or you’re in NV and willing to be long distance for two-ish years if things work out, then hmu.

Hello! I’m a Jewish trans man that is also demisexual and vegan. I enjoy reading nonfiction (I also enjoy fiction but I just tend not to read it much for some reason), baking, computer tinkering, drawing, and watching other people play video games. I’m really good at crocheting but haven’t crocheted in awhile.

You:

  • a leaning-more-towards-masculine person (man or nonbinary)
  • Jewish is a plus but not a must

Your SFW pic gets my SFW pic.

If you have nothing on your profile, I most likely won’t reply.

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2024/10/16
17:21 UTC

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23[F4A], Philadelphia - looking mainly for friends but interested in a partner too

Hi! I’ve been vegan for almost 2 years and I’m very passionate about it. Everyone I know eats meat so I’m looking to make connections with like minded individuals. I love to bake and paint mostly and I’m learning to crochet! I also like trying new vegan restaurants which i rarely get to do and partying and going out! I also have a black cat I love and a corporate job I hate! If you think we would get along please message me or write below!

4 Comments
2024/10/15
11:26 UTC

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26[F4F] Need VegAn Art Friends, pleaaaaase

Lets do shared canvas draw on drawpile. Dont even give a shit if you dont want to actually be friends. i just want gals to draw with thats it

VegAn= vegan antinatalist

4 Comments
2024/10/14
22:36 UTC

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32 [M4A] Arizona - looking for deep connection

Hey everyone! Looking for other vegans to connect with anywhere really, but in AZ (especially around Phoenix or Tucson) would be ideal! I'm into building, veganic permaculture, homesteading, minimalism, hiking, backpacking, bouldering, community building, etc/etc. I'm very much a liberationist and passionately vegan for the animals. Also childfree, drugfree (except shrooms, medicinally), eat super clean, practice scheduled healthy habits, and am always trying to improve. I'm currently single and open to a romantic relationship too (only attracted to women) but am genuinely happy just making new friends.

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2024/10/14
05:53 UTC

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35[F4F] Florida - 32+ Friendship Only

Hi, normally I love being alone lol but lately I've just been wanting a friend to talk to, listen to, and relate to. Who just gets it 🤷🏻‍♀️. Child free, ethical vegan, love music but especially pop and all it's subgenres, video games but I've kinda fallen off in the past couple years though I've been wanting to jump back in, and laughing at stupid stuff on the internet. Don't care where you're from, my schedule is flexible, but I only speak English. You can send me a DM if you're interested. ✌🏻

5 Comments
2024/10/14
04:35 UTC

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19 tf, [f4f] sapphic relationship or Platonic partnership for activism purposes in Washington state

Hi, so I've been on here a bit but I wanted to try again

Call me desperate but women are just so cool I want to go on a cute little picnic date and smooch em. Anyone vegan or willing to go vegan would be great. Maybe we can start of playing games then planning a date idk!

Whatever works for you 🩷

1 Comment
2024/10/13
23:14 UTC

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26 [M4M/TM] Netherlands/Europe/Anywhere - Looking for my dream boyfriend(s). 🌈

Hi there!

My name is James, I’m 26 years old and I’m from the Netherlands. I’m gay and non-monogamous so queer ENM men who share my values are what I’m looking for when it comes to connections that go beyond platonic friendships. I’m autistic and have ADHD and prefer to date people with either or both too, it’s just natural.

I’m a tattoo apprentice and do production work while I’m still building my client base. I also do some SW on the side.

I draw for tattooing but also outside of that, both digitally and in paper. I also love to write. I have written two books but I spend most of my writing time on Harry Potter Marauders era fanfiction (although JKR can kiss my whole ass). I like to sing too and I’m practicing harsh vocals, currently working on releasing a black metal track with some friends which I’m very excited about. I’m practicing tin whistle too.

Music wise, my favorite band is Ghost, but I’m currently also listening to a lot of Lorna Shore, Skyforest, Infant Annihilator, Oracle Spectre, Empyrium and the Howling Void.

I’m a long term vegan (10 years next year!) and I’m an activist too, I help run an activism initiative. Other philosophies I’m passionate and outspoken about are antinatalism, antireligionism and the right to die. I also choose to live fully sober. I use ADHD meds because I need those to function, but I’ve been strictly off recreational drugs (including alcohol) for 8 years and intend to keep it that way.

Not unimportant here; my taste in men when it comes to looks… “Skinny pale guys with sunken eyes”, is how a former friend used to describe it. It’s fairly accurate, but of course there are men outside that description who I find hot too. Alternative boys have my heart.

Feel free to shoot me a message if this post piques your interest, also if you’re not looking to date me but want to connect platonically. 💌

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2024/10/13
12:42 UTC

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23M İstanbul need friends to watch Joker 2 with

I need someone to go to this movie with. Watched the first one at the cinema as well (you can be turk or foreign doesn't matter).

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2024/10/04
12:27 UTC

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19[F4F], Pennsylvania - Insane transsexual looking for other insane transsexuals who don’t eat animals.

Hello everyone. I am passionate about veganism, art, natural history, biology, cooking, and getting outside. I don’t have any friends in the real world and barely any online. My hobbies include drawing, 3d modeling, and disc golf. If you’re another insane vegan transsexual I’d really love to get to know you! DMs welcome.

2 Comments
2024/10/03
03:18 UTC

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30m Spain/Catalonia looking for friends/gf

Hi,

There's a voice in my head "animals suffers, and my friends are paying for it". The older I get, the harder is to me to look at the eyes of the people I love/like and see they are doing something terrible. My friends are fairly decent intelligent individuals, support all the right things like being against homophobia or the police, but when it comes to animals, they are nazis. They are not brainwashed by the meat industry, they are not ignorants, they simply don't care.

I would like to meet people that is mentally around the same place I am. I am not afraid to go that step further when it comes to your ideals. I am not a hippie but I try to avoid as much as I can first hand clothes, try to avoid plastic, etc. Im not super smart but I have a lot of empathy and critical thinking. I can be quite dumb too. But without hurting other beings, or the planet. I am not perfect and sometimes I buy something from Amazon, but I am not gonna spend 150€ on crap from Shein or Temu.

I lived in Madrid but now I live in a small town at the south of catalonia, all this beach area, tarragona, until barcelona, would be reasonable to meet I guess. I deeply love music, I listen to a lot of stuff, (electronic, post-punk, techno, hip hop...) I rather go to a club than a festival. But I am a very open person. In my dream life I would be going to museums all day and concerts/parties at night. And have a piece of land to take care of rescued animals. If I was rich I would buy one to make concerts and house rescued animals, using the money from the concerts to cost the living of the animals.

I am 174cm 5'7, a bit shy, slim, look like guy, but not macho, hate all this culture, despise money, etc. I have been vegan since 2016. I am antifascist and antispecist. Everything else comes second. I belive in freedom. But not the freedom that starts where the one from another being ends.

I have two 9 y.o. kitties. Super lovely, they are little angels and super friendly.

I play guitar, make electronic music, on/off trying to learn the piano... Making music makes me super happy. I would like to learn to paint in the future, or make music videos. My head is thinking on art 75% of the time. The other 25% is thinking how the world is and was. I like to learn. I have no formal education but I love maps, politics, a bit of history... I like to understand basically why and how of things are in society. How we ended up in this mess hahaha

I have to say that in general, life hasn't been easy for me, but I am doing my best. Sometimes I don't like to speak or I need my time alone. I am bit of a dark person, but I dream and have a lot of hopes

I'll be just be happy to find people that thinks/feels like me, or someone to connect. I like girls but I don't have any type and I am open in terms of relationship as long as people talk.

7 Comments
2024/09/22
03:38 UTC

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21M, Looking for Friends and/or Dates (US)

Hey all, 21M here, been vegan for 8 years. Currently live in Indianapolis working in actuarial science. Location not super important as I can get a remote job and am looking to move somewhere else in a couple years!

About me- grew up in Columbus OH, went to college in Tampa, now in Indianapolis! Hobbies include running, cycling, bowling (recently started coaching as well), pickleball, golf, poker (I currently play for side income, open to cutting back/quitting if I got into an LTR). Other interests include reading nonfiction, roller coasters, politics and the presidents, general business and finance. Most would describe me as a nerd. I do have a pretty active lifestyle and do my best to maintain my health, very minimal drinking, no smoking or other drug use. Dream would be to start my own business someday or support the dreams of my partner. Straight, not religious. 6' tall.

What I'm looking for in friends- hopefully some common interests/life experiences that go beyond just being vegan, someone to have engaging conversations with about our lives and our relationship with the world. If you're nearby we can check out the best vegan spots in town or take a hike or go to a festival or fair.

What I'm looking for romantically- a woman who understands me, active lifestyle, dedication to something and passions/hobbies. Emotional intelligence, matching sense of humor. Strong, independent personality.

For more details- I've got a fair amount about me located in my Reddit post and comment history (trust me I'm not that hard to dox if you wanted to do so...) if you feel this post did not come with enough information.

Looking forward to chatting!

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2024/09/22
03:18 UTC

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30M Los Angeles looking for a relationship

Hi everyone,

I’m looking to date a vegan or plant based woman in Los Angeles. A bit about me: I’m a 30 year old African male. I am a caring, healthy, and handsome (hehe) 6’ dude in search of my better half to enjoy the pleasures of life with. I have a bachelor’s degree, working in LA just tryna get it 😂. I live to be outside, love music, and love good vegan food!

I am open to any race, but please be 30 and under 🙏🏿

My hobbies are making beats, making content for the socials, photography, going to music festivals, street festivals, plane spotting at the airport, etc.

I enjoy music, podcasts, reading, and thoughtful conversations, especially about science, history, and current events. I prefer educational entertainment like documentaries but also appreciate classic films, true crime, sci-fi, and comedy when relaxing.

If you're not into vegan food yet, I can win you over with my cooking 😉. I love sharing tips on plant-based eating and make organic, whole-food meals, avoiding processed junk and fried foods. I'm happy to help anyone learn more about vegan nutrition! My goal is to do it with a woman my type.

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2024/09/21
23:54 UTC

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33M friends / FWBs / more in Austin, TX

Hi! I'm a straight, single, nonmonogamous 33 y/o M in Austin, TX. Looking for friends, maybe more. I'm originally from the UK, I'm a research nurse and have been vegan for 15 years. My hobbies are: singing a wide variety of music badly, walking, reading, nerd culture, kink and local kink events, vegan and local hippie events. People close to me describe me as easygoing, emotionally intelligent, and have a good sense of humor. DM me if you think we'd vibe 🙂

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2024/09/21
15:33 UTC

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32F looking for vegan friends in the Midwest

Where are all the other vegans in Illinois hiding? 🥹 As the title says I’m looking to make friends within the midwest area. Men or women, but primarily only looking for friendship not dates at the moment.

Autumn is my favorite season, and I’m more than ready to start making vegan fall treats, soups and homemade bread, to sit fireside making s’mores, and to make the switch from iced coffees to hot (maybe).

Halloween is also the best time of the year— let’s make spooky crafts or paintings and watch scary movies.

I also love to read, we could start a book club? What is your favorite book?

Or if you enjoy being active outdoors we can go hiking, kayaking, or cycling….

If any of this sounds up your alley, send me a message :)

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2024/09/18
00:39 UTC

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22F F4M India seeking a relationship

22F from India looking for a relationship with a vegan man. I would not say I am completely a vegan coz sometimes I do eat an icecream. But for the most part I am.

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2024/09/16
19:00 UTC

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Phoenix AZ 24M

Hey yall, moved into town a few months ago. Haven’t had trouble meeting folks but I have had trouble meeting vegans, am single so would love to find a vegan parter but also down for some friends. Anyone else here in the area?

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2024/09/16
00:19 UTC

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Canadian 23 M, looking for Vegan friends. but you can be from anywhere in the world!

Hi everyone!

I am feeling a bit lonely today and was hoping to make some new connections. I find people interesting, so even if you're very different than me, I'll be interesting in learning about you!

I have a lot of interests and hobbies, philosophy is a huge one of mine, but I enjoy writing in my journal, walks, and an occasional game now and then. I love books, which I've touched upon a little, especially philosophical types of books. But I also have an interest in religions, as well as psychology... I'm trying to read more fiction if anyone has any recommendations. I also love to cook!

I used to think I was an INFJ, but recently I've been considering if I'm an ENFJ, for any of you mbti people.

I love dreams, I try to write down most of them. I find them super fascinating.

I speak English and French, and I'm learning Spanish, German, and a bit of mandarin... Though not too seriously.

I hope to hear from you guys :)

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2024/09/14
20:57 UTC

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21[F4A] Looking for friends from norcal :)

I'm 21F, my boyfriend is 25M and we don't know a lot of other vegans. I just cut contact with a friend of 10 years bc she wasn't based like us (possibly a sociopath) so I would love more friends who get it.

We're close to sacramento, but I wouldn't mind driving a little lol. I'm chill with dm or comment. My bf is in computer science and i'm studying biology, hoping to pursue microbiology. We love hiking a lot, we don't go all the time but humboldt county is our favorite place so far. Love you guys 💗

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2024/09/12
10:15 UTC

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33-Year-Old Male Looking For Female Partner/friends in Hertfordshire, England

Hello.

I'm Toby, a 33-year-old male vegan from Hertfordshire, England, UK.

I'm looking to find a serious relationship with a vegan lady or at least some friends, as I don't know any other vegans.

I can't seem to find any vegan women on dating websites around my area, and non-vegans tend to be put off by my being vegan, as I've been told.

If anyone's interested or has any advice for me, let me know, please. I would greatly appreciate it.

Thanks.

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2024/09/11
12:05 UTC

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35 [M4F] #Belgium/online, looking for my soulmate

Hey, I’m Thomas, in my mid 30s, but people often say I look younger (must be the veganism hehe), been vegan since 2015. Started doing activism in 2018 but then I stopped for some years only to take it up again in 2022 after attending Vegan Camp Out in the UK

My hobbies are travelling, attending concerts and listening to music and of course visiting vegan restaurants.

I’m open to relocation for the right person.

Apart from veganism I’m really passionate about the movies of David Lynch (and Twin Peaks), and my comfort shows are certain sitcoms like Seinfeld and The Office, but I love It’s always sunny too. Recently rewatched Arrested Development.

This is me: https://imgur.com/a/GQyxqUN

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2024/09/10
13:04 UTC

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36 [M4R] Cincinnati area vegans, or anywhere

36M near Cincinnati/NKY looking for any vegan friends or even a single hang out. I know zero other vegans, and it’s sad. It would be awesome to finally meet someone else I can share ideas or even a meal with. I’m down to visit a local vegan restaurant (love Harmony at Findlay Market), gather round a board game (I have a small pile), go for a hike, get a tad high, or hang out doing anything or nothing, whether 2 or 10 of us. I just want to meet likeminded people. If activism is a place to hang out, all the better. I’ve been useless besides the abstinence.

I have under a year of veganism, a little more with regrettable compromise. I intend for that number to grow until the end. Animals are someones. I like good food, but I don’t have a very sophisticated palate and eat a lot of tofu. I’m a relatively recent (8 years but feels recent) religious deconvert, a skeptic, a book reader and lover from fantasy to non-fiction (currently working through a philosopher biography series and the Cosmere), dog person, a board gamer, a debater of the willing, an excessive Redditor, and just physically fit enough for minimal activity (though improving a lot lately). I’m awkward and fun-loving. I can share more about me or learn more about you via DM or comments.

If you could use just one more vegan friend near Cincinnati, or even just online, I might be the guy (I might not, but we can check).

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2024/09/08
00:11 UTC

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24[M4A], SEA - like minded friend

Looking for like minded friends from SEA(South East Asia) interested in educating themselves by watching/discussing documentaries on veganism, nutrition, health (I've been practicing veganism for a long time now but still feel uneducated about these topics lol). Since values are important, I'm looking for those: not into drugs, vaccines and politics.

Let's start with the ones available on Netflix (haven't watched any so far). Just aiming for one documentary per week starting next week.

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2024/09/07
04:45 UTC

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F27 [F4F] ATL/fellow travelers - looking for vegan friends

Hey! I am looking to meet vegan friends who are interested in any of the following:

  • Checking out vegan restaurants together in Atlanta.

  • I travel for work so I would love fun hiking trips near wherever you live if we coordinate schedules. I get out to Phoenix, San Francisco, Boston, Salt Lake City and SoCal a lot so I would love making good friends in any of those areas to visit!

  • If you 💜 music festivals, me too! Let’s coordinate.

4 Comments
2024/09/04
23:58 UTC

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26M Southern Maine

Looking for Vegans in Southern Maine, would love to get to know you!

0 Comments
2024/09/02
23:29 UTC

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35 [M4R] Toronto, Canada Looking for a fellow traumatised vegan friend.

I'm looking for a fellow traumatised vegan friend. Someone who struggles, but tries their best each day. Who is "working" on themselves through the never ending process of "healing". I find myself feeling understood and accepted by those who have gone through similar things. We can support one another and if we get "close" perhaps do things together.

A little about me:

  • I have been vegan for over 15/16 years.
  • I don't drink, use drugs and smoke anything.
  • I exercise, which includes weight training and cycling. I've struggled all year to remain consistent, but I'm trying. (Health is very important to me.)
  • I value life and am anti-violence. I don't understand the infatuation with seeing people beat each other up.
  • I crochet, but I haven't lately and have a couple of projects that are just sitting there. I could crochet you a little heart!
  • I view myself as a leftist/progressive (including geopolitically).
  • I'm 6'3 and weigh about 170 lbs. I also have long messy hair.
  • My background is Guyana. (Meaning that that my skin isn't white for you racists)
  • I play Apex Legends too much(LETS PLAY TOGETHER!). It's the only game I really play. Hahah. But I'm open to playing other games with you!
  • I listen to Neoclassical(epic music), some Synthwave, OSTs of movies/tv shows, Metal. Concerts are fun! (Polaris, September 17th; Dark Tranquillity, October 1st; The Devil Wears Prada, November 2nd)
  • I have social anxiety issues and was diagnosed with bipolar 2 when I was 21, but I'm fairly certain that I don't have that. Oh, lovely trauma. I kind of miss my therapist...Haha. The "healing" process is a difficult one. I view myself as neurodivergent.
  • I'm open, honest, kind, gentle, patient and affectionate. In other words, I'm amazing ;) However,
  • I'm very sensitive and fragile (be kind and gentle with me! hahah). I don't do well with abrasiveness. If you're mean to me, I might begin to withdraw and become very quiet. I'm a very forgiving person though and don't hold grudges. With this being said, I've learnt to let go and not stick around. I come first.

What I'm not looking for:

  • Someone to save me. Please don't try cheer me up, fix me, or give me advice. If you can't accept me, for me, I'm not for you.
  • Someone with attachment issues. I don't mean to sound ableist, but if you have a history of avoidance/running away, I'm not for you. However, if this is something you're working on, we can make things work as I'm a work in progress myself.

There's more I can say, but I think these are important and I would prefer that we get to know each other over a call. I super look forward to meeting you and getting to know you!

I do have some boundaries though:

  • We will not discuss politics unless you are anti-NATO, anti-imperialist. Essentially you don't have a colonial mindset and support self determination. DO NOT contact me if you don't support PALESTINE and have ANY sympathy for the colonisers.
  • Please don't ask me about work or school. When I'm comfortable, I can talk to you about those things.

P.S. Please leave at least a short introduction of yourself and why you chose to contact me. Thank you! I'm sure you're amazing if you do, so feel free to say that ;)

P.P.S. For those who like to make snarky comments, yeah, this post is meant to avoid people like you. I wouldn't want to be your friend. I'm not willing to be friends with just anyone. I know what I deserve and I deserve better than you.

2 Comments
2024/09/02
22:29 UTC

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M 51, in Sheffield looking for a fellow vegan for a relationship. I've been avoiding meat etc for over 30 years now for animal rights issues.

2 Comments
2024/09/02
21:55 UTC

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19[M4R] Looking for cool people in Vancouver ^^

3 Comments
2024/09/02
16:50 UTC

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