/r/toastme
Welcome to r/ToastMe! We are the polar opposite of r/RoastMe - only genuine and unique compliments by awesomely nice people are allowed here.
You don't have to state a reason why you want to be toasted! This sub is not only about being there for each other in bad times, but also to celebrate life and the good things that happen to you!
r/ToastMe is NOT affiliated with any product, app, external sites or other subreddits SFW OR NSFW. We will not promote such.
Rules
The full rules are found here. In summary see below:
-1. Be kind and make someone feel good! No insults. report any comments that violate this rule. Mods will deal with the bad behaviour.
-2. No advice. No ratings. ! Moderators will remove comments and/or posts that are asking for advice/ratings. Only comedy over-scores or full marks are acceptable
-3. All posts must contain a verification note. For full details: Brief: A physical sign/note with your u/ or username and "Toast Me!" on it, both clearly legible. Your username must match your account exactly! Verification featuring an image of a person CANNOT be digitally added. It must be a piece of paper or a physical object.
-4. Advertising/Self-Promotion: Toastme is not a subreddit for product advertisement, promoting a career or asking for money/donations (including youtube or similar). Posts outright asking doing so on the sub or by DM will be removed.
-5. Final Word/NSFW. Moderators have the final word. If we deem something unsuitable, we remove it. If you deem something unsuitable, report it, don’t pick a fight over it. Due to concerns raised by our subscribers, pictures of shirtless/showing a lot of “décolletage” will be marked as NSFW. Full nudity will be removed. Injury content will be removed. Links to such will be removed.
-6. Please do not judge others' motivation for posting - there's no such thing as karma-whoring here! Accusations of such and rudeness may result in bans.
-7. Age (U13) & reddit's content policy: Minimum age to post is 13 years old, so behave around them! There is a difference between telling someone they look pretty and then sexualising them/their attributes.
-8. No Sexual Comments: Applies to all ages. Comments resorting to sexual comments/sexually harassing will be removed and the responder risks being banned.
-9. Self Harm/Suicidal Ideations: Posts prominently showing self harm scars/injuries or express current thoughts of suicide will be removed and OP will be directed to support. Remember, if you feel this way, please seek professional help. Toastme and Reddit is in no way a substitute for real life help.
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-As positive a place as this is, there are still "ne'er do wells" who forget how to talk to people like proper human beings. Please let the mods know if you are getting Private Messages (PM's) as a result of posting on Toastme which upset or harass you. If you do not wish to receive PM's from anyone except trusted users, visit the desktop version of your Reddit settings profile here and set it accordingly.
Resources
In a Crisis?
This sub and its moderators are not equipped to handle mental health crises and suicidal ideations. If you are having such thoughts or are in a crisis, please check out our resource post: For those of us that are in the darkest of places.
/r/toastme
543,970 Subscribers
(34M) Blindsided with a breakup. Could use a boost.
09:24 UTC
23f i've been feeling inadequate, impossible to love deeply, and it's been affecting my mental health journey recently
i just need a little pick me up :')
02:26 UTC
Recently out Enby, been absolutely destroying all my clothes!
23:56 UTC
20F I got my hair done in the salon today :))
21:22 UTC
i’ve been feeling pretty low about myself recently. i could use some kind words.
21:05 UTC
Feeling kind of down, need a booster
19:28 UTC
feeling like poopoo
it’s been a rough week, don’t really know how to cheer myself up rn so here i am tryna find some nice people to maybe help me out. cause i really need it rn. thank you a lot guys <3 (p.s. i forgor to add verification in the last post so sorry if you have to see my face again)
18:23 UTC
Anxiety hitting hard. Haven’t heard any compliments in years. 32M
13:00 UTC
21F, lesbian french dentist feeling a bit overwhelmed with school! Toast away!
11:37 UTC
Posted here 104 days ago after an OD on Christmas Eve trying to take my own life. Now here I am, 51 days sober and in AA, working full time back in my career, working out, healthy and have just signed a lease to my first own apartment with a view of the beach. I’m so proud of myself. ❤️🧿✨
07:15 UTC
The last 8 months have been brutal. Tonight, im going to an event not because it’s ‘good for my mental health’ but just because i want to for the first time in months.
00:10 UTC
I’m a SpongeBob enthusiastic
23:33 UTC
Verification
16:53 UTC
Got broken up with after 3 years and it left my sense of self-worth in absolute pieces. Sometimes I wonder if I’ll ever be good enough for someone to stay. Could use a few kind words right now.
08:41 UTC
20F
01:43 UTC
Insanely stressed and out of psych meds, rly need a pick me up
18:25 UTC
Been in some kind of a rut lately. Could use some positivity.
16:16 UTC
(13f) feeling insecure after losing my best friend, toast me?
06:37 UTC
(19m) Too much of a pussy to post on r/amiugly, please toast me instead.
06:00 UTC
Four years ago I [M 33] posted here about being stuck in a rut. Since then, I’ve finished my PhD, got a great job, bought a house and best of all, adopted a beautiful dog! Thank you r/toastme for the encouragement!
00:52 UTC
Q1 ended with a bang.
So I ended the quarter by spending 11 nights and 10 days in a pediatric ER psychiatric unit with my son. It was rough. He is now more stable and home and on better meds. Neither of us saw the sky for all of those days. We lost his dog, she was hit by a car. A month later he went ballistic, stress from the dog but also we are moving again... the stress on that one is the impatience. -Wins- I made it 10 weeks without eating out, then it all crumbled... so, yeah me? Planned q2's meals. Got alot of packing done before the hospitalization. Made it through most of my fabric and discarded or donated what I don't need for repairs or specific projects. Made it through two boxs of paper crap: filed, recycled or trashed, or put in a different box to deal with later. Read 6 books. Started blogging again.
So yeah. It wasn't a total crap quarter, but it was hard.
I hope yall are all doing better than last quarter, if not I hope your fairy godmother department finds you soon.
Sincerely, * Coyote Sis ** "You say nothing is sacred. * You say everything is sacred. * You ready to juggle some bricks? * Where do you always turn left? * Coyote" *
18:05 UTC
29 M - who feels lonely most of the time and needs compliments
23:41 UTC
Been feeling kinda overwhelmed and not myself, between Anxiety, finances and obligations, and job transitions. I would appreciate a toast! Thanks :)
23:02 UTC
[21] single mom. I need some motivation. Got home from part time job. Can I get a hug ? I'm tired 😕
13:48 UTC
My partner broke up with me out of the blue this morning. Could use a little uplift.
17:27 UTC
Why aren't Fridays fun?
For some reason lately Fridays haven't been my days. Waking up after nightmare and finding out news from work about a bunch of ish changing up. I know I only have a few more hours before I can walk away and relax. Just getting there is seemingly taking forever.
17:55 UTC
[F 31] I quitted contact with toxic people, no one is left now, not a single family member. Not sad, but numb moments. Happy I have you here though.
12:30 UTC
I worked up the courage to ask a girl out today..
She had a boyfriend but gave me a high five for trying lol
23:49 UTC
I'm really low on cash and nothing seems to be going right. Say something nice to me.
16:03 UTC
It’s my 49th birthday, feeling meh
It’s my 49th 🎂 today, and feeling … quiet? Underwhelmed? Not like making a big deal? SO - I welcome a favorite joke, or a good piece of wisdom from a beloved elder.
19:33 UTC