Over the last 2-3 months, I've noticed that the more right-leaning commenters on all sorts of relationship advice posts will say that a man's role is to "protect and provide." In those exact words.

Then the other day I saw it used by a polyamorous gay man, and I was like, how did it filter there from the right wing? Lol.

I've tried asking a few of the commenters where they heard the phrase, and they instead derail by saying "well akshually that's been men's role since caveman days wharglbargl."

But that's not what I'm asking! I mean the exact wording itself. What YouTuber (or whatever) said this phrase a couple of months ago and set off all of manosphere-Reddit to saying it verbatim like NPCs? This sub seems like a place where someone might (a) know and (b) understand what I'm asking and not derail it, lol.

Is the term “pick me” over used?

I’ve seen it used as an insult like simp. A pick me is a term used for “women that bring down other women for male attention” which I understand but if a woman seems to just say something that is helpful or benefits a man she is a pick me. Such as a woman cooking for her boyfriend she will be called a pick me?

Considering how much women shit talk covertly and snake each other all the time ex:sleeping with best friends boyfriend or exes. Is the term pick me a cope for mentally healthy women that have a positive outlook towards me?

https://imgur.com/a/GY8Jqxv

TL;DR summary of salient points, please keep in mind these are direct quotes, not hyperbole. Highlights include but are not limited to:

“We’re mostly christian”… “our fathers participated in slavery.”

Western man is the “hero of the slave trade” for abolishing it.

Cheers to housewives who create human life.

Cheers to guns.

Settle disputes in “Sharia court”

There is a secret handshake (and you don’t get to know it).

They have a literal anthem, many of the lyrics of which revolve around making ones “ma” proud, being a “late bloomer” and “slow for my age.”

“We don’t except trans men because they aren’t ‘boys.’” Verbatim, with that typo.

To earn your second degree of proudness you must list 5 different breakfast cereals while proud boys “pound” you, beat you up. “Shots to the head and below the belt are discouraged but not against the rules.” Then you receive a hug.

“A Proud Boy may not ejaculate alone more than once every thirty days… no pornography… and if he needs to ejaculate it must be within one yard of a woman with her consent… she may not be a prostitute… this is our religion.”

To earn your third degree of proudness you must get the words “proud boys” tattooed on your body, in a suggested font.

“Women tend to assume “chauvinist” means “sexist” but it really means “displaying aggressive or exaggerated patriotism.”

We disavow Nazis… and racists.”

“We allow weak, beta-male virgins to join because our fraternity is about helping men improve their lives and that includes all men.”

“Give everyone a gun… good guys need them too.”

“Legalize drugs… prisons will lose their best customers.”

“End welfare… stop rewarding single mothers for leaving their husbands.”

“Close the borders… we need to build a wall and encourage assimilation.”

“Outlaw censorship… this is arguably our most important cause.”

“Venerate the housewife… put a ring on it and knock her up… housewives are sentient beings.”

“The West is the Best… This is just a hate fact. America was it stolen from the Indians and it was not built on slavery… We fought hard to be #1 and we won… all other cultures are worse than us.”

“Shut down the government… we have no respect for the institutions that rob us.”

“There has been a lot of talk about whether Muslims should be allowed in. The elders have not settled this.”

“Fedoras are banned.”

But hey, at least they take gay folks.