Look, I can try diy homemade toys but unfortunately I cannot get toys, I need to achieve anal orgasm by fingers or diy toy, I need some tips and tricks for finger play, i have couple of question, do I need to jerk off while doing it, how much time it takes, what to expect, as while fingering my hand got tired (yeah I understand thats why you are suggesting toy but I can't kindly try to understand my situation as well) and in frustration I just jerk it off, I am new so I am open to ideas and help

Last night, I tried latex glove and coconut oil, used the whole bottle but couldn't achieve it, damn it's too hard, (I know I was trying to achieve it fast and good but failed), tried fingering myself (my finger motion was in the motion like come here type motion, internet told me that way, tried felt a single line (random) inside myself couldn't find that big ball that people say to stimulate), there was a point when I felt good but for few seconds like (4 seconds hardly) then I forgot about it and tried harder to get that but couldn't (maybe my focus was changed), how to finger yourself, my hand got tired and I was like f*ck this shit, I wanna jerk off. Heard alot about this orgasm, is this that pleasurable as people explain, I am expecting it to blast me now!

recently had my first experience just using a finger and some lube, it was nice but afterwards I felt a cramp feeling in the bladder and I've been peeing more often than usual. So this leads to my question, what are the things to be avoided when doing something like this. Is there any lubes that's not recommended? I use hello cake water-based personal lube, something cheap I found in the store that said it works for anal.

Has anyone else experienced a weird feeling in the bladder after play and if so what did you do? It's almost been a week and I still feel this and I'm wondering if I did anything wrong or if it's a "normal" thing for beginners.

What the title says. I wanted to try anal play first on my virgin anus by using a toothbrush wrapped in a lubed condom while chilling on my sofa. When the toothbrush was midway in, my legs started to shake, I could feel a new center of pleasure I never experienced before and was like "wtf?"... Really didn't expect that coming.

The next day I lied on my bed and inserted the toothbrush all the way in, only to get it out, slowly, very, very slowly. I was pretty high (thc) at the time, and that was the first time I (think) I experienced a prostate orgasm. It felt like an addictive explosion of pleasure, many times the intensity of a normal penile orgasm.

Then I got really addicted to it and bought a Hugo. The first time I used it, zeus... it felt so full i thought I was about to burst. It was so painful, but I endured it because it felt pleasurable as well. That time I felt like clenching my butt as strong as possible, and then I felt like the clenching was infinite. A extremely strong orgasm took me in over the span of many minutes, driving me completely nuts. I seriously though my mind was broken from pleasure at that point, I think I reached a point of no return after that.

I doozed off and the next morning went to shower. My body was so sensitive that I could feel how each droplet of water made me orgasm again, to the extent I just turned the cold water on because it felt more pleasurable.

It's weird, because my experience doesn't align at all with other posts of this sub. Some claim they only managed to get O after many sessions, where I got mine practically right away. I had always a high libido and managed to ejaculate a lot. Maybe my prostate is bigger or something? (I'm 30+)

After that experience I kept using the HUGO and other toys, but for some reason I can't go back to the intensity of those first sessions. Maybe I should try with bigger toys? Give myself a time break?

Another theory is that when I started out I was doing kepler exercises (mindgasm), but then stopped. Maybe that has something to do?

Age 28.

So I've been playing consistently for about a month and have made great progress, and been enjoying this very much. However - no "mind blowing" orgasm (when compared to penile).

I feel like if I knew how building the orgasm feels, and how the orgasm itself feels - I'd have a much better idea of how to direct myself towards achieving a mind blowing orgasm.

I know this has been written in many places before, but I want to hear how the whole experience FEELS before, and into the orgasm for multiple people.

Anything is highly appreciated, thank you (:

I have noticed that the most consistent results I’ve had are with dildos (which I’m genuinely happy about) but it seems that the only time I may have been close to an orgasm was when someone else was thrusting the dildo into my ass( I say this because I was shaking uncontrollably and I could feel a slow buildup of familiar sensations from solo dildo play).

Would you say an experience similar to this was what motivated you to go all the way with a machine?

Are you able to orgasm with other methods now that you achieved the orgasm with a thrusting machine(fingers, prostate toys, levels, etc)?

Thank you!

A couple of nights ago I played three hours with a real njoy I started oozing after few minutes the magic sticky fluid, but soon after the only thing that came out was pee. Even with very intense feelings, as in the last 15minutes I was heavy breathing because of the high pleasure. In the end the normal ej was very poor in volume Anyone else experiencing this or any comment or advice? If more details needed just ask

When I was younger, I had a severe case of "pussy envy". I was in awe of the endless orgasmic capacity of (some) women and felt inadequate at my inability to climax more than once in a session.

Needless to say, discovering prostate orgasms was a game changer. I found two ways to multiple-orgasm.

1 - stroking my cock to the edge of orgasm, then rapidly contracting/flexing my PC muscle to override the ejaculation. It feels like an orgasm and spurts out prostate fluid. These is fairly easy for me to achieve. My record is 9 in a row, with about a minute in between. On average I can have 3-4.

2 - "pure" prostate orgasms (dry). More difficult for me, but potentially endless. My record is probably 50-100+ in a day, but in a typical session I only get a couple.

Keen to know how many times others can cum - what are your numbers?

I have a decently large collection of high-quality silicone dildos, ranging from the Tantus P-Spot and Doc Johnson Wave to many of the Vixen Vixskin series and Uberrime dildos, and even a Bad Dragon Archer just to keep the fear of Jesus in my butt. But I was just utterly blown away by he newest addition to my quiver, the New York Toy Collective’s Shilo dildo, a silky-soft dick with an oversized head and skinny shaft. This fucking thing massaged, tickled and played my prostate like a goddamn piano. It has unseated Vixen’s Buck, which for ma ny years has been my #1 p-spot dildo. For many years I was under the totally wrong assumption that prostate stimulation required larger and larger dildos to achieve greater pleasure, but after years of chasing that crushing, annihilating sense of overwhelming pressure—and mistaking that for pleasure (albeit with some great blended orgasms)—I have finally come to realize that it’s as much about how you don’t touch the prostate as how much you do, i.e. the touching only feels properly varied and complex when it relents, and then returns, rather than continuously and intensely pressing against the prostate without cessation. All of which is to say, the Shilo is an unfuckingbelievably good p-spot dildo, in this connoisseur’s opinion.

I recently got my njoy pure wand after reading about all the hype. The first day I got it, I used it (with the big end) and had success within 30 minutes. The second time I used it (today), it seemed as though the feelings weren’t as intense and it was hard to finish in the 30minutes I gave myself. I was going rougher than the first time as well.

Is there a break-time period I should give myself between sessions? Or should I just take it slow, even if it means I have to play for more than 30 minutes?

Newbie here looking for advice. I’ve played around a little with putting in a plug while I jerk off but looking to try a full prostate orgasm. Can wearing a plug and focussing on contractions actually lead to a big O? Or do you need more specialised toys?

Yup, I did. It was absolutely amazing too. First one so I wasn't sure what to expect, sure as hell wasn't that mind blowing pleasure tho! Problem is though, I did feel a bit of mild pain when the internal muscles started spasming. Now I've got a faint soreness inside me where my prostate is. BUT..... the feelings seem to be taking a looooong time to fade. It's been 3 hours now and I'm still leaking slowly and having an occasional spasm with a little pain and a burst of pleasure.
Is this normal or did I break myself in the most wonderfull way? So, congratulations or sympathies? I'm okay, right? RIGHT? If this is normal, I'm becoming a junkie already, lol!

Hi Peeps, For years I have tried for the fabled anal orgasm. Yesterday I gotten something special. Not sure if I "did it correctly" or "gotten it right". I'll skip to the chase: Hypnoporn on, pumping my ass with a thick cucumber 🥒, riding it doggy style And I got a pressure build up at my groin area. I click my sissy clut tightly between my legs, and sat up more, instead of a usual doggy. Something like angled 90 degree, with the cucumber attacking my prostate. I keep going, it felt good. I think I climaxed, not really sure, but after the "good feeling" I felt relieved and exhausted. The cucumber slipped out, when I gotten up Abit. Not even sure if I shot any cum, as I was in daze Still felt I Abit horny. Maybe like 50% horny. So I decided to jerk to squeeze one "regular shot". (Sorry to all, I know that is not a way a sissy should cum). But I couldn't do it. I vigorously shock my clit, but I just could not get it fully aroused. And I got that refractory period feeling . So I stopped. The session feel really relieving. Not sure if I have a prostate orgasm? Or was that how an anal orgasm is supposed to be like?

One of my favorite ways to play is to use an aneros helix trident, lie face down on the bed (pillow under my hips is more comfy for me) with some soothing music, and veg out for a couple hours. I've been doing this 1-2X a week for a few months. I basically relax myself and just....chill (I get cold so I put a blanket over me). Eventually I feel light tingles on the back of my butt, then ripples of pleasure through my body, and tingly hands. Then my toy would just pull in and out on its own and my body would move itself around in its own a bit without my input. Then the pleasure would just go up and up without a stopping point. When that rising pleasure happens, it's a prostate orgasm. There's no final endpoint, shock of pleasure you get from penile, it's more like the rise to a penile orgasm than anything but it keeps going up.

Anyways, yesterday I had a particularly good one. I was relaxed, moaning into the bed, the pleasure went higher than ever before, and the toy was moving faster than ive ever felt it. I was there for about an hour I'd guess. Problem is, I can still feel SO MUCH pleasure an entire day later. I wasn't able to sleep last night, and it feels extra tingly even now. It's almost scary, and I'd like to get my prostate to calm down so I can sleep tonight. Anyone have any tips? Regular masturbating didn't help....is there a timeline, someone else have experience?

What’s your favorite story about your journey in prostate pleasure? What happened the first time you had an orgasm through prostate stimulation? Or when you had a breakthrough?

Ok, havent done prostate play for a looonnnggg time!! So just for the hell of it, i bought some cheap plugs. Needless to say they did absolutley NOTHING for me!! Like it just made me feel like i need to poop.

I knew my prostate was deep and i thought these might reach it but i was wrong!! Not even close like it didnt even tickle it!!

With that being said i have some other toys on the way!!

I was trying for my first prostate orgasm , so here I am going to town on my prostate pretty rough with my fingers then I'm starting to feel pleasure but suddenly I was peeing. Do yall have any tips to avoid this?

I’ve been seeing mentions of coconut oil as a lube alternative to normal water based lube so I decided to pick some up from the store.

Holy shit. It’s game changing. From dry discomfort after a few minutes I’ve been able to rail my ass with a purewand for an hour straight without stopping!

I took some Saran Wrap and put a little bit of solid coconut oil into it and rolled it up into a cylinder like shape (kind of like a beef wellington lol) and tossed it in the fridge to solidify. After that I just popped it into my ass to melt and then put some fresh oil on my toy and the outside of my ass.

I was leaking lube out of my ass and cum out of my dick. If you’ve been having lube problems get some coconut oil ASAP!

I know some of you reading this will find the idea of urethral sounding a thing of horror, maybe some of you are curious but reluctant to try? We've all read the horror stories of what can go wrong!

Last night I experienced an amazing session using sounds, a VR headset and a lovely bottle of Amyl poppers.......

I've been sounding now for almost decade and by being sensible and keeping everything clean and safe I've been able to experience my best orgasms. Over thee years I've managed to hone what works of me, I know its very niche and I hope by reading this you may be inspired to experiment too.

I first of all got comfortable, on my back supported by pillows, a folded pillow tucked under each knee. I cleaned my Guyon size 8Fr sound with an alcohol wipe, lubes it up with a sterile lube then carefully inserted it into my cock, cautiously easing it deep down my shaft, guiding it around my taint and into and through my prostate, I then relaxed for a few minuets letting it just find it's way, I could feel it gently snuggling and hugging my prostate. I put on my VR headset and started to browse some porn, getting me into the zone. fast forward half an hour and I'm in the zone, I can feel the sound moving of its own accord, time for a huff of poppers, in this instance a bottle of Amsterdam Black Lsbel from Twisted Beast. One deep six second huff was enough to turbo boost this session. my heart stared to beat faster, my body experienced a rush of heat and my prostate started to dance. This is an amazing sensation, think of the moment of ejaculation, the serge of euphoria just before you cum, well it's that's but its far way more intense and prolonged. I tweak my nipples and this draws my prostate against the sound, the combination of this coupled with the sound being moved around by my cock throbing and twitching is enugh to trigger my first orgasm, this lasted for well over a minuet.

I decide to ramp things up a bit and dab a couple of drops of the poppers on the toe of a sock, roll it up and then suck on it as I would smoking a cigar, this intensifies the hit of the poppers. mix this together, the hit, the tweaking of my hard nipples, the VR porn and me gently squeezing my PC muscle keeping an even pressure of the sound on my prostate, then the magic happens. A continuous prostate orgasm lasting more than ten minuets, my sound is now tickling the entrance to my bladder, this is super intense, like a tickling sensation deep within the base of my cock, it then gently glides into my bladder, once in it settles, ever so gently rubbing against the wall of my bladder, the feeling is so subtle but feels incredible, a few more huffs of poppers, more tweaking of nipples and more multiple orgasms. All in all I came for well over an hour, one orgasm rolling into the next, I finished off the session with a lubricated hand job and fell into a deep and peaceful sleep.

Warning. Urethral sounding cn be dangerous and cause serious injury, always play safely and proceed with caution.

I just got mine today, followed some instructions i found on here and I was leaking in a minute. It's insane. I've went at my ass so much with a dildo in every way imaginable and I probably will never use that dildo again. 10/10.

Hi all. I have prostatitis (non bacterial) and do experience flare ups if I have too much sex / masturbation. Anybody out there with this issue and massage themselves? I’ve never tried it before so just wondering what experiences out there are.

For handfree cumshots what do you all find better, gentle pressure on the prostate or nice and firm? With my njoy wand it feels incredible when i’m firm on it but I feel the pressure is stopping the cum to escape

I’m looking for a hands-free prostate massager that will hit my P-spot, and is preferably available in Australia. After having tried quite a few toys and interacted with quite a few prostates, I’ve realised mine is definitely shallower than the average. As a result, most massagers I’ve tried overshoot my prostate. So far, the biggest success was the Progasm Jr, but even it still feels like it’s pressing on the very upper edge. The Helix Syn (old curly model) went past it completely. I have the Njoy Pure Wand and it works fantastically, but I’m looking for something hands-free. Final curveball: I am aware of the HIH 950, but it is not available from any Aus retailers, and HIH’s shipping to Australia is ~$60 AUD (the same price as the massager itself). I am open to begrudgingly paying for this if there’s no other viable option, but I’d really like to find an option with reasonable shipping fees. Thanks all!

So couple days ago something new and strange happend to me, the night before i give myself a glorious 2 hour session to my prostate and feel really good. Came multiple times and for the grand finale I can't resist and Ifinished myselft with my hand in a normal masturbation, then the arousal came 5 minutes later and gave me a second normal penile orgasm, but the arousal continues, so i keep clenching my muscles for like 20 minutes more hoping to achieve a third orgasm, but muscles seems too tired for the clenches and for almos three times i was about to feel an orgasm, but the feeling vanished all the times in the last second, so i gave up for that night a went to sleep. The next day in the evening I was again very very horny and went for a quick one to my bathroom. All the normal procedure at first, i was just wanking off but then when i was close to orgasm something happen that never before happened to me, like 5 seconds before i normally begin to shoot semen (5 seconds before orgasm) i felt pressure and liquid running off my urethra, i was cum, i began dripping cum 5 seconds before orgasm and y felt great, like little tingly cum coming out my penis and then when the orgams was coming i just felt a little twitching, and more cum coming out, but that was not a full orgasm. My theory is that my muscles were very tired from the last night and that caused the cum to precipitate prematurly and the orgasm to be very muted, but overall it was hot and something i want to ask if anyone else ever feel something similar.

Due to several life issues going on lately I have not had much time to play or to have sex or jerk off. Have not cum in probably 10 days and just had one amazing prostate session a few days ago, but didn't finish with a wet orgasm. This is unusual for me, but being horny or not cumming lately never really affected the quality of my prostate play in the past.

What I have noticed though over the past four or five days is that I will randomly during the day have a feeling of wet warmth on the bottom of my balls just in front of premium and on under side of my dick. Not super intense, but feels good. Kind of feels a lot like warm wet cum running down the bottom of my dick and bottom of my balls. Anybody else ever get that?

Well, my problem is that when I go to masturbate and I get an erection, I start to masturbate and I feel a kind of heat in my prostate, then it is followed by a sensation of pleasure similar to what I felt in my penis, until when I reach orgasm I feel it all in my prostate. I have never stimulated the prostate directly, I have never had anal sex and since I started masturbating I have felt orgasms in the penis, something that is normal, but now I don't feel it like before and it is also less pleasant. I must say that I am 17 years old and I am bisexual and that I have tried to commit suicide several times because of this, I hope that if you have read this far you will respond 🙏.

So tomorrow I’m going to have about 4 hours of alone time and I want to use that time to have a session.

For context I have a few toys. Progasm, helix Syn, wmcbp (small), knock off njoy wand. And some penis sleeves that I use on my SO that I think I’d like to explore just am very scared of the size because I’ve never had anything bigger than an njoy up there.

Any advice from the experts in the subreddit on how I should experiment with the tools at my disposal to try and reach a prostate orgasm?

Yesterday I was training and then I decided to read some posts from the guides that you share here and I decided to play around a bit. I'm really happy to follow the suggestions and I'm really on the right track. I felt tickling and I can massage my prostate without having to touch my penis. I'm looking into expanding my toy collection. I'm also thinking about buying some nipple toys and a chastity cage. It's true that you have to change your mindset. When I finished I didn't feel like masturbating, as I sometimes have. Today I took some sitz baths with Epsom salts to relax after training.

I have some vixskin dildos I use on him with a strap on (we love the mustang), but I’d love to have something I can use while giving him a blowjob and/or a rimjob/eating him.

Any suggestions for something he’d love that I can surprise him with?

Is the toy quiet enough for public play ? Or everyone will know that I'm using it ?