One night, I had an exhausting session where I milked both my prostate and bladder with multiple orgasms. After that I rubbed one out, and passed out from exhaustion (I was also high and drunk). About 30 minutes later, I wake up to an unexpected but pleasurable pee orgasm, where I just couldn't control myself and peed all over my bed.

Has this happened to anyone?

Tldr: Milked my prostate, bladder, and balls. Pased out and woke up to a pee orgasm.

I love riding my dildo, but the thing is I can't seem to be able to orgasm while riding. I can squirt all my juices in doggy or laying on the side in minutes, but orgasm in cowboy, even while riding intensely has always eluded me.

Please help me out here. I would be love to squirt with a bouncing dicklet.

I'm always about experiencing near HFO (although I've experienced it already one time for having a lucky day but now I couldn't do it again so I'm trying) but my breathing ruins it most of the time. When I'm near to explode, of course it becomes intense as my blood pressure rise up and starts feeling like I'm so near to HFO and I would get deep breathe, but the thing is, it's deep to the point that I lose focus and it stops the pleasure I'm feeling.

To anyone here that experienced HFO, what kind of breathing you do?

I'm still new at this, but I'm able to have a prostate orgasm about 30% of the time I attempt it. Last night I took a break from trying for a prostate orgasm and instead I took a bit of a THC gummy and did some penis + ball stimulation with my hand (mostly ball stimulation since I almost prefer that to penis, and I can last a lot longer that way too).

Over the course of an hour or so I started feeling something similar to how it feels when a prostate orgasm is building. I could feel a sort of "pressure" in there, and my abs started doing the same sort of contracting and relaxing. That lasted for a while, until finally it felt like I started to really get close, but I knew it was different (like I was shifting into a "I'm here, but I'm not here" mental state), like a prostate orgasm was imminent. Then it happened. It wasn't a particularly big orgasm, but it definitely felt like a prostate orgasm, and it was completely dry.

Is this possible? Because that would be the dream situation- being able to have dry prostate orgasms over and over again just from some good old fashioned penis+ball touching.

Any recommendations I think some toys are to big making it impossible for me to enjoy and feel any sort of pleasure preferably a prostate massager about as thick as a finger ?

People are always asking about getting there but what about calming down? I am quite experienced at have prostate orgasms, around 15 minutes before this post I finished up a rather long session. Nearly 3 hours, while the first orgasm hit me around 5 minutes in. Kept going even after the vibrator died and now that I'm finished and the toy has been discarded, my body won't quit chasing that high and I need to go to bed for an early start tomorrow. Well one crazy idea later and I have an ice pack pressed up against my taint, believe it or not it's working.

Had a period when the njoy was my favorite toy. Just the thought of it alone would arouse me. Took about a 2 month break from it, and it hasn’t been pleasurable ever since. I’ve tried about 5 or 6 times at this point but I just feel…nothing. It doesn’t feel as pleasant as before, even with the large end. Haven’t once been in a state where I’m getting p-waves and contractions since I resumed playing. It’s not sore or painful, it just feels like nothing!! Help!

I’ve been trying patiently for years of anal play to feel pleasure from the prostate and felt nothing I may just give up.

If you are currently learning to unlock your prostate pleasure here is a tip that will help you progress much faster.

After your session, you should try to have a mini aless session. The afterglow feeling is what you are looking for. Once you pack up your toys and finish up your session, regardless of if you felt anything or not. Take a moment to relax.

During this relaxation period just focus on your prostate and breathe. Do this for 10-30 minutes to decompress. You’ll actually find that you’ll be able to feel pleasure without any toy. There is no toys and no expectations.

I found doing this while learning, these mini aless sessions actually felt WAY better than my main session. I think it’s a nice way to let go of expectations as you are just relaxing after a session. You are essentially tricking yourself into doing exactly what is needed for prostate pleasure.

I feel we get so caught up in the prep and the “mechanics” and routine of a session that we lose sight of the purpose of prostate play, to feel good.

Take a moment after and just feel good for a bit and you’ll surprise yourself instead of mindlessly running into a wall with dud sessions. You are overthinking it.

I’ve been playing with my prostate on and off for the last 8ish years. I’m straight and I discovered it by accident when I was curious what I was like to fuck myself with a dildo. I got bored with my hand and a pocket pussy and said fuck it. Best “fuck it” moment of my life. I just recently bought my first vibrating prostate toy and holy shit (trying my first cage experience soon). My first 3 hour session, 3 joints, and 30+ mind blowing body shaking dry orgasms later I’m finally ready to at least talk about this on here. My god, I think I feel in love with myself again today but I have questions and hopefully some of yall can chime in.

It’s been hours since my toys died and my dick is so incredibly sensitive. I had one wet orgasm at end of my sessions and my dick and prostate are so incredibly sensitive that I’ve I clutch my muscles around my prostate I get these insane waves of pleasure throughout my body. Is it normal for a prostate to be this sensitive after a 3 hour long session?

Next, I’m seeing this word mindgasm around a lot. What does is that or what does that mean?

Any good toy recommendations? I like bigger prostate toys, current toy is 4.5” insertable and 1.5” width.

Today had some playtime,with a cheap aneros copy. Had a nice warm bath. Then plugged in. It started without any special. But after a few minute. Things started to warm up. Felt some tingly in toes and warm sensation arround the prostate. I knee I am on the right way when I felt my dicks is getting hard and I looked down and was totally soft. That is the mileage what show me something big is coming. I do smile at this point and carry on with derp breaths. And then..I realised this thing is bigger than me this feel is stronger than me. It was like a huge storm come and I am standing alone in a sheer. And this moment..something asked inside me would you want to give up control and see my reap power or you get off there? I said let me see it. Then it showed me. I was laying on my back. One feet straight and one is resting on my sole. Then i felt my sole elevated from the bed and floats. Then this float climbed everywhere in my body. Then finally reached my nose and eyes. Vibrating,sizzling and floating. That part scared me,but it was to late. Point to no turn back. I felt heavy and float at the same time and my core,ass,legs all of them felt like melting plastic.

Then just builds and builds. And I totally lost. In the end I felt I pissing cum. It was not cum and pee. It was something else. And now just layin and my prostate wakes up randomly. So scary.

Ok, I can basically do it all with a massager or without consistently. I can have HFDO HFWO super-O. Shit I can have a prostate orgasm at the grocery store if I want. Is a fuck machine an acquired taste. Will I then want a dick in my ass?

Long-time lurker, first time poster.

I suspect I may have hyperspermia as I regularly have wet dreams (I've recorded four just this month.). Aside from the mess I have to clean up whenever a wet dream happens, having a fuller prostate makes me feel like I have to go to the bathroom more often.

I sometimes feel like an old man having to pee two or even three times right before I go to bed. But one thing I've noticed about manually expressing my prostate is that it makes my bladder feel that much more relaxed, and I don't have to go as often. (For those wondering: when I pee, the stream is always strong and not like a dribble, which seems to be the case for a lot of men who have an enlarged prostate.)

Is there a more efficient way of keeping my prostate emptied? I prefer dildos, but I'm wondering how well a vibrating prostate massager would work.

So I just have an anal play, it when really smooth, dont have any hard time to insert the dildo into my anal. But after a few push, I checked my dildo and see some blood on it. But I dont feel any pain. If i didnt check, i'll keep doing that. Anyone have a clue about it?, Does i have to stop anal permamently. Please help me, thank you !

Hello everyone, as the question says, how does one actually get past the sigmoid with a big dildo? No matter how much lube I put, it always seems to get stuck right at the entrance, with more lenght unused. Do I have to angle it a certain way? I usually do it laid on my back, could actually straddling it help? Thanks in advance

Hi everyone,

Been playing with Aneros for about 18 months now. Progress has been slow and I’ve now got 3 models. Started with the Progasm, then bought the Helix Syn and finally the Psy which arrived a couple of weeks ago.

I’ve had some times where the sessions are good, I’ve had definitely dry orgasms and can nearly always get some waves of pleasure but there’s been little to no escalation for a while.

I think I’m struggling to just let go and enjoy it. I can get involuntary movements from holding a kegal and it leads to getting really shaky legs but there isn’t much pleasure even though my body is clearly reacting to it.

I think I just need to restart from the beginning but just don’t know what to do! Any tips from anyone that has got stuck would be much appreciated. I really want to get reliable dry orgasms, never had a hands free wet orgasm and no where near a super O.

(And I’m not into weed/other drugs btw!)

Obviously gummies are helpful at the correct dosage, but here are supplements I use (or more so don't).

• Avoid magnesium (I used to take at night, it detoxes estrogen, which is needed to not shrink the prostate)
• Avoid zinc (zinc can increase size of load and amazing if just focusing on strong penile orgasms, but it also messes with estrogen)

Anything you take or avoid? Nixing the magnesium at night has been a help in achieving more regularly

Can you explain what the "backwards" technique is for edge2? Normally, the prostate head is viewed from the belly side, so does the backwards technique involve viewing it from the opposite side? What are the benefits of this approach?

So I’ve been experimenting with dildos for years now. The feeling of fullness is amazing and I really enjoy it however I always finish with my hands. Recently, I’ve decided to take my time a little more to simply enjoy that feeling. I want to be able to cum hands free from dildo play (or the real thing) however I always finish with my hands. I think I’m close at times. I’ve stopped watching porn while fucking myself because that distracts me from concentrating on my prostate. I just put on some low fi chill music or something and basically fuck myself until I can’t take it any longer and then I attack my dick like no other, lol! I’m usually leaking pretty heavily at this point and I feel both loose and tight at the same time. How do I know I’m close to an anal orgasm? For those of you who have experienced one, how does it feel? What does your penis feel like when you have one? Does it get hard or stay soft? Does it matter either way? I know for me I begin to got a semi hard on and with every thrust from my dildo, It feels like I’m gonna spurt 💦 everywhere but nothing ever happens. Like my head feels so full of cum just ready to shoot out! I get shaky and I begin to moan cuz it just feels so good. My ass muscles begin to almost trap my dildo when it’s fully inserted so it can’t go anywhere and I have to remind myself to open back up to allow it in and out again. I mean, I really work that thing good. So what do I need to do? Am I doing something wrong? Any tips? Looking for honest sincere answers if possible! Thanks gents!

First caged HFWOs! Had one of my best sessions with my sex machine using my newest (and smallest) p-spot toy. An empty house, thc & poppers helped me reach 3 absolutely mind bending wet orgasms through prostate stimulation only while wearing a small metal cage. each lasted about a minute apiece. I've been focusing more and more on taking bigger toys only to discover that the most petite one I have gave me one of the best orgasms ever!

I was a target today getting some ky and looked up to see they carry sex toys now. They had what looks like a njoy wand which they call plusOne Dual Vibrating Arc. Anyone have any experience with it? I was about to say “fuck it, I’ll try it” but wanted to see if anyone else was familiar so not to waste money.

At least it did for me. Bout a 7 inches long/ 1.5 girth dildo.

Started slow, gradually working it deeper. I used kegals to pull it back into me. Did this for around 5 minutes.

As I got closer I sped up the rhythm. Before I knew it was as if my body was possessed. I was going as fast as I could. The p-waves started rocking me. I didn’t have a discharge and my cock never got hard.

I can’t wait to do it again.

Ok, so I’ve been reading for over a year. Over that time I think I’ve bought at least 15 toys. Everything from the Aneros’ to Revos, NJoy to Lelo.

I’m not sure if my prostate is higher than most people’s, if I’m just overshooting it, or is I just haven’t been patient enough. The NJoy wand is kinda the most helpful in terms of “testing” all of the possible spots, at least in my opinion, but I’m just not ever sure. I often get some pretty amazing sensations, but those seem to happen for a few seconds when I do find a spot, but then it stops pretty quickly after.

One time, and one time only, I got close I think. Got to that warm sensation that spread throughout my torso. Didn’t get further than that. Other than peeing. It was pleasurable, for sure, but I suspect not quite there. That was with the Nexus Revo Stealth.

Any advice? In the meantime I’ve kinda switched my focus to stretching, but no matter how much I enjoy that, my quest for the elusive p-gasm is my real dream.

Thanks in advance.

After getting impatient with my N-joy, I decided to just finish the session with a traditional orgasm but with a finger up my a**. When I was about to cum, I just stopped and kept fingering what I think is my prostate and instead of the orgasm going away, I came just off of the fingering alone. It didn’t really feel spectacular, mind blowing, hypnotic or however else you describe a prostate orgasm, but it felt as if I had a penile orgasm even though I was just fingering myself after I stopped masturbating. Could this mean anything? Could this possibly be the first step to achieving a P.O or am I just over thinking it

when I massage something inside, I have the urge to pee, but my bladder is empty. How do I know I am massaging the prostate and not the bladder?

Seems like I cant get any pleasure since being on this med. Apparently the sexual side effects on this stuff are next to none for most. Anyone else have a similar experience? I'm gonna stop taking it for a few days, see if anything changes.

A few days ago I had got myself hard just thinking about a fantasy. When I put my fingers in, I felt it throb hard. I was so close, I was leaking precum and shaking a bit. But then it just stopped and I couldn't cum. I don't know what I did wrong, I was gently pressing on it in and it felt amazing but I just couldn't keep the feeling. Any advice?

When I massage my prostate I have a constant feeling that I want to urinate (although my bladder is empty). And because of this I can't be aroused and I can't relax completely. Should I continue to massage despite this, or something else?

For forever, since I can remember, anal play was fun but never felt great. Like it always felt like other guys had much more fun bottoming than I did. It was always about the psychological high of being topped rather than the physical pleasure of it.

But last night, after years of trying, I finally finished solely from prostate play! I can’t believe it! It was amazing and I think I coulda kept going but I was so surprised and elated that I just kinda laid there feeling it all.

What did the trick was slowing down. I just put my steel wand inside, let it go and flexed my kegels. I did that for a few minutes every now and then. And instead of speeding up when feeling myself getting close, I kept the same rhythm. Also I was high as a kite watching comp videos.

Idk if I had a super-O, probably didn’t, but that’s fine cuz for years the goal was to prove to myself that anal could be equally as pleasurable as just normal dick play. So I guess this was a HFWO!

I've got the njoy wand and I'm greatly enjoying experimenting with it. It can feel pretty good sometimes. I basically use the small end because when I used stuff about 1.5 circumference it's like my anus has to open too large or something and gives a little pain through entry way at the 1.5 size.

I'll be playing with the small end and I get maybe 5-6" in there and it seems to enter a zone or something. I know this because when I pull the toy outward from that zone it's like theres something in there that gives a popping/grabbing/sucking action on the toy and "let's it loose" on its way out. The toy is heavy so when I'm laying down it kind of naturally slides inside me deeper and I don't like it.

What is it and is it a sign I'm in too far? I also think I've found the prostate somewhere before this zone because I can really get some prostate fluid dripping out. I just don't find a spot yet where I seem to "build much up" to have a big release if I keep going, I am not sure. I can't wait to feel my body writhing in pleasure like some of you all describe but I actually think there's a time or two where I may have already been there, not sure.