/r/penpalsover30

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A place to find penpals over 30.

For the best success in posting an ad, we recommend that you include as much information as possible. Some suggestions: How old are you? Where are you from? Where do you wish your pen pals to be from? What are your hobbies and interests? What makes you unique?

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  1. You must be 25+ to post here. If you're under 25, please check out r/penpals.
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  7. Minimum character limit of 100. Not including titles, your post must have at least 100 characters. Use this website to check if you've typed enough.

Good luck, and happy writing!

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37/M/FL Seeking snail mail or email pals

Hi everyone. My name is Mike and I live in Florida. I have 2 sons but they don't live with me. I'm divorced and disabled due to extensive mental health issues.

I like nerdy stuff. I love video games and Doctor Who and Star Wars. I'm a walking wealth of musical knowledge, and have a degree in music production to add to it. I love rock and hip hop the most but I like pretty much anything except country and most radio music from about 2014-present. I have quite a few hobbies that I love to talk about; I'm a drummer since age 13 and also okay at guitar and bass.

I'm mostly looking for a snail mail pal but am also okay with email. I don't want to exchange any kind of pics or anything, just want some type of interaction, and I'm very neurodivergent so phone/video calls terrify me lol. Feel free to DM if you're interested in just having friendly chats about nothing important by letters or emails.

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2024/05/06
02:31 UTC

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38/M/US

I'm a 38m looking to find some friends to talk to in my stage of life. I'm married with two boys.

I am a nerd. I love all things nintendo zelda, pokemon, Mario, etc. I love MTG just have fallen off due to life. I also love tabletop rpgs just like with most of these things with a busy job and a family I have little to no time for any of these things.

I am a welder/fabricator by trade. I also enjoy woodworking in any spare time I can muster. I mainly focus on woodturning bowls. And I love making pens.

I would love to have a pen pal online either on reddit chat or some other format. Hit me up if you would like.

Thanks for reading!

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2024/05/06
01:43 UTC

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38/M/US - Couch Philosophers Wanted: Seeking a Reflective Pen Pal Over 30

So, here I am on a Sunday evening...

... contemplating life’s mysteries with a carton of Kung Pao chicken in my lap (haha)—because, let’s face it, nothing says “epic weekend” quite like takeout and deep thoughts, right?

In between bites, I found myself asking if it’s possible to meet someone as enthusiastic about great conversations and spring rolls as I am. Maybe it’s you? Maybe it’s a fortune cookie with some really good advice? Either way, I’m here for it.

About Me:

  • I'm 38, male, and work in education.
  • When I'm not dealing with angry faculty and spreadsheets, I'm probably out in nature. As I like to say, it's my "reset" button and hiking is my form of meditation.
  • I love to read (especially non-fiction and historical fiction). I'm always down for swapping book recommendations, if you're also a reader!
  • I love peanut butter (crunchy over smooth any day – fight me).
  • On that note, if I'm being honest, coffee isn't just a drink for me; it's a ritual!
  • I'm a big fan of the simple things in life. Give me a sunset, a good laugh, or a perfect slice of pizza, and I’m set.
  • I firmly believe that socks are the most philosophical piece of clothing; they always seem to be questioning their existence in my laundry.
  • I love diving into those deep, meandering conversations that start with "what if" and end somewhere between "the meaning of life" and "why can’t we tickle ourselves?"
  • Fun fact: I used to be able to recite all 50 states in alphabetical order — a party trick born out of a grade school challenge, haha.

The Important Stuff:

  • I'm on the lookout for those genuine, thoughtful exchanges that lead to a long-term friendship. Emotional intelligence? Big yes. The ability to chat about everything from outer space to the best way to load a dishwasher? Absolutely necessary.
  • Laughter is also super important to me. It's all about balance, right? If you can toggle between discussing life’s big questions and cracking up over a terrible pun, we’re going to get along just fine. I'm all for sharing those deep thoughts that hit you right in the feels, but also for those moments of light-hearted banter that make you snort with laughter.
  • Who knows what this could lead to? I’m excited to see where this road might take us. Whether it’s a deep philosophical conversation or just swapping stories and jokes, I’m up for it.

I look forward to hopefully hearing from you!

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2024/05/05
22:54 UTC

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36 M - Hello there! I hope you’re doing well?

Good Morning / Afternoon / Evening to you!

Thank you for stopping by on my post, I hope you’re doing well? I thought I’d post here and hopefully speak to someone from around the world, being in the UK it would be nice to speak to people across the globe but that doesn’t mean people from the UK can’t message also!

A little about me - I work in finance and that’s an absolute yawnfest so I’ll try and not bore you with that, in my free time I enjoy going on walks, photography, photo editing - definitely a work in progress hobby but hopefully I’ll get there one day. I like the usual things that everyone puts - travelling, music, films, YouTube hopping and of course the occasional beer! I enjoy watching hockey although it’s been a while since I’ve been to a game. One of the more random hobbies is checking where the plane above me is flying, normally wishing I was on it! I don’t know what else to write here but hopefully the above is a good start.

It would be good if we could speak a few times a day as sometimes when I work at home it does get a bit boring and I end up speaking to my Homer Simpson teddy. Please be over 18 and if you can bring the banter that would be greatly appreciated! Until then have a great day and take it easy!

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2024/05/05
17:07 UTC

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36F / North Carolina / Looking for SnailMail Pals Primarily

Hey folks!

I'm Bethea. I'm 36, female, and I live in North Carolina. I am married, have a 5 year old kiddo, and the cutest dog ever who is a mystery mutt (for now! I just ordered a doggie DNA kit). My partner and I are both queer- I mention that because I'm not interested in writing with someone who is going to have a problem with that.

I work as medication coordinator (for now, I'm actively interviewing for a few jobs right now that would be a step up and shift in career). I'm into a lot of nerdy stuff. I like tabletop RPGs, I used to be super into Magic the Gathering but haven't played in ages. I also enjoy like forum based RPG stuff and I like reading fanfiction sometimes. I love to read in general. I recently finished ACOTAR and I'm working on Throne of Glass but it's not as good. I listen to podcasts during my commute- usually a true crime podcast or Sawbones. I also enjoy knitting and embroidery.

I would love to find some snail mail pals as I have a collection of fountain pens, inks, and enjoy decorating papers and making my own envelopes with scrapbook paper. I've tried this before and my mental health kind of got in the way of me being productive. But I'm on some new meds now and doing great and want to try this again!

I want to just write about whatever. Whether that's like about my life, the stuff I'm currently interested in, etc. Like I just want to get mail that isn't junk or a bill and use my pretty stuff.

I don't mind what age/gender/etc. you are. I've never written internationally so I'm unsure on the postage for that but I'd be willing to give it a shot!

Although I am primarily interested in finding some snail mail pals, I'm also open to adding folks on telegram or discord for chatting.

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2024/05/05
15:28 UTC

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32F, Icelandic. Looking for a friend.

Hi! I'm a 32 year old married mother of 3 looking for a chat buddy.

I love reading, writing, crochet, any kind of DIY projects, horror movies, music and playing video games.

I have BPD, depression, anxiety and ptsd but I am still a happy camper 😁

Hoping to find someone to talk to while on maternity leave 🥰

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2024/05/05
14:14 UTC

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Pop culture savvy 38 going on 39 female from Melbourne, Australia - happy to have new chat friends! (and if I have time, snail mail)

Hi!
I'm a 38 year old female going on 39 from Melbourne, Australia who would love to have new chat friends.

A little about myself, I am Asian - half Malaysian-Chinese and half Filipino (I get to celebrate Lunar New Year AND Christmas - score!), born in Australia, I consider myself an avid geek and nerd for all things I am passionate about.

When I'm not working the typical day job, I run a review website which I have been for 7 years and counting with a team of 12 (all my friends) across Australia. My outlet covers things from K-Pop, live music/concerts, gaming, film, theatre (I love musicals), and all things in between. So yes, you're likely to see/hear about me being invited to a film premiere, or theatre opening night etc. I started the website on my own a while ago and it became too much, so I recruited a team to help me out. I find it extremely fulfilling but very busy.

Which is why as much as I would love to write snail mail, I don't know how discipline I could be in keeping up. I do love handwriting letters and believe I have lovely handwriting - but being lefthanded kind of smudges the ink sometimes and my hand cramps a bit because I hold my pens weirdly.

I love Pokémon, Sailor Moon, otome games, JRPGs (Final Fantasy, Yakuza/Like A Dragon), Mass Effect, Harry Potter (I'm a Ravenclaw), Studio Ghibli, Disney, Pixar, anime, manga.

Favourite musicals: WICKED (I've seen an insane amount of times), Miss Saigon, Lion King.
K-Pop: (G)I-DLE, ITZY, Stray Kids, BIGBANG, Soojin, Monsta X, Wonho, Oneus, ONF, Infinite, Pentagon, KARD, Day6.
I do listen to other music but there's too much for me to write, we'd be here for hours. You should just message and ask me.

I love foreign films, romantic comedies, action, sci-fi and fantasy movies.
I started writing because I don't watch films enough and these days give a lot of the movie screenings/premieres to my writers instead of allocating them to myself. But I am cutting that down to being time poor.
I like superhero movies but I'm tired of the superhero flicks lazy Hollywood keep dishing out these days.
I am hoping though that Deadpool x Wolverine movie comes to sweep things up and save the day.

I can't really watch horror or play any horror games but have admittedly seen all the Japanese Ring movies, A Quiet Place (there are no jump scares), and ALIEN franchise films.

Ghostbusters is the best 80s nostalgia film and I will die on this hill.

I don't get the chance to watch TV as much as I like but I am obsessed with Bridgerton at the moment and I am aching to watch Season 3 when Part 1 finally comes out this month!

I love astrology although I admit I'd love to learn more, art, going to museums, art galleries, theatre, the movies, concerts. Concerts are my happy place.

If I could go back in time, I would want to see Freddie Mercury perform live with Queen in his prime.

Sports wise, I am obsessed with tennis. My favourite tennis player is Andy Murray (he is lovely, honestly). I go to the Australian Open every year since it's in my city and try to avidly follow the tennis all year round, at least with every Grand Slam.

I got into the Formula 1 during lockdown/Covid era try to watch every race I can - but the time difference or me makes it difficult. Drive To Survive on Netflix also converted me!

I do love soccer/football but try follow international soccer whenever I can. I don't particularly have a team I'd follow in the British Premier League but if I was watching the Fifa World Cup, I would cheer South Korea or Japan over Australia (happy to explain in a chat, aha).
And you bet I will be glued to the Olympics this year whenever I have the chance to watch it and if time difference again permits.

I want to travel overseas again but the cost of living is hell! If I could, I'd love to go back to Japan or wherever the music takes me. I tend to fly overseas for concerts if I know an artist isn't touring Australia.

I am married, no kids, no pets (although animals are the best, my lifestyle just doesn't suit to responsibility owning one). I am terrified about turning 40 and I don't want to be a mother, so I don't feel I'd relate to parents talking about the children etc. I also consider myself a big kid/young at heart, I suppose I probably sound like by what I've written so I am looking for those that can relate that have similar interests to me.

I have social anxiety in person. Many think I'm a social butterfly but I feel I have to 'charge/recharge' before throwing myself into the wild.

Not looking for a cool wonderful romance because I've already had mine and the coolest proposal story to boot. If you want to know those details on how I was proposed to, you're just going to have to ask me.

I don't mind what gender you are. As long as we can gush over similar interests, I am happy to respond.

Ideally, I'd love to befriend someone in another country to me.
I am very responsive via chat etc.

If you think we'd get along, please say 'Hi'!
And thanks for reading this essay, aha.

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2024/05/04
17:07 UTC

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Snail mail

42 female . Looking for snail mail friends. I prefer people 40+ . My snail mails are really slow. More like sloth mail. I don't mind long rambling letters. We could read books together. Send me a photo of the first chapter . Via email. That way we can both read together. We discuss our favorite part. Etc. I never done that so I don't know if it would work. But who knows.

7 Comments
2024/05/04
17:28 UTC

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43/M/US [Texas] Looking for casual snailmail penpal

Married, father of one daughter, recently retired from the Army National Guard.
While, I'd love to commit to a more frequent and regular cadence, I am currently balancing my career, I work in IT, spending time with my wife and daughter, and working toward a Bachelor's Degree.

I have interests in various Table Top RPGs, though I find it hard to make the time for a game, and I got burned out being the forever GM.

I have not had an opportunity for travel outside the US that was directly or indirectly related to my military service.

I love cooking for my family and friends, and I am slowly curating my recipes, or tuning others to deal with finicky eaters. I am a fan of Golden Age Science fiction, some Fantasy, the occasional thriller and early Cyberpunk stories and novels.

I do not watch many movies or television shows.

I love music, and cannot point to any specific genre that I prefer, and I am willing to have my tastes challenged and expanded.

I prefer to write by hand, as it forces me to slow down and accept the flaws. I have a tendency to over analyze what I am typing into a computer, resulting in analysis paralysis as I constantly rewrite sentences.

My cursive handwriting is far more legible than my block handwriting, but it is not by any means calligraphic.

I am awkward, and somewhat prone to rambling.

If this sounds at all interesting to you, I would love to engage in correspondence.

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2024/05/04
03:35 UTC

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I need writing friends! (34F, USA)

Hi there!

I'm a 34-year-old homeschooling mom (I prefer the term "governess") who writes novels in the wee hours of the morning. While I love my life as a mother / teacher, I'd love to cultivate more interest-based friendships.

I'm an INFP (passionate, idealistic, introverted) and classic-literature nerd. Favorite authors include Austen, Dickens, Tolstoy (though I'm currently snoozing my way through the war scenes in War & Peace), Wendell Berry, CS Lewis, GK Chesterton, Tolkien, Toni Morrison, JK Rowling, and George Saunders.

I'm a Christian. I mainly use Reddit to geek out in the Twenty One Pilots subreddit. I think of myself as an ambitious person, which might just be another way to say that I'm chronically discontent.

I would love a fellow ambitious, creative female friend to exchange emails with. My ideal pen pal would be a great conversationalist, interested in ideas and willing to take our correspondence seriously (however sporadically we chat! No need for strict rules.)

If you think you might be interested, please respond with a short blurb about yourself, your goals/current life phase, and (if you like) what you last read that moved/interested you. Miscellaneous icebreakers also welcome.

Thank you for reading!

💖

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2024/05/03
18:19 UTC

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36/F/ France - looking for new friends :)

Hi,

I'm an french woman (36) almost 37 at the end of the month of May. I live in France somewhere in alsace !

I'm looking for someone doing snail mail seriously, to talk, share letters, gifts and maybe later packages. You can see on my profile what I'll make for my penpals ! I'd like keeping an little online contact too. To know if the lettres arrived, etc...

I'm looking both for online friend ans snail/online friend. So please let me know on your first messages what interest you ^^ !

Lets talk about me.

I'd like meet people that share my hobbies :

I'm an amateur artist and writer. I do like do Fandom and original stuff. I like draw, write, RP, do artistic stuff. I do like horror, horror/ cute stuff, cryptids and paranormal :) dinosaures, Tamagotchi and virtual pets. (vintage tamagotchi alike ones).

I do horse riding and like animals. I have 4 cats :) I do like the nature ( flowers, and do some walks on wild places to just enjoy the quiet)

I do like watch anime and ready mangas : Jujutsu kaizen, demon slayer, AOT, ...) And play video games (Stardew Valley, FFVII, tales of, Baldur Gate 3, Zelda, pokemon, animal crossing, and inde games. )

I'd like talk to people who share at least one or two points I noted :3!

If you are a lot into : Rp, Stardew Valley, the Simpsons, Zelda, SNK, FFVII, Demon slayer and JJK we will be the best friends ! Lol! If you like video game too :3

I have video games on my steam accounts and nintendo online if you want that we play togheter sometime !

I have some others hobbies like bead pearls (recent), making keychain, and others creative things.

!! Note !! : I'm suffering from severe depression, OCD, anxiety and for my body : neuropathy and fibromyalgia also restleg leg syndrom. So please be patient if I'm slow ! I may have moments where an 'attention disorder' hit bad because the treatement, so if I don't reply after a moment it's not because I'm ghosting, please do not hesitate to send me others messages.

But please. Please don't ghost either let me know if you are busy :) ...

Well I let the rest for the letters/chat.

PS: again, if I forgot to reply send me an message. The attention disorder is annoying, but I took a new idea that I note everything on my desk to not forget :).

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2024/05/03
11:25 UTC

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38/F/UK - A friend to weather the storm with.

I'm preparing myself for a life altering change. I'm giving myself a year and then some and I'm terrified. There, that's the truth of it. There's no frills or fuss. I just want to feel less alone and less scared. I'm also a fairly decent writer when I want to be. But this is where I am, I'm at this place now and so I thought I should prepare you as best as I can. I don't need anyone to save me, just a witness to my agony. A friend in the storm, so that I feel less alone.

Do come to my pity party, I promise to throw in a few witty retorts.

7 Comments
2024/05/02
16:43 UTC

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35 m looking for chat buddies

Hey there. I’m a male Blerd from the southeast of the US who currently bored at work and have been looking for people to chat with throughout the day and possibly the evenings. I prefer emails, discord or some other app. I don’t mind staying on Reddit though!

My hobbies include most nerdy things, sports (mainly soccer and basketball), music, listening to podcasts and audio dramas. If you can find me a great old school radio drama, we’ll be fast friends.

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2024/05/02
16:15 UTC

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34F- Feeling Alone

For some reason today I am feeling completely and utterly alone! I feel like no one cares as much for me as I care for those around me. I am tired of being the carer in all my relationships and wish just once someone would be there caring for me. Honestly I am not normally this melancholic I am just so tired of showing up for everyone else and no one being there for me!

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2024/05/02
02:10 UTC

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Feeling melancholic, looking for someone with a bit of nostalgia for the old reddit/internet

Maybe it’s just my mood today but the internet as a whole, and reddit specifically has been feeling increasingly dead and less useful. I’m not even talking about the proliferation of bots and AI comments (a related issue), it just feels like the median reddit commenter is stupider and less literate than ever. AskReddit seems to be entirely sex questions written by twelve year old non-native English speakers, and the state of the other default subs is really no better.

I miss the days of forums and message boards before the complete gentrification and single-signonification of all social media.

I don’t particularly care what we talk about, I’m open to most anything. I like to think I’m a curious & chatty person, I mostly just want to find someone that seems like a real person, maybe with a hint of nostalgia for how things were.

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2024/05/01
17:13 UTC

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38m looking for companionship

I feel oddly exposed and open so I hope this is all okay. I’m a happily married man who is looking for friendship. Dad to two girls, I work all day with little to no connection to other people. So if you’d be willing to be my work chat buddy, please let me know. It wouldn’t be letters, more online chat.

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2024/05/01
08:48 UTC

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34F US

Hey I'm 34F from the Midwest. I'd love to chat with someone regularly about basically anything under the sun. I love reading, cooking, hiking, horror movies, 00 emo music, and finding cool stuff at thrift stores.

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2024/04/30
23:23 UTC

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36F England - White Anglo Saxon looking for Muslim pen pals

I am 36 F from England.

I am married with kids and have what I consider to be a fairly normal life but I realise that it's only normal by my own particular standards and expectations, and life is all about broadening your horizons.

So I'd be especially interested in befriending people who have different cultural backgrounds to me.

I chose Muslims as an example simply because there are lots in the UK, but unfortunately society remains pretty segregated and so our spheres don't seem to overlap much

Feel free to shoot a message over

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2024/04/30
22:13 UTC

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33M - Just trying to find someone who will eat pasta with me, because my nights get cannelloni

Hello!

I'm 33, male. I'm not a parent to a human (yet), but I do have a beautiful cat. I never sleep...ok, I do sleep, but I have a flexible schedule.

I'm passionate about life, people, love, culture, healing, the arts, mindfulness, and spirituality. My journey is an amalgamation of love, hurt, laughter, tears, joy, and pain. I love to love, and all that comes with it. I'm a loud advocate and supporter of people living an authentic life; whatever that looks like.

If you are interested in making a real connection…I’M YOUR GUY!

You can be from anywhere in the world!

Just be over 20y/o and willing to be consistent.

Think we'll vibe? You know what to do!

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2024/04/30
22:11 UTC

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30 F Singapore - Snail Mail or Email

Hi there!

I'm a full-time illustrator from Singapore, looking to get to know people from anywhere over email or by snail mail.

I am the kind of person that watches movies 5 times in theatres (I also watched Begin Again on a plane and watched it again right after it ended). I've been known to try to draw while watching a subbed anime even though I don't understand Japanese. And I used to pet my dog with my feet cos I was too lazy to bend down to pet him with my hands.

I spend most of my time drawing (for work and for fun), reading (mostly fiction), and listening to podcasts (Top 3 are NoSleep, Dungeons and Daddies, and No Such Thing As A Fish). Other hobbies include: crochet, video games, movies, anime, other tv shows, board games, music, bouldering, and about 5000 other things.

If you'd like to email/snail mail about any of those things or any other things, please drop me a message! Letters/emails from me are likely to always contain one or more doodles. I'm also currently trying to adopt a dog so there is a possibility of dog pictures in the future.

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2024/04/30
14:57 UTC

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33M, Catholic, Europe. In search of a deep, spiritual friendship.

Inspired by a long post on reddit that I’ve read a few days ago, I won't list my hobbies or interests here. If you want to know more, just ask. But the experience of the past 33 years or so has shown me that the bonds forged by shared interests can be pretty fragile, and that's not what I'm looking for.

I don't have a precise idea of what I'm looking for though. But I do know that, for years, I've had this desire in my heart for a deep, intense friendship, to find someone with whom to share everything without shame. I have 'friends', old acquaintances for whom I have great affection, and with whom I share a few moments of joy, albeit quite rarely. But I don't know any souls with whom mine resonates, and I always feel misunderstood.

As the title says, I'm a practising Catholic, and that's the most important point of this post. What I'm looking for above all is someone with whom I can grow in my relationship with God, and I want it to be the basis of our friendship. I've never had a Catholic friend, I've never known how to make one. I don't know what's really going on with me, but let's just say that I've almost always had social problems, which have varied depending on the period of my life, and which over the last 15 years have tended towards an ever greater solitude. I'm probably suffering from depression, but I only discovered this very recently, despite the evidence. I've also sometimes thought I was on the autism spectrum, because of the way I act, but there's nothing certain about that, and it doesn't really matter in the end. Maybe I'm just a person with a melancholic temperament who can't help over-analysing everything, whether in my external relationships or in my inner life, which tends, in a way, to paralyse me.

In short, what I want is to find a soul with whom I can walk towards God. Despite the perhaps slightly morose tone of this post, I want to share the joys as much as the difficulties, but I simply don't want to hide this dark side. I need help to be, if not a good Catholic, at least simply a Catholic. And on my own, I always feel as if I'm irresistibly slipping back into the same lows.

Over the last few months, I've had to face up to my dark side and discover things about myself that I didn't know about, or perhaps that I had refused to face all these years. I've been very far from God, more than I had ever been since my conversion and I never want that to happen again. I don't want to lie to myself any more. But I don't think I can do it alone.

I don't care if you're a woman or a man, how old you are or where you come from. I have nothing against Protestants or other religions, and in fact it was a young Protestant woman who brought me back to God, but it is very important to me that you are Catholic, or at least Orthodox, so that we speak the same language. You can still write to me if you don't fit in, but I'm afraid that together we won't be able to reach the depth to which I aspire, and to which I hope you aspire too. Bear in mind that my desires may not be what's best for me, and that God may have other plans for us, so feel free to write anyway!

I look forward to talking to you soon.

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2024/04/30
06:16 UTC

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36F Looking for a writing partner!

Hi!

Looking for a partner to exchange things we’ve written for one another. I’d love to share prompts - silly or serious, inquisitive or vague - and write pieces with one another. I imagine this feeling almost like a shared journal. Not looking for critical feedback. Simply hoping to share some creativity with a person that appreciates it and wishes to do the same. I hope to share some laughs, some tears, some lessons learned, and maybe even a few secrets.

I’m a 36 year old woman located on the east coast, married with two sweet dogs.

If you think this sounds like something you’d like to explore, let me know. Let’s try!

Looking forward to sharing.

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2024/04/30
00:58 UTC

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41/F/Canada. Looking for a new friend to converse with.

Hello! Looking to have some nice conversations with a new friend. No nsfw profiles. Just looking for sfw convos. If you’re looking to hook-up, date, or anything non-platonic, move on.

Now that we got all that out of the way….I like movies, TV shows, cooking, reading, nature walks, etc. Just a warning, my taste in things is rather alt but I’m open to talking about any sfw topic. Having a sense of humour is important - I don’t take myself too seriously and neither should you.

Some possible ice breakers - what’s one thing you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t been able to do yet? This could be a bucket list thing or something as simple as trying a certain dish. What is your favourite genre to read? What’s your favourite movie or show?

If interested, please send a chat request and include your age, location, and basic interests. Thanks!

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2024/04/29
23:55 UTC

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45 M Ireland seeking an awesome connection

Hey there! I'm Richie, a 45-year-old Irish adventurer, eager to share my passion for storytelling and a touch of Irish charm that's bound to captivate your inbox! 🍀✈️

Join me on a journey through my travel tales, where my commitment to exploring the world rivals a long-term relationship with my passport. Brace yourself for an engaging exchange as I infuse life's rhythm into my messages, complemented by a playlist as diverse as my stamp collection. 🎶📸

See the world through my lens, as each letter becomes a visual masterpiece through my love for photography. I'm not just a traveler; I'm a curator of moments, always ready to share the beauty I capture. 📷💌

Dive into the literary realm with me – I'm in a perpetual book club and extend an invitation for you to join the adventure. Get ready for a pen pal experience that's more exhilarating than a leprechaun dance-off! 📚🕺

If you're up for laughter, wanderlust, and maybe a virtual Irish jig, shoot me a DM.

Apply today for a pot of gold at the end of our postal rainbow! 🌈💌📬

Just one simple condition: let's keep it friendly! ☺

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2024/04/29
07:47 UTC

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40 m USA - Seeking German speaking pen pal

Hello there! My name is Jay, and I took German in school. I am looking for a pen pal that can read/write/speak german. It can be snail mail, email, or even chatting.

Just be 18+ and willing to communicate.

Ich freue mich darauf, von Ihnen zu hören

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2024/04/28
18:05 UTC

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34M - Rare Late 80's Model Human, Well-Maintained and Upgraded looking for people to chat with!

Hey folks! I've got something special for you today – a one-of-a-kind late 80's model male human, available for all your companionship needs!

This European import comes in a stunning white exterior, free from any visible damage. Trust me, it's a head-turner! Don't worry about missing out on essential features either – this guy still possesses all the original specs, with a couple of bonus upgrades. He underwent vision augmentation and dental alignment during his early years, ensuring an enhanced experience for both parties involved.

Though he may sound a little funny with his unique accent, fear not – he's perfectly understandable. And hey, if you're curious about his history, the registration documents are readily available upon request.

Now, let's talk performance. While he may not be in his prime, he's still in pretty decent shape and has managed to maintain his original dimensions over the years. You're in for a treat with his fuel efficiency – he runs like a champion on caffeine in the mornings, but expect a slightly slower pace in the evenings if his fuel source consists of fried cheese and beer.

To top it off, he's available right now and open to negotiations. Whether you're looking for a long-term commitment or a short-term chat adventure, this import model male human guarantees exceptional response time and aims to exceed your expectations (note: expectations not guaranteed to be exceeded).

So, what are you waiting for? Don't miss out on this rare opportunity to own a piece of late 80's human history! Give me a shout and let's make a deal. Serious inquiries only, please.

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2024/04/28
14:14 UTC

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Email or handwritten letter penpals xx

31F looking for penpals from all walks of life in the world. It really is weird to me saying it out aloud but I am lonely. I have cut off a lot of “friends” from my life when I realised no one was genuine. I chose to be alone but sometimes, it gets very lonely without anyone to talk to. I’m sure you get what I mean.

I have 3 cats. I love tattoos ( I have 8 of them myself). I’m into music (anything except rock and metal). I’m a Harry Potter junkie. I love horror movies although I often watch them with my eyes almost closed. I write poetry. I love to learn new things, anything and everything basically.

If you have anything in common with me, please feel free to reach out. If you don’t have anything in common with me, please do reach out too as I’m sure that would give us a lot more things to talk about.

I don’t mind emails or even snail mails if you’re into that. I love writing letters and would love to have a friend who is into it too. But if you arent, fret not as there are other options that we can later discuss and decide on. But for the time being, DMs here would be the first course of action before moving on to exchanging information.

Looking forward.

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2024/04/28
11:02 UTC

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40 F UK Looking for snail mail pals. F preferred

Hello everyone, I am a 40-year-old female from the UK and I am hoping to connect with people who enjoy randomness and going off tangent, if you are serious I may not be the person for you. I am a single mother of two children aged 8 and 11. I consider myself a geek and enjoy reading, listening to music, playing video games, going for walks, and visiting museums and art galleries. I adore sparkly things, glitter, rainbows, penguins, and dogs, although I do not have any pets myself, I always appreciate pictures of your animals, but no spiders please. I work part-time and I am looking for someone to chat with about anything and everything, no matter how big or small. If you are also seeking female friendship, I hope we can get to know each other better.

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2024/04/28
09:48 UTC

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34/NB/Belgium Looking for a Dutch-speaking penpal + offering a correspondence in French to who wants it

Hello! I will write this in English, but I'd like to find people to write to in Dutch:) My name is Alex, I'm 34 and non-binary (they/them in English, hen/hun in Dutch).
I've been learning Dutch for a while now. I'm not looking for a teacher, I'm looking for a friend, for someone to discover with who I am in Dutch — as I believe our personality adapts to the language we speak somewhat. I'm looking for someone open-minded, queer or very queer friendly 🌈, over 21 years old to form a long-lasting conversation through either emails or snail mail.
I would describe myself as quiet, super sensitive, and (hopefully) kind and friendly. I live with my wife and her two kids, we have a dog and two black cats. I love reading, swimming, listening to podcasts (I love the human voice), learning stuff, skincare and makeup... I suffer from chronic pain (which means sometimes I won't be able to go to the postbox quickly), and while I have sorted out a lot of stuff, I'm still dealing with trauma and anxiety. You definitely can tell me everything, vent, complain, you'll never bore me.
I'm a firm believer in social justice, human rights, animal rights and gender equality. I would consider myself a feminist.
My mother tongue being French, you'll welcome to reach out if you want to write in French to someone, even if you don't speak Dutch yourself. Let's unveil the French you!:)
Have a lovely day everybody!

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2024/04/28
09:07 UTC

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32F Germany

Hey! I am 32F living in Germany. I am looking for a couple of female pen pals, who would like to exchange physical letters.

I want to hear about your life through your weekly goings on. Tell me about your life, even if you think it’s boring, I won’t. I want to hear a Journey of you working towards something or just what’s been on your mind that week.

For me, Saturday morning is my time with my coffee where I’ll sit down and respond to your letter. I’ll pop to the post office and you’ll get it during the week.

I’m a physically active person. I run Marathons, do Triathlons, meet with friends and travel a few times a year. I’ll always send you a postcard.

Drop a comment if you’re interested and we can decide if we think we are right. I’m only looking for a couple of people as I don’t want to become overwhelmed.

3 Comments
2024/04/28
06:43 UTC

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