I’ve tried the pen pal thing before. I’ve tried making friends on reddit and other places…everything, for the most part has been pretty unsuccessful. I have a very small social circle, and being neurodivergent makes going out pretty uncomfortable. I feel limited in the ways I can potentially make friends. Now, to get this out of the way, I am in a serious relationship and not looking for anything that could harm that. I am open to only platonic connections. If you’re still interested, awesome. If not, see ya! Hope you find what you’re looking for. A little about me, I’m mostly a loner. I actually enjoy my time alone. I share my space with 3 cats who are my everything. They have been through it all with me, and still remain seemingly attached to me. I like playing quiet games on my switch, I love pokémon go, I’m learning to crochet better, and I really enjoy bugs. My job can be stressful, so while you may think that my free time seems boring, honestly, I don’t think I can handle much more than that. “Boring” is a nice vacation from the crazy workday.

Anyway, if you’re interested in chatting let me know.

I could be your new best friend 😀
Hello, I am looking for a best friend for long-term connection, so let me here convince you why you should choose me as your new friend:
* I am chatty and have good vibes and energy.
* I love to talk about all kinds of topics and can always find things to talk about.
* I always reply to my messages and never get bored with my friends and always send good morning messages.
* I will always be here for you to tell me about your day or vent if you have something that bothers you.
* I am always respectful and never disrespect others or step into their discomfort zones.
* I am nerdy and if you are nerdy that's a plus then, if not it is ok we can talk about any other stuff.
* I know I don't get many replies, so I try harder post a lot, and usually get genuine friends, so if you like what you heard so far, let's be friends 😀.

Howdy,

I spend a lot of time in an office living the life of an average working stiff. It helps to have a good friend to share stories, share interests, laugh about things, and maybe even find new interests to explore, like you do when you meet a cool person.

Who am I today? I enjoy educating myself, riding motorcycles (a whole lot), planning trips, building models, shooting Polaroids, reading comics, and every imaginable combination of those things. I'm known to be a food snob, a strong headed pragmatist, to have a dry absurdist sense of humor, and to prefer a very small social circle. I am married/forever child free and happy that way.

What am I looking for? Anybody I can genuinely click and have something in common with. If I feel engaged I will keep talking, and in the best case scenario we make great friends in the long term.

Anyway, send me a message and let's get to know each other.

My name is Amy, I'm a single mom of two who works in a factory. It doesn't leave me much time for traditional socializing. I'm studying Spanish, I read tarot as well as other methods, and consider myself a deeply spiritual person. However, you can't take life too seriously and I love a good laugh. Looking for friends to share the everyday with :) Open to both electronic and postal pals. Me espanol es malo, lo siento! I can't even find special characters 🤣

Thank you :)

I am looking for a friend to send snail mail, e-mails or even just chat. I have been very lonely and depressed so I think this is a great idea for me to find some friends, I am more comfortable speaking with women but I guess I don’t care to have a buddy of the opposite sex. I am an LGBTQ+ (lesbian) neurodivergent woman and I love to write, read, horror movies, dungeons and dragons (even if I really never played but I love to learn), magic, crystals, cats, journaling and arts and crafts I would love a good friendship with who I can discuss deep topics and life, I consider myself a great listener so you can talk all you want and I will be thrilled to know about your life and special interests For snail mail I guess the easiest way is for you to be from Mexico but I can try and learn how to send letters to another places in the world Feel free to dm me or comment and I can reach out

Hi everyone! I’m Ame I’m from the US and I’m looking for new friends to write letters to! Here are some of my interests:

Video games, movies & tv, music, (especially alternative and new wave) animals, travel, fountain pens, tea, thrifting, anime & manga, creative writing, poetry, reading, journaling, cooking, baking and crafting.

I am also a spiritual person, I would love to swap spells or recipes! I am LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent friendly. I love deep conversations and making new friends! If you think we have similar interests feel free to message me. 🫶🏻

Hello,

I have another post if you want to check that out but Im just going to list a few things about myself and save the more in-depth stuff for the letters.

Looking for US penpals at this time.

I am married and childfree by choice but absolutely adore kids.

I like art and doodling but i’ve been a bit out of practice due to school and work and life. Letters from me may include some little doodles or drawings/paintings at some point.

I am back in school to finish my degree next year.

I have two cats.

I like to try a lot of different things which translates to starting a lot of crafts and whatnot but never really getting past the beginner stages.

Im a casual gamer, currently only gaming to socialize with some friends of mine through fortnite and call of duty. However, some of my all time favorite games are Breath of the Wild, Stardew Valley, and Detroit Become Human.

I love reading the free romance books on amazon (cuz id go broke if i bought all the ones i want to read) and on Hoopla. I also have a bookcase full of books i want to read, mostly self-help/reference type books.

I am open to any and all types of conversation (of the platonic variety), no matter the religion or interests.

I generally write a few pages at a time for letters but Im also slowly experimenting with cards and whatnot.

Message me if youre interested in being snail mail penpals and we can exchange info.

Hi there - happy Friday I feel like I’m posting a newspaper ad here (desperately seeking susan anyone?). I’m looking for a snail mail penpal from the U.K., here’s a little bit about me:

• I’m a wife and baby girl mama • I love reading - particularly in the autumn/winter cosy season. I often snuggle up to a good book in my limited free time. You’ll find me in the local library 📚 I enjoy fiction/sci-fi/romance/thriller/non-fiction… I’ll give most things a try • I enjoy baking/cooking (disclaimer: not claiming to be very good but I try) - savoury/sweet you name it I love to spend time in the kitchen. I tend to follow recipes but have gradually become more laissez faire willing to ‘freestyle’ • I like to keep fit and stay active (weirdly) - walking/hiking/gym generally I feel happiest when out and about in nature

I like to write, thought I’m not creative so can’t do the art/doodles or commit to sending trinkets/gifts or anything of that nature it’ll just be good old fashioned writing. Hopefully this might suit someone too. Please just send a message with a little bit about you if you think we could be penpals. :)

I hope you enjoyed the alliteration. But, if you match the description in the title, please continue reading. Conversation is one of the best forms of entertainment that costs nothing but time. The reason I put that title is because I have had a lot of experiences where people reach out, but then having a conversation with them is like pulling teeth. Asking open ended questions and getting two word answers. My philosophy with this whole thing is you have to give a little to get a little. I’d say it’s you get back what you put in but I think that’s definitely not true. Anyway enough about that. I’m not necessarily looking for someone who I can play a mental game of chess with. Just someone who knows and understands the ebbs and flows of a conversation. Someone that will ask me questions that surprise me or make me feel open and vulnerable. The topic can be anything from what you’re having for breakfast to your thoughts on the greatest wars in history. All walks of life are welcome, and I’m so excited to hear from you.

I'm reaching out because I'm feeling quite lonely and could really use a friend. I'm a tired mom of 5 juggling the daily routines of parenting, and while I cherish my family, I find myself missing the connection and conversation with others.

I'm looking for someone to share experiences with, exchange stories, daily challenges, and provide a bit of support and understanding. It goes both ways!. If you’re interested in a chat and building a friendship, I’d love to hear from you.

I have a lot going on in my life. I’m 32 years old and have never felt so alone in my life. I have been through so much in the past couple years and I truly feel like I don’t have any one to listen I feel unheard and unseen. I don’t have too many friends anymore or even reliable conversations that actually help or make things a little better. I really could use a friend.

Hey, I'm a 30f, bi, Sasha, looking for a chat buddy. I am mostly keeping up to myself, have shifted to a new city and most of my friends have crawled back to their own lives (guess that's how things go). I'm not looking for any dates or anything similar to be transparent, but I always love an interesting convo. It can be movies (I love binging Shudder, Tiff movies), any food we have in common, conspiracy theories, books but please no political or religious stuffs. A bit about me to get a heads up, I'm a yoga trainer and now pursuing a copywriting degree. I love writing poems, although sometimes. I'm a grammar nazi, sorry. I'm deeply interested in spiritual stuffs, anything about afterlife and cosmos gets me stare at you and listen more. Looking for a sensible soul to connect within here.

Hi. Originally i'm from Russia but now i live in Montenegro. I would be happy to tell you about all my hobbies and interests, maybe about my whole life if you are interested in. And i would be happy to know you better.

Just for example: i like to read sci-fi and fantasy, write novels (in the same genres), play DnD, travel, walk with my dogs... There is a lot of different stuff.

Must warn you: i'm not a native in English so you can find a lot of weird things in my messages XD

If you ok with that, lets be a penpals!

Hi, I am looking to chat to people from all over the world. I'm a 35 year old female. I love getting to know people, talking about life, philosophy and conspiracy theories.

My passions are helping children through their trauma, reading, music, spending time with family and the outdoors. I like to think I am easy to talk to, but I guess that is for people to tell when talking to me. Lol... I am a little extroverted, but also a little introverted at times. All depends on the social situation.

So if you are looking for someone to talk to, please send me a msg. 🌻😊

Hello everybody!

I find myself at a stage in my life where I don't feel like I can fully express myself with most people around me, so I'm looking for penpal friendships to let both of us be free of flying our nerdy, weirdo flags high!

Things I consider part of my identity and that I can't talk about with people in my life:

• fanfiction, shipping characters and fan creations. I love how much creativity and love goes into fannish works, and I would love to discuss about it with someone. Unfortunately I am very bad at being a presence in social media, so I'm looking for someone to talk to one to one. I am open minded, pro-ship and low drama about all of it. Current interest is 9-1-1, but it's not necessary to have the same ships or faves. You just gotta like hearing me talk about it lol, and of course I also enjoy cheerleading for your favourite couple/headcanons/fave and discussing a wide range of fandom and pop culture topics.

• I love reading, watching quality TV and movies (mostly lol) and my comfort genres are thrillers and post apocalyptic sci-fi and horror.

• I am bi so I'm looking for someone LGBT+ friendly.

Other info about me:

• I enjoy travelling, art and hiking

• I am crap at crafts. I do know how to draw but I do it professionally as a designer and unless I'm being paid I neveeeeer find the motivation to do it for fun. It kinda sucks because I would love to be the free spirited artsy type always into some kind of craft, but I'm not and I have finally accepted this about me!

• I have the habit to deep dive into a subject that interests me until I feel like I have a good understanding of the subject, then I move on to the next interest

• Despite me being quite an introvert, I do honestly enjoy listening and talking to people.

• I am in a long term relationship and have a young child.

If you relate to anything in my post, hit me up! I look forward to hearing from you! :)

I prefer reddit messages and e-mail to start getting to know each other, but eventually I'm open to using some kind of chat app!

Hello there - yes, you, the quiet one in the corner overthinking everything and making little art projects, would you like to be pals?

I’m a printmaker in Melbourne who loves creating - drawing, bookbinding, and imagining odd little worlds where everything feels a little off.

My life is slow and a bit messy, filled with op shopping (or even better, hard rubbishing), roller derby (or at least I'm trying to get back into it), and getting overly fascinated with niche topics (like illuminated manuscripts or Gothic fiction).

I’m not here for perfect handwriting or relentlessly happy updates. In fact, I hate my handwriting so much that I would rather use a typewriter. I am likely to send you exhaustive lists of cool things I found for free (most recently another typewriter, an amazing old rotary phone, a vintage sewing machine, a bunch of garden tools like spades and stuff). I would also be likely to send drawings or prints or other little art projects.

I like books a lot, but find it hard to find a book I really want to read sometimes. But I do have a big bookshelf - maybe if we share tastes we could do a read-along?

I'm recently-ish estranged from my parents - which makes me sad and a little lonelier than I would wish - it would be nice to chat to someone who can relate to that experience. (Although definitely still message me if you otherwise think we would be a match but have loving, nice parents).

I guess I'm writing this ad because I would love to send and receive some mail (who doesn't love proper letters?), but also I work from home and my social life feels a little small. Basically, I'd like to make some new pals and expand my wee world a little.

Salutations!

I've been fortunate to have had a few penpals in my life, from item exchanges to e-mails. I'd be very interested in seeing if I could experience that again and in being that experience for my penpal.

My ideal communication method with someone is in the form of lengthy, detailed, intricate paragraphs and pages that delve into a variety of topics and themes. Even when meeting people under less defined ways we sometimes end up becoming de facto penpals due to how long it takes to properly respond to each other. So, if digital exchange is what you're after, this is the form it should take. I am quite fond of physical exchanges, however, as they allow for much more. Anything from casual post cards to longer letters will do, or focusing more on cultural exchange as opposed to ones based in communication. The point of penpaling, after all, at least to me, is to meet people you otherwise wouldn't and for both involved to learn more about each other and their lives. What I'm after is connection and intrigue, and not an extra piece of mail every few weeks. I could just buy myself a little something every so often if I wanted that.

Due to the private nature of penpaling, I'd like us to actually chat a bit and get to know each other before diving right into the physical aspects of it. Let's become familiar with each other to make sure we're a good fit, although e-mail exchange is something I'm more open to in the immediate now.

I'm 34, male, and from the Eastern US. I'm looking for someone that I first and foremost relate to on a personal and deeper level. My ideal is to actually get to know my penpal - cold exchanges are less interesting to me, but aren't completely rejected. Location doesn't matter as much, as who the person is defines whether I'd like to connect with them or not. That being said, I do have a preference for cultural exchange and differences, so I'm more open to people from parts of the world more distinct from my own. Part of why I like penpaling is to be exposed to things I otherwise wouldn't be and to allow that for someone else as well. But, whether you're in my state or half the world away, it's you, the person, I want to exchange with.

More about me and what I'm seeking:

• I dislike mundane chitchat, unless I really vibe well with the person. I have a preference for meaningful and deep discussions about topics of importance and value.
• I adore people of complexity and who don't believe in bottling up their emotions and needs. I'm in a stage of immense growth and discovery and would like to meet people either also in this stage or who would like to grow and advance as a person in a general sense. I'm seeking adventures, in addition to all else.
• I value creativity and like artistic types. I express this myself through writing, but can appreciate many sorts of artistic expression.
• I'm INTJ and Type 5, since some people seem to like knowing. I like taking and talking about different types of tests to understand myself better, although a lot of them seem petty bunk to me, including MBTI and Enneagram.
• I like to ruminate, research, and learn new things. I don't like to constrain myself, and I strive to see various topics in intricate and new ways. I'm, by choice, an autodidact, and prefer this sort of person as well. The motto 'Nitimur in vetitum semper cupimusque negata.' is a pretty good summary of my intellectual ethics.
• Photography, tech, incense, time pieces, archiving, and abstraction have always interested me and continue to do so. I'm always surprised by what people consider to be interests and hobbies, so I probably have more I take for granted and didn't list here. I haven't consumed media regularly in years, but used to engage with a lot of it when I was younger. Film is the only thing I even somewhat still involve myself in.

Think we could have a great exchange? I'd greatly appreciate a reasonably lengthy chat/message in which you told me what within my ad resonated with you, what you're seeking, and anything else you may want to mention. My ideal is physical exchange in the form of letters and the occasional addition of items, but message me even if you have a different preference. Leave your hesitations and take the chance. If you liked anything you read here, there's a very high likelihood of us both gaining or experiencing something wonderful together. Don't doubt yourself or what's possible, The person themselves matters more than the form of penpaling we take on. You never know until you take the chance, and I've certainly been shocked countless times in life by what does and doesn't work.

Hello!! Something about me:

♡28 yo ♡ I’m from little town in the North of Spain! ♡ work for a airline ♡i like animals: i have a Shiba Inu and 2 lovebirds ♡i like to draw ♡i love airplanes ♡i love to travel ♡im into ufo, aliens, conspiracies… ♡i like watching documentaries ♡i like watching anime too ♡i love write in my traveler journal (just when i travel) ♡im open minded

Im looking for a girl! If u re interested dm! Or i can dm you! 🩷 kisses!

Well I dunno what to put here really, haven't done much like this before, just interested in having a general daily talk with someone. Tell me about your day, all the good and bad bits. Need a vent? I'm a ear to vent too.

Are you tired of those generic "seeking friendship" posts where everyone's apparently a dog-loving adventure seeker who enjoys good food, good wine, and good conversation (who doesn't?)? Well, buckle up for something more honest.

I'm the proud owner of what I call my "Book Mausoleum" – an impressive collection of untouched novels that serve primarily as very expensive dust collectors and occasional cat perches. I tell people I'm "into hiking" but what I really mean is I once watched "Wild" and bought $300 worth of REI gear that's still got tags on it.

My culinary aspirations currently involve trying to create sourdough that doesn't double as a medieval siege weapon. Previous attempts have been classified as potential WMDs by local authorities.

Remember those mortifying email addresses from your youth? Mine was barebackbabe69... at age ELEVEN. And yes, my mother saw it and chose violence by allowing this decision to stand. The psychological implications of this are still being unpacked in therapy.

I'm that person who keeps starting hobbies with the enthusiasm of a labrador puppy, only to abandon them faster than my commitment to New Year's resolutions. My apartment is basically a graveyard of half-finished projects – there's a kayak that was used exactly three times before becoming an extremely expensive clothing rack, calligraphy pens that have written exactly one greeting card, and enough yarn to clothe a small nation of very fashionable sheep.

The one hobby that stuck? Photography. I'm that person who actually stops to take photos of everything while traveling, trying to capture the world as I see it – which apparently involves a lot of random doorways, street corners, and "hey, look at how the light hits that building!" moments. My sister, my most frequent travel companion, has created an entire hashtag dedicated to shaming my weird photography positions (#SisterContortionist). But I'll have you know that lying face-down on a Roman sidewalk at 5 AM is ART, thank you very much. And yes, I will wake up for every sunrise because they're infinitely superior to sunsets – this is a hill I will die on, probably while trying to photograph said sunrise from an awkward angle.

When I'm not adding to my collection of abandoned hobbies or photographing pieces of the world that catch my eye, I'm that annoying person who acts like a tourist in their own city. Yes, I will take a guided tour of the place I've lived in for 15 years. No, I'm not ashamed.

As I get older, my friend group has started to resemble my sourdough starter – mostly dead with occasional signs of life. Turns out "adult friendships" is code for "seeing each other's Instagram stories and saying we should get coffee sometime" for three years straight.

Maybe we can be each other's person who actually follows through on those coffee plans. You can call me Betty, I'll call you Al, and we can bond over Paul Simon's undeniable genius while we're at it.

P.S. If you're wondering whether this post is a cry for help, the answer is maybe. But aren't we all just crying for help in our own special ways?

I have picked up some great penpals on here earlier, some fizzled out, some is still around, but i think i'm ready for a new batch of weirdos in my inbox.

Do you like mixing talk about everything from politics to why banana and curry on pizza is the best topping and everything in between? I'm all for it, i love talking about everything and nothing. Personally i like to binge books from time to time, deeply into metal music and concerts but appear more like a dad in IT that has accidentally stumbled into a metal gig. Tho i am a dad in IT, so maybe it isn't that odd. I also like to keep myself decently current on what is happening in the world and love to hear views from other sides of the world. I also like to cook, maybe not super good at it, but its fun and hey, you gotta eat right?

Even tho i am Swedish, i have a deep hatred for IKEA, i'm more or less convinced that 70% of the people in IKEA have been roaming the warehouse for several years, having no idea how to find their way out and have been surviving on meatballs dropped on the floor in the resturant.

If you love going on long in depth rants on anything you are interested in, like why Pierce Brosnan was the, by far, best Bond, i'm definitely into it.

I'm a open minded person and i only discriminate against those who eat pizza from the middle and people who talk on speaker phone in public.

I speak three languages fluently, Swedish, English and Profanity. Much of the profanity i have learn by being 6'3 and smashing my head into stuff, but i'm open to improving my skills further. Anyone of those languages i'm fine communicating in.

Do don't be shy, come introduce yourself. Oh, and i prefer reddit DM or chat, my handwriting makes no one happy.

In a quiet corner of the city, I find myself thinking of Dorian Gray and his simple joy in burying his face among garden flowers - finding beauty in life's sensory moments. Sometimes I feel like a blue flower reaching for something meaningful, something infinite.

I spend my days working a humble job in this expensive city, but my mind often wanders to deeper places. What I'd like is to write to someone near who enjoys exchanging thoughtful messages. Someone who wants to share their favorite books, discuss life's mysteries, and trade stories about their day. I imagine us writing back and forth, sharing discoveries and experiences of what makes life meaningful.

Maybe we could explore literature together, talk about philosophy, or just share what makes us smile. To hear about what moves you, what you dream about, what keeps you up at night thinking.

I think there's something special about crafting longer messages, letting thoughts unfold naturally. It would be wonderful to find someone who sees the beauty in that too. If this resonates with you, I'd like to hear from you.

Hiii,

Happy to chat via DM, email or even snail mail if you prefer :) I’m looking for penpals that would be around my age… Also, I’d love to communicate with some U.S folks! but happy to talk to anyone, really.

I’m pretty easy-going and I will definitely be interested in what you have to share with me, so why not contacting me, and let’s go from there?

Looking forward to chatting with you!

[[So, I'm currently listening to Arianna Grandes "We can't be Friends" as I write this, so it's kinda funny.]]

Hey there! 👋 I'm an introverted mom who's slowly re-emerging from the cozy cocoon of motherhood. 🤱 My little boy is my world, and while I've always been focused on him and my work, I'm now starting to carve out some "me" time.

A bit about me:

• Hobbies: I'm a hopeless romantic who loves getting lost in a good romance novel. 📚 I also enjoy binge-watching K-dramas, baking up a storm in the kitchen, and listening to a wide range of music. 🎶

• Gaming: I'm a newbie to the world of Dungeons & Dragons and love playing games with my two best friends from college whenever we can find the time. 🎮

• Looking for: I'm simply looking for some friendly faces to chat with and share interests. No romantic intentions, just good old-fashioned friendship.

I'm based on the West Coast of the US and would love to connect with people who share my interests. Feel free to reach out if you're up for a friendly chat!

Hi I'm looking for anybody to penpal with over email, it could be a catchup every couple of weeks or so or something more regular.

A little about me I'm a chef and am currently studying design part time at uni. I love being outdoors camping or hiking but also being indoors gaming or reading.

We don't have to have anything in common, in fact I'd quite like somebody different to me to to learn something new and I find it can often make for more interesting conversation.

FYI I can have a bit of a wicked sense of humor and tend to jell more with other people who do.

I'm pretty much an ordinary kinda gal! I love to read and write poetry. I also write novellas and short stories. I love sending post cards to people and doing goofy little art. I like to type my actual letters if only because my handwriting is abysmal. I'm into stickers. I love indie folk rock and folk revival. (Favs include Hozier, Head and Heart, Father John Misty, Julien Baker, Phoebe Bridgers, Iron and Wine...yadda yadda, I can go on much longer lol).

My favorite show is Hannibal, but I also love Columbo, House MD, MST3k, Chopped, Paranormal Lockdown, A Haunting, Ghost Adventurers (sensing a theme yet..lol.)

So I guess I should include that I am always down to talk about life after death, paranormal hypotheticals/experiences, cryptids, and general spooky stuff.

Would be down to have a reading buddy! I generally like scifi and thriller and horror--currently reading My Darling Dreadful thing.

Also down to be your beta reader if asked.

Anything else you need to know? Just ask! And I'm looking for email or snail mail, that's all pretty cool with me.

Hey there, future penpal!

I’m a 40-year-old married guy with two delightful teenagers who think I’m a total dork (they might be right!). When I’m not busy making sure they don’t turn my living room into a Black Friday wrestling match, I’m tapping away in the world of software engineering, trying to make sense of all those mysterious codes.

When I’m not adopted as the “official dad taxi” or troubleshooting tech issues, you can find me outdoors embracing my inner nature lover! I love hiking and fishing—yes, I can confirm that the fish always seem to have the better stories. My gardening adventures also keep me grounded (pun intended) as I start everything from seeds, which is a lot like parenting, but with fewer eye rolls!

I’ve recently taken up a fascination with F.I.R.E (Financial Independence, Retire Early) and am looking for ways to retire before my kids’ college bills hit! I promise I have some seriously dad-level insights to share—and perhaps even a few questionable life hacks.

So, if you have a penchant for entertaining banter, enjoy the outdoors, want to swap gardening tips, or just wish to exchange puns about the trials of parenthood, I would love to hear from you!

Looking forward to your response! And remember, if your name is “Windows,” I’ll close you out after a few attempts—just a heads-up. 😉

Hi! My name is miranda, I am 31 and I live in SC. Three dogs, no kids, and married for 11 years now. (HAPPILY! only looking for platonic relationships!) I am looking to add more penpals to my circulation. I only have a handful that are consistent and I dont currently work so I have the time to write. SNAIL MAIL only please. I am a believer but I am also not judgmental. Im open to any gender, religion, etc. I like to read, im a horror fanatic. I also have severe adhd lol. Anyways, if anyone is interested in getting to know me and actually build a friendship let me know :)

Hi! I am looking for a penpal to share my interests with. I am someone who has a handful of very close longtime friendships in person but I would love to broaden my scope.

I am open to penpals who use letters, email, or chat, but I would prefer making connections with people who are interested in friendship and bonding over shared interests. I want to hear about things you’re interested in, too, even if it’s a little different from what I enjoy. I would love to share and exchange playlists, book recommendations, recipes, and whatever is currently bringing you joy! We do not have to have exactly the same interests- I welcome finding new facets of the things I love!

I am a big hobby person - my main hobbies are reading, journaling, knitting and handspinning yarn, cross stitch, and occasional baking. I also like playing board and card games and doing all different kinds of puzzles! I do play some video games and my favorites are Stardew Valley and Slime Rancher.

I usually read fiction and graphic novels but do read poetry sometimes. I love going to the library and am usually always reading at least one book.

I have more recently gotten into journaling and fountain pens. I would love to write snail mail to you or talk about our favorite inks! I use a Hobonichi planner daily and try to journal every day for my mental health.

I also love music - my favorites genres are emo, punk and pop punk, hardcore, and indie. Some of my favorite all time bands and musicians are: Bayside, The Story So Far, Julien Baker, and Death Cab for Cutie. I also like listening to lofi, classical, and sometimes jazz.

I spend a lot of time listening to podcasts and am currently obsessed with The Magnus Archives. I also love Welcome to Nightvale, This American Life, Dear Hank and John, Normal Gossip, and 99 Percent Invisible.

I love nature, animals, and being outside. I am not necessarily outdoorsy but I like gardening and plants, and would love to see your pets or hear about animals you love or see out walking!

I am a person who loves to learn and I would also be interested in discussing art, culture, history, and fun facts! I also enjoy TV and movies!

I also would love to hear where you’re at in life and am happy to celebrate your wins with you, send you an empathetic note when things are rough, and to cheer you on when you need it. I am neurodivergent and will do my best to always write back in a timely manner. I am happy to receive a friendly reminder if you haven’t heard from me but I might not be the right fit if that is a dealbreaker for you. I am also LGBTQ+, liberal, and not religious. I am open to pen pals from other walks of life but expect respect and kindness and will return the same to you.

If you’re interested in chatting please let me know!