Hi, Thanks for taking the time to click on my post.

I might as well start off by listing exactly what I'm looking for.
Then I'll touch on what I'm not looking for.
Then I'll go into some details about myself (so you can decide if I'm someone you would want to bother getting to know).

I'm basing my wants and needs on things I enjoyed about previous relationships.

Here we go,
I want someone to spend time with on the weekends and evenings.
I, myself, am not a home-body. I get out as often as I can,
but a big part of what I'm looking for, is someone to consume media with at home (Movies, TV, Music, possibly video games) (your home or mine).
I want someone to cuddle with while consuming this media (comfy clothes on, cozy, head scratches, shoulder rubs, hand holding, no further expectations on my part).

I'm not necessarily looking for a homebody/shut-in/Agoraphobic/Socially anxious person, but if you are... I can work around that, and bring the cuddles and media to you. Someone to cuddle and consume media with is my bare-minimum.
If that sounds good to you, you can basically skip the next part, and go straight to the "What I don't want", and "About me" section.

For everyone else that's made it this far...
I'd also like someone to go on "night drives" or road-trips with.
I wouldn't say that I have a wander-lust... nor a need to travel...
But there's something about driving around, listening to tunes, with someone I love in my passenger seat, with the windows down. The destination doesn't even matter. We could be headed to/from a small live-music event downtown. We could be driving home after seeing a movie in the theater.
We could be headed 20 minutes away to get snacks at the one late-night convenience store that's open at that hour... or we could just hop in the car on a weekend an hour before sunset, and drive to Tucson, or Pason, or Flagstaff for no reason other than the drive.

I just miss sharing a calming drive, into the sunset, with my navigator at my side, blasting tunes, telling stories... arriving, hanging out, then heading back with an ambient playlist on so my traveling buddy can drift off to sleep.

I also enjoy a trip out to the Roller Rink on 80s night, and 18+ night for some Rollerblading. Trips to the museums and art galleries. Occasional trips out to Anaheim or LA to visit Disneyland, or to go to the beach.
I also enjoy Thrift shopping,
Record shopping,
Wandering aimlessly around The Mall,
Taking naps together,
Visiting escape rooms
Whatever you like... run it by me.

Ok, so those are things I need from a partner, and some bonus activities.

What I don't want:

I don't want a Trump Supporter.
As far as Religion is concerned, I am an Agnostic (former Christian),
And I have no issue with whatever religion you practice, whether it's Christian, Buddhist, Muslim, Wiccan etc... Sadly, I consider support for Trump to be a form of Idolatry/Idol worship. It's an extreme that I cannot get behind.

I'm not looking to be the 3rd or 4th wheel in someone's Polycule.
I'm not looking to be with anyone who's hitched, or in a relationship already.
I'm also not looking for anyone that's looking to swing, or to open up our relationship (in the event that our relationship moves beyond the point of platonic cuddling, which I am open to, but also not in any kind of rush for).

I'm not into horror movies that feature excessive (non-comedic) Gore/Torture.
I'm not into reality TV (exceptions to this would be wholesome "Reality TV" like Ru Paul's Drag Race, Mythbusters, Great British Bake off etc...).

I'm not into cigarette smokers.
I gravitate towards women that are feminine in appearance/presentation?
(hair on the longer side, not afraid to apply makeup, etc...)

I'm not looking to have kids, nor to get involved with someone that has kids.
I'm in no rush to move-in together, nor to run off and get hitched.
I'm not afraid of commitment, not at all. I am a monogamist, and a loyal/faithful one at that. I just don't see a rush to get landlords, nor the government involved in our personal business.

About me:

Gen-X, Straight-Cis Male, 5'10, 155lbs, Caucasian, clean-cut brown/grey hair, blue eyes, grey/brown tidy beard (I am not overly attached to my facial hair, it's negotiable).

I am a t-shirt + Dickies Pants + Hoody kinda guy.

I am chill/laid-back, kind, respectful.
I have a punny/dry sense of humor (Like Mitch Headberg, Norm Macdonald).
I am an IT nerd by trade, a music geek by hobby.

I enjoy 80s Movies and Music, and 80/90s inspired Funk/Soul Synthpop/New Wave Techno/IDM/Acid, Surf, Synthwave.

Fave bands include:
Aphex Twin, Men I trust, Depeche Mode, Naked Eyes, The Beach Boys, Thundercat, BadBadNotGood, Hotel Pools, Ginger Root, The Human League, Nine Inch Nails, Nirvana, MxPx, Portishead, Sneaker Pimps, Nirvana, Weezer, VNV Nation, The Ventures, The Supremes, James Brown, Yaz, Kraftwerk

I like Sci-fi (robots/Ai, time travel, dystopian, dream exploration).

I am not the Jealous, Possessive, nor Obsessive type.
I am neither egotistical, demanding nor impatient.
I don't drink, (It's okay if you do).
I don't do drugs, (But I'm also not anti-drug, please party responsibly)
I am not a player (I don't even crush a lot).
I am honest, almost to a fault
(but not honest like "Does that offend you?, I'm just being honest."
Honest like, if there's a piece of upsetting news that could impact our dynamic, I'm not going to delay telling you, or keep secrets. I'll just tell you, because I would rather deal with the reality of the situation, than construct a complex web of lies that's bound to unravel at some point and cause way more pain in the long-run).
I'm easy to get rid of.
(Why would I want to force someone to engage with me that doesn't want to engage with me any more? That seems like more trouble than it's worth.

SFW pics available on request.
Locals only please. In-person (I am not looking for an online relationship).
I think that covers most of the juicy tidbits.
I look forward to hearing from you.

Looking for people to talk to and would really like to see if we can make an actual connection. Also open to just having some casual fun.

I always love to workout, play video games, watch sports, or hang with friends. I love to get to know people and learn about them. I have a bearded dragon and love hanging out with her. I earned a Master’s Degree and currently work full time. I enjoy cooking and trying new recipes. I love traveling, but haven’t done so in a while. I have one tattoo and am hoping to get more in the future!

I live alone and aside from work, I don't have that much to do at night and would love to talk to new people. I’m a pretty open person and enjoy like-minded individuals.

Here is a picture of me https://imgur.com/gallery/5tCLXl0

And another one https://imgur.com/gallery/ebrbbxh

I would want to see a picture of you as well. I am 5’8, but I do not care how tall you are.

I’m usually up late at night, if you wanna vibe! I prefer someone who's nearby or in the US! Looking forward to chatting!

Hello, 33 year old New Yorker here. I'm looking for somebody to be the person I look forward to talking with all the time. Somebody who my days are always good because I know at night it's just going to be me and you hanging out. Somebody I can text if something silly happens to me throughout the day and you're the first person I think of to tell it to.

Who am I? Well I feel like that's a hard question to answer. Who is anybody really? I feel like I'm just like, a guy. I'll send a sunrise picture to you in the morning before you wake up. I'll send you pictures of little birdies that I feed at lunch time. I'm somebody who will always have time for you.

I spend my days basically just working, playing video games, and watching anime and movies. I think I'm a fairly bright individual, though I don't have a job where I really have to use my brain. It is a very stable job though that will allow me to retire when I'm 50 years old with a pension. So I'm pretty set in that way.

I've started doing more outside activities, like I've gone to some board game nights, I've played in some video game tournaments, and I've started playing dungeons and dragons

I also recently picked up photography as a hobby, and have been going to parks and taking pictures of birds/wildlife. I'd love to have somebody I can share pictures I've taken with

For video games, I don't really have a main game. I like to play a bunch of everything to be quite honest (I play on PC.) FFXIV, Deadlock, Baldur's Gate 3, Rhythm Doctor, Sekiro, Little Kitty Big City, Emberward, Anger Foot are some of my recent games on steam. Something I enjoy doing is hanging out in a voice call and sharing my screen with somebody and maybe they watch me play some games while we chat. Especially scary games, I don't play those by myself. I need somebody to hang out with me and virtually hold my hand while I get scared at them.

For anime, my favorites are Demon Slayer and Vinland saga. I also like jujutsu kaisen, I'm almost caught up with One Piece, Oshi no ko, Gushing Over Magical Girls. etcetc

For movies, same thing really, I like a bunch of everything. I also really like what I like to call hipster movies. What does that mean? I don't know really, to me it means a movie that's so weird I have no idea what's going on, but I still love it. For example David Lynch movies are amazing. But also, here's my letterboxd, check out what I've been doing lately https://letterboxd.com/snooby_/ It would be nice to also have somebody to watch movies with me together as well, voice chat and I share my screen and we can watch together.

I have my own weirdness to me as well. Like when playing single player games, I don't like to progess a room until I look at every corner to make sure I don't miss anything.

Here's a picture of myself as well: https://imgur.com/F2PbBLd

If any of this sounds interesting to you, and you'd like to chat more with me, please send me a message.

Hey! I’m someone who loves a good conversation—whether we’re diving into the latest pop culture trend, philosophy, or just talking about random stuff. I’m an INTJ (basically, I’m a thoughtful homebody who likes a balance between deep thoughts and downtime). By day, I work in accounting, but when I’m not crunching numbers, you’ll find me binge-watching TV shows, catching up on movies, or listening out to R&B, Jazz, or Alternative music.

I’m also a sports fan—especially basketball and football—and love a good chess match or board game night. When I’m feeling like gaming, you’ll catch me on Stardew Valley, Civilization VI, or Call of Duty (you know, for some balance between peaceful farming and intense battles).

I lean left politically and value communication—honesty and openness are key for me. I’m not into casual flings, though; I’m really looking for something real and long-term with someone I can vibe with and build a future together. As far as looks go, I don’t have a "type"—it's all about that connection.

I’m 6’7” (200cm) and African American. Feel free to share a photo if you’re comfortable—here’s mine! https://imgur.com/a/iWAbxYN

I’m 6’4” I’m looking for a girl to be the love of my life. I’m looking for a girl who is interested in sex. I say that because the last girl I talked to told me she wasn’t interested in sex. I’m divorced. No gf or kids. I love my 2 cats. I’m working to be in better shape. I love to walk. Horror movies. Inspiring stuff like Brittany Runs a Marathon. Ted Lasso. I love to learn new things. We can be opposites. Just be a girl who is real and honest.

I figured I’ll try this out since I’m pretty much available on a Friday night.

About me:

• South east asian
• 5”2
• Been told I’m cute and don’t look my age
• Currently taking my masters in London
• Likes music, art, coffee and video games
• Pretty much chill and open to trying new things

About you:

• Age: 29-35
• Single
• Must be located in London
• Isn’t bald or has a beard (sorry this is a preference)
• Taller than me
• Not a creep

Feel free to send a DM if you’re free. We’ll see if we vibe as well before meeting up with each other.

Hey there! I'm a bi, top, 18-year-old from the UK who is looking to meet some fun people around my age. I am currently studying software engineering and I am really into comics, video games, TV and movies, cycling, and going to the gym. I am 5'8 and currently working on bulking.

I would really appreciate it if people who are reaching out could send more than just a "hi" message. Tell me a bit about yourself and maybe share your favorite film with me. I think it's important to have some common interests and get to know each other a bit before jumping into anything.

Looking forward to meeting some cool people and hopefully making some new connections!

I’m 5’9, white and pale. Not fat, not muscular, just average build, but I have plans to hit the gym. I have medium length, wavy brown hair and brown eyes. I got a bit of a patchy beard but that’s only for the extra heat in the winter. Come summer, it’ll be gone.

I feel deeply, and I show that through physical touch, acts of service, and words of affirmation. I have a passion for the arts that I express in illustration, writing, and music most of all. Music is deeply ingrained in me, and it always will be. If I’m not singing, I’m probably quietly listening to music (or listening to music and singing along 🙃). I also play a few instruments: guitar, piano, and bass to name a few.

I’m a bit of a homebody. I don’t really get many ideas to go places myself unless I go out with friends or family. And being a city-dweller, I don’t have a car and opt mainly to get around via bus or the train. But I definitely like going to conventions and renaissance faires. I spend a lot of time with my cat, Calcifer. She’s my lil gaming buddy, and if you try to tell me it’s you or her, you’ll lose that one.

When I do go out, I love the occasional concert. I enjoy museum visits of any kind and amusement parks. During Halloween, I love a good haunted house! And I think the most affordable thing I like is going to the movies, haha!

Here I am! https://imgur.com/a/slZNoFZ

I feel icky putting this part, but I figure I should be clear about what I’m attracted to in a physical sense as well. I’m not attracted to plus-size figures and prefer either average, petite, or athletic physiques. Hair, eyes, pale or tan skin don’t matter much at all to me - just be hygienic and care a bit about how you look. I do have a bias toward blue eyes specifically, but I’m weak to a pretty pair of eyes, no matter the color.

Maybe we can chat a bit, exchange pics, see where things go 🫶

Hello everyone! It's so great to meet you all, I'm 22 M, and from the USA (also spending a lot of time in Taiwan), but open to hearing from anyone. To start off, I'm 6'0 with curly brown hair and shiny hazel eyes. I'm currently pursuing my graduate degree in Asia Pacific Studies which means am educated, so if you have goals and ambition then that's a huge plus.

In terms of my physical wants, I will chat with anyone but think l'd have success with someone around my height (bigger is a +). That's my strongest desire, although being under 40 would be excellent too.

Regardless, if you think we'd be a good match then PLEASE reach out. I'm really looking for someone who's prepared to be very engaged, and enjoys talking on the phone and doing other sweet/romantic things as I'm a romantic guy at heart. l'd even enjoy someone who gets a kick out of monitoring what's up during the day.

For hobbies love cooking, reading, writing, theology, traveling, and gaming (of all types)! I'm from the East Coast but also spending time living in Taiwan to study (willing to relocate). Ultimately, I'm searching for something that hope can turn into my forever person! My goal is to support YOU and make you exceptionally happy while hoping you do the same.

Please reach out to me if you are serious as I consider myself someone who would move mountains for the right guy! Happy hunting and hope y'all enjoy your day!

PS: Any tips on what can add to my post would be greatly appreciated and feel free to comment questions or DM me.

Hi Reddit! I’ve come to Reddit in the hopes of finding an intelligent, compassionate, and sassy woman to develop a relationship with. Ideally this woman would be between twenty-five and forty years old and open to pursuing a romantic and monogamous connection. To me an ideal relationship, be it local or long-distance would include frequent and open communication. Let’s share our nights watching trashy reality TV, great movies or playing board games together. Let’s chat until the early hours of the morning and go to sleep with a burning desire to talk more when we wake up. I just picked up Marvel Rivals, so someone to play that with as well would be great!

In a potential partner I find intelligence, passion & curiosity to be very attractive traits. I generally get along best with people who have also persevered through trauma and hardships.I grew up loving heroines like Sigourney Weaver’s Ripley & Linda Hamilton as Sarah Connor. Have I mentioned how big of a nerd I am? Hopefully you share some nerdy interests of your own, as I’d love to hear about them! What are your guilty pleasures?

As for myself I am a very laid back, go-with-the-flow kind of man; I’m just happy as long as I’m spending time with the people I care about, or working on one of my hobby projects. Physically I’m 6’4” and slightly chunky, so needless to say I rock the dad-bod aesthetic.I am ultimately looking for an equal partner to care for, protect & support through life. I am not a rich man, nor am I driven by financial ambitions. I would much rather live a simple, humble life where I can make a difference in the lives of others.

I am working towards a career supporting seniors and the food insecure in my local community, while volunteering with feline rescue groups. I love pets of all kinds, and would one day love to have an animal sanctuary complete with donkeys, pigs and other under-rescued animals. If you don’t want to share your bed with cats and dogs, we aren’t going to work out!

Messages preferred over Reddit’s buggy chat system. Looking forward to hearing from you!

I am not the popular type and like the group say i am for ever alone lol

I dont finich my student and my english is broken. I guess this is actually simple to see

I dream to have family and be a dad at home because i make social anxiety and i hate work. This is turning me crazy 😅

But for i am someone serious in love i dont choose the first to come and i dont do one night too

I'd love to rebuild my social life and surround myself with wonderful friends from all over the world (and more, I hope) :) We can talk about anything you want except WORK, STUDIES or MONEY (we're here to build friendships, not business haha). Let's keep it exciting and deep, forget about all these boring topics that say nothing about us anyway! I'm ready to be here for you in good and bad times, we can joke or get deep! ^^

I am very enthusiastic about all kinds of knowledge (science, languages, psychology, you name it!) so let's share some with each other! I occasionally play games, take care of my garden and all living creatures around me ^^ Don't feel any pressure if you don't feel like the most interesting person around (I don't fell like that either), I care about who you are, not what you do in your free time!

Contact me on Reddit if you're interested but before you do that:

1. I'm against any voice calls, video calls or exchanging photos at first. I'm here to know your personality, not appearance. If I was into it, I'd just chat with people on the street haha ^^

2. Sometimes it's very hard to balance my responsibilities and free time so if I don't respond straight away - don't get discouraged. You're still important, I just can't get to you quicker!

3. Let's not rush things. Let's not do any "interviews" because it just feels unnatural. Friendships grow overtime and thing such as more delicate topics require patience and deeper connection - we either have chemistry or we don't! I'm pretty sure many of us have been through a lot in their lives so let's be understanding ^^

4. If it doesn't work out between us - please don't stalk me, add me from different accounts and call names. I already have enough of that because of my gender, I'll just ignore you and think nothing more of it ^^

5. If you don't agree with my boundaries - just ignore my post and don't try to dispute anything. These are the things I feel comfortable and UNCOMFORTABLE with and you won't change my mind just like I won't change yours. I will ignore all comments that are trying to "enlighten me", so please let's not waste time ^^ .

Thank you for reading and have a great day! (I prefer people 26-33, please try to write more than "Hi" or "Sup", it will be easier for us to start our friendship! ^^ Hit me up if you're interested!)

My messages are closed for accounts with less than 30 days for my own safety.

Hi I’m a 25 year old guy from the shitty Midwest looking to find a girl I click with!

•My looks and personality:

•I’m a bigger guy, im around 6”1’, facial hair, i recently buzzed my head because my hair stylist messed my mullet up so its short but long enough to be messy, I have between my eyes, nostril, and septum pierced. I have my arms, hands, fingers, chest tattooed and random tattoos on my legs. I mainly wear my doc martens or vans, and I have plenty of band shirts, sweaters, and jackets with patches, even crust pants

[of course I know looks matter somewhat in a relationship so if you want to see me please just say so]

•I’m a pretty quiet person when you first talk to me but once I warm up I won’t shut up. I’m VERY clingy, and generally down to earth. I have a weird dark sense of humor but not edgy lmao

•About me:

•I love animals! I think some of my favorites are rats, bears, and opossums. I’ve always wanted to own a hairless cat as well

•I’m pretty big into gaming. I’m usually playing LoL, any horror game I can get my hands on, or fortnite. I play on PC as well so indie games I play as well like Lethal Company!

•My favorite game of all time is Silent Hill 2

•I love movies! I try to watch a movie atleast twice a week! My preferred are the depressing ones like; Her, Come As You Are, Manchester by the Sea, and Bones and All.

•Of course I love horror just as much! I even have a leather face tattoo on my arm

•Always listening to music; slowcore, punk, Midwest emo are my big 3 but I’ll listen to anything!

•Some smaller things, I enjoy poetry, art, thrifting, piercings and getting tattoos

•What I’m looking for:

I’m very much a hopeless romantic, when I love, I love hard. I want someone I can smother with affection and grow with

Being able to do things together is a big thing for me, physical touch is my love language. I LOVE holding hands.

I’d prefer someone in the Midwest area, or atleast in the same time zone (EST) or not far behind it.

When I date, I date with the intention of having a serious relationship to last. I don’t do flings

Profile is blurred because I had made a post about a 🛒

Good morning, good evening, good afternoon 😊 I just want to say, I have no idea how to make this post any shorter 😅 but it would mean so much to me if you read all before introducing yourself to me with your own writing and not chat gpt's 😁

🌸 About me:

• Recent college graduate with goals of starting my own businesses (yes, multiple!) and currently self studying marketing/project management. I'm creative at heart and love crafting.

• I’m social but really value my alone time. Daily, I exercise, eat well and read skill books.

• I love nature, people, and animals. I've been described as eccentric yet I've always felt comfortable being myself.

• Although I’m no expert in the following topics, I really love computers, cars, science, and physics.

• Socially, in real life, I’m usually the quieter type who likes to listen, but that doesn’t mean I won’t put in effort with you :)

• I'm 5'4 and in shape.

🌸Miscellaneous things ppl seem to find weird about me aka rEd fLaGs:

• I dont have a favourite colour!
• I dont really listen to music (but I really do love music and I want to listen to ALL of your music. Yes ALL!)
• I can be indecisive about things that really don't matter (think Mr burns ketchup/katsup)
• 98% chance to unashamedly ruin any social interaction with real talk

🌸 Who I’m looking for:

• Someone who wants a loyal, genuine, and kind partner.

• Willing to meet one day, either in my country (Australia) or yours (anywhere!).

• Kind and supportive of my goals, and let's me support their own goals.

-Communicates directly, isn’t passive-aggressive, and doesn’t yell when angry.

• Someone who likes children and would like their own one day. I’m not in any rush to have children but if you’re looking forward to being a dad, rest assured I can do my part to make this happen should we decide to 😅. I'm also of the mind that if it doesn't happen it doesn't happen, but I still want our life outlook to be kid friendly.

• Someone who is comfortable being social with others—I don’t want to grow into an old hermit 😔 that doesn't mean you have to be extroverted, just able to socialise when its needed :) helping the community it huge for me and I don't want to go at it alone if I'm in a relationship 😊

• Patient and a good listener, especially as I have a verbal stutter that comes out sometimes ❤️

#If there’s anything you want to know, please ask me 😁

I live in Belgium,Flanders,Wuustwezel. Looking for someone, preferable Belgium/Netherlands under 20km away. Am blonde and 1m80cm tall.

Am a kind and cuddly person that likes to do voices for fun. I am a gamer that loves platform games and JRPG's Like Final Fantasy. I love cats and have a fluffy one called Bink. I am a open book and will tell you anything thats on my mind,and id love for you to be the same, cause I feel a relationship works better that way. Id love to have someone understanding and kind to go trough life with. I will ofcourse be intrested in youre intrests and will give anything you care about a chance of my own so we can share allot more passions together. I hope to find a kind loving person who can be herself and where i can be myself with. I will post a photo of me in private message if you wanna see me so you know what you are dealing with if that is a concern. If anyone is intrested in trying a relationship please message me.

Hiya! Whoever is reading this, I hope you are having a wonderful day!

I have tried this subreddit before, however, I would like to try it again and see where things go! :)

A little bit about me, my name is Bradley, I currently reside in the UK and currently working part time whilst job hunting for a position in the IT industry! Beforehand, I graduated with a Bacherlors in Cybersecurity, which I find pretty neat.

I am 5'9, blonde hair, with a beard and I do wear glasses! I am slightly chubby, but as sterotypical as it is, I am focusing on getting myself in shape as my new years resolution. Aside from my apprearences, I am a massive nerd. I do enjoy learning about things I am interested in, Computers being one of them and topics I have interests in, mainly history, space and mythology. I also really enjoy playing video games, reading manga, watching anime and i've been looking into hobbies I can be more creative in!

I am looking for someone who has similar interests as myself and between the ages of 23-28. I am more than happy to exchange photos at the beginning also! I am looking for someone who wants to get into a long term relationship. I don't mind long distance, however I do want to eventually meet!

Thank you for reading, have a great day.

Hi there! I’m Danny, a 30-year-old marketing professional who’s equal parts creative, curious, and driven. I’m here looking for someone special to share life’s little joys, big adventures, and everything in between. If you enjoy witty banter, meaningful conversations, and laughing until your cheeks hurt, we might just click.

What It’s Like Dating Me • The Fun Factor: Whether it’s spontaneous day trips, movie marathons, or a hilariously intense board game night, I’ll keep life interesting. • Master of Chill Plans: Cozy evenings with good food and even better company are my specialty. • Storytime Pro: My life has been full of amusing, absurd, and downright ridiculous moments—I can’t wait to share them. • Life’s Little Perks: Whether it’s discovering hidden gems, unexpected surprises, or just knowing the best restaurants, being with me means life feels a bit brighter. • Your Steady Companion: I’m calm under pressure, dependable, and will always have your back (or your favorite snack).

A Bit About Me I’m a blend of creativity and curiosity, with a knack for finding beauty in the ordinary. I’m happiest when I’m exploring a new city, diving into an engrossing book, or losing track of time in a great conversation.

Travel is a huge part of my life—I’ve visited Canada, the USA, Colombia, the Bahamas, and Mexico, and my wanderlust isn’t slowing down. Bonus: I speak Spanish, so we can plan trips to some incredible destinations!

When I’m not traveling, I’m immersing myself in art, music, and storytelling. Whether it’s swapping favorite songs, checking out an art gallery, or discussing life’s big questions over coffee, I’m all about connecting on a deeper level.

What I’m Looking For I’m open to connecting with women from all walks of life—what matters most is that we bring out the best in each other. Here’s what I value: • Laughter and Fun: A great sense of humor and a willingness to laugh at life’s quirks. • Kind and Open-Minded: Someone who’s genuine, grounded, and ready to embrace new experiences. • Emotionally Intelligent: Communication, empathy, and loyalty are the foundation of meaningful connections. • A Little Playful: Life’s too short to take too seriously—let’s have some fun!

Why You Should Message Me If you’re looking for someone who sees life as an adventure, values deep connections, and brings positivity to every moment, I might just be your guy. I’ll keep you laughing, surprise you with thoughtful gestures, and make even the mundane feel special.

Whether we’re discovering a new favorite spot, enjoying a lazy Sunday morning, or plotting a spontaneous getaway, I’m all in for making memories together.

Let’s Make Memories I believe the best relationships are built on shared experiences, meaningful conversations, and a lot of laughter. Whether it’s exploring quirky art exhibits, hitting the road for a last-minute trip, or cozying up for a movie night, I’m looking for someone who’s as excited about the journey as I am.

Final Thoughts Distance doesn’t scare me if we vibe—it’s all about building something meaningful. If you’re in your twenties or beyond, adventurous, grounded, and ready for something real, let’s chat. Tell me your favorite story, dream destination, or the last thing that made you laugh—I’d love to hear it.

Life’s too short for “what ifs”—let’s start something amazing.

This version aims to be warm, confident, and engaging, while highlighting your strengths and inviting connection. Let me know what you think!

https://imgur.com/a/bYQDjzr

Hello there! My name is Yura and I am a 22 year old Russian/Hispanic/Japanese (yes, I know it's a crazy mix 😆) guy! I think I'll keep my post to the point, because what I'm really looking for is companionship. Preference wise, I do have a thing for curvier/chubby girls (trans girls too!) but I your personality is what matters to me the most.

About me:

• Bodywise, I am fit but not overly muscular. • I love music! Metal, jazz, trance, etc • I love tattoos! Bonus points if you do too :) • I love deeo conversations and deep thoughts. I consider myself to be a very pensive person • I am compassionate and understanding. I really try not to judge people and I love being a shoulder to lean on

Of course, there's a lot more to say but I'll save that for when we chat!

Hey! You can call me Fae, pleasure meeting you!

23 years of age and currently living in Germany. Honestly, I hate it here, get me outta here! 😭

Currently very short on any kind of funds, life and work sucks, but if it´s possible one day I honestly would move anywhere in the world for my person.

Let´s get the most troublesome stuff right out of the way shall we? I am on the Asexual spectrum, which means if you are looking for a romantic relationship that has to include "the deed", then I am not the one for you. I also do not want children. Neither of that will change, so please don´t waste your precious time trying to change my mind. If it is of any importance, I am afab. I am also plus-size / overweight, so if any of that is a deal-breaker for you then much luck to your search and have a lovely day!

If you are still around, then welcome! 👻

I am one of those weird people who loves astrology, tarot, and almost everything related to spirituality. Aside from that, I am very interested in history, art, and music. I also love flora and fauna. Aside from bugs... spiders and the like scare me. Snakes however and other scaly friends are amazing.

I spent my free time writing, may that be poetry or fantasy stories. I spent way too much time in front of the laptop but thanks to living in the middle of nowhere I do not really have many social contacts near me. The fact I love to play video games just makes it even more obvious that my screen time is way above average. I am trying to work on it.

My pets (a male cat and a female dog) certainly remind me of doing something else than just staring at the screen. I love to draw and paint as well, however, I lack the talent. It´s just something I enjoy.

My dream is to one day own a little hut in the middle of nowhere with a bunch of animals I saved from the shelter. I am currently going through an apprenticeship. Office Clerk is definitely not my dream job but I have no choice atm but to do it. What I truly want to do, though, is to write my own book! Sadly I lack the energy because work and school is sucking the life out of me.

Honestly I would love to be a homemaker, sans the children, but I also know that in this ecenomy it is so very hard living off one income alone. But yes, that is one of the many dreams I have. Would love to hear about your dreams for the future as well!

Hey! Im a 25 year old man from Nebraska looking for a relationship! Id love to find someone i can discord call and game or even just spend some time together! Im a bit awkward so it can be kind of hard to keep a conversation going but I do my best

If you're just going to ghost me please dont bother. It's bad for my heart

I am white and a bit overweight but i started going to the gym so im working on it :). I have purple hair past my shoulders and I am around 6 foot tall. Willing to trade photos upon request.

I'm a big gamer and i mostly play overwatch and valorant (Maybe we could duo 🥺👉👈), but i own a bunch of other single and multiplayer games. When im not doing school stuff or working im probably gaming, watching anime/reading manga, or listening to music, I also sing and would love to sing you something. I love to sing watch musicals and hang with my cat as well. Im also happy to trade pet photos!

I'd love if you were into games and anime but it's not necessarily a dealbreaker. Im a pretty open guy and willing to talk with anybody and see if we vibe. I love being a bit clingy and messaging/flirting a bunch so i hope ur into that.

So go ahead and shoot me a message. Tell me your favorite animal if you made it this far.

Looking forward to hearing from you ❤️

Hello! my name is Sebastian, I'm a graphic designer living in Mexico, I'm just looking for a partner to have a relationship with, based on mutual respect and love, I'm 170 cm , I'm pisces, I love documentaries and biopics

I really like cats and play from time to time Phantom forces (Roblox)

I just spent my day working, I just have some spare time at night.

I really enjoy talking about everything open to learn new things about anything.

I feel that my special someone it's out there, and I really want you to know that I'll give you everything from me, all my love and caring, hope you're out there and I will find .

Hello there!

This is not the first time I've posted here.

I've always been unlucky when it comes to finding someone. I've had some pretty bad experiences, specifically 10 years of depression. Yes, I can understand that many men don't want to burden themselves with me, an emotional baggage. I've always been a more sensitive person. Honestly, I like to offer affection, respect, empathy and, most importantly, share my love with others.

I find it quite difficult to find a partner. I admit, I've rejected and been rejected. All I want during this time is to find my happiness. When I think of joy, I automatically think of love. I wish with all my heart to have someone who will listen to me, be there for me when I need them, and I will offer these things back. To actually experience love in its wonderful essence.

What can I say about myself: as the title says, I'm 23 years old, and I live in Flanders, more precisely Limburg. Unfortunately, I don't want a long-distance relationship, I'd rather have someone who lives nearby. I'm actually from Eastern Europe. I have quite a few hobbies: I love art (I draw and paint), I love anime and manga, video games, and nature and I like reading and writing plus I love music from the 80s and 90s, including metal. Not only that, but I'm more of a geek/nerd. I have to mention that I'm still studying. Sometimes I also volunteer.

I would prefer someone around my age (between 22 and 28 maximum). I would love to meet someone with a kind soul. This is what I want the most. I just want to find my soulmate, nothing more.

Thank you for reading this far.

Hello. Not really good at these things because I'm bad at selling myself, but here I go.

I'm looking for someone who I can have a real connection with. Someone who I'll look forward to texting first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Someone who'll mutually love sharing the small stuff and the big stuff with.

My interests include anime/manga, video games (single player ones mostly, don't worry I'm not ignoring you to play CoD with the boys until 3AM), music (and any performing arts, really), and video essays (I love learning new things and expanding my knowledge).

Though I'd say maybe a big hobby of mine is discussion. I'd love to get into a deep conversation about almost anything. Things that interest me or your own interests.

I'd love to share memes and tiktoks with one another. Or send our favorite reddit posts.

As for my physical appearance, I'm 6'1" with a slim build. I've been cooking/eating much healthier recently and started going to the gym because I want to make my body a bit more cut so my body can better fit the aesthetic of characters that I cosplay. Oh yeah, that's also been a new hobby of mine.

And here is just regular me!

https://i.imgur.com/WBpF5zP.jpeg

And here is a pic of me in my cosplay!

https://i.imgur.com/WETYLLH.jpeg

I'm looking for someone who's not afraid to show their love and affection for someone. Not saying that you have start off like that, but if we become committed to eachother, I'd like to feel like I have a romantic partner who's love I can really feel, not just a super duper best friend.

Noteable possible dealbreaker - I do not want kids. I'd prefer to be child-free, and so that also means I wouldn't be interested in being together with someone who already has a child. Sorry!

East coast time zone preferred, but I am open to other timezones as well!

Send me a message and we can see if we click!

Hey everyone, my name is Mateo! Hope you’re all doing great. A little about me—I’m a huge nerd for comics, both Marvel and DC, which inspired me to start writing my own stories. My imagination is pretty wild, lol.

I’m 22 and currently in college. I was originally studying nursing, but I might switch to physical therapy—basically, anything that lets me help others. I consider myself a very caring person, and I genuinely enjoy supporting people.

I’ve tried my luck here before but haven’t had much success. I’m hoping to meet someone I can truly connect with, someone I can open up to, and who feels comfortable doing the same. I believe a great relationship is built on honesty and mutual care—without that, what’s the point?

No nudes—I’m not looking for that kind of interaction.

Don’t be rude—just looking for a good, meaningful conversation. (I’m cool with fun, freaky, or crazy talk, but let’s keep it respectful.)

I really hope this works out! If you’re interested, feel free to message me.

Age- 35, Location- India, Gender- Female, Religion - Vedic progressive Hinduism, Height - 154 cm, Weight - 74 Kg, Personality traits- Hypersensitive and hyper emotional neurodivergent. I have ADHD, anxiety and depression. I talk too much, I am very clingy and I am believe in courtesy and mutual respect, Career - Freelance artist, Education - Master's degree in Arts, Pet status- I am pet free. Due to my allergies., Looking for- A life partner who wants kids in the future.

Note- Anyone who is looking for anything else other than what i mentioned, won't be a right fit for me so please stay away from DMs.

If you are someone who is also looking for the same, then please DM your profile in the same way I have posted. Other DMs shall not be entertained. Wish you all good luck.

Let me preface this by getting this out of the way.

DO NOT message me if -You are in a relationship of any kind besides being single. (Why must I stress this? I cannot make it clearer that you will be wasting your time.) -You are figuring out your relationship type (Not looking to be a mormon sister waifu no thanks) -You are closeted and ashame of your sexuality or attraction (Been there and my aging ass don't got time for dat no more) -You are looking to experiment or for a fling or "fun" or to cure your boredom and incompetence (Stop being a Hitler who never made it in Art school) -You are fixated on sex, pleasure or k i n k or self-identify as having a "high sex-drive". (I'm demisexual so I promise you you're not getting even a peek at my feet unless you subscribe to my OF. Jk. We are not compatible. I repeat we ARE NOT compatible.) -You have no time for a relationship (Does anyone really? But if you care and the connection is there then you make time) -You are too focused on working on yourself (Realizing this now helps prevent this excuse in the future) -You are a slob and do not take care of yourself (The only grease I need is from the Bacon I eat and it won't be you if you are a slob...no Jeffrey Dahmer) -You are not in the US (I don't got money for a tarif relationship)

Now that those people are hopefully out of the way and you have laughed at least a little...

Hi! I'm 33 yo, 5 ft 7", Trans/Non-binary, She/her/they/them, Taurus, Asian, Chubby, Almond eyes, Big lips, High cheekbones, Huge forehead, Huger thighs (I'm being funny but not really), college educated, liberal leaning, employed, insured, in good legal status, and healthy besides getting fatter since covid ended whatever years ago. Don't get me wrong though, I'm pretty and sexy when I want to be and I have a healthy self-esteem so no doormat or attention seeker here. I won't make you be an IG boyfriend or take you on Jerry Springer unless one of your bucketlist is to be on a reality tv show too. Kidding. I am willing to swap pictures with and without makeup. I like the idea that my post will speak to someone on a deeper level so I'm leaving my picture out for now. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Anyway, I have an odd, dry, often times sarcastic and self deprecating (sometimes dark) sense of humor if you couldn't tell by now. We will enjoy each others memes if you have laughed or smiled at any point in this post. I can only ask and expect what I would be willing to give in return so if you love and respect me, you will get the same. If you disrespect me, you will get the same. I don't ever consider myself a saint because I'm more of a vibe type. Give good energy get good energy vice versa sorta deal. Ngl, I can be kinda sassy and snarky and have cheesy puns so hopefully that is something that can make us both laugh. I'm also a lets do it together as a team relationship type so if you're struggling, I'll step up. If I am struggling, I hope you'll step up. Being supportive and understanding is very important to me. I respond best to a gentle approach and don't like it when people cannot reciprocate communication and effort.

So what am I looking for? I'm looking for someone to talk to, game with, check in with, someone who cares about my wellbeing, etc. Vice versa. Honestly if you are a nerd or love aram in League or JRPGs and have golden retriever vibes, you're definitely my cup of tea. I'm also into musically inclined guys who can play a guitar or like artsy stuff. Preferably you are close in age or you won't get the nonsense and references I make.

Why am I single? Being trans is not easy because you're either seen as an experiment or a check mark. Not cool! I just want someone who can accept me and the affection I can provide. Not someone who just wants some fantasy version of me. I also have standards so I can't solely blame others. I'm not delusional or a narcissist but my standards are simple though.

Be attentive. Be caring. Be open minded to my culture and gender. Be kind and compassionate. Have a job because I do or at least be working towards something sustainable. You don't need to be making six figures but don't be a slouch because honey I'm telling you now I work for a non profit so if you are a booger miner then this isn't going to work. You don't need to own a home, I would prefer it if you didn't because ideally, I'd like to stay in the Midwest and build a home with someone here where I am close to my family. Family is important to me. That said, for the right person and connection, I can also see myself relocating but this may be a barrier or borderline dealbreaker if I am honest. Physically, I do like men who take care of themselves and have good hygiene. Average, tone or stocky men preferably. I don't want to feel like I will crush and hurt you but if you're lanky and willing to risk your life then dang thats kinda cute and I'm into it 🤣☠️🤣☠️. Short hair preferably. I won't lie, some bald men and long hair men are cute though. It just depends on your face I guess. Same height or taller preferably but if you a cute short king then why not? Ngl, I like kisses and cuddles so if you have bad breath or smoke, thats a no no for me. You do not need to wear brand names or designer names. It won't impact how I view you. You don't even need to drive a fancy car. Personality matters more to me, but physical attraction is also important so I won't sugar coat that importance. Mentally, be stable. I don't care if you have a diagnosis, but be honest about it so I can make an informed decision. People live with mental health issues all the time and crisis and stressors happens but if you are persistently dysfunctional because of it, we are probably not compatible as I've tried that before and I'm not looking to put myself in that situation again. Emotionally, please be available. I've wasted so much time talking to men who thinks they are emotionally available when they are not. Often times they just want the emotional validation and gratification and the company without the weight and substance of a relationship. Socially, be charming and be interested. Tell me you care. Show me you care. Annoy me with multiple messages. Words of validation and affirmation is something I am big on. I want to feel desired and wanted. I think we all do. But I also want healthy boundaries so if I ask for space, respect it and then check in after a day or two.

I date with intention. To be in a committed monogamous relationship. Not to waste your time or mine or to explore my options. I know what I want and you should too. If I like someone, I am invested in getting to know them and seeing if more can come out of it. I don't date because I'm bored or lonely. I'm perfectly capable of entertaining myself. I want to be there for someone and have someone to do things with. I want to find my person.

So if this sounds like you, I would love to get a message and picture of yourself. This isn't a throwaway account so please use your real account as well so you don't start off on a redflag.

Have a fantastic day and if not, hopefully you had a good chuckle at this mess. It was a lot I know.

PSA, I do not talk this much in person. Bubbly but guarded is what I say. 😌

Hello! I'm a 31 year old male from Europe looking for a long term relationship.

I'm looking for someone kind and open minded - I'm on the romantic side and quality time together is one of my main love languages. I'm interested in getting to know you as a person first of all - and I'd love for you to show a similar interest in me and the things we might have in common!

A little bit about me: I'm 182cm tall, slim\slender, long curly hair, and white. I have a lot of hobbies, and not always the right amount of time to dedicate myself to all of them - I feel like I'd need two more lifetimes to pursue all my interests!

I love gaming, so I'd be quite happy to play games together on PC (but open to other platforms), with a preference for cooperative games. I would love to hear about your favourite games as well, especially if there's some we could play.

I'm also a big nature lover. I love exploring and wandering in nature, I love animals of all types and sizes, and I've raised a few from birth as well. I also really enjoy taking pictures of any interesting creature I see. Maybe we can go on some traveling adventures together!

What else... I like to paint to relax, and I'm pretty big into cooking all sorts of cuisines, plus baking savoury goods and bread. I quite enjoy watching shows, as well as anime and manga, traveling, and all sorts of creative endeavours. If you like to create something, show me!

If you're looking for something similar and like what you just read, please don't hesitate to reach out and introduce yourself via reddit chat. Looking forward to hearing from you!

I want someone whose love language is physical affection, who is warm and compassionate, who will laugh with me, cry with me, who will hold me when I’m not at my best, and who I can hold when they’re being challenged by life. I want someone who I can be open with, who I can trust, who will fight for me just like I’ll fight for them, and who will put just as much into the relationship as I will. I want someone I can curl up with and smile.

As for me, I am a person who loves physical displays of affection, both public and otherwise, so I want to be with someone who feels the same way. I believe that hugging and/or cuddling the one you love is one of the greatest feelings there is. Gestures like holding, hugging, etc, are something I absolutely adore and would always welcome, especially because there’s nothing that feels better than being in the arms of the person you love, and something like that can make you feel as if, for just a few moments, that all is right with the world.

When my girlfriend, a term I prefer because it feels more personal, and I are together, my ideal night would involve spending our time together at home, curled up on the sofa, perhaps watching a film, an anime, or playing a game. I’m not against the occasional day/night out if it’s just the two of us, though. I watch almost nothing in the way of current television or films; I don’t even have a TV, and I’m not in a hurry to get one.

If we’re apart, as I presume would be the case in the early days of our relationship, then I would enjoy doing something together online, either playing a game together, or watching each other game. Ultimately, I want someone I can hold close, who will hold me close. I want us to love together, laugh together, cry together; I want us to live our lives together, in a relationship that goes the distance.

I’m a vegetarian, though I don’t mind being around meat eaters as long as they are respectful of how I feel. I don’t drink and, while I’m okay being with someone who does, it won’t work if you’re a person who drinks frequently. I’m non-religious and non-spiritual, and this will never change, and my views are generally what you’d call progressive and liberal. Disparate views are one thing, but if you use terms like ‘PC/PC culture’, ‘liberal’ or ‘woke’ as pejoratives, we will absolutely not get along. In addition, I do not smoke and will not be with a smoker.

I’m okay with either private messaging or Reddit chat, and I’d like to move off Reddit once we both feel comfortable doing so. Once we’ve moved to a different platform, exchanging pictures is then also something that would be done once we’re both comfortable, as would voice and video chat, especially because the best way to really get to know someone is through real-time communication.

Your opening message doesn’t have to be that long, just give me something to work with, something that can spark conversation. Messages of only a few words won’t get a response.

I don’t mind if you’re younger than I am, as long as you’re mature, because that’s what’s most important. If you have any questions, queries, posers, then feel free to ask.

I’m in the UK, so I am primarily interested in someone who is also in the UK, as it would make things convenient for the both of us, and it would also make meeting up easier, and I would want to meet up if things progress well. However, I am open to talking to people who are overseas,but only if you’re moving to the UK in the near future, and that the move is, if not set in stone, then is at least guaranteed to happen. If these conditions are not meant, I ask that you don’t waste my time or yours; I can’t do a long-term LDR. I love physical affection, touching, holding, etc, too much to go too long without it. Be aware that, for medical reasons, I am unable to travel overseas.

Hey! So I’ll get this out the way I’m 6,1 with blonde hair and blue/green eyes, I don’t watch anime nothing against them it’s just something that’s never really interested me.

I enjoy going out with friends, seeing concerts and going to festivals, the last concert I went to was the streets and was such a good time. I drink socially and I smoke so I have nothing against it you do too.

I recently graduated a forensic psychology degree and have a great fascination with all things psychology, I’m looking to move into a career working with Sen children. Values wise I’m a kind and caring person, a little too much sarcasm and some of the best dad jokes.

I’m looking for someone who is also kind caring and most importantly chatty, someone who loves talking whether it be in person, text or through a call I’m here for it, I’m hoping to not have a LDR but I’m open to it at the beginning until we can eventually close the distance, anyway apologies for the long message, if you’re still here why don’t you send a message about who you are and what you’re into :)

Hi hi thank you for sticking around to read thissss. About me: •I'm 20 African American gurl from Georgia(United States). I have curly hair, dark brown eyes, I wear glasses, I'm 5'1(154cm) , and I weigh like 134lbs(60kg). •I'm Pansexuual so I don't have any preference as to what you identify as. •I'm an music education major in university! • I really enjoy reading. I mainly read fantasy, thriller,comics ,and classic literature. If you have any recommendations I'd love to hear them! •I also dabble in art mainly painting/drawing, but I'd like to learn digital at some point. •I also play games. I mainly play on PC but I do have a switch. The games I normally play are marvel rivals(healer), fornite, Hogwarts legacy game, Pokémon,Legend of Zelda, minecraft, and BG3. •I also enjoy music and watching TV shows/movies. •For the serious stats I'm liberal/progressive so I prefer the same political views. I'm also agnostic.

As for what I'm looking for: •Emotionally available •Hygiene is a must! Overall taking care of yourself mentally and physically. • Communication is important clearly •Puts in effort! •Honest and respectful •Beware if we do have a crazy time difference please let me know! •Ofc I'd like to spam you with tiktok/memes/reels, so yes that is a requirement lol. I'd also like to call or something when we become comfortable with each other. • When you decide to message include your age, general location, some interest or something random I don't mind, and what you're looking for.

Yea so nonetheless can't wait to speak with you!