/r/ForeverAloneDating

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Dating for the dating impaired. 18+ only. Positive comment karma required. Put your location in your title. Post flair is required and needs to be correct. No surveys or forms allowed. Don't be an ass and don't post a pic of yours.

Dating for the dating impaired


Don't forget about our parent subreddit, Forever Alone!


Posting requirements: you must be over 18! No exceptions. You need to have positive karma. Put your location in your title and Check the rules before posting. Don't be an ass and don't post a pic of yours. No surveys or forms allowed: any thread linking to an external site to gather user info or data will get you banned.

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  • Talk about your career and hobbies. What do you do for a living? What do you do for fun (besides Reddit)?

  • Don't self deprecate, talk about what makes you great!

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  • Don't be discouraged by lack of public responses. NEARLY ALL RESPONSES ARE VIA PRIVATE MESSAGES! Remember, it's a dating site.


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23 [F4M] UK/Anywhere - Cinephiles?

I live in the UK, but am content to talk to guys from anywhere. Although that being said, English is my only language so that does limit things. I have no qualifiers beyond that.

Mainly im looking for someone to talk to about movies, with the possibility of watching them together (we could screenshare with discord if you're far away).

I like all kinds, so I'd be happy to talk about whichever you like, whether I've seen it or not. Newer ones especially, but that's far from essential.

If you're interested, perhaps start by mentioning a film you've seen this year? Even if you hated it, we could discuss it. I'd be interested if anybody has seen Megalopolis, no matter whether you loved or loathed it!

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2024/10/31
12:24 UTC

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32 [M4F] #Europe #Switzerland - curious soul searching

Hey all!

I'm making a post again as I've yet to find the one I'm looking for. I've been here quite a bit, and probably contacted some of you as well ahah. So here's me again!

I'm a 32 year old guy from the country of Switzerland. I understand physical attraction is important so I leave a photo of me here. Some of my current goals are losing weight and financial stability.

As far a personality goes, I'd like to think I'm quite easy to get along with. If I can summarize myself in a few words, I would say introverted, reserved and passionate. I can get quite talkative, sometimes too much ahah. I'm very curious, I like to learn new things everyday, and I pick up new hobbies all the time. A few of my favorites are: swimming, basketball, coding, and cooking. I just recently got into bikes, and I'd like to try climbing in the future.

But my biggest passion in life are video games, especially RPGs. They're like a window to the authors thoughts, dreams, experience. I'm also quite competitive and passionate myself, so I guess they satisfy that side of me as well! Some of my favorite series of all time are: Legend of Zelda, Dark Souls (Elden Ring and Bloodborne included), Guild Wars, Pokémon, Warcraft (don't play anymore), and many more. I'm always down to try new games, of course!

Maybe we can play something together?

I do have dreams (some are way too ambitious ahah) and a relationship is one of them. To me, the most important building blocks are communication, loyalty and respect. My goal is to be able to make both our dreams come true. I wonder what yours are?

I think I would be best paired with someone who doesn't smoke or do drugs, possibly someone who's willing to have children (adoption is also an option) and maybe some animal companions. Oh also I'd like to live in a somewhat rural area, I'm not too interested in big city life ahah.

That's all for now! Oh, I also have discord, for those of you who prefer it ^^.

Cheers!

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2024/10/31
12:12 UTC

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19 [F4M] Philippines/Anywhere

Hi! I'm Seri. I'm from the Philippines. I'm currently a student nurse, planning to pursue medicine or maybe work in US. I haven't been in a real relationship and I think I am ready to have one.

I can be clingy and sweet. My love languages are words of affirmation, receiving/giving gifts, quality time, and acts of service.

I don't know what else to say haha. Ask me questions and I'll answer. 🤍

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2024/10/31
12:00 UTC

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32 [M4F] Spain/Switzerland/Europe. Pediatric surgeon looking for a kind and curious lady. Open to any country.

Hello everyone! I’m a 32yo Spanish pediatric surgeon, now living in Geneva. I have left an abusive relationship behind some months ago and now I feel ready to meet a lady with a curious mind and a kind heart :), for friendship or something more serious.

I’m reeeeally bad introducing myself but I will try!. Outside my job my biggest passions are to read compulsively (any kind of literature or essay as long as I find the book enriching), classical music, movies, old cars, to study History, hiking, volunteering, painting miniatures… and a lot more I’m sure I’m forgetting now!

I’m really easy going and chill so please don’t be afraid of sending me chat request. It will be pleasure to get to know you better and see how it goes!

Open to any country and to anyone 18 or older. I don’t even mind we don’t share hobbies or points of views, it’s always nice to learn!

I hope to hear from you soon!

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2024/10/31
11:57 UTC

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36 [M4F] #Toronto #Online looking for good vibes

Looking for an online connection that will distract from the monotony of the day to day.

Looking to chat, banter, flirt, vent and have a good time

Keeping this anonymous at first until maybe there’s a mutual comfort to move it ahead, but if it stays online that’s cool too

Me: 36, white, single, lives in Canada Open minded, opinionated and curious. Likes include; sports, WWE, Netflix, cooking, family Time

You: 18+, easy going, not pushy or ignorant.

Mild to wild welcomed

Let me me know if you think we could vibe

See you in my DMs,

-J

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2024/10/31
11:53 UTC

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[M4F] 29M Europe/Online - Looking for a serious relationship

My name is Dave, I'm from Italy and I'm 29 years old. I have been single for a year now and I think it's time for me to put myself out there.

My interests are: playing guitar, watching movies/tv shows, gaming and having deep conversations.

I would define myself as a really loving and caring person, loyal and emotionally intelligent. I don't have standards when it comes to my potential partner but in general I'd like to get treated the same way as I treat people.

If you want to know more about me, feel free to DM me here or on Discord (nickname is 'opcdave').
Also I wouldn't mind if you shared a picture of yourself with a small introduction.

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2024/10/31
11:51 UTC

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21 [M4F] EU/NA/Online (photo include) - I want to watch the stars with you 🌌

Hey 👋🏻, I'm a 21M from the Netherlands (EU). I'm curious to get to know anyone above the age of 18 that is interested (prefer older but 18+ works)! If you don't know how to introduce yourself, a simple 'hi' is enough to start things off. Here are some photos of me so you get an idea of who you're talking to https://imgur.com/a/A36szVM

I really love astronomy 🔭 , some of my other interests are fashion, music, cooking and sports. At the moment I'm really into perfumes and watches! To me being caring, loyal and open to try new things are important values and I do my best to do stay true to those 🙏🏻

Physical characteristics: I'm about 5'10 (177 cm) I have blonde hair and green / grey eyes (depends a bit on the sunlight). I’m doing calisthenics and gym work outs often 🫡

I love emphatic and ambitious people, someone who wants to accomplish things and has cool interests and a person who is a great communicator! I would love to see you back in my DMs

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2024/10/31
11:44 UTC

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23 [M4M] London UK, looking for my nerdy soulmate

Hi! I'm Jamie, 23M, from London UK! I'm here looking for a long-term, monogamous romantic traditional relationship! Must be IRL, no long distance, sorry (my love language is touch :3). I'm a quiet lil indoorsy introverted nerd, I love vidya and anime, please be similar. Love all things soft and gentle, and all people soft and gentle. I do also have a very high libido, so please match up to that (ask me about my "interests" in that regard, no need to be coy).

Physically, I am white, slim, have long hair (long hair on you is a plus!) and glasses. Face is clean shaven, please be the same in that regard.

Men only, I'm bisexual but homoromantic, and please be under 30.

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2024/10/31
11:34 UTC

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30 [m4f] Anywhere - Need something deep

Hi, I'm a 30 years old italian philosophy researcher and high school teacher. At the moment I am a bit unsure about why am I doing this.

I do confess that since I have been dumped (late 2023, after a long relationship) I have matched and met many girls, mostly through dating apps. So I am not really like desperate or radically alone.

Yet, I had not yet found someone that has meant something for me, and I thought that maybe I am not asking the right public. This do makesme feel lonely, and so here I am.

Something about me I guess: I am a voracious reader, I play very badly a bunch of instruments, I enjoy chess. I am into politics. I am not at all a gamer but I do enjoy retro-gaming or playing with friends.

Not a great traveller, but I occasionally visit places. I live in a small town under the mountains, which I lately started to enjoy, especially now that I can drive away anytime I want.

I suppose I go along pretty easily with people, being rather calm, patient and mostly curious about everything. I do not have any specific mental disorder to become more interesting, sorry. I know a lot of jokes and puns. I am not at all a nerd.

I am not against living the calmest and silly life. I am not against destroying myself in the weekends. I am mostly against separating oneself from real life, through lust, repetition and the lies we feed ourselves with.

Come talk and see what we can do.

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2024/10/31
11:32 UTC

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24 [M4F] - Europe/Online - In search of a kindred soul

Hey! :) Call me Hel, for now.
I will tell you my real name in DMs.
I am looking for someone for long term, someone loyal, affectionate, clingy, and positive-minded.
I don't really mind where you are from, but I would like to meet after a while, if we do manage to make it work.
Mental health issues are something I am dealing with, and I guess some people might find me weird, edgy or crazy. So if this is not something you want to deal with, I am not your person.
Otherwise I am a pretty normal funny guy, with positive mind (most of the time), that likes to make people smile, make them feel wanted, and let them enjoy life. :)
If you would like to know more about me, feel free to send me a message with a little introduction, so we can make a conversation.

Hel

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2024/10/31
11:15 UTC

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28M [M4F] Oregon, USA- let's share our favorite books with each other.

About Me:

Hey there! I’m a 28-year-old Oregonian who runs a resale business—think eBay but with way cooler finds. I'm a big dude (and tall, apparently, according to everyone I meet), on a weight loss journey, and living proof that you can go from couch potato to...well, a slightly smaller couch potato. I was in a 9-year relationship from 17-26, so I’ve been around the block and have a pretty good idea of what I’m looking for.

Books, movies, and TV are my holy trinity—whether it's getting lost in a fantasy novel or binge-watching a series, I’m all about it. I’m also 420-friendly, so brownie points if you are too (pun intended).

I'm a hopeless romantic looking for my storybook ending. I want to date my partner even after things get "official," with all the cheesy date nights and late-night calls. Looking for someone who's kind, caring, genuine, and maybe a little clingy (the good kind). I crave deep conversations about everything—the universe, books, movies, TV, sex, love—you name it. Let's talk about why we think the way we do, and dig into all those topics that keep us up at night. I’d love someone who enjoys sending voice notes throughout the day and is down for nighttime calls. If you have tattoos and piercings, I’m probably already swooning, but it's not a dealbreaker!

Distance is okay with me, but I’d prefer if you were in Oregon, Washington, or California for travel purposes. I work from home, so I’m readily available, and I come drama-free—I’m all about fixing things, not ghosting. If you’re into a guy who’s committed, communicative, and ready to bring a bit of romance back, let's chat!

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2024/10/31
11:06 UTC

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[M4F] M29 Germany / EU looking for my copilot on Reddit

Hey there, i discovered this subreddit a while ago and lost track of it again. Today i thought to myself, that i should try to put myself out there.

About me: I’m 29 years old, from germany. I'm 6ft tall and i had blonde hair up until about a year ago. Since then i'm bald, there wasn't much hair left anyway :D

A couple months ago I started going to the gym and I really started to love it. I also love hiking, playing videos games and traveling.

It's not important to me, that you love to work out as well.

I'm a little reserved when it comes to meeting new people, but usually that ends, once i click with someone.

I have little experience when it comes to dating, but i guess that's why i'm here... I don't mind if you have also little to no experience.

About you: I'm preferably looking for someone from germany or at least within europe due to distance and time zone differences. Please don’t shy away from messaging me when you are from somewhere else though. I don't have a specific type. I like people that can be passionate about something. Someone that is kind and honest.

Shoot me a message if you're interested. Please attach a picture of yourself to your message. You can check out how I look on my profile or here: https://imgur.com/a/zL4l8Vj

Also tell me a little bit about yourself in your message and don't just say "Hi".

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2024/10/31
10:42 UTC

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25 [M4F] Germany/Europe/US/Online - This will inevitably find the Person it is Meant to find

**Prologue**

 

Hello and welcome to my post. I will subdivide this into two large parts. One will cover my thoughts, feelings, my hopes and dreams...While the other will tell you the specifics of how I pass the time, what topics interest me, what passions do I posses. I believe that at the end of this leap into my inner world, you dear reader, will have all the necessary information to judge whether we are compatible or not.

 

**Part I**

 

I am writing this in the hopes of finding something that I lack. Lately I have had this feeling, this tinge of melancholy within the depths of my being, this yearning to find a kindred spirit, another Soul, much like mine, to form a bond with. Loneliness is what my spiritual malady is called, a terrible, gnawing loneliness that doesn't ever go away.

I have found it increasingly necessary to seek in this Life a sort of purity of thought. What I mean is, I have began to understand what ideas and concepts are ultimately compatible with my inner most Self, ergo what guidelines I have to follow to feel the most whole. Naturally I have likewise realized what I cannot add to my Self and what I will henceforth reject with all the power that I posses.

With this new context in mind, I now follow on the path of self improvement. I will now begin to mold my Self into my perfected idea of how the Self should be. This is certainly a significant undertaking, one that will not be easy to follow through on but one that I ultimately have to do. To me such context is essential. It is akin to a Guiding Star shining in the night. I will follow this Star for without it I am lost in the vast Darkness.

Looking back at my life, it was suboptimal, especially if one compares the way it molded me to how I will now mold myself. I suppose I must look on with a hint of regret at all that time which one might consider to be lost. Still... I try to stave off such decisively negative interpretations; after all, I have ultimately came to these conclusions. That means that somewhere along the line I had to have picked up on enough of such ideas for them to become so cemented in my consciousness. Well, either that or I was always like this, but in that case I can at least thank my life up to this point for not being able to suppress such manifestations of my inner most Self.

To add to the topic of my life, I must admit that not all the battles have yet been won, not all the Demons vanquished, not every Mountain climbed. I want you to keep such things in mind when deciding whether or not to approach me. Many will shy away, I understand that much, but the pursuit of true Companionship is just another such battle. Having said all that I do believe that being able to overcome hurdles together carries with it a certain appeal. That is to say, what's the fun in joining once the Game is already over?

I don't shy away from such challenges, perhaps to a fault. Certain troubles that I faced in the past carry with them a long shadow over my current health and well being. Still, I intend to change little in this regard other than the proficiency with which I will clash the current of my Will against the cliffs of Life.

 

**Part II**

In this part of my post I will tell you about my interests and hobbies, I will try to be thorough, commonality in this regard is rather important to build a relationship

History. I have had an interest in history for almost a decade now, it started back in school and developed from there. Well, now that I think about it one could argue that it started even earlier in my life as I liked watching the odd historic documentary or film aired on television but it wasn't regular back then, I never actively sought it out. I am mostly interested in European history in the period between the 18th-20th century but I sometimes branch out to other time periods and other parts of the world. I watch various channels related to history and read articles and sometimes books. I have recently got a few books on the German revolution of 1848/1849 and a historical magazine on the Thirty Years' War. Besides that I try to visit museums sometimes.

Literature. Especially old novels. I like to immerse myself in the Worlds of these books, I tend to read them while listening to thematically fitting music and take my time with them. One time you are following a troubled Youth in his quest for spiritual understanding of the world, another you see the aged and decrepit Doctor waging his very Soul on the promises of obtaining satisfaction in earthy pleasures, then again your olfaction notices the most pleasant scent known to man even as the one emanating it has the appearance of a revolting Frog (Can you guess it in your reply?). These and many other stories open up to you once you decide to set foot into the literary World.

Languages. I know three, with one being a bit rusty. I am currently working intently on strengthening it. I believe that if I continue to apply myself in this regard then I should be able to finally conquer it. What language am I working on? Well, if you were to stack all the major works in it they would be as tall as a house... It is fun to go through different works in multiple languages, the same goes for film, games and such.

Games. I recently played Cyberpunk 2077. Well as recently as I played any major story centric game. Now that the dust has settled and the bugs mostly removed...It's not that bad. The main quest line at least. Besides that I tried Fallout 76 (Very average, I'm disappointed with what they made the "RPG" system) and I might give Deus Ex Mankind Divided another spin (since it's somewhat similar to Cyberpunk when it comes to its aesthetics). Dark Souls is one of my favorite series, I still haven't beaten Elden Ring though. When it came out I wasn't in the right mindset to invest a hundred hours into it, with all those bosses and difficult locations. I think I'll only consider playing it if I am streaming it to someone. I am generally interested in either streaming games or having the person I am talking to stream them to me. To be specific I mean streaming to a single person while being on call. Besides that I'm a big fan of Paradox strategy games, especially Europa Universalis IV and Heats of Iron IV, I tend to only play single player since I find multiplayer with many people to be rather stressful but on the other hand I have nothing against a co-op game. I'm not the best player though, despite the amount of hours I have in them. Another great game I would mention would be Dragon's Dogma. A very underrated RPG. I recently beat it again and it was an atmospheric and interesting experience. It is one of those games that feel like they have an endless amount of depth and constant new secrets to discover.

Anime and Manga. In recent times my interest in them has waned but I still watch the occasional series here and there. Some of my favorite series include: Fullmetal Alchemist Brotherhood, Death Note, Fate;Zero, Psycho Pass, Code Geass and Attack on Titan. I wouldn't mind if you were to introduce me to some new series, maybe based on the ones I mentioned. My favorite Manga is Berserk which I still follow, althought I am still not certain on the direction that the new author is taking. I suppose it really is a matter of contention whether a somewhat (or considerably warped) vision is better than an unfinished work. One could argue that a few novels remain unfinished and possess a macabre appeal to them as such.

Music. Classical music has a very special place in my heart. A few of my favorite pieces would be: Clair de Lune, Nocturne Op. 9 No.2, Devil's Trill Sonata, Danse Macabre, Valse Sentimentale, Symphony No. 7 in A Major, Op. 92: II. Alegreto (by Beethoven) and Suite from Swan Lake, Op. 20a: I. Scene. Moderato. There are more but these ones always invoke something in me when I listen to them. Besides Classical I also enjoy listening to Synthwave, old Western pop and J-pop, both modern and from the 20th century.

Esotericism. I am interested in things spiritual, mystical, magical and esoteric. I have read religious texts, magical grimoires, introductions to various schools of thought. It is interesting to me.

 

**Epilogue**

 

Hopefully I was able to cast the spotlight upon my inner World in a clear and unequivocal manner. I feel the need to add to the aforementioned that I am rather introverted, which means that I tend to dislike large social gatherings. I managed to condition myself to be able to endure the presence of large groups of people but it isn't something that I would seek out in most cases. Besides that I am neurodivergent and suffer from certain issues with mental health. I have to take medication to keep myself under control. They work well enough but certain days are harder than others. I respect the struggle that others have with mental health but in the context of a relationship I have my limits, no one with BDP for instance. I am also not looking for anything casual. I understand than one cannot demand depth and meaning from a conversation with an absolute stranger, that is akin to trying to build a sand castle right before the waves strike but I ask at least that you enter with a mindset that this might become something of significance. I also do want to say that I am completely Monogamous and if I enjoy the company of a person I tend to not want to let them go. My preference? The sickly, gaunt intellectual type...Oh, and for You to be Mine and Mine alone, and for Me to be Yours and Yours alone.

Also a note: No NSFW accounts and you need to be clean

Thank you for taking the time to read my post and have a good day. I ask that you send a DM instead of a chat, chat messages will get lost in the ether. Write "Zweisamkeit" as the title and answer my question.

Goodbye...Or perhaps until we meet again.

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2024/10/31
10:37 UTC

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20 [M4F] #USA/#online - Looking to give all of my love

20 [M4F] #USA/#online - Looking to give all of my love

Heya! I'm not good at catchy intros or anything like that, so I'm just gonna talk and hopefully you read it and something interests you!

Nice to meet you! I'm Nic, and I live on the east coast! I've honestly have been having 0 luck with the whole finding my soul mate thing so I'm trying the last thing I can think of lol.

I'm gonna start off with my big red flags so I don't waste anyone's time! I'm in the military so traveling and moving around the world is gonna be a thing so hopefully you like traveling, but the pros of that is that I'm pretty active, I like going on runs, walks, and I want to go on hikes with somebody, a gym partner would be nice as well! My humor is pretty dark and offensive so sensative people go away!!! Now the BIGGEST red flag is.... I have a kid, and I love her to death. She lives with her mother, and we have our co parenting down so she wouldn't be your responsibility at all! but for some just knowing that fact is enough to just move on.

Now with that out of the way, if anyone is still reading this surprisingly I'll talk about myself more!

For my hobbies/interest, im a HUGE gaming nerd! I can play anything and everything, I'll play anything if I'm playing it with someone so if I don't already play your favorite game is would love for you to teach me! Right now the games I'm playing the most however are: Black ops 6, League of legends, Dead by daylight, Minecraft, Apex Legends, Elden ring, terraria, roblox, and overwatch. My steam library is huge so there's a ton of over games. We could easily find something to play together! Other than games, I also like watching anime and reading manga/manhwa, some of my favorites being: Overlord, Eminence in the shadow, Horimiya, Solo leveling, SAO, and a some more niche ones as well! I would love some recommendations and to watch something together! DnD is also something I like to do! I haven't done it alot but down to dive into it way more with someone!

-- Moving on to what I'm looking for! -- Starting with age as long as your 18+ that's fine, I don't mind older at all, though my limit is 45 but if your a few years older and really think we'll click by all means feel free to come talk to me! Obviously attraction is important so we can definitely trade selfies early on! Im not very strict when it comes looks, I AM more attracted to white girls but not a deal breaker if you aren't! In terms of communication I want to talk alot! I fall hard and fast so I will definitely try to give you 90% of my attention so if you could give the same or similar energy that would be nice, I can get pretty clingy so if that's not for you, then I might not be the one lol. I want to call alot and maybe even sleep call from time to time!

-- a quick description of my appearance -- 5'9, Light skinned, fit, 165 lbs,

As for as I can think of that's pretty much it! Thanks for reading all this if you did. If any of this seemed like we'd be a good match feel free to DM me! I'll definitely respond. If you DID read all this when you are introducing yourself, tell me your favorite video game! I'll tell you mine and we can swap pictures! I can't wait to hear from you!😊👋

(I'll delete this post when I find somone)

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2024/10/31
10:12 UTC

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29 [M4F] Germany - nerd 4 nerdette

Greetings

I want: a forever-term irl monogamous relationship, you to contact me if you want the same and the following vibes with - and applies - to you:

You are: 24+ years old, like me also so far forever alone (in the forever sense of forever), similar-interests-possessing

I am: 100% nerd, of average height, socially awkward, easily misunderstood, curious as hell, introverted, somewhat fat as of this writing

I like: cozy and comfy places, technology (mostly programming), (computer) science, math, (astro)photography, Magic the Gathering for fun, listening to music without lyrics

I feel "meh" about (meaning you are most probably better off finding someone else if you like/are interested in these): anime, sports, parties, politics, religion

I dislike: scary media, loud people and places, smokers, piercings

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2024/10/31
09:58 UTC

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33 [M4F] Online Looking for something sincere.

I realized if you don't seek for someone you'll never be able to find it and if you don't nurture what you found it will never flourish. I believe the most mature relationship is the one which got invested in mutually. So now we got the wisdom out of way, hi! I am looking for someone to exchange messages throughout the day. I really like it to see good morning and good night messages! I would like to start as friends and become more if we click. Women who are expecting full head of hair can skip lol. I am an easy going person. It takes awhile for me to open up but when I do you get full access to my personality lol I love being in the nature and love tranquility. I am working in IT and have nerd-ish hobbies. I am an open-minded person.

Why don't you tell me about yourself? BTW you are allowed to be clingy:D I am turkish and my timezone is GMT+3.

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2024/10/31
09:47 UTC

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31 [M4F] Germany/Europe - Traveling nerd looking for his other half

Hey there,

I'm currently and sort of constantly looking for a partner in crime, a relationship to stand the test of time. I'm often a bit of a hopeless romantic, but I'm sure there's someone there for everyone.

Things about me:

182cm tall, white German guy. I'd say my build is average - I'm not overweight. I have short-ish hair and wear glasses.

I enjoy cooking, and I'd dare say I'm pretty good at it (I got the pictures to proof it too). I'm also an omnivore, so if that bothers you we're probably not a good match. Aside from that I really enjoy going to bars, having a drink or two and just have a chill night outside.

Quite heavy on the nerdy side, too. Ranging from gaming (PC), to reading manga, following tech like it's a religion and just generally caring about everything in that space. I also work in IT, so there's that as well. But it pays well and is a stable career, so hey.

I watch quite a fair bit of TV shows, currently binging Taskmaster and Planet Earth. Marvel movies are also big on my list, and I'm also into kdrama and things like The Office, B99 and Parks and Rec.

I love traveling, so far I've been to most parts of western and northern Europe, Turkey, Japan and the US. There's just something special about seeing many different cultures, and don't get me started on the food. I'm a big foodie.

I don't have kids, and I plan to keep it that way too, so if you want some little devils of your own, we're not a good fit either. My religious beliefs are also non-existent.

My humor exists, even though I am German. Admittedly it's often very dark humor, but that's just how we are.

I work from home, so I'm available most of the time, unless it is very busy at work.

I love cats and dogs, sadly my current apartment doesn't allow pets - but once I move to a bigger one, or buy my (our?) house that should be more than fine!

For music, I mostly listen to every genre, but I'm heavy into K-pop - from going to concerts (been to IVE and Itzy this year, XG following soon) to also collecting albums etc. So if you're into it as well and we can go to concerts, that would be great.

That should be enough about me for now, now a little about what I'm looking for:

You should ideally be in Europe, as to make traveling short and easy. Outside of Europe is fine too, but it definitely makes things harder. I'm fine with LDR for a start, as long as there's intent to move towards each other at some point. You should be around 27-40, please don't be obese either, physical attraction is important in any relationship. If you're on the nerdy side and enjoy video games, that would be a big help. I also love a lady with tattoos (to an extent), but aside from those things I'm just pretty open to whoever wants to chat. You never know what kind of person is actually going to be yours until you see her. (:

I'm fine with exchanging pictures, if you want mine - send me a message and attach your own.

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2024/10/31
09:26 UTC

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28 [M4F] UK / Online - Someone to share the little things

Hi, I'm looking for someone with similar interests and a similar outlook on life, someone who doesn't take things too seriously and can see the funny side in even the bad. I want someone to share a laugh for just about anything no matter how stupid or small. I want to enjoy the little things in life, find happiness from the mundane.

What I can offer you :

○ All the attention in the world.

○ Endless cute gestures to make sure you feel loved.

○ Hugs on demand.

○ The worst jokes and puns imaginable.

Some of my hobbies are gaming, football, running, generally staying fit. I also loved hiking and exploring new places, going on little adventures, and of course getting way too drunk and pulling out the most embarrassing dance moves ever seen.

If any of this sounds appealing to you, send me a chat and lets get talking! And please be willing to trade pics. I'm looking forward to sharing life with you 😊

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2024/10/31
09:19 UTC

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27[M4F] Belgium/Anywhere - Who needs Tinder when you have PowerPoint?

So it turns out i have way too much free time in my hands. I've been thinking about doing this for a while and finally put my mind to it. I'm not gonna lie, this took way longer than it should have ... It's probably not even good!

Anyway, every slide (except the one) is from a movie/gaming/anime franchise i absolutely love. Can you figure them all out? If you really want (and can convince) me to, i could maybe even present it to you in a call. Who doesn't love giving Powerpoint presentations ... right? right??

Here it is: https://imgur.com/a/X5Txxni

If you like the presentation, be sure to send me a chat introducing yourself, i would love to get to know you, save this man from making Powerpoints.

Thank you!

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2024/10/31
09:05 UTC

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37 [NB4A] Scotland/Anywhere - If you're nerdy or goth, and have tattoos or piercings, I'd love to talk to you!

I’m looking to find a new partner. I'm keen to find someone really special and inspiring. I'm assigned male at birth but I identify as non-binary. I'm incredibly open-minded and I don't mind where you're located. I've dated people in Europe and North America. I'm also open-minded about gender identity and sexual orientation; I would like to find someone who is at ease with being themselves and around my age. I'm incredibly attracted to androgyny, piercings and tattoos; if you have any of those then I would especially excited to speak to you, however it's absolutely fine if you don't.

I enjoy lots of different sciences and music genres. Technology, astronomy and astrophysics are also things that really interest me, and I always like to learn new things. I have a love of synth pop, synth wave, and lots of different kinds of metal; anything alternative or non-mainstream is definitely attractive to me. I'm also disabled, and I thought it would be better to be upfront about it.

Please send me a private message with a description of yourself and the kinds of things that you enjoy. It's not a requirement that you send me a photo, but it would be welcomed; I have photos I'm happy to exchange.

I don't respond to one word replies to low-effort responses.

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2024/10/31
09:03 UTC

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23 [F4M] Philippines/Anywhere - Trying my luck here, hope you're there!

Hello! I've been around in r4r locally and the main one, and I guess it scares me to try at least. But realizing things, I really need to start opening myself out again, devoting my time to a person who can understand me as well. We can start off as great friends, learn out commonalities and differences, spend time through online, and hopefully meet one day! Although I do prefer someone from the local scene, but who knows, maybe my better half is somewhere in a different time zone, right?

I honestly prefer talking to peeps in between 22-29 years old, so not much adjustment is done on our ends. I'll be waiting!

EDIT: Kindly send a brief intro so that I know you're from here :)

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2024/10/31
08:58 UTC

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29 [M4F] Minnesota/ Uppermidwest

Just an average guy looking for the woman he'll grow old with. The basics, 29M residing in Minnesota. I'm the youngest of 4 children, I work for the largest school district in my state in the building and grounds department. Currently working the graveyard shift so bonus if you're a night owl. I tend be a homebody as I'm definitely an introvert at heart, however I do enjoy going out and trying new things when I have the people or person to tag along with. I'm an xbox gamer, and enjoy a wide variety of games, as well as many board games. I also enjoy TV shows and movies, I think my favorite genre a bit embarrassingly has to be hallmark style Christmas movies. Some of my other hobbies include bowling, swimming, cooking, and sitting around a fire pit. I try to make it out to the Wisconsin dells area fairly often as my sister and only nephew leave out there. I'm looking for someone to enjoy life with, go out to dinner with, go to movie premieres, play games, travel to parts of the world, randomly gift flowers to, talk to throughout my days etc. I am a God fearing man, though one who doesn't push my views upon anyone else, so as long as you don't openly disrespect me for my religion we will get along great regardless of your religious values. I hope to hear from you soon, and if so why not tell me your dream vacation destination, or if you're a gamer, what your favorite game is? Take care, and thanks for making this far!

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2024/10/31
08:57 UTC

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21 M4F lets play horror games together!

howdy!! my name is Dominick or just Doom (without the extra m they sensor my name lol) i am 21 almost 22 and live in Missouri. i am honestly just looking for someone who is willing to commit to me for the long haul since my last relationship made me feel like i was being used, my interests include gaming (i will honestly play anything but the games im actually good at are fortnite and team fight tactics but im open to anything and everything!), watching funny shows or almost any type of anime (my favs are Naruto, Bleach, Mob Psycho, and Full Metal Alchemist Brotherhood), cooking (i make a mean mac and cheese 🧀), and im starting to learn guitar (dont ask me to play anything i dont know any songs yet 😭).

i dont mind any age as long as ur not still in highschool, i dont mind any religion either (my family is super christian but i myself am agonistic), and i dont mind ldr or anything like that (i stay up suuuuuuper late as it is anyways lol) also pls be ok with my humor it isnt anything bad i dont think it is just weird lol (check my twt to see what i mean). and i know it is an absolute SAUSAGE FEST in this sub so please dont be afraid to say hi to me im totally ok with being friends too! (or just starting as friends and seeing where things go) if u get this far thank you so much for reading! if you do decide to message me put a 🧟 in your message so ik ur serious (becuz spooky season).

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2024/10/31
08:50 UTC

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26M [M4F] Looking for the Firefly to my Trailblazer #Online #NZ

This is what I sound like and this is what I look like :)

I'm looking for a special connection and unfortunately my local dating pool is quite tiny. I used to live in a different country every year for most of my life, but I'm currently in New Zealand while I do my master's degree in Psychology. I have no intention of staying here after I graduate and I fully intend to close the distance after dating for a while at distance.

A bit about me, I'd describe myself as introverted but confident, with a sassy sense of humour. I'm very flirty and affectionate and a little bit of a cheeky gremlin when it comes to jokes. I'm neurodivergent with ASD, ADHD and PTSD, and I find that I typically get along with similar people but it is by no means a requirement. I speak both English and Spanish fluently.

For hobbies, its a mix of nerdy and non-nerdy. On one hand, I love cosplay, manga/manwha and games. My most recent cosplay was Honey from Ouran and Aventurine from Honkai, and I'm happy to share pictures. On the other hand, I also love fashion (Korean and Alt primarily), cats (used to volunteer at a cat shelter here), cooking and the gym.

As for dealbreakers, I want to throw in that I do not drink, smoke or do drugs at all and want someone similar. A little bit of drinking is okay, but the others are non-negotiable. Common interests and a similar sense of humour is a must, as I will not be able to be myself around you otherwise. I'm not religious or spiritual. I want someone with either a secure or anxious attachment style. Lastly, I'd only be open to having human children with someone that I was truly in love with, but settling for fur children is fine too.

If you've read this far, thank you for taking the time to read my post.

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2024/10/31
08:40 UTC

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31 [M4F] USA / Online - Roger Rabbit looking for his Jessica

Hi there.

I'm 5'3", white, with an average build, green eyes, shaved head, and a mustache. Goofy, nerdy, introverted. Leftist. Agnostic. 420 friendly. Sub-leaning switch. Cat dad.

Big dork. Metalhead and punk who buys vinyl and occasionally promotes shows. Sci-fi and fantasy nerd trying to teach myself screenwriting to turn my silly little world to life. Lover of cinema, video games, animation, D&D. Constantly learning.

Love women who are smart, funny, passionate, affectionate, assertive, empathetic, artistic, and curious. Bonus points if you're tall, muscular, busty (I'm definitely a sucker for boobs), or can rock an alternative aesthetic.

Let's talk. :)

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2024/10/31
08:35 UTC

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26 (M4F)

Hi there, I’m 26 and live in California. Newly single but looking to meet someone kind, funny and interesting. Nothing too serious to start would love to chat with somebody and maybe one day meet irl.

I work a lot, I like to lift weights, run, read, spend time at the beach, and hang with my friends. I’m a big film guy, please reach out! 🙏🏻

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2024/10/31
08:35 UTC

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18M looking for my player 2! Ohio/Anywhere

Hi, my name is Jake, some of my main interests are gaming, anime, nature, swimming, animals and Watching movies. I'm okay with dating any race and dating online if you live in another part of the world or another state. Some things about me is that I have blue eyes, where glasses, I'm shy and have social anxiety, I'm 6'3, I have longer hair that's brown, I have a beard and mustache that's forming, im white and i enjoy a huge variety of games and anime. Things I'm looking for in a partner is someone who is caring, enjoys gaming and anime like me, is within the age range of 18-21, your height doesn't matter since I like both short and tall girls and I also don't mind if your a little chubby for those of you who may be worried about that. Please dm me if your interested in getting to know eachother and maybe fotm a special connection.

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2024/10/31
08:28 UTC

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33[M4F] #England - or online. Let’s chat, about anything and everything, maybe forever?

Hi! I’m Simon, a 33 year old Brit from the south of England looking for something that will stick. Your location/race/religion/culture can be anything/anywhere - I’m open :)

I’m 5’10 (178cm) and average build (Rockin a dad bod)

I work in the marine industry, and have done for 15 years. I live alone with my 2 cats - yes, you can ask for cat pics!

Also into sci-fi movies/TV, and a bit of gaming now and then too, so I’d consider myself a bit of a nerd. Somebody once told me I’d class as an ISFJ personality, if that means anything to you.

I’m into the outdoors, I love doing stuff in the garden, or heading to the beach, but I am also just as happy chilling on the couch watching movies, or my guilty pleasure, Below Deck😅. But I’d also class myself as slightly introverted - I’d rather hang out with my partner and do things together than go out with randoms.

Thanks for reading my short description! If anything has caught your attention, drop me a chat invite and let’s see where it goes :). Happy to exchange selfies early on too as it’s always nice to see who you’re talking to.

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2024/10/31
08:19 UTC

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M20 [M4F] #Germany/Online Looking for a soul mate or a relationship with whom I can be happy.

Hello! ^^ I am 20 years old and come from Germany.

I am 1.78m tall, have short brown hair, brown eyes and an average build. I also have animals that I really like, like my dog, bird, turtle and rabbit.

In my free time I like to do things with other people, I like reading, I draw when I feel like it. I play games now and then and I like going out for walks or riding my bike.

I also work during the week, but I also have time to call when I can, and I'm fully available in the evenings at the latest ^^

What am I looking for? Well, I'm looking for contacts (female) to have other friends and I'm also looking for a partner for life. With whom I can do silly things, have fun and enjoy myself. By the way, I'm open to anything in chat.

About you: • Be at least 18 and not older than 28 •For a relationship please come from Germany or nearby and friendships are all countries besides Germany welcome •Be yourself and introduce yourself

Until then, I wish you a great day and hope to hear from you soon ^^

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2024/10/31
08:17 UTC

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19 [M4F] #US/Florida

Hey just a wandering traveler looking for a life long partner to make memories with. I'm very straightforward and honest, I definitely enjoy just spending time inside cuddling. I'm into alot of things but mainly coding and gaming. I'm usually at my desk so that's where you'd find me and side note, I'm very fast at responding unless I get hyper focused. Snap ghostopz Insta _ memento_mori_lucas _ I respond so much faster on insta. If you add me be honest and straight with me.

But enough of a copy paste from my FB page names Lucas and I'm from Florida and have been searching for awhile. I've had a lot of trouble trying to find something serious and those such things. A little about me though. I'm 5'6, I'm 19 turning 20 on the 16th of November. I have long hair and if you wanna a braid it go for it. I've got ADHD but definitely helps with being a good listener. I work as a electrician with my dad and it's quite fun. I'm quite the enthusiast for gaming so thats something big about me. If your interested feel free to dm me

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2024/10/31
08:05 UTC

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