Hi! I’m a 21 year old male into ABDL and I’m just looking for someone to talk to who’s also interested in ABDL. We don’t have to talk about that kind of stuff, at least until we’re comfortable sharing. But yeah, just send a message or comment!

Hi :)

Any location is fine

I'm 32 from the UK. 6ft3 with a very cuddly dad bod. I'm looking for someone who's into the lifestyle of either DDLG or Sub/Dom to look after

I've been into the lifestyle for 10+ years now. Finally ready to find the right person and to see where it goes

Im looking for someone who is open minded and not afraid of talking about themselves. Mental health is extremely important in life and you'll be able to talk to me openly about anything you want. Even if you just need to talk, inbox me.

I have a variety of kinks I'm interested in but can adapt to yours too. I've had a fair bit of experience and I'm willing to explore your likes and limits. I can also set tasks and rules. These can be flexible too. I'm really open minded

Looking for something online to start with and then eventually see where it goes. Happy to meet up in person eventually if we click. So be open and do not be shy

Looking forward to speaking to you soon

looking for a daddy or big bro or maybe even another little that can help me tap into my little side even when i’m not diapered!

anyone local would be a huge plus but i’m down to chat on here, snap or insta!

Hey there, thanks for checking out my post!

A Little About Me:

I’m a 25-year-old guy who’s passionate about space, the supernatural, and all things that make life a bit more magical. People say I’m thoughtful, kind, and I have a great sense of humor (even if it's a bit quirky). I enjoy deep conversations, getting to know people beyond the surface, and sharing knowledge about the things I love.

I’m on the autism spectrum, which makes me super detail-oriented and passionate about the things that interest me. I also pride myself on being a good listener and a supportive friend.

My Hobbies & Interests:

Space: Ever since I was a kid, I’ve been fascinated by the stars and the universe. I could talk for hours about astronomy, space exploration, and the mysteries of the cosmos.

The Supernatural: Ghost stories, unexplained phenomena, and mythology intrigue me. If you’re into cryptids or supernatural legends, we’ll definitely get along.

Gaming & Movies: I love to relax with video games and movies, especially ones that have rich, immersive stories. Sci-fi and fantasy are my go-tos, but I’m always up for something new!

What I'm Looking For:

Friends: I’d love to connect with anyone who shares my interests, especially if you're also on the spectrum (though it’s not a must). I’m looking for genuine friendships with people who are open-minded and enjoy discussing things beyond the ordinary. Let’s bond over our passions, whether that’s science, gaming, or something completely different!

Caregiver: I’m asexual and gay, so I’m not seeking anything sexual in a caregiver dynamic, but I am looking for someone who understands the importance of emotional support and connection. If you’re interested in a poly dynamic, that’s cool, but I’d prefer everything to be discussed openly with all parties involved, ensuring we’re all on the same page. I’m also open to exploring new ways of connecting with someone who’s nurturing and caring.

Femdom alway seemed very intense and painful to me. The image of a latex wearing and whip wielding dominatrix didnt appeal to me. However, when I found out about gentle femdom, instantly wanted to learn more. The idea that I could be with someone that can dominate me in ways that leave me both blushing red and lightly bruised red is very appealing to me.

I find myself lost in a relationship at times so being with someone that is fulfilled by leading the way sounds amazing. The other aspect I would love is the amount of affection encouraged. While i love cuddling, I have felt embarrassed about. Wanting to be the little spoon, aiding your lap as a pillow, and just plain handholding. In this type of relationship I’d hope for things like that to be easier to ask for and receive.

As for kinks, I am open to a lot of things I wanna try. Too many to list, but in general I want to be tied up, manhandled, and firmly taught how best to please you. I would would to spend as much time as you want on my knees between your legs, or strapped down and used as you see fit. Pegging seems very hot and since I moan a lot, probably very rewarding for you.

As for my non kink side, I am a typical nerdy introvert. Around 5,11, shaggy black hair, and pale as white wall lol. Very much a homebody. I am loving the online school transition, especially since it means more time with my dog. Love video games, anime and the like. So spending time watching or playing together would be great. A bit shy socially but once I get comfortable you might need a gag to shut me up, which I’d also love.

If any of this seems interesting to you, I’d love to chat more. Thanks for reading.

DMs open. I’m holding my pee pee until I’m bursting into my diaper. I’m gonna soak it, sleep in my full diaper, and edge myself alllllllll night till I’m getting ready for work and having a final wetting in my bedtime diaper

Looking for an older girl who would love to get close as fwb online or maybe even irl if your in Vegas. I’d love to be treated with the comfort and good morning and good night messages. Let me be your boy.

It’s always hard for me to make some of these, but here’s a go. I’m looking to make a good little girls night with cuddles, diaper changes, and lots of love… message me if you’re interested.. kinky ones get front row. I love clingy girls who are super dependent on me. Don’t worry I’ll spoil you :)

Hi there! I am a 34 year old transgender woman, and an ABDL. I'm looking for roleplay partners around my age (25+) for roleplaying here on Reddit!

I would like to stress that if you want to get my attention, tell me your real age in your first message.

I would also really appreciate it if you told me your gender in your introduction. In addition to that, make some effort to show me that you can write. Introduce yourself with more than a sentence. A little effort goes a long way!

l am a switch, and I'm open to playing multiple characters to move the story along, but I generally don't like to exclusively play the dominant or caregiver role, so please keep that in mind.

l usually write 1-3 paragraphs per message, and prefer third person perspective in roleplaying.

I have lots of ideas, but generally I prefer slice of life and fluff-type scenarios. I prefer to tailor scenarios to whatever interests my roleplay partner and I have in common.

If you're interested in roleplaying, feel free to send me an orange envelope! I look forward to hearing from you.

Hello! I'm a 35-year-old straight male on the lookout for a sincere, long-term connection. In addition to valuing authenticity and communication, I find joy in embracing my inner child. Whether it's relishing in the simple pleasures of playful activities, immersing myself in the world of imagination, or finding happiness in the little things, I genuinely enjoy tapping into that carefree, innocent side of life. Exploring this facet of my personality has been a delightful journey, and I believe in being open about the things that bring us joy. If you appreciate someone who can find delight in the whimsical and embrace a sense of childlike wonder, let's connect and share our unique perspectives. Life is a grand adventure, and I'm excited to find someone who appreciates the magic of embracing our inner little kid together. If you're open to exploring this side of life with me, let's chat and see where our connection takes us!

Hi everyone, Im currently looking for another abdl to chat with. I would prefer a daddy but a switch is also good.

I'm down for UK or Online Hope to hear from you soon x

Hi! My name is ____ and I live in downtown Chicago. I’ve been in the community for about 6 years now and would love to find with friends, fellow littles, or doms (mommy/daddy) to connect with. Live in the actual city on the north side. Please feel free to DM if you’re in the area and looking to connect. Happy to answer any messages over chat! Looking forward to connecting with some folks

Hello! I’ve been looking for someone to spoil me and keep me in diapers! I’m a long term ABDL, into DDLg and various other kinks I enjoy implementing into my lifestyle :3

I’m disabled and currently unemployed so I have a super hard time buying myself diapers and am mainly looking for an arrangement that would benefit us both. I am very much willing to send pics and videos of me using/wearing the diapers if you’re willing to buy them for me :3

Looking for something long term as well!! Not just a one off!

My ideal person would be someone who enjoys the aspect of spoiling a little, who calls me their little girl, and supports me in my lifestyle. I want someone who will check up on me whenever they have time to, and who will take the time to get to know me as a person. It would also be great if you encouraged me to wear diapers every day, as that’s something I want to start doing :3

Also just to mention, I am not super into messing at all because I don’t like having to change myself with all the mess, but if someone is ever willing to meet in person (in the future) I would be willing to try it out to become entirely un-potty-trained!

Btw, I am an AFAB nb who takes testosterone, I do not own a penis!

Hey there! I’m in the southeast US. Would love to meet someone who shares these interests! It’s so hard to find people organically for ABDL so I want to try this community. It doesn’t have to start off as anything NSFW and I definitely won’t ask for pics or pressure you into anything. Hit me up!

Hi :)

A few important things to get out the way at the start.. I'm looking for a monogamous little girl around the age of 20-30. I'm not interested in anything poly, monogamous littles only please. Cis or trans female littles are fine with me. Yes, ABDL is sexual to me. I do not send NSFW pictures, don't bother asking. I'm not interested in talking with anyone with kids nor am I interested in having any kids myself

I'm a 31 year old daddy located in the Eastern US, in Northern WV close to Pittsburgh. I am looking for a serious long term dynamic/relationship, with the possibility of meeting up later down the line if things work out. I'm preferably interested in someone from the US or Canada. I'm also okay with an online dynamic. I'm 5'11", have blonde hair and a beard, blue eyes, and kind of chubby. I am looking for a little girl around the age of 20-30 to get to know and hopefully from a long-term ABDL/DDLG dynamic with. I've been into ABDL for well over 10 years now and have been a daddy for about 4 years. I am looking for a little girl that is interested in exploring ABDL with a guiding hand. I'd like to say I'm fairly experienced with ABDL and diapers, and happy to answer any questions about it.

Ideally I'd like to find a little that would like to be little 24/7 eventually, helping them unpotty train and slowly become diaper dependent. I'm okay with changing both wet and messy diapers, and would prefer to find someone that is okay with doing both in their diapers. I am generally a pretty affectionate, loving, but sterm daddy dom, not afraid to punish my little girl when needed. I am mainly looking for a good little girl. The occasional brat is fine with me but I am not looking for a really bratty little. There would be a structure of rules and punishments in place to keep them in line. Some punishments include spankings, corner time, enemas, and suppositories.

Outside of the ABDL lifestyle, I am a gamer at heart and like to play a variety of games in my free time. I play games on my pc, xbox, switch, and phone in my free time. I love all things Disney, especially Disney theme parks. I love traveling, spending time at theme parks, zoos, aquariums, state parks, and other tourist attractions when I can. I also like listening to music, mostly classic rock from the 70s and 80s. I do like a good mystery, listening to true crime podcasts quite often. Politics wise, I'm left leaning to a degree, though I don't really like talking politics all that much. I'm not religious, I'd say I'm Agnostic/Atheist. I don't really care if you're religious or not as long as you're not forcing it down my throat.

If any of this interested you, please send me a message. Please include your age and location. Thank you :)

Hello, it's nice to meet you.

I am interested in finding a switch or a mommy Dom. I am a 24 year old man who is in pretty average body build, about 170lbs 6" tall.

I am interested in finding a mommy or a switch. I have switched with others before and I am curious to see if I can find someone out there. I am pretty 50/50 Dom/little, but since it's been a while since I have had someone I could be little with I am leaning towards that side.

About me: I am pretty mature for my age and most people think I'm old by the way I act. I work a 8 to 5 in the I.T field so I am kind of a nerd and I love my job. Outside of work I play videogames with friends and catch up on some anime recommendations, I am a pretty social guy too so I typically hang out on the weekends (I am not a antisocial nerd lol). Bet you wouldn't have guessed but I'm a pretty big outdoors person too, It just requires I travel a bit so I don't get too all the time. Hunting, fishing, hiking and just being outdoors is one of my favorite things to get away from all the technology in my life.

On my kink side I am a little and Dom switch, I have had many littles and since I can be a little myself I do a pretty good job at finding out what you want. Most of my kinks are listed on my profile, but I would prefer to talk about that over a message first. I have had a mommy a time or two but I am wanting to find someone who I can talk to and have fun with and maybe even build a relationship with if it moves in that direction. Location isn't really an issue cause I prefer online at first.

I'm my post interests you at all shoot me a message!

Hello my fellow kinky redditors, I am asking for your careful consideration to join me in my daydream while the work day winds down and we approach the night where everything can come to life.

I’m 24 m daddy. I grew up in Atlanta, live in Georgia, and am open to anyone from the USA or Europe (but prefer USA due to time zone) with the caveat that I hope if I do meet the proverbial “one” we can agree to relocate somewhere within the South. (I’m sorry but I’ve lived in the North the past 6 years and I can’t stand another day where the temperature goes below 0 degrees Fahrenheit). I want to be able to feel my fingers when i hold your hand🤷🏻‍♂️ sue me🤷🏻‍♂️

So, why me out of everyone else? Well, honestly can’t tell you that one. I’m sure there’s a lot of lovely people out here all vying for your attention and some may be better suited for you, and that’s awesome. I’m not here to sell you on me, I’m here to simply offer a hand to the potential littles who are supposed to be with someone like me.

Aside from an addiction to Diet Coke, I guess there’s a good amount you should know about me before we venture into the kink land. I have ADHD. If you don’t know what ADHD is, basically my brain doesn’t produce enough chemicals of some sort so, instead of operating like a “normal” human, I have a lot of moments where I’ll easily forget something or get distracted. It’s also the reason for my addiction to Diet Coke (i need that little boost of caffeine to balance out my brain [or at least, that’s what my therapist tells me]).

Because of my adhd, I have a lot of interests. I like reading (mainly non fiction but I’m a Flannery O’Connor fan boy because she’s the best Georgia author ever). I write (about what, nobody knows but it’s always interesting). I like sports (mainly football and basketball but I also like watching some hockey every now and then). I also am kind of a geek and have bought a few comic books, love marvel movies and star wars, my first love (and tbh, Slave Leiah? Kinda overrated, give me Padme any day). I also love philosophy and complex moral issues (trolly car problem is the most interesting conundrum ever). Oh, I also play video games, mainly Call of Duty for 2-5 months every year because they have a lot of completions challenges, which basically I just get little dopamine hits from my ADHD when I complete things so, yeah.

Alright, enough about vanilla me.

Kink wise me:

I’m a softer daddy dom but also have a flair of something darker within the softer dom in me. It’s not sadistic, but the flair is more, you know, strict, get what it wants type flair.

I think it’s super important to have some sort of relationship before a dynamic (even if it’s just a friendship) because the basis of all submission is trust, so how can you trust someone you don’t know?? So please, give me some interesting facts about you, i want to get to know you literally before i get to know you biblically (inset snare drum).

Lastly, in terms of kinks, genuinely I don’t have a comprehensive list because I find it changing often and growing. I know hard limits for me are anything illegal and anything scat. Otherwise, I’ve probably tried it and liked it or have interest in it.

If this mess of an ad has made you interested in me, I think you better call a doctor orrr just chat me with more than just a hi or hello. Tell me about you and also tell me your favorite animal if you read all the way down here.

Thank you for your service, I hope this provided entertainment to your night and that you have a happy or spooky or happy spooky halloween (what ever you prefer) tomorrow.

Heyo, just wondering if there are some other Aussie girls like me around these parts. I used to be a bedwetter growing up, not too badly but it took a while to get it under control. I'm not into the AB side really - just someone who likes to be padded occasionally and would like to share experiences really at this stage as I'm very shy about it. No men please.

Im bun and im a switch. Im super bored rn and really want to chat with someone.

***This is strictly a monogamous relationship only. No hook ups or short term relationships please.***

Good morning, afternoon, evening. My name is Nezhara and I am looking for someone who will become my best friend, wife and soulmate. Someone who will love me for my flaws and I yours. I am looking for someone who is interested in some sort of CGlg/DDlg dynamic who is ok with occasionally playing the role of a CG/ mommy from time to time. I love being needed and I love nurturing/ guiding and helping those who are close to me. I think that being a CG/ daddy dom fills this need for me but please don't expect a 24/7 little/ middle dynamic. I want to love adult you just as much as little/ middle you.

**About me**

I like to think of myself as kind, protective and caring to those close to me. I always keep my promises. If I say I/ agree to do something I always do it. I never half ass anything that I do, I always use my whole ass. I have been told I can be a bit blunt/ straightforward. I also like working on myself and holding myself to high standards in everything I do (for better or for worse).

As for work I am an IT technician currently working on level 2 help desk. I love working with computer hardware and enjoy dabbling in computer programming. I am pretty introverted (until I get to know someone) and don't really leave the house unless I have to(I want to work on getting out more). I have never been in a relationship since I used to be far more introverted than I am now so I never really had the guts to try until recently, but I have a lot of love to give!

I am 5 '3 with a fairly active build that I am constantly working on. I weigh around 130 ish pounds with short brown hair, blueish eyes with glasses and typically have a short beard( sometimes I shave it off and 8/10 times I regret it). I try to keep everything below the neck shaved as often as my skin will let me. I am pretty active, I workout 5-7 days a week for about 30 min to an hour doing a mix of weight lifting and cardio. My goal is to be able to princess carry you and be able to carry you around even if you are taller or heavier than me! It will always be my goal!

Some of my hobbies that I enjoy are photography, guns, exercising, cooking, and tinkering with technology/ DIY stuff. Skills I want to get better at drawing/ 3D modeling/ Animation(I'm bad at all of these LMAO despite having a bachelor's degree in Visual Communication Design), and I also enjoy playing a wide variety of videos games some of my favorites are Monster Hunter, any Fromsoft game, Factorio, Civilization, Skyrim. I also watch anime/ vtubers frequently. Some hobbies I want to start gunpla (gundam) building and possibly getting into a tcg. I like to listen to a wide range of music, mostly Jpop, Rock/metal, classical, edm, eurobeat and music box

For ABDL and kink stuff I am fairly open to exploring most things. 

I consider myself a DL/CG/ switch. Switch mostly refers to wanting occasional CG treatment and enjoying some aspects of keeping in touch with my own inner child. I wouldn't really consider myself a daddy dom as I'm not a huge fan of micro-managing someone which some posts on here seem to want (setting strict rules, planning your day/ activities, picking out your cloths, picking your food etc.), for me it is more of a CG role and checking in on you throughout the day to make sure you are doing ok (playing with you/ cuddling, doing random diaper checks/ changing you, making sure you are eating enough/ staying hydrated, making sure/ giving you get a proper bath, getting you ready for bed, etc).

Setting up rules and punishments is about as daddy-dom as I get but I am open to discussing it since everyone has different preferences or ideas on what a daddy-dom should be/ do.

I like to wear diapers as well, they are more of a comfort and convenience thing for me. It would be nice if we changed each other once we are comfortable in the relationship! I think it's a very intimate thing to do and should be done by someone you love and trust!

Diapers give me a soft cozy vibe. I do enjoy doing omorashi/ bladder holding challenges on occasion and would like to try bedwetting in the future but I'm not sure I will ever do it. I don't really have any plans on wearing diapers 24/7 since I like to keep busy adult life separate from the comfy cozy vibes I get from wearing diapers but if you want to go 24/7 I will support you the best I can!

Scat/ Simulated messing I don't mind changing the occasional messy diaper but if you like frequently messing your diapers you should expect to be the one to change them most of the time. That being said, if I can smell you across the room I'm either going to make you change or will change you and force you to stop what you are doing (don't you dare think about abusing this! I can already see you plotting! You're not going to like the consequences!!!)

**About you**

You like/ want to be held/cuddled. I can be a bit on the clingy side, physical touch is part of my love language, I want to be able to hold and cuddle with you. Maybe even bounce you on my knee!

Is ok with occasionally being a CG/ Mommy on occasion. It's not something I want often but there are times when it would be nice to have some of the CG things like I listed above that keeps my inner child flame burning.

You want to have a few kids. I would like to have a few someday raising the next generation is important even though things might look bad now but they won't always be!

Hold traditional values / Christian values. I guess I am a bit old school in that regard. I had my edgy atheist years believe me, but recently I find myself slowly coming back to God and realizing how important of a role those values and experiences played in my childhood/ upbringing.

It's also important to me that you have something that you are passionate about that is not ABDL/ little/ middle related (it doesn't matter what it is). I think it's important to have something that isn't tied to a kink.

Ideally you have a career/ job that you want to excel in (how much you make is not important). A hard day's work makes the reward of coming home to relax with each other much more fun and enjoyable!

Preferably you are relatively fit. It would be great to be able to workout together. Active littles are healthy littles and I want you to be healthy and happy!

Having some overlapping hobbies is a plus but isn't a requirement! It's nice to share interests and hobbies but also having your own space is important too! I would love to listen to you talk about your interests!

Need you to be ok with guns being around. I enjoy guns and they let me keep the evils in this world away from you! I don't expect you to go shooting or involve yourself with them if you don't want to but you need to be ok with them being around

It's been a dream of mine to one day move out to a rural part of the country/ state, maybe even into the mountains and live somewhat off the grid. Keeping modern amenities close like good internet and having stores that are not super far away. So hopefully you have a similar goal in mind!

If you think we are a match, send me a message telling me about you! What are your hobbies? What kind of foods do you like? What kind of music do you like? What about my post made you want to message me?

Hi! I'm from the DC area and I'm looking for a strict or dominant mommy to regress me a large amount of the time. I struggle getting into little mode on my own and would like to spend more time exploring it with someone else. I've made a lot of progress in accepting it but still find it easier with someone giving guidance or instruction. I'd like to begin online but am open to meeting in person if we hit it off! Looking for a mommy to control diaper use, bedtime, punishments, coloring or workbook time, that sort of thing (I'm open to explore)

I'm 5'11" 160 lbs and Big me loves sports, working out, some video games, nutrition, making jokes, a wide range of movies and tv shows, and lots of reading about literally any topic that interests me (lots of esoteric topics covering all sorts of fields) if any of this appeals feel free to msg me and see if we click!! I hope you have a great day!

Hi, I am 20M. I am 160 pounds. I have brown hair and brown eyes. I am looking for a Daddy or a brother to look after and cuddle me for a really long time. I love to watch bluey and play games, video, board, or cards. As well as hikes. Feel free to message me.

Hi all! As the title suggests, I'm looking for a long-term partner 💕

I'm currently a college student majoring in Computer Science, who also works in tech. I love spending time by the the lake, going on walks, seeing musicals and plays, trying new foods around the city, and finding all the little tidbits of joy in the most unexpected places 💫

With friends or a long term partner, I value communication, authenticity, and consistency. I'd love to find fun events to go to around the city, or have a chill night in. I always love learning new board games or starting up a DnD campaign!

In a long-term partner, I'm hoping find someone monogamous and childfree, who has similar long-term goals. I'm a very affectionate person, with quality time and physical touch being my main love languages.

On the kinky side, I'm 99% sub/little/kitten once enough trust is developed in the relationship 💖 I'm super snuggly, and value intimacy (both sexual and non-sexual) alot with a partner.

If you're interested, I'd love to talk! Feel free to message me 😊

Also feel free to share a spot around the city you'd love to go to, and who knows, maybe we will in the near future 💖🤞

Not entirely 37 (that's in a couple weeks but close enough that's what I'm listing). I live in Pennsylvania, and my ultimate dream would be a pack family. With a mommy and daddy who are together. Would love a "sibling" too.

Dm me if this sounds like fun and I'll go into this a lot more, as much as you would like if you wanna hear more.

Hi I'm Sammie a 31 year old babygirl. I am 5'6 BBW with a big booty and hips blue eyes and blonde hair. I just got dumped by my Daddy so I am currently single and searching for my forever person. I am a single mom of 5 kids so just putting that out there. I don't drive and suffer from mental health issues so I understand if that's a deal breaker. I am super sweet and loving. I will do anything for the person I'm with. I want someone who loves to communicate like texting whenever they can and swapping pictures. So there is a brief look at me message if you want to know more.

Im kinda lonely, you know. Dating apps don't work for me, because noone seems to look for a man that just wants a hug from time to time. I would like to meet a cute girl in my agerange that likes to have a bigger "brother" to play and cuddle. I see myself as a second or third grader that can't be bothered with going to the potty, so forgets a bunch of times. Maybe I am a bit jelous because you are still allowed to wear your Pampers. Not fair

Hello,

I am a 22 yr old M sissy in uni is Wisconsin. I am looking for a dominant cg to own and control me. I wear 24/7 and just want to please you. Can't wait to chat.

Hey! DMs open :)

My name is Lin, I’m a 22 TF from Europe. I’m looking for a CG, any is welcome. I do content creation! I’m not a baby 24/7 but I do like diapers (DL mostly).

My limits are blood, vore, messing.

Hi, I'm a very fem little from Denmark who's really in desperate need of a daddy or mommy to humiliate me, and make sure, possibly by blackmailing me, that I wear my diapers.

Im open to both something online, or in person, although in person would definitely be amazing :)

If any of this interests you feel free to comment or dm me 💕

I look forward to hearing from you

Down to just chat, let me know your favorite Green Day song 🤘