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19 [f4a] #online want ur typical daddy dom

hiii !!

im rlly strict w what im looking for, so pls dont reach out if it doesnt sound like u !! hard limit is that i dont want a dom older than 22, im rlly interested in a fwb dynamic and i think it would be hard to connect w someone significantly older. i need a connection to be into someone, so be willing to talk to me for a bit before any sort of dynamic develops. i like praise and daddy doms, but im flexible w what the dynamic can look like. other than that, i like geeky/nerdy guys w nice raspy voices, smooth talkers and good at flirting. if we get along we can discuss kinks n stuff. im not interested in exchanging pics, but if it matters, im more tomboy looking w short hair and the way i dress, but im short and more fem w the way i act. some more ab me is that im an art student, i like reading a lot n playing videogames, anime n movies. im a total sub, and like whatever my partner's into, tho ive been told i can be kinda bratty. dm me ab yourself and what u like to do !!! hobbies n interests yk !! n tell me ur birthday so i know youve read this far lmao

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2024/12/25
17:46 UTC

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37 [M4F] #London, Ontario (ON) - Daddy Dom looking for a clingy/needy sub - LTR

Hello, I’m looking for a girl that wants someone that is Dominant, committed, loyal (Monogamous), caring and affectionate. I like a girl that can be needy & clingy of her man and likes to give him lots of attention, and of course kinky and fetish friendly.

I have a good career in the government, I drive a car and have my own place. I don’t party (except the occasional drink), smoke or do drugs. I have a beautiful GSD pup 🐶, blah blah blah lol.

I am not looking to jump in bed with just anyone, I do like a connection with the right person as I’m also Demisexual.

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2024/12/25
17:36 UTC

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43 [M4F] #Online - Seeking like minded kinkster

Hey, I’m a kinky 43 year old male from the UK who’s been into kink for years. I enjoy topping and bottoming, more pleasure with play with control, so if you switch then extra points!. Active in the scene and looking to find a genuine like minded individual for teasing and fun, though has potential to grow a friendship to have the best of both. If I sound your cup of tea (British I know), please do cum say hello!

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2024/12/25
17:29 UTC

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32 [M4F] #Online #US Dom looking for submissive woman to educate and play with.

Welcome, darling.

I have a HUGE voice Kink.

Meaning I'm very good at voice sex.

About me:

I've been a Dom - Daddy - Master - Owner for 9 years.

I don't drink, or smoke.

I'm 5"11 (180 cms), slim athletic body (play lots of sports), black hair, full black beard, big hands and very well endowed.

I'm 32, with a very high sex drive and a passion for showing off.

Structured, disciplined and playful man here.

I love good conversation with a curious woman.

I like pretty girls who are fit. I tend to enjoy them better and they tend to enjoy themselves more with me.

You and I will figure out, through exploring each other what kind of relationship we'll built together.

Shall we explore each other, my dear?

https://vocaroo.com/1gjYUDxvdIRO

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2024/12/25
17:24 UTC

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30 [M4F] #Japan - Anyone active in Japan?

Hi!
I haven't had any luck with apps so I am giving reddit a shot!

For some reason the scene in Japan feels a little underwhelming for foreigners, but I still hope I can find someone that is interested in talking and sharing experiences or more.

I am average build, 30years old, half japanese and very kinky(hopefully so are you) and would like to meet/talk to other kinky people in the area!

Send me a message! Tell me a story! Ask me anything!

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2024/12/25
17:23 UTC

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35 [M4F] #NYC/NJ/CT - For Christmas, pick your favorite CNC gift. Stalker? Abduction? Date rape? Daddy forcing himself on you? (IRL only)

What were looking for? What's in the darkest part of your heart?

To be the unfortunate victim during a break in? Maybe I want to take more than just the jewelry on your dresser? Your curves are calling out to me and all you wear is a pair of panties before you go to sleep? You were asking for it.

How after about a night of wining and dining, you decide to be a stuck-up bitch and not give up any. Not fucking happen, now I take all of your holes. Date rape is needed.

Perhaps daddy can't resist his baby girl prancing around the house like a little fucking whore. You should've worn more appropriate clothes instead of dressing up like a prostitute.

You could be trying to climb the corporate ladder, but there's only one true obstacle to climb... your boss's fat cock. Satisfy it and you can get a promotion. If you don't, say goodbye to your job.

Maybe I've been stalking you since you were so nice to me and you had such a sexy body. I couldn't take it anymore and needed to get my thick cock satisfied.

Come message me, we'll make this perfect.

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2024/12/25
17:17 UTC

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26 [NB4F] #Seattle #Washington #westcoast #online | looking for a good girl I can spoil, punish, and tie up

Basic about me: 6’2, medium-long brown hair, hazel eyes, chubby but actively working on losing weight and getting in shape. I use they/them pronouns but was amab so I have a dick and look rather masculine.

The Bio: I went to school for film and television production and worked in Hollywood as a health and safety coordinator for a show up until the WGA and SAG strikes closed down the industry. With this shutdown, I shifted careers and I currently live in a remote mountain town in Northern Washington, a couple hours outside Seattle, and now work in the outdoor and environmental education world with hopes of being a documentarian about environmental issues!

Art is very important to me and I’ve been told very often I am a pedantic hippie who spends too much time trying to figure out life’s big questions. I love philosophy, artistic expression, radical thinking, and people who question the world around them with curiosity and wonder. In the center of all of this is a deep admiration for love and joy and i need someone else who can view the world through a similar lens with me. Enjoyment, community, love, and indulgence are central tenets to my worldview (although it has not been an easy road getting to this point). I want someone who can share in life’s pleasures with me and wants to live life looking for the best in the world and embrace lessons learned from the worst.

Life has so many colors and shades of emotion, I embrace them all and let myself feel them. If you want a traditional male stoic, I am not he.

The Kink: I do not enjoy TPE or having a dominant dynamic at all times, so if you’re looking for a 100% TPE dynamic, I am unable to provide. I am looking for an equal partner in life with whom we can each explore both our sexual kinks and identities, but also our intimate and personal identities as well. I am more dominant when it comes to sex and do enjoy the typical dom/sub dynamic in the bedroom, I just like having the comfort of being able to split emotional labor equally in all other aspects of life outside of the bedroom. If you’re strong and independent, but enjoy some unbalanced power play occasionally, this would work wonderfully.

Who am I looking for? Someone with hopes and dreams and an endless imagination. I want to support my partner in becoming the best version of themselves they can be and want someone who wants the same for me. I want someone with their own likes and desires and is largely independent, but someone who will grow and learn with me. I want to be close, intimate, and genuine, while not becoming totally codependent. I want you to have a dream for yourself and I want to help support you obtain that dream and more. I am not looking for my other half, I am looking for another full soul so we can both experience this world through different eyes.

Communication, honestly, transparency, and vulnerability are the qualities I cherish most and the most important qualities I look for in a match

More specific kinks: im into a lot and for the most part always down to try anything once. Here are my most prevalent, but none are hard needs and everything, of course, must be discussed beforehand to make sure we’re both enthusiastically consensual: bondage, orgasm denial, edging, pegging, sensory deprivation, sensual overload, free use, public play, some ddlg, role playing, cnc, pain play, and lots of toys

I hope something in that stood out to you, and if so you feel like reaching out! Message me however you choose, thank you for reading this far!

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2024/12/25
17:15 UTC

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25 [M4F] #online #Spain Sub boy looking for a dominant woman

Hello, and thank you for taking the time to read my message.

I’m a 25-year-old submissive man who is genuinely seeking a strong, confident, and caring woman to guide and lead me in a meaningful and fulfilling relationship. I deeply respect the dynamic of female dominance and wish to build a connection based on trust, communication, and mutual understanding.

A bit about me:

  • I’m kind-hearted, loyal, and eager to please.
  • I value emotional and intellectual connection as much as I do the unique dynamic of a D/s relationship.
  • Outside of this, I enjoy hobbies such as reading, fitness, and exploring new interests, and I’m always open to learning and growing both personally and within the relationship.

What I’m looking for is a woman who knows what she wants, values honesty, and is willing to explore or establish a dominant/submissive dynamic together. I am here to serve, support, and cherish, and I understand that submission is a gift to be given, not taken lightly.

About my kinks, i'm into orgasm control, joi, edging and prostate massage. About my limits, i do not like cei and humilliation/degradation.

If you feel a spark of interest or would like to know more about me, I’d be thrilled to hear from you. Thank you for your time, and I hope we may have the chance to connect!

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2024/12/25
17:15 UTC

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18 [M4F] #germany #online young sub eager to please a dominant women M4F

I am from germany and an inexperienced sub looking for my long term dominant women.

About me, I am 180cm tall rather skinny and around 65kg. I have mid long blonde hair. I am willing to send pics and can verify and I am a big fan of video and normal calls as well. Normally I am clean shaven and my body isn’t to manly and my dick is average size.

Most of my time I either spent in school as a student or playing video games and reading books. As a student I have time most of the day so we can easily work out good timings.

I am looking for any kind of dominant women within europe. You should be between 18 and 35 you can either be gentle or strict I don’t really mind.

My kinks are giving up control as well as any sort of humiliation and degradation. Cbt edging and cum play are kinks of me as well.

My limits are ass play scat piss illegal things and anything causing permanent harm

As for your kinks it would be nice if some of them align with mine and I am for sure willing to try new things out.

Text me your asl your kinks and describe yourself. I would appreciate a picture but it isn’t required. I hope to hear from a lot of you. Tell me your favourite TV series to start.

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2024/12/25
17:15 UTC

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63 [M4F] #Los Angeles - Older Dominant seeks sub girl.

More of a Daddy Dominant than Master but Master traits as well. Very open minded with few limits. Hope you’re the same. I’m seeking local, surrounding area and anyone who may be relocatable. I want to have the type of dynamic where I pretty much know what’s in your head before it comes out of your mouth. To know you that well. I do not care about age, body type, race, experienced or not experienced. The main thing is that open mindedness and put your heart and soul into it. I have the traits of mentor, caring, rock to be leaned on, champion you, disciplinarian. I can be as dirty, naughty, fun as you’d like. Not much I will not do for someone who’s puts trust in me as I do them.

Things I’m heavy into but not deal breakers:

Daddy/girl Free use Sharing

If you’re interested, remotely interested let’s chat and see where it goes!

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2024/12/25
17:12 UTC

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18 [F4M] #online make my wish come true and have Two friends or brothers or son or dad and HMU!! I want a guy or guys/ friends I can control and make them do whatever I want!! MUST HAVE SN@P and into forcebi

HMU u must SHOW F@CE and have sn@p and do whatever I want! Must be willing to do stuff with other guys and be into anything freaky! I am extreme! I'm very GOOD LOOKING I promise and you won't regret doing what I ask! Be a good boy and HMU! I'm fun and want a hot fit guy! IF U CANT GET ANYONE TO JOIN DONT EVEN HMU don't waste my time pls

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2024/12/25
17:00 UTC

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40 [M4F] #Minneapolis - 40 Year Old Freshman

Merry Christmas ladies,

I’m 6’, bearded, long-haired, 40 and finally pursuing my educational dreams. Economically speaking, I’ve been better off. I guess I’m a bit of a long-game, but I’m worth it. I have a hell of a backstory. I’m a reader, writer, and guitar player. I love yoga, meditation, horror, punk, and all sorts of other eclectic things. I’m a political junkie (pretty damn left), a science, history, and occult nerd. I think I have a bit of a Teacher Daddy vibe.

In fact… ask me about my sex school contract idea. 😏

I have two kittens and am likely to be in need of a new studio apartment where it’s full of kittens and litterboxes while I’m doing my college homework. I know I’m not painting the most attractive picture here, but there are pictures and videos on my profile that might help. Drop into my chat if you’re intrigued.

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2024/12/25
16:52 UTC

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26 [M4F] #Online - I want you to be scared of me.

Warning: By Clicking on and Reading the following words you may find yourself getting uncontrollably aroused. If you are in public or in any way will need to have your composure for the next few hours I discourage you from reading this post any longer. You have been warned.

How long has it been since you've felt true fear. The kind that keeps you up at night. The kind that you can't shrug off now matter how hard you try. The harder you try to shirk it off, the firmer it's grasp becomes.

It's the kind of fear you feel when you see someone follow you down a deserted road. The kind you feel when you see someone who make you kneel in front of them just at a moment's notice. The fear you feel when you're helpless, incapable of running away no matter how much you wish you could.

You chase this feeling of fear quite often don't you? These are the times when you truly feel alive. You crave that feeling of being on edge when you feel when I tell you what I want from you, that feeling of anticipation as you're not sure if you'll be able to fulfill it. I want you to be scared of the consequences.

Submitting to someone can feel so liberating after all, can it not? You allow yourself to shut down your inner voice and let someone else hold the reigns, sometimes physically, sometimes metaphorically.

But those of us who understand the intricacies of this dynamic understand how a majority of the time, it is the sub which is in control, you tell yourself you're obeying because your dom/domme ordered you to. But deep down you're manipulating your dom/domme into giving you what you want through your submission.

Some desire their dom's loving care, some desire their stinging smacks.

But I'm interested in none of that, what I'm interested in is breaking your mind. Warping your ideas and influencing your thoughts so strongly that you are no longer aware which thoughts are your own and which ones were planted by me.

I am not interested in making you submit. I'm interested in using you like an object, a toy that only holds my fancy until I'm done with you and it's time to slip away. Nothing you do matters, you do it because it turns you on to be used and abused like this, not because you wish to make me happy. Because you know that to me you're nothing but a passing fancy, a stranger I just happened to stop and mold into my good little fuckdoll before unleashing her back into the world.

You see I'm very good at pushing buttons. Nothing gives me more pleasure than taking a pretty little influencer types and turn them into my personal pornstar. I can be sick and sadistic, disguised in charm and intrigue. You wont know what hit you as you're three fingers deep into your own pussy, giving me whatever I ask of you.

Reading that made you want to touch yourself didn't it? Be my guest, read this post over and over again and touch yourself until there's a puddle around your pussy and your brain is mush so that button which can connect you to me doesn't seem like such a bad idea anymore, you know it'll happen eventually, don't you?

I know you crave attention, I can give it to you. I know you crave abuse, I can give it to you. I know you crave humiliation, I can give it to you. I am also into TPE, I can make sure everything about your day is controlled by me, should you wish for it to be.

Question is, what can you give me?

There will be no real harm of course, no negative consequences, I'm a twisted man, but not a monster, but the question is how far do you see yourself going, how far do you think you can be made to go?

So if you're looking to 'be talked into doing something reckless' then message me and tell me what you look like, tell me how old you are and you want me to do to you and touch your aching wet pussy (yes, I know it is) as you type each word.

This is how I intend to make you feel. By the time you're done reading this post, I want you to be afraid of messaging me. Once you inevitably do, I want you to be scared to see if I have responded. Checking your phone every few seconds just to see if I've taken interest in you.

I can assure you, messaging me wouldn't be the most reckless thing you'll do today.

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2024/12/25
16:49 UTC

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25[M4F]#Netherlands / Europe experienced master looking for a girl to train. All experience levels are allowed

Hello love, I'm a 25 year old Master from the Netherlands looking for a girl to train, any experience level is welcome.

If you're looking for a master to teach you about kinks, explore the ones you're into or might be into and be taught how to behave like a proper good sub, I'm definitely the master for you.

A little about me and my kinks, to start with my kinks I mainly love: Degradation,humiliation, bondage, bdsm, cum denial, master/sub play and more.

If this interests you send me a message with at least you're age and where you're from

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2024/12/25
16:44 UTC

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22 [F4M] #online need help with exploring

Deleted my first post cuz it was removed…

To start off, im 5’3, tanned skin, kinda fit, dark brown hair, small chest (AA probably lol). The chest part is actually the one i wanted to add since i want yall to not expect sth huge lol.

I dont have much experience, but i have quite a lot of fantasies. Im not that good in dirty talking and stuff. Sooo, Im into edging/orgasm control, riding my pillow, i really like it when a guy makes me beg just to let me cum or sth like that haha, make me do sth, and hoping to learn more about the other kinks that i can do (?) 😝

Btw i prefer someone olderrrr and it’d be nice if you can show some too sometimes 🤭

As for privacy, i wont be showing my face or anything that could give off my identity. Let’s respect each other when it comes to this.

I also have a specific time to do stuff, preferably when no one’s here or at night…

Idk if this is too much, but im looking forward to this 😋

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2024/12/25
16:32 UTC

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25 [M4F] #NewEngland Virgin looking to get pegged/dommed

The inexperienced me is looking to please you, a beautiful woman.

Basic details about me is that I'm 180 5'11" long hair blue eyes and white. Been a bit sheltered and introverted but ready to take on the world of pleasure (and you).

What I'd like is a brief description of what you'd like me to do to please you and the rewards I can expect to motivate me to do my best work. Willing to travel most New England but I'm located in CT.

Once we get a little more trust built I'd love to submit myself to you.

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2024/12/25
16:23 UTC

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25 [M4F] #Online - Looking for an attention seeking Sub to have a kinky dynamic with.

Starting this by talking about me, let me write a brief premise. I do not want to make fun of anyone, hurt anyone, make anyone waste their time. I am extremely genuine, well-mannered and brutally honest. Think about me as some sort of online gentleman, but very kinky. The thing is I won't "jump" on you just because I'm kinky. I want a real interest to be between us, and the only way to do so is by knowing each other. I don't want to sound too formal, because I'm also extremely easy-going and friendly. With that said, I am an European gentle Dominant that has been doing this for the last three years with some breaks in between. No, the fact I call myself gentle Dom does not mean I'm soft. My true dominant side comes out on sexual aspects and most of my pleasure comes from having control. Maybe that's why my favourite kinks are Free use and CNC. I love the idea of giving tasks, rules and punishments. It is also very important to say I am a very reasonable person: I am not looking to go against limits, common decency, exposing, illegal stuff and most importantly, always feeling comfortable together. The fact you give me control does not mean I'm looking to break your life. On top of that, as any sort of BDSM dynamic should be, we would have safewords. More than one actually, depending on the reasons and comfort, but I'd rather explain this in private with those of you more interested. For what concerns other aspects of me, I lean towards demi-sexuality. That means emotional connection and mental attraction do a lot to me, and that's why I'm looking for an online dynamic (that could possibly move to in person, but just online at first). I have been told I am handsome. But I do realize beauty/attraction are very subjective. It is important that, at some point (NOT RIGHT AWAY) both of us will feel comfortable trading validation/verification pictures. Completely SFW, of course.

And what am I looking for? A kinky dynamic. Let me explain what I mean. Starting with its name, I prefer calling it dynamic over relationship because dynamic to me feels less vanilla and more focussed on BDSM aspects. This won't be a simple relationship because I'm looking to involve rules and overall control over your (sexual) choices. Despite me being a very sexual person, I don't want just sex. The goal is to build a solid connection between us and being able to open up, trust each other more, show our true colours and of course having fun together. I do not expect anything right off the bat but I want small steps to be taken together. Then as I've said before, the "kinky part" is entirely around the idea of teasing and attention giving: I want to spoil you with attention because I really crave you. I want you because you are beautiful to me, I want to talk to you because I really feel delighted to. Eventually, that's the goal.

Who am I looking for? Well, let's say everyone is welcome. But that does not mean I'm going to have an harem of partners. What I'm trying to say is you shouldn't really be worried about your past experiences, your fears, your limits nor about anything else. If you read this topic, find it interesting, think you want something similar, then just get in touch. The only way to understand if this will work, is just by talking to together. Maybe this is the only requirement I consider mandatory in my possible little/sub: being open to communication. From my experience I had people expecting a BDSM dynamic to work without communicating at all, actually getting bored of discussing about how things will work.If you think talking a lot will be boring, I am afraid I won't be your person. But if you enjoy the idea of truly understanding each other and what we will end up doing together, this will work like a charm. It is also very important to mention I am not looking to build my sub: I am very kinky friendly so I'm open to try your fantasies as well, but I won't try to force you into anything at all. I want you to be yourself. And if you are a sweet, gentle, submissive little girl who enjoys being spoiled with praising and attention, that will be even better.

Last but not least, little side. To me, little sides are not sexual. If you have a little side I am completely open to understand your personal preferences. Overall, outside of sexual/kinky aspects I am a caregiver. My idea on how to approach a little side is mostly about guidance and nurturing. This will be something else we can discuss private, eventually.

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2024/12/25
16:16 UTC

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24 [M4F] #stl #st.louis Seeking a Female Play Partner for a Sexual D/s Dynamic

Seeking a Female Play Partner for a Sexual D/s Dynamic Hello, I'm Jay, a 24-year-old Dominant with four years of experience in the lifestyle, based in St. Louis. I'm looking for a female play partner, aged 19-35, who's eager to explore a fulfilling sexual D/s dynamic. My interests include impact play, CNC (Consensual Non-Consent), and TPE (Total Power Exchange).

What I Offer: • A confident and experienced Dom who values trust, safety, and open communication. • A dynamic built on mutual respect, clear boundaries, and a shared desire to explore and grow within the lifestyle. • Intense and rewarding scenes tailored to both our needs, with a focus on connection and satisfaction.

What I'm Looking For: • A submissive or bottom who enjoys impact play, power exchange, and CNC in a safe, consensual environment. Someone reliable, open-minded, and willing to build a dynamic centered around exploration, trust, and mutual pleasure. If this resonates with you, let's connect. I'm happy to chat, discuss boundaries, and explore the possibilities together. Looking forward to hearing from you, -Jay

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2024/12/25
16:16 UTC

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28 [M4M] #USA #IRL. Slave for longterm Master.

28 white twink slave from the Eastern US, looking for a Master to serve for the longterm.

Into many kinks, willing to explore new ones all the time, and a few limits as well that I’d be happy to share those lists in DMs. I am hoping to build a longterm Tpe dynamic, slowly building trust and giving up control over parts of my life to you until I become your mindless slave needing your commands and permission. I am available throughout the entire day to chat, serve and worship my future Master and I will give clear and timely heads up if I will be unavailable for an extended period of time. Obedience, loyalty and communication are my #1 priority.

Eventually I would like to build a friendship/relationship that extends beyond kink and have many other interests including things like gaming, photography, travel, music, working out, business, etc. The deeper our connection the more willing I’ll be to give up full control and explore things like financial control, being tracked when I’m unavailable and asking for permission to go out of the house, being humiliated, etc.

Dm me and let me know if you’re interested in a longterm slave, how best I can serve you and any questions you need me to answer.

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2024/12/25
16:05 UTC

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36 [M4F] #online #UK. Your TPE owner for one day. (Of indulgence)

This offer is just for one day for a lonely Christmas slut.

Over this day.

Grip your throat and start rubbing your cunt.

I control what you eat, when you pee, when you rub, what you do, make you edge melt, surrender completely to my whims and wills for the remainder of the day.

Must be female, must be average or less in weight.

Must be exhibitionistic though this is mostly mindfuck control.

Message with your favourite fruit and your tits out with three fingers up .

Yes it's gratuitous and it's good for you

Only one slut gets this for today.

Best slut gets this

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2024/12/25
15:58 UTC

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24 [M4F] #Georgia #Anywhere Dom looking for special sub or little to give the world to

I’m not sure what it says about either of us that we’re on this subreddit in the Christmas season, but I like to think it only means we know what this season is meant to be about, and we’re looking to find it.

While I’ve had my fair share of wild/exotic/rough kinks, I don’t really care about them anymore. I’m not sure if I truly even belong here anymore as it seems, as I’ve gotten older I don’t want the fun, new exciting thing from a random who messages me and talks to me for a night. I want the slow burn, the get to know more and more of you, and be with someone long term.

I’d describe myself as more of a daddy dom. I have experience with both subs and littles, tho certain types of littles (the ones who it just somewhat naturally permeates through every conversation) seem to have my heart the most. I can’t promise you’ll have all the glitz and glam of a sadist, but I’ll punish where needed, build up and tear down when the. times call for it.

I am mostly into the realm of mental domination it seems most days. finding out what makes you tick, what you care about, etc. I never seem to use it against someone nowadays, but I think having that power alone can make some people feel something.

I don’t take any part of a dynamic lightly. If you want to talk with me, don’t come out of desperation, or thinking I’ll be something I’ve explicitly said I’m not. Loyalty is the most important thing in the world to me. If i can’t trust you, I don’t want you. And if you can’t trust me, you don’t want me.

I’d hope that in a dynamic with myself you’d feel the love you long for. You’d feel alive, refreshed, and able to know, no matter what may come your way, you’ll always have someone in your corner. I don’t do this out of pleasure or thrill seeking, but out of conviction it may be one of the few places I can truly find someone willing to meet me in the hard parts of life.

I hope you’ll join me for the journey. If you do, I’ll explain all the kinks and things of that nature to you in the chat we can have. If not, happy searching.

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2024/12/25
15:57 UTC

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52 [M4F] #Maryland #Virginia #WashingtonDC ISO self aware submissive for LTR D/s - CNC based relationship

--Be relatively local to Maryland, DC, Virginia, Delaware, Pennsylvania or willing to travel in the immediate future

My goal is a long-term, monogamous D/s based relationship with self identifying submissive / slave.

To be clear, our D/s activities will be private, behind the proverbial closed doors.

I HAVE NO INTEREST IN A POLYGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP / POLARMORY.

I am experienced, detailed, strict and I enjoy my proclivities. My expectations will be clear, when those are not met, reinforcement training through punishment will be direct.

Full disclosure; Tears make my cock swell.

Creative Humiliation for a Helpless Cumrag

The partner I seek will have the following interests:

CNC

Strong Degradation / Humiliation

Superiority/Consensual Misogyny

Aggressive Affection

Anal (Plugs, Toys)

Being Owned

Being Physically Overpowered/Shoved/Pushed/Held Down

Bondage (Ropes, Chains, Collars, Light/Heavy, Etc)

Bondage/Restraints

Breathplay

Breeding

Clothing Control

Cockwarming

Distracted Sex

Facefucking

Fisting

Forced Orgasm & Forced Oral

Forced Use Of Toys

Free Use

Gags

Hair Pulling & Biting

Masochism/Pain Play (Especially Impact - Canes, Paddles, Straps, Etc)

Mental Mindfuckery

Nipple/Breast Bondage

Objectification

Petplay

Primal & Outdoor Scenes

Punishment

Rimming

Rituals

Roleplay - Abduction, Home Invasion, Date Rape, Pervy Boss, Etc

Secluded Outdoor Scenes

Sensory Deprivation

Spanking / Flogging / Caning

Threats

Throat And Ass Training

Verbal Degradation

Watersports

Worship

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2024/12/25
15:52 UTC

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23 [FM4M] #Italy #Anywhere - We're looking for a long-term Bull to fuck my gf and humiliate me

I'm a cuck without much experience, and I'm looking for a long-term Bull who can fuck my gf as he pleases. We're located in Italy but if you're interested and you can come to us, the travel costs are on us, or MAYBE we can travel to you

If you're interested, we'd like to know your stats, which means the size, duration and age of course

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2024/12/25
15:52 UTC

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30 [M4F] #Uk #online Daddy/Dom looking for a submissive to connect with

Nice to meet you! I'm an experienced daddy dom figure looking to find a new dynamic with a submissive woman. I'm happy with any level of experience and to go at your pace, so if you're a nervous first timer or a long time kinkster then I'd love to chat and see how we get on!

My ideal dynamic isn't just sexual all the time, I'd rather we get to know each other and have something more fulfilling. I can be cheeky and playful then empathetic and patient the next. I've alot of care to give both in and out the bedroom

Im open to trying anything once. The most important thing in these types of relationships is connection. If we understand each other well and we will see what where it leads to.

Outside the bedroom I love to learn new things. I love team sports and video games and I am a geek. I'm a decent cook and a big animal lover. Hope to hear from you!

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2024/12/25
15:49 UTC

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26 [M4A] #Ohio/Anywhere - Unleash your inner desires, a kink at a time.

Note: Generally, I prefer feminine partners, whether they're men or women is irrelevant as long as they're feminine. Please provide detailed replies! One liners will be ignored.


Kink is wonderful, isn't it?

I've been around the bit for quite awhile. Having studied psychologically the ins and outs of sex for years, I doubled down with a renewed focus on my partners. Delving into fantasies, propelling corruption, and working to better a sexual dynamic that adheres to a firm dynamic of submission against dominance.

What I'm looking for is my long-term best friend, partner, and twisted whore.

Anyways. That's a small tidbit, but I've got something better formatted.


What's my Age?: Twenty-Six.

Where am I located?: Ohio!

Why'd I make this post?: The truth is simple. My goal is to find both my best friend, and someone who will work with, and adhere to a dynamic. I'm a firm but fair dominant, one that outlines rules, implements a tally system for taming brats, and strives to ensure that my partner's needs are met.

What's my Fatal-Flaw?: I'm loyal to a fault. It's screwed me over a bit in the past, but I've since worked to correct it. Nonetheless, I stick my neck out for those I've grown to care for.

How about some kinks?: Alright, let's line 'em up!

  • Corruption: We've all got fantasies, some more than others. Many are those we're too afraid to tell for fear of judgment. I delve into the psyche through play, using a mixture of detailed physical stimuli with verbal instructions to unearth what's locked up, watch it balloon, and trigger orgasms that'll ripple right through the core.

  • Rough-Play. I'm extremely rough-house by any standards. Whilst I can easily work with and conform to my partner's limits, I dislike vanilla sex. I love spontaneity. Walking through a hotel door to kick it aside, pin you against the doorway, and force you to splash your juices around my fingertips. Whips, marks, spankings, scratching, you name it - I'm into it.

  • Edge-Play - 90% of my partners of the past were brats. As such, we figure out ways to dole out punishments for misbehavior. Edging is one of them. I've got no issue holding you down, working your clit for 6 hours straight, and practically sending you into a stutter from the sheer weight of an explosive orgasm that happens post-frustration.

  • Daddy-Domming: Despite the rough demeanor, I have a softer side. Telling someone they've behaved, that they're a good girl. Working to enforce that dynamic of a safe space, it's something I really enjoy as it's a broader intimacy.

  • Aftercare: This is automatic. Regardless of how soft or intense a session is, I'm going to work tirelessly to ensure you're comforted after the fact. Oils on the ass over welts, massages, and gentle cuddling. It's part of the play, and part of the relationship.

  • Breeding: With birth control, of course. There's nothing quite as connecting as shooting every shot tightly into your partner whilst it triggers their own orgasm. Wouldn't you say?


What's your career?: Currently, I work in the information technology field for tax software. I'm still quite passionate about what I do, but my long-term goal is to create a self-sustainable income from my normal writing endeavors, which include those of someone about to be published.

Lastly, what are some random fun facts about you?: Lining them up!

  • I'm credited in a critically acclaimed video game.

  • My friends find me weird for adoring cottage cheese.

  • I'm an avid dog lover who has a pitty-girl that's a rescue!

  • Lastly, I can spend an entire night talking about anything at random, especially if a friend needs a distraction.


Anyways. It's been fun. I'd love to get to know you, so feel free to send me a message! Take care, and have a wonderful week!

~Zach

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2024/12/25
15:45 UTC

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25 [M4F] #online #germany Dom looking for a longterm dynamic

Hey there! I'm a 25-year-old Dom searching for a sub to establish an online D/s dynamic. If we connect well and live near each other, I'm open to meeting in real life after some time.

What You Can Expect

As my sub, you'll receive tasks that fit your limits and lifestyle (e.g. availability, access to toys, etc.). Your efforts on the given task will determine whether you earn rewards or face punishments. I also enjoy establishing recurring rituals to add structure to our dynamic.

Communication is a cornerstone for me. I need someone who can express their feelings, set boundaries, and share if something feels overwhelming.
While I strive for dominance, I’m also a caring Dom. I’ll regularly check in on how you’re feeling, even during sessions, and aftercare is a must for me. Whether we’re in a session or not, I’ll make sure you feel supported and never left alone (especially after a session). This is especially important for beginners since it’s all about creating a safe and enjoyable experience for both of us.

I guess you are curious about the specific tasks that you can expect, right?
So I as mentioned above it hardly depends on the circumstances but I will give you a few examples. You will edge a few times while standing in front of a mirror and maybe you can cum, but you will never know when or if you are allowed. Another example would be walking outside with a plug or dildo under your clothes that I chose for you (if it matches your limits). This is just to give you an idea about where this is going.

For me it is totally fine if you need some time for sharing pics, just let me know about it. We can discuss those details in a DM.

Limits & Boundaries

Hard limits include:
scat, needles, blood, vomit, or anything illegal.

A Little About Me

Outside of BDSM, I work in a large IT company in Europe (I'm not a programmer or something like that). I have a slim stature and prefer to share more details in DMs after some time for obvious reasons.

This dynamic isn’t just about BDSM for me. I’d love to also share casual conversations—whether it’s chatting about your day or exploring common interests, I value a well-rounded connection.

Bonus Points If You

  • Live in Europe
  • Are between 18 and 30 years old
  • Have some toys available

Reach Out

If this resonates with you, send me a message with a short introduction about yourself. It doesn’t have to be formal, just enough to get the conversation started and avoid it feeling like an interview.

Looking forward to hearing from you! 😊

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2024/12/25
15:37 UTC

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24 [F4M] #anywhere cum/piss in my eyes and nose and abuse me

Into extreme rough abuse. I wanna have your piss and cum in my eyes and nose. Make me vomit or drink liters of your piss and cum. Into insertions and brutally stretching my holes. Even my pisshole or cervix. Only text me if you’re really really sadistic please. Only limit is scat, brandings and animals.

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2024/12/25
15:30 UTC

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24 [M4F] #Anywhere Versatile Switch searching for partners

Hi, I'm A and I'm a switch. I've been on and off this sub (and reddit) for about 3 years now, with varying amounts of success.

I love getting my partner off. It's my biggest kink, and I admit I probably enjoy it a little too much. As far as kinks go, I'm into most things but quite like trying out your favourites, whether they're kinky or not.

I'm always down for chatting outside of kink as well, I quite enjoy reading, writing poetry, photography, indie music, sports and watching films.

A major non negotiable from my end, the first being that aftercare is a must, it's a non negotiable. I'm also very respectful of your limits, and I do not want to make you feel uncomfortable at any point of time.

I prefer texts and voice calls. Please let me know your preference as well.

Happy Holidays!

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2024/12/25
15:18 UTC

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30[M4FM] #online #Romania - The bull (looking for couples)

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Hello everyone who reads this post, i am here for those couple who are tired to be messaged by fake “bulls/doms/whatever” who only want to focus on the lady or doesn’t know what to do and how to handle a couple. It’s not easy to be a bull, some take that very easy and end up being just a jerk to the couple. I have been the bull part of dynamics for over 5 years now. I made mistakes (i am human) but i worked them up with the couple involved. Guidelines like communication, safety, inclusion, openness etc are my “rules” of conduct while i am with a couple.

I am young, only 30 years old but i had my fair share of experiences and been through a lot of different challenges. I am looking for a couple (doesn’t have to be a proper couple, even fwb) that will allow me to continue my journey as their bull. It can be either in person or online (i do know how to make that happen). So if you are part of a couple (any age) and are willing to try with me, or curious about something you can always send me a message and i will clarify all your questions.

Have a nice day/evening or even morning !

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2024/12/25
15:13 UTC

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29 [F4M] #Midwest/Online - Christmas present idea: spit on me and tell me I’m pretty

About me: 5’7, thin, and conventionally attractive. I’m often described as quiet and sweet. I have a demanding job and in my free time I enjoy reading, cooking, and traveling. I also have a dog who’s basically always attached at my hip. I’m very, very submissive in bed. I have a high drive and lots of kinks that we can discuss in detail later on.

What I’m looking for: intelligent (and spicy) conversation. Someone to get to know on a deeper level. Someone I can laugh and flirt with. Someone who I can talk to all day and still crave more of them. I tend to favor soft/daddy doms who like to take control in and outside of the bedroom. I like being told what to do in bed and having my food ordered for me, if you catch my drift. I’m looking for someone who is confident and can take lead in every aspect.

Spicy things: I like being choked, spanked, slapped, and spit on. I’m into light degradation/humiliation, rough sex, and forced orgasms. I have a huge praise kink and love being called a good girl. I also am very into aftercare.

Interested? Say hi 🤍 please put actual effort into your message, or I might not respond. Pictures are appreciated and will be reciprocated.

** pics on profile

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2024/12/25
14:34 UTC

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