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/r/BDSMpersonals
Hi! I'm a 30 year old white submissive masochistic woman. I practice ENM. I will be dating alone.
I have piercings and tattoos, colorful hair, and green eyes. I would consider myself curvy/bbw, and I have a big butt and big boobs.
I am looking for a consistent boyfriend situation. I want to date and get to know you. I am NOT looking for hookups.
I want to be either your only partner or you sleep with me and your CONSENTING significant other (I will ask for proof).
I am looking for a dominant partner. Prefer ages 38-48, fit, 5'10 or taller. Beard and tattoos preferred but not a deal breaker.
I am looking for someone that is willing to date, take things slow, get to know me (I am demisexual). Vanilla hangouts and meetups are an absolute must. You must be willing to provide testing if asked. Don't bother messaging me if you smoke cigarettes, vape, or do hardcore drugs. I don't fuck around with that shit. 420 is cool
No racist, sexist, conservative assholes. If you like Trump I’m not the woman for you.
Hard Limits: abdl, age play, anr/abf, enemas, head shaving, hucow, human toilet, infantilism, pet play, petplay, race play, urination
Reading
Painting
Rollerblading
Hiking
Kayaking
Video Games (xbox and switch)
Rough sex
Restraints
Degradation
Praise
Free Use
CNC
And Others
One night stands
Hookups
Dick pics
I will not host.
I will consider long distance if you are willing to travel. I expect to text or talk to you daily, we can phone call, snap, or video call if need be.
As a successful businessman by day, I have a hunger for something more thrilling than the boardroom. Do you dare to indulge in my fantasies of CNC, blackmail, and light bondage?
I like to get to know you first with no strings attatched (dinner on me). If we like eachother, we agree on the D/S dynamic we want to foster. I'm not looking for a romantic connection, but a deeper connection as playmates is mandatory.
If this sounds interesting to you, please write me a message stating your favourite color (so I can see you took my post seriously).
Let's unleash our inner desires together and create a dynamic that satisfies both of us. Are you ready?"
I have been indulging bdsm and kink in general for decades, and know what I like (most anything) and what I need, which is what a lot of people would consider more niche or extreme scenes involving truly filthy degradation. If you are familiar with an online personality known as forest-whore then that aligns very well with what I gravitate toward, on the receiving end of that kind of filthy degradation.
Some specific kinks I crave are degradation in public settings (without violating the consent of others), filth/dirt covering, licking, etc., piss, spit, slapping, being whored, toilet degradation, dirty feet and shoe licking, verbal humiliation and degradation, most anything along those lines, and I very much enjoy being subjected to others' most outrageous ideas and desires.
I am MORE than happy to do or have done any and all degradation play on camera so if that's something of interest by all means consider me.
Just really need someone sick, depraved, twisted, creative, etc. to take advantage of me.
I crave deep connection and intimacy. I want a relationship with someone who makes me feel safe. I’m searching for my perfect Daddy.
Too get it out of the way: I am 5’4, curvy, have tattoos, dyed hair, and piercings. I am 25. Located in RVA.
Ideally, you are someone between the ages of 25-40, you live nearby, and you take the time to read my post.
My name is Em, and I’ve been involved in my local kink scene for a few years now. I love learning and exploring. My soft spot is definitely dd/lg.
Being little is a vulnerable act for me, and to share that with a compassionate caregiver is truly a gift. I am a non sexual little. Trust me, this doesn’t mean I don’t have sex. Lol. I prefer being little as a way to unwind and connect with my partner.
When I am little, I enjoy things such as hair brushing, story time, plushies, playing with toys, bath times, paci’s, onesies, sippy cups, and more. I like to let go and fall into the care of someone loving and secure.
Sexually, I identify as a submissive and love to be used. Rough sex is my favorite. Impact, bondage, face slapping, spitting, toys, anal, forced orgasm, and cnc are some of my likes. There is something to be said for sweet and sensual from time to time, too.
In my free time, some things I enjoy are reading, video games, crafts, kink events, tattoos, and more. I generally prefer a cozy night in, but love getting dressed up and going out when the mood strikes.
I am looking for someone who is responsible, honest, and caring. Please, let’s take the time to get to know each other. Let’s put in the work to develop something deep.
According to the movie The Crow- tonight will be Devil's Night... The perfect night for mischief, and wicked fun. I am admittedly longing for a companion in the dark, a Dom to guide my chaotic little soul, or whatever else may come along. I am restless, full of longing, and desire. That is the short version of my post.
I tend to get along with people who are "weird" or in the kink scene. People seem to be more authentically themselves. What you see is what you get (in regards to me). I don't know how to fake it, haha.
Housekeeping items: I can be pretty blunt at times, apologies in advance. I do my best to communicate, but my job is really stressful and I'm not left with a lot of "room" at the end of the day so to speak. I may go ghost for a bit, but don't fear because I will return! Messages saying only "hey" won't be answered. I am looking for someone who is at least 30+. I am looking for a long term connection of sorts. So I am not looking to rush into anything super naughty super fast. Not what you want? No problem! I won't be offended, haha.
I got into kink after reading 50 Shades of Grey (I know, I know! Please don't lecture me about it). Despite my humble beginnings, I have been fortunate enough to act out some of my fantasies in person, and a lot through RP. I also have done my research, and am smart enough to have figured out my kinks, limits, and what I do and don't like in a play partner. Currently, I am wanting someone to unlock my brain so I can become the "dumb fox" I am.
Kinks: Pet play (I'm a fox), bondage, gags, slobber, denial, edging, teasing, begging, humiliation and degradation (when done right), spreader bars, rope, muzzles, hoods, kennels, and many more. Happy to expound on any of these!
Limits: Calling me a slut, or a whore, cunt, or stupid (dik why, but they hurt my feelings). No heavily insulting my intelligence, vomiting, excessive blood/torture, bathroom stuff, or face slapping.
Vanilla likes: I like to read, write, travel when I can, cook and try new restaurants, see movies and attend plays, go to concerts, and be with my family, friends, and animals.
Happy hauntings, Halloween is almost here! 🖤🎃
36yr old handsome (so I've been told), Latino Daddy Dom in LA/IE with an athletic built. I am looking for IRL, however, open to online to build up to IRL or online-only in certain situations. I'm known for having a more loving, affectionate and sensual approach but can also be cruel and stern when needed. I can be soft or assertive, I can be inspiring or controlling, I can be nurturing or disciplinarian. It all depends on my subs needs, my wants, and of course my mood. I'm very consistent with the things I want and I'm very communicative and transparent. I talk a lot and always want to be clear and concise so I am properly understood. I'm detail oriented and thorough. I love to serve and be served and that can look like a lot of things. I have high energy and am a busy business professional. I'm Always doing something, always on the go but yet I still feel I have so much time on my hands to offer others. With that said, I expect my subs to be reasonably responsive and available. I love to teach and mentor others and get to know people deeply and build strong connections. I have plenty of pictures and snapchat to verify. I'm also on Fetlife. Open to couples as well and other unique dynamics. If you're not sure, just ask!
I do consider myself a switch and looking for a Domme to explore this realm more. If you feel up for the task, please let me know! My day to day is 100% full Dom, so the idea to let go of the reigns from time to time and be vulnerable to someone I've grown to trust is very appealing to me! I also might grant a special sub the same honor. I see it as a gift to my sub to allow them the opportunity to take care of me as I take care of them.
Full disclosure!! I am married and in an ENM/poly-ish relationship. We have an open policy! She is a great wife and is sexy! We play together with others, MFM and FMF (she is Bisexual). There is a possibility she may be brought into play if all parties agree. If not, she is aware and gives me my space to Dom others. If you're still interested in getting to know me a bit more or have any questions to ask, I'd be happy to chat some more!
Kinks: bondage, light/moderate pain, orgasm control/denial, blindfold, rough sex (hair pulling, chocking, pounding, face fucking, spitting, slapping), spanking, whips, humiliation, degrading, words of Affirmation/praise, anal, rimming, worship, cuckolding, mfm, fmf, forced bi, tpe,
Limits: anything illegal, minors, scat, vomit, blood, needles, extreme pain, permenant marking
Hey there! I’m a 28-year-old guy based in Florida looking to connect with someone interested in exploring a dynamic that’s both respectful and exciting. If you’re new to being a sub or just curious to learn, this could be a great chance to start your journey. I’m looking for someone who wants to explore this side of themselves at their own pace, with understanding and patience.
We can start online, where you can take your time to feel comfortable and discover what you’re drawn to. Over time, if there’s chemistry and mutual interest, we could talk about meeting in real life. Communication and mutual respect are top priorities for me. If you’re open to learning and discovering more about your desires, feel free to reach out!
Let’s talk and see where this goes!
Hello there, I’m looking for a sub to basically praise and control in a mild way. I like the control part a lot but not too much of the punishment part. Mayybbee a tiny bit sometimes but most of the time I like it to be nice and friendly and to praise you if you do things properly. 😊
I would like it to have a connection with you, because I think that’s trust is key. You should feel comfortable about me and I’d like to feel the same way about you.
About me: I’m 36 years old and 1.86m tall (6.1 feet). They say I’m attractive and that I have a nice / hot voice. I liv in Europe (you can try to guess the country if you are still reading). I’m relative good looking, I do exercise regularly and have full brown hair.). I like reading (mostly horror and thrillers), movies and art. I’m outgoing and easy to talk to. I’ll prove it to you 😉
Once we get to know each other a little I’m willing to share pictures and to have voice / video calls.
Hellloooo to everyone It's nice to see some cute faces reading my post. I'd really appreciate it if you would read the whole post before messaging me. A bit about myself:
I'm a dynamic 20-year-old student with a passion for exploration and creativity, eager to dive into new experiences. My adventurous spirit thrives on building innovative projects, and I have a keen interest in the world of cars, where the excitement of engineering meets the freedom of the open road.
When I'm not focused on my studies or working on the latest automotive trends, you can find me immersed in the captivating realms of gaming, where strategy and imagination come to life. My adventurous nature also extends to my personal life, as I'm exploring the intriguing world of BDSM, kinks, and fetishes.
I'm on the lookout for a submissive partner—whether a girl, femboy, or sissy—who shares my enthusiasm for adventure and discovery. With a strong emphasis on communication and consent, I aim to cultivate a dynamic relationship that harmonizes my interests in both the mechanical and the intimate.
I'm excited to connect with like-minded individuals and embark on a thrilling journey together, embracing both the excitement of the open road and the exploration of personal desires. This quest for connection, creativity, and shared experiences is what drives me forward.
Ps: If you do decide to message me please say more then just hi Tell me about yourself and make yourself stand out
hi everyone! thank you for taking the time to read my post :)
i'm a new sub with a busy life so i'm looking for something pretty casual (like weekly instead of daily). we can talk more about kinks/limits in dm/chat (i'm still trying to figure out what mine are as well as chasisty feminizations my limits). But my most loved kink is anal play.I wanna mostly do anal play for you.
if you have any questions or want to know more, please feel free to send me a message! Not:Women and trans +++
grew up in a religious household and ended developing a serious fetish for the crucifixion of Jesus and crucifixion in general. If anyone likes bondage, I would love to roleplay a Roman crucifixion with a sub (obviously not a real crucifixion as that is dangerous) If you like whipping, verbal degradation, and some bondage, I would be happy to accommodate
I value those who take my safety and comfort into consideration first and foremost.
Looking for a black guy who can help test my girlfriend. I'm afraid that she may be cheating on me with a black guy from the apartment complex that we recently moved to but I need help validating this and seeing if its just my imagination or if its really happening. I'm pretty worried about this and hoping we can discuss and figure out a way to test her and see if this is really happening. Potentially will allow it to proceed if you hit on her and she responds...don't know at this point though.
20[M4F] #online sub looking to serve a goddess
Im looking for a goddess to own me
Hey, I am a horny 20 year old submissive from jorden and I would like to entertain you for a few hours.
Chat me, if you are interested.
My biggest kinks are feet, humiliation, joi,petplay,roleplay
Hi there! Thanks for clicking on my post:) I’m a 26 year old switch who is looking to be a long term sub for someone! I have been a full time sub for a couple different people both online and irl but it’s been several months since my last owner and I am really needing a new one!:)
Main Kinks are; bondage, edging and orgasm control, hypnosis, feminization, water sports, humiliation and degradation, pegging, cum play, throat fucking, collars, leashes, public play, spanking, exhibitionism!
Only limits are scat and sounding.
Hope to hear from you dominate freaks soon;) open to both long term and short but would prefer long!
Hey there I’m new here long time lurker I’ll get right to the point I’m a 23m blonde hair blue eyes 5’8 in great shape I’m a dom looking for kinky and slutty female subs who like being put into their place as long as your 18+ feel free to DM there open all kinks welcome!
I’m 35, white, 6’2” tall, lean and lanky, handsome and hung, with long hair and beard. Artistic and creative stoner type with a dominant streak. I’m looking for a submissive woman to use as my personal ongoing oral sex toy. I’ve got a huge oral fixation and love everything from slow sensual cock worship to deep sloppy facefucking. If you’re into oral, I want to use you. No experience necessary, I love being practiced on, just a sincere desire to submit.
My ideal situation: I’m searching for a woman that legitimately gets off on giving oral pleasure, a true pleaser probably with kinks related to denial, objectification, and free use. I want to meet every 1-2 weeks on an ongoing basis. I want you to host and live in the immediate Oakland / Berkeley / east Bay Area. I’ll stop masturbating and conserve as much cum as possible for our encounters, I’ll eat a special diet and stay well hydrated to maximize semen flavor and volume. We’ll tailor our specific oral activities to our mutual preferences and your experience level. For example a more sensual session could simply be you licking and sucking and worshipping at your own pace with nice wet asmr sounds, while I ignore you and watch tv or play on my phone, you sucking me hard again inbetween loads and warming my cock with your mouth. While a more dominant session could be me mounting your face and brutally forcing my cock down your throat while holding you by a fistful of your hair while you gag and sputter and moan, occasionally pausing to let you breathe and wiping the mess off onto your face. Please let me know what you’re into, I’d love to hear your ideas and I give points for creativity and novel ideas.
Im also open to cuckold and hotwife situations too. If your wife or girlfriend is interested I’d love to use her in front of you, and I love showing off for pictures and videos. I’m very open minded about age, race, body type, gender identity and relationship status. I expect you to be vaccinated and STI free as I am.
Hello Reddit
I am your average everyday guy, if you saw me on the street you would say tall, mild to moderately handsome (up for discussion). I work a normal job with normal hours, I am looking to branch out from the average daily slog and entertain some of the daily thoughts that enter my brain and my pants! Sub / Switch guy here.
Hoping to find someone to chat with (and hopefully more) about all our deepest fantasies and who knows? Maybe bring some of those to reality.
Message me if interested. Speak soon x
Hey,
I’m here looking for a sub. I don't have a strict check list of things I'm looking for, I'm just looking to hear from anyone interested and we can chat! I don't expect to hear from anyone near me but I'm open to IRL as well as online.
We can discuss our kinks and limits in private but I'm very open so we shouldn't have any issues finding things in common and all limits will be respected. I will say one or two things I'm into are orgasm control/edging & spanking!
And to my appearance; I'm about 6 foot tall, I have long brown hair, and dark green eyes. I also have short facial hair and quite a few tattoos. All responses will be receive a reply. As long as this post is up I'm still looking.
Hope to hear from you!
30 YO M with a dad bod looking for a kinky local woman (18+, DDF, No Trans) who wants to be marched around the mall trying on slutty outfits with no panties or bra and a princess plug inserted. DM me with your ASL, a recent pic, and favorite color for more details. No experience necessary, looking for today, 100% live and legit (must be able to voice verify)
I’m Alex, a 26 year old Dom from Hampshire. I am 6’2, 100kg with a beard. I have 7 years of experience in the bdsm world, with that experience ranging from TPE to role playing scenes and everything in between.
I am looking for someone that enjoys all areas of BDSM, is willing to try out new things and someone that I can create a long term relationship with.
My top three kinks are: Rope play Orgasm control Size difference Ask me about the rest of them 😈
Limits: Scat and gore Sexualised age play, if you want an age play safe space in a sfw capacity that is fine.
My current toy collection - https://imgur.com/a/rWZuUEV
If that all sounds good so far, here’s some more about me.
I am a caring dom that takes immense pleasure in forcing endless orgasms out of my sub. I have experience with rope, leather and metal restraints as well as a range of toys as you can see from the picture. I love to draw designs on my sub’s back or butt with my whips and canes. I love to leave enough marks to the point that all you can think about for the next few days is how you were used, and more importantly how much you enjoyed it.
As for the vanilla me, I work in the cyber security industry as a technical sales engineer. But outside of work I am an avid gamer, music lover, and my own personal chef. Before jumping into the cybersecurity world I was a head chef running an award winning kitchen. On the side, I assist a large content creator who streams on twitch and YouTube to a large audience with day to day operations. Which often provides incredible opportunities to interact with millions of people from around the world.
My friends would describe me as an intelligent, honest and caring person (sometimes too honest 😂), that would go the extra mile to help a person in need.
Preferences: 18-28 years old
You get bonus points if you have/are: Tattoos Daddy issues Blue or purple hair Goth/Alt
A few things for you to consider: If you cheat, have cheated or think being unfaithful is okay in anyway, don’t message me. If you are not willing to verify with a picture, don’t message me. If you want online only permanently, don’t message me.
If you want someone that will love and care for their sub with everything they have, message me. If you want someone that will support you through all aspects of life good or bad, message me. If you want someone that will do anything to protect their sub, message me. If you’re looking for someone to explore nature, see the world and build a life together, message me.
I will provide an allowance if my sub has been good enough to earn it. I will provide a home, food and drink for my sub to live. I will provide everything that my sub will ever want for, that sub just has to make it worth while for me.
If you’ve made it this far and you like what you read, send me a message. Short messages like ‘hi’ will be met with pure sarcasm as I get a lot of messages.
If you add a picture to your message you will go to the top of the list, and you get a gold star for being a good girl.
If you’re not looking to throw yourself into something intense and serious, but crave the sort of kinship that comes with a fellow kink-driven mind, shoot me a line. A bit about yourself. See where things go.
I’m well to do, from a major city, and love the hell out of a fellow messy mind. We can get to know one another- bounce ideas, and be gone the next minute. Looking for weirdos.
Hey Reddit,
I’m a 25-year-old grad student at Brown, currently in Rhode Island for school but based in New Jersey, and I’m looking to take on a unique and intense challenge with someone who’s as interested in exploring the depth of their submission as I am in dominance.
I’m searching for a young woman (ideally under 40) with a serious submission fetish, someone who craves surrendering control and diving fully into a 24/7 Total Power Exchange (TPE) dynamic for one month. Think of it as a trial period where you give in completely and let me guide every aspect of your day-to-day, from the mundane to the intimate. It’s a chance to live the fantasy fully and explore the edges of dominance and submission in a way that’s hard to experience otherwise.
For this experience, respect and trust are crucial. We’ll set up clear boundaries and limits that we’re both comfortable with to ensure it’s safe and satisfying for both of us. If, by the end of the month, we decide we want to continue, that’s something we can discuss.
If the idea of releasing control excites you, let’s talk. We’ll go over the details, your boundaries, and any expectations you may have. This isn’t just a fantasy for me—it’s a genuine interest in building something real, at least for a time.
DM me if you’re ready to step into something intense and unforgettable.
Im a very kind, easygoing guy. Not the type to ever fight or argue. At a giant 5'4, not exactly to most intimidating guy either.
It would be fun to be the respectful guy who decides to finally give in to his baser desires and takes what he wants. I'd especially find it hot if you didn't find my type attractive :)
Physically, I am white with brown hair and brown eyes. Breathtakingly handsome.:)
Me: A woman full of passion and fire, looking for a man who can ignite even more of it in me. I'm 20 years old, and I know what I want from life: intense emotions, deep connection and a relationship where I can be myself to the fullest. I am a woman who combines traditional femininity and beauty, seemingly to any outsider. A true mixture of contradictions, my aloof demeanor hides fierce personality, my tenderness can easily be replaced by firmness, and my typical innocent voice is able to sound enchantingly powerful in a second. I'm above average in height, always look after myself and know that I have an exceptional appearance. I enjoy all things metal, horror, poetry, and several video games, to new a few of my interests.
My offer: A relationship akin to addiction, with levels of attraction being borderline dangerous. With elements of pain on the edge of pleasure, and the levels of pleasure that the word itself fails to describe. He will learn the true meaning of utter bliss, euphoria, enravishment, fervor, relaxation. Feeling of time stopping filling each shared touch and glance. It's too intense for most, and if it scares you, better close that post now.
My type: Ideally, a man over 30, with traditional values and views, strong in every way yet desiring the feeling of loss of all control in private. I happen to embody the epitome of femininity, I've been told, so it would be nice to find someone who matches that. I can hardly be interested in the physical form alone, but it is important, and I'm mainly into the dark masculine archetype who knows and feels his own power and potential and how to use them, yet only wishing it have his mind and body treated like my own personal playground. I am attracted to the darkness, the depth, the mystery, the understanding. He has to have a multifaceted personality that finds rich expression in everything he's passionate about, including his sexuality. I won't put my list kinks into this post, but will gladly share them when we talk. I know there is a person for me. And I believe that we will definitely meet. PM's are preferred.
Hoping to find that person who makes me click, and we all know it’s not easy. A little about me first, I’m dedicated professional during the day from Eastern Canada. Physically, 6’1, I’m medium build, quite fit, blue eyes and brown hair. I love to keep active and working out! I’m really looking forward to meeting a great submissive, this I know too well isn’t easy to find. Once connection is established, I’d love to discuss our kinks.Things I enjoy outside of work are boating, travelling, reading and going out with friends. I speak 2 languages, can you guess which ones? Thank you for reading my post and looking forward to hearing from you, we both don’t have anything to lose in trying to achieve that connection! I hope mine is out there, somewhere!
Hello and thanks for stopping by. My name's Ezequiel, let me tell you a bit about who I'm first on my day to day vanilla side. I'm a 26 year old, good looking, tall male. I work a lot and try to balance my free time studying, gaming, and going outside with family and friends. I consider myself a very dominant and possessive person, with some good experience in BDSM. As the title says I'm looking for someone to share a healthy Master/slave (NOT Master/sub) online dynamic. Ideally long-term.
Who I'm looking for:
A young, respectful sub, with a great desire to serve and learn new things. Always trying to improve. Masochist. You're willing to give up a lot of control in your daily life, I'm not only interested in sexual tasks, I want to know you well, your routine, your fears, likes and dislikes (they may be used against you), so we can have fun in a well established manner.
Some of my Kinks:
(Keep in mind these are not the only ones and most of them are not a must).
Rules for your daily routine and in your sexual life, it can be tasks, dares, games, etc.
Degradation, humillation, physical punishments. You need to be ok with that, for me the roles and punishments are a big part of what I want.
Slave training.
Forcefuck, gags, facefuck.
Ropes and restraints.
Denial, teasing, forced masturbation, overstim.
Toys (household items or real ones).
Anal play, training.
Cnc or tpe.
Also just so you know if it wasn't that clear, I'm very sadistic, I love pain and everything to do with it. I won't hurt you but I expect you to learn and enjoy it.
Limits:
Anything illegal, blood, scat, animals, extreme or permanent.
I won't tolerate lies or wasting my time.
You must be ok with verification, photos, videos and calls.
If you're interested send me a dm letting me know how your ideal dynamic would work.
Hi there! If you look at my name it tells a lot about me. Spanking is my main kink and I love everything to do about spanking. It’s a love language to me, good girl spankings, brat spankings and the corner time after it so I can just watch a sad girl sit in the corner and learn her lesson is amazing to me.
Aftercare is very important to me after a spanking so a good glass of cold water and lotion is always needed after a spanking. I have other things I’m into and that list is long but I wanted to get across that spanking and discipline are huge with me.
For the lady I want to talk with everyday I don’t want brain dead conversation! I can’t stand it. I want someone goofy and willing to just ask “what if a butterfly was made of butter” stupid I know but those questions make me laugh and then we just let the dumb go!
I’m a pretty active person, I love working out when I can and also a freak when it comes to sticking to a schedule so you’re being warned. I am a nerdy type as well given how athletic I am, anime is a big thing with me and I probably will never give it up.
If any of this gives you a good feeling message me a “🤖”and a detailed conversation about yourself cause imma just ignore you if you don’t follow that. Have a good one!
Fit, educated, small framed single white male who's into taking on a submissive feminine role in the bed room. I'm discreet, eager to please, friendly and DDF.
Would love to find a woman who's into submissive men, strap-ons, pussy/ass worship, panties, and would like an ongoing partner for real life encounters. Who knows? It could into something more. Novices, the simply curious and the experienced are all welcome as are all races.
Please drop me a line if you'd like to chat.
Over the past couple of years, I have been having more submissive thoughts and fantasies which I can’t understand, as I have been a Dom for the best part of 10 years.
I am seeking to understand why I am having these thoughts, to embrace them and explore further through voice, dance, video, writing and voice.
For any relationship/dynamic, the most important pillars are respect, trust, care and openness, on a mutual basis, and I would do my utmost to bring these to every experience and discussion.
Happy to receive messages and happy to send photos.
Photo of me in link: https://imgur.com/a/YYPiNrY https://imgur.com/a/YYPiNrY
Looking for a submissive woman who enjoys being dominated in the bedroom and to be used/abused as a toy for her master's pleasure. I'm only looking for in the bedroom fun only and nothing serious so ideal scenario would be you and I chill watching TV/films and then suddenly get pushed on your knees to have your holes used. Ideally the dynamic would be to have you used as a stress relief fuckdoll with you dripping with cum.
Kink wise I'm someone who wants control, I want every aspect in the bedroom to be determined by me. I love rough sex, CNC/free use, orgasm control/denial, degradation/humiliation, choking/breath play, bondage/sensory deprivation, clothes control and many more which can be discussed in private. Limits wise I'm not into anything illegal, scat, animals and blood/gore.
Physical attraction is required so prefer to exchange pics early on and if we are keen you must be able to verify. I'm of Korean background and have a slim physique with brown eyes and black hair. Ideal if you can host and will consider anyone nearby London as I have a car. PM if you are interested