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Feeling paranoid about that one night stand? Condom broke? Got some scary blood results back? Need help understanding what your labs are saying? Share your stories, concerns and questions here. Anything and everything STD related.

Please be respectful and use tact when responding to posts. Imagine if you were in OPs shoes before posting something sarcastic or rude. We were all ignorant kids at one point and Sex Ed definitely isn't great across the board in the States and some countries don't teach it at all. This is meant to be a place for users to find comfort and advice, not ridicule.

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Recently diagnosed with herpes? Check out the community at /r/herpes

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NOTE: This sub is not intended to provide medical advice (beyond suggesting that if you are worried, you should go see an MD to discuss your concerns). The sub is intended to help calm the anxiety that comes with a potential STD infection through education, awareness, and prevention techniques. If you have concerns about your health, please seek a health care provider to address the concerns you have. No subreddit's contents can replace actual medical care from a physician.

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HELP what is this? — UPDATE

I posted here yesterday because I noticed a lump on my shaft. Here is how it looks like now https://ibb.co/5KsNpWY

Here’s the link from the other post https://www.reddit.com/r/STD/s/RDMVbSuSF4

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2024/04/27
13:59 UTC

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Is STI prone to people who engage on sexual activities without a month of break?

I am curious if STI's are more prone to people who engage in sexual activities more than we usually have with different partners? Also is oral sex prone to STI?

0 Comments
2024/04/27
13:35 UTC

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21f wtff is this

Ive had unprotected sex a month ago and I just noticed this happening like yesterday? Idk how to describe it its like a white sore on the opening of my vagina? Ignore the little red pimples its from shaving.

https://ibb.co/6FbZgjJ

https://ibb.co/3S0wqJ3

0 Comments
2024/04/27
13:00 UTC

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I think I have had Chlamydia for 5 years!

For a week, I have had pain during urination. Yesterday, I went to a specialist doctor, did a urine test, and a blood test, but unfortunately, the results will only come in 5 days. In the meantime, I received an antibiotic because the doctor believes it might be Chlamydia. I have slightly high blood pressure, nausea, and a strange sensation in the pelvic area! I feel weird and very scared!

0 Comments
2024/04/27
12:22 UTC

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Fingered a women who had pimples like bump around her vagina, didn't had puss in them but looked like small projections of meat. Am I at risk? [I only fingered her]

Please help.

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2024/04/27
12:14 UTC

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Urgently

Whenever I smoke more cigarette my penis head become red . I am very worried now. I done screening 2 twice in last 18 months . All negative why is going to be happening with me . Any idea. I had a history of chlamydia in past.

0 Comments
2024/04/27
12:02 UTC

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18F Could this possibly be herpes?

Last unprotected ons 20 days ago, too drunk to remember if he had anything( I think I’m assaulted?) I have this very small thing on my lip and I know this probably isn’t anything but I’m paranoid af right now please help https://ibb.co/51Fn6Cg https://ibb.co/hsCZxn5

5 Comments
2024/04/27
11:48 UTC

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hiv at home tests accuracy

22 | F

hi guys 😭 i have taken 3 at home finger prick tests (INSTI) and they’ve all come back ‘negative’. my question is i saw that they said false negatives can be expected out of every 1,000 self tests and now im just paranoid. i will admit i have terrible health anxiety so its temporarily stopped me from getting confirmation at an actual lab (don’t worry tho ive been celibate since my last ‘exposure’)

the only blood work ive had recently was for something else and they said my blood levels were normal but WBC was a little high but nothing unusual (it’s always been a little high for me) idk if WBC and RBC can indicate HIV infection tho…

anyways, first insti test i ever preformed was just 1 and the circle for negative was dark blue and then 2 times after i tested again the 1 circle was light blue which kinda scared me and made me paranoid? but when i emailed the company they said they’re still valid so… idk

my main question is for people that have done at home tests using blood samples from your finger how accurate was it after you’ve had follow up lab work? and is INSTI a brand i can trust? i believe it’s the only self test available in North America so thats why i ordered it

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2024/04/27
11:12 UTC

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help are these herpes or something?

i am a 25m virgin suffering from despression bad anxieties and i had unprotected oral sex from a hooker like 2months ago..i took all std test after 3 weeks of contact and was cleared of everything hiv hepatitis herpes syphilis gonorrhea chlamydia..i masturbate alot almost everday and i never really took care of my private part..most of the time i would just jack off and slp without cleaning my dick..i feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myslef right now having a dirty dick ..is this bad of hygiene and got some sort of infections or is this some sort of std i should be worried go test again..just red spots around my dick head..i doesn hurt burn itch nth no random coming out when i pee all clean..just these spots n pimple kinda thing idk what u can call those...pls help my anxiety is goin crazy right now cant slp cant eat :(

1st pic near btm right is like a pimple

https://ibb.co/QYLj13d
https://ibb.co/C6thFpq
https://ibb.co/jRmZtRq

7 Comments
2024/04/27
10:23 UTC

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how common is herpes presenting as tiny painless spot?

ive read that it can but i havent heard of anyone having this experience?

1 Comment
2024/04/27
09:56 UTC

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Outbreak on neck

I got an outbreak on neck few days ago, there's no history of having hsv1. Tbh I only have sex with one girl in my entire life and the last time i kissed a girl who isn't my gf was 3 years ago. I rarely make skin contact with people. But somehow i got hsv1. Now i'm so worried and fill with uncertainty and questions in my head. so please help me understand my own myths on herpes.

  1. Is it an std even though my outbreak is on neck and nowhere else.
  2. Can i still have normal sex after outbreak ends.

If yes, is it safe to do oral sex without dental dam. 3. Will hsv1 transform to genital herpes if i do oral sex even after outbreak ends. 4. Can i masturbate during outbreak.

3 Comments
2024/04/27
09:23 UTC

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What is this?

I'm 25F and I found these on my genitals after a UTI, there was itchinging and so I thought I had a yeast infection bc of thick discharge and found this and this

11 Comments
2024/04/27
09:14 UTC

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Is soreness after and STD treatment (shot) normal?

TL;DR: Front desk of hospital in small town messed up the pricing so I couldn’t get tested after spending $200 but instead was offered a shot and antibiotics and now my whole body is aching.

So I went to the doctors office after having some symptoms of an STD, however I wasn’t entirely sure if I had anything. I just wanted to play it safe and get tested. I live in a small town so I wanted to get tested today since most places have to send out samples for testing.

However when I got there, the front desk person got the info wrong and a $200 std test would actually be $200 for a visit and $300 for labs tests. I was so angry. But they said all they could do is give me a shot and antibotics to play it safe then I could get tested at another place on Monday. I asked if there were any side effects to the shot or antibiotics and the doctor said no. Well cut to me several hours later and my entire body is aching. Nothing crazy like a 5/10 pain but I also just feel super tired.

Is this normal??

0 Comments
2024/04/27
08:32 UTC

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Is this herpes or infection

Hi so I recently had an unprotected sex as a virgin. 2 days later, I was having some discharges and I thought that was because I got wet or maybe from the lube we used. On the third day, we tried to have sex again but it felt horrible and I thought I was getting ripped. I could still pee that time but I knew I had a small cut. As of now, it burns as hell when I pee, my labia has ulcers, and the discharges increased and they were yellowish and mucus-like. The don't smell that bad—but definitely not odorles—when wiped directly from my vulva; tho my underwear started smelling a bit worse. I'll get tested for everything in two days and I can only hope for the best.

https://ibb.co/C7nc12Z

5 Comments
2024/04/27
08:16 UTC

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Is it possible to get something if only the balls and shaft are licked?

The girl im with performed oral but only around the shaft (never the tip) and balls. Is there any risk? Im circumsised

0 Comments
2024/04/27
07:56 UTC

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Small round squishy lump on the tip of my pee hole.

It doesn’t look like a wart. It looks flat and empty when I’m not erect but when I get an erection a little bubbled shaped lump feels up on one side of the tip of my pee hole. What could this be?

0 Comments
2024/04/27
06:43 UTC

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HSV potential exposure

The chances of getting herpes from this encounter. I got blood drawn and I noticed that the person had a bandage on her finger. I know that people can have whitlow. Herpes is very common, so I’m assuming it could be that. I quickly washed my arms and hands. I had two cuts on my fingers. What was the risk? I’ve been having flu like symptoms since then with a lot of tingling all over my body. I usually get tingling, but now it’s localized where she touched me. I didn’t really have it in those areas. This why im assuming she had whitlow. That was about three weeks ago.

2 Comments
2024/04/27
06:09 UTC

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NSFW Photo - What's That On My Genitals?

Hey, 18M here

Im left with asking here, much apologies.

Through all my life, I suppose i had a -what i call- from my knowledge a significantly visible superficial dosal vein, Is this the right call? am i having a concerning condition? i never felt pain or any other problems affecting the use of my genitals, so i need an answer here so i stop concerns..

Height : 5'9'' Weight : 136.7lbs

Image - Sorry, i had to reach mid erection for it to be clear..- https://postimg.cc/238Mdvcx

Much Thanks in Advance.

2 Comments
2024/04/27
05:59 UTC

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TESTED NEGATIVE FOR CHLAMYDIA BUT I…

But i still feel slight sharp itching. Its been a month and almost 3 weeks since i finished my doxy, and i still feel itching. I went to get my results after treatment and 2 doctors told me im good, everything was negative but how can i be good if i still feel itchiness and still have some white forcydes/pimples? Doesn’t it go away after a month? Someone help please because im stressing tf out myself.

2 Comments
2024/04/27
05:59 UTC

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Any STD risk for unprotected handjob and tittyfuck?

Got a handjob and surprise tittyfuck at a massage parlor. Later, take a bath and use the towel prepared there. Anyone has the experience? Anyone receive any STDs from the same encounter?

5 Comments
2024/04/27
05:56 UTC

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Help! What could these be?!

https://ibb.co/sVLQ35Y https://ibb.co/2tmZ7pt

Anyone know what these could be? Went to one dermatologist she said it was HPV genital warts and cyrotherapied them now they look like this.

Got another opinion from an STD expert and he said because these showed up just 6 days after my first sexual encounter ever theres no way they could be genital warts as genital warts dont appear that quickly. This doctor didnt see the lesions tho

Now im here confused i have no idea what it is. Theyve been and looked exactly the same for 4 months and occasionally would be itchy. Not really itchy anymore after the cyrotherapy

I’m at a loss. I wish i had a picture from before the cyrotherapy and i wish the derma did more testing before immediately freezing them.

When I stretch the skin they all had a white core center that was like a tiny bump

I’ll prob see another dermatologist sometime next week.

3 Comments
2024/04/27
05:56 UTC

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Hypochondria and exploring myself

I want to set things straight. Reddit is not a place for medical advice, this is not what I am seeking. I feel I just need to put my thoughts down in writing to avoid becoming extra anxious. I will be getting checked for STDs / STI’s for the first time tomorrow. As I do plan to become more sexually active and want to practice safely.

Me (24M) recently went on vacation where I met my friend a local in SA, also 24. One night we are exploring the downtown portion of the oldest city in the United States. We met a few girls, and had an ungodly amount of drinks before the night started. I’d say between the two of us we drank half of a handle + a bunch of free shots for returning a wallet we found which turned out to be an employees at the bar lol.

My mate had a gnarly cold sore, me being pretty damn drunk I had mistakenly hit the same joint as him by the end of the night. My mom also suffers from these, but I have never had one in my life which is odd, never contracted one although I was raised in a day car.

Besides the point a girl approached me halfway through the night and we sorta hit it off at first, she really wanted to have sex but I have only had one one night stand and I just got out of a four year relationship about a year ago. I planted a very sensual kiss on her after we got to dance and drink a little more (without thinking), things turned a little sour after I asked her about STDs because I really did want to sleep with her, and I decided it wasn’t for me since she was so off put by the question (the girl is still in my DMs as we speak I’m not pursuing her or a long distance relationship though.)

I’m not a drinker and chalked up the sore throat I was feeling by the end of the night to drinking a ridiculous amount of alcohol, and by the time I went to sleep I felt I had a bug coming on. It was just a very mild sore throat, the next day I was fine. I decided to wrap up my trip with a nice little sun burn to return home with some color. I wake up the next after a tanning day sorta fine mostly recovering from the hangover but by the time I got on the plane I could tell something was off, I could feel a fever starting to build, and I certainly didn’t drink enough water after tanning for four hours in high UV.

I sat next to another girl on the plane who asked me if I was fine and we started to chat, we had drinks after I chugged a liter of water. This girl and I really hit it off and I want to pursue a platonic relationship with her she really seemed to like me for me. We just talked about life and I told her my experiences and how I felt hung over as heck, she gave me some electrolytes which really seemed to help.

The day after I arrive home (the temperature difference outside is about 30f below SA) I come down with a a fever of 102 for a few hours. I told my mom about the trip and she began to tell me I may not have the flu which I thought I had at first. She said it maybe mono from kissing a random girl, or I may have contracted HSV1 from my friend which she has herself… cold sore right?… I don’t know what to make of it, I was sick as a dog for about a day, I’m writing this the day after my fever and recovery/ sleep day and lots of water…

I did some research. I believe I have HSV1 like a majority of the population but I’m asymptomatic… it’s been 6 days since I hit the joint that my friend rolled and I don’t believe I will get a cold sore any time soon/ever since I’m recovering from what I believe is a cold, first one in three years. I’m certain I have been exposed to HSV1 in my lifetime.

The girl I kissed was quite sketchy though after seeing what she’s been up to on her social media posts, but I didn’t see any sores on her mouth and we didn’t preform any sexual acts besides kissing. I’m certain mono does not appear over night aswell. But at this point more or less worried about contracting mono as my mom and other friends mentioned….

As I write all this down I realize how stupid and paranoid I sound lol. My sore throat is almost gone and I have been fever free for 24 hours…. I asked my friends what they thought and they tell me to get tested or just scolded me…. I just wanted to know is it possible I got sick from my friend who had a cold sore, did I contract mono? Can I be tested for mono early and if I’m positive early is there anything to worry about?

All love, stupid comments will receive stupid replies.

Fun facts: I’ve only had a check for HIV when I was 19, nothing showed on the test.

I’ve had sex with three girls two of the three where 6 years in a monogamous relationship, the ladder was a one night stand, checked for HIV only week after. No symptoms of any other infections/ reason to be checked since the relationships besides the one night stands where exclusive.

I guess while I’m editing for grammar; which STD/STIs should young men like me screen for regularly?Also Is it unethical to receive unprotected oral if me (the recipient) is free of STDs?

2 Comments
2024/04/27
05:12 UTC

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Does this look concerning?

https://postimg.cc/2Ld75twn

So I slept with a girl on holiday and noticed this on my penis about 2/3 days later. I have no idea if it was there prior to the encounter or not.

I will visit the doctor asap but I just want to know if anyone has ever seen something like this before.

The encounter was over 2 weeks ago and since then I have had burning/itching sensations down there (not in the area shown on image)

Any help/advice is appreciated!

1 Comment
2024/04/27
03:42 UTC

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Are these genital warts?

https://ibb.co/X2xhZhb https://ibb.co/H2LG10f https://ibb.co/sCbVY65 https://ibb.co/vvJ371p

I’ve have genital warts for about a year now. And they went away but then I started getting worried again bc I saw these. I went to the doctor to get it checked out and he said that I’m fine and that it’s just skin tags please tell me what this is I need a second opinion. Also when I stretch my penis out they’re not very visible what does this mean

1 Comment
2024/04/27
03:39 UTC

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I may have been exposed to my partner hepatitis

My partner has been having symptoms of ichy ness and yellow. He went to the doctor but does not know what he has yet he thinks it might be jandice he says he is turning yellow because of a liver problem he thinks it also might be hepatitis. Should I get myself tested I am scared ?

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2024/04/27
02:36 UTC

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I got positive for HSV1 and my old brother is treating me like a monster..

28 year old male here. GF is 30.

I got a range of 14.20. I brought it up to him since he used to study medicine and completely flips the fuck out on me. Saying he’s going to beat my ass later since him or our parents could have gotten it from anything I touched over the years (ive gotten cold sores years before, I remember an old panel test i had mention i was not active)

And my gf also has it and told me about it at the beginning of our relationship 6 years ago but she was in active as well. Its active right now on me. Bro said he will bitch her out later.

I did some reading how its not as contagious to the point where they can get it from silverware or even “food” as my brother kept insinuating.

Though I’ll mention that I never said my gf had had it at one point to my fam so I messed up there. Her parents had it at some point as well as he grandma but orally.

I was calmed down after recieving the news and reading up on it and reassurance from doctor but now I’m getting mad anxiety with the way he reacted and knowing him, he will exaggerate the fuck out of it when he tells my parents…

1 Comment
2024/04/27
02:28 UTC

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first time with a sex worker

Hi all, I had my first contact with a sex worker yesterday. So these are the things I did with her... She sucked my nipple, gave handjob with a condom, a little cuddling( my pants were still on) and I briefly touched her vagina with my hand which I sanitized afterwards. I took all these precautions... But i do suffer from anxiety, lol. I know hpv transfer with skin to skin contact. Am I at a risk.

4 Comments
2024/04/27
02:21 UTC

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ANY INPUT? LOST AND CURIOUS

So i posted prior on here you can visit my profile and see what im talking about. Why do i still have these little white pimples/forcydes by the shaft of my penis? They mever appeared there till i caught chlamydia. Any information on this? so lost on why their still there

0 Comments
2024/04/27
02:20 UTC

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Anyone

https://imgur.com/a/oP3jZBy

https://imgur.com/a/qBjab0q

I ,(23m) DL bisexual ,got these 2 bumps around my anus about 2wks ago. I going to the doctor next week but I just wanna know if anyone knows what this could be. I’m scared it might be something serious. Can someone help me get clarity ?

11 Comments
2024/04/27
02:18 UTC

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Bumps on scrotum

18M. Bumps on scrotum for as long as I can remember. They look like whiteheads that are VERY ready to be popped. I've squeezed them quite hard and nothing happens, and they don't hurt, so I would assume they're not actually pimples. Plus l've had pimples down there and I know what they look/feel like. I'm a virgin btw, so probably not an STD but just getting my bases covered. Never considered they might not be normal until today. Any idea of what it could be?

4 Comments
2024/04/27
02:02 UTC

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