Hello! 😊

Note: I know this post is a bit lengthy, but I believe in being open and transparent. I wanted to give you a clear picture of who I am and what I’m looking for. If you prefer a shorter version, feel free to scroll to the bottom for a TL;DR. Thanks for taking the time to read it!

Location: I’m a software developer living in Phoenix, Arizona. My current employer requires me to reside in AZ, but my profession allows for fully remote positions with many other companies. I’m actively seeking an employer who offers this flexibility, especially if I enter a long-distance relationship. I’m willing to travel and relocate for the right person, even considering opportunities abroad if we find a strong connection. I hope you'd be willing to do the same for me, should your circumstances permit it. I can technically live in another state as long as it's not for the majority of the year, which should help with a LDR.

For now, I want to move to Philadelphia. It’s way too hot and dry here! 🥵 I believe living there will increase my chances of dating locally, including nearby cities like Baltimore, DC, and NYC. Just think of all the fun day trips we could take together! Being within a 2-hour flight of most of the U.S. population would also make long-distance relationships more feasible.

I aim to live car-free, so other walkable cities like Chicago, DC, and Seattle would also be ideal if I had a partner there to help justify the high cost of living. That said, it’s not a hard requirement. What are your thoughts on relocating for love?

Hobbies: I enjoy good food and love trying new restaurants. While I don’t do a lot of fancy cooking at the moment, I hope to revisit it in the future—it’s always a fun date option! Quality TV, movies, and books are also high on my list, with a particular fondness for animated works. Studio Ghibli films are definitely a highlight for me!

I used to write from time to time and would like to try my hand at it again someday. I also want to explore local attractions once I move, like museums, botanical gardens, and festivals. While I enjoy going out, I’m not into overnight or extreme outdoor activities like camping, backpacking, or rock climbing. Sports bore me to tears! 🥱

My primary hobby is video games, with action-adventure and RPG being my favorite genres. The Zelda series and Stardew Valley are top-tier for me. It would be wonderful to have gaming as a mutual interest, but it’s not a necessity.

What are some of your favorite cuisines or games?

Appearance: I’m 5’9", 130 lbs., and Caucasian/German with brown hair, blue eyes, and long eyelashes. I have a slim build and a traditional look (not feminine presenting). I take pride in my appearance and exercise regularly to stay healthy and fit.

Personality: I’m rather introverted and a good listener. While I can be talkative, it’s usually with someone I enjoy being around. I love deep conversations and consider myself to be pretty introspective. I appreciate meaningful connections and enjoy spending time in quieter settings, whether that’s a cozy café or a peaceful walk.

Relationship Preferences:

• Starting Point: I’m hoping we can start as friends and see where the relationship organically takes us.
• Dealbreakers: Dealbreakers for me include smoking, being a picky eater (I prefer omnivorous diets), and being an irresponsible animal owner. I don’t own pets and don’t plan to, as I’m more of a cat person—dogs don’t do much for me.
• Lifestyle Choices: I don’t drink or use soft drugs (like marijuana), but I’m okay with my partner using them as long as it’s not excessive or indicative of an addiction.
• Monogamy & Age Preferences: I’m only interested in monogamy and ideally looking for someone between the ages of 20 to 32. I could consider someone a bit older, but younger would likely feel uncomfortable.
• Future Goals: I’m childfree and envision a dual income, no kids (DINK) lifestyle. If you’re a remote worker, that’s a bonus! While I’m not against someone taking care of me, I recognize that might be a stretch! 🤣
• Values & Beliefs: I’m an atheist and politically independent, valuing personal freedom and pro-choice beliefs. It’s important that we share similar worldviews.
• Physical Preferences: I have preferences for taller women with pale skin, natural brown or red hair, or an alt look, but what truly matters is someone who takes care of their appearance and health.
• Personal Growth: I strive for independence and self-sufficiency, with long-term goals like achieving FIRE and owning a home. I’m more sensitive and in touch with my emotions than the traditional masculine archetype, and I’m working on my self-confidence. I want a partner who loves and accepts those parts of me, fostering vulnerability on both sides.
• Attractive Qualities: Kindness, empathy, intelligence, and ambition are all qualities I find highly attractive in a woman.
• Role Reversal: I love the idea of role reversal—being cared for and protected instead of always playing the stoic provider. If you're into being the knight in shining armor, I'd definitely be up for that dynamic! In a relationship, I believe effort and care should go both ways. I’m looking for someone who can match that balance!
• Mutual Respect: Ultimately, I want a relationship built on mutual love and respect, where neither of us feels lesser due to our personalities or preferences.

Sexual Preferences:

• Submissive Nature: I identify as 100% submissive. I’m working through some health issues that may influence my preferences, and I suspect there’s a chance I could be a switch (still leaning toward sub) once those are resolved.
• Attraction: I’m drawn to loving and nurturing women. I enjoy receiving affection both in and out of the bedroom, and I’m happy to give it to the right person, of course. I’m specifically looking for gentle femdom, as I don’t resonate with the degradation and humiliation often found in traditional femdom. I’m not a brat and don’t see myself engaging in that dynamic, aside from maybe some light teasing if my partner enjoys it. I prefer a “mommy” dynamic over “mistress” or “ma’am,” as the latter two feel a bit cold and impersonal to me.
• Interests: Some explicit activities I’m interested in include breast play (both ways 😉), pegging, prostate stimulation, milking, facesitting, bondage, biting, CNC, hypnosis, and most degenerate of all: cuddling. I also enjoy standard PiV sex, especially when I’m being topped. Mutual sexual satisfaction is important to me, and I want both of us to feel fulfilled.
• Hard Limits: My hard limits are pretty standard: anything dangerous, violent, or illegal; piss; scat; diapers; and heavy age play in general.

TL;DR:

Location:

I’m a software developer currently in Phoenix, AZ, but I’m looking to relocate to Philadelphia for its walkability and proximity to major cities. I’m open to remote work and willing to travel or relocate for the right person, even considering opportunities abroad.

Hobbies:

I love good food and trying new restaurants, and while I’m not a fancy cook yet, I hope to explore it more. I enjoy quality TV, movies (especially Studio Ghibli), and video games like the Zelda series and Stardew Valley. I’m also interested in local attractions like museums and festivals, but I’m not into extreme outdoor activities or sports.

Appearance:

5'9", 130 lbs., Caucasian/German with brown hair and blue eyes. I have a slim build and a traditional look. I take pride in my appearance and stay fit through regular exercise.

Personality:

I’m introverted, a good listener, and appreciate deep conversations. I enjoy quieter settings, whether it’s a cozy café or a peaceful walk.

Relationship Preferences:

• Starting Point: Friends first, then see where it goes.
• Dealbreakers: Smoking, picky eaters, and irresponsible pet owners.
• Lifestyle Choices: I don’t drink or use soft drugs, but I’m okay if my partner does moderately.
• Monogamy & Age: Looking for monogamy with someone aged 20-32.
• Future Goals: Childfree, DINK lifestyle, and striving for financial independence (FIRE).
• Values: Atheist, politically independent, valuing personal freedom and pro-choice beliefs.
• Physical Preferences: I prefer taller women with naturally brown or red hair—or an alt look if dyed—but what truly matters is taking care of your health and appearance.
• Attractive Qualities: Kindness, empathy, intelligence, and ambition.
• Role Reversal: If you're into being the knight in shining armor, I'd definitely be up for that dynamic - and I'd bring my best to make it a strong, supportive partnership too.
• Mutual Respect: Seeking a relationship built on mutual love and respect.

Sexual Preferences:

I identify as submissive, but I may be closer to a sub-leaning switch after resolving some health problems. I’m drawn to nurturing women and enjoy gentle femdom dynamics. Some interests include breast play, pegging, prostate stimulation, and cuddling. Mutual satisfaction is important, and I have standard hard limits.

Let’s Connect!

I’d love to hear from you if you think we’d be a good match! I’m open to sending pictures or video chatting privately once we’ve connected.

Hey there, I hope you're having an amazing day! I'm making this post to hopefully find my perfect match :)
I'm 31 years old, from England, I'm 6'3" tall. slim/athletic, have brown hair and eyes and wear glasses. I'm looking for someone who is mean and controlling in the bedroom but kind and considerate outside of it.

My interests and hobbies include - video games, music, film & TV, nature and I'm a big animal lover. I have a pet cat and dog and they're both amazing creatures.

In terms of dirty stuff - My kinks include: femdom, bondage, petplay, chastity, taming, teasing, light humiliation, spanking, milking, worship, reverse pegging/strap-on, facesitting, tease and denial.
My dislikes/limits are - findom, cuckolding, CBT, SPH, CEI, pegging/anal stuff (hope that's not a deal breaker), anything pain related, sissyfication.

I have a bunch of toys and props including: 2 bone gags, a ball gag, ring gag, tape, 2 pairs of ears, a collar, a silicone and metal chastity cage. a Lovense remote controlled cock ring and fleshlight.

I'm looking for some one ideally in the age range of 25-33 but can be slightly flexible either side.

If you're interested and read this far I'd love to get to know you! Feel free to send me a message and tell me your fave animal :)

Hi,

I don’t usually do this so let’s see. Long story short is that I’m someone who has traditionally been the more dominant one in the bedroom but wants to further explore the opposite end of the spectrum. I’m pretty open kink wise but won’t discuss that here, we can chat in private. I’m a working professional and while I do usually have things going on, I am able to make time for the dynamic. Ideally I’d like someone who can do the same and who is just a generally genuine person. Communication is very important to me, we have to click, which would include talking at least somewhat regularly. Please do not message me if you are going to mention payment. I’m looking for a partner not a part time employee.

About me: easy going person, I keep in shape, I do consider myself attractive (even though that comes off wrong on the internet), intelligent and funny. I’m easy to talk to. I have tattoos and love cats. I also enjoy coffee, video games, books, etc. and do consider myself a nerd as well. There’s plenty more but this gives you a rough description of who I am. Hopefully you’re someone who shares some of these interests.

If for some reason any of this interests you, you weirdo, then shoot me a message. If you do, please have it be more than one word. Even a full sentence is appreciated.

Hey all! I’m somebody who realised a long time ago that traditional gendered relationship dynamics don’t work for me- I don’t find the idea of prowling around a bar, buying women drinks, and trying stupid pickup lines on them remotely appealing. In fact, I’d much rather be the one hearing the stupid pickup lines. Both physically and personality-wise, I lean far more feminine than the average man: I have shoulder length brown hair, shave both my face and body, paint my nails, moisturise, generally carry myself more delicately, and enjoy wearing skirts sometimes. I’m also on the shorter side, at around 5’6. I’m rather emotionally expressive, and try to be a caring, nurturing presence in the life of my partner. I’ll happily listen to my darling’s problems, offer cuddles when they’re sad, give shoulder massages, and so forth, while being openly emotionally available myself. I’ll cry openly at films that affect me, and ask for cuddles when I’m feeling blue.

In turn, assertive women who aren’t afraid to take the lead in the relationship really appeal to me. I love both feminine women, and more outwardly butch ones, but certain indicators of you being the “man” in the relationship are something that really resonate with me; putting an arm around my shoulder in public, holding the door for me, pulling me in for kisses whenever you want, placing orders for us at restaurants, handing me your jacket if I start getting cold, picking out clothes you’d like me to wear, maybe even being a little possessive at times? Once we’ve become a little familiar with each other, slightly condescending nicknames (ie. princess) are preferred, lol. But of course, I don’t expect my partner to be a clump of stone who performs conventional masculinity at all times! First and foremost I’d like a real relationship, where we mutually respect and support each other.

Personality-wise, I’m outwardly rather nerdy, shy, and introverted. With people that I’m close to though, I’m generally very bubbly and chatty, with a good sense of humour IMO. I’m generally rather indoorsy, enjoying reading (mostly nonfiction), watching TV/documentaries, and gaming. However, I’m by no means a total shut-in; I’ll happily go for long walks in nature, or visit museums, or historical landmarks with you. I adore long, aimless walks in the sun! I definitely benefit from somebody who is a little more extroverted than myself, who can take a leadership role and bring me out of my shell. I graduated from university in July, and am currently looking for employment while living with my friend.

My main requirement for prospective partners is that you live in the UK; super long-distance doesn’t personally work for me. I’m currently based in Glasgow, but I definitely don’t mind taking the train to see you, as long as the travel time isn’t more than five hours or so, as I’d like to be able to see you regularly for cuddles. I don’t personally want to date anyone younger than 21, but I don’t mind if you’re older than me. We should have compatible values, so no right-wingers, bigots, or anybody involved with the military or police please. I’m also submissive in the bedroom, and would prefer somebody complimentary.

Most importantly, please don’t message if:

• You are another man/femboy.
• You are only looking for platonic friends.
• You are already in an open or polyamorous relationship.
• You are exclusively interested in an online dynamic.

I’m happy to talk online for as long as you need to feel comfortable prior to meeting, but I am ultimately seeking somebody who can cuddle and hold me IRL, either as part of a long-term relationship, or a FWB dynamic. Please save both of us some time and don’t message if that’s a dealbreaker for you!

Please see attached a photo of me (with face obscured) so you have some idea what I’m like. I look forward hearing from you. :3

https://preview.redd.it/10u9yeg7pv3e1.png?width=1080&format=png&auto=webp&s=323046d68b99e6fed551f59768d956b4c72820d3

Good Morning any potential relationship seekers!

I am seeing if anyone would be interested in getting to know each other over the next few months and then eventually start meeting up and actually starting a real relationship. I am not relocating in the near future so unless you want to after getting to know me, then it will need to be in this area.

Now onto about me. I am white, 6'3", fat/chubby (Working out everyday religiously), shortish dark blonde hair (gets curly when I grow it out), blue eyes, glasses. I am pretty nerdy and like video games, movies, TV, and card games (think pokemon, magic, etc).

I am really looking for someone to be nerdy with me and want to go out and play card games, maybe we play some video games and stay in, etc.

NSFW Kinks: Denial, chastity, free use, public (not visible using remote vibrators), light spanking, bondage, pet play knotting, anal stretching, female led relationship, pegging, TPE, and a lot lot more.

If this interests you, send me a chat and lets figure it out from there though!

Hey there! :)

My name is Henning (although the username probably already gave that away lol) and um terrible at introductions but here goes nothing I guess ¯_(ツ)_/¯

I've been into GFD/RR/etc. for a pretty damn long while now, but I've mainly just been lurking for now. So, this is my official attempt to put myself out there I suppose haha.

As to what I'm actually looking for... ideally a long-term, loving relationship with a lovely (and gentle and caring and protective and possessive and... you get the idea lol) woman. However, since this is reddit I realize that this is probably one of the worst places to look for something like that, so I'm also happy to just meet some new people, make friends etc.

My interests include (but aren't limited to) a whole bunch of nerdy shit lmao. Video games, movies, shows, music, memes... you name it, I'm probably into it xD

Also, in case anyone actually cares (and has read this far) I'm about 5'10, have blue eyes and long blonde hair, which I've been growing out for roughly 2 years now (yes, playing with it is always welcome lol). Kinda twink-ish(?) I guess haha. I'd definitely be willing to share a pic or two of me once I feel comfortable enough :)

Anyway, I have no clue what else to include here so you'll just have to find out about anything else yourself >:)

Goodbye for now (and thanks for reading <3)

Intro: Hi there. Thanks for checking out my post. I want to start off by saying that because I’m still new to this I’m not looking to rush into anything. Call it wishful thinking or being naive but I still want to date and hang out the way vanilla couples do before hopping into bed with someone. Despite my kinks, I’m a demisexual who needs a strong emotional connection before I develop sexual attraction towards someone. I’m looking for a true companion who’s willing to do the research with me, take trips to the sex shops with me or attend classes/events to improve our knowledge and enhance our experience. I’m looking for a partner in crime to enjoy both vanilla and kink activities. Someone who’s into romance So if you’re not local and you’re not willing to invest the time and energy to build a deep connection with me first then I’m not the Domme for you.

A little bit about me: I like to think I’m more of a gentle Domme because I’m not into extreme play/punishments that causes heavy bruises, scaring bleeding or permanent damage. I’m more sensual than sadistic. I also enjoy showering my subs with kisses, cuddles and compliments. I’m extremely flirtatious, spontaneous and love experimenting and testing limits. However, being gentle doesn’t mean I won’t dish out punishment when necessary. 😋 I’m a confident African American hardworking woman. I’m 5’6 single and I don’t have any kids. I love travel, art, trying new foods, games and Anime. I’m introverted but also goofy and down to earth. I’m kind and compassionate and love learning and trying new things. Kinks I’m interested in are bondage, pegging, sensory deprivation, face sitting, impact play and orgasm control to name a few. Limits are scat, polyamory, cuckolding, forced bi and extreme body modifications.

What I’m looking for: I don’t have a preference on race but I’d prefer someone 26 and above. I’m also looking for someone who is a natural sub who realizes that emotional servitude is just as important as sexual servitude. In addition to this, I’m looking for someone who’s single, unattached and interested in a monogamous relationship. Someone whose open to submitting to me completely once trust is built. I’d also prefer it if we had common interests as well. Side note: I find tall guys and femboys irresistibly attractive so brownie points if that’s you. 😉 Send me a message with your location and favorite restaurant if you’re interested in chatting and let’s get to know each other.

Long story short, someone who lurked on this subreddit saw an old (as in, several years old) post of mine and recently contacted me. However, they might've ghosted me (if the person I'm talking about is seeing this: if you're not doing that and are just busy, or if you just don't think it's going to work, at least say so - if you lurk in these corners of Reddit, you probably already know they're paved with the bones of people who have a... complicated history with other people just disappearing) so, making a new and updated version of that old post, since the old one is, well, old.

So, first things first, I live in Milan, and I'd rather meet someone nearby, since the relationship I had in between my first post on this subreddit and this one (a relationship completely unrelated to this subreddit, even though she is a Redditor) ended because of well, long distance being a bitch and a half - and our own inexperience, I guess. So yeah, close(-ish) distance is a must.

What has not changed since then and now, I'm into the usual Reddit nerd stuff (anime/manga, speculative fiction, board/tabletop roleplaying games, video games), I'm a massive cat dude (in fact, I take care of an old neighbour's cat when they go on vacation, there's pictures of the fur ball and her brother in my post history) and, speaking of history, I have an actual degree in History, and might have a bit of an obsession with the subject.

Now, for the sake of honesty, I have to disclose that I'm on the autism spectrum (so, I'm quite introverted, and I do not handle crowded or noisy places very well - I prefer hanging out in homes, libraries, chill bars, museums, that kinda places) and I'm slightly hard of hearing, even though my penchant for listening to cheesy power metal might also be to blame, here. :P As for what I'm looking for in a relationship, if it's on r/RoleReversal or r/gentlefemdom, I'm probably into it but, that goes without saying.

I don't usually bite so, be not afraid. :D

Hi there! To get right into the basics I'm a young professional starting to get into the next stage of his life but feeling a bit aimless when it comes to love. After some experience with traditional gender roles in dating I can tell I really desire something else. Hopefully I can find that with you.

Physically I would say I'm a pretty good get. I'm 5'10", blonde with curls, and lean but with some great muscle. You can picture Aemond from the one scene in House of the Dragon if you're curious. Though I'm always happy to share picture in dms, I can have a bit of an exhibitionist streak as you may soon learn. In terms of style I'm pretty masc presenting publicly though in a twinky smooth kinda way. In private I love to explore all kinds of gendered looks and would love a partner who enjoys that as well. Nothing would make me happier than having a partner who likes me in a pair of tight khaki pants during the day and a skirt back home.

Personally, I'm really loving life right now and would enjoy some company. I'm an athlete for a pretty niche sport which I'm very serious about. Besides that I love almost anything active and outside, I've recently gotten into climbing too where I've gotten quite good! Otherwise I'm a huge nerd who loves board games, watching movies, or being way too competitive about random stuff (though I have a soft spot for losing to someone cute). I've also got a lot of confidence and tend to be very outspoken. Don't let that fool you though! In relationships I love nothing more than letting someone I trust lead the way and take the initiative. That's why I'm here after all.

I'm really looking for someone who is not afraid of being confident, knows what they want, and is always happy to laugh at any situation. I really love all aspects of a role reversed relationship, I want to be doted on and complimented more than anything while I cuddle up as the small spoon. I also just love to make people happy with their own desires, nothing makes me more confident than knowing I've made someones dreams and goals a reality. There is also of course a bit of mixture into some gentle femdom but that's a more private discussion ;)

I'd love to find a partner for the long haul but I'm not opposed to some short term fun. Though at the end of the day I'm a real relationship girlie. Give me a chat if you think I may be a good fit!

Hello , I'm a 21 yo male searching for love. I'm looking for an FLR. A long term one that'd ideally end up in being together forever sorta thing.

I'm looking for a relationship where my partner would take the more conventionally masculine role. This involves taking big responsibilities , being the dominant one , being protective of me ( like Dracula in castlevania was to his wife) and so on. I want someone with who I can turn my brain off and feel safe and loved.

I'm more conventionally feminine. I like feeling like the emotional guardian and healer of my partner. I'm emotionally intelligent and I want to be a safe space for her to open up and be vulnerable to . I like the idea of her being assertive (and maybe somewhat cold) to the outside world while being a softie to me.

There's a song called 'Witch of the Westmoreland'. It perfectly describes the dynamic I seek except roles reversed.

A bit about me. I am 5'8 and have a slim body type. I have a pretty mouldable face. I don't mind sharing a picture after we've talked for a while. I enjoy video games , art , music , philosophy and so on. I also sing and paint occasionally , especially if I'm in love lol. I enjoy media of any kind that involves fantasy or supernatural stuff. I feel like I should specify this , I don't have any strict ideological affiliations of any sorts.

Kinkwise I'm a sub and I have a lot of kinks. I don't wanna go too much into them here.

I'm looking for anyone from ages 20 to 30. I'm attracted to conventionally attractive women. Doesn't matter where you live , if I fall in love with you I'll move to Narnia even. Something very important I need is willingness to communicate , you don't have to be perfect at it , just be willing to talk to me.

That's about it. Looking forward to some responses.

Here's a very high effort post because I'm looking for someone special to spend my life with. I've clearly marked and categorized everything for your viewing pleasure.

What brings me to reddit for dating: For the short of it, I've been doing online dating for about 10 years, and could only describe it as a complete waste of time. With more traditional dating platforms having been absolutely torturous, god it hurts to live less than helpful, I'm hoping this will give me a better result.

Age: 28, open to 20-32~. I’m less about age, more about attraction/maturity.

Appearance: 5'8", long blond/brown hair (pictures are from when it was short), blue eyes, white skin, slim-fit body type. I dress almost exclusively in black if I can help it, hence "aspiring goth".

I've been told I'm fairly handsome, but I'm including a few (very poorly taken) pictures, so you can decide for yourself whether or not I've been lied to!

Face: https://imgur.com/a/ykiCkwQ

Body (Warning: Lewd): https://imgbox.com/g/fI9YOozvlP

Location: Central NJ. For practical reasons I'm currently open to dating and relocation within the US, but outside of it sadly complicates matters. I'm not looking for a long distance relationship, so being able to get together in person is obviously important.

Looking For: A partner and best friend in one. I feel that what I'd like the most in life is to find someone very special to me, who I can love with all my heart.

Not quite looking for a "domme", but a real relationship with some gentle femdom/role reversal elements.

Traits I want in a partner: Kind, loving, trustworthy, understanding. Good sense of humor, emotionally intelligent, communicates well. I wouldn't ask for anything I don't freely give you.

Non-sexual interests: Many of my interests fall into the "nerd" category. Games (video and tabletop), anime, music, art, sci-fi and fantasy stuff of all varieties. I enjoy a lot of RPG's, and some of my favorite game series include kingdom hearts, fire emblem, dark souls, and a fair few others. Former high level league player who's currently retired.

Recently my friend got me into magic the gathering, although we've only been playing commander so far.

In general, I like to keep in shape, play games with friends, share music, watch tv/movies/anime (horror and psychological stuff especially), share memes, read, and do some amateur writing. I'm also rather intelligent/insightful, which I think you'll appreciate as you get to know me.

Personality: Generally cool headed, laid back, and kind. Introverted, but can be extroverted when I'm in my element and otherwise comfortable. Deceptively intelligent despite how basic my pictures look, but I also tend to be silly a lot so that's not easy to discern at first.

I’m also very reasonable, with a strong preference for peacefully resolving issues, so you can expect very little to no drama and good communication skills. One moral concept I'm quite fond is the law of equivalent exchange, so fairness and reciprocation are a big deal for me.

Fun facts: I have a deep and sexy voice which many people don't expect, and a great many people tell me I should get into radio or voice acting.

Sexual stuff

Are you fully sub or a switch?: Probably a very strongly sub leaning switch. I find being the receiving (but reciprocal) partner to be uniquely fulfilling.

Are you just sexually sub or enjoy nonsexual aspects as well?: I enjoy both sexual and nonsexual aspects. I'm perfectly happy being your adoring subby boyfriend even in public, in case you're into PDA and flaunting that aspect of our relationship.

Sexual (and relationship) interests: I'm fairly new to a lot of things, so this isn't an exhaustive list. I'm very open minded and willing to try most things once, even if I think it wont work for me. I'm also more than happy to try and indulge your interests.

• Role reversal/gentle femdom are the big favorites! I really like having a partner that's assertive/aggressive/possessive in a romantic/sexual capacity. One who enjoys initiating intimacy and sex, and hugging/kissing/touching/groping me throughout the day for example.
• I'm perfectly happy with displays of affection and you taking the lead, whether that's holding me tightly in public and even being territorial, whispering in my ear that I belong to you and no one else, or you proposing to me and putting a ring on my finger. The idea of being a house husband is actually very appealing. I can even make you a sandwich from time to time!
• Pegging, prostate massaging, and penis/prostate milking. Although my experience is a bit limited, I'm intensely curious about it.
• Continuing on the possessive aspect, it's really very flattering for me to see someone desire me so much and be possessive over me. I'm very happy to show my devotion even to the point of wearing a collar for you. So if you're a semi-yandere girl who enjoys that kind of dynamic, I think you'll like me a lot. Just make sure to treat me well!
• Play wrestling/fighting. Having you win and pin me down while kissing me is just incredibly hot.
• Kissing/licking/biting (both giving and receiving) are massive favorites. Lipstick marks and hickeys all over my body are a huge turn on, and definitely makes me feel like I belong to you.
• Cuddling, being held, holding you, affection, spending time together. I love intimacy, and I'm extremely loyal and affectionate once I get attached to someone. You will be my favorite person ever and your happiness/enjoyment will always be as important as my own. I'll always be there to support you.
• Oh, and of course, the dirtiest, most vile, and disgusting fetish of all, >!handholding!<. I'm a sick bastard who tramples upon all that is good, I know.

Hard limits (non exhaustive): Scat, pee, blood, getting punched in the balls, cuckolding, chastity, permanent injuries, physical torture, cooking fish in the microwave…

Partner preferences: I'm a big fan of goth/alt/tomboy looks. Shortish hair is a very big plus, somewhere between pixie and neck length. Height difference (taller than me) is a very big plus. I'm also very, very fond of muscle tone.

But these aren't explicitly dealbreakers! As long as I find you attractive then it works for me.

Dealbreakers/Requirements: Similar interests are a requirement. Being able to enjoy my favorite things with my favorite person is something I dearly want in a relationship.

I do have an unavoidable preference for body type that I unfortunately can't get past, being the thinner end of the spectrum when it comes to proportions/body fat. So slim/fit/muscular/lighter end of average. PLEASE DON'T BE A SOCIOPATH, OR ACT LIKE ONE.

Potential red flags: I do suffer from giga-depression, likely gained from spending most of my life in inescapable misery. I'm also dealing with the chronic after effects of a serious illness. Both of which are taxing but not permanent (hopefully).

My method of coping with these unfortunate circumstances is to collect many cat pictures and also send them to people.

Hi there,

Dating apps are so soul draining so putting out some feelers here.

About me: I'm 35, white, 62kg, 175cm, with short brown hair and brown eyes. I work in IT and own my place in Brunswick where I live alone. If that isn't a clue by itself, politically I'm green leaning. I enjoy staying in with a good book, movie or game. Bit of a nerd when it comes to pop culture and space related subjects. Some anime too, but mostly just the occasional mainstream one. I enjoy going out with friends for a drink, or when it's sunny going for a skate to explore and get some fresh air. I've also been getting back into learning guitar recently (so rusty).

For a small sense of urgency on my part, it'd be real nice to be able to take someone to my family member's wedding up in The Whitsundays late next year. Who doesn't enjoy a paid-for packaged holiday included with their random reddit date.

In regards to the bdsm aspect. I'm half vanilla (love cuddles) and the other half is sub leaning switch (75:25). We can talk specifics if you're interested in knowing, but in short I enjoy the feeling of being owned/controlled, for the most part I'll do what you want (not limited to bedroom) and let you do what you want to me. Limits are your common ones; No gross, illegal, or dangerous things.

About you: Roughly my age, dont have to share interests directly but at least have some interests. I have no racial or nationality preferences or anything. Some preferences that will help but aren't requirements; I tend to get along really well with bookworms/librarian types. And am attracted to alt aesthetics, and a bit of a bossy personality. But I am open to pretty much anyone.

Happy to swap photos relatively early on if conversation goes well. Let's have a chat and see how we go.

Hello! I'm Jack.

I'm 25 years old living in the Cincinnati area. I'm 5'3". I’m active in my job so I stay healthy. I like to cook and draw, so maybe I could make you something :D I even have a maid dress! Pic included I think.

https://i.ibb.co/vYNpGrm/SPOILER-IMG-5378.webp

Day to day, aside from working, I play D&D and other video games with my pals. I think it'd be really cool if you joined, but no pressure! I love taking walks and hiking. I'd LIKE you to accompany, but you don't have to.

In terms of what I'm looking for:

I'm not picky. Short, tall, fit, fat, all are attractive to me. Personality is really what sells it. Whether you're in-charge, a queen, a knight, or some other flavor of role reversal, it's all good <3.

In terms of personality, I'd like someone who wants to talk about (or listen to) writing, science, video games, or your own hobbies for a while. I love rambling, and I love listening to rambling.

As for relationship dynamics, I'd like a gal that'd sometimes be a friend, just hanging out and talking sometimes, maybe cuddling on a bed while watching YouTube or playing a game.

Sometimes, though, this gal would put me in my place and demean me *thoroughly*. Telling waiters my order for me, bossing me around, talking down to me... all of that stuff. Or maybe you wanna be a kinder dom and be gentle rather than rough! Or maybe you wanna do both!! I love both equally. :)

I’m good with so many different relationship structures and I'm into a *lot*, so just let me know what makes you feel comfortable! I'm a veritable chameleon.

If you've read all this and think you'd like me, DM me! You could be formal with an explanation of yourself, or you could be casual about it! However you wanna get the ball rolling :)

Hey there, hope you're having a lovely day! To start off, I'm super privacy conscious and only comfortable with communicating on Signal and other open-source privacy-respecting apps. I can't get super personal here on reddit and I can't use most mainstream services like instagram, snapchat, whatsapp, etc.

As for my appearance, I'm skinny, 5'6", with curly long hair, dark brown eyes and I wear glasses for myopia and astigmatism.

I'm hoping to find someone caring, protective and dominant. Someone who'd hold me and tell me everything will be okay. A sweet, kind human who has healthy moral and ethical values and stands up for what they believe in. You can be from anywhere on this space rock, long-distance works for me, I can sync my sleep schedule with yours if you're from a different time zone. I don't personally have the means to be able to relocate to you, but I'm fully open to it if you can facilitate it. And I'm most comfortable with people 28 years old and younger.

I'm a homebody and have a bit of social anxiety. I spend most of my day in my room, playing pc games, watching youtube, staring at a wall, etc. I like going out for late night walks and hanging out with my feline friends. I'm entirely self-taught, I love informative videos and learning from them! I'm a lot into computers, cybersecurity and electronics. I like fixing things and understanding what makes them tick. I'm very allergic to locked down products like the iPhone, I love having root access over all of my devices! And I love cats!

Well, I hope this reaches my person! If you read all the way, here's a tasty cookie for you! 🍪

As the title unsubtly suggests, even a caveman needs a bonk and dragged back to NOT his cave. By all means feel free to check the rest of my posts to determine my worth. If not, by all means, read on :)

A bit about me, physically, first.

I am 6ft exactly. Black hair down to my shoulder blades. Black bearded. And starting back at the gym for the new years, burly turning muscular. I love to drink protein shakes, eat meat, lift, and get an ego boost from beating my personal bests. So... Caveman right? The real hairy and sweaty kind. The real loud laugh and rubbing my arms kind.

BUT!

Sometimes I want to relax, step away from the confident 'Dom' looking man. I want to be carried away - not physically, although, we can have a laugh if you wish to try. I am 110kgs after all. But I want to be whisked away, romanced, cared for, embraced.

What does that look like?

Well, I have expectations of grandeur; I also believed in romance novels and anime and such. I am a really creative person. I hate just sitting around absorbing ideas and watching the fruition of others's work, I'd rather combine them into my own thing. I have so many creative dreams from at least one mural on the side of a public wall, to fixing up my own burnt out classic chassis I found in a scrapyard some place. I want to write novels and make ASMR. I want to work towards these things. But such work and life-long dedications takes both time and money but worst of all, it gets pretty lonely.

Looking like me, you tend to be sexualised a lot. Feared, respected, desired for strength and power, yes, but sometimes objectified - which is what very little people recognise if not notice. Whenever I've been approached by women it's always, repeat, ALWAYS on the basis of sex or short-term flings. Nothing long lasting, nothing substantial, nothing to come home to. To be clear, that isn't your duty nor anyone's. But you have no idea; one time receiving a 'hey, how's things? how's your project coming along?' saved me from every negative end of every negative spectrum.

What does romance and care look like? Well, everything you interact with me with is done with an undertone or overtone of affection, wisdom, safety, and reassurance. Even go strict with it like scheduling, or even just a conversational check-in. You'd be surprised with just how little men can live with their entire lives, if at all.

But regardless, who am I?

As said, I am a creative. An academic at heart, creativity is my lifeblood. My whole family is filled with lawyers, soldiers, teachers, people that state the status quo in a now morbid and overtly realistic way. While my writing style and reading habits are similar, I still like to create a sort of 'waystation'. I am constantly experiencing and researching escapism and the benefits of just stepping away into a realm where everything unavailable or impossible is present in droves. Resilience. Fortitude. Value systems. Fighting in the midst of losing. Things lost in the pursuit of identity.

I really enjoy writing - as you can tell - if you were to meet me in person, you'll no doubt think that - based on looks as well - I am a very quiet person. I only speak when spoken to and i struggle to be interesting. But my writing is always going to outclass my tongue. And for that I am thankful because I also have a touch of hypergraphia. Always writing or thinking about writing, if I am doing something important and my mind drifts? I'm done for. Productivity be damned. I am also always drawing and getting better by the week. I do 3D modelling on the side and saving up for a proper camera.

The punchline?

Well, I suppose now comes the part where I go with the herd and dictate what I desire and dislike and outright ban.

Here's the thing though. I have no idea. I suppose beginning with my 'vanilla' kinks:

Breeding/pregnancy/birthing; Anal; and Free-Use. But is that any different to the average modern man?

Here're the more unconventional ones I am TRYING to get into:

Intimacy/Romance' Affectionate slow burn/gestures/or even respectful distance in spite of extreme desires; therefore Barely contained obsession/staring/silent examination. And finally, here's the more femdom 'focused' kinks - this one is hard however, since I consider myself relatively new. Only pornography, conversations on reddit, or fantasising through yearning and loneliness.

Gentle/loving/soft femdom Serving - touching, cooking, cleaning, and companionship and even remaining silent (which I kind of love the most if not deep and meaningful conversations). Pegging and bdsm submission (I am new to this side of the D/s scenario, so be aware I may pull back.)

Endgame?

I have no idea. Want to find out? Because I am inexperienced, and I admit that freely, I still recognise a desire to simply be loved rather than always do the loving. I placed my trust too frequently and too deeply to really believe exactly what I want exists. I am always fantasising and I suppose it negatively informs my standards to solidifying but I aim to keep my mind and horizons open.

Please don't be afraid to message at all. I know I wrote a lot but I want people to be clear on who I want to be elsewhere in my life. I am always seen as a monolith of strength, but even then monoliths struggle and crumble. I won't say I want to submit. I suppose I just want to be teased, I want to feel that tingle of attention and a soft hand on my shoulder.

Hello,

I am a 45 year old single man, fairly fit, educated, a good career I am proud of, and for the most part happy with life. I’m a native New Yorker that has my own place and feel pretty well rounded. I’m looking for a real, ongoing connection in some way. I am OK starting slow and even part time as we feel things out.

I’ve had some experience taking the lead in relationships in the past, but I’m more interested and experienced with submission and reversing roles for quite a while now. I’m now posting this year in the hope of making a connection with a woman who is into role reversal and exploring taking the lead, being physically/ sexually assertive, making relationship decisions, giving direction for fun, pleasure, and companionship. I’m typically an independent person and have a full life with responsibilities, but submitting and putting my partner on top greatly appeals to me. Preference is for someone in the nyc area (open to outside the area if the connection is great).

I’m open to connecting with either someone experienced or someone who is new to this and curious. Either way I would want to kind of grow and learn together, the way a pet gets to know their owner and what she likes and expects, or the way a dominant person gets to know the limits and boundaries of their submissive, seriously and intimately. What I mean to say is that I am open to exploring this gently with a newbie or going in more deeply. Ultimately I would want to be pushed mentally and emotionally to submit myself to your pleasure and give you control of my physical self.

I’m a pretty balanced person, I like to go out with friends, explore the city, have drinks on occasion, check out museums, bands, some intellectual pursuits. I love biking, soccer, and started indoor rock climbing. I consider myself balanced and emotionally stable. I also feel like I have a good amount of skills and services to offer, I have a background in public health, but also enjoy film, philosophy, and teaching. I like to cook, and especially baking healthy treats, and enjoy communication and conversation.

I had a bad experience on reddit in the past and for that reason I prefer to start a little slow and casual, and build up and blossom as we connect more over time. This means not jumping into something full time, but feeling things out and see how that goes.

The connection is important to me, not looking to get too vulnerable with someone when trust hasn’t yet been established. You might say I’m old fashioned in that I believe in forming a connection and having it grow.

I know this is long, but I hope someone reads it and feels a connection with it. I’m open to starting a conversation and just see where it leads.

If possible, please include age, location, and a physical description in your message just to cut down on out all the spam!

thank you very much

Hello! I'm a 31 year old male from Europe looking to meet a dominant girl for a long term relationship.

I'm looking for someone kind and open minded to dedicate myself to - hopefully someone who shares my interests and who would love to spend quality time together. I'm interested in getting to know you and what you love first of all - and I'd love for you to show a similar interest in me and the things we might have in common!

A little bit about me: I'm 182cm tall, slim\slender, long curly hair, and white. I have a lot of hobbies, and not always the right amount of time to dedicate myself to all of them - I feel like I'd need two more lifetimes to pursue all my interests!

I love gaming, so I'd be quite happy to play games together on PC (but open to other platforms), with a preference for cooperative games. I would love to hear about your favourite games as well, especially if there's some we could play!

I'm also a big nature lover. I love exploring and wandering in nature, I love animals of all types and sizes, and I've raised a few from birth as well. I also really enjoy taking pictures of any interesting creature I see, so I'd love to share that with you, if you're interested.

What else... I like to paint to relax, and I'm pretty big into cooking all sorts of cuisines, plus baking savoury goods and bread. I quite enjoy watching shows, as well as anime and manga, traveling, and all sorts of creative endeavours. If you like to create something, show me!

When it comes to kink and the dynamic, I'm happy to talk and discover about your kinks, needs, preferences and expectations and come up with something we'd both love. Generally speaking, I'd like to put your pleasure first, making you feel appreciated and loved through my submission. My likes are quite varied, from sweet dominance to more humiliating scenes, and I definitely enjoy worship and acts of service. However, I'd prefer to explore this together and build something meaningful!

I prefer talking about kinks in private, and I'm quite open to experimentation and hearing about what you love. So don't hesitate to ask if you're curious!

If you're looking for something similar and like what you just read, please don't hesitate to reach out and introduce yourself via reddit chat! Even if you don't tick all the boxes, or are you looking for different types of relationships, I'm always open to getting to know more people.

Everyone goes to the gym. I'd like to do some training of a different kind: I want to (safely) train my ass for bigger objects and more enjoyment.

I'm hoping YOU can be my personal trainer in this regard.

The Dynamic

I'm submissive, with a wide variety of kinks. In general, I like to please, and to be controlled. I work a demanding job, and love letting go. Beyond that, I don't have any preconceived notions of what the dynamic should be. Most importantly, I want us both to enjoy it. I'm not looking for a kink dispenser.

Me

• 29 old year old, living and working in the city;
• from the continent and conventionally attractive (I promise);
• busy;
• think I'm busier than I really am;
• a person outside of kink, with impeccable pillow talk (I promise).

You

• live in London or nearby;
• identify as female
• interested in the idea above;
• a (mostly) well-adjusted member of society.

Please send me a DM, and lets figure out a training plan that is fun for us both.

This is the third time writing a post like this, but I’m gonna try my best to make it detailed enough, and hopefully fun to read.

About me: I’m a 22 year old student, currently living in Europe. I’ve been into femdom for many years. Through the years I’ve found out how submissive I am, and what I like and dislike. What I love most is making my mistress happy. I don’t know if you can call that a kink on it’s own, but it really is the best feeling ever to me. I’m willing to do a lot to achieve my mistress’s happiness. Powerful women really impress me, and they make me wanna do anything to make their life perfect.

SFW Interests: I love spending time with family and friends. I love talking. Especially about my passions, or about others’ passions, so I can learn new things, which I also love. In my free time I like to cook and try out new things, game with friends, or watch movies and shows. A fun fact about me is that whenever I hear a new song, I try to imagine the perfect movie scene with that song.

NSFW Interests: As I mentioned before, my biggest kink is making my mistress happy. I know this may sounds cheesy, but it truly feels so good to suffer for someone else’s pleasure. Besides that I love the idea of being trained. Being trained to be the perfect sub, anal training, behavior rules, etc. Some other kinks are joi, cei, cbt, anal, orgasm control and denial, humiliation and degradation, worshipping, praise, micro management and showing off. Things I don’t have much experience with, but would love to try out more are chastity, forced feminization and sissyfication, forced bi, and maybe pee play. I’m open to try out almost anything at least once, and none of the above mentioned kinks are dealbreakers if you’re not into them.

NSFW Limits: Limits for me are scat, blood, vomit, too much pain, and of course anything illegal. Besides that I’m open to trying everything at least once.

What I’m looking for: A domme that hopefully got excited reading this post. It doesn’t really matter to me if you’re new or experienced, or younger/older than me. As long as you know what you desire, so I can try to make your dreams come true. Timezones are not a dealbreaker to me, since I’m very flexible and have enough free time to make it work.

My chats and messages are open, can’t wait to hear from you! :)

I'm looking for a dominant woman who wants to turn me into her cuddly and obedient husband. I have no interest in hookups, online relationships, or non-monogamy. I'm a white, 5'6, 130lbs, kinda fit, averagely attractive (imho) straight twink with garbage eyesight. I'm introverted (INT-J) and 'inexperienced'. I would like to find a woman within four hours from Livermore, aged 18 to early 30s. We can wait months before getting intimate, or I can be ready for you much sooner. I want to make you feel loved and cherished way more than I want to have sex. I can send SFW pics soon if you can send your own in response.

Your needs, wants, and comfort will be my obsession, and I'll always be thinking about how I can keep you satisfied. I like driving and I want to make myself convenient for you, so if you allow me to, we'll meet in your town and I'll drive us wherever you want while you control the AC and music. All I ask is that we plan for a long date and that we split the cost, so you'll pick up the check. Unless you tell me to take the lead, I'll follow you and do as you say while you make every decision for us. We would hopefully end the day snuggled up somewhere cozy while watching cat videos or just talking. We can cuddle in the back seat of my car or on your bed if you trust me like that. You will be the sole instigator of physical contact. I won't try to pressure you into or suggest doing anything sexual, though you can make those suggestions if you want.

I'm generally a people pleaser, but when it comes to you, that would be an understatement. I love the idea of catering to every desire a woman has, but I'm not looking for a total power exchange where I'm completely controlled and my opinions are irrelevant. I want equality and respect, but I also want to serve you and always make my own desires secondary to yours. I'm not looking for a woman who is selfish and entitled, but one who allows me to sacrifice for her while she clearly and lovingly expresses her appreciation. Just think of it as a relationship where every day is your birthday, so I get to spoil you.

About me:

I'm into animals, programming, crimes, piano, shooting, and cycling. Most of that is untrue. I write a program once every few months. I bought a decent piano years ago and have been procrastinating learning how to play. I don't even own a bicycle anymore since the one I stole got stolen. Rather than having hobbies, I have fixations that last a month but that I think about returning to constantly for years, like game development, 3D modeling, music creation, lock picking, mechanical tinkering, or card counting. The only consistent hobbies I have are watching youtube, eating the skin off my lower lip, and imagining how great everything would be if I was in charge of the new world order. I currently spend most of my time stacking paper and yelling at myself in the mirror.

I can get back into gaming if you want me to be your subby pocket medic who calls you mommy in voice chat :3. I like nature but I really only go outside to go to work. I like trying new things, but I'm not motivated to go out alone. I think watching sports is cringe, but I'd participate. I listen to alt rock and I'll suck you off if you're into bands like AM, CWK, FOB, GA, ID, Joywave, Muse, RHCP, The Strokes and TOP. I love speeding, especially at night, in fog or rain, while extremely tired, and on winding back roads. I try to make people uncomfortable by being vaguely threatening and unnecessarily hostile because it's funny.

I'm very organized and sanitary. As a radical introvert, I never choose to be around other people. I'm socially awkward, yet I was able to swallow a hot dog in front of all of my coworkers. I only drink in social situations, which are obviously rare. I've never done drugs, but I'll try anything once. I have two cringe associate's degrees, but I'll get a bachelor's in something at some point.

I will touch any wild animal that lets me get close. Birds that let their guard down will be yoinked. I relocate insects that get inside if they're cool enough. My last two roommates were gay spiders. I had a lengthy conversation with an injured seagull. The ungrateful cunt bit my face even though I was being so nice to him. I drove him to a wildlife sanctuary and gave him to the only other guy who apparently doesn't hate seagulls. I'm trying to groom the stray cats at work but they're too skittish. I think dog food smells good. Dolphins were always my favorite animal, and I refuse to denounce them.

I'm only interested in dating a potential life partner, so we need to have similar religious and political beliefs. I'm an atheist/agnostic, so I'm not looking for anyone who's avidly religious. I'm fine with spirituality if it's a minor part of your life, but I'm not wasting our Sunday mornings and indoctrinating our kids. I voted for the fascist, and I'm looking for a fellow fascist, centrist, or someone apolitical. I don't talk about politics publicly because I want to get along with everyone, but privately, I'm very annoyed by wokeness. Still, I don't agree with the Republicans on everything. I hate Democrat politicians and the media, but not as much as I hate fetuses. If I had a dumb stupid fetus inside me, I'd be so mad!😡

About you:

The most important thing about you is that you're nearly as intelligent as me. The internet said I have an IQ of 135, which puts me in the 99th percentile. I don't expect you to be that smart, being a woman and all, but you need to be able to converse intellectually and watch movies without needing me to explain the plot.

You need to be willing to communicate at all times. If there are no major incompatibilities between us, I believe we can solve all disagreements through respectful and healthy communication. I will always be open minded and straightforward about how I feel, though I find it hard to be brutally honest. I intend to never lie or be passive aggressive, and I would expect the same from you.

Loyalty and monogamy are incredibly important, so I don't want you if you have ever cheated or have even considered polyamory or cuckoldry. You should be disgusted by the idea of sharing your partner or making him watch as ten guys share all over you.

My only body requirements are that you're female and not officially obese. I don't care about cup size, height, hair color, or whatever, though if you're a tomboy who could choke me out, I'll pant and say awooga as my eyes pop out of their sockets and steam comes out of my ears. I'd like to regularly accompany you to rock climbing gyms, shooting ranges, trails, tennis courts, or whatever you can think of, and we could be each other's motivators at the gym.

I'd love to belong to a badass woman who would join me to investigate a noise in the middle of the night, mag dump the intruder as he's running away, reload and mag dump him again, and liquify him with acid. It would be so hot if you could pay the bill at a restaurant without tipping, because tipping is stupid but I'm too much of a bitch to be the one to not tip. You should also love animals and be willing to touch them with me.

Long term:

The whole point of dating for me is to eventually get married. I'd wait at least a year before popping the question, and I have no problem with you asking instead. I don't believe in saving sex for marriage, but if you're the perfect woman for me, and you want me to prove my devotion by waiting, I'd be happy to. I don't care about my last name, so I'll gladly take yours. I actually don't care about my first name either, so you can pick a new one for me if you want.

My dream is to own a small house on a few acres with a bunch of animals, complete with the perfect woman who will always know that I love her and am so happy to belong to her. I'll be realistic, but I want cats, a husky, fish, chickens, ducks, goats, and an adorable jumping spider. I'm not talking about a whole ass farm, just a nice variety of pets, some of which I can suck eggs out of. I also want a shooting range and a vegetable garden. All of our trees will bear a different fruit. I'm not planting any cringe trees that take our water and give us only dead leaves and worthless oxygen in return. We could also just live in a suburb if you want, since that all seems like a lot of work. Regardless, we will NOT have a lawn unless we have goats to eat it, which is my biggest requirement. Grass is for boomers, and it's fucking stupid. I'm not cutting that shit every week just to waste water to make it grow back. We'll have moss, and that's final. Moss and I are a package deal, so If you don't like moss, I don't like you.

I want kids. I'd like to adopt, but I don't want the government up my ass because you shouldn't have to share it. We could make a few or just steal newborns from people who don't deserve them, then say they came out of you. I'll get a vasectomy whenever we decide to cease production. We're not just gonna give our kids brainrot machines so they leave us alone. I want to actually be a good parent, so I'm gonna feed them supplements and make them expand the vast tunnel system under our house, to build character.

Love languages:

I've never been in a relationship so all of this is theoretical. All of the love languages make me feel fuzzy, but physical touch might be my favorite. You can invade my personal space whenever you want. You can wait until we get comfortable or break the ice by sneaking a finger up my ass. If you want to cuddle, don't hesitate, because I do too. We can spend hours cuddling and I'll beg you to stay a little longer when it gets late.

I hope you like receiving acts of service. I'd love to let you know that you're always on my mind by doing things for you unprompted. I'll run errands for you, then if ordering me around gets too exhausting, I'll give you a massage. I'll do anything I can to ease your pain and stress when you're on your period. It's so cringe that you have to deal with that. If the Christians are right, that dumb bitch Eve is gonna catch these hands the moment I see her, that fucking cunt.

I love to give gifts, but only thoughtful ones. I think cut flowers and diamonds are stupid. I don't like wasteful traditions, so don't expect an expensive wedding ring from me. I'm saving up to buy us a house, not a rock. Still, I'd love to constantly show up with a drink you like or some other gift.

Affirmation makes me super uncomfortable because I feel like I never deserve it, so you should force me to get used to it. I want to erase your insecurities and make you feel appreciated every day, and I want you to convince me that you're glad I exist. Every morning I'd let you know that I'm thankful to have you next to me, or that I wish you could be next to me if you're not.

I want to spend as much quality time with you as possible. For me, it's sad to try new things alone. I think new experiences are better when they're shared with someone special. I want to go everywhere and try everything with you, then have long conversations that go on for hours after we say we should be asleep.

Consent:

You deserve to always feel safe and in control of your own body and to have your boundaries respected. I also want to feel safe and respected (though not always in control), so I'd delight in the opportunity to give you my consent for anything intimate. I think it's really sweet and sexy to let your partner know that you care more about making them feel safe and listened to than you do about wanting to fuck. You don't need my consent to grab my arm or something, but I'll get yours before touching you at all. You're all but guaranteed to get a lengthy cuddle session with me if you ask, but I understand that going somewhere private with a guy from the internet can be scary, so I'll understand if you don't want to.

I'll actually cry if I feel like I made you feel afraid or disregarded. Eventually we would fully belong to each other, but for now I'll be so diligent in getting your consent that you might get annoyed. If you tell me beforehand that you want our first date to be platonic, but you predictably start getting carried away due to my flawless body and unmatched rizz, I'll kill the momentum and give you time to consider whether things are moving too fast for you. I don't want you to regret anything that happens between us. There's always next time to decide that we should go further, especially if we've been drinking. I'm not a male feminist, but men who think with their dicks are cringe. I genuinely don't want to have sex with anyone who isn't super enthusiastic and completely sure that they want me.

Sex:

I'll wait very patiently until you're ready, but to make sure we're compatible, you should know about this stuff now. At any point, if you feel like you've read too much, just skip to the conclusion.

My hard limits are the obviously gross stuff, severe sadism, findom, extreme ageplay (the creepy kind), cuckoldry, and polyamory. Please stay away if you're into that stuff. If you're willing to be in a monogamous relationship, but polyamory or cuckoldry appeals to you even a little, then I'm not interested in you. If you tell me on our 10 year anniversary that you've secretly always wanted to use me as a toilet or change my diaper, I'm leaving with the kids. I also don't like humiliation, degradation, chastity cages, TPE, or anal, but it's okay if you do, and if you wanna don the strap I'll bounce on it and moan like a girl.

I'm actually kinda demisexual. I can recognize when a human woman is conventionally attractive, but I've never been tempted to stare at or "mentally undress" one of you as every other guy apparently does. I've also never cared about tits or ass. I might just be a low T beta bitch. I'm actually very easy to turn on due to my lack of contact, but the emotional bond is what I'm really interested in. I don't need sex, but it's fun and healthy, so I'd love to have a woman with a crazy high libido who can push me into the bedroom every day and drain me like a succubus.

I'll always use full protection until we both get tested, with no compromises aside from kissing, which I'll do with unparalleled passion. I don't have any STDs, and I don't plan on having any to share with my future soulmate. I'll get tested too even though I know I'm clean, because you deserve to have that peace of mind. Until then, I'd do as you say while staying safe, and your cuddles, affirmation, and company are all I would need in terms of reciprocation. I can spend all night giving you as many orgasms as you want, even if you're not comfortable with giving me one.

As a service-oriented sub, providing service is my biggest turn on. I can dom if you order me to, but it feels natural to be womanhandled. If you want me to do all the work, you can command me or let me respond to your body language. If you want to take full control, you can push me down and use me as your toy. I want to be whatever you need me to be in order to give you all of the pleasure you deserve. Once we're official, my entire body will belong solely to you, and any part of it will meet any part of yours for as long as you command. Through it all, I'll be in ecstasy over the thought that you are too. I can beg desperately for reciprocation or just shut up and enthusiastically enjoy my role as your source of pleasure. We can focus on me if you'd like, but I may beg for your permission to serve you first. I'll belong to you completely, so I'll only beg or resist when you want me to. You must always get what you want from me in the end.

For specific fetishes, I like gentle femdom, foreplay, edging, orgasm control, overstimulation, teasing, begging, praise, cunnilingus, creampies, breeding, body worship, aftercare, and mommy/mistress/puppy/good boy talk. I'd like to experiment with bondage, pegging, choking, CNC, light pain, and absolutely anything else I haven't mentioned that doesn't make either of us feel unloved or inadequate. I'm incredibly turned on and motivated by involuntary reactions to pleasure like twitching, throbbing, moaning, muscle contractions, and facial expressions. When it comes to your body, I'm mostly excited by your face, pussy, and brain (so cringe). Still, while those parts are what spark my interest the most, I will gladly kiss, lick, nibble, grab, and caress every inch of your skin.

While I don't want to wear a cage, I like being teased with the threat of chastity. My pleasure should be earned, then dispersed at your discretion. I'll hope to be allowed to cum after giving you ten orgasms. I'll get more and more excited, then at ten, you'll order me to continue, which I'll do until told otherwise. Every time you cum, I'll beg for my reward while you tease me for my horniness and say you'll consider giving it to me if I beg harder. You'll scold me if my hands leave your body and wander towards mine, so I have no choice but to continue pleasuring you as I leak precum and thrust into nothing. If you graciously decide that I was a good boy who deserves a reward, you'll definitely be able to tell how thankful and excited I am. If my tongue was somehow insufficient, we'll skip to cuddling. I want to know that when you call me a good boy and give me my release, it's because I truly earned it by being everything you need.

If you'd prefer to comfort me instead of doing the female superiority thing, that's just as good. You can ride me slowly as you hold me and softly tell me that you'll always be here for me. I'll tell you I love you and you'll say "Shhhh, I know you do. You're such a good boy, just relax for me." I'll do as you command and just lay there as you pet me and whisper things that make me feel completely and unconditionally loved. I'll whimper with every exhale, and you can call me cute and encourage me to cum inside you. I'll whine out "I'm getting close mommy" (or mistress or whatever you prefer to be called) and you'll say "It's okay. Let it all out for Mommy. Good boy, I love you so much. You're my perfect little pet and I'll always be here for you."

I hope that, like me, you're aroused both by the idea of me being yours to exploit and being yours to nurture. If I've had a long day, your mommy instincts should kick in and drive you to comfort me. When you're rightfully establishing your dominance over me instead, I don't want to be insulted or made to feel worthless, rather, I prefer to be playfully teased and made to focus completely on your pleasure.

Every orgasm I have will require your permission. If you don't want to have sex during your period or for any other reason, I'll insist on waiting for you. I'll always be yours to use, but if you're not in the mood and you don't want me to try to get you into it, then we won't have sex. I'll be your sex toy. I will never watch porn or masturbate, unless ordered to. I have no right to say you shouldn't masturbate if I'm not around, but you know we would both enjoy it if you've been ready for hours by the time I walk through your door. If you drag me directly to the bedroom, I won't waste any time doing what I was designed to do.

I'd like to try being completely bound and gagged so you know that I trust you even while I'm unable to resist or even utter a safeword. You could do whatever you want to my body. You could edge me while I buck my hips in desperation, then use toys to overstimulate me while you watch me struggle and squirm. You could take off the gag and ride my face while a pool of precum forms on my stomach. We could combine it with CNC and breeding, as you force me to impregnate you. I like the idea of fulfilling my purpose by shooting my genes into the woman I was designed to mate with. I probably shouldn't pass on my shitty 5'6, socially anxious, family history of baldness ass, stupid idiot genes, but we could pretend.

I'm genuinely not into feet. I may joke about sucking toes, but I also joke about being gay and sucking meaty cocks, and I only sucked cock twice. I'm not into feet, but your entire body is beautiful and deserves to be worshiped, so I'll kiss yours. I just don't want to suck the sweat from your toes or get a footjob, because I don't have a foot fetish. If I did have a foot fetish, I'd like them a little sweaty from a short jog. You could shove them right into my face and I'd give them a big whiff and lick them from heel to toe, then I'd suck each toe for a full minute and trim your toenails with my teeth, but that's not for me.

Dick stats: 6.5 inches hard, 4 inches flaccid, 6 inches around, uncut gang, aggressive 40 degree curve, leans left, leaks like a faucet, has an extra hole, no refractory period, shaved (trying hair removal, pubic hair disgusts me), balls are 20x40mm (measured with calipers)

Conclusion:

I don't see myself as a fetishist just because I'm submissive. If a woman is submissive, that's "normal", but if a guy is, that's apparently "not appropriate work talk", and I'm supposedly "fired". I'm just trying to find my perfect match. Our date can be totally platonic. I'll focus on giving you a good time and lots of attention. I don't expect you to do anything you're uncomfortable with, but I hope we can cuddle extensively. I welcome whatever fun activities you have in mind, like going back to your place and petting your dogs (please).

If you're interested, tell me about all the things you think could make us compatible, as well as whether you read all the cringe sexual stuff or skipped to the end at some point. Don't waste your time with something super long like this, but let me know you're serious. If we're not compatible or you're too far away, but your goofy ass read this whole post anyway, feel free to message me.

[Trying something else new with the title again to see if it will be attracting my type lol.]

Heyyyy ~

I'm looking for an empathetic partner <3

Regarding the title: the TLDR is take the title with a grain of salt lol. I have trouble describing what I want in a girlfriend. If you end up being interested in me, then send a chat and we'll figure it out from there. But in case you want to know more:

I like being the one who is "pursued" and "hit on" and (I kinda hate this phrasing because it feels shameful but) "taken care of," so to speak. Although depending on the person (obviously), I can be good at the pursuing, and hitting on, and taking care of.

What I am trying to say is um, obviously there should probably be a back and forth because both of us should feel loved instead of just me or just you or even phrasing it as "you too" (as if you don't matter or are being dismissed subtly). And then, what I am trying to say is I am very emotionally needy in a receptive sense much more than a giving sense. Although I need both. Being hugged from behind (eventually maybe), being checked in on, having a natural ability to know me better than myself or maybe just understanding me, asking about me as in being curious, letting me have those therapy/aftercare/dad moments for you, frequently informing me of your thoughts so I don't have to wonder ig, and having you do more for me than I do for you per se (almost like it's unfair, but idk maybe not) and always giving me the benefit of the doubt... um... all of those would make me a very happy man. In other words, my love language is acts of service!

Yey so my goal in life is to own a business and then make enough until I can just live on dividends for the rest of my life, so we wouldn't need to work. I want to retire in my 20s, and then just be happy with my future girlfriend.

We could just play video games, go to the gym together, watch stuff like anime or very messed up horror movies together especially, massage each other a bunch, go out to eat a lot maybe but still having a realitively healthy diet with veggies and fruits and nuts especially, we can circle jerk with "bro" talk and dumb internet memes, lounge around and get stinky and musky unless we have to go out, getting really really freaky multiple times a day, selfishly I want to be the center of your attention more than most couples I think so I like clinginess but still being respectful of alone time. I want to travel the world a bit too. I'm not outdoorsy, but if it's with someone I love then hell ye

If you think you can empathize with a semi-antisocial sometimes-edgy weirdo that most people could not empathize with, then hi lol. If not, then I'm not saying we won't necessarily click... but you know... I'd rather you not have to deal with the cognitive dissonance over wanting to date me and yet at the same time hating yourself for wanting to date someone you are not supposed to like let alone want to date 😬

I don't know if that is helpful for anyone to hear, but just speaking from experience, low empathy people tend to find it hard to date me. That's the pattern I have seen at least. Do with that what you will, obviously lol.

You can get to know me. I am very reserved irl, and I've practically been sharing my vulnerabilities with strangers as a kink. I don't feel interested in doing much that's not terminally online atm (anhedonia). The above paragraph is where I'd like to be with someone. Not to say I'm not working on my mental health, but for a lack of a less gross term that doesn't sound use-y, I want someone who is the primary emotional "provider" of the relationship. I will want to "provide" that too because it should be mutual. I am a sponge for pampering and with a white boi like this who's sensitive, comes from a less fortunate upbringing, easily overwhelmed, socially awkward, and has a lot of stuff that I keep to myself, I think you have your work cut out for you if you want to explore your partner's every quirk, psychoanalyze them, "fix" them (in a healthy non-controlling, supportive way), excessively pamper and dote on them, reassure them a lot, mother and nurture them, and drink and harvest their blood platonically for the blood gods. If that sounds appealing at all then, OH MY GOOOOOD WHERE HAVE YOY BENNNNNNN HAII :DDDDD

ahem

i mean wass good cuh

Ok yeah, I wanna apologize for the cringe, but I shouldn't. I need to be more confident lol. I am going to be hella cringe around you so uhhh sorry not sorry. Might as well tell you now uwu 😎 ~

Anyways, we can get to know each other more one-on-one, but here's some of my deal-breakers.

Just to expedite the process...

(1) You must be 18+ (duh).

(2) You have to be very good at communicating aka willing to do the emotional effort with me when needs arise (am hella needy, and ideally you are a little bit too to an extent); like are you willing to get to a point where we strive to never lie to each other or I don't know, maybe even sugar coat things?

Would you bury the body with me, or at least support me from the sidelines without putting you at risk too (don't worry I'm no serial killer lol)? Do you want a "ride or die" relationship (as my friend suggested me to add, which you know, sends more romantic than uh... murder... (hehe yum 🤤))?

Would you be willing to talk about all of your emotions and thoughts, even the ones that you should "never" feel or think?

I don't expect you to answer yes to these now, but my point is this: if you aren't willing to work towards a relationship with such a strong emotional bond where you can honestly answer yes to all of these questions, then you're not my type.

(3) I prefer someone who is trying to be healthy/healthier because I want to live a long time with you.

(4) You shouldn't be a tease-y or bratty person towards me if you're going to date me. I tease a little bit when I flirt sometimes, and honestly my most intimate connections have been with the play-fighting/rebellious "I do what I want"/super giga hyper-logical types, but 9 times out of 10 we'll go together like water and oil. The vast majority of the time I cannot handle play-fighting or insults that framed as uncharitable observations or "Oh yeah? Make me." energy. Sorry, I know that's unsexy, but obviously, I'm speaking from experience trying to give you a better idea of my type lol.

(5) My main shallow physical deal-breaker is I have a thing for eyes with a particularly adorable quirk! The eye quirk is: I love "eye love bands" or "aegyo sal!" I recommend looking it up because it's hard to describe, but if you can't be bothered, it's basically just extra puffiness below the eyelids. Anybody could have them and not even realize it because natural love bands are so rare! Even you! You might have it!.. which in that case OMG HAI! :D

Ok uh anyways... that's all folks! 🐷 I'm too tired to edit more lol. Ama if you're interested and got any questions. Feel free to hmu :)

I'd love to talk <3

Hi! I'm a 33-year old, living in Bucharest. I'm currently doing part-time work while looking for a better job.

I have several hobbies. I record music. I write stuff. I've started making Twine games. I'm learning how to draw. Those are my main creative outlets. Beyond that I like watching cartoons, playing video games now and then...

I'm not really comfortable with taking the initiative or making the first move. I find role reversal more appealing for that reason.

I'm not interested in a long-distance or online thing.

It might be easier to talk on Discord than Reddit. I can give my Discord handle in DM if it helps.

Hello! 😊

Note: I know this post is a bit lengthy, but I believe in being open and transparent. I wanted to give you a clear picture of who I am and what I’m looking for. If you prefer a shorter version, feel free to scroll to the bottom for a TL;DR. Thanks for taking the time to read it!

Location: I’m a software developer living in Phoenix, Arizona. My current employer requires me to reside in AZ, but my profession allows for fully remote positions with many other companies. I’m actively seeking an employer who offers this flexibility, especially if I enter a long-distance relationship. I’m willing to travel and relocate for the right person, even considering opportunities abroad if we find a strong connection. I hope you'd be willing to do the same for me, should your circumstances permit it. I can technically live in another state as long as it's not for the majority of the year, which should help with a LDR.

For now, I want to move to Philadelphia. It’s way too hot and dry here! 🥵 I believe living there will increase my chances of dating locally, including nearby cities like Baltimore, DC, and NYC. Just think of all the fun day trips we could take together! Being within a 2-hour flight of most of the U.S. population would also make long-distance relationships more feasible.

I aim to live car-free, so other walkable cities like Chicago, DC, and Seattle would also be ideal if I had a partner there to help justify the high cost of living. That said, it’s not a hard requirement. What are your thoughts on relocating for love?

Hobbies: I enjoy good food and love trying new restaurants. While I don’t do a lot of fancy cooking at the moment, I hope to revisit it in the future—it’s always a fun date option! Quality TV, movies, and books are also high on my list, with a particular fondness for animated works. Studio Ghibli films are definitely a highlight for me!

I used to write from time to time and would like to try my hand at it again someday. I also want to explore local attractions once I move, like museums, botanical gardens, and festivals. While I enjoy going out, I’m not into overnight or extreme outdoor activities like camping, backpacking, or rock climbing. Sports bore me to tears! 🥱

My primary hobby is video games, with action-adventure and RPG being my favorite genres. The Zelda series and Stardew Valley are top-tier for me. It would be wonderful to have gaming as a mutual interest, but it’s not a necessity.

What are some of your favorite cuisines or games?

Appearance: I’m 5’9", 130 lbs., and Caucasian/German with brown hair, blue eyes, and long eyelashes. I have a slim build and a traditional look (not feminine presenting). I take pride in my appearance and exercise regularly to stay healthy and fit.

Personality: I’m rather introverted and a good listener. While I can be talkative, it’s usually with someone I enjoy being around. I love deep conversations and consider myself to be pretty introspective. I appreciate meaningful connections and enjoy spending time in quieter settings, whether that’s a cozy café or a peaceful walk.

Relationship Preferences:

• Starting Point: I’m hoping we can start as friends and see where the relationship organically takes us.
• Dealbreakers: Dealbreakers for me include smoking, being a picky eater (I prefer omnivorous diets), and being an irresponsible animal owner. I don’t own pets and don’t plan to, as I’m more of a cat person—dogs don’t do much for me.
• Lifestyle Choices: I don’t drink or use soft drugs (like marijuana), but I’m okay with my partner using them as long as it’s not excessive or indicative of an addiction.
• Monogamy & Age Preferences: I’m only interested in monogamy and ideally looking for someone between the ages of 20 to 32. I could consider someone a bit older, but younger would likely feel uncomfortable.
• Future Goals: I’m childfree and envision a dual income, no kids (DINK) lifestyle. If you’re a remote worker, that’s a bonus! While I’m not against someone taking care of me, I recognize that might be a stretch! 🤣
• Values & Beliefs: I’m an atheist and politically independent, valuing personal freedom and pro-choice beliefs. It’s important that we share similar worldviews.
• Physical Preferences: I have preferences for taller women with pale skin, natural brown or red hair, or an alt look, but what truly matters is someone who takes care of their appearance and health.
• Personal Growth: I strive for independence and self-sufficiency, with long-term goals like achieving FIRE and owning a home. I’m more sensitive and in touch with my emotions than the traditional masculine archetype, and I’m working on my self-confidence. I want a partner who loves and accepts those parts of me, fostering vulnerability on both sides.
• Attractive Qualities: Kindness, empathy, intelligence, and ambition are all qualities I find highly attractive in a woman.
• Role Reversal: I love the idea of role reversal—being cared for and protected instead of always playing the stoic provider. If you're into being the knight in shining armor, I'd definitely be up for that dynamic!
• Mutual Respect: Ultimately, I want a relationship built on mutual love and respect, where neither of us feels lesser due to our personalities or preferences.

Sexual Preferences:

• Submissive Nature: I identify as 100% submissive. I’m working through some health issues that may influence my preferences, and I suspect there’s a chance I could be a switch (still leaning toward sub) once those are resolved.
• Attraction: I’m drawn to loving and nurturing women. I enjoy receiving affection both in and out of the bedroom, and I’m happy to give it to the right person, of course. I’m specifically looking for gentle femdom, as I don’t resonate with the degradation and humiliation often found in traditional femdom. I’m not a brat and don’t see myself engaging in that dynamic, aside from maybe some light teasing if my partner enjoys it. I prefer a “mommy” dynamic over “mistress” or “ma’am,” as the latter two feel a bit cold and impersonal to me.
• Interests: Some explicit activities I’m interested in include breast play (both ways 😉), pegging, prostate stimulation, milking, facesitting, bondage, biting, CNC, hypnosis, and most degenerate of all: cuddling. I also enjoy standard PiV sex, especially when I’m being topped. Mutual sexual satisfaction is important to me, and I want both of us to feel fulfilled.
• Hard Limits: My hard limits are pretty standard: anything dangerous, violent, or illegal; piss; scat; diapers; and heavy age play in general.

TL;DR:

Location:

I’m a software developer currently in Phoenix, AZ, but I’m looking to relocate to Philadelphia for its walkability and proximity to major cities. I’m open to remote work and willing to travel or relocate for the right person, even considering opportunities abroad.

Hobbies:

I love good food and trying new restaurants, and while I’m not a fancy cook yet, I hope to explore it more. I enjoy quality TV, movies (especially Studio Ghibli), and video games like the Zelda series and Stardew Valley. I’m also interested in local attractions like museums and festivals, but I’m not into extreme outdoor activities or sports.

Appearance:

5'9", 130 lbs., Caucasian/German with brown hair and blue eyes. I have a slim build and a traditional look. I take pride in my appearance and stay fit through regular exercise.

Personality:

I’m introverted, a good listener, and appreciate deep conversations. I enjoy quieter settings, whether it’s a cozy café or a peaceful walk.

Relationship Preferences:

• Starting Point: Friends first, then see where it goes.
• Dealbreakers: Smoking, picky eaters, and irresponsible pet owners.
• Lifestyle Choices: I don’t drink or use soft drugs, but I’m okay if my partner does moderately.
• Monogamy & Age: Looking for monogamy with someone aged 20-32.
• Future Goals: Childfree, DINK lifestyle, and striving for financial independence (FIRE).
• Values: Atheist, politically independent, valuing personal freedom and pro-choice beliefs.
• Physical Preferences: Prefer taller women with natural brown or red hair (or an alt look, if dyed), but taking care of your health and appearance matters the most.
• Attractive Qualities: Kindness, empathy, intelligence, and ambition.
• Role Reversal: If you're into being the knight in shining armor, I'd definitely be up for that dynamic!
• Mutual Respect: Seeking a relationship built on mutual love and respect.

Sexual Preferences:

I identify as submissive, but I may be closer to a sub-leaning switch after resolving some health problems. I’m drawn to nurturing women and enjoy gentle femdom dynamics. Some interests include breast play, pegging, prostate stimulation, and cuddling. Mutual satisfaction is important, and I have standard hard limits.

Let’s Connect!

I’d love to hear from you if you think we’d be a good match! I’m open to sending pictures or video chatting privately once we’ve connected.

Hello! I am a 24 year old gender non-conforming boy who prefers to present and identify myself as feminine. I am not comfortable with being perceived as masculine. I'm attracted to both feminine and masculine presenting and identifying people. Long distance and online is fine with me but i prefer things not to stay that way for forever. I'm soft hearted, i've been told i'm kind, and pretty introverted. I enjoy all kinds of things, from sports like tennis, or volleyball, to entertainment such as video games, anime, movies, etc.

Admittedly I am a bit tall at 6'1" and after being very skinny for the majority of my life, I am now at a healthy weight for my height. I also would like to say, I very much appreciate chubby women, as well as fit people of course!

I would prefer exchanging pictures with each other first to see if we click or aren't each others type, I promise I won't take it personally if I'm not your type lol

I'm searching for something long term and monogamous, no one night stands or f buddies. For NSFW compatibility purposes, i am strictly a sub but may be open to power bottoming, I'm not comfortable being a dom. A quick list of kinks would be, pegging, edging, cum eating, chastity, JOI. We can go into detail about kinks more if we form a stable relationship. Some limits would include, scat, pee, blood, anything often seen as extreme or harmful.

I'd rather you not be across the world from me, but I may open to exceptions.

I'm ideally looking for someone I can form a bond with where we're able to support each other emotionally and physically. I want to hear about your day and comfort you even if it was already a good one, I want to try both new and familiar things with you even if it's something mundane like running to the store with you, those small moments of time together are just as important to me. I'm pretty introverted so I'm really not a party goer or anything, if you like to sit at home and watch things together while cuddling then I will always be ready.

If you're interested give me a dm! I mainly use discord to communicate through so we can use that if you'd like. Thanks!

Hello everyone! Figured I’d give this whole posting thing a try and see how it goes :) I’m ideally looking for something long term, where we can build a strong connection and relationship together. I’m a bit of a shy person at first, so if you’re fine with a little shyness and like taking the lead then we might be a good fit!

A little about me: I’m 21, 5’2” with brown curly hair, and a tattoo sleeve on my right arm (hoping to get more someday!). I’m not super muscular, my friends would say I’m more in the twink category haha. I am a classical pianist, and currently teach while finishing my bachelors degree. I’m considering doing music therapy later on though :) In my free time I enjoy playing video games (super into BG3 lately!), crocheting, reading and spending time with friends. I’ve also done a little boxing as well! I don’t have a lot of relationship experience, but I’m more on the submissive side. I like when a partner takes the lead in things or is clear in what they want from me. It brings me joy to make those close to me happy and be given care in return.

What I’m looking for: As I mentioned earlier, I’m looking for something long term. At risk of seeming too cliche or romantic, I want to find a truly loving relationship where my partner is my guiding light and I can trust them with my utmost care and loyalty. Someone protective who wants to hold my hand as we walk down the street, and spend time enjoying each other’s presence. I like being little spoon too, so bonus points if you want to be big spoon while we watch our favourite shows or movies lol. Also, hopefully you like cats! I have a little fluff ball and she’s super sweet :)

Potential dealbreakers: I am a trans man. I am currently on T and plan to have surgery, but I know this isn’t for everyone so it’s important I bring it up. On the plus side, I’ll be very understanding in women’s health and your biggest supporter for anything you need haha!

If you’re interested or think we’d get along, feel free to send me a message! I’m always open to chatting with new people :)

Hope you have a lovely day!

I am searching for a healer-tank dynamic. me being the healer. My partner being the protector, the leader , the one to take on conventionally masculine role and me being the follower.

I'm looking for a love where we reach a stage where both are willing to stick with each other through thick n thin. A stage where we're both so in sync with each other that we don't need words for example.

Other than that I just want someone who's open , understanding, accepting, logical and so on. Someone with who I can talk about everything with, someone to be my home and someone who I can be a home to.

I enjoy philosophy, art , music and so on. My humor consists of mostly satire and includes joking about effed up things. I play a lot of video games too.

Talking of kinks , I'm a sub and I have many geared towards the same. My limits include scat , blood , anything extremely painful , etc.

The age limit is from early twenties to early thirties. It doesn't matter to me where you're from , I'm open to relocating if we hit it off.

That's about it. Looking forward to seeing some responses.

What am I looking for ?

• I'm deeply craving a loss of control, dropping my ego and finally submitting to my real Self : You. I don't have a preconstructed image of how you look like and how you act, but I know that I'm made to serve you, to belong to your hands and to make you my priority in life. Because you are superior, assertive and because you are looking for the one ready to fully commit to your will, to fully explore your personality, both divine and demonic.
• Worshipper, toy, slave, I'm fluctuating depending on my partner. Right now, I feel that I'm looking for love, to adore you, give you compliments, worship you, praise who you are.
• Trust : As I'm looking for something serious, trust will be necessary from both sides in order to feel comfortable and to evolve together.

I have my own life and I'm feeling good about what I created. However, if I find the one willing to take me, I'd be more than glad to relocate within Europe. Life is short, and I want to live it at its fullest.

Who am I ?

I'm a collection of various things, very into philosophy and psychology, artistic, loving and successful. I can be a very good companion, abble to listen, to help and to be supportive. I love being used, serving, giving satisfaction to my partner and loving her as much as she deserves.

How do I look like ?

I'm 1.80, white, mid-long brown curly hair, brown eyes with a fit body (I exercize daily). I have as well a style that is my own.

Not looking for

• Any kind of financial domination / professional services
• People that are ghosting, emotionally unavailable
• People in a relationship, I'm stricly monogamous
• Immature people just looking for a plaything. Yes, I am a plaything, but only with the person I trust

If you've read until here, you understand that I'm not looking to be a play-partner, a fantasy-filler or something of the kind but for an authentic and meaningful connection.

Hi! My name is Ari. Technically I live in northern Virginia, but more people know of D.C. and I'm very close to it anyway. I've been trying dating apps and reddit with limited success, so I thought I'd try something different. And by something different I mean just rambling to be honest. I guess I should start with a bit about me.

Stuff I like:

• Video games. It's what I spend most of my free time doing, or I'm listening to music, or both. I play a lot of different things. Mostly shooters when I'm playing alone though. I play on both xbox and pc.
• Streaming. I only started very recently, so it's mostly me talking to myself. I still enjoy it though.
• Music. I absolutely love music. If I'm not gaming I have music on basically 24/7. My favorite genres are funk, rock, metal, and some rap and electronic. As I'm writing this I'm listening to queens of the stone age.
• Magic the gathering. Usually it's my way to destress at the end of the week.
• Watching stuff. Mostly I watch youtube, but I also enjoy movies, tv shows, and anime occasionally. In fact I work at a movie theater. Though we don't really show the popular movies.
• Roleplaying games. I used to play one called pathfinder, which I think is very similar to D&D. But recently I've been playing a game called blades in the dark.
• Bass. I just started trying to learn, so I kinda suck right now. I also want to learn guitar at some point too.
• Cats. I absolutely love cats. My family has three of them but one of them is mine. Her name is maddie and she is so adorable.
• Walks. I just like exploring towns or nature. Abandoned places are absolute favorite to go to.

And I'm sure there's more that I like, but that's what I can think of off the top of my head right now. Next I guess I should talk about some facts about me. Sadly not fun facts, just basic info facts.

Basic info fact things:

• I'm 5'5"
• I'm mixed race
• I have long dark hair and some facial hair (I'd be happy to share a picture once we get to know each other)
• I think I have an average body.
• I don't smoke, drink, or do weed or drugs.
• I wear all black except for work. I honestly have no idea how my wardrobe became only black clothes, but that's how it is for now.
• I have autism. I don't think it affects me to much socially. But it does mean I am a bit of a picky eater though I am really trying to try new foods.
• I could possibly have mental disorders that haven't been diagnosed yet. I'm still on my mental health journey so bear with me while I learn more about myself (and hopefully get meds if they would help me).
• I'm an atheist. I don't mind if you are religious or spiritual. I just don't believe in any higher powers myself.

Now I should probably talk about what I'm looking for. The only things that would be a deal breaker I think would be if you're not looking for a long-term relationship, and if your non-monogamous. I want a relationship that will last a lifetime, and I think I'd be far too jealous to share my partner. Here are some things that would be nice but none of these are necessary.

Bonuses I'd like in a partner:

• Likes things I like too. It would help to have some common ground, but I also like learning about peoples interests so it isn't too big of a deal if we don't have much in common.

• Likes to take the lead/into gentle femdom and role reversal.

• Likes voice calls and/or playing games together. Especially If we live far away from each other. I'll play pretty much anything, so I'd be happy to be your gaming buddy.

• Can teach me bass or guitar. (I'm joking... kinda)

Well this whole thing was much longer than I thought. If you want to talk you can either message me on here or on my discord which is hypercandyx. If you read all the way through thanks so much! I hope to hear from you!

Here's a very high effort post because I'm looking for someone special to spend my life with. I've clearly marked and categorized everything for your viewing pleasure.

What brings me to reddit for dating: For the short of it, I've been doing online dating for about 10 years, and could only describe it as a sisyphean struggle. With more traditional dating platforms having been absolutely torturous and a complete waste of time, god it hurts to live less than helpful, I'm hoping this will give me a better result.

Age: 28, open to 20-32~. I’m less about age, more about attraction/maturity.

Appearance: 5'8", medium length blond/brown hair (pictures are from when it was short), blue eyes, white skin, slim-fit body type. I dress almost exclusively in black if I can help it, hence "aspiring goth".

I've been told I'm fairly handsome, but I'm including a few (very poorly taken) pictures, so you can decide for yourself whether or not I've been lied to!

Face: https://imgur.com/a/ykiCkwQ

Body (Warning: Lewd): https://imgbox.com/g/fI9YOozvlP

Location: Central NJ. For practical reasons I'm currently open to dating and relocation within the US, but outside of it sadly complicates matters a lot. I'm not looking for a long distance relationship, so being able to get together in person is important.

Looking For: A partner and best friend in one. I feel that what I'd like the most in life is to find someone very special to me, who I can love with all my heart and spend my life with.

Not quite looking for a "domme", but a real relationship with some gentle femdom/role reversal elements.

Traits I want in a partner: Kind, loving, trustworthy, understanding. Good sense of humor, emotionally intelligent, communicates well. I wouldn't ask for anything I don't freely give you.

Non-sexual interests: Many of my interests fall into the "nerd" category. Games (video and tabletop), anime, music, art, sci-fi and fantasy stuff of all varieties. I enjoy a lot of RPG's, and some of my favorite game series include kingdom hearts, fire emblem, dark souls, and a fair few others. Former high level league player who's currently retired.

Recently my friend got me into magic the gathering, although we've only been playing commander so far.

In general, I like to keep in shape, play games with friends, share music, watch tv/movies/anime (horror and psychological stuff especially), share memes, read, and do some amateur writing. I'm also rather intelligent/insightful, which I think you'll appreciate as you get to know me.

Personality: Generally cool headed, laid back, and kind. Introverted, but can be extroverted when I'm in my element and otherwise comfortable. Deceptively intelligent despite how incredibly basic my pictures look, but I also tend to be silly a lot so that's not easy to discern at first.

I’m also very reasonable, with a strong preference for peacefully resolving issues, so you can expect very little to no drama and good communication skills. One moral concept I'm quite fond is the law of equivalent exchange, so fairness and reciprocation is a big deal for me.

Fun facts: I have a deep and sexy voice which many people don't expect, and a great many people tell me I should get into radio or voice acting.

Sexual stuff

Are you fully sub or a switch?: Probably a strongly sub leaning switch. I find being the receiving (but reciprocal) partner to be uniquely fulfilling.

Are you just sexually sub or enjoy nonsexual aspects as well?: I enjoy both sexual and nonsexual aspects. I'm perfectly happy being your adoring subby boyfriend even in public, in case you're into PDA and flaunting that aspect of our relationship.

Sexual (and relationship) interests: I'm fairly new to a lot of things, so this isn't an exhaustive list. I'm very open minded and willing to try most things once, even if I think it wont work for me. I'm also more than happy to try and indulge your interests.

• Role reversal/gentle femdom are the big favorites! I really like having a partner that's assertive/aggressive/possessive in a romantic/sexual capacity. One who enjoys initiating intimacy and sex, and hugging/kissing/touching/groping me throughout the day for example.
• I'm perfectly happy with displays of affection and you taking the lead, whether that's holding me tightly in public and even being territorial, whispering in my ear that I belong to you and no one else, or you proposing to me and putting a ring on my finger. I'd be quite happy with the prospect of being a house husband who handles the home stuff, and I can also make you a sandwich from time to time!
• Pegging, prostate massaging, and penis/prostate milking. Although my experience is a bit limited, I'm intensely curious about it.
• Continuing on the possessive aspect, it's really very flattering for me to see someone desire me so much and be possessive over me. I'm very happy to show my devotion even to the point of wearing a collar for you. So if you're a semi-yandere girl who enjoys that kind of dynamic, I think you'll like me a lot. Just make sure to treat me well!
• Play wrestling/fighting. Having you win and pin me down while kissing me is just incredibly hot.
• Kissing/licking/biting (both giving and receiving) are massive favorites. Lipstick marks and hickeys all over my body are a huge turn on, and definitely makes me feel like I belong to you.
• Cuddling, being held, holding you, affection, spending time together. I love intimacy, and I'm extremely loyal and affectionate once I get attached to someone. You will be my favorite person ever and your happiness/enjoyment will always be as important as my own. I'll always be there to support you.
• Oh, and of course, the dirtiest, most vile, and disgusting fetish of all, >!handholding!<. I'm a sick bastard who tramples upon all that is good, I know.

Hard limits (non exhaustive): Scat, pee, blood, getting punched in the balls, cuckolding, chastity, permanent injuries, physical torture, cooking fish in the microwave…

Partner preferences: I'm a big fan of goth/alt/tomboy looks. Shortish hair is a very big plus, somewhere between pixie and neck length. Height difference (taller than me) is a very big plus. I'm also very, very fond of muscle tone.

But these aren't explicitly dealbreakers! As long as I find you attractive then it works for me.

Dealbreakers/Requirements: Similar interests are a requirement. Being able to enjoy my favorite things with my favorite person is something I dearly want in a relationship.

I do have an unavoidable preference for body type that I unfortunately can't get past, being the thinner end of the spectrum when it comes to proportions/body fat. So slim/fit/muscular/lighter end of average. PLEASE DON'T BE A SOCIOPATH, OR ACT LIKE ONE.