/r/RoleReversalPenPals

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Welcome to RoleReversalPenPals! The roleplay subreddit for those tired of societal norms!

Hi there, welcome to RoleReversalPenPals! Chances are that you're here since you're sick of all the set in stone sub/dom roles portrays on other chat and roleplay subreddits.

This place was created (18/3/17) as a safe haven for all women searching for a sweet boy, or all men looking for a more confident, protective woman. Of course, that's only the surface, role reversal is what you make of it, and I'm sure everyone has their own understanding of it!

The rules and etiquette of this subreddit may match that of /r/dirtypenpals, /r/eroticpenpals and /r/ageplaypenpals. This was only created since on those subreddits, role reversal is often ignored or misinterpreted as femdom.

Although there's one large golden rule that you must know: Have fun!

/r/RoleReversalPenPals

1,020 Subscribers

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M21 looking for F for casual online relationship, no strings attached.

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2024/10/18
17:29 UTC

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M looking for F

M for F looking for pen pall dommy mommy

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2024/09/27
22:34 UTC

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Hey M looking to be Dommed ;)

dm me m21 open to anything

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2024/09/13
05:40 UTC

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24 M4F, #Online

I often wish I had a Childhood friend. Particularly, a childhood best friend type which is a girl that used to be a tomboy, grew up to be more feminine, but never lost her confident and protective edge around me.

I always fancied the idea of a confident girl best friend that would complement my nature as a shy and soft boy. So thus, what I ask is that I could be friends with a tomboyish girl, who is close to my age, and hopefully, is alright with talking to me. I always wanted to have a friend like I described.

We could do activities together, talk about happenings in life, and overall be there for each other, and emotionally support each other. My current friends are busy most of the time. I love to talk about "The Snow Queen" The only Fairy Tale that is RR by default.

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2024/05/17
01:47 UTC

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[M4F] Reenacting and Roleplaying RR Fairy Tales

So, I had been coming up with lots of ideas for an RR retelling of Hans Christian Anderson's 'The Snow Queen', a Fairy Tale that, in it's original form, is very RR friendly, given that it is about a girl saving her boy best friend after he is captured by the titular Snow Queen. So I thought of gathering ideas for my eventual book, that has been on Hiatus. I thought of getting into an RP where me and a girl would collaboratively retell it and roleplay.

I am a shy guy, but I can open up once I feel safe. I am also Asexual.

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2024/02/17
22:18 UTC

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M4A make me a subby simp to my gf

My relationship has always been totally normal. Both of us always looking out for our best interests in this modern world. But you have other plans. Whether you are supernatural or hypnotist, you strongly desire to see more female-led relationships in this world. I am really into reality altering play. Let's talk about progressive steps as I go from independent and aloof to more obsessed with my gf. Specifically I am into getting into feet and shoe snifting play. Give strange new kinks that only involve her to make me dependent on her approval. Change my job, make her greedy. i dont care. just that by the end i am a simp and obsessed! looking forward to some

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2023/11/21
22:27 UTC

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Role Reversal -A comedy of manners

I love role reversal stories. Frail men, strong women, the matriarchy. (No MPreg tho) I love them even more in a stuffy setting like the Victorian era or the regency. Women are dashing and men are sweet and pliable. If you are not interested in this particular plot please look at my profile. I have a few more

Lady Ice is talked about civil society quite often. Some say that she killed her past two husbands and is looking for the third victim. She is quite adverse to society and has been known to insult a woman to her face and not be ruffled in the slightest. She fought in the war and speaks very little but when she does she is arrogant and haughty. What people don't really know is that she has social anxiety but it's quite nice when you get to know her.

Mr Sunshine is barely of age and quite naive. He should be chatty and ready to talk everyone's ears off. A bright ray of sunshine in an otherwise dreary winter. His sister is best friends with lady Ice and they have known each other since he was a child but due to the age difference and the war they saw of each other very little.

But this Christmas lady Ice is invited to his home and hijinks ensue.

Please message me if you are interested. I'm looking for a comedy of manners. A funny lighthearted romp centered around the magic of Christmas.

Love, Lucy

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2023/11/11
15:06 UTC

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27 [M4F] Gentle Domme looking to penetrate me and train me in anal

I'm 27 male from the UK, fairly athletic body and submissive

I've been looking for someone online for a while now, it's just impossible to find a genuine person who wants to build a connection rather than just milk my bank account.

I'm looking for someone online really, I'd love for you to help me explore and grow some kinks I have and maybe impose some of your kinks onto me and see if I can learn to love them aswell, I love to please and I want you to enjoy this aswell otherwise there's no point

I just want a pleasant experience and I want you to enjoy it all aswell

I am really intrigued with anal play and have bought some toys of my own, with the aim to hopefully lose my anal virginity soon

Please pop me a message if interested

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2023/10/09
12:08 UTC

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24 [M4F] looking for an outgoing woman/tomboy

Heya, I’m a 24 year old guy looking for an outgoing woman to talk to. I’m a fairly quiet, shy and awkward guy and I’m mainly looking to improve my chatting skills with. Not really into crossdressing or makeup aspect of rr just the relationship aspect of it. I’d love for a woman to be in control and make me part of her world.

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2023/05/06
20:59 UTC

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[m4F] 23 Soft guy, who wants to Befriend an RR woman. I am Asexual.

While I am new to the idea of RRPenPals, I am familiar with the concept of Role Reversal. I have thought about befriending a woman who doesn't follow traditional gender roles. She could be confident, amazing, understanding, is outgoing with what she wants, but will still respect boundaries. I am also Asexual, so, I am also interested in a woman who is alright with my Asexuality. I am also preferring of older woman, since they tend to be more worldly and mature. I don't like younger women.

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2023/01/25
22:00 UTC

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(M4F) 27 looking for someone into role reversal stuff especially if you can lift me.

Comment or dm to talk more I’m 6 foot 138lbs

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2022/11/18
01:20 UTC

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[M4F] Looking for someone who is a cuddler and reassuring.

Im a little new to this so Please be patient with me. I'm looking for a nice woman who is a good cuddler and reassuring. Someone who will run her fingers through my hair. Someone who is firm and confident but not mean. Someone who will tell me what she wants. I know it's vague but I'm really interested in role reverseal and I'm still figuring it out.

Turn ons: cuddling, tenderness, feet, navels, body flexibility, curves

Turn offs: bathroom stuff

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2022/08/28
08:58 UTC

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[M4F] #UK Looking for a gentle femdom/Role reversal penpal! (gentlefemdom/rolereversal/dominantgirl)

Just some quick info about me: I'm a 26-year-old part Chinese boy living in the UK. I'm 5'6" and I'm a skinny body type.

I'm started to learn more about GFD and role reversal lately and I'm interested in speaking to a lady about it! Any type of conversation would be great, both SFW and NSFW! Message me and I can message you my Discord account! :)

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2022/01/25
22:13 UTC

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29 [M4F] The post I made last year on a similar subreddit was kind of a flop, so here's the 2022 remake. U_U

So... yeah, what the hell should I write here? Well... I'm 29, I live in Italy (Milan, to be exact) and I kind of look like a hobbit that's gone on a diet. I'm the kind of pathological introvert that prefers to hang out in libraries, movie clubs, museums and around tables full of tabletop RPG players, rather than in any kind of place dominated by deafening noises and huge crowds.

That said, being a History geek and a metalhead, I am not going to miss the concert Sabaton are doing over here in March, also because Joakim's funny as hell while on stage, and I like it when people don't take themselves too seriously - especially if they're playing for bands belonging in a genre widely known for being full of fucking killjoys. :D

What else... besides being into all the usual nerd shit, from anime and video games to speculative fiction and TV series, I also tend to fucking lose it whenever a cute pet approaches me, this being the reason why I've been taking care of my neighbour's cat for years, whenever they go on vacation somewhere.

I hope that's enough. XD

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2022/01/01
11:23 UTC

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M4F Long Haired Boy seeking something

I'm seeking some kind of positive relationship under this subreddit. I'm just now getting into as of 10 minutes ago. I've felt I've had to follow a societal Norm my whole life until I found subreddit s like these and honestly maybe it's the type of relationship I would thrive in and could truly be myself

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2021/12/26
11:35 UTC

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30 [F4M] US #Online gentle domme skilled in JOI

Being a mistress brings me a lot of joy and pleasure, being in control is one of my biggest kinks and
I often get wet and slowly bite my lower lip when I see a man craving for me and do whatever I tell him to do, the feeling of power and pleasure is quite huge. I can play nice and be a light mistress: demanding light spankings, soft choking, ass play, and make them jerk their cock in so many ways that it will make them get a massive load of cum for me (being good at tantric massage also helps), I like to make them edge for me, get their cocks twitching in pleasure for me. I always like to surprise my subjects and I have quite a vivid imagination, I always like to explore their secret desires and fantasies. I can also be hardcore, talk really dirty, humiliate them, put them in their place, like some
good boys they are, tell them how to bust their balls, making them eat their cum(they secretly desire to taste),stuff like this,but I never cross their limits, it's all about pleasure that tangles with pain. I've
got specialized into JOI and I love when I make men cum only with my teasing and voice, it's quite a challenge for me but I know how good I am ;) I just love being a bad bitch and get pleasure from it, I might also act bratty, from time to time but men enjoy it :P

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2021/10/19
18:27 UTC

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31m looking for tall F, for RR RP and maybe more

Looking for a female who is tall and who is also into RR who would like to RP us living together in a RR environnement and who likes comparing how much taller she is than me. If it clicks, maybe more. 5’8, male and 31 years old. 18+ only please.

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2021/08/23
19:04 UTC

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Hey just got out of a beautifull relationship a while back . I am 21 m , doesnt belive in traditionally gender roles if anyone wants to talk please reply or inbox

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2021/08/11
22:21 UTC

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22 [M4F] looking for role-playing partners that like making stories where they play a strong warrior type.

Hi I'm looking for a role-playing partner that likes to play as stronger tougher characters. I like to play as healer types or magic users delicate characters that have to be protected.

I want someone to write stories with and roleplay with it helps keep me creative and improve my mood. If that sounds okay with you chat me.

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2021/07/14
03:26 UTC

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[M4F] #Online Just an emotional, cuddly, soft, sensitive, and gently submissive 18 year old boy looking for his online domme to give him true affection and just fucking love him and tell him sweet things and talk with online and maybe even eventually meet up with and really cuddle!!

Hey,

My name is Aidan and I'm from the USA and I'm just a soft and sensitive ENFP boy looking for his online domme for the first time. I've posted an ad before but it was removed recently.

In terms of looks, I'm 5'10", have short brown hair, have slate blue eyes, am about 195lbs, and I'm of about average build, not lanky but not broad shouldered either.

In terms of my physical type, I generally like women with long black or dark brown hair, brown eyes, and olive skin(I'm crazy for middle eastern and Latina girls basically). I tend to like a slim build and I don't care too much about height and in terms of age I tend to prefer 18-23 year olds.

In terms of what I like. Idk what I truly want yet since I’m 18 but I think I’d just want an affectionate, intelligent and sweet domme to shower me with love and affection and just feel the sensation of love with🥰(I also want to fucking be in awe of you and just see you as an angel whose beauty breaks the normal contruscts of space and time). My love languages in descending order of importance are physical touch, words of affirmation, and quality time but sadly only the latter 2 will be applicable since this relationship will be secret to my family but I'll brag about my domme(you) to my friends. In terms of kinks, I'm inexperienced as im a virgin but I seem to like leather clothing and general femdom(basically just laying on the bed while the girl sits on my dick) but I'm more of a gentle and romantic type who likes to cuddle(with my head on a woman's chest) and be spooned and kiss so gentle femdom stuff suits me more.

Some random facts about me: I'm jewish American by birth/ ethnicjty but I'm a secular Buddhist in practice(I can add a whole meaning to the stereotype of the nice Jewish boy by being a sub🥰), I'm an amateur musician(I play the drums, piano/ keyboard, guitar and I just starting playing the harmonica(John Popper is a fucking chad))and artist(im shit at it but I like to draw) and I love listening to all sorts of music(I like everything from Blues Traveller to Metallica to Taj Mahal to Beck to Bill Withers to Frank Zappa to Daft Punk to Phil Collins to The Pointer Sisters to World music and everything in between) and looking at all sorts of art(I mainly tend to like surrealism, psychedelia, and old Asian wood portraits) and I can talk about either for hours. I also like fashion and outfits and I'm not ashamed of admitting that I'm a little bit of a femboy because I like to mess around with makeup sometimes and I like clothing such as palazzo pants and light flowy shawls however my trademark style is wearing a newsboy cap with round sunglasses. Politically, I'm an anarchist/ left libertarian and I'm a bit of a hippie lol. In terms of what I want to do with my life, idk yet but I know that I want to be a digital nomad of some kind and travel the world and learn but all the cultures and learn the languages and dialects of all the places i visit. I'm also a huge language nerd and I'm conversational in Spanish and Russian and one level below fluent I French and I want to learn many other languages including Thai, mandarin, and Japanese among others such as burmese and Indonesian. I also occasionally like to read and my favorite literature is generally either nonfiction or sci fi, dystopia, or creepypasta/ sci fi horror. I'm also a huuuge history nerd and i like most of the humanities in general and as such I can discuss things like anthropology, political philosophy, philosophy, or linguistics for hours. This may have been implied by me saying um emotional and sensitive and all that but I also am very emotionally open and I tend to cry easily if I'm overwhelmed by love for someone or even if I see someone pretty sometimes. I also love to laugh and tell jokes and I'm actually a bit of an extrovert(enfp). Lastly, prepare for tons of cute texts and compliments and kissing emojis and whatnot(i'm a hopeless romantic lol)

If you're interested, pm me here on reddit or message me on discord saying you found my ad. My discord is Ven2012#9749

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2021/04/24
00:53 UTC

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Looking for a Dom Lady

I am a submissive man looking for a Dom Lady for conversation.

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2021/02/21
18:45 UTC

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[F4M] Fandom RR RP

hello !! I know this is a long shot, since some of the fandoms I’m looking for aren’t overly popular, but I thought I’d give it a chance! 💖

I’m a 21 y/o female looking for a roleplayer of any gender to play a few male canon characters in some pairings that I like. These would be;

Glimmer/Bow from the She Ra reboot

Lup/Barry from The Adventure Zone

Rey/Finn from Star Wars

MJ/Peter from the MCU

Pyrrha/Jaune from RWBY

I use kik and discord so please message me if any of this interests you!

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2021/02/14
08:57 UTC

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26[M4F] The Harem

Hey All,

I'm looking for a woman who is running an harem where men are nothing but sex toys, who gets humiliated, tortured and raped.

Tell me what character you would like to play and how my character should look like.

If you are interested then message me.

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2021/02/06
18:40 UTC

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[M4F] I want this to be the worst / best night of my life

Hello! As the title said, I want to be humiliated in the worst way you can think of.

I'm looking for anyone who can write as a Female, or Transexual woman. I Want to be dominated, humiliated in any possible way (physically and mentally).

I love the idea of being caught in a submissive position, specially if it's forced by a female authority (police, teacher, older family)

I'm pretty open to any kinks, syssification, watersports, cross dressing, forced anal / oral, insults, incest, etc

In real life im a married man, so we can use this as a tool for the role play if you want.

BTW I'm not a English speaker, so I can be a little slow typer, and make mistakes, hope you don't mind. In fact we can use this as a humiliation tool if you like.

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2020/11/21
00:35 UTC

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[M4F] The Emperors wife.

For years since Freaderic's coronation, the court and nobles have been pressing him to take a wife. They would suggest they take that girl or this noble. "Their all quite submissive, your highness." They would say but the emperor was a gentle man with a love for poetry and the sciences and gave orders daily why would he want to give more orders just to maintain a relationship. As the pressure mounted and as more nobles trued to graph for power by offering their daughter's, the emperor attended a security briefing with the head of his guard. She was a career soldier who, over the course of the briefing, told him what was best. He simply replied with a question. "Will you marry me?"

(Hey there! If you've read this far, thank you. I'm just a guy into rr hoping to roleplay and I hope you'll pm me with a starter or questions. I'm hoping to gauge your writing style. Please reply with the word "Cinnamon" so I know you've read this far.)

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2020/10/23
03:25 UTC

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[M4F] The Bully (Reverse Rape)

Hey all. I'm looking for a girl to play a bully (or group of bullies) that pick on my character. We can discuss the scenario together.

-What's our relationship?: Were we friends at some point before you started hanging with the wrong crowd? Were we strangers before this all started? Maybe you're a senior coworker picking on the newbie?

-Who is your character?: I'd like a name and description. It doesn't have to go beyond that unless you want it to.

-A few scenarios I have in mind:

•School Bully - You (and possibly your friends) have been bullying me since high school and college isn't much different. I expected to go to different schools so I could finally be free from you, but here I am still at your beck and call. Sometimes I feel like I'll never be free from you. Lately your bullying has been going really far...especially when you put your hand in my pants the other day.

•CEO - You're the boss. I guess I can't really say no to you. I do every task you give me without a single complaint and I'm pretty decent at my job. Maybe that's why even though I'm not the most qualified person you've promoted me to your personal assistant. Lately you and your boyfriend haven't been getting along and you've been more irritable at work. I wish there was some way I could help you out.

•Stop and Frisk - This random police checkpoint wasn't here the other day, but I guess with the recent increase in criminal activity its to be expected. I just don't understand why I was placed under arrest. Shouldn't someone be manning the checkpoint? Where are we going?

My character is named Andrew Thompson. He's a 5'9" 18 year old with a thin but muscular frame, messy blonde hair, and blue eyes. While he's not really weak looking or anything like that he is a huge pushover. He's book smart but he's kind of naive.

I have pretty much no limits aside from scat, gore, futa, and snuff. Everything else is free game.

I look forward to hearing from you all.

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2020/10/20
20:41 UTC

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Hi Ya, Seeking Online Companionship And We'll See Where it Goes? (M4F)

You'll have to forgive me, I didn't see any hard-set rules in the description so I'm just assuming we can write whatever. I'm kind of throwing myself against the wall in a few Reddit personal boards because Dating apps made me feel somewhat uneasy/gross and I knew I wasn't going to find anyone, nor make a huge impression on anybody else, then I remembered Role Reversal linked to a pen pals board, so I feel like this would be the least amount of pressure I could put on myself to "impress" or lay myself out there a and still feel comfortable.

About Me: 28 year old male with Cerebral Palsy. Gigantic music nerd first and foremost, my heart mostly belongs to Punk Rock, Classic Alt. Rock (Mainly 80s college rock, through to the revival scenes of the early 2000s) and current indie but I also have soft spots for golden age and alternative hip-hop, Pop (modern and otherwise) Classic Rock, and the odd musical. I have one of those trivial pursuit brains that can absorb and regurgitate odd pop culture facts at will. Try to read actual physical books as much as my attention span will allow, mostly music biographies and memoir. Enjoys all types of movies but wouldn't classify myself as a cinephile. Lover of comedy and Old TV (currently rewatching The Golden Girls)

I'm really just trying to stave off loneliness and boredom in the midst of a pandemic/isolation and see what's out there after a break up a while ago (If anything). I can't really say what I'm looking for in terms of minute details, I have kinks and whatnot, but I feel like the most important thing for me is being made to feel safe and protected and taken care of by a woman first, and maybe the dirty stuff will fall into place with that and maybe it won't, but I will say, trying to overcompensate and be "The Man" in a relationship drove me nuts and brought out really undesirable things in me that I regret now. It took a few months of discovery and research and a lot of turning inward, but I am a lot more willing to dive headlong into forums like these without much, if any, embarrassment or shame. After a while, you just figure life's too short, y'know?

I don't know how to end this. Let's make each other playlists and just be dumb-butts together, shall we?

(Mods; Feel free to "Sir, This is a Wendy's" me and delete if it doesn't fit)

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2020/10/03
02:58 UTC

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Looking for protective girl who can fly

basically the title looking for a girl to RP with who can fly can be a dragon or some other human like creature

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2020/09/21
00:21 UTC

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Hey I want a pen pal

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2020/08/07
02:49 UTC

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[M4F] Gender Role Reversal Primacy World.

I am 18+ and all participants and characters must be 18+

Good afternoon everyone J I have recently finished reading the story Primacy by Julia Manchester and have completely fallen in love with the role reversed world she has created. I dream of one day waking up and finding out that some something has happened and the gender roles we have become accustomed to have been forcefully flipped on their heads.

For those not familiar the story focuses on a world where a declining birth rate for males, chemicals in the environment, and two medical breakthroughs lead to a startling reversal of roles and profound social changes. A father and son are portrayed as they cope with these changes.

Basically it’s a story where women become more masculine and men more feminine and gender roles are turned upside down, even the act of pregnancy shifts from one to the other.

http://www.storysite.org/story/primacy~01.html

http://www.storysite.org/story/primacy~02.html

With that being said, I’m looking for someone, anyone, willing to dive into this world and play with me in it.

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So anyway… I'm Cera, and as you can probably tell I'm looking for a partner for short or long term role-playing, who is interested in the idea of role reversal. My preference being from male to female. The means of this change is totally up in the air and I am open to most things.

Any and all characters must be over the age of 18.

I am open to most kinks, my favorites being: Gender transformation, pregnancy, anal, ass play, toys, insertion, breast expansion, lactation etc…and many more.

Hard limits: Gore, Kids, Animals, Humiliation, Degradation, Blood, Toilet play, etc.

Feel free to private message me or hit me up on chat :)

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2020/05/31
18:44 UTC

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