/r/ExplainBothSides

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Would you like someone to explain both sides of a controversial issue to you? Well, this is the place to ask.


Nothing is easier than to denounce the evildoer; nothing is more difficult than to understand him.

Fyodor Dostoyevsky


The purpose of ExplainBothSides is to create opportunities to present both sides of a controversial issue. Often (perhaps even typically) the result of explaining both sides is informative to readers trying to understand an issue for the first time. But the greatest benefit of ExplainBothSides is usually to the explainer -- who has a chance to develop the habit of mind of understanding the perspectives of those with whom the explainer disagrees.

Try it! Try your best to present both (or multiple) sides in explaining one of these issues.


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Rules for questions:

  1. Questions must state a specific topic about which there is disagreement, and strive to present that question in a neutral manner (e.g. please avoid using loaded terms). Since the purpose of ExplainBothSides is to create opportunities for explainers, questions are subject to removal if they do not clearly present such an opportunity (for example, by asking for only one side to be explained or by not clearly identifying an established controversy).

Note: Your post may be removed if you specifically ask for only "the other side" of a controversy after stating your own view. Posts phrased in this way are usually better suited to r/changemyview .

Rules for top-level comments:

  1. Top-level responses must make a sincere effort to present at least the most common two perceptions of the issue or controversy in good faith, with sympathy to the respective side. Since the purpose of ExplainBothSides is to create opportunities for responders to explore, especially, the side they disagree with, responses that do not make this attempt, however informative they may be, are subject to removal.

  2. Top-level responses must have separate sections using at minimum, literally the language, “Side A would say" and “Side B would say". (Additional sides are allowable if there are more than two).

You do not have to personally believe either of the sides you are explaining, instead you must explain on what supposed basis each side's adherents sincerely believe their own side. It is often the case that one side is less well informed than the other side. While you may point this out, top-level posts must still explain each side as best they would try to explain themselves. Stating only why Side A is right and why Side B is wrong is not allowed.

  1. If you make a top-level response that includes a phrase such as "there is only one side to this”, not only will your comment be removed, but you may receive a time-out from comment privileges in the subreddit.

Required response format:

"Side A would say X

Side B would say Y"


This sub encourages civility. Posts and threads that contain excessive incivility of any sort may be removed by the moderators. Questions, even those that otherwise abide by the rules, that seem especially likely to lead to incivility may be removed for that reason.


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Ukraine and russia

I want to be clear. I am fairly uninformed in global issues, history, and politics. I also have a healthy distrust for the United states government and there involvement in foreign wars. My views are based on my natural response to whatever info I happened to receive. Would Ukraine have been better off negotiating and becoming part of Russia? Or would a powerful russia destroy the world? Give me ONLY nuanced opinions please.

10 Comments
2024/04/03
23:10 UTC

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Who’s really at fault for the border “crisis”

Biden supporters say the right is refusing to pass a bill that would allow them to secure the southern border. Trump/right supports will say that don’t need a bill to do the job and the early executive orders by Biden lead to this. I need more details but that’s as much as I currently understand.

71 Comments
2024/04/03
14:32 UTC

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What are the arguments for increasing and decreasing the size of federal government? (In the United States)

What are the arguments for

A. Increasing the responsibilities of the federal government, taking them away from the states

B. Turning over responsibilities of the federal goveenment to the states

9 Comments
2024/04/03
09:56 UTC

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Was the BLM movement a good thing?

When trying to understand the history of BLM, it strings all the way back to 2013, but it started resurfacing in 2020 during the George Floyd incident and this is mainly the period by which I am referring to in my title.

Following the George Floyd incident, there were many BLM protests that continued to spread and were a mix of peaceful and violent. I'm not exactly sure when the protests turned from peaceful to violent, but it seems to be linked to the Breonna Taylor incident.

(I feel like leading up to this point, most of the country was in support of BLM.)

Following violent protests, came the looters. After people started looting is when some people started to lose their support towards BLM. On the other hand, BLM supporters excused their actions by claiming a change was needed in the U.S. or by stating that the looters/violent protesters were a minority of extremists that didn't accurately represent the average BLM activist, as well as inaccurately representing BLM as a whole.

Also, people started to use the tag "ALM" as a counter to "BLM", saying that all lives matter, in comparison to just highlighting black lives. BLM supporters did not take this lightly, claiming that it was used to suppress BLM and that ALM was not a real movement, but rather a political statement.

Then, there was the Jacob Blake incident, and this was also brought to my attention as an NBA fan, as some of the teams boycotted games because of this.

The George Floyd incident was one of the biggest cases highlighted by BLM along with Breonna Taylor, Jacob Blake, and Rayshard Brooks. By "cases", I mean situations that involved a black man or woman dying to the hands of a white police officer in a controversial, as well as a possible racially-motivated situation.

(Police brutality/reform was one of the biggest motivators for the BLM movement.)

So I ask once more:

Was the BLM movement a good thing?

71 Comments
2024/04/03
09:33 UTC

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ELI5: Why do hardcore male feminists, who apparently believe that women are superior to men, are found out to be abusive?

(post recycled from ELI5, it's "loaded topics" apparently. I'm too lazy to rewrite it, so please counterargue it, or defend "nice guys")

I'm not talking about a "nice guy" becoming a misogynist.

I'm talking about a guy claiming such things already being somewhat immoral.

I'd understand if they were bigoted against men, that's what they claim anyway. And that's how they wouldn't get caught.

But for some reason a lot of times they turn out to actually be assholes to women! And not sometime later, but actually during the time they are tweeting shit like "men are more violent than women, they are evil and shouldn't be in charge".

Please explain this to me.

Notable examples include Dobson, and that watermelon beard guy.

Also, do women hate "nice guys" because those "nice guys" are actually misogynists AND misandrists at the same time, or is it like that "human resources!" meme?

14 Comments
2024/04/02
07:36 UTC

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Having robots serve us all would/wouldn't be morally better than genetically engineering a slave race. In both cases, they'd be sapient, and programmed to enjoy their work.

9 Comments
2024/04/02
04:13 UTC

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If I non-black person enjoy hip hop/rap and like to sing along, shouldn’t I be able to say the N word, since I’m not using it as a derogatory term but a word of endearment?

If I non-black person enjoy hip hop/rap and like to sing along, shouldn’t I be able to say the N word, since I’m not using it as a derogatory term but a word of endearment?

35 Comments
2024/03/30
22:11 UTC

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Whose responsibility is it to help the homeless?

Helping the homeless: responsibility of society/politicians/rich people, or is the responsibility of the individual?

Gonna make the question as open-ended and vague as possible to facilitate LOTS of discussion. Thank you!!!!

32 Comments
2024/03/29
22:01 UTC

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Is it racist to sing along to a song and sing the songs slurs if you’re not a part of that group?

Singing the song for how it is would be appreciating the music for what it was meant to be.

But it can be seen as bad to sing with swears or slurs.

Thoughts?

17 Comments
2024/03/29
18:09 UTC

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Justified or Unjustified- please explain

I am completely disturbed by this video. I do not think it’s justified he was charged with resisting without violence, so what gives the cop the right to punch him in his face over and over him. Also, once he is restrained, the cop elbows him in the face and not only that the cop in the back is hitting him in the baton on his legs while handcuffed. I’ve heard from many people this is justified, but I truly don’t think it is can someone please explain both sides to me! Please watch the video so you get the full idea! https://youtu.be/Ns4reV8Lo7M?si=A83jzmk4kfeKcMMV

12 Comments
2024/03/29
14:56 UTC

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EBS: Having good fashion sense

pros and cons?

1 Comment
2024/03/29
12:00 UTC

1

EBS: Why do people think Trump will be a dictator?

I’d like to know both sides of this, Side A saying he’s a dictator or becoming a dictator is annoying without any clarifications. I hear it be brought up in casual conversations of Trump. I don’t know why and I think it’s something about Project 2025, but I’d like to be explained about this situation. Side B would say that he isn’t at all attempting to become a dictator and it’s just some media stuff.

I’m pretty confused on this specific topic, as a busy college student with a lot on my plate I haven’t bothered to do research myself, but now it’s annoying. Please explain both sides

150 Comments
2024/03/28
23:20 UTC

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EBS the transgender discussion relies on indoctrination

This is a discussion I'm increasingly interested in. At first I didn't care because I didn't think it would impact me but as time goes on I'm seeing that it's something that I should probably think about. The problem is that when trying to have any discussion about this it seems to me that it just relies on blindly accepting it to be true or being called a transphobe. Even when asking valid questions or bringing up things to consider it's often ignored. So please explain both sides A being that it's indoctirnation and B being that it's not

252 Comments
2024/03/28
00:47 UTC

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In school, is slapping a classmate in the face worth detention, suspension, a warning or worse such as expulsion or arrest?

13 Comments
2024/03/27
09:14 UTC

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EBS: Deepfake Porn of real people for person use?

Explain both sides regarding the morality of creating deepfake porn of people you know for strictly personal use

10 Comments
2024/03/26
23:39 UTC

1

What are the pros and cons to Justin Trudeau and Pierre Poilievre? What are their policies? Who should Canadians be voting for in the next election?

6 Comments
2024/03/26
17:45 UTC

0

What bad things did Donald Trump and Joe Biden do? And who's objectively worse?

I’m kind of leaning to Joe Biden because Trump started the insurrection on January 6th, 2021, mismanaged COVID-19, blocked the solution to climate change, ruined the relationship with Europe, and planned the Project 2025 to make himself a dictator by getting more power. But I also want to know what bad things these two guys did, and who’s worse.

139 Comments
2024/03/26
07:47 UTC

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Why do we worry so much about being scammed, yet we still allow ourselves to be subliminally scammed by things like gift cards?

I understand the worry about being hacked, ransomed or comned (etc.), online and in the real world, and it's a necessary worry tbf, but why do we allow ourselves to be scammed subliminally by things like gift cards?

For example. Money is a universally accepted currency that doesn't expire, but we exchange it for something of the same value attached with an expiration date and some terms and conditions. This makes no sense to me? Winning them does, but buying them to use instead of money, I just don't get it.

Please enlighten me.

16 Comments
2024/03/25
13:06 UTC

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Involuntary hospitalization for suicidal intent.

Is it right to hospitalize people against their will if they are at serious risk for suicide?
I know a few arguments for both sides, but need to think through it more.

12 Comments
2024/03/25
06:01 UTC

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Squatter’s Rights

Can someone please explain to me both sides of squatter’s rights? Like what the role of them is in society and how one side would think they’re good and the other would think they’re bad.

4 Comments
2024/03/25
04:13 UTC

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Black people are convicted of more violent crimes due to racism vs black people commit more violent crimes

I understand that both are likely true, but I wonder how stark supporters of either side defend the point

51 Comments
2024/03/24
19:59 UTC

0

White/latin descent individuals using the word 'nigger' in the United States.

i'm an Australian who's noticed this in some cases, just from stupid videos on social media/talking to strangers online from the states.
I wonder how common it is for white people to use that word, particularly in a violent/aggressive manner. Why do some white/latin people use this word and what do black people think of this when it happens? To me as an Australian it just makes no sense at all.

22 Comments
2024/03/24
00:30 UTC

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EBS of not allowing age play rp on reddit subs

ERP subs on reddit allow rape kinks, zoo (demihuman/furry) play, and other very taboo rp but age play has been uniquely singled out as off limits dispite being a relationship/sexual dynamic very firmly within the BDSM play. What are both sides of allowing or not allowing age play uniquely?

15 Comments
2024/03/23
20:47 UTC

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Why Was George Floyd the Martyr BLM Chose?

It just doesn’t make sense to me. He was not a good person. He had a relatively extensive criminal record, one of which was putting a gun to a pregnant woman’s belly. Certainly police brutality is bad, but at the same time Floyd should not have been the role model to choose.

There are plenty of cases where the person shot was much more innocent than Floyd, looking at someone like Tamir Rice. Floyd was not deserving of death, but he also was not an angel and not someone that should be looked up to.

Also, why did BLM wait until Floyd’s death to have the explosive reaction of protests and riots? Why wait until then instead of doing so at an earlier time, because Floyd was definitely not the first death to police brutality.

186 Comments
2024/03/23
06:26 UTC

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EBS of validating neo pronouns like fey/fayself

The traditional pronouns are he/she/they and serve the function of giving more information about the how the person using those than the subject being talked about views the gender of the subject. Pronouns exist only in the people around the subject about how the subject projects into the constellation of gender norms we find correlates to biological gender.

Within that framework how do neo pronouns work and how are they justified?

135 Comments
2024/03/22
13:31 UTC

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EBS if a person of a biological sex is uncomfortable with a transperson (of the opposite sex) sharing a private space, who gives up their comfort?

Here's a real scenario I experienced a while ago:

A 14 year old female entered the men's locker where there were 3-4 adult males (aged 20-60) showering and dressing. She was getting undressed and the men noticed it was a female due to having them having their chest taped. The men quickly threw on towels and left the bathroom coming to the front desk to explain what happened. In the system it showed the 14 year old female identified as a Man.

I recently saw in the news another situation where a male (who identified as a woman) was using the woman's locker room to shave while an adult woman and a child were in there. The lady says the child looked uncomfortable so she took a picture of the man shaving and brought it to the staff to complain resulting in her being kicked out.

So EBS if a person of a biological sex is uncomfortable with a transperson (of the opposite sex) sharing a private space, who gives up their comfort?

267 Comments
2024/03/21
23:35 UTC

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EBS: Suicide is a psychiatric issue (the agreement and disagreement side of the proposition)

7 Comments
2024/03/21
20:25 UTC

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Is it better to focus on friends or academics in university?

I know that I go to college/university for academic purposes. The primary reason for paying the tuition fee is to obtain a degree. However, I have always considered giving time to building friendships. Having friends ensures high morale, confidence, and enjoyment of life. Camaraderie, in other words, is a support system that allows you to feel great about yourself. You can avoid loneliness which can eat into your confidence. However, attending social events, a vehicle for meeting people, requires time commitment that could otherwise spent on studying. I care about the effects of time commitment on activities because it is important to consider, I only have a limited number of hours in a day. If I wake up today, I need it to count. As an Asian-American, I am under the impression that I must compete with others who look like me. If I don’t make the right decision, a job recruiter or potential friend could replace with someone else. I not ready to fail while someone else succeeds. I prioritize academics and school work or friendships or one main reason, return on investment. Having a degree and strong resume allows to become qualified for any position that I decide to apply to. However, if I spend time drinking and watching entertainment, what I get in return? A moment of euphoria (pun unintended), with someone who will probably never talked to me again. I have lost 5 friends so far at school even after I spent time be friendly to them and respecting their boundaries. My single room is just a reminder that friendships are meaningless. By contrast, I could break up someone and lose a friend but still have a job. I can hide the pain through money. I have considered study groups because they combine the joys of academics and social interaction, but I have not been able to find a group and some of these people will likely stay within their friend circles. What should I do?

18 Comments
2024/03/21
07:32 UTC

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EBS: If a content creator has an unethical sponsor, who shares the most blame? The creator, the platform or the government?

Many sponsored products are either scams or ethically shady, but still get promoted on platforms like YouTube and TikTok.

One argument is that the content creator has an ethical duty to vet sponsors and reject any they can't vouch for.

Another argument is that creators can't possibly be an expert in every product category, and sometimes you just need to keep the lights on.

Platforms could easily ban the largest and most unethical sponsors, but they seem to be ignoring the problem. Scam companies that turn out to be actively dangerous or scams should probably fined into oblivion by law enforcement.

Who is most at fault here?

15 Comments
2024/03/19
08:16 UTC

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Is being therian/otherkin/alterhuman or a furry something that only white people have freedom and resources to do?

I tried sending this to nostupidquestions but they don't allow it, and asked me to go here.

Please read this in entirety before you comment. I am a white person, just saying this off the bat. The TikTok I am talking about, I don't actually remember, nor who commented. This was a while ago, and I am just now remembering it. I have already searched this subreddit and the Internet for answers and came up with nothing.

I saw a TikTok a while ago, where a black person was dressing up as a furry, in their fur suit. They were being stereotypically "cringey" and playing around and having fun. By the looks of it they seemed to be a teenager or young adult. I saw a comment below the video by another black person that read something like (not exact probably, again, this was a few months ago or more), "why are you in this white-person community".

Is it because we are not doing enough work to accept and honor people of color in our community, and there's a rampant racism issue? Or does it run much deeper? Why would they comment this?

13 Comments
2024/03/17
22:51 UTC

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