/r/DesiWeddings
Welcome to Desi Weddings! A newly created subreddit to give desi brides, grooms, and guests a platform to ask questions, share wedding information, and find inspiration.
Feel free to pick your flair! ⬆
Welcome to Desi Weddings! ♡
A newly created subreddit to give desi brides, grooms, and guests a platform to ask questions, share wedding information, and find inspiration.
Desi is a term referring to something or someone who is from the South Asian subcontinent and its diaspora around the world.
There's no limits as to who can join - whether you or your spouse are desi, whether you want an Indian-themed wedding, or whether you're invited as a guest to a Pakistani wedding or need advice on how to do bhangra at a Punjabi wedding - anyone and everyone is welcome!
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Not to make the slideshow, but for example if someone giving a speech or toast wanted photos to go along, did your venue have that equipment and what was the cost? Just want to compare costs. Hotel reception if that helps. It doesn’t have to be recent. Thank you!
Looking for a MUA for my wedding
I’m getting married in February, in Uttarakhand. And my god is it a plight to find a good/decent minimalist makeup artist under 50-60K for mehendi, engagement, and wedding (2 day events) 😭 I can’t find one MUA who has a good portfolio under 85K so far. I’m willing to offer the stay / travel from Delhi or nearby but I really need some recommendations.
I’m looking for suggestions from anyone who’s any idea.
Thanks already 💖
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Hello!
I'm a white woman marrying into an Indian family. My fiance is a first generation American and his parents are from India. We're all in the US and we're having a Hindu ceremony that the priest has told us will take 1.5 to 2 hours. That was a huge shock to me as all I've ever experienced (as a hillbilly from a small town in the Southern US) have been wedding ceremonies that are less than 30 mins. I'm an anxious person even in routine circumstances, so I'm even more anxious in new territory like this. I'd just like some advice/assurance about some worries I have. (I do hope none of these questions come across as disrespectful. If they are considered disrespectful, I sincerely apologize and ask that you let me know so I can learn. These are beautiful traditions and I feel so honored to have a chance to be involved in them.)
I've heard it's customary for people to get up and walk around/visit with others during the ceremony. Is this accurate? Should I make a note in the program that this is acceptable so everyone feels comfortable doing so? I'm just so worried that people will be uncomfortable sitting for 1.5-2 hours straight so I want to encourage folks to get up and stretch their legs as necessary. We're in our mid-30s so a good portion of our audience are older relatives.
(Sorry, this is probably TMI) I am so anxious about having to go to the bathroom in the middle of the ceremony. Did anyone else have similar fears? If so, what did you do to overcome that fear? Or did the ceremony pass by so fast that you did not even think about having to go?
Does anyone have any experience with Hindu ceremonies that have a "mixed" audience? Our priest will be explaining everything in English after he performs each part of the ceremony. We have also written out a program explaining everything. Do you have any other tips for ensuring no one is lost or do you think this should cover everything?
Thank you in advance for any and all responses!
Hi There! Does anyone have a spreadsheet that estimates costs in the US for like venue catering decor DJ photo for a hindu wedding they are willing to share? ( EAST COAST)
I know people say you can keep it to wear to other weddings, but mine is so elaborate and heavy that that seems unrealistic. But I have never felt so amazing in a dress so I kind of sentimentally want to keep it! Any ideas on how to tailor a heavily worked lehenga so it can be used for other occasions?
this is the dress (for context)
Hi this is my first time poster, long time lurker. I just had a quick question for yall since I keep getting mixed responses. But I was thinking of wearing a black dress from zuridor for my nikkah. However, I don’t know if that be a bad idea, if my in laws would dislike me for doing so. My dad doesn’t seem to mind as long as I’m happy, and I don’t have a mom to turn to ask about whether or not it’s a good idea since she passed away. So looking for some advice here. I have also attached the dress and just letting you know the price is $1550 USD so like obviously not everyone has that kind of money to drop on an outfit like that everyday it has to be for some special occasion which is why I’m asking.
I’ve also added a picture for reference.
Please let me know y’all really stuck on the decision.
My henna is taped with mefix tape and when do people usually remove it to achieve the possible darkest stain? I read that after 24 hours, it’s no longer beneficial?
My husband and I are white Americans attending a wedding in India soon. We are both invited to a mehendi/welcome dinner. Today, we each found kurta sets at fabindia. We thought they'd be appropriate but I want to get another opinion.
He has a bright greenish/teal cotton top with a little embroidery on it and mine is light blue cotton with a lot of embroidery. They're both long kurtas. We also both got white/off white dupattas and pants (hopefully we won't look too matchy-matchy lol).
I actually went to another mehendi 8 years ago and wore a short kurta and black leggings, which seemed a little underdressed in retrospect. So hopefully I am going to do better this time. 🤞 What do you think? Thanks in advance for any help/opinions you can share.
Fear not, lovebirds! This blog is your one-stop shop for inspiration. We've curated a list of 10 jewelry gift ideas that cater to different styles and budgets, ensuring you find the perfect token of love for the bride and groom (or both!):
1. The Classic: Personalized Necklaces
A necklace with the couple's initials, their wedding date, or a special message is a sentimental gift they'll treasure forever. Consider birthstone accents for a touch of personalization.
2. Modern Muse: Mismatched Earrings
For the fashion-forward couple, mismatched earrings add a touch of playful individuality. Choose a pair with complementary styles or stones for a cohesive look.
3. Everlasting Love: Infinity Jewelry
Symbolizing eternal love, infinity bracelets, necklaces, or rings are a beautiful way to represent the couple's commitment. Available in various metals and styles, this gift is sure to resonate.
4. Something Borrowed, Something New: Modern Heirlooms
Vintage-inspired pieces with a modern twist offer a unique twist on traditional jewelry. Look for lockets, cameos, or statement rings with a touch of old-world charm.
5. For Him: Engraved Cufflinks or Tie Clip
Elevate the groom's formal attire with a personalized cufflink or tie clip set. Engrave their initials, their wedding date, or a special message for a thoughtful touch.
6. For Her: Delicate Stacking Rings
Stacking rings are a trendy and versatile gift. Choose a set with a mix of metals and textures, or personalize it with their birthstones or initials.
7. A Touch of Luxury: Pearl Jewelry
A timeless symbol of elegance, pearl necklaces, bracelets, or earrings are a sophisticated gift for the bride. Consider modern takes on pearl jewelry, like geometric shapes or mixed metals.
8. Symbolic Charm: Birthstone Jewelry
Birthstone jewelry adds a personal touch to any piece. Choose necklaces, bracelets, or rings featuring their birthstones, symbolizing their unique connection.
9. A Gift for Two: Matching Bracelets
Matching bracelets, engraved with their initials or a special message, are a romantic way for the couple to feel connected even when apart.
10. Signet Ring Legacy
A signet ring, engraved with the couple's initials or a family crest, can become a cherished heirloom passed down through generations.
Bonus Tip: Consider the couple's personal style when choosing jewelry. Opt for classic pieces for a timeless look or go bolder with trendy styles to reflect their individuality.
Remember, the most important aspect of a wedding gift is the sentiment behind it. Choose a piece of jewelry that represents your love and well wishes for the happy couple as they embark on their new life together!
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Wedding season is in full swing, and finding the perfect gift for the happy couple can be a challenge. Jewelry offers a timeless and elegant way to commemorate their special day. But with so many options available, how do you choose the right piece?
Fear not, lovebirds! This blog is your one-stop shop for inspiration. We've curated a list of 10 jewelry gift ideas that cater to different styles and budgets, ensuring you find the perfect token of love for the bride and groom (or both!):
1. The Classic: Personalized Necklaces
A necklace with the couple's initials, their wedding date, or a special message is a sentimental gift they'll treasure forever. Consider birthstone accents for a touch of personalization.
2. Modern Muse: Mismatched Earrings
For the fashion-forward couple, mismatched earrings add a touch of playful individuality. Choose a pair with complementary styles or stones for a cohesive look.
3. Everlasting Love: Infinity Jewelry
Symbolizing eternal love, infinity bracelets, necklaces, or rings are a beautiful way to represent the couple's commitment. Available in various metals and styles, this gift is sure to resonate.
4. Something Borrowed, Something New: Modern Heirlooms
Vintage-inspired pieces with a modern twist offer a unique twist on traditional jewelry. Look for lockets, cameos, or statement rings with a touch of old-world charm.
5. For Him: Engraved Cufflinks or Tie Clip
Elevate the groom's formal attire with a personalized cufflink or tie clip set. Engrave their initials, their wedding date, or a special message for a thoughtful touch.
6. For Her: Delicate Stacking Rings
Stacking rings are a trendy and versatile gift. Choose a set with a mix of metals and textures, or personalize it with their birthstones or initials.
7. A Touch of Luxury: Pearl Jewelry
A timeless symbol of elegance, pearl necklaces, bracelets, or earrings are a sophisticated gift for the bride. Consider modern takes on pearl jewelry, like geometric shapes or mixed metals.
8. Symbolic Charm: Birthstone Jewelry
Birthstone jewelry adds a personal touch to any piece. Choose necklaces, bracelets, or rings featuring their birthstones, symbolizing their unique connection.
9. A Gift for Two: Matching Bracelets
Matching bracelets, engraved with their initials or a special message, are a romantic way for the couple to feel connected even when apart.
10. Signet Ring Legacy
A signet ring, engraved with the couple's initials or a family crest, can become a cherished heirloom passed down through generations.
Bonus Tip: Consider the couple's personal style when choosing jewelry. Opt for classic pieces for a timeless look or go bolder with trendy styles to reflect their individuality.
Remember, the most important aspect of a wedding gift is the sentiment behind it. Choose a piece of jewelry that represents your love and well wishes for the happy couple as they embark on their new life together!
Hi! Can anyone recommend Pakistani designers in Karachi for heavy formals for my mamu’s shaadi, please. The prices are crazy and I don’t know where to begin looking my budgets is 35k but I want it to be good quality and somewhat branded. Please let me know!!
Just curious how they would compare in cost. Has anyone bought or shopped for both? I guess with desi weddings you often have both a wedding sari and lengha too right?
Hi everyone!
I just got engaged last month and had a baat paaki(I’m Pakistani idk if that makes a difference in these types of traditions). We just did something super small with the two of our immediate families, and it was absolutely perfect🥹🥹🥹
In December we’re going to have a bigger event with my cousins ect. Should we call this an engagement? Another “Baat Pakki”? Or something more like a Date Fixing dinner(announcing the date of our wedding to everyone?)
I’m aiming for the third option but am confused on what to call it. If anyone has any ideas please let me know id really appreciate it!!!
Looking for recs! Does not need to be Desi. Must be available in September.
Hi All, I am looking for comfortable shoes to perform and dance in at my wedding. I usually perform barefoot but my lehenga is long and will most likely get in the way if I do not wear heels. Also not interested in wearing platform sneakers because they are so bulky. Would appreciate any suggestions! Thanks in advance!
Hi,
Looking for a DJ for our wedding
Ideally someone who's able to play both, bollywood, pop and house music. Any recommendations?
Also how much do DJs usually cost per event?
Hi guys,
I’m from India, residing near Delhi. Doesn’t make sense to buy a lehanga worth 2-4L, anyone selling or renting lehangas?
Attending a wedding next week and this was the only thing I had available. I'm just worried it's too dark/might show up as black. Is it too dark and should I just wear something else?
Looking for recommendations on where to get both simple and fancy suits tailored and they do a good job designing in Jalandhar. Any suggestions? Thanks!
Hi looking for recommendations for some affordable venues in the Long Island/Queens/New Rochelle area. Potentially in New Jersey as well if it’s not too far from the city.
I am planning to use real hair extensions for my wedding events but I have having multiple events back to back. Wondering if anyone can provide insight on how extensions are maintained between uses especially when they’re heavily styled with hairspray etc. Can I re-use them right away? Do I have to wash them each time?
Nestled in the heart of Rajasthan, Jaipur is a city that embodies regal grandeur, cultural richness, and timeless elegance. It's no wonder that couples from around the world flock to this majestic Pink City to exchange vows amidst its palatial settings and vibrant culture. However, orchestrating a wedding in Jaipur requires meticulous planning and execution to transform your dream into reality. That's where the expertise of the best wedding planners comes into play. Today, let's explore the top wedding planners in Jaipur who can curate a celebration that mirrors your vision and surpasses all expectations.
Are you seeking Indian attire that seamlessly blends tradition with contemporary flair? Look no further! We've compiled a selection of the finest Indian clothing boutiques scattered throughout the Virginia, United States, each celebrated for its distinctive offerings and impeccable standards. Let's embark on a journey into the realm of Indian fashion as we explore these ten boutiques distinguished by their superb craftsmanship, diverse collections, and deep cultural roots. Virginia has witnessed a significant rise in the demand for Indian attire, leading to the emergence of numerous esteemed Indian clothing establishments. These boutiques cater not only to the Indian diaspora like bridesmaid lehenga, wedding guest dresses, engagement lehengas but also attract fashion enthusiasts eager to embrace the vibrant hues and intricate patterns of Indian couture. Let's explore the top stores where you can find the perfect attire for any occasion.
Website: https://www.moharbyec.com/
Address: 3065 Centreville Rd Unit C, Herndon, VA 20171, United States
Mohar Indian Clothing Boutique is a South Asian dresses and jewelry store located in Herndon, Virginia. MOHAR means the royal seal. At MOHAR Boutique they take pride in creating elegant handcrafted outfits to represent the royal seal for fashion. They carry a wide variety of bridesmaid lehenga, wedding guest dresses, lehenga for engagement, Indian sarees, lehenga for bride, lehenga saree, lehenga choli for women, blouses, gowns, daily wear kurtis, salwar, palazzos, and a selection of men's kurtas. They have special clothing for your little kids! Their bespoke Indian outfits can be customized in all sizes, colors, and styles. They carry readymade bridal outfits for that super special day and also custom make clothing to make your clothing more exquisite and memorable. Bridesmaids, groomsmen, and all other coordinated outfits can be made both in-store and online.
Website: https://www.meenalsindianfashions.com/
Address: 2462 Leyland Ridge Rd, Herndon, VA 20171, United States
Meenal's Indian Fashions boutique has been located in Herndon, VA since 2002 serving Virginia, United States. They offer a stunning array of traditional and contemporary Indian clothing, jewelry, and accessories. From vibrant Indian sarees to elegant lehenga for engagement, lehenga for reception, Ghagra choli for women, bridesmaid lehenga, wedding guest dresses, salwar kameez sets, and intricate women's gold jewelry, customers can expect to find a wide variety of options to suit different tastes and occasions. The boutique might also provide personalized styling services to help customers find the perfect outfit for weddings, festivals, or other special events. With its rich cultural offerings and commitment to quality and customer satisfaction, Meenal's Indian Fashions likely stands as a beloved destination for those seeking authentic Indian attire in the Herndon area. In addition to serving local customers at their retail location, they promptly fulfill the online orders. Store is Open Saturday and Sundays 1-5 PM (Walk-ins) and Mon-Fri 2-6 PM (by Appointment).
Website: https://www.facebook.com/ParulsFashion/
Address: 43984 Kings Arms Square, Ashburn, VA 20147, United States
Parul’s Fashions has been located in Ashburn, VA since 2002 serving Virginia, United States. Tailored to your individual needs, the boutique offers attentive, one-on-one customer service. They have diverse collection spans from formal to casual attire suitable for all ages like wedding guest dresses, bridesmaid lehengas, bridal lehengas, engagement lehengas, lehenga for women . Specializing in Indian bridal wear, party attire, and a range of casual and semi-formal outfits for all occasions, including weddings, parties, we also feature an extensive array of accessories. Additionally, they provide custom-made and fitted garments tailored to your preferences.
Website : https://www.mohifashion.com/
Mohi is a curated multi-designer online marketplace offering bridal lehengas, Indian sarees, designer wear, lehenga for engagement, lehenga for reception, Ghagra choli for women and men's groom wear. They source their products from Surat, Jaipur, Kolkata, Tamil Nadu, Chandni Chowk, Lucknow, Assam and so on, providing a focus on reflecting the diversity of South Asian fashion. Mohi Fashion provides a 10% discount on all MRPs year-round and exclusive offers, along with video consultations for brides and customizable outfits in all sizes.
Website: https://www.mohini.us/
Address: 43179 Ashley Green Dr, Ashburn, VA 20148, United States
Mohini is a premium bridal boutique which is located at Ashburn, United States in the year 2013. At Mohini, we embody the enduring charm of fashion, a craft we have honed as a leading bridal boutique. They proudly offer an extensive selection of over 4,000 designs from a multitude of designers. Our establishment has an enchanting assortment of Bridal Lehengas & Party Wear Lehenga, lehenga for wedding, lehenga for engagement, lehenga for reception, bridesmaid lehenga, wedding guest dresses, Indian Sarees, Designer Blouse, Indowestern Dress, and Menswear. The complete range awaits discovery through an in-store visit or virtual tour. "Senorita," Mohini's luxury designer brand, catering to weddings.
Distinguished for their comprehensive services and commitment to providing a boutique-like shopping experience, they pride themselves on offering reasonable prices, exquisite selections, and outstanding customer care.
Website: https://www.paaie.com/
Address: 25819 Mandeville Dr, Chantilly, VA 20152, United States
Paaie is a leading store located in Chantilly, Virginia, United Stated by Anjali Gupta in 2019. They carry men's clothing, kids clothing, religious products, gift items, wedding favors, bridal jewelry, women's gold jewelry for every occasion, suits, Indian sarees and other dresses like wedding guest dresses, bridesmaid lehenga, engagement lehengas, chaniya choli, wedding lehengas, bridal lehengas for women. They are working with manufacturers across the globe to provide the customers with the best designs and quality.
Website: https://www.facebook.com/Rubyscollectionstore/
Address: 8032 Leesburg Pike, Vienna, VA 22182, United States
Ruby’s Collection is a premier store located in Vienna in Virginia, United States founded by Ruby Singh. They are premier retailers in the Indo-Pak region, offering a wide range of casual, formal, and wedding attire for men, women like lehenga designs for women, bridesmaid lehenga, wedding guest dresses, lehenga for engagement, lehenga for reception and children. Their services include professional stitching and alterations for a personalized fit. If you adore Indian traditional attire but seek affordable options, they have got you covered.
At Ruby's Collection, they curate a boutique selection of exquisite Indian garments for both genders. Their focus is on providing top-notch quality while keeping prices reasonable. From attire to stage decorations, costume jewelry, rentals, and accessories, we cater to all your Indian fashion needs. They are specialized in Indian Clothing Alterations | Indo-Pak Costume Jewelry | Pakistani Clothing.