/r/BlackR4R

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This community is for black people and those who love us. Any type of relationship is welcome.

If you are looking for a

  • Dating partner
  • Fun time partner
  • Talking buddy
  • Fun buddy in your area
  • Dirty chat partner
  • Someone to trade kinky pics with

This is the place for your chocolate lovers!

Posting:

You have to include a tag and your age in the beginning of your post. This makes your post easier to understand.

Legend:

M -> Male F -> Female FT -> Female Transgender MT -> Male Transgender A -> Anyone

Tag examples: [M4F] [F4M] [M4M] [F4F] [M4A] [F4FT] [MT4M]

Post title examples: 26 [F4M] NYC - Interested in friends with benefits 32 [M4M] - Looking for someone to Skype with 19 [M4A] - Want to trade videos, maybe even cam

Subreddits you should check out

/r/r4r /r/eroticliterature /r/sexystories /r/snapchat /r/dirtysnapchat

/r/BlackR4R

800 Subscribers

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36 [M4F] #Edmonton, Alberta - Attached Dad seeking busty black woman for ongoing FWB

Being that I've always been attracted to darker women, I am seeking a black woman who would be interested in indeluging in a regular FWB engagement.

In me you get: 36 years old, Caucasian, 6'1, average built with good size below the belt. I lean on the side of dominant in the bedroom, I enjoy mutual oral, and my focus is on mutual satisfaction; you cumming makes me cum that much more intensely. I'm fairly easy to speak with, I would say that I'm educated, and I don't take myself too seriously. As mentioned, I am attached, meaning you would have to be comfortable given the scenario.

Based off my preferences on physical attraction, I am seeking an ebony with large natural breasts, a chubby build, and someone willing to let me enjoy their body as much as I hope they'd enjoy mine. Additionally, I'm hoping to come across someone mature, easy to get along with, and comfortable being filled bare back on a regular basis. Being disease and drug free would be a must.

If this post has caught your eye and you'd like to chat to more accurately gauge if we'd click in person.

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2025/01/29
14:22 UTC

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Black men

When u finger coil your hair y’all separating to 4 lines like a x or you don’t separate at all and just do it? I’m separating to 4 lines but I saw a video that it looks better with no parts

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2025/01/24
13:18 UTC

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43 [M4F] #NYC - looking for Fwb

You: I need you nasty or at least willing. A masochistic Bisexual babygirl,18-30, 5'5 at the tallest, slim thick, thick. Huuuge titties and a phat booty or lil phat booty. Talkative fun & Submissive with a lil bratty side.

I'm a 43y black Man, 6'2 loving rough Dominant Daddy with a Dad bod, 6.5 inch Dick.

My Kinks: Age play/Dark Ageplay, Age Gap, Ler, Voyeur, exhibitionist, Sweat/Pheromones, Dominance, Impact play, Role play(dress up), Dirty talk, Cnc, Praise kink, Kissing, biting(firm), Spit, Anal/anal play(giving), Pet play(kitten/Puppy), ANR, Begging, Ddlg, Taboo, Slave, Sadist, Choking(giving), Head(giving & receiving), Creampies, Breeding, Pregnancy.

0 Comments
2025/01/14
17:37 UTC

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Black Whale

Anybody know how to exchange black whale and what exchange do you use how do you do it

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2025/01/08
15:10 UTC

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45 [M4A] #NYC - Introverted Poly Dominant Sadist looking for partners

I am seeking a connection with polyamorous people, preferably local to me, particularly those who would ask for clarification instead of acting on assumptions.

I identify as an autistic queer cis-male bi/pan/omni-sexual dominant sadist kinky macramé single tail whip-maker. I am also a technophile sci-fi/fantasy nerd prone to lengthy dissections of a character's motivation even if they are passingly mentioned in the source material. Debating ideas is a joy, especially when trying to reconstruct them for better understanding.

You would begin and remain an intellectual equal, who challenges my mind to be better, while also entertaining the other kinky desires. Though a fair bit of power exchange would be at the root of our relationship, we would not be so mutually one-dimensional. I expect that you would want to be known for your personality and viewpoint as much as your reactions to consensual play.

I am open to all for introductions and questions, asking only that you make clear your intent sooner rather than later. Let us see what we might become to one another.

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2025/01/01
19:16 UTC

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34 white male Louisville-KY

Male almost 34 louisville ky

I'm looking for an additional wife. My wife is aware and supportive. I'd love to have children as well. We are planning to own a homestead in the next ten years. Would love for you to be a part of that dream.

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2024/12/28
19:13 UTC

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37 M M4F Harrisburg PA: looking for long term awkward company

Lonely and want to have some company. Working on becoming a better person but in the meantime I would like to look forward to spending time with someone. Willing to drive at least a hour away. Pick a place or I can. Arcade, museums, movies, libraries or hobby shop. I’m down with it as long as we spend time together. Come as you are and be ready to just enjoy the moment. It’s ok if we take it slow and just chat.

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2024/12/13
15:07 UTC

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Awkward black girl (NYC)

F28 Awkward black girl looking for like minded black awkward ppl It's so hard to find people like me and I would love another weirdo to see if they match my energy Guys and girls welcome 🤗 friendly vibes please

5 Comments
2024/11/28
01:17 UTC

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35 [F4M] #TN #USA - seeking Dom/Dom-leaning switch who wants a meaningful, irl LTR

It could all be so simple. I'm looking for a Dom, aged 30-42, who wants a very loving relationship. A D/s dynamic that's rooted in mutual respect, trust, and the understanding that I'm the only sub for him & he's the only Dom for me. Is that too much to ask for? I can be just as possessive as the Dom I seek. I'm a curvy African American sub-leaning switch, standing at 5'7 who prefers the term "spicy" over "brat." I will always speak my mind & I require a strong Dom who can handle that & who isn't easily intimidated. I'm not looking to be tamed. I want my personality to be cherished & allowed to thrive. I'm as willing to say "fuck you" as I am "yes, Sir." I want a progressive, God-fearing man who wants to be a part of a power couple. We seek to please each other. I do aim to Domme sometimes too, but my very first love is CNC, predator/prey, obsessive/possessive play as a sub. I need a man who can communicate well and who values open, truthful, daily communication. I'm a feminist who doesn't give a fuck about gender roles. So, I want to adore you and make sure you feel as safe, loved, & protected as you make me feel. Men need the same assurances that women do and I will treat my forever Dom as my King, as long as I'm him Queen. Don't mess this opportunity up guys. Please message me with substantial information about you - help me really get to know you. I don't need someone who gives up easily & I don't want to be love bombed in the beginning & then your effort wanes. I want 100% of your genuine effort at all times because my goodness I will always give you 100% of my heart, soul, & affection.

I hope this resonates with someone. I told myself I wouldn't post again, but dammit, I want my partner in crime.

2 Comments
2024/09/09
04:09 UTC

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32 m4m Massachusetts- if you have a bbc that you want sucked message me

Fuck my mouth, make me choke and gag. In Tewksbury ma

0 Comments
2024/07/08
01:23 UTC

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44 [M4A] #NYC - introvert Dominant Sadist seeking poly companion

To elaborate on the title, I am seeking a connection with polyamorous people, preferably local to me, that want to be explore being a companion to my Doctor Who.

I identify as an autistic queer cis-male bi/pan/omni-sexual dominant sadist kinky macramé retired amateur fetish photographer and single tail whip-maker. I am also a technophile sci-fi/fantasy nerd prone to lengthy dissections of a character's motivation even if they are passingly mentioned in the source material. Verbosity is a symptom of my interest and desire for that to be understood, and I can find myself paraphrasing myself to see if my point comes across. I have posted in my history a kink list if you are curious.

If you are reading this far, perhaps you feel similar. Maybe you you are inspired by my words and feel that you could be my imagined partner in exploring the taboo, and when we come out of the shadows, chill in our pjs watching tv. I would come to know you as you would me as complimentary hedonists blazing trails of sensation we previously only fantasized about, returning back to the comfort of blankets, couches, and cuddles. My interest is to have a companion, an intellectual equal, who challenges my mind to be better, while also entertaining the other kinky desires.

I am open to all for introductions and questions, particularly from those local to me. I'm excited to see what kind of connection we can build together.

0 Comments
2024/07/06
15:55 UTC

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38 [M4F] #Edmonton, Alberta - Daddy dom looking for discreet FWB into age gaps

I'm a Daddy Dom who's hoping to find a curious and playful little/middle to build a bond and ongoing dynamic with. I'm a nerdy, 38yo, 420 friendly, Persian man who's working on his dad bod. I’m open to a wide variety of activities and enjoy being an understanding experimental partner for equally curious partners. I'm an affectionate, compassionate and communicative Dom who's been feeling some intense paternal urges lately, and would like to explore those feelings through helping a young woman explore her mind, body, spirit, and sexuality. I'd like to play with you (video games or otherwise), cuddle endlessly, help you explore your boundaries, mentor you both sexually and personally, and provide thorough and consistent aftercare.

5'6, 170lbs, 420 friendly. DM me for more info.

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2024/02/15
19:49 UTC

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Man... this kinda sucks lol

Isn't it sad how small this sub is? It's like we barely even care about meeting each and dating each other as a people, like wtf is goin on? lol Tell me what y'all think... maybe it's just me 🤷🏿‍♂️

15 Comments
2024/02/12
15:30 UTC

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38 [M4F] #Edmonton, Alberta, Canada - Experienced daddy Dom looking for a virgin to gently deflower

The short version of my profile: I'm 5'6, Persian, average build, 5'6, 170lbs, 420 friendly. I'm open to a wide variety of activities and enjoy being an understanding experimental partner for equally curious partners. I'm an affectionate, compassionate and communicative Dom Daddy who's been feeling some intense paternal urges lately, and would like to explore those feelings through helping a virgin girl explore her body and her sexuality. I'd like to play with you (video games or otherwise), cuddle endlessly, take you out to kink events, help you explore your boundaries, mentor you both sexually and personally, and provide thorough and consistent aftercare.

My interest in finding a virgin is primarily out of a desire to pay it forward. I was shown great care, patience, and compassion during my first time, and I would love to do the same for others.

0 Comments
2024/02/06
20:17 UTC

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42 [M4M] #Seattle May I Please Service Your Str8 BBC?

Offering a warm worshipping mouth for a deserving Str8 black guy. Can be a quick “blow and go”, or a long, slow, draining blow job. I do lick balls, deepthroat & swallow.

No strings attached, no reciprocation, we can keep it totally anonymous if you like… I’m OK with ongoing, or one time only…

Me: white, ddf, 42, 6’3”, 185 pounds, average looking gay dude… can host in South Seattle, travel to you, or meet somewhere discreet…

You: Str8, black, 18+, decent to excellent shape, also ddf…

Most importantly, be horny and looking for a warm throat to unload in!

0 Comments
2024/02/05
02:41 UTC

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20F #London

5ft, busty, slim thick, pretty, F4M

Anyone here in London?

4 Comments
2024/01/31
21:57 UTC

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38 [M4F] #Edmonton, Alberta, Canada - Experienced daddy Dom looking for a virgin to gently deflower

The short version of my profile: I'm 5'6, Persian, average build, 5'6, 170lbs, 420 friendly. I'm open to a wide variety of activities and enjoy being an understanding experimental partner for equally curious partners. I'm an affectionate, compassionate and communicative Dom Daddy who's been feeling some intense paternal urges lately, and would like to explore those feelings through helping a virgin girl explore her body and her sexuality. I'd like to play with you (video games or otherwise), cuddle endlessly, take you out to kink events, help you explore your boundaries, mentor you both sexually and personally, and provide thorough and consistent aftercare.

My interest in finding a virgin is primarily out of a desire to pay it forward. I was shown great care, patience, and compassion during my first time, and I would love to do the same for others.

0 Comments
2024/01/31
18:08 UTC

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28 [M4F] Looking for a Fellow Anal Fiend

I'm a black male living in America and I've been in love with anal for close to a decade now and have been anal-only for about 4 years. I'm into any and all things related to (female) anal and asses. My interests range quite a bit from extreme in a mindset sense, to extreme in a physical sense. If you are a woman into anal sex a LOT (nearly anal-only) that it's to the point that you would rather get fucked in your ass than your pussy; DM me. All conversation *has* to be anal-related.

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2024/01/26
23:03 UTC

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38 [M4F] #Edmonton, Alberta - Daddy dom looking for curious FWB into age gaps

I'm a Daddy Dom who's hoping to find a curious and playful little/middle to build a bond and ongoing dynamic with. I'm a nerdy, 38yo, 420 friendly, Persian man who's working on his dad bod. I’m open to a wide variety of activities and enjoy being an understanding experimental partner for equally curious partners. I'm an affectionate, compassionate and communicative Dom who's been feeling some intense paternal urges lately, and would like to explore those feelings through helping a young woman explore her mind, body, spirit, and sexuality. I'd like to play with you (video games or otherwise), cuddle endlessly, help you explore your boundaries, mentor you both sexually and personally, and provide thorough and consistent aftercare.

5'6, 170lbs, 420 friendly. DM me for more info.

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2024/01/25
22:47 UTC

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36 [M4F] #Edmonton, Alberta, Canada - Seeking busty black woman for ongoing FWB

Being that I've always been attracted to darker women, I am seeking a black woman who would be interested in indeluging in a regular FWB engagement.

In me you get: 36 years old, Caucasian, 6'1, average built with good size below the belt. I lean on the side of dominant in the bedroom, I enjoy mutual oral, and my focus is on mutual satisfaction; you cumming makes me cum that much more intensely. I'm fairly easy to speak with, I would say that I'm educated, and I don't take myself too seriously.

Based off my preferences on physical attraction, I am seeking a dark beauty with large natural breasts, and someone willing to let me enjoy their body as much as I hope they'd enjoy mine. Large bust (proportionate for your height) is preferred, though I enjoy both petite and chubby/thick body types equally. Additionally, I'm hoping to come across someone both mature and easy to get along with.

If this post has caught your eye and you'd like to chat to more accurately gauge if we'd click in person, feel free to send a private message.

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2023/12/09
11:23 UTC

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42 [M4M] #Seattle Suck your BBC while you game or watch a movie

Horny? Stressed? Looking for some oral attention?

I am an obedient sub gwm, happy to orally service a Str8 black guy while he ignores me…

I’ll suck your dick, lick your balls, and swallow your load, while you play video games, watch TV or Str8 porn, smoke a bowl, or sext with a hottie. Little to no talking, except for you giving orders, possibly announcing when you’re about to cum in my mouth…

42, 6’3”, 185 pounds, ddf.

UB 18+, str8, horny, ddf also.

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2023/12/02
22:27 UTC

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39 [m4f] # San Diego - black female wanted in so cal

Looking to meet a sexy black female in or near San Diego for on going , love a woman with curves , if that is you please say hello

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2023/11/27
09:33 UTC

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44 [M4R] #NYC #Brooklyn Dominant Sadist introvert seeking poly companion

Hello! I'm a queer cismale married polyamorist who's looking to explore kink-focused relationships with similarly-minded individuals. I'm particularly interested in aspects of BDSM such as CNC/free use, sadism, domination, and rope bondage.

As an introverted, detail-oriented, and analytical person, I love exploring the intricacies of power dynamics and finding creative ways to express dominance and submission, especially through rope. I value communication, honesty, and integrity above all else in a partner, and I'm only open to building consensual relationships with people who are comfortable with non-monogamy, regardless of gender or sexual orientation.

I'm looking for someone who can balance out my nerdy side while still satisfying my hedonistic desires. Ideally, I'd love to find a partner who's interested in building a meaningful, long-term relationship with all the time management that implies.

Bonus points if you're also a fan of mass media, whether that's TV, movies, or games.

If you're interested in getting to know me better and exploring our shared interests, please reach out. I'm excited to see what kind of connection we can build together.

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2023/11/14
03:46 UTC

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42 [M4M] #Seattle Drain Your Str8 Dick?

Offering a warm worshipping mouth for a deserving Str8 black guy. Can be a quick in and out, or settle in for a long, slow, draining blow job. I lick balls, deep throat & swallow.

No strings attached, no reciprocation, we can keep it totally anonymous if you like… one time only, or ongoing if you’re looking for something regular.

Me: white, ddf, 42, 6’3”, 185 pounds, average looking gay dude… can host in South, Seattle, travel to you, or meet somewhere, discreet…

You: Str8, black, any age, in decent to excellent shape, also ddf… Most importantly, be horny and looking for a warm throat to unload in!

0 Comments
2023/11/11
21:20 UTC

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42 [M4M] #Seattle Sub GWM Offering My Throat for Dom SBM

Are you looking for a dedicated submissive cocksucker to orally worship your Str8 Dick?

I know my place, and will definitely treat you like the Superior King that you are… just kneel between your legs, give you the service you deserve, choke on your dick for as long as you like, and swallow as many loads as you feel like dumping in my warm mouth…

No reciprocation expected, no strings attached, it can even be 100% anonymous…

I am a 42 y.o. mature cocksucker, deepthroat expert, and cum receptacle. I am in average shape, and DDF; please be clean also, and in decent to excellent shape…

I can host at my place in South Seattle, or possibly travel to you… it can be a one time thing, or I can be your on-call cocksucker, if you approve of how I service you…

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2023/11/06
00:38 UTC

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36 [M4F] #Edmonton, Alberta, Canada - Seeking busty black woman for ongoing FWB

Being that I've always been attracted to darker women, I am seeking a black woman who would be interested in indeluging in a regular FWB engagement.

In me you get: 36 years old, Caucasian, 6'1, average built with good size below the belt. I lean on the side of dominant in the bedroom, I enjoy mutual oral, and my focus is on mutual satisfaction; you cumming makes me cum that much more intensely. I'm fairly easy to speak with, I would say that I'm educated, and I don't take myself too seriously.

Based off my preferences on physical attraction, I am seeking a dark beauty with large natural breasts, and someone willing to let me enjoy their body as much as I hope they'd enjoy mine. Large bust (proportionate for your height) is preferred, though I enjoy both petite and chubby/thick body types equally. Additionally, I'm hoping to come across someone both mature and easy to get along with.

If this post has caught your eye and you'd like to chat to more accurately gauge if we'd click in person, feel free to send a private message.

0 Comments
2023/11/04
19:32 UTC

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42 [M4M] #Seattle A Warm Eager Mouth Slurping on Your Str8 Black Dick

You a Str8 black dude not getting the oral attention you deserve? Stop by South Seattle for a warm anonymous sucking!

You come into a dark room. No conversation at all. Drop your pants, kick back, watch porn on your phone, and enjoy my eager warm mouth throating your Str8 black Dick. After you unload, you zip up and go on your way.

It can be a one-time thing, or ongoing if you want to keep me as an on-call cocksucker.

Me: gwm, 42, 6’3”, 185 pounds, in average shape, average looking. UB Str8, 18–60, in decent to excellent shape.

Most importantly, please be CLEAN! (I tested clean a couple of months ago)

0 Comments
2023/09/24
00:39 UTC

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Looking for black lady for long term rp plots.

Hey I love talking with black ladies no matter what age and do rp plots and finding someone. Hope I'll get some one from here Thanks in advance

0 Comments
2023/08/11
10:40 UTC

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24 [F4M] Hoping to meet Emotionally Available, Communicative, and Geniune Male in his 20's

24 year-old graduate student in the helping professions is hoping to meet a sincere/geniune Black male who is in his 20's.

I like to cook (mostly ethnic dishes), read, talk with friends, and veggie garden. I'm fit and very health conscious, love doing things outdoors - going to the beach, hiking, biking, and taking long walks. I think of myself as emotionally open and available, communicative, and open about everything.

Family and friends describe me as pretty, petite, and bubbly.

Message me if you think we may have things in common.

4 Comments
2023/06/29
00:41 UTC

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[Meta] Black R4R platonic - Should I look elsewhere? Legit question

I saw a post a few days ago looking for something platonic. I didn't respond because it wasn't in my area, but I was thinking about looking for new black friends (gotta find my community)!

Is there a better subreddit I should post in?

Should I be looking somewhere else? Can anyone let me know if there is a platonic version of this sub? I feel like I can't find people who look like me and like the same things I do, I hate feeling like an outsider everywhere I go.

If this sub is for dating and hooking up with black people, maybe I'm in the wrong sub.

Also, how insane is it that there's less than 600 people in this sub, but I'm willing to bet that if I went to some weird interracial fetish subreddit there'd be 1000s?

0 Comments
2023/06/27
19:43 UTC

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