/r/AMXFs

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AMXF stands for a relationship between an Asian man and woman of any race. This sub is open to all types of people regardless of race, sex, or relationship status. So no matter who you are, if you would like to participate in discussions, submit content, or offer support, feel free to subscribe and contribute!

AMXF stands for a relationship between an Asian man and woman of any race. This sub is open to all types of people regardless of race, sex, or relationship status. So no matter who you are, if you would like to participate in discussions, submit content, or offer support, feel free to subscribe and contribute!

Rules

  1. Be Civil - No blatant personal attacks, harassment, or bigotry of any kind. You are expected to know proper reddiquette and adhere to it at all times.

  2. No Superiority Complexes - No one pairing is superior or lesser than any other pairing.

  3. No Trolling - Excessive and ongoing posts/comments/messages that are inflammatory, hateful, or provoke confrontation are grounds for a permanent ban.

  4. Tag NSFW content - if you feel that something you would like to discuss may be even slightly NSWF, tag it as such. Absolutely no explicit pictures or links allowed.

Common acronyms:

There are so many relationship acronyms out there! AMAF, AMBF, AMDF, AMLF, AMWF. What do they all mean? The first part "AM" stands for Asian Male and the second half represent the woman in the relationship. Those meanings are as follows:

AF- Asian Female

BF- Black Female

DF- Desi Female

LF- Latin Female

WF- White Female

Other Communities to check out:

r/interracialdating- for people in interracial relationships of all kinds.

r/AMWFs- for relationships between Asian men and white women.

/r/AMXFs

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AMBFšŸ˜

I'm super excited, I'm going on a date with a half Italian half Caribbean hottie tomorrow. She has light caramel skin and an innocent face, killer body. Met her at a club, we hit it off like right away. We have been messaging each other and we both admit we are super excited and she says she has butterflies in her stomach. Hoping to make her my gf. If it happens she would be the first black female I have ever dated, which makes it so much more exciting. Wish me luck ppl

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2025/02/04
03:33 UTC

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24 [M4F] Los Angeles - Looking to Celebrate My Birthday with an Unforgettable Experience

Iā€™m a 5'9ā€, 170 lbs, fit guy, and Iā€™m looking for a woman whoā€™s open-minded, confident, and ready to make my birthday unforgettable. Iā€™m looking for someone who enjoys indulging in passion and knows how to take things to the next level. If youā€™re someone who enjoys satisfying a manā€™s desires and isnā€™t shy about exploring your own, letā€™s make this birthday a night to remember.

If youā€™re into pleasure, spontaneity, and having an intimate experience that leaves both of us satisfied, Iā€™d love to connect. If youā€™re interested in celebrating in a way thatā€™s just between us, send me a message. Letā€™s see where our chemistry can take us.

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2025/01/29
18:25 UTC

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30 [M4F] Vancouver, BC - Looking for someone to go on cute dates with

Hi!

Iā€™m a 30M who would love to find someone who likes to go on cute dates and cafe hopping. Hopefully we could spend some nice quality and genuine time time together to get to know each other.

About me: East Asian and around 6 feet tall. I like watching movies, puzzles, board games, socializing with friends, and travelling.

We could talk online for a while until we are both comfortable meeting in person. Not looking for long distance, sorry!

Thanks for reading.

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2025/01/26
12:01 UTC

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Amxf ServeršŸ¤šŸ“

Looking for a nice server based on Amxf?šŸŒ¼ Feel free to join here : https://discord.gg/rbbV7ve3eq

1 Comment
2025/01/18
08:56 UTC

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is anyone in uk

21M in Brightonļ¼šļ¼‰

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2025/01/13
23:11 UTC

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Is Europe A Dating Paradise for Asian Men?

Having traveled to over 30 countries, Iā€™ve seen firsthand how Asian men are treated differently in various cultures. While calling Europe a "paradise" might be rather strong (and clickbaity in all honesty), itā€™s undeniable that thereā€™s a unique alignment between Asian masculinity and European cultural ideals if you don't want to limit your dating options.

Hereā€™s What Iā€™ve Noticed About Europe:

  1. Fewer American Stereotypes: European women donā€™t automatically assume youā€™re American, they see you as Asian (whether Vietnamese, Chinese, or Korean). This means youā€™re perceived with curiosity and respect rather than through the filter of stereotypes influenced by Sinophobia or Hollywood.
  2. Cultural Soft Power: Asian soft power, especially through things like K-dramas, K-pop, and Asian cinema, has left a positive impression on many European women. This gives Asian men an advantage thatā€™s often overlooked back home.
  3. Chivalry / Gender Norms Are Respected: European women still value acts of traditional masculinity, like opening doors, giving compliments, and dressing well. These behaviors, which can sometimes be labeled as ā€œsimpingā€ in the US, are seen as attractive here.
  4. Alignment with Beauty Standards: Asian menā€™s focus on grooming, fitness, and tailored fashion and less so on "bigger is better" often aligns with European ideals of attractiveness.

But letā€™s be clear, itā€™s not a cheat code. Traveling is multiplicative, not additive to an Asian man's dating successes. If you have no game in the US, you'll still have no game overseas because even if a place gave you a 125% boost, zero times 125% is still zero.

Confidence, social skills, SMV, and the ability create a dating funnel still matter.

Real Stories from Students Iā€™ve Coached:

  • Andy: Swiped his way to nearly 300 matches and had 11 dates in just two weeks of EuroTour
  • Eli: After two years of no dates in the US, he matched with 100 women in weeks and had four incredible dates.
  • Jason: Met a woman during the EuroTour from a cold approach and eventually married her.

Why This Happens:

  • In Europe, Asian masculinity isnā€™t diminished by negative stereotypes.
  • European women tend to value emotional intelligence, style, and effort in dating interactions.

Of course, racism exists everywhere, and Europe is no utopia. On the first two nights on EuroTour 2024, I had to take out two European dudes who were being racist to my students.

But the dating differential is tangible, and if youā€™re prepared with confidence, style, and social skills, youā€™ll notice it immediately.

Key Takeaways for Asian Men Considering Dating Abroad:

  • Focus on style and grooming. European women notice effort.
  • Be assertive but respectful; gender norms are generally expected here.
  • Create a dating funnel to include night game, day game, and online dating / social media.
  • Donā€™t expect the ā€œAsian exoticā€ card to carry you. Itā€™s about the way you present yourself.

Europe isnā€™t about being handed opportunitiesā€”itā€™s about having the right tools to succeed in an environment that values what Asian men naturally bring to the table.

https://preview.redd.it/rawum8sdzsce1.jpg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9d1cc6bd47a8ceef637d5bbbdde7612dfaa80869

Watch the video I made on this topic here.

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2025/01/13
18:31 UTC

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34 [M] LosAngeles - Elder emo, raver, gamer

Iā€™m Chinese born in CA looking for someone to spend time and bond with over fun activities and food adventures. I recently been to When We Were Young Fest and the occasional raves here and there and would love an event buddy or someone with similar music taste. Im aware i have mostly nsfw pics in my profile but absolutely also looking for platonic friendships and not just dive into anything nsfw

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2025/01/09
00:29 UTC

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29 [M4F] Los Angeles - Let's please each other

Located in LA, but I don't mind driving!

I am 29, South East Asian, on the chubby side. I work a standard corporate 9-5 job.

Looking for someone to meet up regularly and get dirty together. I don't mind being FWB or hooking up or even being in a relationship, just looking for someone else also looking for a sexual partner.

No preference in age or race, DM me! Sorry if I don't reply ASAP, probably at my job.

Hope to hear from you soon :)

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2025/01/08
07:39 UTC

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Ambw paradise!

Hello everyone! Looking for a fun chill server come join paradise!

https://discord.gg/TvTab4hJ

2 Comments
2025/01/06
23:32 UTC

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28 Blk F4M

Hiiii. Anyone close to TN (Nashville) looking for something serious ! Feel free to reach out.

7 Comments
2025/01/06
02:30 UTC

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40 [F4M] #nj/ny - seeking lifetime relationship to settle down with loyal east asian man age 40 and older šŸ’•

Looking for men my age and older who feel the need for companionship and unconditional love and grow old together who are loyal, monogamous, old fashioned/traditional,single and child free/empty nest, retired/have lots of free time to spend with their partner/homebody āœØ

I want someone who will be my bestie, family, and soulmateāœØ

I want someone who is a gentleman, protector, provider, respectful attentive and kind. āœØ

I love movies and reality shows, cooking/baking/good food, reading, dancing, gamingāœØ

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2024/12/30
04:56 UTC

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30 [M4F] Vancouver, BC - Looking for someone to go on cute dates with

Hi!

Iā€™m a 30M who would love to find someone who likes to go on cute dates and cafe hopping. Hopefully we could spend some nice quality and genuine time time together to get to know each other.

About me: East Asian and around 6 feet tall. I like watching movies, puzzles, board games, socializing with friends, and travelling.

We could talk online for a while until we are both comfortable meeting in person. Not looking for long distance, sorry!

Thanks for reading.

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2024/12/16
17:35 UTC

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Howdy from Texas 49/AM

Howdy. Single guy from HTX looking to chat with a female who isnā€™t Asian. I dunno. Call me weird but I have never liked dating women from my ethnicity. Never have and probably never will. Iā€™m definitely cultured and I speak Spanish fluently without an accent ( Asian or Gringo) lol! If you have the burning desire to talk to a tall Asian man donā€™t be a stranger!

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2024/12/08
10:17 UTC

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30 [M4F] Vancouver, BC - Looking for someone to go on cute dates with

Hi!

Iā€™m a 30M who would love to find someone who likes to go on cute dates and cafe hopping. Hopefully we could spend some nice quality and genuine time time together to get to know each other.

About me: East Asian and around 6 feet tall. I like watching movies, puzzles, board games, socializing with friends, and travelling.

We could talk online for a while until we are both comfortable meeting in person. Not looking for long distance, sorry!

Thanks for reading.

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2024/12/04
08:50 UTC

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30 [M4F] Toronto, Canada - Looking for a geeky FWB

Hello!

It's been a couple of years since I have been with someone :P
I'm not picky about height, weight, looks or anything like that and I'm open to FTM as well!
Ideally I am looking for someone kind and funny who would want to meet once a week or once every two weeks for some fun.

About me:
I am a 30 yro Chinese male, tatted, 163cm tall, heavy (186lbs), uncut.
I live in Scarborough and I am a pretty nerdy/weeby person that enjoys spending his time working on his hobbies

I am going to cut it short because I would prefer to get to know you as we chat!
Hope to hear from you!

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2024/12/03
15:48 UTC

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32 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Looking for a genuine connection

Hi, Iā€™m ideally trying to find a girlfriend or something that can lead to a long term relationship. Iā€™ve been on dating apps, but am tired of the ghosting and girls being flaky. I just want someone who means it when they say they wonā€™t ghost or can keep their word after planning a date. Also intentions are a bit hard to read sometime, so I just figure that itā€™d be easier to be straight forward on Reddit. Would prefer to have a friendship where we can message each other throughout the week, have occasional dates, or possible fun together.

A little about me is that Iā€™m around 5ā€™8 and of average weight for my height. I value honesty and communication, and will most likely match your energy. If I can see you reciprocating and showing interest, I will likely open up more to you. I also find that physical attraction has to be there, so please be open to send a picture. Iā€™m open to any age range as long as the age gap is reasonable (more flexible on younger than being older). Please say something other than hi in your first message, so that I can have more to go off of.

If youā€™re open to talk and get to know each other, please send a dm.

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2024/12/01
23:34 UTC

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36 [T4M] [AMBW] #SoCal, #LosAngeles- Transfeminine Black tgirl in LA looking for casual fun with Asian men in California

Hey there, 36 years old, 5ā€™9, transfeminine Black Tgirl. Looking for guys that would like to connect, get serviced, and have some clean safe fun. Age and body type are not important. Just be ready to chill and have a good time. I donā€™t charge and I can host in Los Angeles.

Open minded, STI Negative and into safe play. I have more pics too. Hit me up :)

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2024/11/29
17:53 UTC

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BIPOC 18+ discord server :)

This is AMXF but also open to all ethnicities as well to hang out and meet new people. I am helping a friend mod this new server, so it would be great if you all could spread the word!

https://discord.gg/NqxPYPAU

3 Comments
2024/11/28
21:05 UTC

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30 [M4F] Vancouver, Canada - Searching for my future best friend to go enjoy life with

Hello,

I am tired of dating apps so I thought Iā€™d try my luck here.

Iā€™m seeking a genuine relationship with someone who values honesty, great communication, open mindedness, being genuine, and of course, cute dates. Not looking for something casual, seeking someone who is genuinely interested in something long-term.

About me: East Asian (born here) who enjoys travelling (would be nice to find a travel partner), having deep conversations, trying new food or good food, social activities with friends, movies, games of all kinds, and making time for my special someone.

0 Comments
2024/11/23
17:13 UTC

1

M4F anyone in florida?

Send me a message if you are in florida. Korean guy here!

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2024/11/14
18:25 UTC

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Accepting more members in our server!

If youā€™re interested in making friends relationships or meeting up join us here:

https://discord.gg/UeN2s9EZ

2 Comments
2024/11/14
07:33 UTC

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Estoy loca de perinola

Is it wrong for me to fantasize too much about every asian guy I see on the street ? I am 18 years old

1 Comment
2024/11/13
16:32 UTC

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30 [M4F] Vancouver, Canada - Searching for my forever one to go on cute dates with

Hello,

I am tired of dating apps so I thought Iā€™d try my luck here.

Iā€™m seeking a genuine relationship with someone who values honesty, great communication, open mindedness, being genuine, and of course, cute dates. Not looking for something casual, but someone who is genuinely interested in something long-term.

About me: East Asian (born here) who enjoys travelling (would be nice to find a travel partner), having deep conversations, trying new food or good food, social activities with friends, movies, games of all kinds, and making time for my special someone.

0 Comments
2024/11/08
01:52 UTC

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Join AMBW hub for friendships and relationships

Our brand new server is AMBW focused, and we want to welcome members that are preferably looking for authentic or genuine relationships. Men, women, and nonbinary individuals over 18 years of age are welcome.

Link to server below:

https://discord.gg/mPzDzTw2

5 Comments
2024/11/03
16:41 UTC

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30 [M4F] Vancouver, Canada - Searching for my forever one to go on cute dates with

Hello,

I am tired of dating apps so I thought Iā€™d try my luck here.

Iā€™m seeking a genuine relationship with someone who values honesty, great communication, open mindedness, being genuine, and of course, cute dates. Not looking for something casual, but someone who is genuinely interested in something long-term.

About me: East Asian (born here) who enjoys travelling (would be nice to find a travel partner), having deep conversations, trying new food or good food, social activities with friends, movies, games of all kinds, and making time for my special someone.

0 Comments
2024/10/30
02:56 UTC

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Latina 41 in SD looking for Asian man.

Iā€™m a 41 year old Latina living in San Diego. Never married and no kids. I have a very successful career and my biggest loves is music of all kinds (not into country or top 40). I can talk about music for hours and I collect vinyls. I dress nicely and can be the life of the party but I also like being laid-back and just listening/being observant too. Iā€™m 5ft 3 and looking for someone 5ft 10 or taller. I think inside jokes should be considered a love language. šŸ„°

4 Comments
2024/10/25
05:18 UTC

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Ambw server for people to join!

Ambw server seriously for friends love marriage, we have game nights movie nights if you do join l hope you enjoy your stay! ā¤ļøšŸ¤

https://discord.gg/js4jvXhS

5 Comments
2024/10/24
13:35 UTC

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36 [M4F] Stumbled Upon This - Taking A Chance

Asian-American M who lives in the Eastern Time Zone (USA) and is just looking to chat with the possibility of friendship.

DM at your convenience and I look forward to chatting with you.

0 Comments
2024/10/24
00:45 UTC

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