https://discord.gg/Re48eRq

Hello there, I and a few RBN's made a Discord server for RBNs. You're all welcome there, but please keep memes, rage comics, and funny gifs in the memes channel, thanks.

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You make sub reddits to boast about hurting people and pat each others back about how good you're in abusing others?

Is that hard to see how you pitiful you look?

https://youtu.be/dDtLEHgnElI

I was dating an ESTJ man, and I'm an ENTP woman, so even though it's usually considered best not to place too much importance on MB types in relationships, I was concerned about communication issues. My friends thought he sounded controlling after I showed them one text in the beginning before I met him in person. He was very clear on what he needed in a relationship and would tell me ways I needed to change for him. I know that sounds bad, but I really did want to make some of those changes for myself. In the end, I failed. He's very successful in his career, and his biggest concern is that I'm going to tell people what he did. I honestly don't know how to tell if he was just an ESTJ, or could he have been the narcissist my psychologist friend said he was? Bottom line: I miss him. I'm still hurt by things he said and did, but I really thought I might marry him.

Dear all,

I'm a researcher at Leiden University, the Netherlands, and currently researching a topic on Childhood trauma and (later) Intimitate Partner Violence (and if these things might be mediated by Cluster-B PDs).

So I'm in desperate need of respondents for a survey on these matters; everyone can participate, as long as you're over 18 years old. It will take about 20 minutes to fill out and all responses are anonymous. There is an email address and telephone number at the end in case you have any kind of questions about the study or if you feel you need to talk to someone; some questions might be confrontational to some. Of course you can also message me, I'm online a lot, so please don't hesitate to do so.

I know it’s quite a long survey, but most questions aren't hard to answer and you can take breaks in between if you want ;-)

Thank you so so much in advance for your trouble!

Link: https://leidenuniv.eu.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_bx9KGRQsRMA8HDD

• Daniela

PS: Some things about the survey:

• The layout can be somewhat challenging, especially on mobile devices, so I recommend filling out the questionnaire on a computer/laptop.
• You don't have to be diagnosed with any disorder to participate in the study (nor is that the aim of our research)
• Some of the questions are about relationships. We use "official" (sometimes hopelessly outdated) questionnaires, meaning that we didn't write the questions ourselves nor that we can rephrase the questions.

In short: if you're in a same-sex relationship for example, please try to read past the M/F-oriented questions and apply the questions to your specific situation.