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While /r/asktransgender and other trans groups are great, some of us have families, partners, careers, and all the other trappings of not being in our 20s any more. Here's somewhere to talk about these things and the issues we face in transitioning. This is not a fetish group or a place for chasers, crossdressers and posts attracting chasers are highly discouraged. Please be aware of our rules. Note that all new accounts will be moderated. Onlyfans and thirst traps are not allowed here.

While /r/asktransgender and other trans groups are great, some of us have families, partners, careers, and all the other trappings of not being in our 20s any more. Here's somewhere to talk about these things and the issues we face in transitioning. Please be aware of our rules. Note that all new accounts will be moderated.

/r/TransLater

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Euphoria is real! First Dress Ever!

OHMYGOD! OHMYGOD! OHMYGOD! OHMYGOD! OHMYGOD! OHMYGOD! I just tried on my first dress ever, and it was so euphoric that I nearly hyperventilated! I actually love the way my body looks in it!

That is all.

6 Comments
2024/11/02
17:49 UTC

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Little Wins 😊

So I (MtF) went out to the bar with some friends and I went to use the restroom and as I'm going into the men's room I hear a lady telling me "that's the mens room!" And she said it a few times. I was boymoding so I was like "yeah I know" but still it made me happy That is all ❤️

5 Comments
2024/11/02
16:58 UTC

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Wife Found My Bra

I am in panic mode. My wife just walked in the room holding the bra I bought last week. I left it in the laundry room. I think I’m toast. I’m, I don’t know what… what do I do????

118 Comments
2024/11/02
16:11 UTC

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Alcohol intolerance on HRT?

I'm curious if anyone else has had a similar experience since going on HRT. I'm MTF and have been taking gel for 6months and I've noticed recently that whenever I have a drink, within the hour I will have a slightly blocked and runny nose and have a little difficulty breathing.

I've never had this before!

At first I brushed it off, then I wondered if it was a particular pub, or a particular drink - beer or Cider, indoors or out, but it seems that even at home with a whiskey I get the same thing.

Is it just me in my mind 40s, or is HRT and some feminising component of Estrogen reducing my tolerance of alcohol?

Your thoughts and more most welcome.

18 Comments
2024/11/02
10:22 UTC

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Is HRT maybe not the right choice for me?

I'm 35 and I’m now on HRT for the third time. The first two times, I stopped after just about two weeks each time. Out of fear that I’m making a mistake, fear that I won’t pass well, fear that I’ll be marginalized and not accepted by society. Now I’m at the three-week mark and I’m once again on the verge of stopping, for the same reasons. I know I’m trans, but I’m unsure if the medical route and transitioning are the right paths for me. Sure, fear is playing a huge role again right now, but I wonder if it might really not be the right choice for me (independent of the fear), given that I’m questioning HRT and transitioning so intensely for the third time. I’m in therapy and talking about my fears and this issue, but I still feel stuck, and I’d like to hear about your experiences.

12 Comments
2024/11/02
09:57 UTC

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Just had Bottom Surgery AMA!!

I just got out of my Vulvoplasty (zero depth) 9 hours ago ask me anything 😊😊😊

21 Comments
2024/11/02
06:02 UTC

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The voice of my Imposter Syndrome

'He' has been very loud today and won't shut up. 'He' is trying to convince me that I should just give up, that I will never be trans enough but I am not stopping now, my egg has cracked and I am ready to break free. I don't want to live the rest of my life living a lie. I know that this is the road that I was supposed to take years ago but life and the male ego got in the way. "Let your dreams be bigger than your fears, your actions louder than your words, and your faith stronger than your feelings" I have had this quote running through my head all day and I'm trying to live by it.

6 Comments
2024/11/02
05:24 UTC

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Starting estrogen

I have an appointment on Monday through Folx to get prescribed estrogen. I have always felt femme on the inside but just haven’t been able to commit my life to it. My plan is to go on estrogen for a month to see what changes occur to my mood and mental well being. If I notice major positive changes then my plan is to stick with it then come out to friends and family. Has anyone else taken this route?

16 Comments
2024/11/02
05:02 UTC

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