/r/TomboyFashionAdvice

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This is a place for people who like to dress more masculine but who may not have been born as men to share fashion advice and to ask questions

/r/TomboyFashionAdvice

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Looking for accessories

I want to add some accessoires to my wardrobe because right now I only have one ring and one pair of earrings that I wear regularly. I am looking for something simple that I can wear in everyday life as well as to more formal occasions. I should maybe add that I don’t like bulky accessories and prefer silver over golden accessories and I live in Europe

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2024/10/28
06:47 UTC

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Shoes?

Hi all, I'm looking for advice on finding business casual shoes for work. I am AFAB (identify as gender non-conforming) and am frustrated with the shoe options for women. I am finding only flats and heels for women's business casual which are actually quite painful to wear every day. I like the look of men's shoes better and they seem to have many more options that seem more comfortable but they don't have my size. I'm a size 5 in men's or 6.5 in women's. Does anyone know where to find small men's shoes or less terrible women's shoes? I like the look of women's oxfords, but have yet to find a good pair. I'm looking for business casual but not formal. Any advice would be appreciated!

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2024/09/21
19:51 UTC

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Boxers for women recs?

Hi all! So my mom and I love boxer shorts. Her complaint: she doesn’t like them tight. My complaint: I don’t want any seams against my chacha 🤣. Can someone recommend some brands for us to check out with soft and cozy material?

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2024/09/02
15:12 UTC

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recommend a different clothes other than the oversized ones!!

I feel like I should start dressing up as a boy, and I feel really uncomfortable with my feminine side too. but I've seen tomboys wear oversized clothing and I tried it too :). but I really want to wear something different, any recommendations?

2 Comments
2024/07/21
21:57 UTC

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Clothing advice?

I am plus size, not curvy, and have a rectangular body shape. Clothes just look weird on me, no matter what i wear imo. In the next few months, i have to go to court, a tea party, and a wedding. So i guess im asking if anyone has any suggestions for what to wear in a formal setting

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2024/06/19
19:32 UTC

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Fit Check 😎

I thought that I look really cool here and that you guys might find inspiration in it :)

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2024/06/15
14:38 UTC

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Need help finding jeans!

I hope this is the right place to ask, or that I’m also to ask it here, so please forgive me if not!

I’m AMAB but really struggling to figure out my gender. I currently identify as NB, but who knows? I’ve started presenting more femme, but recently I’m thinking maybe I should go with something more androgynous, so maybe tomboy? I love the style!

So my current conundrum is starting out with some basics and finding jeans. Obviously I could just go out and get guy jeans, but I think that would really make me feel dysphoric. Soooo can anyone recommend any women’s jeans that basically look like men’s jeans? I’m on the tall side, 6 foot and average size. I usually wear a 34x32 in Levis.

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2024/06/14
03:11 UTC

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Knee-length (ish) chino style shorts?

Anyone know where I could find these? J crew and Gap sell chino style pants and shorts but the shorts are pretty short- mid thigh or shorter. Anyone know where I could find longer length shorts? Not capris, but similar to what most guys wear in summer? Unfortunately actual men’s pants will not fit my body.

3 Comments
2024/06/07
19:31 UTC

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Mascs, what are you comfortable swimming in?

I've always worn either basketball shorts or little boy swim trunks lol. But I always cut out the netting on the inside bc it's annoyinggg. But then the wet shorts bother me so l'm at a loss lol

14 Comments
2024/06/04
20:19 UTC

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Masc tank tops?

Since it's getting into summer, I want to buy myself some tank tops, but every tank top i see in the woman's section is either really low cut or has some kind of feminine design on it. I've tried on some from the men's section, but I want something form fitting, and I'm really skinny so none of them fit me the way I want them to. Does anyone have any reccomendations for plain masculine tank tops made to fit women?

5 Comments
2024/05/30
23:22 UTC

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Where to buy mens clothes for small women??

Does anyone know of any good stores or online sites that sell mens clothes that run smaller? Maybe unisex sites with lots of masc options? Or good websites in general for mens fashion? Is thrifting where its at??

Hello! I'm a 5 ft petite female and I really want to express all sides of myself. I enjoy many genres of fashion with a full-range closet, but exploring my masculine days is hard and its been a struggle for years due to sizing! At 16 it wasn't a huge problem because I just shopped in the boys section. But I'm a woman now and I want to be able to dress like a man, not a boy.

Thank you!!

6 Comments
2024/05/11
06:38 UTC

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Where to buy a decent suit?

I'm willing to shell out/save up for a quality well-fitting suit, that will last me a while and be useful for work & special occasions. Specifically I want to get one before the end of next hockey season, when my women's team will likely enter the over-40 open adult championships and I'll be on the bench as a coach (I'm the youngest and not eligible in that age bracket for a while). I'd like a more unique color, and I have some sensory issues and general dislike of fabrics that are too high plastic content.

With those things in mind, what are some of my options? Anything I should avoid?

2 Comments
2024/04/28
00:51 UTC

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Best short hairstyles?

I'm thinking about getting my hair cut short, any recommended hairstyles?

5 Comments
2024/03/30
06:32 UTC

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Just in town

3 Comments
2024/03/08
01:32 UTC

93

Tomboy vibes

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2024/03/06
06:25 UTC

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Without makeup I revert back to my tomboy self

9 Comments
2024/03/05
00:40 UTC

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So what sort of style we slayin?

What style do you guys like? goth masc? slacker? Practical? what sort of masc/ femme clothes how much do you like to mix the two, id like to know what fits your vibe?

9 Comments
2024/01/19
23:43 UTC

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Trousers convertible to shorts - Would you buy?

PTPA.
Would you buy a trousers or pants that is convertible to shorts with an invisible zipper? If yes, how much are you willing to pay for it? And if not, what clothing would you prefer?

4 Comments
2024/01/19
03:40 UTC

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Does this come off as too strong?

30 Comments
2023/12/12
04:44 UTC

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Outfit I wore

Does this outfit look ambiguous-ish?

8 Comments
2023/09/28
09:46 UTC

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One of my fav outfits

7 Comments
2023/09/20
18:36 UTC

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Should I get a tongue piercing?

I never had one before

6 Comments
2023/06/16
12:29 UTC

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Does anyone happen to know where I can get a binder within 2-3 days?

I thought this might be the best place to ask, since I'm not trans or anything. I just hate having boobs.

Anyhow, I ordered a binder from g2cb last week but it's taking its sweet time getting here (which is understandable, I'm just impatient). I've been really uncomfortable with my chest lately and the compression tops I have just aren't cutting it. Does anyone know how I could get a different binder to hold me over, or should I just wait it out and be safe? I know that no store around me has any, so it would have to be online.

I considered Amazon, but I know some binders can be unsafe to wear.

2 Comments
2023/06/15
16:14 UTC

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