/r/STLr4r

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A place people in the Greater St. Louis Area to connect (NO SELLERS OR PROMOTERS)

r/STLR4R is a place to meet people from the greater St. Louis area.

This community is 18+ only

/r/STLr4r

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34 [M4F]- looking for some late night fun Troy IL area

Sex

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2024/12/14
03:07 UTC

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22 [M4F]- looking for someone to watch a movie and maybe more

Looking for someone to maybe watch a movie with and see where things go

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2024/12/14
01:19 UTC

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29 [M4T] - looking for TS

looking for TS to fuck my ass

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2024/12/13
22:54 UTC

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31 [F4F] Seeking FEMALE FRIEND that likes to have FUN

Hi! So I'm not sure if I'm in the right spot for this, and this is the first place I'm posting.

I'm a 31 year old single female in St Louis, MO looking for a FEMALE friend to go to swingers parties and sex clubs with. Again, that's FEMALE ONLY and JUST A FRIEND. I want to go to the big national swingers weekend in July down at Lake of the Ozarks, but I'm single and all my friends are in monogamous relationships or just not interested. I know plenty of men who are interested in going but I'd love to make a girl-friend that we can explore our wild side together. Your experience level doesn't matter and I don't care what you look like. Please live near STL.

Girls: I'm going to expect you to prove you're a real girl in the STL area by sending me a couple photos with the date and whatever I ask you to write on a piece of paper within the first few days of talking. I'll, of course, do the same.

So are you also a woman around 30 years old that wants to explore her wild side but not alone? Message me!

Men: you're welcome to message me too but I'm not taking you to the swingers party and I am not looking to hookup with anyone random. At all.

If anyone has any tips for me, being a single woman wanting to get involved in this lifestyle, I would love to hear them!

<3

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2024/12/13
22:06 UTC

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31 [M4M] #STL - Looking for older white cock to suck

Are you 35+? Do you have at least a 4.5” cock? Great, I’ve got the throat for you.

I’m clean, mobile, discreet, and looking to relieve some stress by swallowing some cock.

I’m not picky about looks, just be clean & hygienic for the love of god

Be willing to share at least one picture of your cock, or don’t even bother.

~ Always looking

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2024/12/13
21:59 UTC

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42 [M4F] #St Louis - single experienced dedicated cuckold seeking F for cuck relationship

Greetings! I’m a 42 year old genuine single male submissive cuckold actively seeking a Woman who is interested in the cuckold lifestyle. It’s been difficult finding partners so I thought I would give this a shot.

I’ve been fortunate enough to have been involved in several different cuckold relationships in the past and have even come close to having my own Hotwife. I am super passionate about this lifestyle and I’m extensively well trained and have a thorough understanding of how they work. I’m open to partners of all experience levels.

There is nothing sexier to me than a Woman who has all the freedom and power to sleep with whomever she wants anytime she wants while she has a loyal monogamous partner at home that takes care of her and does her bidding.

Ideally, it would be nice to find someone for a longer term relationship or dynamic but I also understand that these relationships take time to build. I’m very much about communication and being open. There has to be good chemistry at the core.

I’m educated, cultured, have a great career, diverse interests and know what it means to put her interests first. She will always be my priority.

Despite my current location (St Louis, MO) I’m open to distance at first while we figure things out and get to know one another as I realize that your perfect partner often isn’t in your own back yard.

Feel free to message if this sounds of interest to you!

1 Comment
2024/12/13
21:15 UTC

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46 [M4F] O’Fallon, MO - well hung dad looking for FWB

SSIA. Check out my post history for “proof”.

No men please.

1 Comment
2024/12/13
19:49 UTC

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29 [M4F] - Food and backshots with a thick and hung guy. No judgements, just hedonism.

All I really want is bareback backshots with a big bottomed woman before and perhaps after we go to town on some food. Maybe we smoke a little weed too.

Ideal situation: We watch TV, eat fast food, work up a sweat, and have a nice conversation. Not necessarily in that order, not necessarily in distinct time blocks. If you wanna discuss politics and take dick, or talk about your day while we laugh at Always Sunny between bites, that's awesome. I genuinely get off on getting to know someone better and feeling intimate enough to share opinions.

I have a couch and a very creaky bed. A projector and I'm likely going to try to get some decent speakers. This can be a once a week thing or a every few days thing. I'd love to host, but it would be nice if you hosted every now and then.

I'm clean, recently tested, drug free except weed, and I'm about 7.5 inches with a thick shaft. I myself am chubby, so I can appreciate needing to take breaks. Not looking for anyone more than 10 years away in age, no ENM/Hotwives, and please let me know you read this by giving me 3 movies you wanna watch and 3 restaurants you wanna eat at. Pics for pics of course.

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2024/12/13
19:43 UTC

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45 [M4F] - Good girl ?

Do you enjoy praise ? Taking orders ? Do you get off, getting others off ? Fully in touch with your inner-slut ? Where are you ?

1 Comment
2024/12/13
18:57 UTC

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48 [M4F] #STL #STC #MO You need this. You deserve this. Use me.

I can't be the only one that needs this. I know you exist and I am trying to find you. I am not lonely. I am not desperate. I am not bored or ugly. My life is full happy successful and sweet. However....this is the one thing I am missing...

Meet me in the parking lot of a store in the STL area. Let's talk, hug, walk out to my car or yours. In the front seat, tell me about your day, your stresses, your work or your kids or husband. I truly love to listen. I will be an unbiased and fully non judgemental ear, a free therapy session. While you are talking, my hands will start to touch you, my fingers will start to rub you, I will tease and play with your body. While I touch, you watch out for people getting too close to our car. My hope is to make you cum, but I don't want you to feel pressure in achieving it, really, I just want to make you feel good in that moment, for just that moment. After, we take a moment to collect ourselves then we part ways back to our real lives.

My reward is getting to play with you. I have a pleasure kink. I'm 6ft 180lbs dark hair dark eyes and a beard. I'm an office professional with a good job and a full and happy life.

I know you're out there. Ideally I want to find someone to do this on the regular. You and I will be the only two people on the planet that will know we exist together. I will never bring drama to your life, or stress or any issues. No pregnancy, no sti, no anything to take back to your real life, besides the memories.

I want you to think of me as your toy on demand, whenever you're tired of playing with yourself, or your other toy isn't charged, or you just need a moment to yourself to escape, use me.

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2024/12/13
14:51 UTC

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45 [M4F] #STL Missouri - interview role play

I think it speaks for itself, but I've always had this fantasy about a woman coming to my office for a supposed interview that evolves into a sexy rendezvous. My office in Clayton is perfect for this and lately there are days where I am the only one there. I am happy to meet someplace more public first and get to know each other, make sure there is a good vibe, etc. But the idea is you share your credentials, how you could perform the job duties and what you're looking for out of the role.

Me: mid-40s, professional, fit and discreet .. 6'1, 185, blue eyes, short blonde hair.

You: FEMALE, attractive, hwp, local and adventurous.

Applicants inquire within....

1 Comment
2024/12/13
14:17 UTC

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37 [M4F] - Ballwin Target

Every time I go in there it’s crazy how much eye candy there is. All the 30’s to 40’s aged women and stay at home Moms walking around in their athleisure is a huge turn on for me. I love checking them out while I shop. I’m totally not a creep, but sometimes I will pick Target over going to other stores just because of the scenery.

Are there are any local women reading this that shop at the Ballwin location? Wondering if someone in there might be up for some completely spontaneous fun with a decent looking and clean cut guy. No strings attached. Just some fun and then go our separate ways. We don’t even have to know each other’s names. I’ve always had a fantasy of maybe having some fun in a fitting room or even out in the parking lot sitting in a woman’s SUV or something.

About Me: 37, white, 6’0, thin to average build, close to 8 inches

I’ll be wearing gray joggers and white running shoes while shopping in there. If you see me, don’t be afraid to say hello. Say the word “spontaneous” so I know I can trust you. We can see what happens from there. Discretion is a must.

I’ll be there on Friday 12/13 somewhere between 10:30am and 11am. You can always DM me before if you’d rather chat for a bit first.

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2024/12/13
02:36 UTC

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18 [M4F] - seeking first time

Hi, i’ve never had sex before so I’d like to have it, i’m decent looking and keep myself in shape, as i work out at least 4 times a week. If you have other questions reach out please.

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2024/12/12
18:02 UTC

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46 [M4F] - Bored Teacher

Happy holidays all you pervs ! I’d love to make a new connection during my time off this year ! Please reach out if you’ve got some downtime as well and are looking for a little stimulation.

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2024/12/12
17:29 UTC

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44 [M4F] #StLouis #Missouri Teacher looking for fun

Looking for a younger woman who is interested in an older, married teacher. Maybe you've always had a fantasy, or maybe you also teach and are looking for someone who gets it. Please be discreet and ddf. Looking forward to meeting you!

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2024/12/12
14:54 UTC

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44 [M4F] - Christmas break shenanigans in West County

44M, 175 lbs, 5’11” in West County… I’m looking for some NSA fun with an attractive woman during the holidays. Is anybody looking for the same?

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2024/12/12
14:26 UTC

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44 [M4F] #STL Missouri - endurance "training"

Relatively "normal", attractive, in shape (6'1, 190), professional ... would like to find someone willing to explore with and work on increasing stamina. To be clear, I don't have an issue in that department, just want to go a LOT longer, which takes practice.

A little more about me - I have kids, am well educated and have a professional career. Discretion would be nice and I would like to safely explore with someone new to accomplish my goals.

Not interested in someone who is "charging" or producing "content". Please be located in the St. Louis area (or willing to travel). Your age, race and status is not important to me.

Send me a message and we'll go from there.

1 Comment
2024/12/12
14:13 UTC

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23 [M4A] - looking for something Thursday evening/ night

23m looking for something Thursday evening/night. Would prefer around similar age, also ok with 18-22 as well.

What I’m looking to do:

Male: looking to top, also open to being the bottom.

Female: anything. Still looking to experience real pussy.

I’m ddf and ask that you’re too.

Stats: 5’3, 6in, 180lbs

DMs are open.

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2024/12/12
06:23 UTC

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32 [M4A]- looking

32 bi guy here in south city. Looking for fun with a couple/man/woman/trans. Very sexually open and love to explore.

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2024/12/12
06:02 UTC

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21 [M4F] body count of 1….looking to have my world rocked

Well hello!

First, I wanted to thank you for clicking on my post and stopping to read it.

I’m 21 M located near STL MO. I am in a relationship with my 21 F girlfriend. She and I have very different desires sexually. She’s mainly into women and has a very low sex drive. She is not part of this. But could be later on if she wants to and it’s okay with both of us.

What I’m looking for:

Not something strictly sexual. I want to be able to sit back and watch a movie if we want, or maybe I fuck your brains out until we both cum so much that we don’t think we can anymore 🤷‍♂️

What I’m into:

I consider myself pretty Kink friendly. There’s a ton of stuff that would be fun to try. Honestly, it’s better off looking at what I’m NOT into. I am a switch but I definitely lean to the sub side.

Limits: Being called “daddy”, feet, scat/piss/blood, sounding, mean people, age stuff, anything “gross”

My ideal Match:

  • between 20-28 (preferred)

-pretty smile -kind eyes -goth/alt aesthetic (not basic) -kinky -high sex drive

Other notes:

You can meet my girlfriend if you’d like. We are polyamorous. I’m not cheating on her. I love her so much. 420 friendly 🌳 I’m NOT packing….just being honest 🤷‍♂️. I’m a very nice person and I love cuddles. 🥰 If you like everything that you read, feel free to DM me. I am willing to share pics privately after I feel comfortable.

If you read this all the way through and don’t wanna message me, I understand. Wanna be friends tho? We def have common interests 😂

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2024/12/12
04:01 UTC

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39 [M4F] - Looking to have fun

I am looking to have fun, open for anything. Feel free to DM me

1 Comment
2024/12/12
01:40 UTC

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22 [M4F] - looking for some fun tonight before I fly out on Friday.

Dm me

1 Comment
2024/12/11
21:46 UTC

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44 [M4F] - Looking for a woman I can toss around and ravage

Looking for a submissive woman to take my sexual frustrations out on. Me: 5'10" 210 lbs, broad shoulders. Love spanking, slapping, throat fucking, choking, hard sex, roleplay, cnc, praise, degradation You: Submissive (can be a brat if you want) Message me and let me know what you're into

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2024/12/11
20:10 UTC

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29 [M4A] ABDL needs pegging

Hi hi :) I’m an ABDL and I need to be humiliated and dominated. I’m really looking for someone to give me a good hard pegging. Message me if interested :)

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2024/12/11
18:13 UTC

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33 [M4M] - Looking for a regular to blow me

Hello! I'm looking for someone to suck my dick maybe once or twice a week. I'm a thick 7 inches standing at 5'8 weighing 180. Can't host and only day time. Prefer you be younger and weight height proportionate. No facial hair. Bonus if you're around south county and fem/ts.

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2024/12/11
17:23 UTC

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46 [M4F] #STL #St. Louis #MO missing passion and excitement

Well ... I don't normally do this, but I'd like to find someone to have fun with and help me break the routine of my otherwise ordinary, married life. Anyone up to just to chat, meet up, see how it goes? Can be NSA or ongoing if the situation is right.

About me:

  • Married white male, attractive and in shape
  • 6'1, 185 lbs, short brown hair, blue eyes
  • Professionally employed and educated (grad degree)

About you:

  • Female - no dudes or couples
  • Local to St. Louis, Missouri or driving distance
  • Status is unimportant, but understand the need for discretion
  • Considered attractive, cute, sexy, etc ... just want there to be attraction ... prefer "girl next door" types
  • Open minded
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2024/12/11
14:44 UTC

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23 [M4F] - Just mainly looking for NSA oral

So I really enjoy giving oral and haven't really had the opportunity to do it in a long time. My last partner was in July... so I've been having a bit of a dry spell lol. I'm a huge fan of when a woman has my head in her thighs or is just completely sitting on my face. My past partners have really enjoyed it so I guess I'm just curious to see if anyone out there is interested.

Honestly I'm not really looking for any reciprocation but I'm not against maybe moving further. Regardless consent and boundaries are super important to me and I'm only really concerned with making sure you have a good time! I keep myself fairly well-groomed, I keep my space well cleaned (I can host), and I'm STD free.

I'm African American, 5'10", and 170 lbs. I keep a fairly active lifestyle so I'm on the fitter side. Fairly close to a swimmers physique. I have larger lips (I've been told I'm a good kisser) and a bit of a small afro right now. More than happy to provide any photos if you're interested. But if you are interested, definitely let me know! I comfortable with either just getting straight to the main event after some chatting or meeting in public a few times just to get to know each other better. Maybe I'll talk to someone soon!

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2024/12/11
05:14 UTC

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27 [M4F] casual fun.

I’m a fairly average guy looking for someone to hang out with and perhaps have some ‘fun’ from time to time. Dm me and we can find out if we want to hang in the future.

1 Comment
2024/12/11
03:54 UTC

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36 [M4A] - anyone work at old/new SLU hospital or cardinal glennon

Looking to get sucked at work or whatever you want, I have a few great places that are secluded.

Maybe more, and can be an ongoing thing. Message me

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2024/12/11
02:34 UTC

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19 [M4F]- metro east Illinois college student looking to meet and play with women or couples

Dm or comment if you’re interested

1 Comment
2024/12/10
20:13 UTC

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