/r/STLr4r

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A place people in the Greater St. Louis Area to connect

r/STLR4R is a place to meet people from the greater St. Louis area.

This community is 18+ only

/r/STLr4r

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33 [M4F] - Hosting now through Sunday night

STL 314 Blowin clouds and bumpin shards. Really wish that had rhymed better. Maplewood area, dm if you want to swing through and confuse my neighbors

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2024/10/04
06:21 UTC

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33M 42F [C4A]-Looking tonight

MF couple seeking a host or hosts tonight. M, MM, MF, F, or FF. Must be orally bi. Safe play REQUIRED. No drugs no dirty mofos. This is a fun thing for us therefore no disrespectful sh!t. 26-66 we suppose. It's not like a hard number just general. Not a lot of hair, cut, and again must be orally bi! M 33 6' 235lbs 7" cut white F 42 5' 7" 170 38DD also white. First message hopefully will be a face pic which we'll return. Cross posted and both will be ACTIVELY monitoring. Fingers crossed STL!

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2024/10/04
03:41 UTC

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24 [F4M] - looking to connect and maybe more

Well I’ve never actually posted on here before, and I’ll start this off by saying I’ve never done this before. But I guess what I’m looking for is someone to make me smile again, someone funny and romantic. A little about me. I’m short with red hair and petite. I love reading, anime, movies, and cooking. I love dancing to music in the kitchen when no one is watching. I’m in love with fall and the colder weather. I’m not looking to change my situation or yours and we can talk about the more if you would like. I just want that spark again and those butterflies again.

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2024/10/03
22:57 UTC

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40 [F4M] Whisk(me)y away

You: Single, humorous, intellectual, horny Me: Single, humorous, intelligent, horny AF Let’s meet for a whisky or two, and see what else I’m drinking by the end of the night

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2024/10/03
22:49 UTC

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23 [M4F] #JeffersonCityMO - looking for some birthday fun while wife’s away -

23M in the Jefferson City area, turning 24 on Saturday. Wife is going out of town for a few hours, and I’m looking to travel to St. Louis and find a fun female to have a little bit of extracurricular birthday fun with. Make my intro to my mid 20’s memorable!

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2024/10/03
18:31 UTC

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44 [M4F] #StLouis #Missouri Teacher looking for fun

Looking for a younger woman who is interested in an older, married teacher. Maybe you've always had a fantasy, or maybe you also teach and are looking for someone who gets it. Please be discreet and ddf. Looking forward to meeting you!

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2024/10/03
13:07 UTC

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26 [M4A] - Scat Toilet Slave Seeks Dom

Please read the whole post!

I'm a slim-fit 26 year old man seeking someone in or near St. Louis to use me as their scat toilet slave. Trying to fulfill a long time fantasy. I love feeling dehumanized, objectified, and helpless. Being force fed poop while tightly bound is the pinnacle of that feeling. Also into cock and ball torture, some ass play, and face fucking.

My ideal scene is as follows: I am tied spread eagle, wearing a latex hood and a spider gag. You shit straight in my mouth, smack by balls around a bit, finger/toy my ass, fuck my mouth, and suck/stroke me. Also down for enema play (give me one or make me drink yours!). Willing to discuss other scene ideas too.

I am not able to host. Please only message if you are able to host and actually willing to meet in real life. Not looking for an online dynamic. At the minimum, must be willing to tie me up and poop in my mouth.

Please send a chat with your age, sex, and location. Also, let's chat like normal people before negotiating a dynamic. Don't open with "Hey slave show me your asshole" or something like that. Just because I'm a sub doesn't mean I'm your slave already.

Looking forward to hearing from you and would love to meet IRL if we click!

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2024/10/02
21:04 UTC

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41 [M4F] - looking for some fun with women or couples hit me up if you are interested

Hope to hear from you STL

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2024/10/02
15:55 UTC

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33 [T4F] Trans fem, looking to connect with cis/trans woman in STL

Im a transfem that’s early into hrt. I’m by no means passing so hopefully you’re cool with that, but I am actively working on that (hence starting hormones).

Looking for a friend who can understand what I’m going through and maybe even provide pointers on some things (gender marker change, a bra that actually fits, etc. Cis women are more than welcome to message me as well since I don’t really mind. Open to fwb, platonic connections, etc.

dms from men will be blocked and ignored.

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2024/10/02
15:51 UTC

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44 [M4F] #STL Missouri - office interview role play

I think it speaks for itself, but I've always had this fantasy about a woman coming to my office for a supposed interview that evolves into a sexy rendezvous. My office in Clayton is perfect for this and lately there are days where I am the only one there. I am happy to meet someplace more public first and get to know each other, make sure there is a good vibe, etc. But the idea is you share your credentials, how you could perform the job duties and what you're looking for out of the role.

Me: mid-40s, professional, fit and discreet .. 6'1, 185, blue eyes, short blonde hair.

You: FEMALE, attractive, hwp, local and adventurous.

Applicants inquire within....

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2024/10/02
15:48 UTC

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43 [M4F] The struggle is real

I’m hoping to connect with a woman in the greater St. Louis area, for something sexy and casual. Lots of flirting via messenger or email in between meetings, fantasy discussions and just general chat about life. I’m super sexual and would like to find a woman that matches that energy. You’re likely a “normal” person to those who know you best, but maybe a little hyper sexual behind closed doors. Horny most of the time but very selective around who you share yourself with.

I’m a white dude in the county that takes care of himself (mentally and physically). Tall-ish @ 5’11” and height/weight proportionate @ 170 pounds. I’m playful, with a dry wit and flirty disposition. I tend to be most attracted to women who are capable of being a little nerdy and pragmatic. This is starting to run on, so I’ll wrap it up for now.

DM if interested. I think a pic exchange makes sense fairly quickly since we both know attraction is key. Discretion should go without saying, but I’m saying it anyway.

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2024/10/02
11:59 UTC

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25 [M4A] doordashing around looking to help service

Dm me

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2024/10/01
21:26 UTC

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25 [M4A] Affton. Curious about sucking and maybe bottoming for a femme male or trans girl.

Looking to give a bj most of all, but if things feel right I would like to bottom too!

Message me and let's see if we hit it off. :)

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2024/10/01
21:19 UTC

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31 [M4M] - HUGE kinks for: gingers, hairy pits, quick cummers, hyperspermia, uncut and soft cocks but open to all. 31 gayM STL. DM me; I’m always looking. 😘

DM if you like what you hear below and if you don’t fit any of those. I’m open to all 18+ men. More about me on my profile.

I love gingers of every shade of red especially the hairy ones.

Hairy armpits and pubes have always been a turn on for me. I like when a guy showers but doesn’t put on deodorant after. I like your natural body smell. I like to touch, sniff, lick and even wanna try rubbing my cock on them.

A quick cummer is a HUGE turn on for me because not many guys can cum the quick. I want a guy to bust almost immediately.

I’ve never been with a guy who has hyperspermia and busts huge loads but that is something I want to experience.

I have never played with an uncut cock but it’s something I’ve always wanted to try. I wanna look at it, inspect it, play with it and just experiment with it hard and soft.

I love soft cocks and just wanna play with them all the time even if you’re not horny. I love having my hand in your pants.

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2024/10/01
01:38 UTC

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29 [M4M] check out my profile if under 40 and bi

HMU

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2024/09/30
20:18 UTC

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41 [M4F]- Looking for a woman or couple to have some fun with

I am a blast

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2024/09/30
19:16 UTC

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35 [M4A]- in Brentwood. Blow and go wanted

Dm if interested and I’ll send hotel and room number

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2024/09/30
18:53 UTC

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30 [M4A] - bi m lookin for lunchtime fun in chesterfield area. You host or car play. HMU w pics!

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2024/09/30
14:27 UTC

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45 [M4F] - Wants and Needs

And the search continues… My bar is relatively high, as is yours. You’re married (like me) and not entirely unhappy. He’s a great guy and you two make a fantastic team. The last thing you want is to blow up anybody’s world.

But.. There are pent-up, primal desires and needs that have been left unmet for far too long. A tiny fire burning inside you, that needs the right guy to fan the flame.

I’m a transplant, who finds himself in St. Louis, Missouri. I’m tall-ish @ 5’11”, well fit, easy-going professional looking for excitement in all its forms. Undeniable chemistry, intense lust and all the naughty things.

If any of this piques your interest, shoot me a DM and let’s compare notes.

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2024/09/30
13:03 UTC

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43 [F4M] - Looking for a Long-Term FWB

EDITED 9/30 9am I am overwhelmed with messages. Thanks to those who fit the description, I will respond as soon as I’m able.

***DDF is drug/disease free. If your history shows you posting in cocaine subs, this is not you.

**I appreciate those who have responded and admit to being outside my age parameters. I may consider 2 years on the top and bottom end, but won’t respond to anyone beyond that. I wish you the best in your search, though!

Looking for a long-term FWB. Casual workout/hiking/walking/running partner or any combination of. Potential (very) occasional overnight meetups in future. Have been in a relationship lacking intimacy for many years. Discretion is non-negotiable. No content creators or requests for pictures/videos of “encounters”. I am not looking for one-time casual hookups, or someone who has them. I do not want to change my situation and neither should you.

Me: White. DDF. Professional and well educated (graduate degrees). Attractive. Height/weight proportionate. Live in the Webster/Kirkwood area. Enjoy being outside, reading, and nerding out about happenings in my field. Despite the vibe you get from the content of this post, I am pretty damn funny and know how to have a good time.

You: DDF (DRUG AND DISEASE FREE). Between 38-47. Attractive. Height/weight proportionate - Dad-bods are fine. I have realistic expectations, as should you. Married, or in a committed relationship. Within a reasonable distance of my location. Professional career as well as educated. Discreet. Again, I stress not wanting to change your situation.
Wanting to safely explore fantasies and sex with someone in similar set of circumstances.

If this is you, I’d love to chat.

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2024/09/30
04:35 UTC

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22 [M4F] #STL Saint Louis BBC looking for a FWB

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2024/09/30
00:42 UTC

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30 [M4F] lazy Sunday fall vibes with a fwb

I'm looking for a friend to smoke and possibly play around with if the spark is there

DM me or ask for my snap

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2024/09/29
19:31 UTC

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20 [M4F] - Looking for someone to have fun with

Asian male uni student looking for a FWB or more if that's what it comes to. Short term/Long term.

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2024/09/29
05:47 UTC

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22 [F4M] - looking for a fwb at MINIMUM

yay first female post since the return of stlr4r!!!!

anyways, i’m black, fat, HSV-1+ (google is free) and lonely af. near downtown and i unfortunately don’t drive at the moment.

i would like to NOT be reduced to a booty call though so that means i’m looking for at least a FWB, with emphasis on the friend part. please DM me with some sense lmao (no random nudes please!!!)

your pic gets mine!

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2024/09/29
03:03 UTC

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21 [M4M] slutty bubble butt hmu! Pics on profile

Will show face and am always down to try new things🥰

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2024/09/29
01:10 UTC

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20 [M4M] - light-skin slightly hairy guy looking for masculine guys around my age

Preference for tall, muscular, or white guys. If you’re all 3 you gotta hmu :)

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2024/09/28
20:56 UTC

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33 [M4F] help me plz -

It’s been 6 months since I’ve been inside heaven what up STL can a sweet lady help me ?

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2024/09/28
19:27 UTC

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STLr4r IS BACK!

Welcome back to STLr4r! After a year of being banned for lack of moderation, r/STLr4r is returning under new management!

##Key Changes:

  • The rules have been updated. Please read them before posting.
  • We have implemented posting title guidelines to make it easier to find the posts you are looking for. Please read the title guide before you post.
  • Images are no longer allowed. This is a community for meeting people, not sharing nudes.
  • Posting time restrictions are being enforced again. If your post is removed, it is probably because you are posting too often. Please limit posts to one per day.
  • Comments are all disabled for everyone. If you want to respond to someone, send them a chat or a private message! Responses do not need to be public.
  • Post flairs are required on every post to make it easier for you to find who you are seeking. Please select a post flair when writing your post!
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2024/09/28
15:04 UTC

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Welcome to St. Louis R4R!

This is a community for people in the Greater St. Louis Area to connect with each other. We welcome both SFW and NSFW posts.

##Advice For Users:

  • Follow the rules and the posting guidelines to avoid your post being removed.
  • If you cannot find any posts by the type of person whom you're looking for, make a post yourself! You would be surprised the number of people who lurk these types of subreddits without posting, and may find someone who is interested!
  • The same goes for those seeking females. It is well know that the majority of posts on these types of subreddits are by men. However, there are many female redditors who do not post because they may find the amount of messages they receive to be be overwhelming. Do not be discouraged by the lack of female posters! Post a quality post that will encourage messages and you may find female lurkers who are interested in meeting you!
  • Go ahead and make a post on r/R4R or r/dirtyR4R (depending on the nature of your post) and any other relevant personals subreddits as well! The more exposure you get, the better!
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2024/09/28
05:29 UTC

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High and horny in Franklin County...... 40m here...

Anyone?

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2023/05/06
09:31 UTC

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