/r/STLr4r

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A place people in the Greater St. Louis Area to connect (NO SELLERS OR PROMOTERS)

r/STLR4R is a place to meet people from the greater St. Louis area.

This community is 18+ only

/r/STLr4r

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22 [M4M] #ofallon/lebanon IL, looking for a longterm dom

195 6’1 twunk fit bubble butt. Looking to explore. Pretty new to this. Looking for someone to train me that can meet regulars to after getting to know each other. Any build and age is accepted. If this sounds like you send me your age and location in a dm.

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2024/12/03
05:03 UTC

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19 [M4A] Just looking for whatever

19m down for pretty much anything

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2024/12/03
04:17 UTC

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32 [M4F] - bi male newly sleeping with women

Looking for someone to explore the other side of my bisexuality with. Let's talk and see what happens.

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2024/12/03
00:27 UTC

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39 [M4F] How about just the tip?

Any ladies in the city that think they could make me cum from just playing with the tip of a tall and fit guy? I cum quick from blowjobs - but if it’s just the tip of my cock, I want to see how long I last. So let’s see what you can do.

I know it doesn’t sound like a much of a challenge, but it seems like it could be really hot - since you have all of the control.

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2024/12/02
22:48 UTC

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46 [M4C] - Looking for a shared wife

Hello reader(s). Please feel free to reach out via DM if you’re looking for a straight guy for her. I’m 46 and in fantastic shape (5’11”/170), manscaped, patient and very easy going. I’m interested in being an additional resource for HER pleasure. No M2M. Located in Des Peres.

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2024/12/02
21:18 UTC

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35 [M4A] anyone into breathplay?

Wanna have some breathplay fun in the south county/arnold area

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2024/12/02
20:36 UTC

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39 [M4A] Massage Wanted

Im in St. Charles, and have never had a massage, very nervous about going to a place to get one. Would love to find someone who does them out of their home or apt. Feel free to message me. Thanks.

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2024/12/02
20:27 UTC

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30 [C4F] beautiful couple looking for a new experience with a lucky lady 🦄

Hung guy and slim girl looking for fun this week, let's chat if interested in a 3way

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2024/12/02
19:00 UTC

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44 [M4F] - The allure of exchange

You’re looking. I’m looking. Our bar is high, which makes the task seem somewhat impossible (at least online) at times…

If you’re hoping for a legitimate friend though, with all the electricity and excitement that comes with that perfect piece of your puzzle, let’s compare notes.

I like to think that I’m an attractive guy with a sharp wit and the gift of gab. Definitely not one to settle, so my fingers are crossed that This catches the right eyes 👀…

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2024/12/02
14:55 UTC

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46 [M4F] #STL #St. Louis #MO ... missing passion and excitement

Well ... I don't normally do this, but I'd like to find someone to have fun with and help me break the routine of my otherwise ordinary, married life. Anyone up to just to chat, meet up, see how it goes? Can be NSA or ongoing if the situation is right.

About me:

  • Married white male, attractive and in shape
  • 6'1, 185 lbs, short brown hair, blue eyes
  • Professionally employed and educated (grad degree)

About you:

  • Female - no dudes or couples
  • Local to St. Louis, Missouri or driving distance
  • Status is unimportant, but understand the need for discretion
  • Considered attractive, cute, sexy, etc ... just want there to be attraction ... prefer "girl next door" types
  • Open minded
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2024/12/02
13:40 UTC

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44 [M4F] #STL - Looking for a woman I can toss around and ravage

Looking for a submissive woman to take my sexual frustrations out on. Me: 5'10" 210 lbs, broad shoulders. Love spanking, slapping, throat fucking, choking, hard sex, roleplay, cnc, praise, degradation You: Submissive (can be a brat if you want) Message me and let me know what you're into

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2024/12/02
13:14 UTC

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30 [M4F] [M4MF] - Looking for Discreet FWB

As the title says. Looking for a discreet affair partner. I am not single so I’m looking for another married or taken women but am open to single women or couples! Open relationships ok, as long as there’s discretion. Have talked to a few people here but haven’t found something consistent.

I’d like to find someone to chat and get to know and meet up with as our schedules allow. Someone who will contribute to conversations and be friends before we meet up. Just a little escape from our daily lives. I’m happy to travel within an hour outside of STL. If what you’re looking for is more physical that’s okay too. I have a pretty flexible schedule for meet up.

Physically I am tall, average body type, light hair and light eyes. 420 friendly but don’t partake. Non smoker, clean, well dressed. happy to exchange photos and verify over Snapchat once we chat and get to know each other a little more.

Im easy going, adventurous, and always making jokes and I can keep a conversation going. Sexually I am more dominant and have a variety of kinks and fantasies we can explore. I’d love to hear about yours!

If you’re interested let me know a little about you and your age and let’s chat!

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2024/12/02
02:04 UTC

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34 [M4M] want to give massage/head

I’m 34, discreet/dl (not out) and want to find a guy that I can give a massage…would also like to give head, but just the massage is fine too!

Prefer that you be in decent shape or better, take care of yourself, masc, and 21-40ish years old.

This is not for right now…would like to chat some before discussing a time to meet. Either share a pic or be ready to.

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2024/12/02
02:00 UTC

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21 [M4M] no limits boy here hmu pics on profile

I’m legit down for anything just ask I’m desperate

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2024/12/02
00:38 UTC

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31 [M4M] - GINGER MEN?! I have had an urge to play with a red ginger man..DM me

I have just been so horny recently thinking about ginger men and their hairy bodies especially those hairy pits🤤

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2024/12/01
21:53 UTC

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35 [M4F] - mutual masturbation kink in STL

Looking for females who want to get together and watch each other masturbate. Dirty talk, tell each other what to do, how fast or slow to go, edge and cum together.

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2024/12/01
20:47 UTC

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50 [M4M] - Looking to give a HJ Monday at lunchtime

You host. Looking to get you off.

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2024/12/01
20:46 UTC

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48 [M4M] Host Frontenac Hotel

Bi MWM, 48, 6’4”, avg build, DDF, non-smoker.

Mutual jo/bj, vers top. My pics are in profile.

Hosting at the Frontenac Hilton. Send DM if interested. Need to see pics before meeting. Not looking for long chats, let’s get to the point.

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2024/12/01
19:17 UTC

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32 [M4F] - Looking for a new booty call or a bored hotwife

Hey there. Just your average educator-by-day who's got an insatiable sexual appetite. Ive had some success here in the past, but now looking for someone new to play with. I'm 5'11", 6in cock, 200lbs with a dad bod. Full beard and mustache with a couple tattoos. Drug/Disease Free, clean, respectful, educated, sane and down to earth. I love foreplay, giving oral (I give the BEST mustache rides) and rough sex.

Due to the nature of my occupation, I prefer things to be NSA and discreet, but I'm open to an ongoing booty-call situation. Also open to hotwives/couples.

If you want to chat or see a couple pics, feel free to send me a DM.

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2024/12/01
16:32 UTC

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40 [M4M] - First time

I’ve wanted to give head for a long time. Not sure how to go about it without it being awkward. Can’t exactly ask a buddy. Looking for someone normal that will let me try it. Must be clean, trimmed, and discreet. I can host some weekends south of STL

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2024/12/01
08:21 UTC

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29 [M4A] glory hole open now

Come let’s have some fun and get you off

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2024/12/01
02:59 UTC

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30 [M4F] - Intimacy

I'm looking for someone to be intimate with. Cuddle with, make out with, feel close to, plain and simple. I've been single for some time, and I'm missing intimacy in my life.

I do not want to have sex. Underwear stays on. I want to feel close, take it slow and easy. No pressure, no strings, no expectations. Let's make each other feel wanted and safe and good.

I am what you'd describe as a sensitive, bookish person. I'm quiet but my thoughts are loud. I love to read, make music, cook, bake, garden, explore, and care for those around me.

I'd like to get to know each other a bit over chat first, to make sure we click and match our expectations. Happy to swap pics as well. Shoot me a message telling me a little about yourself and we'll go from there. I'm excited to meet you.

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2024/12/01
00:55 UTC

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38 [M4A] #STL — Military guy here — Where is a good area to stay in for my visit? Somewhere easily accessible to be able to host.

I’m gonna be visiting St Louis in a couple weeks, and I will have my own hotel room so I can host

I’d love to suck your cock till you’re rock hard then take you deep inside my tight ass, or I could swallow all of your cum if you just prefer a blowjob.

I’m looking for M4M interaction, but I’m not opposed if you’re married or have a gf and she wants to watch or something.

DM me and we can figure it out … talk to you soon boys!

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2024/12/01
00:15 UTC

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36 [M4F] - Gummie & Cuddle Right Now-ish?

36 with a dad bod. live in University City. Looking for someone who wants to cuddle & let the Gummies take over our bodies. I’ll host and supply the gummies (or you could bring your own), dinner, & the movies. Let’s float & feel the warmth of our bodies together. Sex stuff not required, but if you want to (and we have some chemistry) I’m down.

I’ll send a photo via DMs

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2024/11/30
22:29 UTC

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28 [M4F] - Male looking to explore femdom in Downtown/South Stl

28 year old male here athletic to chubby build(6ft 215lbs), looking to explore femdom. Things I’m interested in trying are chastity, pegging, light ball busting, reverse pegging, and general humiliation. I’m open to more just ask. Disease & drug free, please be the same. If you’re interested I would love to hear from you.

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2024/11/30
21:25 UTC

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44 [M4F] (#STL) Edwardsville

Married and just having some fun. Let’s play together! I’m into pleasing, discretion always. Single ladies to hot married moms stop by and say hello!

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2024/11/30
21:05 UTC

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27 [M4A] Massage Part 2!

Hey everybody! Per previous post, I had a lot of people message me and had a few lucky people roll by for a nice oil massage :) if you hadn’t had a chance yet and needing to release some ‘tension’ shoot me a DM~

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2024/11/30
19:21 UTC

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42 [M4F] #St Louis - single experienced cuckold seeking F for cuck relationship

Greetings! I’m a 42 year old genuine single male submissive cuckold actively seeking a Woman who is interested in the cuckold lifestyle. It’s been difficult finding partners so I thought I would give this a shot.

I’ve been fortunate enough to have been involved in several different cuckold relationships in the past and have even come close to having my own Hotwife. I am super passionate about this lifestyle and I’m extensively well trained and have a thorough understanding of how they work. I’m open to partners of all experience levels.

There is nothing sexier to me than a Woman who has all the freedom and power to sleep with whomever she wants anytime she wants while she has a loyal monogamous partner at home that takes care of her and does her bidding.

Ideally, it would be nice to find someone for a longer term relationship or dynamic but I also understand that these relationships take time to build. I’m very much about communication and being open. There has to be good chemistry at the core.

I’m educated, cultured, have a great career, diverse interests and know what it means to put her interests first. She will always be my priority.

Despite my current location (St Louis, MO) I’m open to distance at first while we figure things out and get to know one another as I realize that your perfect partner often isn’t in your own back yard.

Feel free to message if this sounds of interest to you!

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2024/11/30
19:09 UTC

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39 [M4F] - saint louis!!! In shape, vasectomy safe, ready to play!

Title says it, I wanna have some discreet fun. Athletic body, vasectomy safe, D&D free. Hit me up!

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2024/11/30
19:03 UTC

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24 [M4A] - DTF looking

Sex drive through the roof right now. Looking for a couple or a lady who’s dtf. Potentially a FWB if the vibe is right

1 Comment
2024/11/30
16:59 UTC

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