/r/sissyology
a place for thoughtful discussion on the nature of sissyhood
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Welcome to /r/sissyology! This is a subreddit devoted towards approaching a scientific understanding of sissification. Sharing your personal story and insights is encouraged. Further, here are some other ideas for discussion topics:
Basically, any philosophical question or idea relating to sissification is fair game.
Official Rules
To post or visit this subreddit you must be over 18
No spam or solicitation of any kind. This includes personal photos and hook-up requests or classified ads! Captions and hypnos are also out-of-place here, put those on /r/sissyhypno or /r/sissyperfection
Be civil and respectful of others; no (unwanted :P) ad hominems or insults.
Do not kink-shame; we are all consenting adults here.
This subreddit takes a positive moral stance towards sissy desires. It is okay to say that sissy desires have caused you personal difficulties, or offer help to people who say their desires are harmful for them. However, it is not okay to say sissy desires or sissy communities are unethical, immoral, or offensive.
Definition of "Sissy":
A sissy is a male who adopts hyper-feminine behaviors and practices (e.g., crossdressing, putting on make-up), typically assuming the submissive role to a dominant female and/or male partner(s).
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Other sissy-related science subreddits:
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Such a rush, picked out a few super glittery dresses and went up to the counter and bought them… of course I was there with chastity and panties on. Probably going to take some pics tonight
super excited For all my stuff to arrive on friday. I may have went a bit overboard but I just wanted so much with the deals lol. I got a couple outfits, toys, a cute pair of heels, and my first set of polish and makeup kit!
Just wondering if there is a good place to start for makeup tutorials? should I just go on youtube and search boy to girl makeup and go with that. any videos you girls recommend?
Let's face it : there is no magical button that turn people into Sissies.
What I want to talk about today is, how some "straight" boys can get to be attracted to the idea of getting slightly feminized to eventually fantasize about getting spitroasted with cum drooling from their pretty faces. ,
First of all, everyone is different, everyone had, has and will have a different experience towards their sissy journey.
How many times do we read on sissy subreddits : "I am straight but I keep looking at sissy captions", "I am straight but I enjoy wearing panties..." the funniest ones are : "I am straight but I want to suck a cock..."
One of the most common starting point of how "straight" males get sissified is : Porn.
Whether it is femdom, cumshots, anal, trans, those porn categories may lead to the sissy rabbit hole.
Modern sissy hypno videos are fast-paced, bombarding the viewer with gorgeous girls and sissies, which is kinda unique in porn. This uniqueness is enough to captivate a "straight" viewer, planting the Sissy Seed in its mind.
"I am only looking at the girls..." "I am not paying attention to those words, I want to keep looking at those girls sucking cocks..."
Well, keep looking at those girls and you might as well become one of them 🤭
Those videos have written suggestions along them, or vocal instructions. Being constantly exposed to them lower the resistance of the mind, treating them as normal.
"Those girls love to suck cocks... What does it feel to suck one ?" "Wait, did I think that ?" "Omg, this girl just swallowed 5 loads... I wonder what is the taste of cum..."
The mind get curious. Looking at how those girls are enjoying themselves getting railed or drenched in cum, one question rises up : how does it feel ?
How does it feel to wear feminine underwear ? How does it feel to wear chastity ? How does it feel to fuck my ass with a dildo ?
Whether or not a "straight" boy wants to know the answer to these questions depends on so many personnal factors. But porn is the starting point of those.
So, what do you think ? Did sissy porn influence you in your choices ? What made you thought : "Ok, I am a Sissy" ?
Kisses xxx
I’ve been at this sissy thing for awhile now and as much as I enjoy feminising myself the idea of a daddy feminising me and fucking me turns me on so much although I feel like men who enjoy feminising subs are rare and hard to come by which is why I’ve once again turned to my friends here on this subreddit to get some answers, is there anywhere I could find a daddy irl in my area that would be able to feminise me and make me his, what methods could I use to find somebody like that, should I use apps or where should I go to find someone like that. I had a fellow sissy who was willing to help me do this although sadly they ghosted me so I’m still trying to find someone who won’t cancel on me at the last minute or ghost me. Girls I need help, feel free to dm me if needed. :)
How should a sissy masturbate without watching porn? its a simple question but I just feel like I can't really do it because I end up getting self conscious and I feel like kinda stupid doing it ngl
Hi gurls, right now I really can’t control myself or fall asleep. I know cumming will help but I don’t want to PNC. Other solutions? I fucked my dildo a few times today, and keep imagining taking dick while falling asleep.
Hey all need recommendations on how not to stroke while being pegged. Gf has now fucked me everyday since I asked to be pegged but hasn’t let me fuck her. That being said she told me I shouldn’t stroke my cock while she fucks me, I should try to just find pleasure in getting it in the ass.
Do others stroke while being fucked and if not how do you get over the horniness while being pegged / ass fucked not to stroke. 2 times she fucked me I had panties still on. Do you just leave it in panties cause as soon as it’s hard and I am riding I am so horny I just wanna cum. The issue is once I cum I am fine wanting to be pegged and she still wants to fuck me more.
I will be alone this weekend, and I plan to take my time as a sissy. I will take picture of me, and then expose me on webcam on stripchat. Do you have any ideas of fun activities, games, scenario to pimp my weekend ?
Ever told a female friend and they reacted bad or weird or anything ? Just wanna know what it would be like . I’m sure it’s mostly ‘ she was so supportive’ lol riiiiiight…
I’m a 23M who is looking for a sissy to date. I’ve had minimal luck trying to connect with people so I’m worried if my approach may be an issue. How to I go about introducing myself to sissies? What is the best way to meet people into this life style? And is there anything else I should keep in mind when speaking? I’ve really only come to terms as of late that I am bisexual so I’m very inexperienced.
Hi, I found a Dom who lives only a hour away from me. I love the idea of meeting him in person and leting him use me, but once the chance came up that idea left my head and I was to scared to commit to it. Does anyone have any advice on how I could commit to meeting up and not wimping out at the last minute?
Quick cummer and small penis
Ok all. Here is the deal, unsure on even posting.
My gf of a few years, told me on a drive on the way to thanksgiving the following, after I asked her to peg me. — Honey I have been waiting for you to ask to peg you I already bought a strapon but you have to wear panties when I do it. — if you wear panties I will know you want it in booty and I can share with you. — it’s ok you dont last that long in bed, you always make me cum from eating my ass and pussy. — your fingers and tongue make up for your smaller size, hence why I love when you 4 finger me or fist me. — yes I have thought about a big cock fucking me whole you 4 finger or fist me — you should start eating me after you cum in me or pull out so you can eat me more. — I have never came from your cock and yes I did cum from my exs. — Yours is the smallest I have had, but you eat the best pussy and ass.
Fast forward to 30 mins ago after she pegged me. — Yes I told my gfs I have pegged you and you wear panties — I can peg you rather than sex I might prefer it. However you will be eating my ass and pussy still. — you want to four finger or fist me I want to feel full like you did. — you can peg me with a dildo so it’s like us making love but with a bigger cock that doesn’t cum quick — big cocks are great, but it’s ok I love you and we can get creative in our forever sex life. — we should teach you how to cum without touching your cock — your cock fits so good in panties and is cute. — I know you want thongs but I hate them and sacrificing that people see panty lines the days I peg you is minimum. If you want me to peg you then you wear panties and if people see consider it minor to your reward. — you cock doesn’t need to go in me we have dildos and your mouth. I have never came from you fucking me anyways it’s why I was so open to pegging you. — we can share a double dildo
For those curious I am not that small like 5” and I usually last about 5-7 mins during sex, but by this time she has usually came once from my mouth and once from my fingers.
I recently broke up with my girlfriend and i wanted to explore my gay/sissy side but i dont know where to buy clothes, what apps do i need etc
I would really appreciate if you could help me💕
Here are my "stats":
-I'm still living with my parents so getting a guy ocer won't work. Just if i'd go to his place.
-i'm pretty big (188cm), have a pretty good built ass because i go to the gym.
-i'm cut 19cm (7inches)
-i only sucked one guy but i didn't know him.
-i like cumming to sissy/twink porn and would like to be fully shaved (even though its a lot of work)
Thanks if you read everything and i would enjoy reading your tips
Hey everyone, I'm a "dom" and I know that the the sissy mindset is usually to do everything to make sure you please your male or female partner rather than focus on your own pleasure as well.
However, the way I look at it, any sexual relationship or sexual encounter is meant for the pleasure of all parties involved.
Now, the act of servicing and pleasuring your dominant partner might be the pleasure point for you. In that case my post is pretty useless lol.
But, I just wanted to know if any of you feel the other way. That you wish you were given more attention maybe even equal amounts the attention you provided your dominant partner. Because at the end of the day, you should also have the best experience possible.
I may have just typed up a whole bunch of useless bullshit but this is just my take as a giver 😅
I would love to hear your thoughts!
So I don't have any access to womens clothes or sex toys and I can't really afford them either right now, so how can I masturbate while feeling femme, I wanna try pillow humping but idk how to do it in a femme way, some/any advice would be very helpful, thanks so much!
No going back
To give some context, i have been a on / off Sissy now for around 4 years and was always struggling to accept my desires. When i got into this i had a break up with my gf back then and since then didnt have sex with women.
Now for around 2 weeks im getting back into the sissy mindset after a longer pause. For me , for the first steps again this means fasting, training and no clitty touching to get back into form. So i didnt touch myself for this time and was a good sissy. This weekend i went to a local celebration and got to know some new poeple. I got to know a woman there and soon we were chatting, drinking and somehow sharing mutual affection. I didnt intend to but we ended in Bed together and for the first time since 4 years i was about to have sex with a woman as a "male". We did long foreplay and after some time i had to notice my clitty said no. Just no. When i touch myself , after this long time of not beeing able to cum, my clit would normally get hard in seconds. But it didnt. It was crazy. She was hot, and she gave and tried everything but nothing did happen. My clit was there flopping and numb and didnt even try to act as a male sex organ. My whole mental state changed since this. I dont need to pretend or purge anymore. I only have one way. I clearly am a sissy. I have a clit not a dick and will never fuck a woman again. It all seems so easy now. I dont even want to touch my clit again , its just there and i have no desire anymore to touch it, even though im horny asf. When i got home i put my plug in and will now leave it in to always remind my of my way and of what i am. I was never so motivated to get in shape and train. Arround christmas i will search Doms again. To get used and fucked. As this is what i was made for. And now i truly understand, what a point of no return is and means.
Thanks for reading.
So tomorrow morning I’ve got an important meeting to go too and I had the idea to wear panties and a bra to it. What do you gals think? Should I do it?
Hi all cin here just wondering I see alot in the sissy communities that id say the overwhelming majority are very heavily focused on the sissy slut vibe 🤣 which is cool I support you all . But I'm curious is there many out there that consider themselves straight ? Or straight but attracted too femininity such as they like woman but also if the sissies or trans are passable they'd be attracted too them also ? I am personally . Not into dudes at all . But my main thing is I love dressing up slutty with my gf and love the slut styles but not the actions .. curious too see is there many out there . Also if people need help with outfit ideas I love helping so hmu
I am curious about your best experience orgasming and what do you think a sissygasm should be. I would appreriate it if i could learn from your experiences.
Hey girlies!
Wondering how many of us are working from home dressed as our bimbo slutty selves? I get tingly and spend most workdays that I can with my clitty caged tight and my makeup done up as a bimbo slut as often as I can. Usually spending my afternoons riding my plugs and gooning over your Reddit posts, I get leaky thinking about other sissies who may be doing the same thing. Anyone want to share their favorite things to do during their workday? I need tips for this week.
Hey girls,
Need help heading to the store. Can you tell me what to buy to bleach my boy pussy?
I want someone to share my side of story once i share it tbey block me but it is a true story 😔. Please Dm me only those who don't gonna judge me and i am comfertable to share it with a sissy or a trans person.
When i first properly started getting in the sissy mindset, it was going after my childhood kinks, but while exploring this kink im starting to realize its my comfort zone, it makes me feel good, and hot, but i also love the attention i get. It gives me the time to reset from stress and be more productive later on.
Another benefit is my attraction to my girlfriend is much much higher, and i feel much more satisfied with life in general after cumming. My body feels health, and i feel more motivated to workout, maybe the focus on keeping attention to my body instilled me to take care of it more. My hair is better than ever, and im feeling much more fit. And may i add after i came the post nut pushed me so hard to work on myself
The only disadvantage during that time is im completely uninterested in sissification and cannot follow the academy advices, but the sissification periods seem to give me great resets.
I really want to try out a tanning bed. My skin is pretty pasty and pale and I’d really like to see it darker, I don’t want to be super tan. just kinda like “been at the beach for a week” tan. Do any other sissy girls on here use them? Any advice or “do’s and don’ts” that I should know before going?
Long story short - my girlfriend started feminizing me during covid, so now I basically dress manly only when we go out / public. At home I'm 100% in femme mode. For a few months, we started using chastity on me, along with dildos, so now reaching anal orgasm for me is not impossible (hard, but I manage to achieve it almost everytime). We both are into IR porn, and we were wondering lately if we should find BBC for both of us. I never was with another man before, but in that case I have my mind open. What do you think? Is there any pros or cons in that situation?
I am straight male, atleast till two months ago, my friend introduce me to sissy porn as a joke. I liked the weird sound that made me feel comfortable and warm and help me sleep,so continued listening to it.soon it lead me having strange dreams . after that I started having thoughts of seeing big hairy man in my dreams.slowly, but steadily, my thought patterns have changed earlier. I used to see straight porn and used to enjoy women getting fucked, but now I don’t .I mostly see trans content or solo man cumming. Now it has led to me having sexual urges which include seeing cocks cuming and seeing naked bodies of men. Straight porn with females doesn’t make me hard anymore. I get urges to cross dress. I am unfit with chubby body, but I have started enjoying my body and fantasize about being an older woman having a mature body , I feel disinterest in working out and having a strong body while having a big ass is making me giddy. I mostly spent time chatting with men on Grindr and other sites and even Reddit also, and on a daily basis I have cock in my DMS and I masturbate to them too, even though I enjoy my life much more now and the sex is better now I can’t keep on going doing this because today I masturbated using fingers in Anus and came very quickly. I feel it is destroying me and I need to create a recovery road
Ps:- English not my first language kindly pardon
I am 22 and I currently do not have a dom but I do like to keep myself accountable as a sissy. I have done multiple things which I consider need to be punished for. Ex. Not wear panties, no anal or oral practice on toy all week, looked at a cute girls butt at the gym, not shave for 2 weeks, and viewed myself as a man and not a sissy. These are a few things I have done which I believe I need to be punished for. Any help or suggestions would be great thank youu.
Every time I get horny I fill my Amazon cart with all kinds of toys and clothes, I’ll look at Airbnb’s and get ready to fuck away my days. But the second I cum it’s all over, and that all goes away. What do I do??
Hi there. So after a long time very long years I decided to come out and become a sissy. I know that is what I want to be… but I really don’t know where to start? My mindset is already on point I would say but I don’t have anything.. what should I buy? I really need some help with what to buy and what not..
When i started sissification there was so much support to push me on, but then i came, and the post nut kicked in and i just kept everything aside, but now those sissy urges are coming back ever since i got some sexy knee high socks and they turn me on just wearing it.
The first time i posted myself on reddit, there was so much attention, and it made me feel so sexy that people were lusting over me, and wanting to use my body in ways i could only dream of.
But now the attention is so less, anyone know how to get some