I finally shared the way I identify with some major people in my life this week and I was so well received! Now I want to really start looking into growing my clit - advice?

In the future I’d like to get phallo, but I know I don’t want vnectomy. I’m not sure if a hysto would be required for me or not. I know it might depend on the surgeon. Can anyone weigh in based on their experience?

This is kinda a continuation of my last post since the pump might cause issues for certain types of intimacies, I'm wondering how sleeves are as a long term option and how no implant can change aesthetics and if I can talk to my surgeon about making the aesthetics better without implant like is that an achievable thing I guess???

Thank you

also I probably will share on phallo too, just having an issue with a post I tried to make there so I want to make sure it's okay first

So I have really bad dysphoria about not having a penis and was actually on the road to phallo(non burial,no ul, vaginal preserving, shaft only) but a main thing keeps holding me up, the erectile implants I really don’t want a rod and the pump is my best option and something I just barely realized would a pump placed in labia cause issues for tribbing/scissoring??? I’ve never even thought about that until today and have never seen anyone else ask that…..I changed the post cause I realized my other worry is from cis normative and bio bullshit place that I’m trying to work past

Hope this isn’t confusing, thank you

I was assigned male at birth and have a penis. I identify as nonbinary and trans fem and have been on feminizing HRT for several years now. I know I don't "pass" because I'm 6'3" with huge shoulders but that doesn't bother me anymore. Most of the time I enjoy my penis. I'm a very sexual person and the sensitivity that I have is very important to me. Both of my partners have vulvas and enjoy my penis as well (although I know they would support me no matter what). However, my whole life I have been chasing the feeling of vaginal penetration. I've tried using the backdoor, sounding, muffing, or just flat-out pretending, and while I enjoy those activities, nothing feels quite right. I've done a lot of research into bottom surgery options, including Phallus-Preserving Vaginoplasty, but current medicine just isn't at the success level that makes me feel like it's worth the effort. I could lose my ability to get it up without meds (an ability I've been able to successfully keep even on HRT) and the loss of sexual sensitivity or satisfaction is a major discouragement. Info about Phallus-Preserving Vaginoplasty is scarce, and I haven't been able to find any post-op photos, let alone any healed ones or personal testimonies. I just don't think that's the path I want to take currently, but in the times when I don't want a penis, I can have really bad depression spirals. I just know if I got full bottom surgery I would also miss my penis sometimes. Does anyone have any advice? Something I haven't tried yet? Preferably something I can do when I'm alone. When am I with my partners it's less of an issue because of how supportive they are of me.

So I'm afab, trans male, pre everything. Well, I want to have a penis and a vagina, that's decently achievable.

I want a prostate. I'm suppose to have a prostate I feel instead of certain female parts, I assume specifically the uterus, which ever reproductive part produces estrogen & progesterone in afabs.

It's weird. I'm both ok and not, knowing that it's not currently an existing thing. I'm sure there are other people here who feel they lack specific internal parts, but I rarely see them, as opposed to external features, understandably.

If this is incoherent forgive me, it's 3:08 am.

Edit: Thank you for the comments! I got no sleep last night and am miserable today, but the comments are motivating. Human bodies are so fucking weird yet amazing.

Edit 2: OAAJJWHWHDHDHD. I'm suddenly more hyped for starting T hopefully around May 14th. The appointment is that date. I don't know the specifics.

My aunt keeps reminding I that what I want is impossible and I just don't know what to do, she asked if I want a vigina because we were talking about me being Lesbian and I said no I want both and the Exact next words out of her mouth was you can't😭

Learned something about myself today! Well, I kinda already knew but I didn't know there was a word for it!

When I was a small child, early single digits, and I was figuring out who I was as a small person, the thought of "I wish I had some form of both" crossed my mind. Ever since then, I spent YEARS exploring my gender. Then, when I started being sexual, I realized that I liked my pocket (gender dysphoria doesnt allow me to call it anything else and "hole" isnt any better to me) and wanted to keep it. But I still felt like I was missing something.

testosterone has entered the chat

I very thoroughly enjoyed what T did for me down there. I'm above averagely blessed for an AFAB person on hormones.

Fast forward to today, I hear the word "salmacian" for the first time (with context) and IMMEDIATELY it resonates with me!!

What are some things I should ask myself to further delve into who I want to be? What are some things that you didn't realize until after coming to terms with your identity?

My main... Goals? Wants? Setup? is a phallus for penetration and the ability to stand and pee, and a pocket but PLEASE no balls. I've never heard anyone born with balls (trans or cis) say they ever LIKE having balls. Nothing about it seems pleasant so I'll pass. More power to the people who do decide to add plums to the package in their surgery but that ain't for me, friend!

What's your preferred... Goals? Wants? Set up?

This is my ideal surgery, I’m wondering if it actually would be possible tho. Any advice is greatly appreciated!!

When I sought out phallo with UL and no vaginectomy, I just expecting multiple extra surgeries to get things up and running, but instead found out your surgeon might refuse to do more repair attempts.

Ive had 4 fistula repairs done, we had thought things were good after the last one, as my pre stage 2 (where the neurethra would actually be hooked up) cystoscopy showed things were sound. But during surgery, they discovered a small fistula had reopened where some old sutures were dislodged, and that they dont suspect it will heal closed, or would just reopen with the extended length of the urethra and tear even worse.

My team has told me they cant attempt any more repairs without a vaginectomy, and I feel so upset.

Had anyone else been in this position?

TLDR : electrolysis hair removal is now covered by my insurance as an afab, and post op phallo update

Kaiser, Northern California! My story is pretty long, you can check my profile and read about if you want, i talk about post op things and have shared post op healing pics. But to shortly summarize my story, i am afab and had to go on T ( 2005 at 18) to start the process of pursing phalloplasty. It took 20 years unfortunately (i’m 37) but a lot of things set back happened in that time. I have identified as non binary for over a decade. But I didn’t come out as she/they until after I was post phallo. I don’t identify as detrans btw. I just have found peace in my assigned birth gender and dealt with some traumas. Ok moving on.

2025 i’m having FFS and breast reconstruction (T and weightloss took the little bit i tissue that i did have, and left me with muscle and hanging skin, which is why i ever even had a double mastectomy, never had big breasts. i’m super excited. I have my in person consult this month for FFS. I still have to get glans done, but i’m in no rush. I want something super specific and hope that it can be done.

I know some people are curious what it looks like not having scrotoplasty. (I have gotten messages). My outer labia was left in tact and still looks pretty much the same as pre op at first glance if I lift up my beautiful tattooed extended cl*t , (yes I call her beautiful😌). There is still some depth there between the outer labia, not to get too NSFW-ish but yes things can slide in that space, and it feels very erotic esp with lube. Just no front hole to go into bc I had a vaginectomy due to severe genital dysphoria and trauma.

The bottom dysphoria is cured. She has full sensation, gasms are amazing, and now can feel cold temperatures. I can stp no issue. My phallo was successful and Im happy i was able to customize my needs and wants. I’m 14 months post op rff. Thearpy has helped and continues to help with dealing with trauma, among other things. Working on mental health and healing trauma has been a big part of my journey!

Amazing things are happening in my life, both personally and career wise, and despite whats currently going on in my country (usa), i still have some things to smile about!

I will continue to fight and advocate for non binary rights and for those that do not fit into the binary of trans related health care!

We now just wait a few weeks for a verdict.

Something I actually learned in this process is that gender identity and expression were only listed formally in the Ontario Human Rights Code, but not "officially" in the Charter. I hope that this case builds the momentum to get that to change too.

I don't want to say much more (unless anyone has a specific question), but again, hang on because each level is even bigger and more important than the last!

okay this is all probably going to be disjointed and weird but please stick with me here please bc no one has been able to answer my concerns yet so maybe my fellow salmacian freaks can

I mean ZERO disrespect for anyone who did or did not make a decision I say here in a negative light and am only talking about my personal worries and opinions on said decisions and what I view as downsides for me and my body

context: AFAB with transition goals consisting of having a smaller than average penis rather than a clitoris as the main goal with side quests of vocal training to be able to sound like a guy... facial hair sounds nice too but honestly Eh™️

I'm afraid of doing bottom surgery for many reasons, one of which being I don't know how I could hide it from people who know me especially with how up my ass my mother is, but I'm going to focus more on my concerns with the two types I know of for my anatomy, I just felt like saying that for... some reason? sorry

anyway, I've mainly looked into metoidioplasty because all this time that has seemed like The Thing but I also hear it won't really make it any bigger or sometimes not even appear bigger, it just moves it in HOPES of making it appear more penis like or "larger" which while it would make me feel more comfortable in the "it's still my body in the order it was in just a little more how I want it" angle that I want, I'd still prefer to not be stuck with 1 inch or something

phalloplasty scares the SHIT out of me for two reasons: it's blatantly obvious that that's a penis and is harder to hide in situations where I could be hurt emotionally or physically and... I'm gonna be real I don't want a scar on my arm just so I can feel my penits

can someone help me work this out? is there a third option? is there seriously NO getting around going on T for like two fuckin years?

if it helps, my main goals with having a penis are (in order of biggest to least):

feeling (both basic and erotic)

peeing standing up

retention of vagina

bonus points if:

penetration possible

3 to 4 inches

Why is every flair twice available? Is it because it's like a joke? like hehe 2 genitalis👀 well twice as many flairs?

And if it's a oupsies just let it be i think it's funny now😅

This is a bit of a weird question I guess but has vocal feminization surgery been done on anyone who has taken testosterone and has had their voice drop? I am extraordinarily curious about potentially pursuing this surgery, but I haven’t seen anyone talk about this within the FTM realm

Edit: kindly don’t slide into my DMs with detransitioner shit, I’m not detransitioning. Curating my final form ≠ detrans. I’m intersex, I take T as part of my transition.

Hi im mtf, I knew it since i was 8, and since then i felt a little conflicted in my anatomy, i have a regular albeit not very masculine body no health issues.

In the last year My economy has improved a little so i can start thinking about getting GRS.

And that Made me think about options, what do i want, and i don't know if anyone can relate or had seen anyone like this but i came to the conclusión that Even when i want the full girls equipment i would like to not severe the penis but shortening almost to the point of being just the glans, , it's already 3 inches long, half inch in thickness while flácid so it's not so much anyway i think i would like to able to hid it between the labia like some cis girls blessed with a Big clit or something bigger (still shorter and smaller than current), similar to how ftm guys look when they start bottom growth when in hrt If this is against rules plz tell me to take It down, not mean to offend anyone.

Well, January 31st will be my first day of 1 year of HRT and its officially when I start my PPV process. My endo is doing everything thankfully as I no longer have a family doctor (thanks Ontario 🙄). I've been referred for the second opinion or whatever, and now I have to start choosing where I would like to get it done. I don't really know anything, I know there's some places in the States I can go but I'm leaning towards Thailand right now (for no real reason honestly). Does anyone have any advice or a list of places I can get mine done? I have to see if they'll even accept OHIP, so I'm waiting back on an email from some surgical center in Thailand right now. Wish me luck and I'll keep everyone updated but right now the best estimate my Endo could give was 6 months out :))

for context, i am 18ftm and have been out since 11, and have been medically transitioning since 13.

i used to want a sort of straightforward transition— top surgery, torso masculinization, and vagina preserving metoidioplasty (no balls lol). but ive been having some serious doubts about top surgery and im terrified to even admit this to anyone.

my chest is saggy enough that when i have a shirt on i look flat. i dont even think about binding or taping anymore, unless i were to go to the gym or swimming. im so detached from them being a feminine thing on my body, i find myself having less and less dysphoria about them. no one really knows they’re there, they’re fun to stim with (like pull on the loose skin), and ive grown kind of attached to my funny looking boy tits.

but then i think about what that means for me and my gender identity. it terrifies me so so much and gives me dysphoria thinking about it and honestly makes me spiral. i often do thought experiments like “if i woke up tomorrow with a flat chest, how would i feel?” and im so worried id wake up feeling like i was missing a part of myself.

i’m scared that im just too young to make such a permanent decision when it might just me thinking i need to cut em off to be a real man.

Ive been dealing with some gender disforia for quite some time I haven’t started on any HRT or even discussed it with a therapist I’m just making out some plans of what I would want to do that would make me most comfortable

I recently found out about this sub and it helped me answer a lot of questions however I still haven’t seen anyone that done a penile testicle preserving vaginoplasty

I know how it’s done I just never saw the post operation and what it’s like. Does anybody know or have any like pictures of what it looks like see if it’s really what I want

I have questions about the surgery as I plan on possibly getting it in the future.

1: Does the neo-vagina look identical to a natural one?

2: Does the penis' appearance change in any notable way?

3: Where could I get the surgery?

4: How long does it typically take to heal?

5: How expensive is it?

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Hey everyone,

I’m new here and have a bunch of questions about phallus-preserving vaginoplasty. I’m hoping to get this surgery in the next decade, focusing on depth and sensitivity. I don't want vulvoplasty or labiaplasty.

Where can I find photos of healed results? Any would be great but ones with no vulvoplasty or labiaplasty would be preferable.

What does penetrative sex feel like? What type of graft did you have, and can you feel / stimulate the prostate through the vagina?

Also, what was the recovery process like? I’m curious about how long it took to heal and any experiences you had during that time.

What were the processes to get the surgery like and how long did it take to get the surgery?

What’s the insurance process been like for those of you who have tried to get this surgery covered? Any insights would be super helpful!

i've been pursuing bttm surgery for a yr now and i've been very adamant about getting it. idk why but lately i've been having the feeling that i need to slow down a bit... i'm not sure why that is because i've been so confident in what i want and how i feel... has anyone else gone through this???

does anyone wear a packer with compression underwear or gaff? would like to know brands you use/what you do!

My fiancee (22F) and i (24FtM) both want a vagina-perserving phallo sugery. the question: will they let a cis woman get this surgery?

So. I am biologically female. I know pretty much nothing about surgeries and their terms so if you could put it into simple terms, I would really appreciate it.

I identify as non-binary/femboy(-ish), but I still enjoy the feeling of my feminine "parts".

I'm wondering if anyone can tell me if there's a surgery to keep that but also give me a penis without Testosterone. I wanna keep my feminine figure.

I just wanna feel comfortable in my body so I'm really hoping someone could answer this for me. Thank you<3

Is there a name for this procedure? I've read a few threads but didn't see the specific name.

Hello! I am a trans man (he/him) who underwent meta with ul and scrotoplasty without vnectomy. I have been dealing with some real serious ball chafing/chafing in my perineum due to my continued wetness.

Anyone have any remedies for this that they've found?