Hey everyone,

I’m new here and have a bunch of questions about phallus-preserving vaginoplasty. I’m hoping to get this surgery in the next decade, focusing on depth and sensitivity. I don't want vulvoplasty or labiaplasty.

Where can I find photos of healed results? Any would be great but ones with no vulvoplasty or labiaplasty would be preferable.

What does penetrative sex feel like? What type of graft did you have, and can you feel / stimulate the prostate through the vagina?

Also, what was the recovery process like? I’m curious about how long it took to heal and any experiences you had during that time.

What were the processes to get the surgery like and how long did it take to get the surgery?

What’s the insurance process been like for those of you who have tried to get this surgery covered? Any insights would be super helpful!

i've been pursuing bttm surgery for a yr now and i've been very adamant about getting it. idk why but lately i've been having the feeling that i need to slow down a bit... i'm not sure why that is because i've been so confident in what i want and how i feel... has anyone else gone through this???

does anyone wear a packer with compression underwear or gaff? would like to know brands you use/what you do!

My fiancee (22F) and i (24FtM) both want a vagina-perserving phallo sugery. the question: will they let a cis woman get this surgery?

So. I am biologically female. I know pretty much nothing about surgeries and their terms so if you could put it into simple terms, I would really appreciate it.

I identify as non-binary/femboy(-ish), but I still enjoy the feeling of my feminine "parts".

I'm wondering if anyone can tell me if there's a surgery to keep that but also give me a penis without Testosterone. I wanna keep my feminine figure.

I just wanna feel comfortable in my body so I'm really hoping someone could answer this for me. Thank you<3

Is there a name for this procedure? I've read a few threads but didn't see the specific name.

Hello! I am a trans man (he/him) who underwent meta with ul and scrotoplasty without vnectomy. I have been dealing with some real serious ball chafing/chafing in my perineum due to my continued wetness.

Anyone have any remedies for this that they've found?

I am ftm and have had some bottom growth, but i really would love to increase the WIDTH of my bottom growth. I really love the way micropenises look. The very large, squat head with basically no other penile tissue is what I’d ideally want. I like what I have too, but the head is not really wide. Is there any way to increase this with surgery? what could i ask for specifically? I am planning on meta, at the very least for mons reduction and testicular implants+ general reshaping, but would love if this could be achieved in the process as well. It’s not important that i pee through it so that is not an issue.

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I'm not sure how it would be to actually have both and if I might not be trans because I freak out everytime I think about it and either way I won't keep most of family😐 and yea IDC about that part but idk how to feel and also idk if my country would pay for it (IK it wpuld for the case that I'm trans and want boobies and a vivi). I'm just so u sure about everything in life and I overthink without thinking (idk how else to describe it) can anyone relate?

I'm having a bit of an existential crisis on what kind of chaser I am. ThoughT maybe some hateful comments might help me gain some clarity lol

I'm attracted to women and femininity in general. Expanding on that, it's never mattered to me if the personal i find attractive is cis, trans-femme, intersex, NB, etc. From this I've grown to appreciate vagina and penis both, so long as it's part of a feminine person.

Sure the idea of an attractive person with both sounded like a dream come true, but from my limited knowledge of intersex biology I determined that to be unlikely.

But now? I've suddenly discovered Salmacian is a thing and I'm all confused. It was hard enough being a woman chaser and trans chaser, but now I have an entire other group I'm suddenly incline to chase?! It's just so much to take in...

Plus, now it occurs to me that I could maybe have both a phallus and a vagina too, and the possibilities seem endless. I mean, I've got no attachment to my testicle, so if I could trade them for a vagina, while keeping my penis in place of a clitoris, that would just be awesome lol.

Anyways, that's it, just felt compelled to share my mental journey. Feel free to give me your worst, I know I'm terrible.

Hi I’m a trans woman but I want the genitals of a trans man, is something like that doable?

I (nonbinary M, 52) am very interested in having a specific kind of surgery where most of my external penis is removed and just the head is retained as a neo clitoris just above the new urethral opening (no reroute) and no vaginoplasty. I've read it is possible by retaining blood and nerve connection to the glans but there is risk of the neo clitoris losing sensation or dying. I saw one person online who had this done but cannot find the images again. Has anyone here had this done, know of it being done, or have the same interest?

Hi! Just found you guys. I didn't realise there was a word for wanting multiple genitals. But I feel I'm perhaps an outlier here; I'm happy as a feminine cis woman, I'm not interested in HRT or pursuing surgical options to get a dick, for many reasons. I would, however, love to hear if there's anything more within reach that has sparked joy for you.

As for myself, I got a lot of joy out of making my own strap-on harness. I wasn't happy with the options I could find for sale, so I did it myself. It's pink and matches my two glittery pink dicks ✨

I've also been searching for the perfect ejaculating strap-on compatible dildo on and off for a while. I think I need to stop trying to find the dick and accept that I'll need to get more than one, but I haven't bit the bullet yet, because they're pricey.

I haven't tried packing, because I don't feel like my desire to have a dick has anything to do with how I want to be perceived when I'm dressed. But idk, maybe it could do something for me. I kinda wanna make one of the mushroom styled ones, but I think I'm just a slut for cottagecore crafts, and I like the idea of having a secret mushroom bulge. But that's probably unrelated to my desire to have a dick.

Been interested for a while in bottom surgery that preserved my vagina, but have always been very on the fence regarding metoidplasty vs phallo. ive seen some people talk about getting phallo with their clitoris on the outside— im curious if its possible to do this with a metoidplasty? or if otherwise, if i were to do a metoid, if it would disqualify me from doing phallo later.

Thanks!

So lately I've started more seriously considering surgery and my desire to have a vagina. I definitely feel dysphoric about not having a vagina but I don't have a lot of dysphoria for having a penis. I'm not 100% sure if I'm bigenital but I have feelings similar to how I felt about transition before I went for it so it wouldn't surprise me if this was the right decision for me.

My question is more specifically about people's experience with their partners and how it might affect dating and sex life. My partner has expressed support but I worry I've put too much on him lately and I don't want to scare him away. If anyone can relate and maybe share how coming out as bigen or if they have gotten vagino/phallo plasty affected their relationships I would really appreciate it.

hi there ! i’m going through the process of getting bottom surgery and i was curious

as someone assigned female at birth , would it be possible to have my penis ( phalloplasty ) my ‘ main ‘ genitalia ?

by this i mean , would it be possible to do nerve hookup and have my urethra extended to my neophallus even if i wanted to keep my vagina ? i want a scrotum as well if that’s important

i want to pee , feel ( externally ) , etc . out of my neophallus , and pretty much have it be the main functioning part of my genitals

thanks in advance for answers !

Pretty baby steps but feeling pretty great on my train ride home today after finally telling my therapist I'm non binary, and want to start taking hrt and eventually gender reaffirming surgery.

I Said a lot of things out loud id only ever thought in my own head before. It's always been difficult to make sense of since I fluctuate a lot from masculine to feminine, but I finally admitted I wasn't comfortable with my body, that I wanted different genetalia, and wanted to change. I have A LOT to do but its finally started. This subreddit helped me a lot in feeling comfortable and validated so thankyou!

(To clarify, I identify as non binary, mostly masculine or androgynous presenting, but I've always wanted vaginoplasty).

Next step will be booking an appointment with a specialist and going through hrt options and surgery in my country Australia.

i want to get PPV but i don’t understand the ways getting a clit work,

i understand that typically neoclits are constructed from the glans but i want to keep my glans intact and basically have my penis post-op look the same AND function the same (other than fertility) as it does now (pre-transition). or at least as close as possible to how it does now.

can i still have a clit? i googled this and it said something about metoidioplasty but it kind of said it deconstructs the penis while still keeping the penis and that didn’t make sense to me. could someone explain?

I’m AMAB & interested in penile-preserving vaginoplasty. Don’t need my testes and would be fine with them being removed. Thanks!

What is is like to have genitals, do you prefer a certain genital for masturbation and/or sex, what was it like seeing both genitals for the first time, and is it uncomfortable to have both at the same time?

Possible TW terms: front hole talk

My first time posting here and im not sure where would be most helpful on this topic. Specifically for AFAB people bc i have front hole and recently just started inserting estrogen cream..

I am trans masc and on low T but decided trying estrogen cream for my front hole to help atrophy symptoms. Its only day 2 but already it feels the same as when i have symptoms.. this is a very uncomfortable topic and distressing bc idk where to turn and currently struggling w a current doctor for help (like 7 yrs still struggling w these symptoms) but i cant explain other than the PH is off like is the estrogen cream making things worse or does my body need time to adjust..? before starting T i never smelled anything from front ever, since T its just fucking constant now and im not really sexually active using it but i learned too much sweets/sugar can cause yeast infection but why is the estrodial cream causing that too. Im frustrated and dysphoria is higher than ever. I kept both ovos but everything else removed if tht makes a difference. I am pre op phallo but it doesnt seem to happen very soon i just want front hole gone and if i wasnt having this issue i feel sad bc other than that im ok w the area I just never heard anyone on T EVER talk about this at all and feel like my body is broken lol… like its against me. just any input from ppl who may have experience, if im off T for a few wks/months the same thing happens w smell like its off but also more pain and discharge like its converting back so ideally i dnt want to stop T at all as it does help my mental health a bit but if i need to consider for physically this issue than i suppose

EDIT: Thanks for the useful tips and info folks i didnt correlate the issue to also being dryness bc it does not feel dry so i apologize to one commenter but I will give it a few weeks and trust the process to adjust; i appreciate personal exps really i just felt alone going thru this. Thank u

I'm pretty new to this sub (thank GOD I am not the only one who wants this, you all seem so lovely and I am feeling such a complex surge of pisitive emotions right now, so thank you to every single one of you that exist in this internet space) but I've known this is something I want for quite some time, so I'll go straight ahead with the questions and plans:

I want a VPP, with as small os a scrotum as possible while still getting an ED. I'm keeping my natal parts, I'm not getting anything done to my urethra and I would love to not need to take a graft from my arm if that's possible while retaining feeling (I work with my hands and I love my work, so losing dezterity or sensibility in my arms is a risk I am terrified about)

I live in Germany tho! A lot of people on this sub seem to be US American, but if anyone knows or has had any experience getting any form of GRS (but especially a VPP) with the German Insurance System, I would appreciate any help, insight or report. I don't think I'll ever have enough money to pay for it myself, and even then I'm scared no doctors here would do this surgery how I want it... I mean, it's 2024 and these people still communicate through Fax machines

Anyway, thanks for reading so far and I hope you have a lovely day

im female and i liek havin a pussy but i have dysphoria from not havin a dick so i want a dick but not balls. also i wanna pee out of my dick for convience but idk if i wanna cum out of it? ngl i like cumming from the peehole i do have above my vagina. idk if it is possible to have 2 peeboles anyway but i kinda wanna have pee peehole in the dick and cum peehole in the vulva, is that weird? or maybe i could cum from both holes

so i have stated that i am going through with vaginoplasty, but not fully transitioning... i have epilepsy and was told that artificial hormones would not be the best because they are pro-convulsant. so i am going to ask my surgeon after i receive my second letter of readiness, if it is possible for her to do the surgery with out orchiectomy... but for now i would just like to know of the doctors that can do vaginoplasty without orchi... it'll be a great help

thanks my loves 😘

If I became bigenital, would I be able to give birth and make someone else give birth too? (AMAB)

I'm pretty sure I want phallo, and have been wanting to get UL with no vaginectomy, but I'm having second thoughts about whether or not I want to deal with more complications. Standing to pee is very important to me, and one of the main reasons I want surgery. But also, vaginal penetration is important to me as well.

I think I could be satisfied with getting anal and blow jobs, but I also feel like I would miss being fucked in my front hole. I like my vagina. However, I'm wondering if I'll start to have dysphoria about my vagina. I don't want to end up getting a salmacian surgery and realize I don't want to keep my bonus home after all.

I'm planning to give myself time untill I'm 100% sure if what I wNt. But also, I'm afraid of getting a surgery this complicated. It feels like this surgery is the only one that could make me satisfied with those parts. But also, I'm not sure if I'll change my mind later on down the road.

I don't want fear to make decisions for me, but I want to make sure I make the right decision for myself. I want to get a surgery that will help me to love my body. I don't want any regrets.

What do I do? Any advice? Or a comment in solidarity?

Hi so i did look into the sub and i've seen that penile preserving vaginoplasty had an option to keep the testicles and i know that you definitely can do that for a PIV but i can't find actual answers about it so i figured i should ask here because i do just want a vagina without my penis but still keep my testicles, but i keep reading that keeping the testes is only in the labia and that sounds awkward, i did hear you could get them in the inguinal canal but there might be complications, any clue what is true or not?