Obviously I want to start by saying that I know that believing in calvinism or reformed theology isn’t a prerequisite for being saved and that we are through faith in Christ, yet how should reformed christians interact with does that hold to different views from use and what makes or bars a Christian from being part of the church catholic? Obviously theologically liberal christians that deny the central tenets of the faith are not part of the church as they deny the essential elements that makes a Christian a Christian, yet where does one draws the line? Obviously someone’s liberal can another’s conservative. I think orthodox methodist, lutherans, anglicans, evangelical quakers and Pentecostals and many others that subscribe to the essential elements are part of the church and are brothers and sisters, though I disagree with them on some theological points. How should a Christian traverse this topic with levelheaded, charity yet still holding to a reformed worldview??

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I am a 17 yrs old male, serious in faith since 13(sometimes I backslide). Come from a Charismatic background. I admire Calvinism(TULIP) and rn Im interested to learn more about Reformed Theology. Anyone here knows where to start. Thanks in advance

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When he breaks a man’s heart, it is not for the mere breaking’s sake, it is that he may make it anew. If you have misery in your conscience on account of sin, God has had dealings of love with you, and he has purposes of love concerning you. “Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved.” If you are a convinced sinner, Jesus died for you, for he died for sinners. If you can truly say that you are a sinner, I can tell you that Christ Jesus hung upon the cross for you. Look at him there, bleeding; every drop of blood says to you, “I drop, poor sinner, for thee.” Look at that gash in his side, whence flows the double stream of water and blood; it says, “Sinner, this stream runs for thee.” Art thou a sinner? If so, Christ died for thee; and he hath not died in vain, thou shalt be saved. If thou dost but know thyself to be a bona fide sinner, a real one, no mere complimentary sham sinner, but a real actual one, who means what he says, when he declares himself to be guilty and vile; then, as the Lord liveth, Jesus Christ died for you on Calvary; you shall behold his face with joy; you shall be numbered with the Church of the firstborn, whose names are written in heaven, and you shall sing eternal hallelujahs around the throne of God and the Lamb.

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Hello, my wife and I are members of a PCA church. However, over time out theology has developed and we are both no longer reformed. Neither of us hold to predestination and my own theology has shifted into a more baptismal regeneration and real presence view of the sacraments with both being generally necessary for salvation.

That said my dilemma is where to go from here. We don’t want to go to another denomination since we have great friends at the church and our daughter loves seeing her friends. However, we are going to raise her with our beliefs which would conflict with what the church is going to be trying to teach her. I’ve also been struggling since being reformed comes up occasionally and I feel like a fake when they say things like “since we are reformed we hold…” in the service.

No one at our church knows except a couple elders I have been confiding in about my doubts with predestination prior to abandoning it and neither know that’s what needed up the result. Both basically just told me they didn’t really know what to say when I told them I was having doubts about predestination.

I’m not sure if we should stay or if we will allowed to still be members now that we don’t hold to reformed doctrine to an extent and I feel like it will cause problems down the road with us raising our daughter in our beliefs contrary to our church’s.

Just looking for some guidance. I’m trying to schedule a talk to one of our pastors soon to talk to him about it but I’m in a bit of a dilemma.

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Does anyone have any good book/ resource recommendations for the spiritual gifts, cessationism & continuationism?

I came out of a charismatic church as a teen (though never felt comfortable with the gifts like prophecy, tongues, words of knowledge, direct healings etc being practiced) , went to university & became reformed and now am married to a reformed guy & attending an RB church.

I still have continuationist friends & family and while I certainly don’t intend to start a fight, I’d love to be more educated on the topic so if it ever does come up, I’d have a good answer. I know the 1689 says we should only pray in known tongues when praying with others but I’m looking for resources on the biblical position/ reasoning behind this conviction.

A wave of silliness is sweeping across the group turning it into just another lowbrow and quite worldly one among scores of likes on Reddit.

A friend of mine wants to dive deeper into her knowledge and our youth pastor is pairing her up with one of the women in our church for discipleship but until that happens, she asked if I had any resources for a good crash course on systematic theology or if I could give her an overview. I don't really have time or the confidence to sit down with her and explain it on a technical level, but I'd love to provide her with something. Do any of you have any good resources I could suggest?