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Melbourne, VIC's foremost R4R (redditor for redditor) platform, the reddit community for meeting local Melbournians and Victorians for almost anything.

Melbourne, VIC's foremost R4R (redditor for redditor) platform, the de facto Reddit community for meeting local Melbournians and Victorians for almost anything.

Rules and Guidelines

1. Account Requirements

Account age of >5 days, plus a small amount of account karma is required for all posting and commenting activities.

We support a range or user flair covering general Melbourne/Victorian regions, as well as COVID-19 vaccination status. Feel free to choose your own user flair or request one from mod team.

Due to the nature of content shared and discussed here, all NSFW post and comment participants must be >18yrs of age. Underage users will be banned if found participating on NSFW posts.

2. Post Requirements

  • All titles formatted similar to:

<age> [<r4r>] - <what you are seeking>

  • Choose most appropriate gender tags when posting (see full list on wiki)
  • Include your age, or age range
  • Post body >200 characters with clear 'about me', 'what I'm looking for' and 'what I offer' sections outlined. Low effort posts are removed.
  • Your physical attributes if requesting in-person meeting
  • Choose appropriate post flair
  • Tag NSFW post as NSFW & keep all sexually suggestive language in the post body

3. Privacy and Safety

For safety and privacy reasons we do not allow the sharing or personal or identifying information, including but not limited to:

  • Real names or nicknames
  • Phone/mobile numbers
  • Addresses or places of employment
  • Email addresses or social media usernames (Kik, Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, Discord, Instagram or external app profiles).

Further, we ask you to refrain from the following behaviour:

  • Posting images (or links to images of yourself) publicly in your posts or comments.

4. Consent & Impersonation

Only post as your authentic self - impersonation or posting on the behalf of others is not permitted.

If posting on-behalf/with partners, ensure you have their informed consent before sharing/requesting any contact here. This includes 'wife pic trading', organising threesomes etc.

Fraudulent posting, bait and switch requests or any other situations regarding catfishing with your actual intentions will incur a ban (e.g. posting for friends and then sending someone dick pics instead privately).

5. Exchange of Money, Goods, Services

Exchanges for money, goods, or services are strictly prohibited.

Advertising, self promotional acts or requesting any services that commonly include an exchange of money is prohibited. Any free service offers, professional services, trading or bartering services are not permitted.

6. Spam and Spamming

Spam is not be tolerated and may result in a ban.

Spam may be considered any of the following:

  • Posting more frequently than once per 24hr
  • Posting the same/similar requests frequently
  • Posts that consist of 'dm me', 'message me' or 'just ask me'
  • Posting veiled attempts for profile followers or external app subscribers
  • Promoting other social media groups, subreddits or chat groups

Further, all posts are removed and locked after 90 days to prevent contact by users on outdated requests.

7. No Drongo Policy

Rude, bullying or harassing behaviour is not tolerated towards posting or commenting community members.

Not every post or r4r request will be your cup of team, so feel free to scroll on or use the report function (in the case or rulebreaking activities).

Rude, degrading, violent or bullying behaviour of any kind in post titles, comments or modmail will be removed and users will be banned.

Comments requesting or encouraging breaking lockdown restrictions will be removed.


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29[F4R] recently moved back to melb, seeking friends who like to do things!

Recently moved back to Melbourne to find most of my friends seem to be embracing domestic bliss in 'burbs. Whilst I'm super excited for them, I do miss having friends who are available to do things with shorter notice.

Keen to try most activities and happy to chat about most topics (current affairs, personal finance, memes, mental health, how to curate a wardrobe to dress for 38 degrees one day and 20 degrees the next).

Lover of the arts (galleries, theatre, gigs, etc.), getting back into exercise (hiking, bouldering, yoga, pilates, weights, the rare jog, etc.), and striving (and struggling) to min-max life.

Some things I am trying to get back around to this year: eating my way around town, driving (lol funny story about this one), learning a language, scuba diving, reading, and volunteering.

Some things I am trying to cut down on this year: eating purely for sustenance and little enjoyment, researching and planning w/out executing (or purchasing), and decision paralysis.

If you're in a similar boat, please reach out to say hi with a couple of sentences about yourself or even a bonus fun fact.

(strictly platonic + currently based in north melb and work in the cbd)

0 Comments
2025/02/01
08:18 UTC

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40 [M4F] looking for mature FWB

Hey, thanks for reading.

Looking for a mature no strings ongoing FWB situation someone preferably 35-55 who is open to drinks and fun.

About me: I’m a 40yo recently single tech professional. A bit of a shy introvert but that all fades away when I’m with the right people in the right situation. I’m Anglo, 175cm tall 75kgs. Light brown hair, green eyes, light body hair getting back into regular gym workouts. I enjoy music and going to gigs. Mostly 90’s & 2000’s alternative genres. Love a social drink.

About you: female preferably over 35 but open to younger if we are on a similar wavelength. Attraction is important but looks is only a small part of attraction, so open to all shapes and sizes. Bonus points for bubbly personality.

What I offer: chill, no pressure meet ups with discretion if that is important. I can host sometimes. Can meet for a drink or coffee to make sure we click before taking it further.

If this sounds like it might interest you, please reach out with a pic and stats and we can make arrangements.

0 Comments
2025/02/01
05:42 UTC

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27 [M4F] Looking for genuine connection or Ideally more

About me: 6'1 - Mediterranean background (born in Aus) - Live in the south east but can travel. Enjoy a good chat and a coffee, going out for scenic drives and walks is something I deeply enjoy or when the weather is bad staying in and watching a show/movie or playing some games. On the chunkier side but have gotten into training as of late and trying to fix that.

What I'm looking for: Someone open minded and down to earth. Shape and size doesn't matter but as long as we share some similar interests and there is a connection

What I offer:  Judgment free zone, hopefully some good chats and some fun times, and all going well something long term

If this interests you feel free to send me a dm and we can chat there and see where this goes.

1 Comment
2025/02/01
05:50 UTC

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33[M4F] - Looking for Connection and Depth

I am a man from West Gippsland who operates on reflection, empiricism, and understanding; always seeking truth and wisdom. I’m not a spectator; I’d rather participate. I’ve spent time in a variety of pursuits, from sports to music to education, and I take pride in working on what I enjoy to appreciate it more deeply. I value meaningful conversation and experience.

I’ve always loved the idea of a refined lifestyle; dressing up for an event, carrying myself with dignity, and being a man of purpose. At the same time, I’ve guarded my primal side, keeping my desires and urges in check with discipline and intention.

I’m 6'4", with blue eyes, thick brown hair, and an average build. I’m drawn to a pretty face, natural feminine features, and tend to prefer a medium/small bust and bottom.

I’m looking for a connection built on mutual understanding, attraction, meaning, and shared vision. If you appreciate the balance between refinement and raw authenticity, we might just find something worth exploring.

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2025/01/31
23:55 UTC

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33[F4A] Looking for genuine friendships

As I have become older my friendship group has definitely become smaller or my closest friends don’t have the availability they once did due to family or work commitments. While I understand that’s just life, after my focus in life changing and being more introverted, it has now become apparent that I actually just need friends who I can go out with from time to time or who I can chat to or seek support from.

Initially when you meet me I may be more reserved however I will still ask you questions to get to know you. Honestly people have said I’d make a good psychologist with the way in which I ask these questions 😂. As time progresses you will see my funny, caring, almost assertive self. As a friend I am genuinely interested in you as a person, hope to support you by being kind and honest but also looking to enjoy our time together by having fun and laughter. As a person in general I am quite bubbly, funny, girly, and seeking enjoyment in life. On the flip side I am an educated professional who does have the capacity to delve deep into topics.

In terms of what I am seeking in a friend is essentially what I have to offer. Support, honesty, laughter, authenticity. Ideally you would live in the south east however this isn’t essential. Some activities I’d love to do with you or even potentially a group depending on response are: -movies -eating 😋 you know restaurants, cafes, brunch, grazeland, meals at home -concerts -theatre -shopping -road trips to various destinations -general hang outs

So if you too are seeking a friend or perhaps you’re curious to know more, please don’t hesitate to message me 😊 I’m looking forward to chatting!

3 Comments
2025/02/01
00:12 UTC

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37 [M4F] chit chats? Hangouts? Gig buddies? So many possibilities

Hi hello!

Have found myself back in the single realm and thought I might give posting on here a crack. Although I am someone who’s happy to vibe check and if that’s just a friends thing then that’s cool as well! Absolutely value a connection on any level.

About me: shockingly, I’m 37 as the title says, physically I’m 5’8, 72kgs, in decent shape and constantly improving that side of things living on the Northside of town- I got a silver fox thing going with my hair, I guess that’s a thing some people like. I’m introverted but also can be extroverted with the help of a few beers.

Very interested in music, more so the metal side of things and love hitting up a gig. Some that I have coming up are Pallbearer, Suldusk, This will destroy you, Chelsea Wolfe, Austere and Counterparts. It would be great to vibe with someone with taste. Also big on games, puzzles, other nerdy shit ya know? Textbook introvert, right?

About you…

I don’t know, just be a good human, capable of conversation and ideally sharing a passion for something I’m into to, but also love hearing about other peoples passions and interests that I have no idea about! It’s cool to see and hear people get giddy about stuff I’ve never even contemplated being a thing to get into.

No issues exchanging pics

Not sure how to end this. See ya?

1 Comment
2025/02/01
00:54 UTC

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54(M4F) Looking for a special friend

Hey all! Married dad, looking to make a new sexy flirty friend (preferably married or in a relationship)to have sexy chats with and meet up occasionally.

Im 54, married and the intimacy has sadly faded from our relationship, so I'm looking for someone ( preferably married and In a similar situation, but.. eh) who can fill the void and share that amazing feeling that comes from getting to really know a person.

I'm caucasian, average height, have amazing blue eyes (been told I'm pretty hot, but you be the judge) and I think I'm pretty funny.

I'm a bit of a nerd, work in technology in a primary school, love big thematic nerdy boardgames, collecting books on the paranormal and recently writing the most amazing prog rock songs using ai!! (Omg have you heard this stuff?!)

Not just looking for sexy fun, but also someone who would enjoy just chatting through text throughout the day. Be that comforting shoulder I really miss. And have the ability to meet up at least couple of times a month. For umm.. coffee Send me a message asking about a favourite movie, book or game. Or favourite sexy fantasy... Or what star sign I am, or Chinese zodiac animal, Bluey character... ..

Let's get to know each other online first and if it works out, well..I'll go get my car cleaned up

0 Comments
2025/01/31
08:27 UTC

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35[M4F] seeks friends and ongoing connections

Repost

Hey :) I'm looking for a girl close to my age (around 24-36ish) range for an ongoing connection/fwb

About Me; I'm a nerdy guy with a dad bod, beard, long dirty blond hair, blue eyes, I enjoy music, working with my hands, cooking, electronics, woodwork and general tinkering, I am a big homebody at the moment and really have a need to socialise when budget allows for it.

What I'm looking for; I'm looking for a cute chubby girl, who likes to give and receive affection, is patient and understanding as I am not very experienced in the realm of intimacy and dating, I'd preferred you to be close to my age but this isn't a dealbreaker, as long as it's within reason. BBWs to the front! I can't host at this stage.

What I Offer; I offer my best attempt at patience, understanding, in return for yours. A good time, fun hangouts and perhaps a long term connection if you're the right fit.

Brownie points to pics with your reply and you'll get mine :)

0 Comments
2025/01/31
08:06 UTC

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M4M 39yo looking for fellow nerd types for lunch break /after work drinks CBD

Me: Masculine euro bear guy here. I’m 39yo stocky build, beard, think bear.

You: I’m really into masculine chubby type guys. Love geeky nerd types. Age is wide open. Not fussed on well hung or not.

Looking for: Looking for mates to hang with any age, weekdays in the CBD, specifically Docklands end of town, for lunch breaks and or a drink afternoons.

What I offer: I’m a sane friendly ft employed man with his shit together always looking for fellow nerds/bears.

When: preferably during business hours…but can be random.

About me: relaxed friendly guy. Interests include video games, board games, keen on cricket, chilling out. Would love to explore board games as well.

I’d love a regular ongoing catch ups, works pretty quiet and would love to break up my days.

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2025/01/31
07:30 UTC

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53 M4F - Zombie seeks brains

Single Zombie Dad seeks partner in grime! When I'm not shambling through the apocalypse, I enjoy long walks in the dark, dinners of freshly unearthed brains, and snuggling up in my crypt.

I love riding my bike through the deserted inner north, as there's less chance of my decaying flesh polluting the streets. I am a green tinged zombie!

Looking for someone who:

  • Can appreciate a good undead sense of humor
  • Isn't afraid of a little decay
  • Loves a bit of a Kernkraft 400 (and music in general)
  • Will appreciate me for who I am, braaaaains and all

If you're looking for a friend with a view to more to lurch through the zombie apocalypse with and share a few brains and adventures with, let's get to know each other.

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2025/01/31
01:33 UTC

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27[F4M] Let me yap your ear off

I'm just a girl wanting to go on cute fun dates 💅🏻 that may or may not lead to anything. I also recently had some poor experiences on dating apps. I am a certified yapper - which means I will talk your ear off about anything. I do value an emotional connection and deep conversations with people, this is both to our benefit because I will be more invested into you, and be able to give you the attention you deserve.

Things I do enjoy yapping about:

  • Music (particularly hip hop, rnb, neosoul, alternative)
  • TV shows
  • the economy
  • social justice
  • you
  • all periods of history with the exception of WW1 and 2
  • my commute to work
  • most topics

Things I do not enjoy yapping about:

  • Myself
  • Animals (I don't have pets 😢)
  • who pays the bill, I will always offer to spilt

My friends would describe me as down to earth, witty, funny which depends on the time of day, intelligent. My friends would also describe me as Asian and curvy. I can curate a mean playlist for any occasion which I think is my superpower on top of parallel parking in one go.

Warning: if you take me to a bar where there's good music, I may not be able to sit still and may end up asking you to come boogie with me 💃🏻

Send me a message if you think we'd vibe. Please no nsfw photos, no one wants to see that.

EDIT: Super overwhelmed with all the messages and dms. I'm slowly making my way through them. if you don't hear from me, I'm sorry!

8 Comments
2025/01/30
11:32 UTC

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24 [M4R] Looking for someone to chat with and maybe meet up with to hang out

Hello Melbourne, long time lurker first time poster. Ever since 2020 hit, I have found my group circle shrunk to basically nothing and I have struggled to expand it in the years since. As such, I thought I would reach out here, hopefully to find someone to make a friendship with.

Preferably someone within my own age range (although at minimum, 24 or older). I have a deep interest and knowledge in horror films, international politics, professional wrestling and a smattering of other bits and pieces of knowledge. I am looking for someone who enjoys chatting, making friends and preferably prefers the quiet life, although I can be flexible. I am seeking something strictly platonic, just friends and that is it really.

I am someone who also has Aspergers/ADHD, as such I can be somewhat quiet and reserved in person and may find it hard to be as personable face to face as I can be via text. I will apologise in advance if I seem disinterested when we first meet face to face; I assure you, it is just my social anxiety acting up and me struggling to properly emote my feelings.

Please feel free to message me on here, so I can see how the vibes feel and then we can progress from there!

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2025/01/30
03:48 UTC

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28[M4F] - Snacking buddy required.

Hey! I'm a 28-year-old Aussie-born Malaysian Chinese guy, trying to find someone who shares my passion for food, travel, and a little bit of cheeky banter. I work in healthcare, so along with the joys of being constantly burnt out, if you need any first aid after a snack attack, I may or may not have you covered.

Hoping to find a travel buddy - Japan is calling me back in 2025 and I just returned from KL. If you’re into spontaneous weekend trips or have travel goals of your own, I'm in all. I love me some long walks, think maybe the zoo, getting lost in some cool place or some random market. Definitely also on the lookout for an exercise buddy who can help me keep the balance between "I want to stay fit" and "I really just want to eat this pizza."

Looking for someone around my age who’s hygienic, looks after themselves, loves to laugh, and won’t judge me for my occasional 1am cravings (or just join me 👀). Let’s go for a walk, grab some boba, and see how it goes :)

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2025/01/30
00:37 UTC

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28M4F in Melbourne Seeking a Genuine Friendship: Coffee Dates, Great Conversations, and Shared Adventures!

Hello Melbourne!

I’m a 28-year-old creative soul based in this wonderful city, hoping to find a genuine connection to share meaningful experiences and great conversations.

What I’m Looking For
I’d love to meet a female friend between 18 and 33 who’s open-minded, kind-hearted, and drug-free. If you enjoy chilled coffee meet-ups, discovering Melbourne’s hidden gems, or chatting about film recommendations, I’d be thrilled to meet you. A fondness for animals or cinema is definitely a bonus. And just to make things clear, I’m not after anything NSFW—simply a true, heartfelt friendship that could blossom into something extraordinary.

A Little About Me

  • I’m an Asian male with a passion for cinema, music, analogue photography, gaming, graphic design, philosophy and vinyl collecting.
  • I work in Melbourne’s buzzing hospitality and arts scenes.
  • I’m 175cm tall, tattooed, non-smoking, and drug-free.
  • Although I might come across as introverted at first, I really open up once we find a spark of connection.

Why You’ll Enjoy Hanging Out With Me

  • I’m an analogue photographer, so you might head home with some brilliant portrait shots—perfect for upgrading your socials!
  • I’m a patient listener and the kind of friend who’ll be there when you need to vent, giggle, or simply chat about life.
  • My taste in music and films is delightfully varied, so there’s always a fresh recommendation on hand.
  • I’m a complete foodie, ready to guide you around Melbourne’s best cafés and eateries.

Interested? Let’s Connect!
If this sounds like your cup of tea, drop me a DM with a bit about yourself (and a photo if you’re comfortable). I’d love to begin this friendship journey and see where it takes us.

Looking forward to meeting someone wonderful—perhaps that someone is you!

0 Comments
2025/01/29
12:33 UTC

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39[M4F] Looking for a connection, let's chat?

Hello,

I'm 39, I moved to Melbourne from Italy few years ago after traveling a little bit around the world. If it matters: I'm 6'4, 86 kg. I play  basketball but definitely not enough, same as with going to the gym. I'm in a relationship. I work and live in the inner suburbs of Melbourne. I am very rarely offended and I am non judgemental.

I'm into few different things, from politics to history, philosophy and sociology.  I'm an avid music listener and a lover of all things cinema. I really love to read and sometimes also to write. I like pretentious food, craft beers, bad jokes, making random The Office references, going for bike rides, obscure TV shows on SBS, dogs. I really like dogs.

I'm looking to connect with someone over kinks: I am not  into anything extreme, happy to talk about those kinks further, in case. I don't have any preferences regarding age or life experience, I really want just to have a conversation and find out if we connect.

If there is and  the conversation keeps going, we could then go and get a coffee or a  beer or maybe some other beverage? I like to think I can offer a very good conversation despite my accent.

If this sounds like something you may be interested in, send me a message and let's see how it goes. If it doesn't, thanks for reading anyway this post that is definitely too long

Cheers :)

0 Comments
2025/01/29
08:00 UTC

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30 [M4M] Exploring, experimenting and evaluating

Hi everyone

About me: I’m of Indian ethnicity but raised in UAE and call Melbourne home now. Given my background, I’m of brown skin tone, have black hair and brown eyes. I’m average built and squeeze 3-4 runs in a regular week. I’m hygienic, well kept and dressed and clean shaven. I’d like to keep other details private for our chats haha

Interests: In sports I enjoy cricket and tennis. I’m also wrapping my head around racing and AFL haha. Don’t have a fav team yet so I’m open to convert lol. I enjoying traveling, reading and Netflix in my spare time. Might be good conversation starters.

What I offer: I offer to hold a good conversation and prompt(try to) replies. I am respectful and honest in my chats and expect the same. Non-judgmental conversations.

Looking for: I’ve always been curious about the same gender but never really experimented as such. However of late I’m coming around to the idea of giving it a go and seeing where it lands. I like mature guys who can hold a decent conversation irrespective of age. Someone who is funny and has a sense of humor always helps.

If you’re someone in a similar situation as I am and keen to explore further, hit me up! Cheers

PS: I deleted my previous account but I suppose I’ve given in and back again. HMU if we’ve had a chat before and are keen again. Thanks

1 Comment
2025/01/29
01:05 UTC

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37 [M4F] I just want to be held

Hi,

About me: I'm about as average and nondescript as they come really :-) I'm a kind of geeky, nerdy dude who is, well, lonely. I generally have a positive attitude and I love to laugh, comedies are definitely my jam. I am a decent cook and I like to see movies and gigs around town when I can. Problem is, I tend to fly solo then come back to my comfort zone. I'm average height and kind of... not stocky but not slim either. I'm not a gym junkie, but I'm working on my figure in my own way. I work in the city and my job is hugely stressful at the moment and I've been feeling the need to connect with someone outside my usual spaces.

What I'm looking for: Well, the truth of the matter is, it's coming up to a year since I've been with someone. And I'm not looking for anyone to do me any favours, let me make that clear. I am planning on taking Friday off work and I would love to hang with someone, maybe cook a little lunch with you and, well, as the title says, I would super like to be held. Doesn't need to go any further than that.

What I offer: I am witty, funny, and have an odd, esoteric kind of way of looking at the world. I offer a casual maybe hour? or two? (it's up to you, I don't want to overstay my welcome!) of low-key, no-stress, easy-breezy company. Really. This is about as vanilla a request as they come. If anyone else shares the same kind of mindset, let me know, I would love to be able to reciprocate a warm embrace.

0 Comments
2025/01/28
11:45 UTC

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45 M4F - Larger introverted guy, seeking a like-shaped and minded female

Are you sick of scrolling and swiping on apps like I am? ...I'm looking for a NSFW Casual companionship & Mutually enjoyable connection. If you’re interested in a genuine friendship with a touch of fun and banter, I’d love to hear from you ! (please no ghosts or OF offers :) )

I would love to find someone to have some fun with. I'm respectful, well mannered, family oriented with a playful side , even better if a little nuro-spicy and a bit introverted to add in to the mix.

About Me:

Age: 45 (but I look younger!)

Body Type: Dad bod, around 120kg

Personality: Introverted but crave one-on-one interactions

Hobbies include Lego, Gadgets and Technology,

Music 90s/2000s rock I

What I Offer: Attentive listener and good friend Enjoy engaging in naughty NSFW chats and dates if we have a connection,. I'm shy and quiet at first, but naughty and love to be led astray as long as all parties are comfortable.

About you:

Age: open

Status: Open to women of any status Mindset: Mature and knows what she wants

Physical Attraction: I’m particularly attracted to women with curves but more the of mental connection goes a long way.

0 Comments
2025/01/28
06:50 UTC

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[30M4F] Inner West Connection Seeker | Friendship First

Hey ladies,

I'm seeking something more nuanced than just a typical hookup - a genuine connection with friendship at the core.

About Me:

  • 30, inner west Melbourne professional in finance
  • Fitness enthusiast (gym 4-5x weekly)
  • Blue eyes, athletic build, well-groomed (some photos on my page if you're interested)
  • Emotionally intelligent and communicative
  • Love interesting conversations and genuine connections

The Friendship Part Matters Most:

  • Looking for someone who enjoys:
    • Witty banter
    • Impromptu coffee catch-ups
    • Unexpected weekend adventures
    • Comfortable silences and real talk
  • Want someone I genuinely enjoy spending time with, not just physical chemistry
  • Interested in building a connection beyond just physical intimacy
  • Mutual respect, discretion, and fun are key

What I Bring:

  • Great listener
  • Drama-free attitude
  • Reliable and consistent
  • Sense of humor
  • Ability to create memorable moments

What I'm Looking For:

  • 18-35 age range
  • Similar values of honesty and fun
  • Someone who values friendship as much as physical connection
  • Open communication
  • No pressure, no games

Interested? Let's chat and see if we click.

0 Comments
2025/01/27
22:56 UTC

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32 [M4R] looking for that talkative gem to spend my days chatting to, while we both pretend to work

Hello! I’m open to any gender and orientation messaging me, but just seem to have better, healthier conversations with some of the women from Reddit.

I’m 32, I live in regional Victoria, and love connecting with people, and just generally having someone to talk to.

I’m not looking for ONS like some posts I’ve seen. Just looking for genuine conversation and a connection. We can be each others little internet gremlin, always a message away, regardless of distance.

Hope I have a chance to get to know you! ☺️

2 Comments
2025/01/27
09:58 UTC

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[34NB4A] Looking for people with an interest in gender fluidity

I'm a 34 year old career focused professional, and very eager to embark on more self discovery amongst new people. I have recently moved to Melbourne and hoping to engage with a more welcoming community of people!

As the title says, I'm non-binary (assigned male at birth). This is a fairly recent discovery and I'm making slow changes in my life to be a little more andro/fem leaning in my appearance. I'm super interested in meeting people who might be eager to help me explore my femininity further.

I'm interested in technology, cooking, music, video games, and an array of other nerdy activities. I'm a big foodie, and very much love the experience of new things with someone fun. I'm the type of person who feeds off of others energy and excitement, so please share your passions with me!

Ideally, I'm hoping to find someone who is interested in a range of activities like the above, but to begin with I'm open to discussion about anything from coffee, clothes shopping, a movie, whatever! I just want to find someone who I can express more of my authentic self around to build confidence, and a shared interest to see how far we can take it.

I'm open to people of all genders, so long as you're sane, fun and can read my post haha.

0 Comments
2025/01/27
08:15 UTC

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29[F4M] I’m the girlfriend that knows your coffee order

After a BBQ this evening, I’m feeling nice and (very) tipsy so imma write this reddit post! Tomorrow’s embarrassment can hit after my second coffee. Though, tbh, most of that shame will come from my stellar performance in a 3-legged race :)

Sooo I’m someone who loves to find the fun in life! Whether it’s turning a casual game of mini-golf into an Olympic battle for glory, organising a no-mercy game night, or belting out 2000s pop in the shower, I’m all about bringing childishness and laughter to the table. That said, I also treasure those quiet nights in where I talk to no one and play solitaire on my phone like a grandma. Balance, right?

Family is super important to me, and time with them is all about chaos: cooking inside with the women, grilling outside with the men, and yelling about sports somewhere in the middle.

I’m a wavy haired brunette, and have a fuller hourglass figure—not bombshell hot, but more like the cute, nice girl from across the street who gives you a nice smile when you make awkward eye contact. I’m all about the girly girl vibes: hair done, nails nails, and a spritz of perfume to feel fancy 🕺. Am I actually fancy? No.

I’m looking for someone with a great sense of humour who makes time for a relationship. I’d love for you to have your own hobbies and interests so I can listen to your stories! Bonus points if you have thick hair I can run my hands through (seriously, huge sucker for that). My only limits are smoking, hunting, and non-monogamy.

If this sounds like your vibe, shoot me a message! With effort, pretty pretty please!

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2025/01/26
14:12 UTC

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30 [M4F] - looking for some company

Hey Melbourne,

I'm wanting to meet some new people this year and have had quite a bit of luck with Reddit in the past so I thought I'd try again.

A bit about me I'm 30 living in the inner West. I I have two dogs. I work a 9:00 to 5:00 in the city and have way too many hobbies. I like to stay active and outdoors whether it's the beach or going for walks. I also like to design and make things on my 3D printer.

Physically I have blue eyes, brown, shaved, tanned and an average build.

What I'm looking for ideally is someone who's easy going and up to try new things. Explore Melbourne a little bit. Try some new bars, restaurants, whatever.

420 friendly if that's of any important.

Anyway, if anything here has caught your eye, please feel free to send me a message. I look forward to getting to know you

Stay cool tomorrow!

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2025/01/26
13:31 UTC

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37M4F Looking for Asian Female friend

Me: I am 37yo, Asian, male, average build and well presented. I am very easy going and into things like movies, dinning out, coffee, basketball(watching 😂 ), camping and things in general that is fun. I tend not to take things too seriously(outside of work) and just enjoy a good laugh and having fun even at my own expense. However during work I’m all serious and very professional making sure everything is done on time and correct and this is the reason why I like to seperate work from personal life to get that balance and be able to relax when not working.

What am I looking for: I am looking for an Asian female married or single for casual fun and friendship. I have female friends but they are general westerners which is fine but I find myself craving for that Asian connections. I do hang around a lot do Asians but they are mainly guys so I would like to meet an Asian lady to balance things out if that makes sense. I would prefer someone who’s looking for something casual like me. I am open to ladies of all ages the main thing is I want to be able to click with you on a mental level if that happens we will definitely have a lot of fun. I want to meet ladies that have similar culture back ground this way we can understand where each other is coming from and will be able to click a lot better together. Not essential but a hug plus if you can speak Cantonese.

What I have to offer: I will offer you my friendship and someone who will never judge you for what you do or say I will allow you to be yourself when you are with me you will not having to hide anything. We can go out for meals, chats or lock ourselves away for some kinky naughty fun.

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2025/01/25
19:36 UTC

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27[M4F] Looking for casual friends with benefits or just a gaming friend

Hi, About Me: I am an indian guy thats new here. Looks wise, I am chubby and I am 5'11. I wear glasses. I would say I am not attractive or photogenic. I am not the best at socializing. People here are far out of my league and I never tried for things in my country. Dating apps had no hope for me, it was doomed. I have some posts in my profile too, but that was strictly nsfw. I dont have any experiences irl in things like these. I am not looking for sex.

What I am looking for:

I am looking for something casual. I really like asians but others are good as well. And I am more for pleasing you, so you would have to lead maybe. I am fine with anything, either gaming friends (i play league and few others), or a nsfw friendship. It would be nice if we share a common hobby, such as anime, manga, gaming, kdramas, webtoon etc. Anything would be fine.

What I offer: I cant say too many positives, but I will give you priority in my life. I would reply instantly and you would be sort of like the focus. I would never make you feel uncomfortable and I was told I am good at emotional support things. I would offer my support in any situation and be always there for you regardless of things changing, even if somehow things go bad, i would never hold negative feelings for you. I would treat you nice. I would give cuddles, or anything you would want from me. Loyalty, respect, companionship, trust, everything I can lol. If you are down I will try to cheer you up or be down together with you.

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2025/01/25
15:37 UTC

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26 M4F Looking for friends who are into home cooking to talk recipes and ""market research""

Hey everybody

It's pretty much what the title says. I'm a decent (but still learning) home cook and love what I do but I don't really know anybody else who's an avid cook. At best, it means that there's a lot of pent-up enthusiasm going to waste, at worst, it makes it really hard to get specific info that I need. I'll keep this short and sweet:

What I'm looking for:

  • I don't care how "skilled" you are, Lord knows I still got much to learn. Besides, sometimes you just need somebody to hold the butter and remind you to take the meat out.

  • Good listening and enthusiasm will get you far

  • I'd prefer if you're older than 22. I don't mind if you're older than me.

  • I used to enjoy cooking with others a lot - I think it's a shame that cooking as a social activity is dying away - but I have less time for that now so whilst I like it, I'm not expecting it.

  • Not expecting to meet in-person soon but I'm open to it.

    About me:

  • I live in the west and work in healthcare and I love it. I used to work in sport but that got boring. I have all the usual healthcare worker baggage: no disgust response, dark humour and fantastic anatomy skills (this is surprisingly useful in the kitchen)

  • Personality-wise, most of my friends will tell you I'm very calm and mellow, listen well and can be dry as a brick at times. It's very hard to get a rise out of me but you're welcome to try.

  • I'm a creative nerd at heart: I've been a classical musician all my life (having a "real" job is better) and dabble in wildlife photography frequently. I'm a waaaay better musician than I am a cook

  • I run and lift a lot although if it were up to me I'd run much more than I do now.

  • I'm a devout Orthodox Christian. I'm not weird about it, I promise, but I'm not one to hide it.

  • I'm 5'10" with short black hair, a short, neat beard, light brown skin and a sporty build.

What I Offer:

  • I'm pretty straightforward honestly. I reply quickly, I listen more than I speak and I'm always happy to enable anybody who just wants to talk about that one thing they like.
  • Potential free food, obviously
  • If you genuinely want to learn, I'm happy to help. I used to be a dunce in the kitchen so I know the pain.

I'll leave it there for now. If any of that interests you, maybe introduce yourself with your favourite dish. Stay safe out there, everyone.

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2025/01/25
12:48 UTC

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21 [M4M] Smooth boy looking for something chill, fun and mostly discreet

About me: I’m 21, I have a bubble butt And pretty average height (5'10) and weight. Im also really smooth everywhere haha. Love trying new restaurants and cafes in my free time. I’m really into fashion and film photography but I’m down to learn new things and talk about anything (haha most of my friends are into sports and cars). Honestly i'm pretty chill and trying to meet new people and experiences. Oh and I also dont have a gag reflex.

What I am looking for: I don't mind if you're bi or curious haha. Looking for someone under 30 ideally (but that doesn't always have to be the case). I really want something chill and casual and just take into kinda chill. Also not a need but I am pretty into tall guys

What I can offer: Something fun and casual without the need for any strings attatched really. Also, I can host this week

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2025/01/25
13:36 UTC

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31 M4F - Seeking FWB/Casual Connection in Melbourne

Hello! I’m a 31-year-old male based in Melbourne, standing at 5’7” with a Middle Eastern and Indian background. I’m looking to connect with a like-minded female for a fun, casual, and mutually respectful relationship.

About Me: • Profession: Data engineer and tech enthusiast. • Hobbies: Enjoy bachata dancing (happy to teach you a few moves!), cooking, and playing guitar. • Personality: Active, value good conversation, and appreciate authenticity and good chemistry.

What I’m Looking For: • A confident and open-minded woman interested in a friends-with-benefits or casual setup. • Someone who values honesty, discretion, and a no-pressure dynamic. • No drama—just fun, respect, and shared enjoyment!

If this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message. I’m open to exchanging photos and chatting to see if we click. Looking forward to connecting!

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2025/01/24
12:40 UTC

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29 M4F Skateboarder Girl on Belgrave Train

It's unfortunate this place is so small, but it's a start, and the best I could think of doing for this moment, so bear with me! I would be ecstatic if something could come of this, but well, it's pretty quiet. I'll keep these fingers crossed

I'm embarrassing myself on the internet by putting this out there and I'm prepared for it to haunt me for the next 30 years ahaha, I'll take my best shot, it's tough out there!

There was a real cool Asian girl with a skateboard on the Belgrave train that got off at Parliament station around 10pm, Thursday. She was sitting a seat behind me, I would have struck up a conversation otherwise, if I'd made it a seat ahead, I'm really kicking myself over it.

I was drawing on my tablet, we were back to back. Just caught my attention when she laid her head back on the chair and yawned loudly lmao it startled me. She was wearing dark blue shirt and shorts I think. I was wearing all black business casual.

Got me actin silly.

If she so happens to somehow magically stumble on this (what are the chances huh?), would be real cool to hang out.
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To round it off, I'll quickly fill in that little info section:
About Me: A little slow to warm up around people, but very friendly really, I am a professional animator of over a decade, my interests are vast, everything really, I'll try everything, better with people, more specifically, games, animation, collecting, photography. I did used to skateboard too.

What I'm Looking For: This mystery girl with the skateboard!

What I Offer: Guess that's really what meeting up is all about, to judge that for yourself. Feels a bit on the nose to be talking myself up, how about just skating and drawing for a bit ay?
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Yeah I'm cringe, hopefully the fun kind, and thanks for reading my silly little post. Picture attached, quick scribble I did this morning as best as I could recall her.

Little drawing I did of her from memory, what I could recall

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2025/01/24
09:31 UTC

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27 [M4F] Looking for a boba date and maybe more :)

Heyyy all, havent been on here for a while and would like to be on some cute dates :)

About me:

I'm a 27 yo old East Asian with a height of around 5'10". I am non smoker and drug free. I prioritize my physical well-being and regularly hit the gym to stay in great shape. I have all sort of hobbies, gaming, music, dramas, sports etc. Grooming is important to me, and I always strive to present myself in the best possible way. 😊

About you:

Regardless of your race, body shape, or age, I welcome you with open arms. The only condition I have is that you take care of yourself and share the same desire for exploration as I do—discretion is key. Every lady holds a special allure for me as long as there's a genuine interest in getting to know each other.

What I offer:

Imagine a chill, relaxing atmosphere filled with captivating conversations and delightful company. That's what you can expect when you connect with me. I'm eager to share new experiences, expand horizons, and create unforgettable memories. With me, you'll find respect, understanding, and a safe space to be yourself. I am happy just to chat or meet up before we do anything further 😄

Feel free to slide into my DMs if you're intrigued by what you've read so far. I'm eagerly waiting to explore the possibilities with you. I am happy to exchange pics if both parties are interested. Thanks for your attention, I can't wait to connect with you! ❤️

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2025/01/24
05:42 UTC

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