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Melbourne, VIC's foremost R4R (redditor for redditor) platform, the reddit community for meeting local Melbournians and Victorians for almost anything.

Melbourne, VIC's foremost R4R (redditor for redditor) platform, the de facto Reddit community for meeting local Melbournians and Victorians for almost anything.

Rules and Guidelines

1. Account Requirements

Account age of >5 days, plus a small amount of account karma is required for all posting and commenting activities.

We support a range or user flair covering general Melbourne/Victorian regions, as well as COVID-19 vaccination status. Feel free to choose your own user flair or request one from mod team.

Due to the nature of content shared and discussed here, all NSFW post and comment participants must be >18yrs of age. Underage users will be banned if found participating on NSFW posts.

2. Post Requirements

  • All titles formatted similar to:

<age> [<r4r>] - <what you are seeking>

  • Choose most appropriate gender tags when posting (see full list on wiki)
  • Include your age, or age range
  • Post body >200 characters with clear 'about me', 'what I'm looking for' and 'what I offer' sections outlined. Low effort posts are removed.
  • Your physical attributes if requesting in-person meeting
  • Choose appropriate post flair
  • Tag NSFW post as NSFW & keep all sexually suggestive language in the post body

3. Privacy and Safety

For safety and privacy reasons we do not allow the sharing or personal or identifying information, including but not limited to:

  • Real names or nicknames
  • Phone/mobile numbers
  • Addresses or places of employment
  • Email addresses or social media usernames (Kik, Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, Discord, Instagram or external app profiles).

Further, we ask you to refrain from the following behaviour:

  • Posting images (or links to images of yourself) publicly in your posts or comments.

4. Consent & Impersonation

Only post as your authentic self - impersonation or posting on the behalf of others is not permitted.

If posting on-behalf/with partners, ensure you have their informed consent before sharing/requesting any contact here. This includes 'wife pic trading', organising threesomes etc.

Fraudulent posting, bait and switch requests or any other situations regarding catfishing with your actual intentions will incur a ban (e.g. posting for friends and then sending someone dick pics instead privately).

5. Exchange of Money, Goods, Services

Exchanges for money, goods, or services are strictly prohibited.

Advertising, self promotional acts or requesting any services that commonly include an exchange of money is prohibited. Any free service offers, professional services, trading or bartering services are not permitted.

6. Spam and Spamming

Spam is not be tolerated and may result in a ban.

Spam may be considered any of the following:

  • Posting more frequently than once per 24hr
  • Posting the same/similar requests frequently
  • Posts that consist of 'dm me', 'message me' or 'just ask me'
  • Posting veiled attempts for profile followers or external app subscribers
  • Promoting other social media groups, subreddits or chat groups

Further, all posts are removed and locked after 90 days to prevent contact by users on outdated requests.

7. No Drongo Policy

Rude, bullying or harassing behaviour is not tolerated towards posting or commenting community members.

Not every post or r4r request will be your cup of team, so feel free to scroll on or use the report function (in the case or rulebreaking activities).

Rude, degrading, violent or bullying behaviour of any kind in post titles, comments or modmail will be removed and users will be banned.

Comments requesting or encouraging breaking lockdown restrictions will be removed.


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28 [M4F] Cute Date to find a Genuine Connection

About me: 28, 1.8m, tall, dark hair with brown eyes, healthy. ENTP Personality, I enjoy watching movies at the cinema and playing board games with friends, love dogs! Got two myself šŸ¶

What I am looking for: A genuine connection, what we all want in life. I am thinking of something cute, like going to the NGV, walk my dogs together, or play some Board Games (I know quiet a few good places) where we can talk and get to know each other.

What I offer: A great time really, free coffee on me in the NGV or wherever, I can also drive if you need a lift. Happy to listen to some suggestions, Fortress on the weekend is also super fun if you wanna play some Board Games and enjoy nerd culture šŸ¤“

0 Comments
2024/11/01
06:54 UTC

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30M4F - looking for some fun this weekend

Hi there! I'm a 30 year old male looking for some fun in Melbourne. I'm from the northern suburbs but happy to travel wherever!

About me - I am a 30 year old Caucasian male, 5'10, Athletic physique, dark features, beard. I am quite down to earth friendly person! My hobbies include restoring cars, gym and pool!

What I offer - Im super relaxed, easy to get long with, fun and can guarantee some good company! As I said I am down to earth friendly person and giving pleasure is my thing! I don't even expect anything in return! I can possibly host/discuss that when the time is right :)

What I'm looking for - I'm very open to sexual fantasies and I personally love to give pleasure! I somehow prefer pleasuring a woman more so myself! As I said im very open to try new things aswell! I not looking for anyone specific any types. DM me if anyone is interested and we can work something out šŸ˜ŠšŸ‘Œ

As I mentioned, I purely have a fetish for oral on you. If that's something you're interested in let me know!! šŸ˜Š

0 Comments
2024/11/01
03:49 UTC

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36 [M4R] looking for people to chat with and help pass along the hours

Like the title says, just looking for people to chat with about the day and what exciting things are happening. Hopefully make some good friends and lesrn some cool new things along the way.

My work days consist of alot of downtime but can get really chaotic and busy, so I'll either have prompt replies or leave you on read for hours (don't think im ignoring you though).

Im into all kinds of things, outdoors camping and seeing the country, reading, playing games both board games and online, motorsports etc.

Me - 175cm dad bod, brown hair and scruffy beard with tattoos You- have a pulse and reply with more than "ok" or "lol"

0 Comments
2024/10/31
22:08 UTC

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30 [M4F] Seeking a connection/relationship

S'up!? Hope youā€™re well, wherever youā€™re reading from.

What I'm looking for:

From the 1st til the 5th Iā€™ll be down in Melbourne for a chess competition, staying roughly around the east of the CBD. After my arvo games, Iā€™ll have a bit of time up my sleeve, so Iā€™m keen to find a connection that can lead any of the following:

  • A potential relationship
  • Intimacy
  • Friends
  • Chats about shared interests

A bit about me:

Physically, Iā€™m about 1.65m tall, Caucasian and sport a slim body type, coupled with brown hair and hazel eyes. When Iā€™m not working mad amounts of overtime, my general interests are:

  • soccer/running (recently completed the Melb mara again)
  • science/philosophy (Masters in Science)
  • Gaming (video/board/card)
  • Gardening (in the process of getting a veggie and herb patch going)
  • Music (Listening/playing and composing when I have the time)
  • Reading and Learning. (gimme, gimme, gimme juicy knowledge)

What I offer:

I'm offering a listening ear for your troubles, hopefully some mentally stimulating conversation and a relaxed, easy going vibe. Happy to share some food or drink if ya hungry. I can teach you how to play chess or I'll happily learn shogi or go if you have them.

About you: Ladies that attract my attention are 18+, fit and/or in shape, usually caucasian and like learning about things in some way, shape or form.

Lastly, bonus points if you know any good bookstores (sci-fi/classics), places abundant in flowers, or any good running routes or want to join me in said activities/locations.

Cheers!

0 Comments
2024/10/31
12:45 UTC

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27 [M4F] Looking to meet new people and try new things, once off or fwb?

About me:Ā 27m looking to get out there and meet new people. Been a while since I last time I was with someone and looking to break that streak. Enjoy a good chat and a coffee, or when the weather is bad staying in and watching a show/movie or playing some games. On the chunkier side but staying more active as of late, so if you were interested you can join me. I am southeast side but can drive to meet.

What I'm looking for:Ā Someone open minded and down to earth. Shape and size doesn't matter but as long as we get along that would be my only want. Online or in person is fine.

What I offer:Ā Judgment free zone, hopefully some good chats and some fun times. I can't host but am more than happy to split accommodations if need be. I would prefer meeting up someplace for a coffee to better gauge if we are a match.

If this interests you feel free to send me a dm and we can chat there and see where this goes.

0 Comments
2024/10/31
12:17 UTC

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28/24 [MF4F] Seeking a short term or long term connection

Hey there everyone, we are a young couple looking to find another female to join us to experience new and fun things.

About M: 28, Asian, athletic body type, tattoos, piercings, dark brown eyes, long dark hair, 7ā€™~. Introverted, loves anime, gaming, animals, cars, gym and eating.

About F: 24, short, curvy body type, tattoos, brown eyes, long dyed light brown/blonde hair. Introverted, likes reading, baking, gym and cars.

About you: age 22-37, female(no males please) respectful, communicative about preference, happy to join us or watch us or happy to have M/F watch.

What we offer: we are both fun and love a good laugh. Humour is a very big value for us, so we hope to make you laugh as well. We can play games together or just have a great chat so we can get to you know. We are open to any bedroom experiences (within our own limits) so you are more than welcome to share your excitement with us. We would be sure you are feeling welcomed and comfortable with us. We would hope for you to enjoy experience by joining us or watching us.

Feel free to send us a message to have a chat.

Please no males

1 Comment
2024/11/01
02:57 UTC

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27[M4F] - Seeking relationship and friendships

Hello! I'm a 27-year-old man in Melbourne, Australia. I'm a counsellor, and also host a podcast discussing psychology. I'm a massive lover of music; it has great meaning in my life and is an amazing form of emotional stimulation, and I write songs and plan to one day play in a band. Outside of it all, I love to spend time with people in the company of nature or animals (brushing horses and throwing balls for dogs, anyone?), have a good conversation, crack jokes (I challenge you to have a wackier sense of humour than me!), and enjoy good food. You may also find me working with my hands on projects occasionally. I'm around 5'10", Mediterranean, slim and well-built, and have dark and extremely short hair. I'm equal parts thinker and doer; I'm passionate about trying to be the best that I can be in every aspect of my life and enjoy the challenge of examining and learning about the world, setting goals for myself, engineering my life, and helping others. I'm a free thinker, so within reason I'm not just looking to associate with people who share all of my values; I want to learn about others' perspectives and see the humanity in people.

I'm seeking a long-term, monogamous relationship with my eventual soul mate, as well as solid friendships. I've decided that I want to remain child-free and live separately from my partner, as I believe that not being coā€‘dependent creates freedom for us to enhance each other's lives. As long as you're at least 18 (of course!), I'm not as concerned about your age or background; I'm seeking mutual attraction, intuitive chemistry, and the willingness to properly get to know each other, listen, and commit. I'm a celibate, but other forms of physical and emotional affection are fundamental to me, so I'll want to exchange warm snuggles, cute glances, and genuine words of affirmation.

While I'm happy to meet a range of people, I do have my deal-breakers. I am only seeking inā€‘person relations with people in Melbourne. My hard limits are smoking, excessive alcohol usage, narcotics, crime, and extremism. Please also be emotionally available, communicative, willing to enter in to respectful discussions if we don't agree, and please don't ghost!

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2024/10/31
05:39 UTC

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35 M4F seeking some fun this Sunday melbourne cbd.

Seeking Female to enjoy this Sunday evening with. Hang out, chitchat, more? I'll only be here for 1 night before I fly out of the country Monday. Maybe your married, maybe you have kids and haven't let your hair down in a while. I'm here for you and to have an enticing set at your pace. Let's have fun, hang out and see what happens. I'll benin southbank melbourne

1 Comment
2024/10/31
07:01 UTC

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41 [M4R] looking for online friends

Hi guys. Im a 41yo aussie dad in a committed relationship and im looking for people to chat with throughout the day. I have a busy life between family and work and im trying to fill my social quota with some long term chat buddies.

I like socialising where i can but my free time is usually spent gaming or zoning out watching mindless tv series for far too long šŸ˜‚

Im not too fussed on what age, gender, or which type of people might reach out as long as they're actually interested in getting to know one another a little. Im a really open minded person who tries my best not to judge others for their choices and it would be great if you were the same.

Hope to hear from a couple of you.

3 Comments
2024/10/28
09:56 UTC

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23 [F4F] Melbourne/Australia looking for a girl to have my first ever female NSFW experience

About me I'm 23 average height a little chubby with big f cup titties, longgg curly hair and a really silly personality (think that person who's constantly laughing or singing or dancing). I enjoy shopping, working out, bingeing shows and being creative. I'm really passionate about helping people and being that one friend everyone can rely on. My long term partner (also 23) and I have been discussing what we're into and I've always liked girls but never thought about doing anything other than kissing a couple of times. So he has given me the push to start seeking someone to explore myself with

I'm looking for a woman happy to help me on my journey of self discovery and of bi-curiouity. Ideally someone who is ok with my partner being involved. We are happy to host and are flexible/ available most of the time.

What I offer is my excitement, fun personality my body (& partners) and my female v card. also a place to do it & to share my toys šŸ˜‰

TLDR I'm a curvy curly haired girly with big titties and quite the fun personality looking for a girl to have fun with for the first time! :)))

Message me so we can start chatting I'm so excited just writing this!

3 Comments
2024/10/28
05:10 UTC

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34 [M4F] help me talk to woman

Hi, so to start off with this has taken alot for me to post.

I have only ever had one relationship in my life (13 to 28). We broke up a few years back and unfortunately due to some health issues i didnt get my self back out there.

Now i am finding it very hard and nerve racking, the idea of even trying to talk to a femal le gives me a panic attack. I am a very passive guy i am also high functioning autistic.

I am looking for a females to talk to that are willing to be patient with me and help me with some banter and just getting comftable with general conversation. Ideally some one from 28 - 50 years of age.

Dms are open all i ask is please be nice! šŸ˜

4 Comments
2024/10/26
11:18 UTC

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28 [M4F] Late night kombini partner needed

Hey fellow redditors, Aussie born Chinese guy here, full time healthcare professional and mentally burnt out probably at least a couple of years back. Black hair, dark brown eyes pretty broad, looking for someone to get to know, have a laugh, share a bit of banter and potentially grab a drink or bite to eat if close by. For full disclosure, I am definitely very interested in finding someone who further down the line thinks the thought of buying way too much on late night Don Quijote/ kombini snack runs in the middle of Tokyo sounds like an amazing time. I'm pretty chill, don't like to take myself too seriously, love to laugh, but also think I'm very much a softie. Hoping to find someone with similar interests, around the same-ish age and also looks after themselves(also hygiene šŸ˜…)! Down to make friends but also single if things happened to go down that route. Would love to know a bit about you and what you're looking for :)

2 Comments
2024/10/26
09:19 UTC

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30[M4F] - Cuddles, FWB (with actually being friends) and adventures

Made a similar post over 2 years ago and had great success meeting lovely people and even formed a great relationship, so thought I'd try my luck again here!

I am looking to meet new people, grow friendships and ideally get a FWB situation going, with emphasis on actually being friends!

About me: 5 foot 9, 73kg white (euro) guy who lives in the Western Suburbs of Melbourne. I'm an intelligent and logical thinker who likes to listen to creative and inspirational ideas from others. Deep conversations and emotional connections are great and will add to any potential sexual chemistry. Exercises regularly at the gym and always up for something active, however I would never turn down a relaxing night in cuddling! I'd consider myself fairly easy going and easy to talk to.

What I offer: Great conversation, great cuddles, emotional support if needed and someone who you can have a laugh with. For the benefits, I am an experienced daddy/dom who considerers them self to caring and a protector. I've enjoyed many dynamics so it is more dependant on the feeling we have together to see what suits us. Exploration is fun but needs to be done in a safe and comfortable environment

What I'm looking for: An ongoing FWB, who isn't going to neglect the friendship portion, where we can also have discussions about other topics that are important to us, hang out, and laugh together. Someone submissive who also looks after themselves and is physically fit would be awesome, but the key thing for me is to be able to hold a conversation. I love having a good conversation to build up the friendship. Between 18-35 ideally.

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2024/10/26
02:19 UTC

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23[M4F] Inexperienced guy looking for an fwb to learn with

About me: I'm a virgin so I hope that doesn't matter too much. I'm in pretty decent shape and am about 6'3, I have long curly brown hair as well. I love listening to a lot of music and watching movies too. I play a lot of games too but one of my favourite hobbies is photography.

What I'm looking for is to find an fwb or something similar who can help me learn a bit while having a good time I don't mean be if you're older, younger or if you shave or not in fact I love a good bush. I can't host but can drive so ideally someone who can host or has an idea of where to go. I'm open to trying a lot or most things so if you have kinks and stuff you want to try throw them at me and we'll see.

I'm hoping l'm offering a good fun experience for someone and that I can learn some new things, I really hope that I can make it worthwhile while for anyone that responds cheers.

0 Comments
2024/10/25
08:10 UTC

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45 m4f - looking for someone casually to escape from my reality of life

Looking for a NSFW Casual companionship & Mutually enjoyable connection. My previous experiences on Reddit have been great, and Iā€™m hoping to find someone who shares similar interests.

If youā€™re interested in a genuine and discreet friendship with a touch of fun and banter, Iā€™d love to hear from you !
I would love to find someone to have some fun with. I'm respectful, well mannered, family oriented with a playful side a little nurospicy to add in to the mix.

About Me:
Age: 45 (but I look younger!)
Body Type: Dad bod, around 120kg
Personality: Introverted but crave one-on-one interactions
Hobbies include Lego, Gadgets and Technology, Music 90s/200s Hard rock
I'm shy and quiet at first, but naughty and love to be led astray as long as all parties are comfortable.

What I Offer:

Attentive listener and good friend Enjoy engaging in naughty NSFW chats and dates if we have a connection,.
Discretion is a must for me, and I offer the same in return.

About you:
Age: open
Status: Open to women of any status
Mindset: Mature and knows what she wants
Physical Attraction: Iā€™m particularly attracted to women with curves

0 Comments
2024/10/25
05:35 UTC

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33 [F4F] wanting to see where things go.. >25-45<

Hi,

WHAT IM LOOKING FOR

searching for another femme female to become close and personal "friends" to explore each other together, basically. +ALSO PLEASE STRICTLY LOOKING FOR FEMALES ONLY+

*ABOUT ME

I'm A 33 year old bi- Femme female, I am 5ft6, medium length brown hair, dark brown eyes, natual olive skin, i have curves (* but i think i have them in the wrong places*) i also have one tattoo(wanting too get more eventually) & I also have a few piercings, not too many just my nose and side bottom lip, ľ'm down to earth,I love to crack the occasional joke or two. I am a very affectionate being at times. I'm happy to start to talk and then trade photos to see if we vibe.

I live in the western suburbs of Melbourne but can't host, I love animals, comedy, horror, drama movies, and occasional action & romanromance movie/tv series. I love to laugh, have fun, and always be up for a good time. I drive and am willing to come towards you, but hopefully, I will find someone over this side of Melbourne.

Im up for strictly fun and fun only, I want someone to cherish and explore my body and touch me and make me moan and eventually come, but I will do the exact same for you. Ilve just gotten out of a 10-year-dead-bedroom relationship where he only ever thought of himself and his needs, never was interested in pleasing me or my needs. So I want to find someone who will satisfy my needs and 1 will do the same for you in return.

****WHAT I AM OFFERING OR WHAT I OFFER

A sexy good time where we will just explore each others likes and bodies and just go with the flow and have some fun times to be had without clothes and just satisfy each other's sexual desires.

l'm hoping to meet this weekend, but I know this probably won't happen as it's already the beginning of the weekend

So if you're 24-45, a femme female and looking to have some fun and happy to have a chat and meet up, hmu/ drop me a message.

2 Comments
2024/10/25
08:29 UTC

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44 [m4f] seeking f sub

44yo guy in decent shape seeking part time sub. Slow intro to establish a strong base to work from. I'm open to a wide variety of preferences but tend to be most comfortable at the light medium part of the spectrum, of course thats hugely dependant on the trust we build. Would be good to chat if your interested in seeing if we might click.

1 Comment
2024/10/25
04:02 UTC

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40 [M4A] Ballarat - Seeking Friendship, Possibly More...

A little bit about me:

I'm 40M, residing in sunny Ballaratā€”yes, I know, it's like a vacation destination for those who love... well, Ballarat.

After a decade-long relationship, Iā€™m back in the wild world of dating. No marriage, no kids, and definitely no emotional baggageā€”unless you count my extensive collection of hoodies.

I thought Iā€™d poke around Reddit before diving into Bumble and the like. You know, to gather intel like Iā€™m some kind of romantic spy.

I work in IT, but donā€™t worry, I promise Iā€™m the least ā€œNerdy IT Guyā€ youā€™ll ever meet! Iā€™ve never watched Japanime, and Iā€™ve only seen about five minutes of Star Wars (the force wasnā€™t strong with me) Never seen Ring lords or anything of that nature. My only nerdy habit? Occasionally pretending to be a gaming wizard on my PlayStation.

I enjoy a cold beer on a sunny day with a side of hot, crunchy chipsā€”donā€™t forget the aioli, because I have taste buds that are fancy like that. Exploring new beer gardens is my version of an adventureā€”just picture me wandering like a lost puppy until I find the next pub.

Music is life! I was a DJ in a previous life. My playlist ranges from Aussie rap to metalcoreā€”because why not?

I live for live music and cannot wait for this summer! Some really good shows coming, and already been!

Iā€™m an armchair athlete, I watch AFL from the comfort of my couch and occasionally venture to matches. I do shoot hoops sometimes, but mostly just to convince myself Iā€™m athletic. Mountain biking is my cardioā€”whether itā€™s single trails or downhill, Iā€™m all about that adrenaline rush. And falling off my skateboard is a hobby, not a failure!

On the handyman side, Iā€™ve built a car or two. I even maintain my own car. I'm not scared of tools at all.

My Bad Points:

I might be too organized. My love for cleanliness might be a bit much, and Iā€™m a creature of routine.

I dress like Iā€™m still in high schoolā€”baggy hoodies, which is my signature look. But at work? Youā€™ll find me in chinos and a business shirt, pretending to be a responsible adult.

I'm usually the last one to arrive, and the last one to leave.

I'm looking to chat with ladies only. I'm happy to swap picsā€”because we all know the importance of verifying we're not, you know, serial killers.

Oh, and if you would like to smoosh PlayStation buttons together, I'd be down for that, too.

I'm looking forward to it!

11 Comments
2024/10/25
02:19 UTC

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27 [M4F] Looking for NSA/casual fun can host south east suburbs +voluptuous/curvy

Heyo I'm 27, slim build and light tanned complexion. I've recently entered a consenting open relationship and am looking to have more fun.

What I'm after- I'm looking to have casual or NSA fun with Bbw/thick/curvy/voluptuous women between the ages of 20-60 Also if you're older don't be shy to say hi! I'm in the south east and am down to travel but can also host aswell.

What I offer- I am great company/down to earth, I'm a very friendly and warm person I like creating and being in a safe and comfortable space where boundaries are set and respected by both of us. When I'm truly comfortable I can also be quite flirty and playful.

ā€¢ having and providing a safe and comfortable to space to play and explore is important to me as I hope it is to you too. I really like giving and pleasing, and I'm quite confident in that.

ā€¢ I really enjoy working on my art and playing games in my downtime both PC/console. Also enjoy reading every now and then too

If you like what you've read I'd send me a message as I'd love to chat and see where it goes.

0 Comments
2024/10/25
02:07 UTC

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30s [F4M] Can we talk about movies?

What Iā€™m looking for: Exactly what the title says. I love films. I wanna talk about movies, and maybe go see some together if we vibe.

My favorite directors are: Yorgos Lanthimos, David Fincher, Ari Aster, Scorsese, Bong Joon Hoā€¦you get it.

Disclaimer: I love LOTR, but Iā€™m not into Marvel, Disney, or Harry Potter. We probably would not vibe if you are heavily into those.

You: No strict physical requirements, but you should be active and confident, but not cocky. Also, maybe be taller than me? Wouldnā€™t be hard, Iā€™m small.

Me: Short, fit, smart, funny, considerate, cuddly, etc. Iā€™m active, I have a rich social life, I love going to gigs, reading, eating, walking, breathing, blah blah blah. I donā€™t drink coffee and I align far left on the political spectrum. I travel overseas for work frequently and take personal trips between those trips, so something beyond surface level but not too serious would be ideal. Open to things developing organically depending on vibes, but not actively seeking a relationship currently.

If youā€™re interested in getting to know me, send me a bio, and an opening question that is engaging and interesting. Please also include a recent photo of your self(face/body), so we can swap. Messages without photos will be ignored, soz.

9 Comments
2024/10/25
01:53 UTC

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36 [M4F] - looking for something fun and casual on 30th October in CBD, dinner or cocktails and see how we vibe?

About me:

Im a 36 year old guy looking for something not too serious.

Iā€™m 6ā€™2, tanned, shaved head, stubble, brown eyes, fit enough with a bit of dad bod, thick cock.

Clean and DDF. Can provide pics or look in my history.

What Iā€™m looking for:

Someone who is looking for decent conversation, banter over dinner or drinks for the evening in CBD. Please be clean and DDF also.

What I offer:

Can do dinner/hot chocolate/cocktails out during evening, check if we vibe and take from there, I can host in cbd also on 30th.

Message me or via chat

0 Comments
2024/10/24
20:39 UTC

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23 [M4F] Looking for friends and experience more

What I'm looking for:

Iā€™m interested in finding friends or a FWB situation. While Iā€™m inexperienced, Iā€™m not a virgin. I can be both introverted and extroverted, depending on the vibes you bring. Someone that's understanding, Non-judgemental, sweet, caring and patient and also willing to help me learn more, whether your inexperienced as well or super experience. If you're also looking to get experience, don't be afraid to hmu!

About Me:

ā€¢ Interests:

ā€¢ Enjoy gaming (online, card, or board gamesā€”love poker) ā€¢ Long walks and deep conversations ā€¢ Cooking and eating ā€¢ Watching all types of shows, anime, and movies
ā€¢ Cats (also other animals but cats I like most) ā€¢ Relaxing

Background:

ā€¢ Asian. Half Chinese and Half Viet.

If body type is a dealbreaker, please donā€™t message, as Iā€™ve faced this issue before.

Goals: ā€¢ Looking to experiment and discover any hidden things I might enjoy. ā€¢ Am hoping go learn more oral and get better with it, along with my hands.

What Iā€™m Looking For:

Iā€™m seeking a down-to-earth person willing to teach me the ropes and join me on fun adventures, including memorable, NSFW experiences. Size and ethnicity donā€™t matter to me; while I prefer similar ages, Iā€™m open to older friends too.

What I Offer:

ā€¢ Heard Iā€™m good with my fingers and mouth, and I love cuddles, so aftercare is a must! ā€¢ I provide a great time and a listening ear for anyone who needs to vent.

Physical appearance:

ā€¢ 182 cm tall, longish hair, a right leg sleeve tattoo, broad shoulders, and big legs and hands (maybe!) ā€¢ Asian, average/Big build (as noted by others) due to having broad shoulders ā€¢ A bit chubby, but everyone Iā€™ve talked to says I look fine

Iā€™d love to chat and get to know each other a bit before anything else! If this interests you, feel free to reach out!

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2024/10/24
12:33 UTC

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M4f 2nd November drinks

I'm in Melbourne for a wedding, fly in the 2nd out the 4th. Looking for someone to grab a drink with. I come to Melbourne semi regularly and want to keep coming (so much still to see) I'm nerdy and a bit awkward at first but overall friendly. Looking for friends or more.

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2024/10/24
11:15 UTC

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33[M4F] Friends, casual, or dates?

About me: 33, 5'10, 90(ish)kg. Straight, monogamous, agnostic, non-smoker, occasional drinks on the weekend. Located in Brooklyn/Altona area. Likes strength training 3 days a week, but also likes eating 7 days a week so I guess I fall a little bit into the "dad bod" category. My hobbies broadly speaking are anime/manga, video games (if you play FFXIV hit me up), and anything nature-based that doesn't require me to be too far away from home, because of my dear, sweet cat, and being a bit of a homebody(going out is EXPENSIVE).

Animal and nature lover; I'm more than happy to stop on the street and watch some birds for a few minutes. It might be cheesy, but I like the idea of going to the zoo or aquarium for a date. I work in the CBD 5 days a week, so going to Bartronica or Fortress would be another great place to meet up and have a drink or two. My go-to band is The Mountain Goats (hail satan) and I listen to Last Podcast on the Left.

I've been described as "one of the most chill people (a friend) knows". I keep things low key and relaxed, but I can get real enthusiastic about things. A bit awkward to say, but my family does not play a role in my life.

Looking for: Friends, romance, casual, whatever. Something organic and natural. I am a little scared of catching feelings, but if it happens, it happens, y'know?

About you: 24-40, DDF. Non-smoker. Weed is acceptable. I'd really like it if we can share some interests together. It doesn't have to be a 100% overlap; its unrealistic of me to expect that of anyone. Happy to meet half way on things. A gym buddy would be a huge plus to help keep us both accountable.

God that's a lotta words huh. If any of this appeals to you, ask for a picture. Hopefully that's not the deal breaker, ha.

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2024/10/24
06:33 UTC

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43 [M4M] Bi curious looking for same

Hey hey folks...

About me: I am 43M, try to stay fit, and secretly bi curious. Brown eyes and hair, 165cm, and like to run and ride and see live music.

What I am looking for: Somebody of about my age or lower who is new to or inexperienced in this area (like I am) to chat to and find out if we are both interested in trying similar things some time. Life is too short to keep this as just a curiosity. This is something I have been thinking about for a long time, but haven't had any luck finding the right person.

What I offer: I am not a scary creep, and want to take it slow getting to know somebody and finding out if we are looking for the same thing. I am not in a rush, but definitely keen for the right person. Hopefully we can eventually meet in person, get over our nerves, and enjoy a little fun.

Message me if you are actually inexperienced and are after something similar. Let's not waste each other's time if we aren't on the same page.

DM me if you're interested!

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2024/10/24
06:21 UTC

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M4A, 23M looking for friends to hangout with & yap

About me: Hi I'm a 23yr old asian male from the western suburbs of Melbourne, I work as a Lab Analyst for a commercial laboratory. I used to be an avid gamer but I very rarely hop on now as I now much prefer to lay in grass with a book & some snacks, I love walking around scenic areas and having to chit chat.

I dont have much interest in alot of hobbies mainly just reading at the moment but I'm hoping to dip in my toes in a little bit of everything to see if I would like it. I would love to try out going to the gym or any other physical activities.

I'm a bit of an introvert when meeting new people but i will eventually slowly open up.

I'm just looking for friends to hangout with on a weekend since I focused on work too much and I figured I would like to change that !!

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2024/10/24
06:44 UTC

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54M4F Relationship, Friend

About Me
I'm newly single a couple of weeks ago. I'm a consultant IT business analyst; I've been off work for 4 years with depression and insomnia. I'm not a financial basket case as I'm on income replacement insurance. I generally like good conversations, walking my dog, Podcasts, audio books, a bit of cycling, cooking/baking, watching documentaries & the F1. I'm very caring and sensitive and generally a good man (not alpha or exhibiting toxic traits). I'm fairly easygoing, but not a pushover. I have two adult daughters who don't live with me. I'm not into AFL, gambling, drinking, non-prescription drugs.

Looking for
I'm looking for a woman for a long-term relationship, and I am happy to start as friends. I'm happy to start with a bit of chatting online, but I prefer to meet in person before too long, perhaps a coffee, walk or meal. I don't mind if you are overweight, as long as you aren't ashamed of your body. I don't mind if you are a single mum. Hopefully, we will have some common interests and you will be willing to share with me. Please don't be overly religious or overseas.

What I offer
I offer love, support and companionship. I'm about 190cm, with a normal build. I have dark hair (going grey) and either clean-shaven or a couple of days' growth. I live in the outer eastern suburbs, but I'm willing to travel a bit (30 mins) for a relationship with the right person. If you are further away, a friendship is fine, but probably not a relationship, as I prefer frequent face-to-face time.

I don't mind sharing with you my facebook or quora profiles. I've about 1.5k answers on quora so it does reflect a lot of values etc that would take ages to ascertain with dating.

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2024/10/22
11:20 UTC

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37M4A - surrounded by people but lonely and looking for connection.

About me: I am a married father of 2 living in Melbournes northern suburbs. I have a good career and amazing kids, on paper I should definitely be happy but instead I feel isolated and like I donā€™t have any connections with the outside world. My marriage feels like a constant loveless expectation to do more and there is never time to connect with anyone outside of it all.

What I am looking for: I am looking for someone in a similar situation that wants to connect with someone outside of their marriage/family. It can be in online or in person or anywhere in between. I am not too worried about whether you are male or female but I do tend to connect with females more easily.

What I offer: I offer myself in whatever capacity you would like. I am happy to chat and to listen, but similarly happy to catch up in person and hang out. I just want to meet people and enjoy some new connections.

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2024/10/22
08:56 UTC

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45 [F4M] Seeking Fun Committed Relationship

Hello, all mysterious Earthen Melbournian males. Fun-loving, quirky, pretty traditional, open minded female, looking for a committed relationship. I'm outgoing and love socialising especially at dinner parties, quiet & introverted other times.

A sweet night at home would look like snuggling up with my person in comfy tracksuits, making an awesome charcuterie nibbles board, cuddling watching a movie together.

About me:

* I'm really into Self Care, Physical Fitness, Reformer Pilates, Long Distance Swimming training, Spin Cycle, Yoga, and practise Vipassana meditation. * Love being in mother nature, going on mountain day hikes, walking and talking ā›°ļø. * Love Arts and finer things, I justā€‹ went to Pharaoh at NGV. Stunning! * Work in the Education Field, currently back at University studying an Intensive Bachelors degree.

I'm Australian-Japanese. 164cms, slim & cuddly. Love Cooking especially Japanese food, Udon and Sushi Yumm! Reading & listening to Psychology and Philosophy books and podcasts & making kool quirky pottery things.

About you:

* Honesty, Trust, Loyalty, Open communication, Emotionally Intelligent, stable & have some direction in life ā¤ļø. Must be genuine and single. Fun lovin, tall, fit are a plus. Happy to connect, chat and get to know you, swap photos, eventually intention to meet. Please no dad bods or guys who game all day.

Prefer Caucasian, European, UK Canadian, US, Australian guys. About 35-43 ages or thereabouts. Looking forward to hearing from you. šŸ˜„šŸŒ·

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2024/10/22
06:05 UTC

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28[M4A] - Looking for a travel buddy

Hello guys,

As the title says I am looking for people to travel with. Unfortunately most of my friends are not into travelling or they have partners who they travel with.

Iā€™m a 28yo male who enjoys trying new things, nature, sightseeing, reading and movies. Ideally we would utilise the 2 for 1 deal thatā€™s happening now. I would want to travel next year anytime between mid January to March. I donā€™t want to go to Europe as I have been there plenty of time.

I have never done this before, so would prefer to meet up with you and grab a coffee if we decide to travel together. Happy to have a conversation and answer any questions that you might have.

Ps. I wouldnā€™t want to travel for more than 15 days due to work obligations.

3 Comments
2024/10/22
04:28 UTC

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