/r/r4rasian

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An r4r for both Asians looking for redditors and redditors looking for Asians.

An r4r for both Asians looking for redditors and redditors looking for Asians. For reference on what constitutes an Asian person, see this Wikipedia page.

Ethnicity may be included in the title or description. As with anything else, please remain respectful of all posters and commenters.

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Tag your posts to be more clear. Include pertinent information such as age, location and a condensed version of what you are looking for.

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Tagging Legend

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T - transgender

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Exchanges for money, goods, or services are strictly prohibited.

Moderators reserve the right to remove posts and/or ban users upon their discretion.

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31 [M4F] - online/Anywhere Looking for something consistent

Hey everyone! I'm here looking for someone to chat/talk with on a daily basis. Something consistent that may possibly lead to more? Friends or someone to really connect with I'm open for either. It can be NSFW or SFW. (primarily looking for NSFW). If all goes well I'm not opposed to meeting up. I can fly out anywhere.

I'm full Chinese. Fluent in English, Cantonese, and learning a bit of Korean. I travel quite often for work so if I respond late please take no offense! Changing time zones often puts my sleep schedule out of wack. If I'm not traveling I'm back home working or in my room sleeping lol. I like k-pop, hop hop, anime, manga, working out, I'm a big foodie but I have to watch the weight!

We can chat here, disc0rd, sn@p, or tel3gram! Looking forward to hearing from you.

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2025/02/02
04:18 UTC

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21 [M4F] #Cambridge asian virgin, show me the ropes!

hi guys! 21M korean american here, finishing up my last semester of college. while i've done sexual things before, i've never actually done the deed and am looking to change that. 5 10, black hair, brown eyes, 170 pounds, and extremely kind and a good conversationalist. very caring, sweet, and down for whatever! also can host, let's talk and get to know each other!

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2025/02/02
04:12 UTC

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22 [M4F] #NJ/NY - College Latino looking for an Asian woman

Not into single men.

I’m not completely inexperienced but I can use some work. What I lack in experience I make up for with enthusiasm, stamina, and girth. I got a real big fat cock at 7 inches, not the longest but certainly girthy. If any Asian woman or wife is interested in trying lmk.

I’m 5’9, around 185 lbs, 7 in, have pubic hair but regularly trim, and DDF. Anything else you wanna know just PM me. Hope to hear from ya soon.

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2025/02/02
04:11 UTC

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31 [M4F] #NYC Asian Uncut Cock

Hi there, 5'10", 165lbs, and fit 31m asian looking to have a bit of fun in NYC. I am in Midtown and can host at a hotel.

Things I enjoy aside from bjs: biking around town, trying wine from different regions, going to the gym (3x/week), and making coffee!

If you're interested, send a PM!

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2025/02/02
04:10 UTC

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45 [M4F] #NYC. Smart, Successful Guy Seeks Someone Fun, Smart, and a bit Kinky for Something Ongoing. IRL

   

nyc area or nearby only please. This is not for online only

Hello,
I'm a 45 year old man here in downtown NYC. I'm in pretty decent shape, great career, mentally balanced, healthy, and looking for an ongoing connection that can blossom into something real. I am the type to start a little slow, as our busy schedules allow, and then see what unfolds naturally.

I feel that I have my life together, and my general disposition has always been to be a happy, curious person. I'm a clean cut, suit and tie kind of guy for work but casual otherwise.

I like to spend my time reading (esp public health, and the impact of social media on human connection), attempting to be health-conscious, pop culture. I like to think I excel at baking healthy snacks, I really like jazz, and I’m a huge film buff, pretty big music fan, like being a foodie, keeping up with current events. I like good conversation, snuggles, laughing. I speak a second language but... am pretty rusty!

Besides the usual hangouts, conversations, and I’d be open to going to events around the city, taking some language or cooking classes, and I recently started trying tennis and would be open to a tennis partner

You: Single, fairly balanced, intellectually curious, mentally grounded, have a few interesting interests. Open minded. Being pretty drama free is important to me too. Doing something productive. Able to laugh and not take life too seriously is important.

If you write please be sure to state age, location, a few hobbies or interests (a physical description is always helpful too), and we can start a conversation and see where it leads!

thanks ;)

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2025/02/02
03:02 UTC

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25 [F4M] #NYC - Looking for casual fun this winter

I'm a 25 year old Asian woman 5’3 115. Looking for a hookup/fwb with a man in NYC between the ages of 25-35. Would be down to hang out and go on spontaneous adventures too.

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2025/02/02
02:52 UTC

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24 [M4F] #Maryland #online - Hangout or more

I'm asian with glasses into video games, anime, just the usual nerdy stuff. Slim build can probably picture it I've been told I'm cute but I think I look generic. Have heard my voice is nice though.

We can have a little chat or have a little watch party. Also down to send pics once we get to chatting. Hell if youre nearby we can meetup.

Not sure what else to put here so imma leave it at that

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2025/02/02
02:28 UTC

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27 [f4M] Bay Area - hyperlocal, domesticated Asian guys only voice chat pls

If you see this post, I’m still looking. All I ask from you is that you include your discord, your age, and location and that you can voice chat immediately (not two or three hours later)

Surprisingly I have been posting once a week and I haven’t talked to anyone just yet bc yall don’t read the first paragraph😭I AM ALSO NOT LOOKING DIRTY CHATS MY BD NEEDS ARE MET AT HOME

I just smoked some weed but I have been sick all day so looking for retired ABBs over the age of 27. If you have to ask what an ABB is, then don’t message me. I don’t like anime, Pokémon cards, and weeb stuff. Surprisingly I am not a foodie and will eat wingstop after SoulCycle like I am not stuck up about that 🤣 something I wish I can do is travel more but like I hate flying so much😭

I am just a domesticated former abg with blonde hair, I’m down 5% body fat since last year and hope to be a milf someday 😂 I love talking about wellness, degeneracy, and drama.

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2025/02/02
02:10 UTC

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30 [M4F] Texas/Online - I can’t stop talking to internet strangers

I'll try to sell myself in a few bullet points, since I know your time is valuable (if it isn't, we're already a good match.)

  • Born in America, ancestrally Chinese and a smaller mystery mix of Asian heritage. That said, I'm as American as apple pie or outsourced labor.

  • Work in corporate IT, love/hate relationship but it pays the bills and my brain seems wired properly to make things fit together.

  • One cat, brown Tabby (until the tests indicate otherwise), cute, scrungy, throws up a lot, everything you'd like in a son. Will send pics.

  • Relatively in shape. I trail bike and run at least a few times a week since I failed my cholesterol exam.

  • Hobbies mostly revolve around cars - fixing or driving. Old Japanese cars have my heart but anything that goes around a track has my interest. Biking as well as previously mentioned, but to a lesser extent.

  • Looking for a variety of things. Mostly someone to brighten each others' day with messages about the little things. If we get along well, maybe even medium sized things; who knows? Large things - out of the question. Do not inquire.

Messages preferred, the chat feature is, at least to the best of my ability, not great. Stick it to corporate America and slide into my DMs.

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2025/02/02
02:09 UTC

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48 [M4F] #Sf,CA a nice asian dude seeks genuine & meaningful connections

Still ISO of a lady friend to spend quality time with here and there. No expectations, just a go with the flow relationship. We all lead busy lives but sometimes need a break from the world and I want to find that breath of fresh air. I need to vent & rant occasionally and we all know it’s not healthy to have vents/rants bottled up inside… ikr. Just would be nice to have someone to text bs to and shoot the breeze with throughout the day when it’s not busy. I’m usually a fun, genuine, hella nice person, and always brutally honest. Not for the faint of heart .. j/k. I look like an abc asian dude that stands 5’8”, clean cut, excel hygiene, hwp, ddf. Race & age not as important as the vibes. Looking to escape on random day trips to hike, eat, drink, screw, a wide array of activities. Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, figured this is a good time to post in hopes to find a date.

TL;dr - Ideally looking for like-minded lady to chill with occasionally irl, smash, text, and eat pizza/sip cocktails.

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2025/02/02
01:05 UTC

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28 [M4F] #NYC cute tall Asian boy looking for fwb connections in the city

Hi! I'm a 6'0 and 160lb Asian boy I would say I'm on the tall and lean side ,with black short hair and really easy to talk too! I'm down to trade sfw pics too! By normal standards I think I'm pretty good looking, more on the cute side if anything, so I've been told

Also some ((NSFW)) on my profile if you're curious!

I'm looking for a frequent oral friend or FWB !! I'm very clean and also am tested frequently

I love music and movies to name a few of the things I'm into too if you wanna start with something to chat about!

Feel free to send me a chat invite! Please tell me Abit about yourself too!!

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2025/02/02
00:55 UTC

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32 [M4F] #Gardena - In search of an awesome FWB/Sneaky Link

Hello redditors! I’m looking to find someone within a reasonable distance (Orange County, Long Beach, Los Angeles, South Bay, etc.) for casual fun, or an ongoing friend with benefits/sneaky link. Down to meet up once in a while, whenever we can if our schedules match free time. Who doesn't miss cuddles, intimacy, teaching each other new things, netflix & chilling, and occasional outings?

About me:

  • Asian
  • ENFP (I work well with both introverts and extroverts)
  • Born and raised in the South Bay/Los Angeles area
  • Disease free (never had an std or sti [knocks on wood])
  • Talkative (great through text/chat message but better in person and saves our fingers from typing)
  • Employed full time, have my shizz together, and love to work on side hustles/gigs (love entrepreneurship)
  • Positive attitude, drama-free, and open-minded
  • High libido, heterosexual
  • Mini foodie
  • 165lbs
  • Down to earth, prior meeting experience, and drama-free
  • Conversationalist
  • Free on most nights/evenings if planned

Random other interests include: youtube, video/board games, podcasts, hiking trails, intellectual conversation, entrepreneurial ideas, documentaries, comedy, DIY, E-Commerce, golf, anime, dogs, working out/gymming (and currently bulking), home improvement, trying new foods, festivals/concerts/conventions, meeting new people, and whatever gets me off my phone. I am frequently complimented on my conversational flow, hygiene, and approachability.

You:

  • Vaccinated, & disease free
  • Preferably in the Los Angeles/Orange County/South Bay area

Hoping we could be consistent – I understand there should be some mutual attraction and chemistry. Open to more it there's consistency, respect, and good connection. If you’re interested, message/chat me a brief description of yourself / what you’re looking for and a pic! (More than just a hi!) You don’t have to send a pic, but I’m more likely to reply if you do. Safety first!

If this post is still up, it means I'm still searching

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2025/02/02
00:50 UTC

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36 [M4F] #LosAngeles- Looking for a FWB and more

Hoping I can find some with similar vibes on here!

I'm assuming the majority of people on here are looking for something similar. I'm looking for someone who'd be interested in setting up a FWB type of arrangement. I'm hoping you're single because I'm open to entertaining what could possibly come of this but nothing has to either. I'm hoping you're single because I am too. I'd like to meet someone that can meetup whenever (flexible schedule), hangout, make each other laugh, and just enjoy ourselves in and out of the bedroom (but emphasis on the bedroom because I got a high sex drive). Attraction is important to me too since it plays a role so I'm happy to exchange pictures and ensure it's there for both of us.

A little about me:

  • 5'10, fit body type at 175 - 180 lbs (been trying to bulk up a little), half asian/white
  • work in tech and fully remote
  • have the best dog and love all animals
  • no shame here, I'm a bit of a nerd; I love tech gadgets, reading about space, watching sci-fi or fantasy movies/shows, playing video games (marvel rivals anyone?)
  • I'm physically active; I work out about 5-6 days a week. It allows me to enjoy my addiction to food
  • some kinks I love: breathplay, orgasm denial/tease, breeding/impreg, freeuse, being a dom with my sub

If any of this interests you lets chat! I'm always happy to meet new people and make new friends.

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2025/02/02
00:43 UTC

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35 [M4F] #SD/Midwest- Attractive Guy Seeking a Cute and Flirty Match 😊

Hey babe 😊 I'm looking for a match, a connection, without all the typical pleasantries they drive me crazy just be yourself. Be honest, and speak your mind when we chat. So, I'm looking for someone cute, healthy, somewhat in shape, talented, sexual, down to Earth and laid back. It's ok if you're not close, I'd still like to chat! Currently I'm on an odd schedule so if my response times are odd it's that.

[Me]--6ft tall, Caucasian, dark green eyes and soft short brown hair (growing it out a bit tho), a nice warm smile and shapely jaw, in shape winter dad bod (tho I workout), and well endowed 😏. I'm sarcastic, flirty, and don't take life too seriously. Nothing offends me and I'm always laughing at/with life.

[Hobbies/Interests]-- Music, it was my first love. Cooking/baking/anything food related (I have a pet starter). Outdoor activities including hikes, camping, etc. Comedy. Fairs. Concerts. Farmers Markets. Finding Great Bargains. Karaoke. Sexual Being, and just enjoying life til I die 🤙 18+ Welcome 😊

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2025/02/02
00:28 UTC

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19 [M4F] Egypt - looking for new friends

Am in med school and am looking for someone who I can share my life with and be able to hang out with whenever we both are free. I can do a great job as mental support and I have great English so hopefully no language barriers. If you’re someone who’s looking to improve together and have some drive hit me a text and we’ll where we can take each other to new heights in whatever interests we have

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2025/02/02
00:13 UTC

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32 [m4f] #East Coast/Online - looking for somebody to chat/accountability

heya, standard asian here, looking for a chatting friend. some hobbies of mines are: anime (I would appreciate any recommendations, getting back into it) , gaming (tft and metaphor right now), gym rat (returning from a broken bone). Looking for somebody to help me commit to my bulk/lifting routine.

If you are also looking for somebody to chat/game/accountability, reach out!

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2025/02/01
23:43 UTC

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32 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Looking to talk and go on dates. Disney, arcade, beach? Open to anything.

Hey there! Happy Lunar New Year! I'm looking for someone to chat with throughout the week and possibly meet up with if the chemistry there.

I'm 32 and from Irvine. I love to travel, snowboard, try new hobbies/explore new places, always down for food, and enjoy watching shows/movies. Down to swap pictures when we message, looking forward to chatting!

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2025/02/01
23:34 UTC

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26[M4F] #online #MA USA EST Korean Med student looking for cool chats

Hey I'm just looking for someone cool to talk to daily and see where it goes from there

Some stuff about me, I was born in Korea and moved to the US when I was 10, and I'm fluent in both languages! I could teach you Korean in little bits here and there. Video games have been a huge part of my life, although I don't play them as much anymore. I mostly play league, but sometimes hop on Tekken 8, black desert or Warframe, I'm down to try new games too.

I am not as big into anime these days but It's usually what I go for when I watching something with someone. I still need to watch arcane s2 (is that an anime?) I also need to watch squid game season 2

I have a few cool facts here and there about me.

I studied neuroscience in undergrad and want to go into psychiatry.

I was in a religious cult, I am a 2nd degree tae kwon doe black belt, I was badminton champion in middle school, I used to play 4 instruments, I have (im)perfect pitch, I can make squeaky noises by folding my ears.

And I want to learn about you too! Tell me about yourself, the more the better, and please include a picture of yourself too. First impressions matter a lot, especially when I know nothing about the person.

I have pictures of myself in my profile

Hope to hear from you!

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2025/02/01
23:26 UTC

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26 [M4F] #London - Let me taste you while you ride my thick Desi cock

Hey there, gorgeous. Feeling a little adventurous? How about we skip the small talk and dive straight into something fun, flirty and undeniably thrilling? If you’re near Vauxhall, even better. I can host or come to you, no hassle.

About me: I’m a 5’5” London guy with warm brown skin, dark eyes, and a smile that’s equal parts charming and cheeky. I keep myself in good shape, and let’s just say I’ve got the skills to back it up -my hands and tongue are very good at what they do. I’m affectionate, love to laugh, and I’m all about making sure you feel spoiled and satisfied. Whether it’s a steamy session, a 69 to keep things playful, or just some cozy cuddles after, I’m here for the vibes and the connection.

I’m DDF, clean, and respectful -your comfort and enjoyment are my top priorities. Age isn’t a big deal to me; it’s all about chemistry and mutual attraction. I’m only chatting with verified people, and I’m happy to verify myself too.

So, tell me: what’s your dirtiest secret or your wildest fantasy? Slide into my DMs and let’s see if we click. Who knows? Tonight could be the start of something seriously exciting. Let’s make it unforgettable. 😉

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2025/02/01
23:00 UTC

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18 [M4F] #NYC - virgin looking to learn with new experiences

i’m 18 and a senior in HS, 6’0 asian 145lbs skinny build. Looking for a female who wants to be somebodies first sexual experience and is patient, You should be able to host in NYC area

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2025/02/01
22:43 UTC

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26 [M4F] - Texas, dark roleplay

Wanna explore a dark roleplay and see how dirty I could make you? If that sounds like a fun time, send me a DM

State your age and ethnicity (what kind of Asian)

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2025/02/01
22:37 UTC

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26 [M4F] #California/Online - Wasian Dom into CNC, breeding, and cheating

Former sub is now married so I'm looking for something new. Looking for something strictly online (initially), intimate, and incredibly primal. I want to devour you and you devour me ;)

In addition to CNC, breeding, cheating, I'm also really into groping, impact play, spanking, making out. I'm open to trying most kinks.

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2025/02/01
22:12 UTC

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34 [M4F] SF Bay Area, Asian guy looking for a new FWB! (pic included)

If this looks familiar, I am reposting once in a while to find the right fit!


It's been a year since I was on r4r, looking to find another connection! I've had positive experiences with these subs, having found a few friends and FWBs, so why not try again?

I have to reuse my body pic from before because I now have an identifying tattoo on my chest, but that's roughly what I look like now, just with a little more ink!

I'm 5'10", East Asian, located in the South Bay and can drive and host. I'm babyfaced and laidback so I'm more wholesome, easygoing vibes instead of the strong, silent type. People I've met from r4r subs tend to say I'm "surprisingly normal", so conversations are fluid and any awkwardness or nervousness tends to go out the window quickly.

Looking for either a ONS or FWB. We all have things going on in our lives and if we hit it off once, cool. If we really hit it off and wanna do this thing for months or longer, also cool. I've had situations where we met a couple times, or situations where we're meeting up weekly or monthly for a while, and situations where we go out for dinner and movies and other stuff pretty much like a relationship with an expiration date lol. We'll see what works for us!

I'm flexible when it comes to age, younger and older have led to great and unique experiences. Also flexible with ethnicities, I usually go for Asian but again, open to anyone who's chill and if there's a physical connection.

If you're interested, tell me a bit about you and let's get to talking!

FYI: I used to post as u/sf-bae-throwaway but apparently when you post similar posts to multiple communities, you get auto-modded and need mods to manually approve your posts, so figured I'd save them the trouble. I made a post as sf-bae-throwaway to confirm this too.

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2025/02/01
21:46 UTC

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23 [M4F] Online - Looking for real conversations that turn into something else?

Hit me with anything you got, anything you’re up to - fill me in ;)

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2025/02/01
21:26 UTC

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25 [M4F] - Let's see where it goes 🤭🫠✨

25 and living life one adventure at a time. A little charm, a lot of curiosity, and just the right amount of mischief. Looking for someone who can keep up with my wit, share a laugh, and make moments unforgettable. Let’s make boring a thing of the past. 😉

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2025/02/01
20:30 UTC

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54 [M4F] older man seeking older woman

Seeking a mature aged Asian woman who would like to try a larger cock. I am 6’2” tall, 190 lbs with an 8.5” cock. I very much enjoy oral (both giving and receiving). I am Attached, in a LTR and not looking to leave that relationship. But the sex had been non-existent for several years. So i’m looking for an Attached woman who is in a similar situation or a Single woman who is understanding of my situation and is open to a sexual friend.

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2025/02/01
20:15 UTC

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23 [T4M] California but looking for anywhere!

Hmm if you have discord zzolive_20996

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2025/02/01
20:10 UTC

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25 [F4M] Anywhere - call maybe

About me: • 5' • Lean • Bored

No hard requirement, I just want to listen to you

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2025/02/01
19:46 UTC

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21 [M4F] #Online - Ever met a hung asian guy?

Hey everyone, this probably isn’t your average post. I’m a 21 year old college student looking for some new people to talk with. I’m a computer science major and recently graduated. I’m wasian, 6ft, 150lbs, so pretty skinny, so everyone is surprised when I have a big fat cock. I have length and girth. I know it’s hard to believe. I’m breaking the stereotype lol. I can prove my size with a bulge pic in the dms. I would love to find some people here who know how to truly appreciate a big cock. I wouldn’t mind talking to a woman of any race. If you like Asian guys and big cock, then HMU.

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2025/02/01
18:48 UTC

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34 [m4f] Bay Area - looking for the one!

Looking for the special one!

I play sports and lift weights. I also play video games so ask me about it!

I am a foodie! Ex competitive eater or still is maybe!

Travel with me! Or travel to me? Prefer local but open to long distance

34m / 5 10” / East Asian

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2025/02/01
18:42 UTC

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