/r/r4rasian
An r4r for both Asians looking for redditors and redditors looking for Asians.
An r4r for both Asians looking for redditors and redditors looking for Asians. For reference on what constitutes an Asian person, see this Wikipedia page.
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Hi there! Voice note of a similar post a while back for anyone who'd like to hear my voice: https://voca.ro/1kRJQLKTOS5R
Haven't posted in a minute, but feeling the urge to give this another go and thought it'd be cool to get to know someone new over a video call (or an initial voice call before switching over to video) of some sort haha :) Of course, as per my voice note, I'd be open to some more intimate/NSFW fun as well if there's a mutual interest haha.
With that said, I'd love a distraction and a break from the constant stress I tend to endure as a lowly academic weapon in med school, so if you're interested, don't be a stranger and feel free to send a message in the meantime!
P.S. I know the voice note mentions something different but my preferred age range is 19-29 currently :) If you have any other questions feel free to let me know!
I want to see pictures of you wearing elegant, sfw or nsfw IDC please help me bust a nut looking at you and fantasizing about you :)
Hi there :-),
I am 6’0” tall with an athletic build and my ethnicity is mediterranean (moroccan/turkish/persian) and 1/4 east asian. I keep a trim beard and shave my head. I am a sane, well educated (published Ph.D. researcher from a top school), law-abiding professional with an established career.
I am attracted to a woman that takes care of her body by leading an active and healthy lifestyle. I don’t expect you to be an instagram model. I just want someone who is working to be their best self, like how I am. Intelligence also attracts me. I get along well with women who consider themselves size queens.
I am looking for one partner with whom I could have a mental connection as well as a physical connection. I enjoy being the provider for my partner by planning our activities, and covering all our expenses (fine dining, lingerie, hotels, transportation, thoughtful gifts).
I am happy to take things slow, but I do hope that within one week of connecting we can meet in-person for something casual like lunch or coffee so we can judge our potential.
I live in the city but I can drive to many parts of the SF Bay Area (SF, San Jose, Oakland, Peninsula, Palo Alto, Mountain View, Santa Clara, etc.)
Hey there, Redditors! I hope this post finds you well and not buried under a mountain of memes! So, here’s the deal: I’m on a quest to find my *person*—think of me as a romantic Indiana Jones, but with fewer snakes and more Netflix.
I’m 33, living in the Central Valley of California, and yes, I’m 100% Indian (though I was born in America and my native tongue? Let’s just say it’s *under construction*). I have an average build, which is just fancy talk for “I enjoy pizza, but also like to pretend I go to the gym.”
I’ve dedicated my entire career to education and currently hold the prestigious title of Vice Principal at a K-8 school. In short, I have a life that resembles a hamster wheel—lots of running, very little freedom! 😭 On average, I’m putting in about 10 hours a day at work, but don’t worry, I’m trying to negotiate with my schedule like it’s a stubborn toddler.
I’m career-oriented and value hard work, loyalty, and the ambition to be a better version of myself—think “self-improvement” meets “Netflix and snacks.” Socially, I’m a bit of a recluse (like a rare Pokémon), but I do have a few friends and family I try to connect with when I’m not busy being an educational superhero.
Oh, and I just adopted a puppy! 🐶 I can’t wait to share his tales—spoiler alert: they mostly involve me rushing home to a wagging tail and a hopeful expression. Seriously, he acts like I’m a celebrity when I walk through the door.
Now, let’s talk hobbies. I’m a well-rounded individual who dabbles in just about everything—TV shows and anime (currently obsessed with *SWAT* and *My Hero Academia*), video games (League of Legends is my jam, but I dabble in RPGs and strategy games too), and sports like basketball, tennis, and volleyball. My singing skills? Let’s just say I do karaoke in the shower—my audience of shampoo bottles gives me rave reviews!
I also love the great outdoors, especially when it involves bowling, beach trips, swimming, and occasionally sipping a margarita like I’m on a tropical vacation (even if it’s just in my backyard).
Now, I’m on the lookout for someone loyal, hard-working, and motivated. I want someone I can talk to about *anything*—like deep existential questions or why pineapple on pizza is a crime against humanity. If you think we might vibe, shoot me a message with something that tickled your fancy in my post (and a picture would be great too!). I promise to respond with a pic as well—let’s make this a fun little exchange!
So, could you be the partner in crime I’ve been searching for? Let’s find out!
I am an attractive, financially secure, professional, single male currently located in Northern Kentucky. I like to watch movies, play with my dogs, go out to eat and travel when my schedule permits. Are you ready to go on a cruise?
I am mainly looking for a relationship with a much younger attractive female. I am interested in a woman with a slim or petite figure, someone highly sexual, and a person that is just generally fun to be around.
If you are interested please send me a private message with some current photos and tell me a little about yourself so we can get started.
CONDITIONS
Please be a woman, childfree, religion-free, and plus-sized. Thank you.
MY FEATURES
Atheist, skeptic, antinatalist, misanthrope, efilist. Introvert, deep thinker, politically left-leaning voter. Scientific and evidence-based worldview. Has some mental quirks. Not the best but not the worst in social situations. Not an animal person. Other likes: PC gaming, PC hardware, horror stories, very hot/spicy food, creative writing (fiction and non-fiction), drinking alcohol. Gainfully employed in IT career. Has own house in a suburb of Bloomington, Indiana. Drives a plug-in hybrid car. Debt-free. Disease-free. Vasectomy. Vaccinated against Covid-19, the flu and HPV. Exclusively attracted to plus-sized women. Caucasian, long blonde hair, earrings, average body size. Pictures available upon request.
Hey there! Back at it again with the posts, looking to get drained. I’m pretty backed up and I’m fucking ready to explode like a volcano, kaboom! Whether you just want to suck me off, actually fuck, or jerk me off, I’m down for whatever as long as I get to blow my load. Preferably an Asian female, age does not matter, actually I prefer older but I’m not against around my age at all.
No single men please, not into guys, sorry.
For context I’m Latino, 5’9, around 180 LBs, 7 in with more girth than length (had my dick called fat before lol), got pubic hair but willing to trim as necessary, and have a high sex drive. Just be open to me and I’ll be open to you. If you want pics just pm me.
Hey guys looking for a FWB in the Barrie or Orillia area but can travel to further. A little about myself my name is Steven I'm 5'6 about 150-160 pounds, average build. I'm southeast Asian (vietnamese). I like things like Video Games, Movies, Music, Just got out of a long term relationship so not looking for something too serious. Love to give head and satisfy a woman. Have a car but cannot host. We can meet and go on a date first if that would make things more comfortable for you. I'm DDF as well. Let me know and I can send pictures. DM if your interested.
Hello!
I am into gaming (Call of Duty, Persona, Like A Dragon/Yakuza, Fallout and many more). In addition, I love to cook and I am into cars. I do love to listen to metal-core, nu-metal and many more. I am into Gundams and Transformers.
My ideal woman: I am only attracted to Asian and Wasian women who are nerdy and introverted. I am open to at least 21 years and older too. If they live in California is more ideally, I am open for LDR.
We can add each other on Discord and do video calls and play games together! ;)
I'm just in the mood for a little vcs rn 😅
Just added a post like this a few days ago but decided to add it again in case it gets lost in the sea of other men posting the same stuff
I'm a average looking dood, average sized body. Just want a chill NSA relationship, short term or long term, either is fine with me but I prefer long term. Down to chill and maybe lay games or spend time to feel comfy with 1 another before getting to the physical part of the relationship.
I prefer a lady around my age, with average looks and average body or petite, more importantly chill and friendly.
Hi All,
We’ve had some success with our previous post and wanted to cast our net out again for a FWB for my Asian GF. Please be based out of Las Vegas or be someone who travels regularly and has their own room. Also please be someone who is tested regularly and can prove it
Must Haves:
Can host (no roommates) or frequent traveler to Vegas
Minimum 7 inches
Asian (Korean preferred) or white guys only for now.
Ok with filming encounters for our private use
Nice to Haves:
Gentle Dom that can take control
Heavy cummers
Someone that can go minimum 2-3 rounds
Interesting career/job (want something fun to talk about besides sex)
Ages between: 22-40
If you feel like you fit the description, please send us a message. Once basic screening is done, I’m happy to pass you along to my girl.
Hey everyone! I’m really passionate about incorporating dressing up into my roleplay scenarios. There’s something exciting about selecting the perfect outfit for my partner that enhances the experience.
I love to choose outfits that make them feel special and confident, whether it's playful lingerie, themed costumes, or something elegant. The anticipation builds as I describe how they’ll look and how I want to control the scene.
Dressing them up isn’t just about the clothes; it’s about the power dynamics we create together. I enjoy setting the mood and guiding them through the experience, telling them exactly how to move and respond.
If you’re interested in exploring this type of roleplay and want to discuss ideas or preferences, I’d love to chat! Let’s make it a memorable experience together.
Discreet, fit and clean white-collar professional. Looking for an open-minded female for some safe and hot fun during the weekdays. Can host or travel.
Hey there! I'm a 27 asian m based in Sydney, Australia here. Just your typical asian professional who enjoys the occassional rave / festival. Would be good to chat with and meet some liked minded redditors. I have had some fun on reddit before and chatted to some pretty cool redditors,, so keen to do it again. DM for more info!
5'10', Filipino, 213lbs, little chubby, but going to the gym consistently. (Willing to send pictures). Since mutual attraction is important, I would ask that you do the same. I live in East Elmhurst and have a car.
What am I looking for? Anyone aged 18-42. When I was 21 I dated a 26yr old, as a 26yr old dated a 20 yr old, and as a 28yr old dated a 23yr old. In the end of the day, as long as we vibe.
Currently looking for a FWB, open to more developing if the vibes are there. Please be willing to verify basically immediately. The amount of times I've wasted my time talking to numerous catfishes is unreal. Please don't respond with just "hey". I'm immediately sus with new/blank accounts.
More about me in my post history, as well as socials in my bio.
Im a bit lonely and decided to put myself out there to see if theres anyone who would want to talk and maybe get a lil spicy :)
Im 21m, 5’9, vietnamese, 140lbs slim/athletic, like to play video games and relax in between going to college.
Im quite open to most things and most people, around my ages is best 18-25 preferably and let me know your ASL and maybe some stuff about yourself!
Don’t be shy I will reply if i see ur dm!
i’ve been missing the us since i’m back and forth there 🇺🇸
i hope you pass my vibe check, around my age, single and gym rat like me, american, 5’9 or above, respects boundaries, wholesome, has substance, emotionally mature and big plus if you’re a tall brunette from the east coast 🥹
here’s me! i’m a 4’9 petite filipina from the philippines, been told i look cute, into fashion, photography and film, loves shopping, traveling and deep talks, and graduated nursing 👩⚕️
won’t reply if you didn’t intro yourself but hey or hello and dm me your pic ❤️
Are you an Asian female in Salem, Oregon that would like to have an older handsome white male as a friend or lover? If so please DM me. I’m a passionate, easy going 58 year old married male. I’m handsome, tall, dad bod, and my “endowment” is much larger than most. I’m not here to play games or deceive anyone. I just really need a sweet compassionate friend or lover.
Looking to swap pics, but down to have fun!
I was wondering if there are any Redditors in California. Pinoy here! Near Cerritos. I recently moved here and wanting to meet new friends here and get boba!!! Down to drink, get dinner or just smoke up and chill. Looking for people who wants to play billards! I think im pretty okay but i wanna learn more. Ill pay for the tables! I know a good place in Buena Park
G for anything basically. Hoping for kind souls there.
About me 5'9 Medium build Fair complexion Works in the creative field Into running Into mma Listens to k pop
I'm in search of a like-minded Dom partner to explore my submissive side, with the potential for a long-term connection if we click. I'm open to connecting with someone from anywhere, as finding the right person matters most to me. Being new and a bit shy, I prefer to start online for now.
A little about me: I'm a college student and a semi-professional gymnast. I enjoy sketching and spending time outdoors in my free time. I'm quite introverted but have a playful energy once I feel comfortable. I am sexually selfless, so I work well with someone dominant (not switch/sub) and selfish.
I'm 5'2" with a petite frame, blonde hair, and light blue eyes.
My central kink is worshiping my partner from head to toe. I find receiving my partner's body fluids (saliva, sweat, precum) to be incredibly arousing. For me, it's a deeply intimate and primal experience.
Otherwise my kinks include passionate daddy doms, roughness, affectionate degradation/sadism, rimming, musk, and worship.
I am only into fit/skinny partners as I value fitness. And yes, I like Asian men. I also prefer uncut.
My limits are giving fluids, scat, puke, public, BDSM, vore, blood, animal, facial hairs, squirting, cuckolding, tasks/commands, toys, cheating, underage, non-con, gore, snot.
If you're interested, please include your age and looks in your message. Putting in a bit of effort is greatly appreciated and makes a big difference compared to just a simple 'hi' or 'hello'.
Exactly what the post says. I’ve been to every base with lots of girls except for home base. I’m shy on the outside, but am bold and passionate when the mood turns sexual. 21M Asian American, lean and toned (plus a few extra pounds). Can host, if getting down in a college dorm is more your vibe. But also would be down to talk, show off, and do whatever you want me to do! Just your average Harry Potter ish looking guy, down for whatever :) just feeling particularly needy and wanting some company rn, feel free to reach out. I promise I don’t bite and won’t send you unsolicited nsfw content :)
I am a 35 male Chinese from Singapore. Holding a stable job and income. Here in search of new friends
My hobbies include working out, going to the movies, dining out, and chilling (by the beach, random places)
My interest: cars, fashion, beauty, the outdoors, working out, gadgets and the list continues..
The prospective friend/partner: Located in Singapore or nearby ( not a must if you are OK with being an online friend) Preferably- Body type: slim to plus-sized. Relationship status does not matter at all. (who am I to judge anyway)
Great if she is open to kink
I hope to meet more friends here and hopefully create some meaningful relationships.
I await your PM and chats :)
Hey there! I’m a 26 years old woman who loves getting creative and expressive when it comes to showing off. I’m all about confidence and good vibes, and I believe there’s a certain art to keeping things both playful and alluring. I’m a big believer that teasing is an underrated skill 😉 If you’re into someone who’s not shy about turning up the charm, I’d love to chat with you. So tell me, what’s your idea of the perfect tease? Let’s see if we’re on the same wavelength!
Hello,
I am a 45 year old single man, fairly fit, educated, a good career I am proud of, and for the most part happy with life. I’m a native New Yorker that has my own place and feel pretty well rounded. I’m looking for a real, ongoing connection in some way. I am OK starting slow and even part time as we feel things out.
I’ve had some experience taking the lead in relationships in the past, but I’m more interested and experienced with submission and reversing roles for quite a while now. I’m now posting this year in the hope of making a connection with a woman who is into role reversal and exploring taking the lead, being physically/ sexually assertive, making relationship decisions, giving direction for fun, pleasure, and companionship. I’m typically an independent person and have a full life with responsibilities, but submitting and putting my partner on top greatly appeals to me. Preference is for someone in the nyc area (open to outside the area if the connection is great).
I’m open to connecting with either someone experienced or someone who is new to this and curious. Either way I would want to kind of grow and learn together, the way a pet gets to know their owner and what she likes and expects, or the way a dominant person gets to know the limits and boundaries of their submissive, seriously and intimately. What I mean to say is that I am open to exploring this gently with a newbie or going in more deeply. Ultimately I would want to be pushed mentally and emotionally to submit myself to your pleasure and give you control of my physical self.
I’m a pretty balanced person, I like to go out with friends, explore the city, have drinks on occasion, check out museums, bands, some intellectual pursuits. I love biking, soccer, and started indoor rock climbing. I consider myself balanced and emotionally stable. I also feel like I have a good amount of skills and services to offer, I have a background in public health, but also enjoy film, philosophy, and teaching. I like to cook, and especially baking healthy treats, and enjoy communication and conversation.
I had a bad experience on reddit in the past and for that reason I prefer to start a little slow and casual, and build up and blossom as we connect more over time. This means not jumping into something full time, but feeling things out and see how that goes.
The connection is important to me, not looking to get too vulnerable with someone when trust hasn’t yet been established. You might say I’m old fashioned in that I believe in forming a connection and having it grow.
I know this is long, but I hope someone reads it and feels a connection with it. I’m open to starting a conversation and just see where it leads.
If possible, please include age, location, and a physical description in your message just to cut down on out all the spam!
thank you very much
I love having fun on bed and enjoy foreplay, licking, sex! I’m 35 years old living in Seoul, Gangnam area looking for fwb. I don’t have a large frame body or a big arm, but have toned body shape.
Not just only fwb but also maybe we can go out for grab a beer sometimes? Haha
Hello there!
I'm here visiting for a work conference at a hotel near Vanderbilt, but I'm staying at a Hilton nearby.
Yes, work conferences CAN be boring, but it's a good way to travel and a good opportunity to have some fun on the side, right? Because all work and no play makes Johnny a dull...finish the line :) I'll be here now till Sunday morning (Oct 31-Nov 3). Happy Halloween!
Anyway, I'm 5'10, muscular, HWP, 6.5" with a slight curve (the hook :P), thick, and veiny, and go to the gym 3-4 times a week. I'm conventionally attractive and work in the medical field, so 🤫
I'll probably go to the gym in the mornings but I can of other ways to get my heart rate up and start sweating 😅
Send me a message if you're interested!
I hope you had an amazing summer (:
I’m from Sonoma County but happy to travel some for the right person! I’m half white half Filipino (;
In short, I’m just looking to make friends that want to be a little bit more than that so we can fill our empty nights with something (: pretty much looking for someone to do casual stuff with so we can both have our needs fulfilled with zero strings attached!
Hopefully you’re closish so we can grab a bite to eat, maybe some boba, drive around, do something we’re both interested in, etc, and see if we vibe and then go from there! I like a lot of random things and I’m pretty easy going. If you’re on the fence about dming me you should do it anyways and we can figure it out (:
Here’s the about me since I know you don’t wanna waste your time on someone that doesn’t fit ur type.
6’, black curly hair, tan, pretty average all around. Not shredded but definitely not out of shape. It’s my 2nd year of coursework, I’m huge into cars and food, and I’ve played a lot of sports through school.
I’m happy to verify anything you want. Shoot me any question you have. Like I said above, I’m open to keeping something together online if that’s all you want to do for now.
I look forward to getting to know you (:
EVERY DAY! Nut every day. You don’t know how many days left. Not nutting does nothing for anyone. I don’t know how this started, but it’s ridiculous. Nut today, and tomorrow. It may be your last. !Unlock