/r/makingfriends
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26M I'd love to hear your ranting or venting :) Really just looking for a person to chat with. Moved to a new state and everyone here is harsh and cold. Things feel off lately. I play games too if you wanna chat over that. But really just tell me anything that's on your mind I'd love to listen. :)
Lets do something... Fun?
Hello Reddit strangers!!!!!!!!
34F Asian, looking for decent convo or friends. Long or short term chats are both okay, since everything is just temporary anyway. I just really need a distraction right now. Girl or boy it doesn't matter. Preferably around my age. Btw sometimes my response were a bit late because reddit sucks lol but I'll try to be responsive as much as I can. Take care!
39, M, UK. I just want to shoot the breeze about films, music, true crime, philosophy, videogames, art, politics, whatever really.
It’s been a really rough time and I just want to chill with some folk – all ages, races, genders, countries, whatever. You bleed red, you’re good enough for me.
(I am not looking for people who are strictly only looking to game)
Hello fellow Redditors!
I am Michael, I am 26 years old and live in Germany. I can speak English, German, and Polish. I prefer speaking English but don't mind the other two. I like English more because that is the language I grew up speaking. Sadly since I moved back a few years ago I have been struggling with making long-term friends. The timezone switch has disconnected me from my old friends but also all around growing up and having our private lives to deal with has taken a toll on who I spend time with.
A very open-minded person who loves to text, talk, or spend time together, even if it sometimes means sitting in a call in silence while we do our things. I don't mind listening or giving opinions on things. I am an open book when I get to know someone well. At the start, I may be a little shy about myself because I lack self-confidence
I don't have too many hobbies that are super interesting but I am always willing to give new things a try and would love the idea of getting into new stuff if that helps our friendship. I spend a lot of time alone on the computer so I pretty much focus on myself when it gets to my hobbies. I hope to change that as I learn new people and build new friendships and such.
Interests/Hobbies
Like I said earlier my Interests/Hobbies are more focused on things I do alone while I spend most of my time alone listening to music or gaming (not as much anymore sadly)
I spend a lot of time listening to music, I used to make beats but I took a break from that as I have been kind of struggling with liking my stuff. My music taste is very wide I try to give every genre a try before I judge it and come to a conclusion. I listen to most types of music except for country and classical music. I am always excited to share music, so I have no problem exchanging songs!
These are just some styles I listen to but like I said I am a very open book when it comes to music and sharing/learning about new genres or artists. I use a lot of Spotify so I have a lot of playlists to share or we could even maybe make our own collaborative playlist.
Gaming is one of those things that has been part of my life since I was a baby, but lately, I have been doing it less and less as the friends I used to play with have slowly started playing other games that I struggle to get into. My collection of games is too large to list here, but I am confident we can find something to play. The only games I do not play are MOBAs because I have always had trouble getting into them.
Those are just some games I can think of on top of my head, I own a lot of single-player games too so I don't mind us just sitting in a call and talking about stuff while we play our own games.
Some of my other, smaller interests
Youtube is something I watch on a daily, I used to watch a lot of gaming stuff but nowadays I tend to watch other stuff.
Iceberg videos are videos that cover a topic in a very informative way from the top of the Iceberg being more known facts about something to deeper you go the more bizarre the information gets.
Thank you for reading this post and I am sorry for the length but I got carried away… Looking forward to talking to some new people!
My Direct messages and private messages are always open so feel free to message me!
Hi, so yeah, I'm Feeling the heat from exams and want to meet some people to take my mind off the inevitable lmao so yeah here's a little background of me.
19M From Australia yes kangaroos and spiders lol, South Asian descent so Greetings my fellow south Asians, some of my hobbies are sports: cricket, baseball, baseball, cricket, soccer you name it I play it! I also like to read, politics, and astronomy and watch movies and anime BLEACH IS PEAK and yeah that's a general rundown of myself!
I consider myself an amiable, outgoing extroverted person who looks to meet new people, see the best in life, and try to live it to the fullest, so feel free to message me and Let's have some good chats! I don't however talk to toxic or shitty people so Yes that's my only red flag other than people of all cultures and all countries come and chat
Also looking to meet asians so hmu!!
Hello! I’m looking to make a new friend, the last few days have been really hard and lonely. I don’t mind what we talk about! I would just like to listen to someone and smile. Send me a DM if that sounds okay!
Hey! I’m a 28yo teacher and single mom trying to balance work, life and everything in between. As much as I love my job and my little one, i’d really like to find some people to talk with outside of my usual routine. I’m all about real conversations... whether it’s about parenting, teaching or just life’s little chaos. If ur someone who enjoys fun convos, a bit of humor and no judgment, I’d love to connect. Feel free to reach out if ur looking for a new friend to talk to or even just vent about your day!
Looking forward to hearing from you
I am looking for genuine friendship. Maybe i'll learn something from you and you'll learn something from me. Who knows?
Things I love:
-Metal, rock, house kinda music
-Anime, movies, and shitty reality tv shows (Kitchen nightmares, 90 day fiance, my 600lb life, extreme cheapskates etc.)
-For anime genre; isekai, action, or anything with magic basically
-Started reading manga & manhwa. My first manhwa was solo leveling and it was the best (oh god finally they made into an anime).
-I like sending photos at random times (it could be something i saw on the road or online)
-I also love Harry Potter, Fantastic Beasts, Star Wars (recently started and not going well so far).
-I have weird curiosities
-I have random information about many things because i love doing research about random stuff
-I have a small humanmade skull collection such as skull rings, candles, globe etc.
I hope you have similar interests or go wild and be the opposite of me (i have never tried this so it might just work)
I live in EST time zone so similar time zones would be better.
Please send a chat request with introducing yourself a little
Lately, i’ve been craving some genuine convos. life moves fast, and sometimes it’s nice to just have someone to chat with, share random thoughts, or talk through life’s little moments.
if you’re looking for a friendly, laid-back chat buddy who’s down for honest talks and sharing stories, i’m here. no pressure, no fancy stuff just real conversations and a few laughs. feel free to reach out if this sounds like something you’d enjoy.
good morning/afternoon/evening/night, whatever time you're reading this!
FYI: if you're thinking of messaging me, please read until the end. people with little to no karma (<50), or with no relevance to my original post, will probably not get a response, sorry!
with that being said...
hello, I'm triferg - I'm 27, living in the east midlands (UK) and I'm an accountant. I am also a carer for my disabled partner outside of work hours.
more about me:
•music - I am a MASSIVE hip-hop fan. old school, trap, UK drill, grime, new school, experimental, you name it. •some favourites include; Wu-Tang Clan, Freddie Gibbs, JME, Danny Brown, Flatbush Zombies, Travis Scott, Mos Def, Ye, Headie One, Fugees, RV, A Tribe Called Quest, P Money, Nate Dogg, Nas, Trapx10, Mick Jenkins, Loyle Carner, Pa Salieu, 50 Cent, JPEGMAFIA, Aesop Rock, Run The Jewels, M1llionz, Joey Bada$$, Denzel Curry, JID, Potter Payper, redveil, Slick Rick, French The Kid, Harlem Spartans, Griselda
•gaming - I primarily play on PC, however I also have a Switch and a PS5 • at the moment - I'm switching between WoW (mythic raider), Overwatch, OSRS and FFXIV
•420 - you already know what it is. I am currently weed-free due to a chest problem unfortunately. my partner is a big stoner right now due to it helping with her medical condition, and is in the process of getting a medical prescription!
•creative writing - not something I have generally done in the past, but it's something fun to do between the monotonous general routine!
looking for long-term pals who ideally live relatively near (i.e. near Northampton/Leicester/Milton Keynes in the UK) and like the look of what they read. very much looking forward to all the responses!
super love discussing music, gaming, or any other of the topics i've mentioned - so if you're thinking of messaging me & you're not too sure what to lead with, go ahead with one of those!
cheers!
Hoping to make some new friends to chat with and build some fun connections. i do have a bestie i adore (platonically, ofc), but i’m pretty sure he needs a break from my nonstop texts.
tbh, still figuring out what i’m really into, but i’m super open-minded and love exploring new things. also, big book lover here romance books are my fave!
if u wanna chat about life, swap book recs, or just share random stories, hit me up!
I’m a guy 21, I live in uk West Yorkshire. I’m looking for friends my age and nearby to meet up and go and have fun ie hikes, bowling, trying new food places etc :) I like doing activities and having fun
Hello there any single guy? If you're old enough and think that you can handle a woman like me, hit me up if you wanna have some fun cause I'm just waiting.. ❤️
Hello to whoever is reading this. My friends are busy with their lives and work and this made me realise I lack friends lol (mostly cause of my social anxiety). Tbh, I’m looking for a long-term friends, someone who won’t ghost. Someone who’s nice and friendly :)
I like anime, tv shows and YouTube. I love Pokemon. I also like to cook even tho I’m not that good but I’m trying lol. I like travelling and exploring new places. My hobbies vary a lot so we probably will find something in common. I like having fun and friendly conversations. And I think I’m a good listener. I’m very awkward so, sorry if I’m bad with replies or slow lol. I probably do want to chat with you.
I’m 21 male from England Kent so I would like to chat someone who is similar age and in the same country and I don’t mind which gender :D
Started my journey two years ago when I lived in the NW and joined a few meetups but oddly, failed to meet anyone who was actually working from a non egoic point of view. They were mainly into it from a manifestation perspective.
Now I’m in upstate NY in a small town with no meet up groups so content to stick with online interactions but definitely would love to hang out with others on the journey to swap stories of where we are and what we’re learning.
Hello! I'm a 27f from NY, wanting a cool texting buddy. A bit about me I'm an elder emo so I love all the alt bands of the 2000s, I'm an artist by profession and occasionally get time to play video games when I'm not working my ass off. Big animal person but many of us are so probably not significant. I mostly just want new people to pick their brains and keep my phone not so dry.
25 genderfluid in the USA looking for LGBTQ friendly like minded people to get to know and talk with. I play elden ring and monster hunter occasionally sandbox stuff like no man's sky and Minecraft. Also team shooters like rainbow six and overwatch. I'm open to trying new kinds of games, right now I'm going back and playing Pokemon Black. Some of my favorite single player games I've played recently are the nier games and ghost of tsushima, as well as the star wars Jedi games.
I draw and i write and I read, mostly horror and fantasy I think my life has been lacking in meaningful personal connection and I need to get out of this bubble I've put myself in.
I teach cooking classes and like to travel, I like to stay politically active and love discussing theory and praxis and what we can do to make the world a safer more equitable place. I take HEMA classes weekly and would love to get to know more people in that space, I'm mostly looking for kind people to build an online community with and play games on discord. Ive got a discord server with a few different nationalities and would love to get it back to a userbase so I can always find someone to play with/talk to, hit me up if that sounds like something you would enjoy.
I know times are hard and it would be easier if we had more people we felt we could talk to and feel safe around.
I watched The Durrells on Netflix. I watched an episode of Emily in Paris. Oh wow, how easily people make new friends.
I have been 3 years in the UK and I have no friends. Acquaintances – yes. Friends? – Not really. For context, I am an awkward person. I cringe an average three times a day with what I have said or done. At work, I want to bury my head in the sand (average of ten times per day).
So when I was new to the UK, I wanted to make some friends. I didn’t want to be marginalized into a pool of Indians. I wanted to make some English friends and understand their culture and have fun and live the dream.
I downloaded Bumble friends. I matched with a few people. I was excited at this stage. I dress up. I meet person A. She is charming. I thought, wow, I am not going to move from this area because she is going to be my lifelong friend. We had a good chat. I imagined being invited to her wedding. We scheduled next friend date. We meet up. Long talks. I thought we were already best friends. We hug and part ways. After a few days, we chat and I ask her of next meet up. She is in Paris now, will text me once she is back. Never heard from her again. Maybe she settled in Paris and started a new life, who knows.
Met person B and C together. Originally met them from a bookshop and had a chat and arranged a meet-up. Had few drinks, talked about books, danced a bit. Hugged and parted ways. Texted person B. She was in Amsterdam now and would text when she is back. Never heard from her again. Tried person C. Radio silence. Maybe she moved to another planet inaccessible to the radio waves.
People said in various social platforms – get out of your comfort zone, put yourself out there, get a hobby and meet people of similar interest – so I joined a dance class. Met person D. Long chats, hugs and specifics about next meet up. Texted her and no surprise – she was out somewhere hiking. At this point, I am not making an effort to remember which country. And as you guessed she is not back from her hiking yet to arrange our next meet up. She must have met some wild bear who adopted her as her human cub.
Hi, so yeah, I'm Feeling the heat from exams and want to meet some people to take my mind off the inevitable lmao so yeah here's a little background of me.
19M From Australia yes kangaroos and spiders lol, South Asian descent so Greetings my fellow south Asians, some of my hobbies are sports: cricket, baseball, baseball, cricket, soccer you name it I play it! I also like to read, politics, and astronomy and watch movies and anime BLEACH IS PEAK and yeah that's a general rundown of myself!
I consider myself an amiable, outgoing extroverted person who looks to meet new people, see the best in life, and try to live it to the fullest, so feel free to message me and Let's have some good chats! I don't however talk to toxic or shitty people so Yes that's my only red flag other than people of all cultures and all countries come and chat
Also looking to meet asians so hmu!!
Now that I possibly have your attention, I am a 31 year old social outcast with probably only 2 friends, I am ALWAYS looking for more readily available friends to game with, chat, share music, watch stupid silly videos, share fears and concerns, even anything really. I do lots of voice acting, and most people feel inclined to do them with me, be nary afraid to say hi, I am a casual and fun person named blankety blankerson. Those who know me know my real name.
Hey, you! Yeah, the one who’s also staring at the ceiling right now. Can’t sleep? Yeah same here. It’s one of those nights where nothing is helping, so I figured, why not find some cool people to chat with?
If you’re also struggling with insomnia and could use a distraction, we might just be on the same page. I love getting into random, deep talks that start with something simple like favorite movies and somehow spiral into debates about whether aliens really exist lol. I’m also all about dumb stories, laughs, or even just venting about whatever’s on your mind.
I’m open to talking about pretty much anything. Let’s see where the night takes us!
Hi Im looking to meet and build a friendship. I have one great friend and i love him to pieces (platonically obviously) but definitely need to make more friends. He definitely needs a break from my back to back texts!
As shocking as this is still trying to figure out what im into. But im super open minded.
I am a huge book nerd (but i prefer romance over everything).
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Hey hey, looking for new people to chat with. Bored watching TV currently and looking for new people to chat with. I enjoy anime, video games, cooking, motorcycles, movies and music. Favorite genres are EDM and indie rock but I listen to alot of genres. Favorite movie is Lord of the rings. I'm looking for someone to consistently chat with and not someone who goes ghost after one conversation.
Im 28 girl in the NY area. I like watching tv, doing diy things, shopping, makeup/ self care, exercising, walking/ dancing, listening to music, reading, coloring, getting food and drinks. I really need to make new friends and get a social life again. Please let me know if anyone has similar interests
Hi! I’m looking for some new friends who would be into regular game and movie nights or just hanging out and chatting.
I play Fortnite, Minecraft, COD, and Lethal Company. I’m always down for Jackbox, poker nights and just chatting too.
As far as movies/tv, I’m a big fan of Star Wars, Harry Potter, LOTR, and Game of Thrones. But open to horror sometimes ha.
If you’re 20+ and want long-term friendship, feel free to reach out! ✌️😁
Introverted, anxiety-fueled nerd who's into horror movies, gaming, visual kei, reading, and self-improvement.
I'm happy to learn about your interests, passions, and goals, but equally happy to just hear about what you had for breakfast :)
Hello, I hope you find yourself well :) a little about me, I’m a 29yo Male from the States. I’m on here to regain my social skills as I’ve been super busy with work the last few years and have become a little socially awkward and dry lol. I’m looking for genuine conversations with banter. I’m super shy and reserved at first but once I get to know someone I am definitely a chatter box. I like to learn new things so if you have a hobby that you’d like to share, I’m all ears. I’m into anime, if I had to pick a top 3 I’d say it would be 86, Solo Leveling, and SOA. I’m also into sports, my go to is footy. My humor is dark and whitty.