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If you've ever run into an issue because of the size of your penis, you qualify. This is the common stuff like touching the toilet water, "showing" in public, having teeth scrape, etc. Even if you haven't, no one particularly minds. Come, sit, discuss.


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Constant need for validation (vent)

I find myself constantly seeking validation, through opportunities in where I have exchanged pics with others. It doesn’t matter if it’s a man or a woman. I am addicted to the compliments. And I’m not gay, but I’ve allowed men to compliment me. I’ve even sought their attention by going on subreddit pages about coke, those men are always honey for a pic.

I don’t know why I need the validation. I know I’m large.

2 Comments
2024/11/01
00:48 UTC

0

what is the girthiest dick on record?

in inches circumference or if you dont know the most what is the largest example youre aware of Im thinking pornstars or just what is approximately the maximum in human existence that is an actual real functional dick Im curious. My guess is they max out at about 7?

15 Comments
2024/10/31
23:39 UTC

0

What’s your unpopular penis opinion?

I’ll go first: 7” isn’t hung

77 Comments
2024/10/31
20:23 UTC

0

Does having a big member make pleasing/women reach orgasm easier?

As the title suggests, would having a 7-8 inch long pp and 5.4-6.0 inch girth make a woman orgasm easier compared to a small or average dick. And I mean generally I know its case by case.

36 Comments
2024/10/31
19:18 UTC

6

Finally found the perfect condom!

I was using Magnum XL for a while and those just kept rolling up.. well I’m happy to report Durex XXL is perfect ! 6.25 girth at the base and 6 midshaft it fits like a perfect glove. Length is good too. I suggest it highly! It’s thin and doesn’t break or roll up even with really aggressive fast strokes. Happy plowing!

11 Comments
2024/10/31
18:08 UTC

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Condoms for a large mushroom head?

Im not that big at all but my mushroom head stands out like CRAZY, probably at least 0.6-7 inches more than my mid shaft girth. I need advice on which condoms are best for mushroom heads. Regular ones just flatten and straight up choke it.

3 Comments
2024/10/31
16:07 UTC

12

Nicole Aniston Fleshlight worked for my fairly thick member

Just in case anyone was wondering or had questions this sleeve is great for larger girth

10 Comments
2024/10/31
15:44 UTC

36

Fisting wake-up call

My 7.5x6 dick has always given me pride. Tbh, I don't think it's a good thing to be proud about, as my size is simply just the cards I've been dealt in life, but never the less, it made me happy to look down on my dick.

I got in my first relationship a few months ago, and my new gf is super kinky. From the getgo she could take my dick inside without any warmup, and though she said she enjoyed it, I never got her to orgasm through piv. (Not that it bothers me too much as I know the statistics of over 80% of women not being able to orgasm from piv).

Recently we tried fisting, and after three sessions, she managed to take my hand past the knuckles. She even managed to orgasm. I found it extremely hot, and I want to continue doing it if she does too.

However, her enjoying such dimensions inside her and even orgasming from it, made me lose that pride I had for my dick. It no longer posseses the position of "ultra rare ultimate sex tool/pussy stretcher" in my head, even though I know that no dick could ever manage to reach the dimensions of a fist.

I guess this was a wake-up call for me. This being my first relationship, and also the first time having sex, I was delusional about penises being the best tool for the job.

29 Comments
2024/10/31
12:01 UTC

2

Mr. size, MyOne or MySize?

So i was using my size o yl from these 3 and now I want to try some others too as mySize feels a little too thick. I used 72mm but sadly other 2 have only 69mm. Is it a bad idea to buy 2 packs of 10 of each to try them out? (packs of 3 are sold out). I saw that Mr size is thinner but will they be tight for 6.3-6.5 girth?

15 Comments
2024/10/31
08:56 UTC

7

I changed my flair DOWN

Just wanted to update that its not a shame to change your flair if you made a mistake or rather if you think you did. I measured myself a few days ago and got 8.5" instead of 9" that my gf got. I figured there is no poing in lying since I am already huge enough so its better to be realistic since there are many that lie for no reason. I wanted to be better. Thats it from me, my advice is to not lie because it doesnt matter really.

32 Comments
2024/10/31
08:38 UTC

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I am stressed

Hey guys, I am really in stressed. I lost a girl who can take me easily. Most girls have an hard time adapting my member and most don’t want to take it everyday. I have very high libido and that girl was awesome. She could take me everyday with little pain. I lost her and I feel like I can’t find anyone like her. I am 30 years old and I want a continuous relationship but bc of my member relationships are short lived. I do use lube and foreplay but still I hurt almost most women when I like. I have a reverse body dismorphia my member doesn’t allow me to have sex. Ik most ppl like being big but it doesn’t allow me to. Is there a chance that I can find a women who is capable of taking me everyday? I am really lost I miss her so much. I am scared of not finding anyone like her.

Edit: I know it looks like I have unrealistic expectations but my ex was fine with it.

36 Comments
2024/10/31
08:26 UTC

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Are you more comfortable being naked around fellow men?

Hi fellow big bros,

Since I grew up sharing a room with my brother and then lived in same-sex dorms, played sports and did my military service; I grew up extremely comfortable being naked around other guys. My question is: My smaller friends seem to find these kind of situations more embarrassing than I do, do you think being well-endowed make us more comfortable?

52 Comments
2024/10/31
08:17 UTC

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Guys who have recovered from HSDD/serotonin syndrome, did you get your original size back?

Prior to my condition I could max out at 8.5 inches easily. Now I'm lucky to be 80% hard at 7.25. I've made a lot of progress in recovery, my sensation has come back along with my semen volume and ball size. I still can't get as hard as I used to.

8 Comments
2024/10/31
07:23 UTC

0

Petition: Verification for big dicks

I think we should try to cut down on the LARPers and require (or at least encourage) verified flair via redgifs or something. Have the cutoff be whatever the literature says is 95th percentile.

59 Comments
2024/10/31
06:04 UTC

6

Measured for a second time

Hey. Guys thank you for the support yesterday after I measured for the first time. Idk if I had anxiety or was nervous to measure ……. Tonight I measured again. I was the hardest and alone for the first time since I’ve been with my wife ( I get the hardest for my wife ) and measured for a second night. Surprised by my results. 8.25 x 6.25. Might sound like I am BSijg but I’m not. Not whatever yall call a larper on here, I am just overly excited ive gotten rid of my body dysmorphia . Thanks again for the post. Took pics this time for proof for my own mind.

14 Comments
2024/10/31
05:05 UTC

7

Do we love our equipment?

I'm expecting nearly everyone would say yes because what's not to like?

80 Comments
2024/10/31
05:05 UTC

0

Post taken down

I don’t understand why you’re not able to talk about size in this group. The whole group is based solely on the size of your member. It was just weird to me. Some clarification?

6 Comments
2024/10/31
04:34 UTC

2

My penis keeps growing at 20?

I have always read that your growth stopped around 17-18, but my penis keeps growing even though I’m 20. It hasn’t really stopped and I get a growth spurt every 6 months or so.

Is this common? When did yours stop growing? I’m not complaining by the way, I’m simply intrigued

3 Comments
2024/10/30
14:31 UTC

14

My penis is curved upward- does it feel smaller than a straighter one to a woman?

My penis is 7.6 inches long, and is curved upward. If I were to measure it with a straight ruler, it would be significantly smaller.

So here’s my question : does the curve make my penis feel smaller/bigger than a straight one to a woman who is penetrated by one?

12 Comments
2024/10/31
03:42 UTC

0

Any recommendations for risque clothing for sexting and stripteases?

Does anybody have recommendations for sexy pants, shorts, and underwear to show a bulge off in? Both general recommendations and specific brands and products to buy? I'm looking especially for stuff that's indecent and inappropriate to wear in public that I can just wear at home or take some photos in.

I'm sure I could just browse /r/bulges for inspiration but I thought I'd ask around here. I'm a huge outlier in bulge size, I've gotten lots of unwanted and wanted sexual attention for it over the years, and for once instead of hiding it out of modesty and embarassment, I want to use it to make others happy and excited. Bulges don't do anything for me personally though, so I don't really understand why other people like them.

Risque things I've worn before:

Speedos

Khakis

Grey Sweatpants

Basketball shorts

Boxer Briefs

Boxers

Pouch Briefs

I especially hope to get women's opinion on this, as I find their tastes are a bit different than gay men's.

P.S. No, I will not be showing my bulge on request if DMed.

13 Comments
2024/10/30
22:50 UTC

3

Does anyone else have tip sensitivity 24/7?

So I’m uncircumcised, and one thing I’ve noticed is my tip is sensitive.. like all the time. When I shower, I have to be gentle when I clean the area because my tip is very sensitive.

Just curious if anyone else has the same type of tip lol. I’ve always thought this was normal, but apparently some people feel less than others, especially if they’re circumcised

28 Comments
2024/10/30
21:30 UTC

6

worst place ever caught?

I know this is not necessarily a big dick problem, but more of just a dick problem.

But, today my mom walked in on me jerking off. I don't have a lock on my door but she would usually knock, but she mustve thought I wasn't home. She just opened the door and I was just laying on my bed directly facing her with absolutely no coverage lol.

she just yelled "shit" and walked out the door. But its been two hours and i haven't left my room since lol. Not sure how to handle it, I am going to feel incredibly awkward.

Anyone have worse stories and/or a way to ease the awkwardness?

50 Comments
2024/10/30
21:01 UTC

73

What’s your size score?

The Score is a way to factor in both length and girth. The Score increases in proportion to your volume.

Score = Length X (Girth/2)^2

I’m really small, so thought it would be interesting to see the Scores among really big guys.

My size measurements are 4x3.5. So my Score would be:

4 X (3.5/2)^2 = 12.3

For reference, the average penis (according to CalcSD) is 5.5x4.6. So the average Score would be:

5.5 X (4.6/2)^2 = 29.1

What is your Score?

278 Comments
2024/10/30
19:23 UTC

146

My friend likes to grind on me a lil bit when I hug her. It makes me feel awkward

My best bud (F23) and I(M24) like to hang out and usually we grab some food. Every time we hang out we hug. I notice she starts to put her lap against me. And she does weird little thrust movements on my bulge. Im well endowed with 7in length 4inches girth. It really turns me on but i only see her as a friend. She'll also try dry humping me as a joke. Idk what to do 😐

71 Comments
2024/10/30
19:02 UTC

10

Girth Claim

Im 7x5 bpel, can maybe get 5.1 with good ed.

Question, my base girth is around 5.25. Are people claiming that last inch as their girth and thickest point? I find it hard to claim im 5.25 when in reality most if my member is 5.

52 Comments
2024/10/30
13:47 UTC

0

not having ‘boyfriend dick’ is throwing me off

self explanatory, i feel like it’s easier to just have consistent mindless hookups rather than be in a serious committed relationship just because of my dick, i have redeeming qualities outside of just having a big dick, i’m tall, handsome, etc. Im more than capable of keeping a relationship going outside of just good consistent sex, but somewhat enjoyable sex itself is a hassle due to size. I’m a freshman in college so “everybody” is trying new things bla bla so i’m not fr taking shit serious but ion think this would or will ever be comfortable to take outside of a hookup, i’ve tried long foreplay, letting them ease up before i go in & it still ends up leaving them hurt or sore afterwards, had to edit this cause i’m really not tryna humble brag, it’s a problem

38 Comments
2024/10/30
13:35 UTC

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To those that go commando, Is wearing underwear that uncomfortable?

When my roommate gets home from work he's started wearing thin light sweat shorts and his penis pokes out from under the leg of the shorts slightly and it's pretty noticeable.

I am supposed to have some friends over in a couple days and i'd rather not have them see that. He used to wear these same shorts with underwear and there would be no problem. If I brang it to his attention I don't want it to be awkward and I also don't want him to change into something that he's not comfortable in and he's probably the best roommate i've had in a while so I don't want to make things weird.

55 Comments
2024/10/30
09:37 UTC

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Sex toy recommendations for large girth?

I’ve bought a few pocket pussies in the past and they’ve tended to be kind of uncomfortable due to my girth (~6.5in). The most success I’ve had was with a fleshlight but I had to take it out of the plastic case and it would flop around and fling lube everywhere lol. What has worked best for you guys? I don’t know if it’s because the material is just too stiff or maybe I’m buying the cheap ones, any recommendations appreciated.

13 Comments
2024/10/30
06:59 UTC

1

True to fit condom size (6” x 4.25”)?

I’ve never been sexually active but I’ve recently been trying to improve my sexual confidence and do some ‘practice’, so to speak. I bought the dozen Trojan Pleasure Pack, but I found the width is too large for my size. I honestly don’t know where to start when it comes to looking for accurate condom size, so any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

5 Comments
2024/10/30
04:43 UTC

41

Finally measured

Finally put my body dysmorphia to rest. Finally bought a tailor tape measure. Proud to say I’m part of the 7.5 x 6 club. Have 8 inch hands so always looked small for the longest.

38 Comments
2024/10/30
02:35 UTC

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