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Discussion, memes, stories, and advice about big dicks, big dick problems, & big ball problems.

A community dedicated to those of us afflicted with a severe lack of empty space in our pants.


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Don't harass people about lying or being wrong about somebody's penis size.

BDP is a trusting and positive community. We know it can be very frustrating to seek out advice only to be met with negativity and accusations. Please keep skepticism to a minimum and do not harass others.

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Rather than come up with a new rule for each unique situation we’ve tried to capture the root behavior we find toxic and guard against that.

Be serious, be funny, be yourself.

We’re not /r/circlejerk but we’re not really a safe space either. We try not to force a culture on the subreddit.


Do I Belong?

Yes.

We don't have a size limit. Hell, you don't even have to have a penis to be here.

What qualifies as a big dick?

If you've ever run into an issue because of the size of your penis, you qualify. This is the common stuff like touching the toilet water, "showing" in public, having teeth scrape, etc. Even if you haven't, no one particularly minds. Come, sit, discuss.


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Four Seasons Naked King <64mm> or this site

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1

Manscaping and BDP

Good afternoon gents, I have a question about manscaping and the irritation it can cause. I keep my twig & berries smooth as a babies bottom, but my wife mentions the irritation it can cause to her. I have refrained from shaving the those parts of the lower shaft (especially the low sides) that seem to be causing it. I thought it was the least that I can, because she likes a few days btw intercourse due to being sore, but she loves my 6.3” girth. Have any of you experienced this, and have found a way to keep it smooth and eliminate the irritation that can occur. Thought of depilatory creams, but worried about skin burn.

0 Comments
2024/12/01
19:46 UTC

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Free condoms.....

At dr check ups I've been given lots of condoms routinely. They're always very small condoms that will never fit me. Why aren't larger condom available...

Edit: doctors have seen my size... and I'm an individual not a population

7 Comments
2024/12/01
19:29 UTC

1

Opinion on briefs with the balls pouch.

Does it keep your boy from moving around left, right, center too or just keeps your balls in place?

5 Comments
2024/12/01
19:16 UTC

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What were your experiences giving a lady her first Vaginal climax and how did the experience change the lady’s life over the long term?

Did the lady become way more interested in sex, what happened to the lady’s over the long term? Details details details!

4 Comments
2024/12/01
18:18 UTC

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Is my measurement accurate enough and what is the best condom for a 6 inch girth?

Im heading off to college soon. I want to make sure im prepared for sex. I measured my penis using a strip of paper because I didn't have a tape measure. The first thing I did was wrap the paper around my penis and marked where the paper crossed. Then I took a ruler out measured it. I ended with a 6 inch girth. I even measured multiple times to make sure and i kept ending up with 6 inches in girth. Is this way still an accurate way of measuring girth? Also what is the best condom for a 6 inch girth?

3 Comments
2024/12/01
18:16 UTC

3

The calculator can’t be right

Always figured I was fairly average at 6.6x6. Looks very normal and proportional, granted I’m 5’10 and pack a lot of muscle at 215lbs. Calculator says it’s 2.2x average. I refuse to believe this. I’ve had some comments on my size for sure but mostly from gf’s who I just figured were buttering me up. Is the data outdated maybe? Maybe I’ve seen too much porn.

7 Comments
2024/12/01
17:50 UTC

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Does your guys crotch area in pants get worn out?

For me with sweatpants the crotcha rea gets visible more worn out than the rest of the pants, and eventually it tears a hole in it and ill have to either get new ones or shittily patch it up.

No idea if its due to my size or just something else entirely that im doing wrong lol.

My grey sweatpants are practically see through around my crotch while my white sweatpants have ripped and gotten a small hole

31 Comments
2024/12/01
17:18 UTC

0

bulge at gym

Hey guys, I’m wondering if anyone else has similar experiences. I am fairly young and a late bloomer, so my dick shot up in size. First off, whenever I am in the locker room, almost every guy looks at my junk while I am changing. I know this is probably just instinctive, but some of them either cough very loudly and keep to themselves after or straight up walk out. There is the occasional brother who appreciates and converses with me but most seem uncomfortable and nervous. Now when I am actually in the main area, I get a lot of conflicting stares. I’m not bothered by this because I usually keep to myself. I have also started to notice women staring at me and watching me closely. I don’t mind this, I simply just never look in their direction (I also have a gf so I’m not looking for anyone else). A lot of women also talk about me (older women) and some even bend over in front of me. Like I said before, this is not a concern I have, I just simply keep to myself. I will also get the occasional compliments from old buddys or guys like “lookin big man!” or “you’re gettin jacked dude!”. Which is strange because I used to be a lot bigger (muscle wise) a while ago. Just asking for guys who go through the same shit and understand. (will be actively updating)

6 Comments
2024/12/01
17:02 UTC

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Flaccid Girth

For a few reasons, I decided to measure my flaccid length and girth, looking to establish a baseline. My flaccid girth was 5.625", taken just up from my base (but not at my base itself, lest any scrotal skin foul up the reading). According to various charts, that's a very big flaccid girth number, but just wondering if others here (given the sub's theme) are roughly the same and would like to add context, details, stories, etc. I have gotten comments about my flaccid size before, but almost always about my length. Flaccid girth is seemingly rarely mentioned.

29 Comments
2024/12/01
15:47 UTC

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What diameter for masturbators/fleshlights?

Worried about if for example 3 cm / 1.18 inch in diameter is enough. Sure the toy material is stretchable but I want it to be easy usable and not a struggle. I hate the feeling when I have to shove it in and my curved dick bends further like it’s gonna fall off eww

Not sure if it’s that thick but at max my penis has 14,5 cm circumference (not length!) and divided by Pi that would be 4,61 cm thickness (5,7 inch / 1,81 inch)*

Please share me your experience with such toys 🎃🩷

6 Comments
2024/12/01
13:12 UTC

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Wearing scrubs

It’s probably a pretty niche problem, but anybody else struggling with scrubs (healthcare uniforms)? They are kind of like pjs, it’s okay when I am standing and wearing underwear, but sitting down it shows my dick outline a lot. Don’t really think there’s solution, just want to hear your opinion.

14 Comments
2024/12/01
10:37 UTC

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Pocket Pussy problems

My gf recently bought me my third pocket pussy & I was told this one was a little bit deeper. However, I ended up tearing through the silicone & now it has a big hole in it.

I was wondering if any of yall have a similar issue and if u have some recommendations for toys that have more depth to them.

for reference i’m about 8 inches.

24 Comments
2024/12/01
08:25 UTC

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Weird question but hey help a man out

I know im kinda in between and not sure if i belong here or not, my size approximately 6" x 5.5" on a good day, which makes my dick appears shorter (if tht make any sense) since 6" is somewhat average but the girth is what making it looks shorter and smaller due to how wide it is. Please help a brother out by saying this is just my pov and not others (its just kn my head some would say) oh ya i should probably mentioned tht im asian and my height is around 5,5" if that matters

*sorry for the bad English! 8==D

8 Comments
2024/12/01
06:02 UTC

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penis size too small for my age?

I know I probably shouldn’t be here but, I am sixteen (male) and I was wondering if my penis size is good enough for my age, I am 6” length and 5” girth.

11 Comments
2024/12/01
05:26 UTC

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Troubles with anal

Hey, I’m gay and decently sized 7.5 x 6 (see profile). I have had trouble the last couple of times I’ve had a hookup with a guy fitting when trying to do anal. It’s been uncomfortable, they just couldn’t take me that well or complained of some pain. I know lube is helpful, but does anyone have any recommendations for better sex positions or foreplay methods for bigger guys with an upwards curve?

6 Comments
2024/12/01
04:31 UTC

0

Insecure about my size

Insecure about my size

Idk if this is the right place for me to be asking or posting about this, but I am a very insecure person, about my size and just in general too. I'm 22 straight, and a virgin, no action whatsoever, so maybe that's why. When I post, it's usually when i feel insecure, and even then, my posts don't always get a lot of attention, so that makes me feel bad also. Another reason I feel I'm insecure is because I see girls loving and thirsting over dudes on here who are like 9" and it makes me think I'm small. No I don't watch porn with dudes or couples in it, I like solo female ones better.

My question to you all is, am I a good size? I'm 7" x 4.5" or 5" maybe, I forgot. Please be honest, don't just say I'm a good size just because I'm insecure lol.

Thanks

37 Comments
2024/12/01
04:24 UTC

7

Proportions be wilding out here

I’m 8x6 and 6’1 tall, yet every time I look down I swear my penis shrinks when it’s not next to a ruler. I get self conscious because it really doesn’t look all that big on me, yet supposedly it’s “huge”

Side note: these camera angles do wonders for porn stars

30 Comments
2024/12/01
04:01 UTC

6

I'm still complexed

I'm 7x5.25 but since I am 6'2 and a grower, I feel really uncomfortable because it doesnt look big at all. How to get rid of that ? I feel like loads of people are at least like me or above.

12 Comments
2024/12/01
03:13 UTC

15

A BDP that turned into a BDPositive

Most of the BDPs I’ve had with a 7x6, like many others, can be solved with more foreplay. Thanks to much of the advice I’ve seen on here (and with practice) I’ve become an oral master. It feels great to fulfill a woman almost completely before even having my dick get anywhere close to where it’s meant to go. Long story short, turn your problem into a positive and learn to love the art of eating. Be a giver.

10 Comments
2024/11/30
22:48 UTC

2

I’m having trouble with my exercises(I promise this is dick related)

So I’m trying to learn the splits and for the most part it’s fine it’s just been slow. I want to up the intensity of my stretching but whenever I do, I run into sort of a weird problem that I think you guys can help me with

I sit on my balls. And yes it really really hurts

So I know vague information about dance belts, compression shorts, and maybe even using a cup, but what I want to know is if anyone has experience specifically with splits training, and if they could reccomend which item would be best for protecting my balls from injury while attempting splits.

I know that you’re not supposed to sit directly on your balls and I’m aware thats not the best form but the surrounding muscles and joints are just too weak right now so I’m not loose enough to hit perfect form yet. I need something that can help me transition from my current level safely, so that, and I can’t stress this enough, I can STOP sitting on my balls accidentally

Any help will be super appreciated

12 Comments
2024/11/30
22:47 UTC

4

Are there any condoms that narrow toward the top?

I’m 6 around at the base but about 5 at the tip. My cock was choked last night and it went numb. I was using 53 mm condoms.

6 Comments
2024/11/30
21:34 UTC

3

Formula for Condom Size

I can't find it anymore but someone on this sub commented a formula for and girth in inches and you multiply it by some arbitrary number and it gives you the best mm size for a condom

In the same comment they had a same formula for girth in cm multiplied by a different arbitrary number to get mm size for condoms

Does anyone have the formula?

And yes I know calcSD exists

Edit:

I looked in my calculator history I know one formula is

Girth inches x 11.5 = mm size

10 Comments
2024/11/30
20:51 UTC

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Size queens in this subreddit

How did you find your partner and was size one of the early things you asked about? My last relationship was with someone who was below average size and as much as i loved him it just never really did it for me. How do you find the combination of a good partner + well endowed?

Tia

75 Comments
2024/11/30
20:43 UTC

5

Painful sex for her

So, my dick is 16cm (should be 6.3 inches) and I never had problems with it. Like it's a good size, but never considered it too big.

Until recently, because I had sex with a girl twice and both times she felt pain the following days. I gathered things that could help, maybe you can help me adding something else to the list?

So far I read:

- practice oral sex (possibly with an orgasm) before sex, to relax her

- possibly do positions like cowgirl, reverse cowgirl and spooning (don't know how to call this position)

- use lube

- very gentle sex before and after the period, because apparently it's when the cervix drops or something like this

Now, if we had delicate sex it could probably solve the issue. The problem is that we are both big fans of pound town. Could something like a cock ring help? Or some kind of tool to apply to the dick to make it shorter, if they exist?

5 Comments
2024/11/30
19:38 UTC

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How to elevate sex life?

What’s up fellas. I’m still pretty new to sex, just lost my virginity this year to my current GF. Now, we have a lot of sex, but we don’t do a whole lot. Every time we have sex, it’s pretty much the same story.

My GF has been with a few guys before, but never anyone as big as me, so she doesn’t quite know how to fully handle me. Now, i have no issues warming her up. I love giving her head, it’s my favorite part of sex. She always orgasms before we even start. So that’s not the problem. But anyway, once we do start, i just feel so limited. With what we can do, the sex is great. But i know there could be more. Is there a secret to sex with a big dick or does it just take time?

Just for some extra insight, im limited to 2 positions. Missionary and doggy. And we barely do doggy because it’s painful for her half the time. And the missionary can’t really be with her legs up because even slightest of a push against her legs becomes painful. She also hates riding because it’s too much of a struggle. I’m not even overly massive, especially compared to some of y’all. I’m at 6.75” x 5.5”, so respectable size but not a horse cock.

I guess i’m just looking for tips or insight. I love my GF and the sex is still great especially since we have a good bond. I just don’t want things to become stale in the bedroom, you know?

20 Comments
2024/11/30
19:29 UTC

4

Magnum Bareskin vs Raw

I’ve been using Bareskin for the past few years, I’m thinking about making the switch to Raw, but I’m worried about it breaking.

3 Comments
2024/11/30
19:24 UTC

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Receiving oral for 6" girth and above

Just received the absolute worst blowjob of my life a few hours ago. Straight teeth for a good 80 seconds maybe, before she started feeling jaw sprain and I asked her to stop.

The sad thing is that this is only slightly worse than the average blowjob in my experience. It basically entirely comes down to my girth. I've literally made palm circles of approximately equal girth to myself and tried to see if it would fit in my own mouth (which it will not without scraping teeth).

Out of curiosity, does anyone above this girth actually get blowjobs? If so, how???

76 Comments
2024/11/30
18:20 UTC

3

Perfect D but can’t take it?

So I’m 21 years old black male currently with this Brazilian girl and she say I have the perfect size but barley can take it. My D is 7.5 length and 6.3 girth and is not a problem? Or is it really perfect size cause she said she had longer I don’t know bro. What is perfect size?

27 Comments
2024/11/30
16:38 UTC

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Having a hard time going balls deep

As the title says, my boyfriend has trouble taking me balls deep. I have gone balls deep with other men and I want to feel it again. Any tips or tricks? We have tried foreplay and I usually tend to start very slow.

Thanks in advance for the help :)

9 Comments
2024/11/30
14:27 UTC

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Recovery after sex for woman

Is there a way to make recovery after sex for my girlfriend faster or easier everytime we fuck she's like dying after for days and aside from the ego boost she's in pain and we want to go again but can't. Is there something I can do during sex I've tried lots of lube and going slowly but that doesn't work.

13 Comments
2024/11/30
13:52 UTC

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