When lying in bed, my monstrous cock is so powerful and demanding of space that it pushes up the bedsheets and I find myself looking at a replica of Denali. My god, my dick. It's fucking huge. Jesus the absolute size of the fucking thing. The tremendousness of it. My partner joked that climbing Mt. Everest is probably easier than handling my colossal, mountainous dick. The joke was made as a coping mechanism for how intimidating the sight was to behold. Literally tens of thousands of dwarves could make a civilization around the enormity that is my cock.

Takes me forever to get comfortable cuz it’s always twisting up.

(Laying on my back is so uncomfortable for me, idfk why)

Also I didn’t know which flair to choose so I just picked meta

I’ve been having trouble when I get lucky. I’ve been using the Durex Extra Sensitive because I like being closer. They fit fine going on just a little snug getting on with maybe 1/4 of an inch being exposed at the base. When it comes time to take it off, it’s really difficult. Every time the base of the condom gets stuck around my head or I have to pull and it shoots off like a rubber band and gets cum everywhere. I’ve had to shove my nail or finger slightly on the inside to create less of a mess but it still kind of happens…Before I embarrass myself and buy a bigger size that doesn’t fit correctly… based on the information am I just and idiot and don’t know how to take it off or is it to small?

Size is 7.25x5 for reference

So basically I posted a video of me posing in my underwear to a fitness subreddit. If you aren't a regular in online fitness spaces. Videos of people posing in their underwear are EXTREMELY common because, you know, gotta show your physique but not your genitals. If you scroll through fitness youtube or reddit or TikTok or Instagram. You will see a million basically identical videos of people posing in their underwear. They arent sexual or ment to turn anyone on. Its litterally just to show the physique so you can get feedback. There are a million other identical videos on the sub I posted to.

So anyway, someone comments "hahahahahaha" and I'm like "ok? Glad making fun of me makes you feel less insecure 👍". And then someone else replies to that saying and i quote: "pretty sure it's because of your extremely visible semi hard dong bouncing around throughout lol".

And i reply back saying:

"Do you not see how this is just body shaming me for something I can't control? I can't help the size of my anatomy. I kept it covered up, I marked the post NSFW, what more do you want from me? People have genitals, I can't remove mine in order to pose without a bulge. Theres a million other videos of people posing in their underwear in this sub and across the internet. Are you saying all of them are innopropriate or is it only me for something completely out of my control?

Like, say a woman had very large breast's, she can't help that or control that. And she just wanted to post a video of her gym progress. But you said "pretty sure it's because of your extremely visible huge tits bouncing around in that sports bra throughout". Do you not see how that's an extremely inappropriate comment?

I'm not the one innopropriately sexualizing other people's bodies here. In order to show my physique i have to strip down. Due to my anatomy you can see a bulge through my underwear. Sorry I'm a human with human anatomy? What exactly do you think i should have done differently? Not have a penis?"

And dude I got fucking dog piled even though i was objectivly correct. People called me unhinged. Tons of downvotes. Lots more body shaming. I got shamed for getting upset at their disgusting behavior, etc etc.

The entire community was effectivly saying "you are not allowed to post the same thing as everyone else because of anatomy that you cannot control that I have decided to sexualize without your consent. It is perfectly acceptable for us to body shame you because you are a man with a large penis, and if you object you are a bad person".

Like seriously dude WTF. If they did the exact same thing to a very large breasted woman everyone would agree it's deplorable. But for some reason with me it's not only fine. But I'm bad for objecting?

I'm not gonna name the community but I'm profoundly disappointed in them fr.

Anyone commute by bike? I enjoy the ride but find it very uncomfortable, are there better seats you can get? Or maybe just shorts? Though I find the shorts to be very showy which I am not looking for

Do women generally compliment a guys equipment? For most my life I figured women told all guys they had great dicks or were big as just like sexy bedroom talk.

My partner says that’s not the case. If you are getting told you are “big” or anything size related, unprompted then it is true. Women will not make many comments to guys who are more average sized because they can take it the wrong way and it can cause an awkward conversation.

What has everyone’s else’s experience been?

At my local gym I see about a 50/50 split between men that get completely naked in the changing room and the other 50% who wear a towel or go into a cubicle to get changed?

In the sauna however which is inside the changing room, 99% of people wear shorts or a towel while in there. I have only ever seen one guy sit in there completely naked and that received a few comments from the people getting changed outside who could see him through the glass window.

What reasons do you have for either not wanting to be naked in front of others in the changing room or being comfortable to be naked in front of others?

Personally, I always get changed in a cubicle, especially after having a shower, I don't feel comfortable to dry myself off infront of others, wouldn't want them to see me dry off my butt crack or balls. That just seems weird doing that in front of other people.

Also the fact I'm somewhat of a public figure, I wouldn't want someone to recognise me and see me naked.

Sucks when wife got over excited the past 2 days in a row but is too sore now. We usually have to have a day in between even after being together 10 years. It's gotten way better than it was when we first got together but still gets sore

To preface I am a guy with a small dick. So as you can imagine the mental toll of not having a big dick can be crippling.

Aside from the benifit of giving better penetrative pleasure to women, one aspect often overlooked is mental comfort of knowing you are big.

Its like how rich people dont have to worry about next months rent. A guy with a big dick will never have to worry about not being enough. Guys with small dicks like me are often in a state of doubt. We always wonder if we really are giving a great experience. We know that its only natural for women to wonder what a bigger dick feels like and so not being able to provide that experience is demoralizing.

There is no peace of mind when having a small dick. From what I can tell guys with big dick are happier, more confident. You know how difficult it is to be happy and confident when objectively what you have is inferior.

I am not saying that guys with big dicks dont have problems with it. I am just putting this into perspective.

The bottom line is that a having a big dick will always be preferable. And with that comes the comfort or peace of mind.

I'm not the biggest guy in this sub, I know that. But at 8x6.5, I've had my problems. The biggest one is blowjobs, as the title says. I've been with a few women and only one had been able to take all of me. That woman was a fwb and not a serious relationship. I met my wife in the midst of this fwb thing and promptly broke it off with the person who gave the best head of my life. Does anyone have any tips for the giver of head to go deeper?

I feel like my enormous penis has desensitised me to the various wonders of the world. I went to the great wall of China. Didn't even feel a thing. Knowing that in my pants there's just this huge swinging cock that could take down this wall faster than Regan can utter the words "Korbachev...". Christ the redeemer? I barely even noticed. The guy is tiny. Colossus of Rhodes? More like Colossus of Choads. Leaning tower of Piza hasn't got shit on me. Mines got better girth and leans to the side. I could fill the Black Hole of Calcutta and she'd be calling me up weeks afterwards. Anyone can you tell me how a guy with a giant wang can feel a single thing while travelling and opening up my mind to the greatness of the world?

Anyone else have this issue. In the mirror it doesn’t look big. I’m 7.5x5. I’m 5-11 and 190 muscular. Like I have my 2 hands and my head and it just doesn’t look big. Kind of putting me down. It’s like deceptive, then when I have sex doggy is a problem sometimes.

I don't care how boastful or braggy this sounds but; I am rejected getting head alot because my dick is a bit too big to comfortably suck. I have never ever had a girl get their lips around the base of my cock while I'm hard and it sucks. I have such envy for those men in porn that can find such "enthusiastic" women that can truly suck cock so well. I yearn for a good deepthroat and I'm worried I'll never be lucky enough to find someone. Every single girl I've been with can't suck me without gagging on the tip or they don't enjoy sucking dick at all.

What underwear (brands) do you recommend for someone with above average sized package.

I’ve just stared having sex with my new girlfriend and although I’m only 7 inchs, the girth of my penis keeps causing her to tear and bleed we tried lube and it still didn’t help. Anyone know how to solve this?

I believe the women & my brothers here who actually have the BD part of the BDP acronym are looking for solutions to prevent them. I found a pretty good way for BDPs in bed.

I went from June to new years (really half of January too cause that’s when I literally broke it but mentally it was new years) celibate. When it ended I wanted to slut around some. I’ve had blue balls or relationships affected by my dick size too many times not to try ways to prevent it. I’m the past 3ish months I slept with 4 women and it would’ve been double if I didn’t say something like this to them.

“I need to ask you something to help both of us not waste our time. No this isn’t some weird attempt to brag. I genuinely have a big dick and it’s caused problems romantically in the past so can you please tell me if that can or will be an issue? I promise if it is then I will leave you be and if not if you have any questions let em fly!”

No this isn’t some reverse psychology to get laid and I imagine it probably won’t work well if you can’t articulate yourself well. I think it’s worth saying I’ve gotten negative ones more than once but it doesn’t stick. When I explain that I said it because I don’t wanna be treated like an experiment or fetishized any more than I already am or God forbid accidentally hurt them it’s at least taken seriously.

Please don’t be a creep and try this for any reason other than to try to help everyone.

Basically, we've been having sex for a while now but every time we have sex it hurts for her not because she's not wet enough or there's not enough lubricant but because she's telling me that my dick hits her "stomach"(?). I'm not sure what she's pertaining to but when I fuck her I can feel a wall sometimes. Do you guys have any suggestions on how to make sex enjoyable for the both of us?

I feel like gagging is an instant boner turn off for me. What do you guys think about when someone gags your big dick and couldn’t take it all the way in?

My dick is 7.5x5.5 at 5'4 so not crazy huge. But my balls are like way too big, large plum sized and hang low. It causes many issues lol. You guys got big balls as well?

Does anyone else have a bend to a praise kink? You know that jaw dropping reaction I’m talking about ;) - only makes me bigger.

So they're "harder" on their stomachs in those positions because gravity pushing the blood flow and all. So missionary, prone bone, doggy style, etc create harder erections?

Not a lot to say here but I was glad my BDP was able to be solved for the first time. Previous partners could have sex but needed to stop or wouldn’t last very long. Always been a bit insecure about it and I’m not someone who is very secure in my personality to find many partners. But for first time I had sex that actually could handle me and not need a break. And didn’t even think I could last that long before. Was a major confidence boost for me in a long while. Sadly the fun had to end but I was so glad I found someone like her. Hopefully I’ll be able to find someone like that again soon!

I had a lot of insecurity around sex when Up until about 3 years ago. I use to fixate on how big my dick was and how big it looked to woman I would sleep. I use to egg them on to talk about how big it was or straight up say look how big I am. I remember feeling a need for them to say it but I would rationalize it as a fetish.

I found making my sexual embarrassments into funny stories to tell has helped me get through My insecurities.

Now I never feel the need to try and impress a girl with sex and my D-size.

Just looking back on it proud of were I am today mentally. 🥲

I know this is a common question and might get flagged by mods but hear me out. I’m 7 inch long x 6.5 thick (circumference) but the middle of my shaft is where it’s most thick, so condoms tend to just fit weirdly and be snug but at the very tip not fit properly. I heard snug fitting condoms would work, and I’m using Magnum condoms which seem to fit fine besides that issue , anyone who’s experienced something similar what did you do to fix that issue?

I wear large but the 🍆 area is tight, then I go a size up, and they are falling off my body 🤦🏾‍♂️. Anyone else got this issue, and hopefully a solution?

I find it strange to ask. Whenever I mention the size of my penis, especially with men, they say that it could tear someone apart, which has never happened. Has it happened to you? Is it common?

Don’t get me wrong I’m more than happy with what I’ve got, but every now and then I catch myself imagining how much easier situations would be if I weren’t so… much. Embarrassing bulges at school? Not if it was smaller. Touching the toilet water at a public restroom and assuming I just got aids? Not if I had an inch or two less. Trying to wear tight jeans AND sit at the same time? Nope. And as much as it does come in handy with the girls, I’ve always gotta have a gallon of lube and 20 mins to ease in. I guess I’m probably not the first guy to wish it could just be whatever size was convenient at the moment, but I do wish I could know what a bj feels like minus the teeth marks.

Throwaway bacause my main account contains personal information. So I (24f) seeing this guy (26m) for over a year now, we started out as fwb but over the past year we've grown quite close and emotionally attached to each other and the relationship is now heading towards a official one.

Now the problem is this guy has quite an exceptional dick both in terms of length and girth, and each time we have sex my vagina gets bruised and swelling which takes 3-4 days to heal and while doing it in certain position his dick goes so deep that I feel like I'll pass out of sudden pain.

Apart from that we are very much compatible both in and out of bed and this guy is literally a sweetheart he always cares about me, looks out for my pleasure and is very careful and attentive. I won't give him up.

My concern is as of now we are having sex like twice a month but if we get official then the sex will be more frequent and I'm not sure if I'll be able to take it. Is there any way to continue our sex life normally whithout me getting the awful after effects?

So I love, love, LOVE anal sex and really I just love assplay in general. But one thing that bothers me is that when I'm penetrating a woman's anus my dick gets kind of numb. I want to feel her ass squeezing my cock just as intensely as she feels me, but the numbness detracts from the physicality of the act in a way that vaginal sex doesn't. Even so, I am incredibly turned on just knowing that she wants me inside her asshole and I have a great time anyway. It just takes more work to bust.

I am good at getting women ready to be penetrated -- which is not easy at 8 inches plus sizeable girth -- and they've always loved taking it in the ass. It's a very intimate thing for both of us but I feel it could be more intimate if I could feel a more intense sensation in my dick. What can I do to fix this and have really incredible anal sex?

Anyone else gone through this? I keep getting worked up every night micro managing how I’m lying down. Idk if my concern is misplaced or not, but they’re extremely low when I’m trying to sleep and worry it could happen with one wrong move. Is there any preventative measures I can take and is there any way to stop fixating over it?