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36 [M4F] #NYC/ Anywhere - Looking for a genuine relationship

Please be single. After a couple of messages I'd like to swap face pics. It's nice to put a face to the woman I'm chatting with. I’m looking for a friend or more and open to meeting up in the future. I'd rather get to know you first before diving head first (no pun intended) into our kinks. Here's a bit about me:

-Single

-Loves to travel

-Open to new things

-Gamer (mostly video games but board games are cool too!)

-Foodie

-Enjoy watching shows on Disney+/Netflix/ Hulu especially Mandalorian and The Last of Us!

-Also likes cuddles and hanging out with special ladies! Physical details: 6’4" Short black hair, glasses, slender, White/Asian

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2024/10/30
00:24 UTC

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26 [F4M] #Online im dumb but cute

Hi

To be honest I am not really into BDSM, but I consider myself as a sub and I like dom men.

I would consider myself as a pretty introvert and shy person, but when I’m comfortable I yap non stop and way too much. I go to the gym, I have a pretty hot body & personality, I work and I am very career oriented and would prefer someone who I have this in common with. I’m a funny person when I get comfortable with someone.

Ideally, I’m looking for someone close to me and with the same time zone (east) as me. I’m more attracted to muscular guys and I’m also so weak for smart / funny / confident men. Also, if you could be mega rich that would be an extra (not a deal breaker if you are not I guess)… my standards are high, but it’s an advantage of being an XX chromosomes woman online.

Anyways, if you think we could match, hmu and let’s voice chat.

Btw I do not like dogs.

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2024/10/30
00:23 UTC

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48 [FM4F] #Cleveland- or travel. Nice couple that wants to see you brought to tears. Bonus- now with more meanness.

The worst thing writing a new post is adhering to all the ever changing rules, if you have posted you’ll know my pain. (conversely if you reply and we like you enough to want to hurt you then you’ll also know my pain, double win. )

The issue is, every page has different rules and restrictions; “you mentioned bananas, we have removed the post” says a bot. It’s a vocabulary exercise trying to find words to express the sentiment while avoiding flagged words.

I told my husband let’s find woman who really wants to be fucked up, dominated, slapped, abused, forced, degraded to less than human and fisted, then fixed and brought back to good, then repeat. What can I say everyone has their hobbies, our are just a bit unorthodox.

We know that absolutely unrestricted is not a real thing, even we have some albeit not many, if we get to talking and you ask about some of the things we’ve had to say ‘no’ regarding we’ll fill you in. There are definitely limits, many of which we didn’t even know to consider. That said, were open to breaking you in most ways.

I want choking, slapping, fisting (my husband has never been able to fit his hand in a woman, so that would be so nice to see, it would make me happy, then I’d slap you and facefuck you for being a whore that can take his fist. If you wanted reasonable, you’re in the wrong place.) So, lots of verbal degradation and impact, overall, just roughly taking you.

We have done DP’s before and I love it, so though not mandatory, it’s a big want and if you can’t/wont I will have to abuse you harder for invoking my ire. We as couple really like the buildup, so a bit of roleplay is good, you’re renting a room from us, meeting friends of friends for dinner, the tension builds, a pickup at a preordained location. Something to meet you and see what kind of girl you are, we can then figure out the best ways to destroy you later than evening.

So, if being hatefucked and used by a couple is on your bucket list, lets chat. We only are interested in woman, so if you’re a man and reply expect some degradation but no satisfaction.

We need setup, so everyone is on the same page, but after that were open to scenarios; you are about to rent a room, staying with someone a friend knew, Abduction (time and local permitting), have something else in mind, run it past us.

Safety- if you say something stupid like “I’ll do anything” either you really are either kinkier than we are (unlikely) or lying (much more probable). Have some limits, they need to be discussed so everyone can know what constitutes a good time, or the bad time you’ve been looking for. I hate when women don’t want to or dance around it, ladies, it’s annoying enough when it’s an indecision about a restaurant but it’s dangerous when its Bondage.

Her (hopefully you)- the one we’re seeking a woman between 25-55 we can bend on this a bit, any race, is fine, it would be sexy, if she is you and you are goth that would be great, but if you’re not that’s not an issue.

Type we prefer- thin or athletic, average, a few extra pounds, not BBW (it’s cool you can be one, but it just doesn’t do it for me sexually), any height, I don’t mind taller, we do like clean, good breath is not optional, hygienic is a must, shaven or very little body hair, we will reciprocate on all of these things, we’re fair that way. No cigarette smokers, or crack pipes or old timey pipes and billows of sweet tobacco, it’s cool imagery but not fun for this scenario.

Smart, intelligence is sexy, if you don’t think so, there’s a reason and nobody wants to break it to you as to why it is, needless to say you won’t be a good match, I don’t want to tell you why either….

there are success stories pinned on our profile if relaxing reads of extreme bdsm and waterboarding are your kind of fun.

Off limits- we thought ourselves on the extreme end of kink but reddit does teach some lessons one of those is there are definitely more extreme cases so we definitely do have some no's.

Here are a few by name:

Triceratops three way- no way far too dangerous

Macha madness matchstick- again too dangerous Macha powder can ignite

The Serbian pressure cooker- that's just gross no.

The reverse rotary umbrella- no way, i mean where would you even find a dial up phone modem?

The cosmic milkshake- sorry I don't like heights.

The Michigan militia- hard pass, the sounds will definitely alert the neighborhood.

FAQ Below: We get a lot of questions that would seem to be answered by context and our post but if you are still confused, we have created this FAQ.

Did you ever hear someone say there is no such thing as a dumb question? Well, they were wrong. I’ll demonstrate: ”M29, 8 inches, I can’t host, you interested?”

See there it is, so far as we’re concerned, a really dumb question. Q-What if I am a single guy? A- We are not interested in single guys, at all.

Q- What if I am a submissive, really great, attractive single guy? A- See the previous answer.

Q- We are a couple, are you interested? A- Yes or maybe, but you'd have to be interesting.

Q- Will you record you two abusing my wife/girlfriend or can I watch? A- Yes, we could make that work, are you going to want to be there? That doesn't sound as good, the idea of a dude with a raging hard on in the shadowy corner of the room as we fuck his girl up isn’t ideal.

Q- I don’t want to have a safeword, do I need to have one? A- Yes, it’s kinda like having an airbag, you hope you don’t need it but best to have one.

Q- Will you breed me? A- No, have you experienced raising kids? They are really expensive and time-consuming nothing puts an end to kinky fun like having children.

Q- I have never been with a man will you take my virginity? A- No, this seems crazy to us but it’s been asked at least four times. We really don’t think your first experience with a man should be with someone you only vaguely know and during a heavy BDSM session.

Q- Is it okay if I don’t want to be with both of you? Can I just have sex with one of you? A.- No, we don’t play alone. We’re married and this is fun for us to do together, we enjoy it and we won't play separately. This is a bonding experience for us, were doing something fun together.

Q- Do I have to watch cheesy Christmas movies, murder dramas or ghost shows? A.- Yes, if they are on you will watch them, even if we have to tie you to the bed and force you.

Q- I need to keep this on the down-low, because I’m married or in a relationship, is that okay? A.- No, we respect relationships and if you have one either fix it or leave it, but if someone is devoted to you, then you owe them that devotion in return.

Q- Hey I am a guy, I just wanted to see if you would consider it now? A.- No we still won’t, don’t bother.

Q.- Do I have to eat Icecream or pizza? A.- no we can work around that.

Q- I identify as a woman but I have a penis, is that okay? A.- not for our purposes here.

Q- I am interested but scared you will go too hard on me; can we go lighter? A.- Yes, we are good at setting limits and respect boundaries.

Q- Why did you stop talking to me? A.- a myriad of reasons, but if you answer in one word and can’t be bothered to string a sentence together you seem too simple, and we often lose interest. That or one of your limits was too limiting, and we just wouldn’t have the kind of fun we are looking for.

Q.- I don’t share pics or do video calls, is that cool? A.- No, does that sound a bit suspicious? trick question, the answer is yes, you know who does that, catfish (follow me for more tips)

Q. what made you block me? A. You sending a Dick pic, (I may make fun of it first, so you may get some degradation from us, win!) or being a single dude.

Q. We're the sex acts you spoke about real? A- not to my knowledge, if you knew any of them it was pure happenstance or you're kinkier than us.

That really should cover most things, but despite it all, some single guys will still message us no doubt

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2024/10/30
00:22 UTC

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36 [M4F] #Alberta, Canada - Back Alley Bang - CNC Scene

Back Alley Bang - CNC Scene

During the first intermission I notice you and your girlfriends walking down the stairs, making your way back to your seats. You’re sitting a couple rows in front of me. The game has been so entertaining that I haven’t noticed you until now. Wearing a royal blue Oilers Draisaitl Jersey that fits perfectly and still shows off your perfect ass in leggings. Can’t help but wonder what’s underneath those clothes. As the second period starts I try and maintain focus on the game but I find myself constantly looking your way. Watching your smile and carefree attitude, enjoying time with your friends.

At the second intermission I get up and follow behind you up the stairs and into the crowd. Trailing close behind listening to you laughing chatting, watching your perfect ass the whole time. As you stand in line waiting for drinks I can’t help myself, I reach out and grab your ass. You immediately turn around, smile still on your face and completely unaware whose hand just groped you in line. With a crowd around you, there is no way to tell. Your ass was so nice, soft but firm at the same time, I could not feel any underwear which now had me even more curious about what’s under the clothes.

As you reach the front of the line and order your drink, your friends as well, I step up beside you and offer to pay for your drinks while also ordering my own. The smile and a simple “thank you, that is so nice” changed my entire plans for the evening. Hearing your voice made something snap inside of me. I needed to hear you scream now. For the rest of the game I watched you. Concentration on the game was no longer possible. The only time I knew we scored was watching you get up and cheer. Only thinking about how good it was going to be to hear you scream and beg.

When the game finished I followed behind you. Hearing you chat with your friends about your plans for the evening. You were going out for a few drinks, of course I kept my distance and followed. Out of the arena, down the sidewalk. The streets were filled with cheering and honking from the vehicles passing by, we must have won the game. Into the pub you and your friends went, I followed. I watched as you enjoyed your evening with a drink in your hand, dancing when the right song came on.

Every chance I got I groped you inside a crowd, when there was little chance I could be caught. As the night went on you seemed to get used to it. The quick looks around stopped when a hand grabbed your ass or brushed against your chest. With each touch my need for you just grew. The need to pin you down and tear your clothes off. Leaving you naked and at my mercy.

As the night came to a close you left the pub with your friends. I was hoping I would catch you alone at some point during the night but it didn’t happen. With my opportunities fading away I followed you out of the pub. Standing outside waiting for an Uber I overheard you say you would be walking home. That immediately brought life back into my evening. Knowing I might get another chance. As your friends got into the Uber you started your walk down the street. I followed close behind you, making myself aware of the surrounding and possible areas of opportunity. With so many people around it was very hard to see an option.

Only a couple blocks away you turned down a back alley. This was my chance. With no one around I increased my pace and quietly came up behind you. Grab you firmly around the waist and around both your arms with one arm while my other covers your mouth so you can’t scream. I push you against a building and say “If you scream for help it’s going to get much worse for you”. Trying to fight back with a weak attempt at escape you let out small screams that are easily muffled by the hand over your mouth. “Why are you fighting me, you wanted this” is whispered in your ear next. That increases your fight, still not working. Eventually you get tired and realize you are not getting away. My grip on you is much too strong and you are all alone.

As I notice the fight in you slowing down I slowly release my grip around your waist and start sliding down your pants. You try and wiggle your way out as your pants go down past your perfect ass. The first mystery is uncovered, you are wearing a nice black thong. I use my foot to push your leggings down the rest of the way, right to your ankles. I grab the back of your jersey and tshirt underneath and pull the back over your head and tuck it under your chin. I do the same with the front and pull it over the back of your head. Locking your wrists in the grip of one of my hands I push you down and bent over. Undo your bra clasp with my free hand so I can grab your handful sized tits. You are now fully exposed and bent over ready for my hard cock. I don’t even need to add any natural lube since my hand discovers your pussy is soaking wet. You are loving this like the dirty slut you are. Just waiting to get pounded.

I slide my cock deep inside your wet, tight pussy and pound you. I can hear your moans turn to screams. Exactly what I wanted since the first time I saw you. To hear you scream. I can feel you tighten around my cock as your screams get louder. Your leg start shaking. I haven’t heard everything I wanted to from you so I just stop. Leaving my cock inside you I say “want more you little slut?” A quiet “yes” escapes your lips. “How bad do you want it, let me hear you beg”. “Please sir, fuck my pussy, fill me up”… that’s all I needed to hear and I start fucking you hard and fast until your legs are shaking so bad you can’t keep yourself up. I pull out, let you drop to your knees. Uncover your face and stick my cock deep down your throat. Grabbing the back of your head with a handful of hair so I can use your throat as I please until I fill your mouth with cum.

As soon as I cum, I pull out and give your face a soft smack. Telling you “if you want to be treated like a slut again, be at the same bar a week from tonight”. I walk away leaving you catching your breath melted into a puddle on the ground in a dark alley. I got everything I needed from you.

Will you be there that next week???

I am experienced with CNC. This post is for 18+ only. All scenes must have safe play procedures in place. Please message me with any questions.

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2024/10/30
00:17 UTC

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42 [M4F] #VA Looking For Clingy little/sub

Hello and pleasure to meet you

I’m interested in meeting and chatting with someone looking for a DDlg or similar feel relationship to see if there is a connection. I am a Daddy who loves clingy submissives and is looking for someone like you :)

I’m a 42 year old experienced Daddy. I believe that the exchange of trust that is needed is very important and makes these types of relationships more rewarding. I hope to be able to chat with you to see if there is chemistry. I have also been told that I’m very patient with letting new relationships build and then turn very possessive so I hope we are a good fit. Hope to hear from you soon

I’m not looking for someone in any particular location, however, I would say that the East Coast of the US is strongly preferred.

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2024/10/30
00:14 UTC

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61 [M4F] #San Francisco - Ladies, are you “Alice” looking for perverted and creepy adventures? Then come jump down rabbit hole of depravity that is FatUglyOldBrute!

And before you go any further, please note that my profile name is NOT a typo or an exaggeration or a bit of self-deprecating humor. I am indeed a fat, ugly, old brutal pervert. I'm also extremely, creepy, nasty and sadistic, so if that scares you off or repulses you, you should hit the back button now!

However, if you’re still reading this and wondering what kind of adventures await for you if you do, let me give you a taste:

As in Lewis Carroll’s original, there will be a “Pool of Tears”, but it won’t come about because your head grows so big it hit’s the ceiling and you start to cry gallons of tears. Instead, it will be spankings, canings, tit torture, ass rapings and a plethora of other fun activities (well, fun for me that is!) that will create this wonderful pool of tears for both of us to swim in.

There may not be a “Cheshire Cat” down this rabbit hole, but I guarantee you will see a huge perpetual grin on my face as I have you do all kinds of nasty, kinky and perverted acts for my amusement.

Since I don’t have any tea in my home, there won’t be any “Mad Tea Parties” to attend, but I have plenty of other delicious liquids for you to imbibe and enjoy (cum, piss, spit).

Like the Queen of Hearts, I have a catch phrase I like to use frequently and with the slightest provocation. It’s not “off with his head”, but instead my catchphrase is “off with your clothes”, because if there is one thing I love in life it’s a naked woman.

So ladies, if you’re “curiouser and curiouser” to learn more about the perverted adventures I offer, email me and let’s talk. And so you know ahead of time, these are some of my favorite kinks:

  1. Ass-to-mouth fucking (this is my absolute favorite activity)
  2. Piss drinking
  3. Rimming
  4. Toe sucking and boot worshipping
  5. Rough and painful ass fucking and raping
  6. Spitting (especially in the face!)
  7. Hard spankings and tit slapping
  8. Public humiliation
  9. Face slapping
  10. Collars & Leashes
  11. Biting
  12. Bareback fucking
  13. Verbal humiliation and degradation
  14. CMNF (Clothed male, naked female)

About me: I’m 61 years old, mixed race (Jamaican, German & French background), 6’1” tall, I weigh 300 lbs and I have salt and pepper black hair (although each day it gets a little more salty and a little less peppery). I can host or travel, and since I just recently retired I’m available most anytime of the day. Feel free to contact me via chat or private message, either works for me. I’m open to women of all ages and sizes.

And don’t take this the wrong way, but I am not looking for people to “chat” about this with, or to have cyber play with. I’m here to meet women for real life encounters only.

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2024/10/30
00:11 UTC

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25 [M4A] #Sweden - looking for a dom mommy/daddy to put me in my place and ”cure” my goon addiction

25 [M4A] Sweden - looking for a dom mommy/daddy that can put me in my place and help me with my goon addiction

Im 5’5 muscular build and my limits are scat,gore,selfharm underage, bathrom stuff and similar stuff like that. I like to show off but im a bit shy to do stuff outside of my room. Online works well and if you are local we could discuss in meeting up in the future

If i interestcyou the feel free to dm me

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2024/10/30
00:11 UTC

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27 [M4F] #NYC - Possessive dom looking for kinky sub to take care of

Hello, I'm a 27 year old dom in NYC. I'm looking for a relationship with a sub who wants to explore and indulge her primal side. I am open to both short-term and long-term relationships; maybe you are new to all of this and want to have same fun and see what it's like, or maybe you need a confident figure in your life that you can rely on and submit to. Either way, I want to make sure that the both of us have plenty of fun.

Relationship wise, I enjoy spending time together and taking care of my sub. I'm not looking for a vanilla relationship, I prefer there to be some kind of a dynamic between us. For example, I've taken on a daddy role in the past and liked doing things like reading bedtime stories, falling asleep together on call, watching disney movies, etc. I would also love to make you my pet and shower you with tons of physical affection for being a good girl. In either case, I will want to call you my own and look after you.

With that said, I am also very kinky and I have every intention of using your cute little body. I love to fuck and if I do my job right, you will too. I want to train and hypnotize you into being my needy little slut. There are many fantasies that I am willing to indulge. Free use and CNC are some of my favorites if you can't already tell. I also love orgasm control, denial, pet play, training and conditioning, light bondage, spanking and slapping. I have a few toys that I would be happy to use on you: a magic wand, some handcuffs, a collar, and more. Your pleasure is just as important as my own and I wouldn't want to leave you dissatisfied.

I'm not into anything particularly extreme. Nothing that could permanently harm you or risk doing so, so nothing dangerous like knives or heavy physical play. No toilet play or anything involving latex suits. Even though I enjoy being dominant and taking control, your safety and consent is always my first priority. Any limits you have will always be respected. If you happen to be shy or inexperienced, I am more than happy to take things at your own pace.

I'm a fairly attractive guy, 150lbs, 5'9", white with medium length hair and a clean shaven face. I would be happy to share pictures. I am currently working and going to school. I'm very independent and take good care of myself. I don't do drugs and have no plans on starting, and I'm STD free. If you want to get to know each other better, send me a message and let's chat.

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2024/10/30
00:09 UTC

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27 [M4F] #California Daddy Dom looking for a little. #anywhere

Some things about me are that I'm a big coffee and tea lover. Black and Jasmine respectively. I love to cook and try new foods when I can. There's just something about new foods and understanding where they come from is enriching for me. For physical activities, I usually go hiking or camping whenever I can, and if not I go on runs with my Husky. He says hello by the way!

I've been in BDSM and related kinks for a long time now. You can thank Tumblr because of that Imao. I've also been in plenty of relationships both in person or online/long distance. I believe I have a good understanding when it means being a Dominant. There's much more intimacy involved throughout the dynamic as a Dom/Sub would be completely open with each other and allowing them to do things that no other couple would do, and I find that enchanting. Vanilla relationships are just a little boring, or in a better way to explain it- it just doesn't feel like very intimate anymore. I really strive to feel a genuine connection with my partner, every intimacy. Physical, emotional, and intellectual. The idea of always seeing a good morning or I miss mention or even sending one to them, is honestly the best thing ever.

I think one thing I want to say if this is the only thing you read. Is that I honestly really don't have any expectations. As in I just want you to be who you are without feeling you need to be someone else in order to make me think you're amazing. Being in this kink for so long, I've longed for the relationships in them when I can just feel that my partner is open with me in every way, and that they rely on me as their Dom to help them explore and no when to stop and not abuse my power.

Hope something in what I said resonated with you and that you consider sending a message! One tail end thing I should mention, is please do try and say more then hello and your ASL. It can be difficult to carry the conversation sometimes if there isn’t much being said.

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2024/10/30
00:06 UTC

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23 [M4F] #online - Sadistic dom looking for submissive slave(s) to own and ruin

Hello there darling, if you’ve clicked on this, you’re probably interested in being a submissive little slave for a superior Master, aren’t you? Let’s get on with it.

About me: very tall, blue eyes, big (iykyk), fit and healthy. Outside of kink I enjoy reading, gaming, and watching movies.

I’m looking for an obedient slut who will do anything I ask without question. I tend not to like brats, I prefer fully obedient girls, however I am fine with brats as well. I expect you to completely submit and obey me as your Master, I will have full control over you (within limits) and you will simply obey like a mindless whore. Keep in mind, I am a sadist and will enjoy ruining you, and breaking your mind until I make you into my own sex toy.

About you:

  • submissive slut/slave
  • preferably not a brat
  • eager to please your Master
  • not afraid to be shared with other men/women

Pictures not required but they’re very welcome!

Kinks include: humiliation, pet play, bondage, rough, face fucking, creampie, threesomes, gangbang, degradation, praise, giving tasks/JO, impact play, hucow, pain, toys, overstimulation, orgasm control, denial, begging, cock worship, and more.

Limits: scat, anything illegal, anyone underaged.

I’m a pleasure dom and I get off from pleasuring my submissives, however most of the time I won’t let them cum and I’ll just deny them, and then make them pleasure and worship my cock. If you’ve read this far type “chicken” as your first message.

Send me a chat request with your age and why you want to be my slave, and let’s get on with it. Looking forward to hearing from you x

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2024/10/30
00:06 UTC

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56 [M4F] #online #irl #USA taking slave applications

Mostly online with the occasional IRL meet up. I travel extensively for work so fave to face will be a thing just not a regular.

YOU: Female

18+ (with verification if you look younger)

obedient/trustworthy (I have to trust you will do as ordered while I am not around)

not camera shy since a lot of pics/vids will be sent to me.

Few to no limits

Obedience matters more that looks and appearances

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2024/10/30
00:04 UTC

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26(M4F) #Online Need a very obedient BBW.

I’ve always loved bigger women. The best sex i’ve had has always been with bigger and thicker woman. The big tits and huge asses drive me crazy. They also always suck the best dick. I very much need one. If you happen to fit the description hit me up, maybe with some proof. If you are submissive as well that is all the better. Dms open

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2024/10/30
00:04 UTC

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26 [M4F] #Online #TN Transfemale and femboy welcome as well! I’m looking for a femdom! Open-minded and would love to see where it goes!

Hello! I’m glad the header interested you enough to read through this! I’m looking for a potential femdom, someone to enjoy quality time with (in person would be great, but online works just as well), become friends, and the works. I should also state, I’m a gynosexual. Anything feminine is fine with me(female, transfemale, femboy)! I have no concern what’s in the pants, surprise me if you wish. I will treat you no differently. You need to be 18+ to message me.

-SFW-

I’m 26, male, I tend to be funny and a goofball. Especially if we hit it off and mesh together well. I am on EST time, and available all week (shifts at work vary what times, I’ll always be available late at night), but, Friday-Sunday I am most available in the evenings for serious playtime. I love playing video games, watching anime and shows, I love tinkering with mechanicals (usually vehicles), and anything else that grabs my short attention span. I’m pretty out going and love to talk!

-NSFW-

I am a degenerate. My kinks range but I will list some of my favorites none are required, but I have a strong preference for my foot fetish. Most of these will require trust to be built, we’re not starting off day one with you owning me and my life. I want a serious connection, someone to control me, set rules, guide me and my pleasure, talk lewd with, the world is our oyster.

Foot fetish- Feet are probably my favorite fetish or kink. I love bare feet, socks, shoes, nylons, all of it. I love them clean or dirty, to worship them, lick them clean, massages, pedicures, and foot jobs.

Cuckolding- this could go a long way, screenshots of your convos with others, make me find you others to play with and I watch in a group chat, I’d love to hear your ideas! I should mention, I’m not attracted to masculine men, so forced bi wouldn’t fly. I know, weird conditions with the kink, I’m in it more for the humiliation.

Humiliation- making me do things on a whim to humiliate me for your entertainment.

Degrading- I love hearing a dominant telling me how worthless I am, why their other subs are better, etc. This can be extremely fun with proper aftercare.

I have so many more, these are just favorites.

❗️Limits: scat, violence, body alteration, diapers, feminization (mannerisms are fine if you’d like, but I don’t feel comfortable with irl application), animals, extreme pain, that’s all I can think of at the moment.

I would love for you to tell me yours as well. Let me hear things you enjoy, kinks, limits, why you think we’d be a good match, things I could do for you to bring you more enjoyment and anything else you’d like!

I won’t respond to one liners, people who have no idea what they are doing (I am serious, I don’t want to just jump into being owned.), scammers (I can smell it a mile away.).

I appreciate the findom kink, but I don’t send money right off the bat. It might be something to discuss later on, but I cannot promise this. I’m just not comfortable with it. Thank you though for reading through this.

Shoot me a message with what was requested! I’d love to hear from you and see where it goes. 😊

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2024/10/29
23:59 UTC

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26 [F4A] #Online - shy/loner sub looking for friends

I know the title says female, but i am an extremely feminine boy and like to be treated as a girl. I consider myself a lesbian, and am just looking for something casual. Girls, trans, and femboys preferred. I also prefer more feminine presenting people. It doesn't have to be sexual immediately, or at all. I usually do rps. If you find my post intriguing, feel free to message me, im open to anyone. Tell me why you sent me a message or just a little something about yourself if you message me.

Please do not just send a "hey".

SFW interests: Some of my interests: music, games, art, astronomy

NSFW interests: butts, smelling, strap-ons (only on girls), pain, praise, slapping, impact play, name calling, cute doms, farts

Only limits are pics

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2024/10/29
23:55 UTC

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27 [F4M] #CA - looking for a man to abuse me sexually and physically

The only requirements are that you are good looking, tall, have a good job, and are someone where no one would be able to guess that this is your kink. This is the type of person who would best fit in my life.

I’m attractive and normal, to put it plainly. I will ask to see a photo of your body and eventually we will have to FaceTime.

If anyone from the other subreddits I post in reach out about this post you will get blocked. I keep my irl life and my online fantasies separate. That’s all!

Edit: do not message me just saying hey or hi. It is a waste of both of our times.

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2024/10/29
23:52 UTC

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44 [M4TF] #Online #Canada #USA

Seeking a trans girl to date, eventually for a serious long-term BDSM relationship if we click.

Erotic hypnosis kink involving mind control roleplay. I put you into hypnotic trances regularly, and use the hypnotic state to increase sexual arousal and induce wave after wave of intense orgasms. I melt your brain with pleasure over and over (figuratively, of course).

You undergo hypnosis sessions to increase your feminine behaviour and confidence in your femininity. You are trained in a hypnotic state to sexually please me and serve me. Eventually, you are collared by me.

I'm in my 40s, divorced with children. Introverted, slightly overweight but losing weight and attractive. Looking for someone who I find attractive, feminine and youthful, maybe a bit nerdy. In addition to kink, I am looking for tenderness, emotional connection, and commonalities. I will treat you like a lady and a princess, and if you earn it I will give you my heart completely.

Open to long distance at first, but we'd have to figure something out eventually. I am in Southwestern Ontario. Let's chat some first. If there's mutual interest we can exchange pics and contact info.

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2024/10/29
23:49 UTC

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20[TF4F] #michigan subby trans girl looking for a kinky dom

Hi, I'm a 20 year old trans girl looking for any aged dom to be a obedient and submissive slut for. I do prefer girls older than me but if you're not that's perfectly fine!

I have some boundaries. I'm not very comfortable with sending videos or pics just because I'm still a little insecure about my body. I'm just looking for a little fun, strictly online relationship. Nothing too serious, I just wanna be a good little girl :3

Kinks I have

Inpact play, fearplay, knifeplay (although I'm very sensitive to that stuff still and need a dom who is willing to be gentle at times) mommy kink, servitude kink, praise kink, penetration, anal, girlcock, degradation, light masochism, strap, toys, bondage, spit play. There's probably others that I forgot but I'm very welcome to more kinks if you have any!

I'm fairly new so I like being taken care of and like helped through things. I also live being held by a dom it's so hot.

I can be a brat at times but you can shut me up pretty easily with just a threat, but sometimes I can go more :3

I'm open for any girls or trans girls. Men DNI. Shoot me a dm if interested!!!

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2024/10/29
23:39 UTC

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30 [M4F] #Online Looking for my beautiful princess?

Are you my beautiful princess?

She is sweet, kind, gentle, caring and little bit of a brat sometimes ;)

If thats you, why were you hiding from me? Daddy missed you a lot princess. Come to me and sit on my lap as I take care of you baby.

Welcome to my AD little one, how are you doing today?

A little bit about me, Im 30 years old and I have quite a busy job. I work in finance, so my hours are very chaotic. Some months or weeks I will be very busy and some other days I will be free. A lot depends on the projects Im currently working on. But besides my job, I love debating and reading. I love discussing about various things with my peers, so if you like a friendly debate, we will fit well. I also love watching movies and tv shows, some of my favourite movies include Good will hunting, dead poets society, patch adams (Yes Im bit of a Robin Williams fan haha). What are your favourite movies?

Im a fun, soft and supportive daddy that is also a bit into dark kinks. But more than anything I want to have a long term proper relationship with you that fulfils both emotional and physical intimacy.

I have many experiences up my sleeve, I love to share them with my littles and help them grow. I love being a daddy and father figure. You can be yourself when youre with me, I wont judge you for who you are and embrace you either way. I will be someone that you can depend on at good times and bad times as well. I will always have your back and check up on you as a daddy.

I would like to have a conversation with you rather than laying out everything here like a robot. Lets get to know each other and have some fun, life is already boring. Lets not make this boring as well.

You can be any kind of little, all I expect is for you to be loyal and willing to share pictures down the line if/when youre comfortable. If youre scared, its completely fine and we can still build a DDLG relationship, but just let me know.

Hope to hear from you princess <3

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2024/10/29
23:37 UTC

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39 [M4F] #DC / Virginia / Maryland - Experienced Dom Looking for Sub

I'm hoping to find a local sub/play partner to develop a meaningful dynamic with. By meaningful, I want to emphasize that I mean something more than just kinky activities. To me, D/s is a delicate mental balance between a Dom and their Sub. It is quite easy to find someone to tie up, degrade, [insert any kink here], etc, but it is far different to find someone that truly wants to submit and develop something worthwhile. I'm hoping for the latter and I have had it before.

I keep an open mind when going into any potential dynamic. I want to learn about a potential partner. Not just their kinks, needs, and limits, but their passions in life and goals, etc. I've found that when I truly know my sub some magical things happen. I've had successful dynamics in the past that have varied in their structure. I've had an amazing 24/7 TPE dynamic where full submission was emphasized and enjoyed. On the other end, I've had an amazing dynamic that was focused solely in the bedroom. The key here was not the exact type of D/s dynamic (or the specific kinks/limits), but the two people involved. I'm very good at crafting a dynamic assuming my partner is honest with me.

If you are in the area and looking for a potential partner, please message me so that we can start a conversation. And yes, we can swap SFW pics to ensure mutual attraction, but for me, the mental component is the most important/attractive part. That being said, I'm handsome with dark hair/eyes if that is your cup of tea. I'm also educated, employed, and have a good life! I'm just hoping to improve it some!

Hope to talk soon. (18+ only)

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2024/10/29
23:34 UTC

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20 [M4F] #Hungary #online looking for a gentlefemdom

Hey there!

Im new to subbing but aching to learn more, i am shy in general and i can get anxious when not completing a task. I am looking for women of all ages as long as they are above the age of 18!

Appearance-wise im 194cms (6'4) tall i am skinny. I have short brown hair with dark brown eyes. I have many hobbies such as:writing especially poems, marine biology, video games, listening to music, hiking, swimming, diving and my most recent one drawing. Personality wise i am patient and open minded, i do my best to be kind however i can be really shy and i am definetly nerdy but not in an annoying way.

My kinks are: PRAISE, EDGEING, MILKING, anal fingering, boob suckling, hand, blow, tir, thighjobs, face sitting, head squished between thighs. I generally love thighs

My limits are: pain, degrading, chasity, humiliation, feminisation

I hope to hear from you soon!

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2024/10/29
23:31 UTC

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28 [M4F] #Orlando Submissive guy seeking Dominant woman for meaningful connection

Hi there,

I'm a 28-year-old guy from just outside Orlando, Florida and I am seeking a real connection with a dominant woman who knows what she wants, and how to get it. Feel free to reach out if this stands out to you, I'd love to talk. I live alone and have been described by close friends as silly and compassionate, inclusion is one of the most important things in my life. I'm seeking a female-led relationship, the type of dynamic I am looking for is a life partner who is firmly in control, to what extent we can determine what works best for us, maybe we're just friends who enjoy a specific dynamic or we really click and find ourselves immersed into a full fledged FLR - I'm honestly quite open and happy to discuss what works best for us.

About me:

Basic stuff: I work a full-time job but also have a side hustle writing, I promise this is not nearly as exciting as it sounds but it is an increasingly lucrative thing that I'm looking to make my full-time focus sooner than later, still figuring out when sooner is though. I'm 5'7, about 160 lbs active gym goer and looking to constantly improve PRs and work on my physique. And as I recognize this is important to some people, I do not drive, my eyesight is very poor and as a result, I cannot legally drive, this, however, does not stop me from living an entirely independent life, most people don't actually know/can't tell until I tell them that I cannot drive.

Personal Interests: I love hanging out with friends and doing who knows what, I will admit that I am a bit of a homebody but my greatest joys in life are typically with other people, doing pretty much whatever. I am sober as in I do not drink or smoke but totally cool if you do as long as it is responsibly. I love going to thrift stores, eating great food, and really just exploring. I'm pretty nerdy in that I would say my single favorite thing to do is learn be that via YouTube videos, Reading or just getting out and trying something new, Psychology however is what interests me most and I could spend hours and hours talking about the weird ways people act and why. I also really enjoy movies and would love to know your favorite, I love anything funny or scary, and the Shrek series has a special place in my heart.

Kinky Stuff

I am relatively inexperienced but I am someone who learns quickly and has done a thorough amount of research, enough that I feel that I can confidently serve a woman, the biggest part of all of this to me is the sense of belonging, the feeling of being owned by someone who wants the best for me and thus inspires me to want to be the best possible version of myself for them. I do not take this role lightly and it would be a privilege to be yours.

The Person I'm looking for:

I'm looking for a dominant woman In or near Orlando. My ideal partner would be someone emotionally intelligent and capable of communicating in a healthy, consistent way, nothing excites me more than knowing exactly where I stand with you, for better or worse. (So I can improve to better serve.) Body type is unimportant to me as all women are beautiful in their own unique ways, as long as you take care of yourself you are my type. Age and your experience level are mostly unimportant to me as long as you're 20+ and know what it is you're looking for. Just to reiterate the connection is what is most important to me, knowing that someone has my best interest at heart and I have theirs, knowing that while I am still very much a person with real feelings but I want to be yours, completely.

Thank you for taking the time to check this out, I look forward to speaking to you soon.

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2024/10/29
23:29 UTC

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30 [M4F] #online - Late night conversations

Hi you,

I'm looking to connect with some cute subs :)

I enjoy late night conversations. Both on text and voice. Going down YouTube rabbit holes. Watching shows. Working out. Chess.

I've been told I'm both gentle and strict. And I do enjoy the back and forth. So I hope you're somewhat witty x

Anything you're curious about you can ask.

Ideally I do like connecting over a longer period and not just for a quick chat.

Feel free to send a message if this is something you'd like.

Cis females only. Mention your favourite color as well please so I know you've read this far.

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2024/10/29
23:25 UTC

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31 [M4F] #Online - I'll make you regret that you've ever met me

Not in a sense that you feel hurt or mistrusted, on the contrary, I'll earn your trust and learn everything there is to know about you, to the point that you find yourself feeling completely exposed and still craving for more as you choose to mindlessly follow wherever I choose to lead you.

To clarify that this isn't a prompt for sexting and is something that will happen at its own pace.

I know you've already made up your mind, so looking forward to our conversation.

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2024/10/29
23:23 UTC

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24 [M4A] #Chicago / #Online - Bisexual Sub Looking to be Trained

Hi all,

I am Gale! I am 24 submissive bisexual guy looking for a Dom/Domme to train me. I have been kinky for quite a few years and have an established collection of toys and such, but I am recently more interested in establishing a dynamic where I can learn more about myself and others within the kinky community.

As far as kinks go, I am interested in everything from bondage, latex, rope, anal, chastity, edging, sensory deprivation, pain play, orgasm control, and more. I am also interested in exploring most kinks I don't have familiarity of at least once or multiple times to get a new perspective. My hard limits include scat/pee, blood, and anything involving heavy bruising.

Outside of kinks, I have a rather eclectic series of hobbies including photography, videography, graphic design, cooking, wine tasting, reading, gaming, and more.

Interested in what I look like and what you can get more of?

Check me out

I am looking for a Dom/Domme who would be interested in training and challenging a submissive. I am very open to many dynamics and am mostly interested in something where we can connect and learn together--doesn't have to romantic or anything, I just think having an emotional connection is strong foundation for any kinky dynamic.

If you are interested, I would absolutely love to hear from you. Please feel free to upfront about what you are interested in and looking for! Even if we don't match, I am happy to just and meet others!

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2024/10/29
23:23 UTC

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19 [M4F] #Online- Can you make my desires disappear and replace them with your own?

First, I crave to be psychologically dominated and made to want only what you want. Make my world all about you.

You have to make me believe following your lead is truly in my best interest.

Once I believe that, I'll do nearly anything you like.

I want to obey you and do everything you want, I want to be humiliated, denied, submissive for you, I am into anal, impact play, cei, cbt, maybe sissyfication to some degree (not crossdressing), hypnotization, edging, maybe watersports, and a lot more

I want to disappear inside the comfort of your devoted, twisted world, Online to start with

Send me a chat request. I look forward to meeting you and pleasing you.

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2024/10/29
23:22 UTC

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19 [F4M] #Cali My birthday is coming up. Break me with your buddies

Hey guys. Elena here. I just moved to a new place where I live alone and dunno anyone nearby. Well my birthday is coming up and I'm going to be alone for it. I'm thinking of traveling for it. Convince me to come to your town lol. Or make a plan for my place. Can I please see your pic so I know who I'm talking to. Got friends to join? Even better. Fit? Who's the biggest here and tough? Come save me from going crazy...

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2024/10/29
23:21 UTC

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29 [M4F] #Online | Experienced Dom Seeking new LTR Sub to Spoil

Lets get into the nitty gritty details in DMs; but here are the highlights!

  • I'm 29, been playing as a switch for close to 10 years; but lean more dom (looking for submissive)
  • I'm a working professional from Canada, who has my life together (owns house, good job, etc)
  • Have various vanilla interests, travel, DND, gaming, hiking, etc! (Certainly would be classified as a bit of a sporty nerd haha)
  • Currently single, have had LTR Submissives in past (parted amicably)
  • Truly enjoy power exchange and ongoing dynamics that go along with long term D/S dynamics
  • Enjoy taking new people into the kink space, playing with very experienced players and everything in between
  • Practice safe, consensual play, realizing that have to build trust and build up as we go
  • Dynamic would be online, but as I do regularly travel, we could consider in person (either I bring you to where I travel, or I come by you)
  • Am ok to provide gifts for us to enjoy (toys, clothing, trips with me), etc (provided we mesh and things are going well)

If this interests you, reach out and lets chat! I would want to verify shortly with a SFW photo from each of us, and from there take it as slowly or quickly as it makes sense to!

One small addendum: While I do respect and appreciate non-cis women; I am only interested in cis-women

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2024/10/29
23:19 UTC

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20[M4A] #UK new sub looking for long term master

Hey. I’m a 20 year old I’m slim and athletic twink. I’m looking for a long term dom. I will try most things for you and obey you as best I can. Message me to chat but full face is a limit at least for a while. I have a few toys I can use and play with. Looking forward to it😅

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2024/10/29
23:12 UTC

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18 [m4f] #online dom looking for long term sub

I’m looking for a long term online sub who also wants to be friends too. For some stuff about me, I’m 18, I love music, and physically I’m in between skinny and chubby (more skinny tho), 6’1 and I have a goatee and fluffy hair. I don’t send pics of any kind until we’ve gotten to know each other after a few days so if you’re not into that I totally understand. If you’re interested dm me with like a brief description of yourself or a pic or something like that :)

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2024/10/29
23:03 UTC

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23 [M4F] #Atlanta #Georgia Experienced dom seeking a submissive

Hey, thanks for reading my post! 23 M Georgia. I just graduated with my masters and am now in Atlanta.

About myself: I'm 6'1, pretty fit and have brown eyes and brown hair, and I think I'm fairly attractive. I love to weight lift/run, hike, craft, hangout with friends, play board games (Catan), and watch movies. I also have experience in being a dom and bdsm. I am great at aftercare. I am into bondage, orgasm control, spankings, choke, edging, and open to more.

I'm looking for someone I can connect with and mesh with. I’m also open to something more chill if that’s your style. I am open to any age and any level of experience. I don't have a list of qualities for you to meet, just come on over and let's chat! PM me.

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2024/10/29
22:57 UTC

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