I’ve only been with 1 sexual partner. However very experienced with that partner so I’m not new to all of this. However I am wanting to try new things. I’m into bondage. Spanking. Markings/clawing/hickeys. I have pics if anyone is interested my DMs are always open. hmu!

I've been in the kink world and the erotic hypnosis side of things for over 15 years now. I've grown much more demisexual over time as well. I'm looking for those who want to explore the depths of trance, obedience, sexuality, kink, as well as find friendship along the way. There's nothing better than spending time gushing about your favorite book or movie you've seen and suddenly you're gushing your brain from between your legs because a trigger word was slipped into the conversation.

I'm happy to answer any questions about myself you have, I like to have both text chats and voice calls though in person is always better. Living in the great cold north does tend to put a damper on things like in person meetups but one must always have hope.

My main kinks are erotic hypnosis, corruption, throatfucking, mild impact, bondage, orgasm control, overstim, sexy voices, and being able to get so deep into someone's mind that I can turn them on with just a simple tone switch.

I have a fiance who I am poly with, and have space in my house to have people come visit if we hit it off and that's in the cards in the future. Shoot me a dm and we can chat!

Hello! I’m ladybug (33F) and writing this on behalf of myself and my Dom (40M). We are seeking to add a female sub to our online only dynamic for my companionship and to be trained alongside me. We are looking for someone who is newer to this world and looking to learn & explore in a supportive environment. Hopefully it is a semi-regular thing for the next several weeks or couple of months.

About Us & The Dynamic 

I’m a 33 year old curvy woman who's getting back into the scene and re-establishing my confidence while also exploring what it is that *I* desire beyond just pleasing a partner. My Dom is an experienced 40 year old man who enjoys teaching submissives and helping them grow. We are both intelligent, well spoken professionals who respect each other as equals while also enjoying giving and taking control.

Our dynamic is based primarily on positive reinforcement and building a supportive, safe environment to learn. I am expected to always give 100% effort during our sessions and hold myself to a high level of excellence. Boundaries are always respected and adjustments or accommodations made to ensure everyone’s wellbeing which is always the first priority. 

About You

The ideal candidate is someone who is newer to their role as a submissive and wants to be guided through new experiences with a student mentality. Age is not important, though a certain level of maturity is.

There is much more to discuss, as there should be in any healthy dynamic, so if this interests you please send me a message so we may get to know each other further and see if our needs match. 

I'm a trans woman, on hormones for 7 years and pass. I will be getting an orchiectomy in the beginning of March, but currently have no other surgeries.

I'm naturally submissive and need to be owned. Its in my DNA to serve, and every day without a cock and man to worship as my one true god is physically painful.

I want to find a master I can serve with my entire body for the rest of my life. I am not afraid to change myself in any way, be it physically, mentally, or spiritually. I would love to be trained so that I can become your perfect woman, your perfect object. The only thing I've ever wanted is to be used and turned into the perfect fuck doll. I've had a dream to be molded into a masters perfect slave since as long as I can remember.

I would love the opportunity to fulfill your darkest fantasies in a way that no one else is willing to.

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Hello kinksters! I am 27 and into BDSM for a few years now. I live in South Denver but I'm willing to drive around.

Looking for girl who is into the kinkier side of life. Looking to explore total dominance. I think switch could be fun but I also need someone willing to dominate and explore their fetishes on me. My safe work is 'yes mommy'.

I'm 6'2, distance runner, and a former California surf instructor. I work a lot but kinky play what is really worth making time for!

Send me a message!

Have you ever imagined finding someone who makes you feel safe enough to shed all the layers you’ve built to protect yourself? Someone who doesn’t just notice you but truly knows you and understands the depths of who you are, and guides you into a space where you feel free to surrender completely?

I'm searching for a sub who feels most at peace when they let someone else take the reins completely. And to clarify that this relationship isn’t about control for its own sake; it’s about trust so deep that you no longer feel the need to hold on to anything; To create a bond where your purpose becomes what I decide for you, where you simply want to exist because of me.

If you're new to the lifestyle, in short this is for someone who yearns for structure, for guidance, for a relationship where fulfillment comes through giving yourself entirely to the dynamic we build.

If this resonates with you, reach out.

But I'm assuming you've already made up your mind, so I'm looking forward to our conversation.

Hey there,

I’m a Dom who’s drawn to honest, unfiltered connections. You know that thrill of sharing something private and feeling seen? That’s what I’m after.

About me:

• Chill, curious, and a good listener. I work in tech but spend my free time doing various hobbies such as knitting, writing (badly), or gaming.
• I value transparency. Life’s too short for pretense.
• Love exploring the psychology and secrets of my submissive, what they hide, what they’re afraid to admit.

What I’m looking for:

• A cis woman who’s comfortable being vulnerable. Not in a dramatic way- just someone who finds freedom in dropping the act.
• Open to sharing photos or videos (nude). I’m a visual person, and I think there’s something intimate about my submissive learning to let go and have moments raw and authentic.
• Someone who enjoys peeling back layers. Secrets, fantasies, regrets…

Why message me?

• I won’t judge. We’re all messy humans.
• I’m not promising the world. Let’s just connect and then see where it goes.
• Discretion is non-negotiable. Your privacy matters.

If you’re interested or have questions, send me a message. Tell me one thing you’ve never told anyone else, or send a photo that makes you feel alive. Let’s make it interesting.

Do you ever feel like your life is boring like you wish you could add something to it but it’s not something you can add yourself. Do you want to be owned controlled and given tasks and rules specifically crafted just for you. Do you want all that but also be respected as your own person with your own life with goals and ambitions outside of your kink.

If that sounds of interest to you then I’d love to learn more about you and be your dom. I pride myself on being as creative as possible with the tasks and rules I give to people. If you’re newer I can take things easy but I want you as my submissive to feel constantly satisfied and excited as to what I might have you do next I love the idea of you having a mix of anticipation and nervousness before getting my next message.

I’m looking for a sub who would enjoy receiving tasks and rule based on some schedule that would be discussed. I don’t need you to share pics (though obviously it would be preferred) but I would like some verification down the road.

As I mentioned before you are your own person so understand that I would be interested in learning more about you as my sub. I’m open to most things so I won’t leave a list of kinks I’m happy to work around what you find interesting. That be said I do have some limits which are scat, pee, anything illegal, any bodily harm.

Thank you for reading my message I hope to hear from you soon

Doesnt matter what label you have for yourself, sub/dom/switch, but im looking for people who loves bondage and chastity especially.

Looking to play togheter, make eachother get locked up and denied, maybe take turns.

If you got other kinks aswell its not impossible to indulge in those aswell :)

Not looking for something to serious, neither one is gonna be the one in "charge", we'll do it together and when theres time for it! Im located in Europe, you can be from everywhere but when it can be hard to find time when timezones are far apart :)

Im twinkish looking and have no problem sharing pics. Hmu

In search of a sub or slave for extreme CNC play where you'll be pushed to your absolute limits and beyond.

You'll be treated as an object for my pure amusement with no regards of what you want or how you feel about what is happening to you.

If this has sparked you interest then flick me a message.

You know what I'm not in the mood to call you sweetheart or sweetie or good girl . I’m in the mood to call you my bitch , my whore and my fuck toy. I'm not in the mood for you to playfully look back and smile when i spank you. I’m in the mood to hear you screaming and moaning. Your ass being spanked as my cock throbs harder with each thrust. I’m not in the mood to have you crawling over to me and kneeling. I’m in the mood to grab you by your hair and pull you to me and tell you what I’m about to do to you. I’m not in the mood to have your pretty face in my hands as you sensually suck my hard dick with your hot lips. I’m in the mood to hold your head with my both hands as I shove dick down your throat. Turning your pretty face into a gorgeous and sloppy mess. Not in the mood to feel your hands all over me. I’m in the mood to tie and restrain you having all three of your holes at my mercy. I won't slowly build and tease. I’m in the mood to fuck you and watch you struggling not to orgasm until i allow you. I’m not in the mood to fuck you slow. I’m in the mood to destroy all your holes. I’m in the mood to hear you beg for more. We don't have to talk about sexual stuff all the time if you're having a bad day I'll be here for you. I don't prefer chatting on reddit so I'll ask you to switch soon. If you have read this far send me a picture of yourself and tell me a fact about yourself. Have a wonderful day/night :)

Title is kind of self explanatory, innit?

Fat submissive desperate for attention. Gaslight me into loving you forever? Please be smarter than me, (it isn't hard.)

Bonus points if you like destroying holes and abusing tits. Please, God, let me serve. 🥺

When I'm not being a brain dead flesh light, I have job I love, read, travel, and play games. Single, no kids, and looking for my next big mistake.

Kinks: CNC, huge insertions, mild pain, restrictions, alcohol and drug play, mental manipulation, DDlg, pet play. There are a ton more, but do they really matter?

En francais aussi :)

Ready to dive back in and see what's out there for me. Brownie point if you know where the name came from and for my lack or originality with it.

A little about me for the rest just ask it's more fun then reading resume. Pear shaped looking to change that and hairy not looking to change that lol Have limited real life experience and more experience online. Kinks: objectification,degration,markings,nipple breast torture play,anal etc Curious about: bondage,suspention,cage,electric toy Limits: ddlg,scat,blood

What i am seeking. Female that seeks to serve and wants friendship and grow our kinks together. Must be comfortable with sharing her self and doing tasks for my pleasure.

What i am offering Devoted attention to the muse i hope to find aftercare.

Anything else message me and let's see if our chemistry and energy matches well and good luck out there.

Hii hii! I'm jolie, 21 years old. I've always been quite fond of playing with my butt, and often use toys to buttfuck myself. I'd even say I fuck my ass more frequently than my pussy. Now recently I've really been enjoying the porn in which a sub girl has to suck a guy's cock right out of another girls asshole. Maybe I'm just a filthy & mean bitch, but I can't get the thought out of my head of some guy fucking me up the bum and having his wife right there sucking him off right out of my asshole. I really like the idea, especially the submissive humiliation aspect for the wife/girlfriend🤭. Hmu if you are interested, I would love to hear from u!!

Master wants to share his slutty fuck toy with strangers. He says- the more the better.

Requirements: Male, over 18, & must have a bit (if not a lot) of a sadistic side. Enjoy edging, orgasm denial, and doling out punishments when necessary.

If you're interested, please drop a DM with a short description of how you treat fuck holes.

Thank you 🥰

Hi everyone, I’m an 18 male new to the BDSM community and looking to connect with a Domme interested in taking control. I’m open to exploring and I enjoy kinks like pegging, ass play, humiliation, and degradation, along with other aspects of submission.

I’m here to meet someone who would enjoy guiding me and helping me explore these interests. I’m also very open to communication about limits, boundaries, and expectations. If you’re interested, I’d love to chat

I'm a bi bottom guy who's becoming curious about being a sub for another guy. I'm not naturally submissive, but I am being increasingly turned on by the idea of a man being able to make me want to give up control and submit. I did make this M4A, so I'm open to anyone, but I don't see myself being submissive towards a woman. I suppose anything is possible, though.

I'm not looking to get into anything dangerous. I'm not willing to change my life or situation. I just want someone to make me crave their attention and approval.

I'm a 6', 215lbs with a clean appearance. I am generally a pretty masculine in appearance and personality. I am in a long-term relationship. No, she isn't aware of this.

I'm serious about pursuing this. I hope you are, too.

Hello. My name is Ian. Thanks for taking time to read my post! https://imgur.com/a/FC1bbTU#C84NNlO

I am putting myself out here fully in an attempt to find a life partner. The amount of fakes, flakes and AI I have to deal with is absurd. I'm a real man looking for a real woman for a real relationship.

I'm a 35 year old man in Tampa seeking my forever little/pet.

I will ask you to verify/video chat with me soon into us talking. Please send photos of yourself in your first message.

I am hoping to find someone in or near (Under an hour away) from me in the Tampa area. I am open to online connections and seeing where they can go also... but I genuinely need something real and tangible in my life.

If you're distant and not open to relocating to Tampa this probably wouldn't work. My job is pretty tied to this area. Unless you have ability/means to support me relocating. I am open to moving from Florida at this point in time.

Brief

I want someone to go play pool with, stay home and board game with, dance with, introduce to my family/friends as mine, try new places, host parties with, go to events with and grow old with living life.

I hope to find someone who is short (4'9-5'6) as I am very tall at 6'2 and hope to find someone active and with a high drive that can keep up with me. Bonus points if you're petite/smol! That's just my type.

You should enjoy stuff like costumes/lingerie, roleplay/age play, cnc, creampies, oral (giving and receiving) ownership/TPE, possibly group play or at least dirty talk about it, dirty talk, plugs, toys, choking, spitting, slapping, spanking, sensory play and bondage.

Basically I want you to dress up in lingerie for me and color books in my bed as you cuddle stuffed animals until I crawl into bed with you and do all of the bad things above with you....

I have some more details about me in other posts on my profiles as well as detailed stories about my past if you would like more insights into who I am and how I think.

Really hope I find my munchkin.

About Me

I'm a 35 year old man in the Tampa area. I own a pool cleaning company. My hobbies are cooking, reading, walking, billiards, board games and reading reddit of course!

I've mainly tried to use my reddit to help home owners overwhelmed with their pools. I aim to some day use this account for my work but I figure in the mean time I may as well look for love.

I am a trained chef, love spend time together, cuddler, buy you personal and well thought through gifts, take you to special places and bond with you on the deepest levels.

I have a cat named Raymond. We're a package deal. Poor dude has a tummy condition and requires a special diet and medicines. He is the worlds SWEETEST cat though and he has the BEST cat Daddy who keeps him safe. https://imgur.com/a/exSZlrf

I'm a liberal who believes in equality and supports women's rights. I'm not interested in MAGA types. At all. I read/watch news daily. I am super informed and current on players/events in American politics. I've been actively participating in politics since 2000.

I'm ready for a serious relationship. I'm hopeful to find someone who's going to be 110% about me. I want to be 110% about someone. To embrace someone fully and to also be embraced fully.

Someone who has time for me and ability to talk with me. I am a big communicator. You can expect me to send you detailed and timely replies to the best of my abilities through the days. Clearly from my post length you can see I'm a big talker.

I'm in a billiards league and would love to find someone to bring with me to it weekly. I'm sort of always stag and I'd love having someone in the peanut gallery who I can have rooting for me at very least!

I prefer audio messaging due to my having to drive a lot. Hopefully this isn't any issue.

I want to be a priority for someone and to have someone as my priority.

I'm a good guy. My mom raised me to be a proper gentleman. I am not looking for hook ups or one night stands. I genuinely want to find a relationship. I do not sleep around. I have manners.

I want to take care of the person who takes care of me.

I eat healthy mostly. I was a culinary student in high school/college. I eat meat but I'm big on eating vegetables also so if you're vegan or vegetarian don't sweat! I've got you covered.

I'm very clean and sort of a germaphobe. I wash my hands a ton. You never have to worry about me touching you with dirty hands. Ever.

I love going to new places and trying new foods. I love sweets as well. Esp fruit stuff. Mango ANYTHING. Recently discovered watermelon/chamoy/lime/tajin and I cannot get enough!

My work is very demanding to keep me fit but time wise and energy wise so I don't currently work out at a gym. I am in the process of trying to change things so I can start lifting weights. I enjoy being active and sweating.

I'm a former martial artist. I'm trained in a couple different styles. I would love having someone I could teach some basic self defense to! Or maybe even spar someone skilled?! Teaching you how to protect yourself is a big deal to me.

I am very entrepreneurial. I enjoy designing business models since 15 and I also study game design and player psychology to create my own board games some day.

It's important to me that physical touch be something you enjoy. It's my primary love language. I require lots and lots of hugs also. Cuddling too. Especially during a movie/late night tv session.

It's important to me that we be compatible and experience compersion over the others life experiences.

I'm a sexual person. Learning about you and what you enjoy is something I will love doing.

I am a take charge type. I don't enjoy disclosing my bedroom interests to anyone who isn't my partner but I am very adventurous and open minded to many things. I am someone who enjoys the pleasures life has to offer and giving them in return.

I enjoy Rap music, Rock music, some EDM and Pop music. I do not like country music. I played guitar as a teen and still can but don't really anymore. I love to enjoy music on my sound system though. I want to feeeeel that bass. I love subwoofers. My room rattles. Set it to "JUMP" and leave it there.

About You

I am looking for someone who is aged 25+ ideally. Is in the Tampa area, close to it or is moving here soon.

I'm hopeful to meet someone I can build something serious with. Living together. Marriage. I'm not sure about having kids. The world is kind of a mess...

You should enjoy trying new places/foods! I will try to expand your horizons. I love to go on adventures.

You're motivated, healthy and active. You enjoy to dress up and wear nice clothes. At least from time to time. (Special occasions for sure!)

You are active. Maybe you do yoga or some kind of Pilates type regiment. Maybe you just go to the gym and walk/lift a little weight. Maybe martial arts? You enjoy moving your body and getting a little hot/sweating doesn't bother you.

I'm sort of a giant and prefer women who are on the shorter side (+/-5'0-5'8) but that doesn't mean I don't like or appreciate tall beautiful women who are into me also.

You should be nerd adjacent. If you're not into nerd culture then you should at least be open to embracing that I am.

I will love to hear about stuff you geek out over. Please tell me about your passions and hobbies!

You are someone sexual. You want a man who loves you physically and mentally and cannot get enough of you. You love that I know how to talk to you and touch you in just the ways you enjoy. Our energies feed off of one another.

You are liberal. You may not be strongly opinionated or outspoken but you definitely have your wits about you in the political arena and can carry a conversation about current events to at least some degree. You absolutely support women's rights and are pro LGBTQ+.

You're not majorly religious. You may be spiritual or may practice faith in some degree but organized religion should be a turn off for you.

You don't smoke cigs (weed is fine) and you're not an alcoholic/heavy drinker. Getting drunk here and there is fine but definitely not something you're doing nightly or multiple times through your week. You respect alcohol.

You're a clear and effective communicator. You take the time to send detailed responses to the best of your abilities. You can tell me what you'd like, when you'd like it and how you'd like it to your best ability. You can be direct. Don't shut down in conflict. Certainly capable of forming together a text message that's more than one to four words.

You enjoy gaming! Playing board games with friends or video games is something you enjoy doing from time to time. You enjoy engaging in fantasy/pretend. Maybe not Dungeons and Dragons style “role playing”... but you enjoy allowing yourself to slip into another universe or a characters mindset!

That's about all I can think of for now but I'm sure I will add to this while I'm searching...

If you actually made it this far please send me the word "Icing" so i know you've actually read my post! I will likely ignore your reply if you don't send this.

Please feel free to send me your photo and any information about yourself you'd like for me to know about you!

If you like what you see and read let's talk! Chat soon? Ian

Please note! This is not a purely sexual thing. I’m looking for something real here. I want something real and long-term. I want feelings involved.

Hey there! My name is Bryan, and I’m 38 from Boston. I am a Daddy, and have been for most of my adult life. And I’m looking for a couple that seeks a caring mentor type.

I’ve helped Mentor younger Doms, and have had littles – both platonically and in a relationship. I’m looking for a couple that’s open minded and wants to form a real friendship, and hopefully a relationship.

This is certainly going to take some time. It’s important to me that I earned your trust. I don’t want to rush into anything, hopefully you don’t either.

I’ve been pretty successful in life, so I can help with kink related stuff as well as just life advice

If any of this sounds interesting to you, come say hi! I’m totally respectful of your limits and wants/needs. Worst thing that could happen is that we don’t vibe and we both make a new friend!

Come say hello, I’m waiting for you 🥰

I'm an late 30s decently fit, kinky, dominant and experienced bearded white guy. I'm a totally normal guy with a high functioning professional job during the daytime but a kinky sadistic freak behind closed doors.

I love dominating and manhandling women in the bedroom and in particular I have a thing for cnc, free use, throat fucking, restraints, and impact play. I'll have a nice hotel room and am open to lots different scenarios. In the past I've kidnapped and raped someone in the back of a rented u-hail van, broken into a house to molest someone sleeping, entered into the wrong hotel room to discover someone waiting for their boyfriend, escort encounter gone wrong as well as a few others. Really I'm open to any and all scenarios as long as the execution is realistic.

I'm ultimately open to lots of ideas and kinks and am very respectful of all rules and limits, so am happy to draw the line wherever you feel safe and comfortable. I'll be in town for parts of the next two weeks so let me know if this is something that you might be interested in and we can discuss rules and setup.

Pic gets a pic. Looking forward to hearing from you 😁

Hi! I'm looking for dom who would control me. I like being teased, edging. I do not send photos. I want you to tell me how I should touch myself in details. I'm looking for someone for just tonight, but if we both have fun we may do it again ;) Let's text and see if we match!

I'm an experienced dom looking for a female sub in her late 20s to mid-30s. Open to short term or long term. Please be a cis female. It’s fine if you’re a beginner or an experienced sub. My main kinks are impact play, D/S, orgasm control, ANR, to name some. I like to give cuddles afterwards.

I am 40, straight, 5’9” and located in the Rancho Bernardo area. Please send a couple pictures with your response. You can mention your kinks if you have any, or just say hi.

I have come to realize I need a slave in my life. Someone that thrives off of total submission and service. Subs tend to fit this role well since they know their place as cumdumps. But I need more than just a warm set of holes, I need a slave that will worship me and serve me domestically. Cooking and cleaning in addition to gagging on my cock. Your pussy, ass, and mouth are for my use. Freeuse is a given because a true slave knows their purpose in life is to make their Daddy cum as much as possible.

I expect you to be submissive and eager to please.

If being facefucked, assfucked, and mindfucked makes you yours excited, send me a message. Address me as Sir and tell me your asl, kinks, and why you need to submit totally.

I’m a 41-year-old man from northeastern Ohio, seeking a submissive partner who is drawn to Total Power Exchange (TPE), Consensual Non-Consent (CNC), and other dynamics involving a significant power exchange. I am especially interested in someone who identifies as a traumaslut or is open to exploring the deep psychological and emotional aspects of submission.

A bit about me:

I have experience in power exchange dynamics, and I understand that building trust and a strong, open line of communication is key to any successful D/s relationship.

I enjoy intense, immersive dynamics where control is handed over completely, and the focus is on both mental and physical aspects of submission.

Consent is non-negotiable—while I enjoy the intensity of CNC, it is always within the bounds of mutual consent, negotiation, and ongoing communication.

I’m looking for someone who is ready to explore these dynamics deeply, with an emphasis on both the physical and emotional aspects of power exchange.

If you're into TPE, CNC, or other power dynamic kinks and are comfortable in a role where you're able to let go of control and submit completely, I’d love to talk. Please feel free to DM me with your thoughts, experiences, limits, and any questions you may have.

Important: I believe strongly in mutual respect and ensuring both partners feel safe, valued, and heard. If you’re new to these dynamics, I’m happy to discuss things further and go at a pace that’s comfortable for you.

Looking forward to connecting and seeing where we might go.

Hey everyone! Nice to meet you! 19y/o caring and pleasure Dom, I’m new here, I’m a young Italian, single and monogamous, looking to deepen my experience in this beautiful world of kink. My goal is to find a sub parter to grow with, building a connection that goes beyond just play. I have some experience but know there’s always more to learn, and I’d love to do that with the right person. I’m down to verify, trade pics, voice messages and do video calls once we click and we’re comfortable with each others! :3

Some of the kinks I enjoy are impact play, tortures, wax play, some humiliation, edging, anal, orgasm and cum control, praises, body writing and generally taking control. There is probably more and I’m up to try new things. Prioritizing limits, aftercare and consent.

Saying some vanilla things about me I’m around 5’7 tall (170cm), with an athletic/fit body, working out 3 times a week, brunet. I’m a really caring person with a lot of interests beside this kinky side, I’m a competitive table tennis player and gymbro, I love reading, arts, watching films, tv series, playing video games, however my favorite hobbies are to go out and stay in touch with the nature maybe doing some walks in the woods or doing outside activities, I’m an huge lover of music and animals, I have a nerdy side too. I can be a bit of an introvert at first but if we match I’ll easily melt haha. Recently graduated with interest in psychology and medicine, I have a part time job too. Besides this usually I’m pretty free and I’m willing to dedicate my time chatting with you if you demonstrate to be a person that worth it. I wanna say that I’m always down to explore and try new things together, sex and non related.

Right now I’m mainly looking for something online, distance is not a big problem for me but I do want to meet up if I’ll find the person. I decided to try to come here hoping to find the person that will fill my heart. Someone honest, loyal and dedicated, someone on my same frequency that will be able to make this journey exciting for both of us. I’m specifically looking for dynamic with a relationship outside the kink, someone mature enough to be able to create a strong dynamic being able to maintain it together aiming to explore together both sides of it, sexual and non sexual ones. I don’t intend to rush anything tho since it requires a lot of trust and a good knowledge of each others before doing anything. Please don’t text me if you’re not open to the possibility of something serious and durable. Things like age, body types and appearance in general isn’t a problem, I just look into your soul!

I can’t wait to hear something from you, let’s see if we can be a good match.

Happy last day of January everybody!

I write this post in regards to something I've been daydreaming about for a while now and was hoping someone out there understood where I was coming from.

I've been in the scene for 10 years and while I've met my fair share of wonderful people, today I wanted to try to find someone I could mentor and help guide along their path to kinky exploration. To be very clear, all I'm really concerned about is opening the doors for someone while making sure they do it in a safe way. There is something I find extremely rewarding about giving back to the kink community. In my own way, I have been uplifted and given so many wonderful opportunities that I really want to instill the values I was taught into someone else, taking extra care to give them the chance they need to really flourish.

While I do have areas of expertise, there is a part of me that also wants to learn alongside whomever decides I am deserving of to mentor them. That said, if there was a form of kink that interests you that I am not terribly experienced in, I would love to take that as a sign to broaden my horizons and learn alongside you.

If any of this interests you, please feel free to DM me, I'd love to here from you!!

Let me tell you about the benefits of being denied. Foremost, you stay horny all the time. Not getting release means you keep wanting it, rather than having a period of disinterest in sex after you’ve cum. Without orgasms, you won’t have that drop in horniness. You’ll want it all the time, constantly thinking about your needy clit and wet, aching pussy. Just the way you should be. You’ll find yourself grinding against your chair to get a little stimulation and your panties will be soaked by the end of the day.

Giving up control over your orgasms makes you more pliant. More willing to do what I want. It reinforces the idea that your body is not yours, but mine. It becomes easier to forget about silly ideas like dignity and autonomy, and just think about how your pussy is desperate to cum. But also that it’s important that you don’t, because that’s what I want. Doing what I want is the most important thing. Whether it’s only being able to touch your nipples or going anal-only for a while, you’ll do whatever I want.

Being denied reminds you of your place. That your pleasure is not for you, but for me. Your body is for me. You don’t get to decide when you cum. That’s up to me. The way it should be.

Remember: good girls don’t cum.

Nothing turns me on more than licking a woman and making her cum. I enjoy licking pussy a lot. I want to find a girl that will let me lick her for long periods of times and as often as she'd like. Im really good with my tongue.

Im very dominant but can be submissive when it comes to licking and eating pussy. I want a girl to use my tongue tonight. Ride my face, use me, make me lick you...or Lay back and let me make you cum for as much as you want...Im here to serve you.

I love to lick pussy for hours and its been a while.

Tell me a little about yourself? I can host and Im also mobile...

My friend is experienced 31 yar old Indian girl. But she is married and needs discretion. She has been with me for a while. I enjoy sharing her with other white men. So if you are an older cis white man and this sounds interesting. Please let us know.

Only men who match our preferences and serious should respond.

Thanks.

I am an older white man (52 to be exact) and live in beautiful California most of the time but travel frequently within USA and international. I work in tech sector and semi-retired. I have enough free time and private home to host. We are looking for the right men and indulge in safe friendly mutual gratification. We enjoy intense but nothing too extreme.

Hello there

I am looking for an exceptional partner. Someone who is both extremely submissive and kinky. The title is a bit of a bait but it's also the best way to describe what I want in as few words as possible.

I will preface this by saying I am looking to build a genuine relationship with you. While It does say online, this can only work properly irl. So it would be online to start with intention of transitioning to irl. I am looking for a partner in love as much as in kink. I want you to become mine both in and out of bed. My love, my doll, my sub.

I will add few requirements. 1. I like short girls, so ideally you're someone who around 160cm(5'2) tall. And you are willing to jump into a voice call within a day of chatting. These are non-negotiable.

In this post, I will lay out the general idea of what I want, and how I want. On my profile, there will be a pinned post in which I will delve into greater detail about everything and showcase how it would work in person. So as the title says, there are two main parts. Harem and dolls. Both of these will be needed to bring this fantasy of mine as close to reality as possible.

So Harem. I used this word because it's the easiest way I can describe what I want. I want to be in a closed relationship with more than 1 woman. I know, it's not exactly fair, but then again I'm not looking for fairness here. I'm looking for those who are willing to be in this kind of arrangement. As to why I want this, it's simple. I can be very demanding when it comes to my emotional and physical needs, so it would be much easier for more girls to handle it all. And in return, I will with every ounce of my body and mind make sure all of you are taken care of. Sexually and emotionally.

One part that you will need to handle with me are the kinks I have. And in general how I like my sexual experience to be like. I like it rough, sometimes a bit too rough I'd say. We're talking all-out sadistic stuff. From slapping, spanking, choking to bondage, restraints, collars, anal, and deepthroats. A rather free-use style in general. And it's because of all of those that I think it would be much easier to handle when you wouldn't have to go through these intense sessions all the time. So it would be well-balanced and fun in the end for all of us.

And the second aspect of it is the doll. This would be the control I would have over you outside of the sex. I want to shape your body, and your looks as if I was making a sculpture. Now to achieve the look that I would deem perfect there would be several ways. The main ones are training your body, wearing certain clothes, having certain hairstyles, and finally in the extreme of all cases even undertaking surgery.

So, if this post has sparked an interest in you, and you feel like this sort of d/s relationship is something you'd like. Please, go and check my profile. Read the pinned post. And then decide.

I hope to hear the best from you