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Looking for a very strict (bossy, lots of rules) but soft (likes praising and deep conversations) daddy dom. I want someone who can give me lots of rules (starting with a dozen or so but growing to a very long list covering practically every part of my life) Take away my control and make me your cute girly doll lol and strict protocol training. I'm a very little LG (little age is 2-3) and need a Daddy who's okay with that age range. I want a daddy dom who's tall, preferably over 40/50 or is very mature for his age, is patient and understanding, doesn't mind lots of questions, has a dominant/commanding voice (voice chats and voice clips during the day are awesome as I have a voice kink), and is soft when I'm in little space but can be strict and willing to train me to be a very good sub/LG and won't get upset or put off by my occasional bratting and will simply deal with that and put me in my proper place. I do have a job and a life (obviously) outside of this but need someone who can communicate with me throughout the day and is okay with me being kinda clingy and needy (when i'm not working). Please have experience being both a daddy and a dom. not looking for a sexual or romantic relationship. I'll be your best friend and emotional but never equal companion :)
Kinks: ddlg, petplay, slight degradation/humiliation, age play, aftercare, spankings, bathroom use control, behavior modification, butt plugs, anal stretching/play, collar, leashes, cuddles, obedience training, speech restriction, gags, wardrobe control.
Limits: sending nudes or inappropriate pics, sexting, sex, blowjobs, e-play, knives, needles, blackmail, meanies, anything illegal.
If interested please send me a chat introducing yourself, thank you!
Hey everyone, hope your day/night is going well.
The title pretty much sums it up, but I’ll expand on it more.
I’m looking for a femdom/switch woman, with whom I can form a potential long term dynamic with. I want the dynamic to be a mix of sfw and nsfw, with us both being comfortable with each other in both.
I will not be sending or asking for pics, so if this is your thing, you don’t have to reach out. My bigger turn on is the sexual bond and energy we can develop, through talking to each other.
What I want from you: someone fairly consistent to talk to, I understand we have our own lives and I respect that, but I do want regular contact. Someone who is open minded, chill, and does not care too much about superficial things.
What I offer: once I have a domme, I won’t accept another one. I am open minded, kind, considerate, and very relaxed. I will also be giving you the decision concerning my sexual activity. What I do and don’t do will be your choice.
With SFW, I’m open to anything. I am a very open minded person, and I would request the same from you.
With NSFW, I have a few main kinks, and I am open to more ideas that are not included in my limits.
My kinks are: bdsm, oil, oral, joi, light cbt, edging, denial, orgasm training, blindfolds, ropes, etc.
My limits (no budging): religious words or terminology (huge no), scat, blood, piss, underage, gore etc.
I hope this is interesting to some of you, and I look forward to some responses. Once I have a domme, I will remove these posts.
Have a good day ahead
If you only want casual/one time/fling/hookup/FWB, I’m not your babygirl. Thanks for stopping by. Bye. I’ll never forget you.
We begin with verification ^_^ My little is not coming out until I know what you look like, you know what I look like and we solidly verify. No sexy sexting until after we meet in person.
Demisexual babygirl here looking for love ^_^ because love is sexy. And by that, I mean boyfriend/relationship/let’s fall in love and have zero children!!
I’m a sub. Generally speaking. That being said, I can enjoy topping in some cases. Have I been called a pillow princess? Yes. Does that mean I just lay there not doing anything? Absolutely not. Unless it’s a cnc roleplay situation… I’m not really a service sub, though. I don’t want someone to make me please them. No thank you. Please… go away… No offense. It’s just super not my thing. AKA if you tell me to get on my knees, I might throw up on you.
Not a brat. I can top for my Daddy’s pleasure. And then will quickly get bored. I also can top for friends in a platonic way. Cuz it gives me giggles! But I am nooooot a domme. Even though I may present as a sassy boss lady. That’s more for work.
So ultimately a middle leaning submissive that can top. With major showing off for Daddy fantasies. Any Daddy stags who wanna mfm on me? Invite the gang over for a bang? I consider myself to be monogamous. If that doesn’t make sense to you, that makes two of us!
Everything merits discussion and exploration with each other. If you don’t like something, I won’t know if you don’t tell me.
Hold me down, tie me up, play with me! I have creative ways of expressing my gratitude. I just want someone to be grateful for.
While I love a good conversation and can clearly write quite a bit, my subby side is pretty nonverbal. Whimpering and brain fuzzy. Can enjoy some gentle cnc. That has been thoroughly negotiated beforehand. The one scenario where I might enjoy being shushed and told to relax. But if dirty talking/asking for permission is your thing, I can’t do it.
Love to conversate. Love to read and love readers. Love. Movies. Can nerd out about actors pretty extensively.
Total sensitive baby, so not really here for punchy slappy name calling. Please use nice words when you tell me to wear my buttplug for you today. Also, do you know anything about hypno? If so, I have questions.
Communication is important to me. Super important. Let me know. About stuff.
Who’s your favorite schitt’s creek character?
Generally looking to meet a gentleman above my height of 5’9” who lives somewhere cold that I can relocate to. Hehehe. But local daddies take priority. Monogamous types. In your 30s please! Forgot that last time. I’m already wondering what you look like… I’m gonna tell you what I look like. Remember the reciprocal deal I was talking about before?
I’m a 5’9” white BBW with dark curly hair. I have been called sexy/beautiful/pretty, so maybe you will agree. I had an injury that caused more weight gain. I’m looking to lose that, but I will never be small and never have been. But I have always been beautiful. And always will be. Jk. Not really. Drug free, don’t drink much and have no STI/STDs. Don’t have kids, don’t want ‘em. More of the cool auntie type.
If this ad is up, I’m probably still looking. I am in no rush!
Thank you for your time, gentle reader.
Love, little one/baby/princess/goddess divine
PS I am a liberal snowflake. I would rather have a rock as president than trump.
PPS Non-voters need not apply
This is probably going to be a long post so apologies in advance for my rambling. Trying posting here again and going to go into as much detail as I can :)
I'm 5'11" skinnier build around 150lbs, and a more introverted person. I'm currently living in central CT and while I have had online dynamics before, I am looking for something strictly in-person. I find online to be quite limiting in what can be done and something about having to constantly type out everything or screw with a camera takes away quite a bit of the experience for both parties. I'm open to driving a little or going back and forth on how we meet up, hence the listing of multiple states. However, the closer the better!
I'm not very picky when comes to age or appearance (no minors obviously), I would be more than happy to verify and would expect the same from you prior to meeting up. If either of us isn't at least moderately attracted to the other, no big deal, just move on, it is the internet after all. As long as your female, kinky, and dominant I'll very likely be all good.
Now for the fun part! As for my kinks the top one would have to be anal play. I absolutely love the feeling of something up my ass, even better if I'm being pegged! My asshole just feels so empty when there's nothing in it. I also find it compliments a newly acquired bladder control kink of mine quite well. Being forced to drink water, feeling it fill my stomach, knowing how painful it will be when it reaches my bladder and not being allowed to relive the pain is so hot! Having a toy pushing from the other side just makes it so much more intense. I'm all for pain especially anything like that which builds up getting more and more intense with time. Also a fan of CFNM, some light feminization, and of course bondage. I have several toys including plugs, collars, nosehooks, a chastity cage, as well as a few fetish outfits. I'm very willing and open to indulging other kinks, so if you have something in mind please do let me know!
As far as a scenario that's been dancing around in my head maybe you make me drink a lot of water to start, enough so my stomach is quite full. From there you can dress me up, or if you either prefer me naked or had me dressed up up prior my ass probably needs some attention. After a while my bladder is probably starting to get quite full, but that means there is more room in my stomach to fill. At this point I'm screwed, the only way to go is deeper... tighter bondage, eventually I will probably struggle with walking, I'll probably be begging for more pain elsewhere just to take my mind off my bladder. When I can't take it any more whatever is in my ass can come out just to free up more space which will be promptly filled. From here maybe my ass gets filled again taking the pain to a whole new level, or maybe you have some mercy and let me pee? There will probably be a catch though, my stomach is probably still quite full so as a price to pee I might have to drink even more to make sure that any relief will be quite temporary. Maybe my ass has to take even more, maybe you brought even more humiliating things I have to wear every time I want to pee. Maybe at some point you make me get dressed and we go out to buy more water while my bladder is extremally full, make me provide you with more of what is causing me so much suffering. Whatever your mind comes up with I'm sure what I'm experiencing at this moment will only be a drop in the bucket.
Hopefully something in here caught your eye. If so please do send me a chat request and lets talk more. I look forward to exploring the world's kinky endeavors with you!
Looking an older (40+ preferred but at least over 30), owner mostly platonic dominant owner who is strict and sadistic but also sweet and kind and are experienced in ddlg and petplay. Online is okay, but in real life is definitely preferable. Want an owner to train me like a real dog. Dehumanize me. Degrade me. Treat me like a real pet. Take me for walks. Teach me tricks. I need kennel and obedience training as I'm a bratty stray. Spank me. I want blindfolded, gagged, and muzzled. Tied up/forced bondage. I want a butt plug tail and nipple clamps. I want paw mitts and a gag and a tail and a collar/leash. Make me your cute little objectified pet. I want punished and disciplined. I want taken on walks. I want tied down and toyed with. I want to be put in my place and taught I'm just a silly, adorable human pet. I want to eat out of dog bowls and given butt scratches and belly rubs. Give me through body inspections. I want treats and training. not looking for a romantic or sexual relationship. Come teach me to be a good dumb pup 🐶 and give me lots of affection and snuggles!! (Bonus if you have real pets, too! Not for anything weird. i just like cute dogs to pet and learn how to be good from. Not a requirement though)
Kinks include: gags, bondage, anal plugs, collar/leash play, pain play, petplay, ddlg, public play, spanking, sensory deprivation, degradation, humiliation, protocol training, speech restrictions, boot licking, impact play, outdoor bondage, puppy play, nipple clamps, enamas, anal stretching, objectification, age play, medical play....
Limits: sex, oral, BJs, kissing, making sexy videos, nudes, whips, temperature play, needles, knives, scat, water play, anything permanent or illegal.
Send me a chat DM introduction telling me about yourself and your experience with petplay or real pets. Tell me your favorite coffee drink so i know you read my entire post. Thank you, and I hope to hear from you soon! 😊
Hello there
Looking for a Mistress/dom to use me as a slut. I tried to be a dom but my sub/slut size always come in front. Kinks humiliation and degradion is s must and we can discuss for more
as for limits: scat, blood, drugs blackmail, illegal stuffs
PLEASE: only serious dom, NO scammers, bots, blackmailers etc.
Hello everyone. I hope you bear with me. I, like many people, find writing about myself a bit awkward. I am 5’9”. I have hazel eyes and brown hair. I am a professional. I live in SE PA. I love to read. I go dancing frequently. I am a good cook. I like to go on adventures. I canoe and sail every summer. I also like to go out and see my favorite local bands. I am a former shy kid, so I really appreciate my friends. I have a sarcastic and playful personality and am often a source of support or stability in the lives of people around me.
The more private me has a longstanding interest in BDSM. I have experience. I have engaged in BDSM play in a few relationships and well as had one relationship that was explicitly BDSM oriented. I enjoy the power exchange dynamic, and am a big fan of submission, obedience and devotion. In terms of specific fetishes, I enjoy bondage, leashes, collars, plugs, spanking, training and blindfolds. My ideal is to have a submissive leashed and trained into a devoted, sensual pet.
So come say hello. I am happy to include you in things outside the formal dynamic and play time. I led with my “vanilla” aspects, so to speak, because that is who I am and what I spend most of my time doing and ultimately I am looking for a good fit. I love working with good girls. I love working with confused girls who just need a little extra attention and guidance. I am happy to speak with brats to. After all, most only need a set of cuffs and a gag to be well on their way to being good girls. I am a big fan of enthusiasm and affection.
Tell me a bit about yourself. Tell me if something in my post stood out to you. Ask any questions you have.
Hey! ❤️
Please feel free to message but introduce yourself well! Also, please know that I’ll want you to verify yourself in a photo holding up your username soon after we talk for a little while because there’s way too many weirdos pretending to be women here that don’t know how a reverse image search works. I can provide the same verification.
I have photos of me on my page! To start, I’m 5,10, blonde hair and blue eyes, very fit and attractive/muscular. I’m looking for someone interested in fully becoming a slave - I’m only interested in skinny women, sorry. The more extreme, taboo and intense your kinks and desires are the better. I’m able to financially provide for my slave as I make a good living in software and I’m very open to relocating the right person.
This might be a long post so apologies, but I want to be detailed. Please message me with a photo of you if you want to talk and tell me why this appeals to you!
I’ve spent quite a few years in the kink community and have had a few Master/slaves relationships. I know what I’m looking for, and I’ve accepted that I just can’t compromise on owning my partner. I’m looking for someone fully interested and committed to being an actual slave (eventually when we get to know each other well!) Someone to truly love and own. With that said, I need someone I can trust fully to do this with and it’s not a quick process we can just jump into. I’m looking for a real relationship, someone I can really be with as my slave/pet. I believe slavery should be based on trust and the slave should eventually have no limits - this isn’t being a “sub”, this is real slavery and I’m not into people that don’t know the difference or say they’re a slave but then have a long list of demands. You’re property, through and through, and you’ll be treated like property.
I truly love everything about Master/slave relationships - I believe Master/slave is the height of intimacy that two people can reach together. The amount of trust, communication and dedication it takes to give yourself to someone fully, to let them truly control your life in every way, can’t be beaten or matched. I am into more extreme forms of ownership as I really enjoy the process of dehumanization and total control over my slave’s life. I’m very serious about this lifestyle, I have experience in full 24/7 slave relationships, and plan to do this forever with the right person.
My kinks:
Into: "apologizing" with your mouth, "her hot, wet tongue on my asshole", "my ass is dirty, lick it clean", "shut the fuck up and get on your knees", 24/7, 24/7 365 slavery, 24/7 total power exchange, a sick, twisted, wicked fucking sexual mind, affectionate cruelty, at my table, you eat from a doggy bowl, baby i know it hurts just take it for daddy, ball gags, bathroom use control, blumpkin, brutal facefucking until her makeup is ruined, caging/confinement, collar and lead/leash, collars, complete and total objectification, connecting on a deeper level, creampie, cuddling naked, daddy daughter roleplay, daddy/babygirl, daddy/girl, ddlg, degradation, dirty ass to mouth, discipline, dog play, domestic servitude, domestic slavery, enforced bedtime, extreme dehumanization, extreme humiliation & degradation, extreme verbal abuse, eye contact restrictions, face fucking, face slapping, facefucking, farting during a rim job, fetishes so hardcore fetlife bans them, forehead kisses, getting my ass licked and worshiped, high protocol, human toilet, human toilet paper, humiliation, humiliation & degradation, intimacy, not just sex, kinky homework assignments, kitten petplay, making out, male authority, manhandling, master/slave, mind control, no limit slavery, obedience training, objectification, oral sex, orgasm control, orgasm denial, petplay, remote-control devices, rituals, rough sex, sadism, sensory deprivation, sensual domination, service-oriented submission, sexual objectification, sexual slavery, slave training, slavery, spanking, spit in her mouth while fucking her, spitting, talking dirty, tease & denial, the no panties rule, toilet slavery, toys, watersports, wet, messy, face fucking
Looking for Girls and fit/feminine Boys
30 M Dom Teacher looking for a sub. I am a Dom more than 10 years and my last Dom-Sub-Relationship lasted 5 years.
Im currently looking for an sub, who wants to be owned and trained with passion. If youre not having any experience, No problem, as long youre honest, obedient and willing to be a Sub.
I am very open to all kind of kinks, but I am very into orgasm control, edging, orgasm denial, toilette Control and so on. These kinks are no must, most important thing to me is, that you are feeling as comfortable as possible!
Send me a Message, If youre intrested
I'm 5'11, 180lb, blue eyes.8" long and thick. I'm looking for a very submissive girl. She has to be trimmed or shaved. She must be very openminded. Huge plus if you're into anime and video games. Another huge plus if you're a tomboy.
I'm into public play, pet play, CNC, free use, breeding, bondage, deepthroat and more. If interested ask for my full kink list.
I’m completely new to this, so I apologize if I’m saying the wrong thing or using the wrong terms.
I would like to find a dominant and patient man that is willing to build an online relationship with me. I’ve been exploring more of what makes me blush, and the things that I crave. There’s something about being called a good girl and earning praise that makes me feel more accomplished than anything else. I want to please but i also want to be a brat and get put in place. I want to devote and give myself over. I don’t know enough to really know what to ask for but I’m hoping the right man comes along and shows me the way. The caveat is that I am married, in a deadbedroom situation, not looking to end things there but add to my own life and be selfish for once. Completely understand if that’s a turn off and I’m open to guys going through their own rough patch.
If you haven’t left by now. I’m 5’3, curvy, told I have a good smile, caramel skin, black hair, and I love to laugh.
Hello,
In regard to kink, I’m looking for a complete TPE relationship. However, this does not mean I won’t have limits. I can’t believe I have to say this, but everything kink-wise revolves around control, but I want a respectful master who understands, accepts, and also has the same limits. I want to be clear in saying I am looking for someone who is almost psychotically controlling.
My ideal partner would be someone who takes on the title of Master, though I do have some interest in DDLG, but it would take time to develop. I want a master who is both strict and loving, someone who can balance discipline with care and nurturing. I also understand that sadism is a key element of this dynamic, but above all, I want a real connection outside of the power exchange itself.
To be clear, I am not someone who needs to be rescued or constantly cared for, but I’ve recently started questioning whether my lifestyle is actually healthy for me. I’ve realized that I’ve been stuck in some negative patterns, which is why I’ve decided to reach out here instead of staying in a cycle of frustration. I do have experience with this type of dynamic, and I know that I need it again.
A few things to know about me:
I believe in being upfront, so I’ll be honest here. Some of my qualities are helpful, but they can also have their downsides. I have OCD that causes anxiety. I hope this doesn’t turn you away, but I think it’s important to be transparent.
I don’t smoke, do drugs, or have any major vices. I occasionally drink wine with meals, but that’s it.
I’m open to relocating, but that’s not my primary focus. If it makes sense to relocate, we could talk about that. However, this will initially be a long-distance dynamic, as I have obligations where I am now. I will move anywhere, even outside of the U.S.
I lean towards conservative values, particularly when it comes to politics.
I’m from a very rural area, and my interest in homesteading is more than just a passing fantasy. Outside of that, I enjoy movies, occasionally video games, gardening, animals, DIY projects, and home decor, and I’m passionate about cooking (and I’m really good at it). I also listen to a lot of metal music.
Physically, I’m a brunette with blue eyes and pale skin. I’m about 5’4” and weigh around 105 pounds. I tend to come off as serious or reserved at first, but I have a playful side once I feel comfortable. I’ve been told I seem neurodivergent, and I don’t always open up right away. I need someone who can take the lead in conversations early on and ask the questions that help me feel at ease. I don’t want there to be any demands early on.
One last thing, my limits. Tattoos Body Modification Swinging/Group Sex Needles Vomit/Scat (35+ ONLY PLEASE)
That’s about it for now. If you reach out, please be clear about what you’re looking for and don’t hesitate to ask any questions.
Thank you for reading.
What I’m looking for here is pretty simple, I’m looking for a toy to train in orgasm denial, to edge and deny you without mercy, and to torture your pussy and clit. Good girls don’t cum, those are the words you will follow.
I want to start with short periods of denial, and after each orgasm, the time between this orgasm and the next for you will increase. Let’s say I edge and deny you for a day, I might do 3 days next, then a week, and so on. I’m looking for a long term dynamic, with the eventual goal of permanent orgasm denial.
In addition, I want to torture your clit, with the added sensitivity that denial will bring you, I want to take advantage of this and abuse your pussy in all sorts of creative ways.
On that note, I’ve pretty much covered what I’m looking for. In your opening message, include your age, sex, a short description of yourself, and for fun, tell me what’s got you looking to have your pussy denied and abused?
Searching for THE TPE sub who is okay with my busy schedule. Thats only you if you can hold a REAL conversation. I'll make time for you... You are clingy. The more you want it, the deeper Im in. Come for it. I'll be there. Message me for it. Im here. I'm fit. I'm in the market for a Petite/fit female. I will take physical and emotional power over you. I'm 6"3' 245lbs. I will choke you out and (maybe if you're lucky) throw you across the room. im all hands. I have cuffs. they might be fuzzy for the right sub. maybe some rope too. idc. Give me TPE. ill make sure your taxes are filed and you do your school work. Let's connect first. Message me and tell me your kinks, your limits, and your age/build. I'll send pics. You will send me pics. We will talk. Let me get to know you, and what you have to offer. tell me your asl. tell me your limits. tell me your hobbies. tell me why you think you are a fit for me. looking for younger victims. 19-21 pref, but willing to negotiate if your bring the right mindset to the table. its all about you. are you the one? tell me your kinks and limits.
personal limits; tats, perm, scat, illegality, the usual
lmk. i l know you are interested. i see you peeping the post. just send asl. ill ask for th rest.
Hi, we are a younger couple looking for a free us maid to have fun with and clean up after us and such. You would be able to stay at home 24/7 and would not be required to work but would be expected to handle most household tasks. We would both be very interested and actively using you to fulfill our sexual desires. This would be a longer process as we would prefer to get to know you before we would feel comfortable allowing a stranger in our home. Please feel free to message us if you are interested or have any questions!
36 white guy visiting Tokyo. A gentleman, and an intense daddy dom. Blue eyes.
I’m looking for a cheating slut who loves it rough and is desperately craving it from not having had what she needs in too long.
There should be mutual attraction, but age/race/looks aren’t the most important thing for me. I want someone who knows what they want and is ready to lean into the dom/sub dynamic and have fun.
I don’t have a specific kink for people who cheat. I just know from experience that it’s truly no strings attached, an arrangement for mutual pleasure, and just better sex giving you what you need but aren’t getting.
Communication is key, safe play and respect for each other. If this caught your eye check out my profile for some of my kinks and fantasies and message me if you wanna see where things go. Prefer to keep things simple, discreet, straight forward, and fun. Happy searching.
Hi subs,
I have lots of creative and interesting ideas for tasks and rules. I am looking for obedient subs willing to try my kinky ideas!
I am open to female subs or couples only.
I prefer chats over comments.
My fav kinks are tpe, body writing, spankings, public play, outfit control, orgasm control, sex toy control, humiliation, etc.
No solo men!
24 yo m in Cartersville Georgia searching for a dominant female near me to have fun with. Little about me I’m a cuck I’ve heard me girlfriend with other guys and girls. I love to be degraded and humiliated. I’m into pain and doing as my master pleases tie me up and do as you please. I’m 5ft 10 athletic build message me with any questions if your not near me I will probably talk to you if your interesting and fun to talk to. If your near and are into this message me and let’s see where this goes I’m very good with my mouth as well just an fyi!
I wanna be upfront and say that I don't just want empty horny conversations. Times are tough and I want to find good and interesting new people to keep me sane. I'm kind of a nerd, with all kinds of nerdy and not-so-nerdy hobbies and interests. I'm one of those types who's just as happy hiking and camping out in the middle of nowhere as sitting down to play video games and making dumb jokes (and my jokes are so dumb). Meeting someone interested in kink, dynamics, and the lifestyle, in general, is just a big bonus. If you’d like to see what I look like I will share, but most likely not immediately. I'm sorta a tall, broad-shouldered guy and I’m confident in my looks. I just try to be careful with anonymous internet folk so if you wanna know what I look like, ask once we've spoken a bit. I love conversations so if nothing else, come say hi and engage me and I’ll be more than happy to talk.
I am kind of Hypersexual. I love BDSM, beyond just the physical practice of it. Learning about it and exploring it is a hobby I really enjoy. I'm a Dominate most of the time, but I do get very switchy. I like exploring so if you're interested in a specific kind of dynamic just ask. I have a plethora of kinks, but I'm not trying to spoil the fun of what they are right away. I will say I love brats and all things petplay. I enjoy being gentle and I adore being rough. So let's talk, maybe set up a dynamic, or maybe just have some fun. I do want to eventually find that naughty little kinkster out there that I can build a bond with and regularly break in half.
I'm very Bi, and love to fuck folks from all over and outside of the gender spectrum.
Feel free to DM!
yo!! my name is seventh, im 23, black, and go by any pronouns (im afab if tht matters, not planning any surgeries or hormones atm). i mainly present femme but i hope youll be accepting and understanding of my identity, and hopefully a little bit gay yourself.
my special interests are the scp foundation, streetwear/alt fashion, psychology, true crime, kpop, and digital anthropology! i have a huge interest in behavioral science n criminal psych :3 i thrift way too much so if you like choosing your subs outfits i have lots of options!
bdsm wise, im 99.99% sub 00.01% power sub. im kinda a pillow princess. im definitely bratty, just a warning in case thats not your thing. i fight to lose but i wont make it easy. debating n finding loopholes in rules is super fun to me.
my favorite kinks are overstim/orgasm control, brat taming, cnc, praise, petplay, and restraints. my limits are raceplay, scat, breeding, body shaming and blood. i have more limits/ kinks but we can talk abt them later.
im on the spectrum, if you are too please talk to me lmao. i love people that teach me things or skills or languages or even how to play your favorite video game. you could even give me homework or something and id do it.
im okay w talking and seeing how things go, but id hope to end up in a long term monogamous relationship as well as a long term dynamic. but i havent dated in a long time so im not looking to rush into anything. if we vibe we vibe :)
id hope my future dom will be understanding, patient, and communicative, and ill do my best to be the same. if the internet rotted a little hole in your frontal cortex thats a huge bonus btw it will help us bond <3
tell me your least favorite animal in your message to me, otherwise ill assume you just skimmed all this lmao
Into chastity, anal play, cbt and humiliating tasks. Looking for a master who will make me realise what a pathetic bitch I am. Prefer fit and hung men who are older than me. Im based in the uk but happy to chat to me. From other countries. Force me to ruin my hole for you please.
Hello and eager to meet you. I have always been facinated by milfs. I have talked to alot of them and it's always been the case that they have had taboo fantasies of domination and degradation. To be controlled and ordered to do humiliating things for me till they cum for my pleasure. So I'm here to find a sub with exactly that in mind.
My kinks are, degradation, humiliation, orgasm control and wardrobe control. I only have one limit ie sending pictures.
What I can offer: A safe space to experience your taboo and non-taboo fantasy. You won't be ever forced to send pictures or videos. Body shape doesn't matter, just your enthusiasm does. Aftercare after each session and your safewords will be respected.
What I'm looking for in a sub: You would preferably be > 25 but everyone is welcome. You might have a husband or not, it wouldn't bother me, and you shouldn't feel guilt over reaching out, if you do feel guilty, do refrain from dming. You can be a beginner sub or experienced, both are welcome. We wouldn't be able to talk 24/7, as both you and I will be busy, maybe we will talk for 1-4 hours or so at a stretch but I would understand if you would want to skip a day or two.
If you have read it this far and seem interested to atleast chat, do dm with your kinks and limits.
Howdy,
So like the title says, I am a Daddy Dom looking for a little girl (and/or pet) to call my own. It's been years since I've been in a proper dynamic and I miss it more and more every day. Sometimes all I can think about is having a sweet little babygirl to hold and cherish and take care of (as well as other things of course ;3).
One thing I've learned that I very much want in a partner is shared interests in nerdy things, preferably video games but not necessarily; if you like books, tabletop games (e.g. D&D), anime, supes, etc, I enjoy all of those things too!
About me: I'm 5'10", 150lbs, white, short dyed black hair, blue eyes with glasses, 12 tattoos across my arms and back, and DDF. I will never want and am unable to have children. In my free time I like to read, play and make video games, study Japanese, practice archery, and train in martial arts. Currently working towards becoming a full-time indie game developer (the best way to get me to open up and talk for hours is to ask me about what I'm currently/planning on working on). I have two cats, Phantom and Guenhwyvar, whom I absolutely love to death, and you will too! Lastly, while I haven't been diagnosed yet, there's about a 99% chance I have Autism and ADHD.
Kink-wise, my tastes are many and varied, but I am very dominant and sadistic, though I can also be very sweet and caring; I am most definitely a service dom with a sadistic side. I would also need any dynamic I have to extend outside of the bedroom, and while part of my dream dynamic is TPE, going that far isn't necessary if that isn't something you're comfortable with. Inside the bedroom... Honestly that's a whole conversation all on its own.
Important points
-I am open to casual encounters, however my primary desire is someone who wants an LTR based on/around ddlg/petplay
-I have a high sex drive and am very kinky, but I'm perfectly willing to wait on that front until you are ready
-I will never want and cannot have children
-Physical attraction is very important to me, so I would like to exchange pics (sfw or not, I don't care) early in the conversation, no exceptions
-Im not looking for anything long-distance; please be within 50 miles of Chicago
-Please be between the ages of 21 and 29
-Lastly, I am incredibly monogamous with three exceptions: a throuple with myself, a female switch, and our shared sub (i.e. Daddy/Mommy/little girl), myself and two littles/pets, or myself and a cuckquean submissive; basically, I would not be caught dead sharing my little girl with another man. If you don't want to share me either, that's perfectly fine! These aren't requirements, moreso pipe dreams
I think that just about sums it up, more or less... If this all sounds interesting to you message me and let's talk!
Seeking a Service-Oriented Submissive
Hello, I’m Jay, a 24-year-old dominant with four years in the lifestyle. I’m active in the local community here in St. Louis and am currently pursuing my graduate studies. I’m looking for a service submissive, open to all genders, aged 19-30, who’s interested in building a non-sexual D/s dynamic focused on service and mutual respect.
What I’m Looking For:
A submissive who takes pride in service and enjoys contributing to a D/s relationship in meaningful, practical ways.
Someone who is reliable, enthusiastic, and committed to developing a structured, consensual dynamic.
An open-minded individual comfortable with the non-sexual nature of our connection, where we focus on service, learning, and growth within the lifestyle.
About Me:
I have a strong presence in the local scene and regularly attend events and gatherings.
I value communication, trust, and mutual respect in any dynamic.
As a dom, I enjoy guiding, mentoring, and building connections that empower and fulfill both partners.
If you’re interested or have any questions, feel free to message me. I’m happy to chat and discuss the possibilities further. Looking forward to connecting with someone who values service and dedication in the lifestyle as much as I do!
Good evening to everyone. Hope you are all having a good day.
So to start with the basics, I am 35 years old and live in EST. I am seeking a sub within the age range of 18-32 that is looking for a long term master. I am looking for a partner that is not just seeking a single night thing, but someone who wants something more.
So a little more about me. I been into bdsm since more or less 18, but quite honestly even more that. Just seemed like a natural inclination for me. Some of my bigger kinks are pet play, orgasm control, humiliation and degradation, bondage, sadism, nipple play, and tasks and rituals. Outside of kink I enjoy hitting the gym, hiking, camping, just being outdoors (Love Winter), and working on computers. Do enjoy watching TV as well, but do not have any specific shows that I am currently interested in, so that is a shame. Also enjoy reading when I can. Mostly Sci-Fi war books.
So what exactly I am seeking: -Someone fit or at least in decent shape. -Within the age range of 18-32. -Willing to try and learn new things. -Someone committed to the lifestyle and will be committed to the relationship. Not just a one night stand. -Someone who can type at least somewhat intelligently. Not saying even I am the best at it but have to be decent.
If you are interested and wish to see if we may be compatible, send me either a DM or chat, DM preferred because chat on here is weird. Put some effort into the reply and let me know some about yourself. Look forward to hearing from you.
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Hello there everyone! I’ve been into the bdsm world for a while now so I’m not new to the scene and I know generally what I’d want in a relationship.
A little about me: I am 21 years old about 170 lbs and I am 6 feet tall. I have blonde hair and blue eyes and I enjoy video games and movies/tv shows. I enjoy working out and am on the nerdy side. I enjoy learning about tech and I am wanting to go into tech for my career. I am a switch but lean heavily toward the submissive side so if you’re interested at all about switching things up I’d love to talk about it and try it.
What I’m looking for: I’m looking for someone that wants to be in a long term relationship with me and enjoys making rules/tasks to follow, loves to tease, and loves to be worshiped. I don’t have a specific preference on looks but I love to workout and would love to workout with my partner so if you like working out as well that’s a huge plus.
Kinks: I have many kinks that I enjoy but my most favorite ones are edging, overstimulation, bondage, pegging/anal play, chastity, praise, and light degradation. I am an experimentalist so I am someone who enjoys trying things at least once so if you have other kinks I’d love to try them (unless they are on my hard limits)
Limits: permanent pain, anything illegal, scat, blood and any excessive pain. (My whole body is super sensitive and I enjoy a little bit of pain which translates to a lot for me but it makes it hard to be a masochist😅)
I’m looking for a long term relationship but if you’d like to dm me and just talk about the kink world or just would like to be friends my dms are always open ☺️☺️☺️.
Have a great rest of your day!
Well the rules state we must be honest and forthright. So... Here it goes. I don't know what I'm expecting to find here, if anything at all. Honestly, I'm struggling. I'm at a low point, it feels like I'm grasping at straws. I'm on a 5 year dry spell, and my record wasn't great before that. Never really had a partner who stuck around long enough to learn what I'd hoped to. My confidence is shot up, and I'm at a loss. I need to rediscover my Dominant side. I have an idea as to what my fantasies are, but I guess I'm looking for someone patient who can help me discover more about myself. At the most basic level, I'm craving someone I can regularly talk to. I'm struggling with lonliness in an exceedingly distant world. Like I said, this post might all be for naught, I guess I'm hoping for a miracle.
Hello everyone!
After some life changes and taking some time to get settled, I figured it’s time to dive back into the kink scene. I’m located in South Central Pennsylvania, and although I’m open to things starting off online, I’d prefer to be able to meet up eventually, so the closer the better. That said, I’ll be able to move around and travel more easily in the future, so I can be flexible. I’d also prefer to share at least SFW pictures early on, so if that’s a limit for you I might not be what you’re looking for.
A little about me: I’m currently going back to school for my nursing degree while working full time at the hospital. I love travel, and actually spent time in south west Africa while working with the Peace Corps. Once I graduate I have quite a few trips I plan on taking, and I’d love to have a good travel buddy. In my free time I enjoy staying active outdoors, hiking and running whenever the weather holds up. I aim to pick up climbing soon as well! I also host a monthly board game night with my friends, and I still enjoy a quiet evening playing video games and relaxing with my buddy from time to time. I love reading and have a passion for writing. Short stories are my favorite, so please send any recommendations you might have. I’m also fascinated by the occult and the supernatural. I don’t believe in ghosts, and I’ve never seen one. But I would be delighted to be proven otherwise, and I’m always down for a ghost hunting expedition or a trip to a haunted locale. Bonus points if you know how to read tarot and can teach me how.
As far as the kinky side of things, I’m a dominant through and through. I have a strong primal streak and I can be an absolute sadist, though I find that I enjoy the caregiving aspects just as much as I enjoy chasing and hunting a sub until I catch them, drag them back inside, and tie them to my cross so I can torture them for hours. I have a special place in my heart for brats, as they give me the most opportunities to deal out punishments. But again, after a punishment, I love to wrap my partner up in a warm blanket, reassure them, and massage them to peace. I also have a bit of a god complex in the bedroom, and I will demand worship. If you are willing to get on your knees and treat me with the upmost devotion, I promise you’ll get it all back, and then some.
Some of my biggest kinks are impact play, bondage, collars, electro, CNC, breath play, temperature play, primal hunting, biting, scratching, hair pulling, wrestling, orgasm control, toys, rope bondage, choking, anal, tattoos, piercings, costumes, slapping, and much more. My motto in life is to try everything once and bad things twice. If it was bad the first time, it might have just been a fluke. To tie in the occult aspect again, if you’ve ever had the desire to perform a sex ritual, I’m your man. I have no idea what that would entail or achieve hahaha But if you’re up for drawing a pentagram in the woods and fuck while surrounded by skulls and candles, I’m game!
Anyway, if any of this appeals to you, feel free to give me a shout, and we can chat for a bit to see if we click!
5'10" masculine lesbian with long hair and glasses. Strong and curvy with comfort chic aesthetic. Comes with 5'1" biracial smokeshow girlfriend (possibly, unless she finds you tedious or I find you disrespectful) and/or 5'10" handsome skilled boyfriend. Too good to be true? For you, it might be! This is a Master's course in courtship, compromise, and courtesy. Impress me and we'll move forward.
Looking for a dominant man who wants to be a power couple with me. I like being guided and looked after (pleasure doms/soft doms/those who praise are very welcome into my dms). Let’s be that one attractive couple that looks put together everywhere we go and I’ll be on my knees for you at home. My type is very specific in the sense that I want you to be ambitious and on my level.
Conventionally attractive and fit. I like dressing up and looking gorgeous. Let’s explore cities, fun restaurants, and I’ll undress for you.
Please tell me about yourself when you DM me and if you add pictures, even better.
US and IRL only.