You can embody any role— whether it's a pet, animal, little, best or something else entirely. This isn't just about physical submission or sex; it's about cultivating a relationship where, trust, and devotion and understand. This dynamic is about care. I'll train you, and guide you, and shape you if you need it, but I also want to be part of your life outside of our roles-offering support, affection, and understanding in your daily challenges. Picture a space where you're nurtured, loved, and disciplined in equal measure. If you're ready to explore your desires and surrender fully, drop me a message. Tell me about yourself and feel free to include a picture (your choice). Let's see where our journey can take us together.

Kinks & Limits:

Kinks: Bondage, ice play, sex toys, anal, blow jobs, BDSM, DDLG (18+), age play (18+), choking, gagging, wax play, edging, breath play, orgasm control, cum denial, threesomes, size difference, fantasy/demonic creatures, breeding, impregnation, degradation, Master/slave dynamics, rough sex, primal/prey, forced submission, biting, marking, watersports, humiliation, spanking, DP, gangbang, light blood play, knife play, kidnapping, tentacle play, rope mastery, groping, erotic massage, public play, toys, hucow fantasies, and more.

Limits: Scat, gore, extreme blood play, vore, extreme cruelty, vomit.

Please note: Minors do not interact.

Howdy.

Preface: Looking for F, T, or NB folks, not actually A. Tried to make my flair not A and just for F/T/NB folks but apparently anything beyond 2 characters is a direct attack on the bot. Assuming I can even make a post now cause I remade this twice already. Sorry gents, not searching for y'all.

Not looking for anyone poly, nor DDlg. Nothing wrong with either, just not for me. I don't want to be a third or a side-thing for someone in a polycule, and the furthest I'll go is letting my partner call me 'Daddy'.

For Online. Comes with caveats. I'm willing to talk, chat, etc, maybe a little play. But ultimately I am looking for someone in person, so if we look to pursue this, you have to be someone able to travel. ***NOT IMMEDIATELY***, but be in a position to be able to travel *at some point*. I *can* but I'm saving for various things, among said things is to travel. You don't have to come to me specifically, we can both meet somewhere else on a vacation or such, but if you're out of work and can't save or just want me to come to you because you don't want to travel yourself, that won't work for me.

Anyway. If that fucking preamble hasn't turned you off already, howdy, welcome to the shitshow(no there's no scat here, though I am very vulgar).

I've been interested in BDSM and the lifestyle for a couple years now and I've been wanting more of it for a long time only recently has my life stabilized mostly that I can really think about things more long term. I've graduated college, moved out and bought my own house, got a full time job, etc. Though what's rough is I spent a lot of my time chugging through school and being a bit awkward just not doing a good job in the relationship aspect of life. So while not only inexperienced in the BDSM field I'm just inexperienced. But I've been hanging around, lurking in the community, fantasizing, etc, and I still feel like it's something I'd want to try and involve in my life. A big fear of mine, relationship wise, is if I end up finding a partner that just isn't interested or worse finds it disgusting, and while the topic is never brought up again, that whole aspect of life is totally cut off from me. I want to at least be able to taste it and see if it's something I would like to keep long term.

So about me, I guess. I'm a guy, 28(soon to be an ancient 29, one year closer to being a wizard), from Louisiana. I graduated in CompSci and have a full time job in tech. Own my own vehicle and home, currently living with my dog, a cat as well now, solo living now.

I'm a little on the heavier side, 5'10" and 207(currently on a cut diet), heavily bearded and quite hairy all around. Minus my head, totally shaved for now(maybe permanent). If you imagine a stereotypical "bear" in the community, pretty similar. I'll give pics if you want, of course.

I'm big on video games and stuff, very nerdy and enjoy watching YouTube and movies, playing DnD or TTRPGs(maybe a kinky DnD campaign could be on the horizon?). Started getting back into reading lately, got a tablet and on the weekends I'll go sit at a coffee shop and read some. I've also got other hobbies, but I'll save that for other times, not exactly a dating forum(not opposed though). My new personality is the gym, basically. I've been slamming it since March 2023 after I got COVID in December 2022. I got a personal trainer, go to the gym 6 days out of the week and Saturdays or Sundays as a rest day. My current trainer is a killer and works me to death but it's great. I jokingly say I want to get big "choke me Daddy" arms so if you're looking to be a pet gym-rat, let me know. I also recently started going to therapy so workin' on the brain too.

Sex wise, as I said, not much experience. We'll keep it at that. Kink wise I have a lot of interests, there's not much I'm against outright, on the realistic side of things. Bathroom play I'm against, as well as any cutting or blood. Generally I like the idea of being a bit more of a soft/gentle dominant, carrot rather than the stick. But if my partner is into the stick, I'm more than happy to oblige. Restraints, teasing, pain play, toys, orgasm control/denial, pet play, collaring, you name it, I'm probably into. I also like to play smut games to satisfy the more unrealistic/fantasy kinks, so being able to talk to someone about those and play them together, etc, would be fun. I'm also a little bit of a switch. If we were to quantify it, I'd say 80/20 or 90/10 dom-to-sub. I like to control but being able to give up that control sometimes is pretty nice too.

Also a little bi. Still consider myself generally hetero but just about anyone that's more on the femme side of life I'm into. I debated making the flair [M4F/T/NB] but figured I was already getting long in the tooth(and still angered the bot). But I'm into femboys/femmes/transfems(whatever you prefer), anyone on the more femme side. To me, so long as I think they're cute/attractive, don't really care what they've got going on down below. I just want us to both be mutually attracted to each other, physically as well as emotionally, intellectually, sexually, etc.

So what about you? Preferably you're someone willing to talk at first, get to know each other. If you're more experienced as a sub, be willing to be 1. Patient and 2. to teach and tell me what you enjoy. If you're more inexperienced then I guess we'll just have to learn together! I'd prefer someone 22-40, I could go older, probably not going any younger. My best friend told me one day, "You've got divorced 30 year old all over you." (as in I'm the perfect for 30 something divorcees if you know any) You'd want a relationship out of this probably. Not just something purely for fun. Like we'd have to like each other as people and want to actually be together outside of being strapped to sex toys.

Outside of sex, (assuming you're nearby or willing to relocate eventually) preferably you'd be able to support yourself. I've recently gotten my own independence and while I'm able to support myself, I'm still living a bit check-to-check. If I made double my current salary, yea, we could talk about a stay-at-home sub situation(eventually), but as of now I'd want someone that could pay for their own bills and not be financially dependent on me. As for location, if you're in Louisiana/nearby, if we talk and you're interested we could end up meeting if we're comfortable. If you're coming in from just online searching, like I said above, I can't do online/LDR. But want to chat about kink, or sex games, or even discuss an 18+ DnD/TTRPG game, feel free to message and we can shoot the shit.

I guess I've rambled enough, should wrap this post up. In general, I'm looking for a partner. One willing to live the life but also willing to get to know me and be interested beyond the leather and latex.

Well, y'all have a good day, feel free to message me for questions or comments.

Hello! I’m heading to the UK in about a week’s time, and as I was debating my accommodation, a genius, dirty idea struck me. One that I tried to immediately brush away from my thoughts, a blush staining my cheeks, but the fantasy captured me as soon as the idea planted in my head.

In this fantasy, I was imagining myself with my bare cunt in the air waiting for you in position, facing the bedroom door ass up and trembling. I was imagining myself laid down starfish on the dinner table, completely naked except for where your utensils and food cover me, a double feast, where I don’t exist outside your appetite. I was imagining myself with your cock stuffed in my pussy (and then my mouth, and then my pussy, and so on) as you answer the phone, watch a TV show, cook dinner. Most of all, I was imagining that I had no choice at all, as you bend me and break me and fold me and form me into whatever you desire for 3 days straight.

Once I step through your doors, I surrender myself and become your creation.

A doll, dressed to your fancy or in nothing at all. A pet, greedy for attention and strokes and a collar. A piece of furniture, simply your possession, either decorative or tossed in the corner. A cocksleeve, the safest place for your cum. I am desperate to be your good girl, and I will have 3 days to prove it.

After those three days, the fantasy ends. I leave and I won’t come back. During those three days, however, you have full control over my time, my cunt, my tits, my freedom - all of it will belong to you.

I will offer you my submission in exchange for accommodation in your home, or wherever you’d choose to host. Anywhere in the UK works with me. The only thing I’ll be picky about is the Dom I choose to carry me through this journey. I am entrusting myself with you, essentially handing myself over on a silver platter, and I deserve to be in the right (rough) hands.

I am looking for someone with the confidence to truly dominate and maintain control in an environment where I will completely give mine up. My Dom will know the best course of action for both of us. My Dom will intuitively understand the balance of the dynamic between a dominant and their submissive. My Dom will ensure I come out of those 3 days bruised, but not broken. If that doesn’t make sense to you, then you’re not My Dom and that’s okay! Kindly move on to the next.

I want to feel treasured as I’m being spanked raw, I want to feel safe as a cock tears a hole through me, I want to feel desired as I’m humiliated and degraded and used. I do not need fake promises, or fairytale aspirations of a Happily Ever After. I want to make it clear that there are no expectations on either of our parts to do anything but a really good scene, one that we both enjoy the hell out of.

I am open to role play, or whatever scheme you cook up. This may have started out as my fantasy, but it will ultimately belong to you, and so you’re more than encouraged to let the freak fly. We can speak more deeply about limitations through DM, but my mains are mutilation, anything permanent on my body, SCAT, and blood.

Which leaves me with what I’m into, and I’ll keep it short, since I’m truly open to trying a lot, and if I were to list all of the possibilities, this post would be a hundred times longer than it already is. Spanking, rope bondage, predicament bondage, DDLG, toys, orgasm control, pet play, CNC, free use, to name a few. I intend to not leave even once the entire time, or break out of the scene unless necessary. There will be plenty of time to explore everything.

Finally, the superficial stuff. I’m 24, brunette, curvy but petite. DD’s and an ass. I drink and smoke, but never excessively. I’m conventionally attractive, which you can find out for yourself in person. A natural submissive through and through.

You, fit and capable of manhandling me as you like. Preferably with a nice face, but a nice cock will definitely balance out the scales. Not younger than me and mature enough to act like it. Private and discreet, with respect for both of us (outside of the scene, at least).

If you’d like to volunteer to own me for 3 days, please reach out and claim me now. See you soon.

Hello, I am looking for a sub to take care of. I consider myself to be a soft dom. What I enjoy the most is being there for someone, and working with them through their problems or towards something that they want to achieve. This can be done in various ways, but it is usually through beneficial tasks and something that we agree to. I enjoy elements of control, but that comes with time. The dynamic for me is not focused on the sexual aspect of the dynamic, but it is nice. Also open to trans folks 😊

Outside of being a soft dom, I enjoy ddlg/pet play, cnc, and elements of control.

My non kinky self I relatively have my life together. I am very much into animal rights, politics, video games, and cooking.

Heya. This week has been long and stressful, I haven't been sleeping well and I'm at my wits end with most people in my life and I feel like I'm acting like a much shittier version of myself. I need a mental reset. I need a good girl to hurt. To degrade. To humiliate. To use as a punching bag until I'm back to my normal gentle and patient self. Open to a long term connection or a one night thing.

If you're interested, send me a message with some of your limits. Bonus points if you attach a photo (for verification purposes)

I really, really need you.

Thank you for reading~

Hello there,

Normalish (but not really) Daddy seeks normalish (but not really) little girl. There ya go, ad written, respond away.

Wait, you mean you actually want details? Picky picky. Fine.

About me: Intelligent, attractive (depending on your taste for fairly fit bearded white men), freaky-for-a-norm, normal-for-a-freak guy with a pretty ferocious Daddy kink looking for the right match -- someone who's herself intelligent, curious, kind, and kinky enough to make a sailor blush.

I'm into a wide variety of things sexual (kink, orgasm control/denial, cum play/creampies, restraints, control, ownership etc. etc. etc.) and non (reading, music, cooking/eating, socializing with friends), and each is important to me. I'm a grown man, you know? There's no need for either of us to settle; a connection that's solely kinky burns out too quickly, and one that's too vanilla will end up fizzling for lack of heat. Basically: please be a real person in addition to a total freak. I am, promise. I genuinely like people and value human connection, so even if things don't work between us sexually I'm open to friendships. That said, I'm after more.

I've had a few fun quick connections here in the past, but I would love to find something a little more real. I don't know, maybe this isn't the place for real, but if you can't find what you're after on the goddamn internet where can you find it? Besides, I'm a glutton for punishment, so let's give it another go -- hope/idiocy springs eternal, I suppose.

Preference given to local, but I'm totally open to starting farther afield -- I just know that eventually, if we click, it'd be nice to have meeting in the cards.

Please be: available. Of age. A good tipper. Not a Republican. Able and willing to verify your status as a living human (I'm happy to do the same).

Good luck out there :)

Greeting from sunny Southern California!! In search of a person to connect with!

What I’m looking for: Someone to build a connection with. Someone open, curious, willing, obedient, ready for fun and adventure and to be treated well. I generally lean for someone more submissive, but that does not have to be a 24/7 thing. I do like a strong woman who knows when to submit and let go. I’m body positive and do like taller women. There’s no preference in age, though I enjoy older women, but that’s not a deal breaker.

About me: I’m 33, male, I live in California. I work a professional job, I have a graduate degree in economics. I’m pretty average. I enjoy going out, traveling, going to the gym, cooking, trying new bars, restaurants and coffee shops. In my everyday life I’m pretty relaxed and easy going, hardly moved, but in my bdsm life I’m a dominate, I’m into bondage, honestly just trying so many new things in that realm. I’ve leaned more poly in recent days, but willing to be monogamous with the right partner. Allow me to worship you. Allow me to take care of you.

Let’s chat! Ask questions and figure out if this works for us. If it doesn’t, maybe we can be friends (long distance friends are cool) and just talk, vent, encourage each other, things like that!

I look forward to hearing from you!

I am a Tall, lean Daddy Dom with over 12 years of varying kink experience. I am seeking a kinky chubby sub, preferably with big tits, for kink plays. 

My kinks include: Adult Nursing , biting, rough play, Spanking and rope play, DDlg / Daddy daughter, co-worker, and taboo role plays, Pet play, humiliation, OTK spanking and flogging, and a well planned out CNC play. 

Please be kink friendly, a good kisser, and ready to meet after a few chats. Its getting cold and I want to feel your warmth. 

I am looking for a kinky lady (prefer an African descent w African or Nigerian but ok with others as well) that is busty, chubbier, big booty body type. The kinks I am into are: Nipple torture, Impact play, Primal play (wrestling naked), deep kissing, CNC, verbal degradation and humiliation which may or may not include race play. Consent, safety, traffic signals are some key foundational elements to build trust. I am Tall, with a lean build, dark hair, grey eyes, tan colored, disease free, and have flexible time availability during the day/evenings including weekends.

Trying to see if there are any that is a potential match in chicago. Bonus if you have an accent as well.

🍴🍴🍴🍴🍴🍴🍴🍴🍴🍴🍴 Look! I have all these forks and knives, now I just need my little spoon🥄

About me: I'm an easygoing daddy dom who's main love languages are quality time and physical touch. I'm 32, stocky dad bod type, good hygiene, blue eyes, a nice smile, brown hair and facial hair. College educated with a great career. I have healthy relationships with friends and family, have never been married, and have no kids.

Some Vanilla interests: hiking, foraging for mushrooms, going to concerts, reading, museums, photography, going on dates, working out, cooking, thrifting, trying new restaurants, and hanging with friends.

Some Kinky interests: a nice mix of degradation and praise, bondage, spanking, orgasm control, begging, choking, toys, picking outfits, and anything that gets my partner off. I would say I'm mostly a mix of soft dom and pleasure dom, but I enjoy being harder at times as well.

What I'm looking for: a loving and kinky relationship where we both put in time and effort. Good communication and consent are important. I'm looking for someone kind, fun, adventurous, kinky, younger than me, and who identifies as submissive. I'm open to all races and backgrounds. Bonus points if you'd like to travel the world with me.

If you're interested, describe yourself and tell me what you're looking for. Your picture gets mine.

I hope to hear from you ;)

Aloha!

I'd enjoy a relationship with a woman who's naturally dominant (v. internet porn dominant); someone intelligent, emotionally aware (high IQ and EQ) my age +/- 10 years. I've had this before and I feel it's absence.

I'm a professional, live alone on the ocean on Oahu, am incredibly active, well read, honest and transparent, and among other qualities, I take direction well. Also, I don't hide who I am from the world - I'm not ashamed of subbing as a man. I've worn a couple of serious chain collars in the past, and also worn nothing from someone who said that we are living a certain way and not using props.

Anyhoo, serving is an act of loving kindness, devotion and outright love we men begin in relationships when we first couple, and then for some inexplicable reason, stop doing. Only for me, I don't want to stop and so I don't.

Are links allowed? I didn't see them mentioned in the rules. If it's okay to do, this is me. There's also a picture somewhere in my post history.

That's my coin tossed into the well. May all on here find what they seek.

Hey, I'm 24, on the lookout for a special someone who shares my interest in exploring the dynamics of a submissive and dominant relationship. I value trust, communication, and mutual respect above all else. I'm into Bondage, Controlling, Degrading, Nipple play, Spanking, Gagging, Clamps, Petplay, Cnc, etc. If you're someone who finds fulfillment in surrendering control and craves guidance, let's chat and see if we're compatible. Open to all ages. Feel free to drop me a message if you're curious to learn more. Looking forward to connecting with you!

Proffessional financially stable white male seeks younger female for Dom/sub dynamic in Rochester NY area. Looking for a kinky age gap girl with CNC interests. In person relationship only... please be in the area, after messaging and getting familiar, would want to meet. looking forward to hearing from you!

I’m a college student Dom looking for LTR sub, tired of playing the field only to be disappointed. If online there must be plans to eventually meet up one day.

I’m 6’2, average build, I work out 4-5 times a week, I’m employed, and currently in my last semester of college

Kinks: CNC, free use, wax play, breeding, rope play, hand cuffs, spanking, choking, hair pulling, gagging, blindfolds, toy use, and orgasm control

Limits: scat, bodily fluids, race play, age play

Message me if interested, must be able to verify and be DDT

Hi 27 m 6’2 average build. Looking for dom females or males. Any dom females 😊 but also Into younger dom males or hung studs. Love taking orders. Looking for something low key with tasks and allows time to complete them as we all have lives. Also have toys and open to new kinks ideas. Would love to have someone control me meeting up with people too.

Kinks - anal toys rough bondage tied up oral balls eat pussy face sitting rimming vanilla joi edging Limit - blood piss scat anything really gross

You know, at the Wally World, I put my hand out, reaching back behind me, and your hand magically appears in mine… 🥹

First of all, let me start off by saying, I am a complete hopeless romantic, and if it’s not real, then, it’s not it! I crave something deeper, something more on a spiritual level, something undeniable…. I need something different!!! And while the sex and kink are very important, I require a deep connection before hand….

I’m naturally very protective, and I will try my best to make sure you feel safe! I’m told often how peaceful or calming I make others feel. But I also want to make you happy, and support you and enjoy life together.

I am an absolute Gym rat, 💪🏻 and homebody who enjoys cooking (love feed in my peeps), the outdoors, and anything involving water. All about road trips🚗, and random adventures… Lover of all things Halloween, Star Wars, Marvel, Disney and zombies…🫣 ps Batman(Dark Knight) is the best super hero… change my mind!!🙃

I often communicate with memes and music, and my favorite quote; “Without music, life would be a mistake”, bonus points if you know the author…

My motto in life; “ Que Sera Sera”

Cancer ☀️ Pisces 🌙 Pisces/Sagittarius ⬆️

Could you be the one I’ve been waiting on? Are you also a hopeless romantic??

I’m looking for is someone who’s actually ready for something real, in real life! Someone who’s willing to invest in one another and build a future together. Someone local to me, or willing to relocate, after proper vetting of course…

[Me] (https://imgur.com/a/EbjWbQW)

Hey there 💕

American trans girl currently living in Japan, seeking something serious and long-term. First things first, I should be clear that I am a closeted trans woman. What this means: In my public-facing life, I am male-presenting. In private, I am female-presenting (my true form). I am on hormone replacement meds and am making the necessary steps to fully socially transition within the next year, I just am not comfortable with doing so in my current situation. Yes, I have a penis. What this doesn't mean: I am not a sissy, a crossdresser, a trap, or anything of the like. I am a woman, so act accordingly.

About me~ I'm a creative, intelligent, funny girl with a passion for media. I'm a huge film buff as well as deeply into music. I also enjoy anime, video games, and tabletop RPGs & card games. I have too many hobbies but my main go-to's are drawing, playing guitar, writing, and cooking!

Kinks~ I am ultimately seeking TPE but honestly, though, I can get into almost anything as long as it pleases my Dom. What TPE means to me is daily tasks, micromanagement, and being a 24/7 dynamic. Control of my diet, workout habits, wardrobe, hobbies, finances, grooming, masturbation, and orgasms would be expected. As I have yet to fully transition, I am offering my Dom the unique opportunity to completely mold me into their ideal woman, starting from near zero! What TPE doesn't mean to me is controlling when I can use the bathroom or drink water. That's a bit too far! Additional kinks include bondage, JOI, impact, and free use.

Limits~ Bathroom, blood, illegal, public, chastity.

If you're interested, send me a DM or a chat! Hoping I can find my Dom or Domme this time so I can finally stop posting! I know you're out there, can't wait to hear from you~💕

I'm currently looking for a play partner/FWB to explore with. Currently living in Spring Hill, TN, I'm 21, 5'9", 190 ibs, with long curly black hair and dark brown eyes. While I can't host due to my current living arrangement, I'm eager to connect with someone who can.

In my downtime, I enjoy cooking, gaming, watching anime, playing the guitar and going to live shows. On the kink side, I'm a switch, with a strong lean towards the Dom side of the spectrum. I have a high sex drive, so I'm currently looking for something consistent & frequent. I've honed my massage skills over the years, so if you need some tension relief, I've got you covered!

I'm open to meeting anyone within the age range of 18-45 who shares my interests & desires, if you're interested or have any questions, don't hesitate to slide into my DMs!

I am relatively new to being a submissive. I am looking for a Dom to train me, guide me, and someone who I can please and adore. Interested in exploring CNC, bondage, free use and maybe eventual tpe as well as many other kinks with a safe partner.

I would like to keep this submissive part of my life private from my community.

Hey!

I'm an easy going switch, but with a strong sub side. I also adore helping to bring out a girl's dom side, even if she's not used to it. I'm generally pretty open minded to lots of kinky stuff, including even dom kinks on my part. Currently, I'm most curious about exploring (light?) ballbusting/cbt in a playful fashion!

A lot of people overcomplicate kink and turn everything into an official bore. I prefer keeping things chill and for fun. Too often people treat otherwise delightful subjects with the most droll demeanor possible.

That said, I'd also love to get to know you, and see where it goes. I'm open to FWB, and possibly a relationship. I don't take myself too seriously, and I get along best with a girl who embraces her sillier side. I'm definitely a huge nerd and tend to obsess over all kinds of fun silly things, so you've been warned!

So, let's chat, flirt, and see what happens! I look forward to hearing from you. <3

Whats up. Calling all freaky ladies that craves a ravaging anal fuck. How long you think you can milk my fat cock til I explode in your ass? Lets find out!

About me: I'm 32, 6'4, DDF, Super clean, athletic with a thicc 8 in cock. Can host or travel. Step up to the plate if you think you can handle it.

Tell me about yourself in your intro.

SERIOUS ONLY. No flakes, trolls, bots, OF hoes, prostitutes, gays, trans. WOMEN ONLY!

HELLO!! im F19 and have a dom partner in GMT +8! Looking to give up complete control of your cock to a mistress? well, I am just the right person for you ! I am looking for a sub who would enjoy giving up your cock and all your pleasure to me! I desire complete control over all your pleausre.

This can range from me controlling your orgasms to even whether you get to touch that little dick of yours or not. (this can be further discussed) Plus, if you want to serve as a cuck, watching me play with my dom ( maybe my dom fucking me ) while u get absolutely no pleasure then this is the right place for you!

some kinks that im interested in : cuckholding, edging, orgasm denial, joi, orgasm control, post orgamsm stimulation, humiliation etc, but ill be open to listen to your kinks as well ! I am preferably looking for someone in a similar timezone to make the play easier and more fun ! if youre interested do send me a DM, with your age, sex, timezone and your kinks.

Im looking forward to your dm you little cuckhold

If you also feel your life isn’t completely filled, that you’re seeking a deeper connection, that you have the patience and desire for a slow burn, if you’re a Dom (preferably older than me but definitely over 36), if you prefer deep conversation over rushing into a dynamic, if ultimately, down the line, once trust, chemistry and connection are established, you want something lasting in the form of a TPE dynamic with elements of DDlg, pet play, and sadomasochism, if you’re into alt-type girls who aren’t sticks but also aren’t chubby, if you can hold conversation and my attention… please reach out 😊

Hi! I’m a 23-year-old college student. Physically: I’m 5’11, 135 lbs, white, short/medium-length brown hair. I’m straight and am in an ENM relationship with a wonderful partner. My dream reality would be living on a cottage farm with 3 horses and an attached art studio. In my current reality, I have a year left of college before I graduate with a degree in Communication Design and kickstart my career.

I’m hoping that from this post maybe I’ll get to talk to an older dominant guy with similar kinks. I’m craving fun flirty conversations with someone who has a smart brain. Currently, I’m thinking this would be more of an online thing, but if you’re in central Texas and we have great chemistry maybe we could meet eventually : )

Some background info - 2 years ago I posted an ad here. It was my first introduction to the kink world and it was a great experience. I got to explore the local scene and what it had to offer. I also learned about general guidelines for safety, negotiations, and communication. I feel relatively experienced in that way and I’d like the people I talk with to be on a similar level of experience, if not more. 

Anyways, let’s talk about the fun stuff! I’ve always had an interest in kink and BDSM. I used to be obsessed with stories of damsels in distress, sexy capture scenes, and evil villains who torture pretty girls. I still enjoy those things but now I have a deeper and more sensitive understanding of what makes my brain tick. Like how exciting it is to feel small and at someone else's whim. Not having a say in what happens to you (or doesn’t happen). Feelings of vulnerability and so on.

My kink shortlist would be something along the lines of humiliation, degradation, masochism, bondage, power exchange, misogyny, and fear. I won't list everything, I think it’s kinda fun for things to naturally unfold through getting to know each other more. 

I will say that even with my experience there are still some kinks on my bucket list that I haven’t gotten to explore. In particular: exploring the power differentials that are inherent in relationships. Think like a boss and employee, professor and student, and so on. At the core of my kink identity is the desire to feel secondary to a dominant authority figure. So that’s where you come into the picture. If you feel you inhabit this dominant authority figure position in some regard, I’d love to hear from you! 

I’m imagining that your kink keywords would be something along the lines of dom, daddy dom, sadist, and/or disciplinarian? Something like that. Additionally, I’d prefer to talk to someone older than me. It’s easier to lean into the dominant authority figure that way. 

I know this was long and rambling. I was figuring it out as I went but I hope I got the idea across : ) I’ll put a recap here too:

Submissive artsy college girl looking for an older dominant man who has previous experience in the scene and has overlapping kink interests. Additionally, because I’m EMN it’d be a bonus if you were too. I see this as involving some fun chatting online but if you live nearby or visit central Texas and we get along things could progress to in person. I’m open to verifying once we’ve talked for a bit. If you have fet we could also exchange account info!

If you’re still interested after reading this, please reach out! Tell me about yourself or what about this post resonated with you or caught your eye. I put in time writing this all out, I’d appreciate it if you did the same in your message. Looking forward to hearing from you : )

I am a chastity sub looking to be tied up and used all the time. I’m one of the most kinky subs you can find. I love all things BDSM and bondage. I want to be made into a toy. I’m your property now and I will stay loyal to my submissive oath. Please dm me if you are interested or have any questions. Thank you for reading.

Hey there! Im M21, born and raised in Germany, with south-asian roots. Some more about me;

Brown skin, black hair, 6ft tall, bit under average body build.

What im looking for?

As the title says, im looking for a experienced mommy-type domme, willing to introduce a unexperienced and exploring sub to the world of submission. I have been researching a lot, and have always had the feeling that this fits me. I have not been able to make any real experience with this, besides a lot of research i did about all of this, you could pretty much see me as a newbie. So please have patience with me as I learn the ways of this new world together with you.

With this im not only aiming for a strict dom-sub type relationship, though that definitely plays a role in it as well. Im looking for a person that i can feel safe with. That i don’t have to be scared talking about my thoughts and feelings openly with. A gentle person, that is a dom that shows me my place when im doing too much, but is still gentle and acts like a good friend, always having an open ear for everything. A person that i can have sexual as well as non-sexual acts and talks with. Someone that i can also talk about random bullshit, when the mood fits! I think you get the idea.

For me, its also important that besides all the sexual stuff that may happen, i also get a helping hand when it comes to my everyday life. Problems i might face. Helping me for example when i feel too lazy again and start to procrastinate work thats due again. When i have problems, I usually am not completely helpless, though i do have phases in my life where i struggle a little. everybody does. So i need someone that wants to help control that as well.

Things that i am definitely interested in when it comes to kinks?

One of the most important ones, and probably the reason i feel this connection to submission is definitely orgasm control. The thought that someone else tells me when i can and when not, makes my mind go crazy!

Same with edging. I‘d just say JOI‘s, just the general way you control how i have to go, is the biggest turn-on for me.

This also includes being denied as well, for example just to show me my place, or if i did something bad. But don’t be too harsh on me, im still learning ;)

This is probably not the end of the list for things i like, but as i said, im still new and exploring, so it may take a while to discover more!

Things i can definitely say i don’t like at all (or am still exploring/unsure about for now)! (limits)

Anything that includes pain (for now, also just light pain should be avoided, but i feel like i may be open to trying that in the future?!)

Any insertions (*A total no-go when it goes to the extreme. Extreme really means extreme! for smaller stuff; I may have used really smalls items and maybe a finger for something like that in the past, but for the beginning i would like to leave that out as well, maybe in the future it could be included, if you have plans like that let me know so i can keep it in mind!)

Anything including being exposed to people directly, if i know them or don’t doesnt matter. Anything that could risk my reputation being destroyed as a person, absoulute no-go! (this does not include doing things for example in a small forest where the probability that someone sees me is really low, i have done things like that in the past and i do really enjoy that.)

Sending pictures that show me (hard no for the beginning of our relationship. If i feel like i can trust you enough after enough time, i will let you know. Do not pressure me on this please. Asking about it is allowed, ofcourse, but pressuring me is a hard no-go!

I think these are the most important things for now, there is definitely more in both categories, but that would be too much to include here, we will talk about that as we get to know each other over time.

My preference in a domme? (which is of course not requirements, just preferences)

at least 33 or above, but under 45 years old, and years of experience in this area.

Preferably not too extremely far away from where i live (Germany), since in the future after some good amount of time i am pretty open for meeting up, and also for time-difference reasons.

Not too shy about yourself as a person, open and wlling to actually properly talk, being talkative!

Good English! I cant stand talking to someone who can’t even properly say 3 sentences. Even better if you speak German :)

Important to know;

Im a full-time student at a university. I do have a good amount of time, but i do have a life to take care of. So please dont demand activity from me 24/7. I will always let you know everything about my situation and possibilities, but i cant be there 24/7. That simply wont work. Thanks.

If you have read the whole book i wrote all until here, congratulations!

If you think, you and i could fit well, feel free to hit me up on chat, and lets get to know each other!

EDIT;

I hope its obvious that we will get to know each other for a good while first, before we would start with any kind of relationship! Please dont demand submission from me after 30 minutes of talking.

Looking for a sub partner who loves being treated like a princess and getting tons of attention. Im looking to build a genuine bond based on mutual respect, learn what makes you happy, and explore together IRL.

Physically Im very fit, live a healthy lifestyle, and have been told im handsome. Im very open minded when it comes to kinks but generally aim to be the perfect mix of dominant and affectionate. Im very patient and understand the importance of trust, so im all for taking things slowly. If your interested and local to southern california, I'd love to chat and get know you!

46 year old male, 6'0, 230, living in Midtown Nashville hoping to connect with a younger local woman (early 20s preferred but open to anything). In addition to going to dinners, lots of concerts, travel, playing games, I am hoping to find someone either active or curious about the Dom/sub lifestyle. I've been a Dom for over 13 years and I'm very open to train someone new and willing in how to be an excellent service sub and the rewards of doing so.

My D/s kinks include impact play, bondage, servitude, degradation and I have a heavy oral fetish (my subs mouth is used very often)

DM's are open and I hope everyone is having a great day. Hope to hear from you!

I’m looking for you. You found this lioness here on a Reddit thread and I lost my account bc I deleted it and then I lost your contact info on my old phone that died.

I miss you. You worked at a casino and have a beautiful wife named crystal. You taught me so much about me and the switch life.

Dm me if you see this 💗

I think about you out there often. In your own world and enclave. Moving from work to home to work again, among glittering glass, surrounded by the same faces, discussing the same breathless topic of the minute.

You look around you, at all that is there. Your friends, your acquaintances, your coworkers. All turned inward in that peculiar way a city, a neighborhood, an ideology does. Until you realize that out of that fuzzy and numbing feeling of sameness, you barely even know anyone who thinks any different, who perceives any further, who isn't completely saturated with it - with what even? Politics or culture or what even is it?

I know you and your world well, though I am not of it at all. I live far away across the mountains, where things are harsh and nature rules all. I make my living from that, giving and taking with the rhythm of the seasons. It is not easy, but it rewards those who pay attention, who can and will do all of the difficult things - exactly when and how they must be done. In this, I have found success, coaxing life from the reluctant earth itself.

I travel to your world, sell you the things you require to survive, and return to mine where you have never been and never even think of. It is interesting, this relationship. I think on it often. What might we find, you and I, should we meet? What secrets might you learn, what observations might I have missed?

And what form might that take?

Some I have loved: Ddlg, D/s, mentor, Master, Daddy. But there are others, so many others. Ones I know, ones you know, ones we make completely of ourselves.

Come, and help me find ours.