/r/WholesomePals
A place to rant, vent if you're feeling sad or frustrated and find friends. We are a loving new community whose only focus is to make users feel safer and comfortable and loving. As much as life sucks there's also the bright side to it which sometimes is hard to see. We intent on giving people a reason to not give up on humanity yet.
A place to rant, vent if you're feeling sad or frustrated and find friends. We are a loving new community whose only focus is to make users feel safer and comfortable and loving. As much as life sucks there's also the bright side to it which sometimes is hard to see. We intent on giving people a reason to not give up on humanity yet. If you're feeling anxiety, feel free to post here. Depression? feel free to post. your cat is angry at you? Feel free to post! every little and tiny thing from first world tiny problems that give you rage to things that make you sad and worried about the future as a whole. Post them. This is also a place to make friends for genuine conversations for I feel like the big friendship subs aren't doing enough. so this would be something new and in a different way
Rules
Follow the general reddit etiquette and don't be harsh to the users
We intend to offer support , any efforts to troll will result in a ban
This is a subreddit for support and making friends. It is advised that you try to go through the existing posts if you can before making a post of your own
We don't want people of any gender to feel threatened or spammed with messages or neglected, so please don't use your gender while making posts. I don't want the women here to be spammed with dick picks and men being sad because they don't get replies, and people of any other gender getting discriminated. But it is not a necessity, if you wish to include gender please do, it's upto you, the rules of this place will not be strict. It's just I don't want the gender thing to be mandatory like in the other subs
Make a good detailed post about yourself and your hobbies with your age and so you'll only get responses from people who genuinely want to have a connection with you
If you're not looking for friendships and are just bored and want to talk, just post here that you want to have a casual conversation about any topic. So that the short term-long term friend confusion does not arise
MODERATOR WOULD LOVE TO TALK TO YOU. You can reach out to me for anything. Feel free to do it in the pinned post
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I'd rather have people react like this rather than them unnecessarily bashing or making fun of Youtubers who've messed up without even knowing their situation yet. (And I also wish I had a pet dust bunny.)
17:38 UTC
Always make sure to stay safe, everyone!
17:33 UTC
If you or anyone you know is finding life's problems too difficult to deal with, then hopefully this can help. Pretty sure a good number of people need to hear something encouraging, especially during these hard times.
00:28 UTC
Hi.
Hi guys. How are you all? It's been a crazy week for me. Emotionally drained and I feel like I am a lost cause. There seems to be no hope and I am just. Why am I even living life? I am not worthy of it. Anyways! Hope you all are doing good?? I just want to hear from you guys. Anything and everything, whatever you want to share it with me. I want to feel something with you guys. I want to share your happiness, sadness, doubts and frustrations. If you don't want to share that's okay too.
12:05 UTC
I don't think nice guys actually finish last. So long as you're a good person and you show love the proper way, then you'll be okay.
03:52 UTC
Whether you're planning to join or host any kind of tournament, remember that no matter what, you will encounter problems. You just have to do what you can to overcome them and you gotta believe that you can no matter how hard it may be.
This goes for both online and offline ones. This is gonna be a bit long so please bear with me.
I can say this because I've done both and all it took was 1 tournament I joined a looooong time ago for me to learn this lesson the hard way. I thought things would be fine and that nothing bad would happen, but then uncontrollable factors such as the electricity suddenly getting cut proved me otherwise.
While organizers have it way rougher since they actually have to manage the entire event, players can have it rough too as they could run into problems involving their internet connection, opponents, personal matters, etc.
There are always gonna be problems no matter what and it's always best to know what they are and what you can do to prevent them. Sure there might be some that can't be avoided, but it's important that you're able to deal with them so that nothing gets ruined. Again, organizers have it way harder since they have more responsibilities to deal with, but that's why they have staff that they should rely on and trust to get the job done.
So basically, what I'm trying to say is that everyone involved in a Smash tournament should be able to work together in order to have a fun and successful event. If one side does all the work and the other does nothing, then for sure it's gonna be one hell of a disaster. So if you're a player? Do your best to follow the rules and procedures you've been given to make sure that things go smoothly. If you're an organizer? Then do what you can to make sure players encounter little to no problems at all.
I'm lucky enough to say that me and my friends have held a good amount of tournaments and, minus a few uncontrollable hiccups we've encountered, they've pretty much been great and smooth.
If you're planning on hosting or joining one for the first time, then I made something that may help prepare you for it. You don't have to click on it but I'm just hoping that I got my message across.
03:07 UTC
This is for all my fellow only children out there. Life can still be pretty cool even if you don't have siblings.
17:29 UTC
Trust is about signing up to work through hurt when it arises. If we relate to trust through this perspective, then trusting becomes much easier. All of a sudden, we shift from trying to avoid being hurt (which is impossible), to recognizing that we can move through anything that comes our way.
03:21 UTC
This is to help those who are looking for the shortest and simplest answer to the question "Which is better? Ebooks or physical books?"
18:38 UTC
Hello everyone!
About 10 months ago, I posted something on here, asking for help about some terrible friends. I wanted to come back and share that they are no longer a part of my life, and I couldn't be happier. My self-confidence has gone up, I have friends who love me for who I am, and I'm all around less stressed and happy. Thank you to the poeple who helped me out. It means so much to me, and you guys were the pushes I needed to get out of there for good. Stay awesome, wholesome pals!
03:35 UTC
This is to help those who like putting things off to the point where they either do it until the last minute or when it's already way too late. Hopefully this helps anyone.
19:02 UTC
This is to help those who are afraid of losing their youth. Getting older actually has its ups and they're really good ones too.
18:52 UTC
This Might Be Why You're Unhappy
21:13 UTC
I have been truly free for 6 months.
I have bipolar disorder. I was also sexually abused as a child by two uncles and a family friend. All on three separate instances. Dad was physically and verbally abusive (not sexually, he nearly killed his uncle when he found out what he did to me).
For years life was a struggle. Even at a very young age, as early as 8 I had suicidal ideations. When I was 31 my dad passed away and I never fully forgave him at the time for the beatings and harsh words or his alcoholism.
8 years ago I met the person of my dreams. He accepted my broken self and did the best he could for years. I was abusive to him because it’s all I learned as a child. I’m surprised he dealt with me. I wouldn’t have. But he did. And with his help I went back to college and graduated with honors in mathematical sciences. A year later in 2017 when hurricane Harvey hit we got into an argument so bad I kept attempting suicide. No matter what he did to calm me I kept hurting myself. I scared him. He didn’t know what to do so he called 911 and had me committed to a psych hospital. They gave me the right medication after years of searching for something that would stabilize me. (For reference I was diagnosed in 2004.) I’ve been mood stable ever since. And I stopped being abusive. Two years ago he encouraged me to go to therapy to face my issues with abuse both from my sexual abusers and from my dad. I came to terms with being a survivor. And I learned to forgive my dad (he became kind once my sisters and I were all adults). It’s been 6 months since I truly feel free. I’m not burdened by my past. I feel cured from my PTSD. I don’t even flinch anymore when my husband pets my head or touches me in any way. We haven’t argued like we used to in over 3 years. We live a happy and healthy life. I feel like life is boring now. But boring in a good way. In the sense that no news is good news. My life is no longer full of chaos and pain. And I owe it all to him.
02:43 UTC
When you have amiibos you really love and you show it.
18:26 UTC
r u ok?
17:35 UTC
My girlfriend asks me nicely if she can get a glass of water. I respond with a dad joke that's appropriate for the situation.
00:43 UTC
I made this to surprise my girlfriend today. I'm very happy to say that she loved it.
11:50 UTC
Something short me and my girlfriend came up with to show why you should have something planned for your loved one this Valentine's day.
01:47 UTC
1 Thing to Remember When You Think You're Not Good Enough
22:48 UTC
If you want to cry, you could try this.
16:31 UTC
I hope you could think about those people who love you every morning before you get up
03:35 UTC
It's the start of a new year and I hope things go well for everyone.
10:38 UTC
There's no denying that this year was super rough for a heck of a lot of people, but that shouldn't stop us from looking forward to 2021. Here's hoping that the new year brings more good than bad and that people find success.
16:01 UTC
Hi pals! How has 2020 been for you? Any particular memories/stories to share? Feel free to vent, rant, or share a positive experience!
06:38 UTC
Given how tough the year has been, this is something that I hope a lot of people will get to experience this Christmas.
13:15 UTC
It always feels great when things in life go exactly the way you expect them to. I know it won't be always the case but I hope that people can experience it a lot.
18:09 UTC
Hey guys we play Among Us tonight!! I'll post the code in this thread later
Here are the timings based on your timezone
Europe/London: 5:30 PM
Europe/Amsterdam: 6:30 PM
Europe/Berlin: 6:30 PM
Africa/Nairobi: 7:30 PM
Asia/Calcutta: 10:00 PM
10:56 UTC
Do you wanna play Among Us with Wholesome Peeps
Hey beautiful people! I was wondering if we all could one day play Among Us? If so I shall create a link after the date and stuff is decided and put it on the reddit as well as the discord! ❤
We could be on voice call if you wish too on the server ™
10:17 UTC