/r/TrollPoly

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Troll culture multiplied by the love of others.

Resources coming soon! Until then, let's just have fun and get weird with this!?

Quick and dirty guidelines for the sub:

1) Be kind to one another, especially when you disagree.

2) No One Twue Poly Way nonsense. It doesn't matter if you are closed or open polyamorous, non-monogamous, a swinger, monoflexible, a relationship anarchist or monogamous: everyone is welcome here.

3) Let's welcome and celebrate all gender, sexuality and romantic orientations!

4) No slut shaming. Or prude shaming. Or body shaming. Or shaming in general.

5) If you don't understand, ask respectfully!

6) Please tag [NSFW]

7) Have fun!

The blanket fort is that way --->

Hot beverages are over there <---

The safer sex supplies cabinet is \/ down here.

Basic resources and recommended readings for those new to polyamory:

-So someone called you a 'Unicorn Hunter', for couples looking to add a (generally bisexual female) third person to their relationship.

-Secondary's Bill of Rights , from More Than Two for those people either involved in primary/secondary style relationships, or looking to start one. This information is applicable to more then just secondary style relationships.

-On couples privilege

-Glossary of poly terms and slang.

For those looking to find romantic connections with others feel free to visit /r/polyamoryR4R or /r/Troll4Troll.

Please check out our friends over at /r/TrollBi.


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Participants needed for a new study about polyamory and identity! (18+)

I'm a graduate student at Texas Tech University, currently recruiting participants for an online study about polyamory and identity. Participation entails completing a brief 30-45 minute survey, answering questions related to demographics, identity, and attitudes, and reading short statements. We are looking for polyamorous adults (18+). This includes anyone who self-identifies with the label “polyamorous”, regardless of current/past relationship status.

Participants will be entered in a drawing to win one of thirty $10 Amazon gift cards. Responses will be completely confidential. You can access the survey here.

Feel free to PM me with any questions about the study. I will post results of this study once data collection and analyses have concluded.

*** This post has received mod approval ***

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2020/11/07
23:52 UTC

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MF4F

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2020/11/04
17:57 UTC

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ENM? I 'ardly know 'em!

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2020/10/18
05:21 UTC

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Academic talk that I gave about consensual non-monogamy...

Hi everyone,

This is Justin Mogilski. I recently gave a talk about my current and upcoming research on relationship maintenance and conflict resolution strategies within consensually non-monogamous romantic relationships.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4UdkyQHiTVU&t=3s

It begins broadly enough for a general audience and ends with detail suited to relationship scientists. It can also be listened to audio-only without substantial loss in content. I thought some of you might be interested. Feedback (both affirmative and critical) is always appreciated.

I've collected data from Reddit previously (see my account history). If you’d like to read my published work, please visit my ResearchGate account (below), or search my name in Google Scholar.

https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Justin_Mogilski

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2020/10/09
23:37 UTC

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Buttttt.... I meannnnn.....

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2020/08/31
22:59 UTC

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Academic survey examining conflict resolution and relationship maintenance strategies among people in consensually non-monogamous romantic relationships

Hi everyone,

My colleagues and I recently launched an international research project examining conflict resolution and relationship maintenance strategies among people in consensually non-monogamous (CNM) romantic relationships.

Before we can study the effectiveness of these strategies, we need to comprehensively identify them. If you have experience with CNM (e.g., polyamory, open relationships, swinging), would care to share your thoughts on this topic, and can spare 10-15 minutes of your life, please consider completing our survey. This study has been approved by the University of South Carolina institutional review board.

More information and the survey can be found here: https://uofsc.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_0VbxJDVJLOXcSAl

Thank you! Please consider sharing the study link if you are able 😊

Also, anyone who is curious about the history of my work or how data collected from Reddit has been used in the past, please visit: here

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2020/07/24
20:39 UTC

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Have you been in a situation like this?

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2020/06/14
23:37 UTC

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Is this what “solo poly” means?

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2020/04/23
22:50 UTC

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Academic Survey Assessing Moral Condemnation toward Consensually Non-monogamous Romantic Relationships

Hi everyone,

Several years ago, my colleagues and I collected data (see here, here, and here) from r/polyamory, r/nonmonogamy, and several other subreddits (including TrollPoly). We’ve published this data in peer-reviewed, academic journals (here, here, and here). One of these articles recently made its way to the front page of r/science (here).

We are once again asking for your contribution...

It has become clear over the past several years that people within ethically (or consensually) non-monogamous romantic relationships face considerable moral condemnation for pursuing multiple, concurrent romantic and sexual relationships. We have designed a set of studies to address WHY this condemnation exists.

The first step is to identify a comprehensive list of reasons for why people tend to condemn these relationships. If you have 5-10 minutes of free time while quarantined, please click on the link below. You’ll be asked to brainstorm some of these reasons for us.

This study has been approved by our local institutional review board (which screens human subject research for ethical violations).

Thank you, everyone. As always, if you have comments or concerns about the design, we welcome feedback :)

URL: https://uofsc.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_1C9MhAa0prhof5P

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2020/04/04
18:26 UTC

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There is a lovely (if not a bit sleepy) little poly community on Mastodon, I'm hoping to bring more energy over there! Link in comments

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2019/12/04
00:15 UTC

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Hello polyamorous people from Brazil (and other portuguese speaking countries)

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2019/10/02
23:03 UTC

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Hi all! Passing along this online research study opportunity for poly / CNM folks to discuss attitudes and experiences related to sexuality, dating, and romantic relationships. Tell us what you think for a chance to win $50! More info/participate here: bit.ly/relstudySBU (USA residents age 18+)

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2019/09/08
20:41 UTC

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Emotional vulnerability makes me wet. Consider it a kink!

Was chatting with a really good friend recently, talking about family trauma (of which I have plenty) and the degrees to which we want to share with and seek support from our partners. Creating a trusting relationship where both parties are able to comfortably disclose is important to me. Trolls, this lady knows me SO WELL <3

Me: He has a difficult relationship with his family, and he started telling me the details of how he continues to struggle with them

Her: Sexy

Me: Well, it actually makes me feel good that he opened up...

Her: no, I know. Emotional vulnerability turns you on. I was saying that you legitimately find that sexy.

Me: ... I've never felt more seen

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2019/08/27
22:05 UTC

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Get played with by lots of people

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2019/08/27
01:43 UTC

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One I made.

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2019/08/26
05:22 UTC

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Are there any subs like this that are more active?

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2019/08/13
14:48 UTC

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Wholesome

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2019/08/02
18:30 UTC

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Partner ignores protocol and now I'm majorly hurting.

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2018/11/13
17:25 UTC

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Getting married tomorrow

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2018/10/26
12:21 UTC

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Found this on r/polyamory but I think it belongs here

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2018/10/21
01:16 UTC

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MRW when my mono BF finally bails, just as I was starting to trust that he would be around for the long-haul

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2018/09/30
19:24 UTC

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Finally! After so much hunting.

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2018/09/19
21:10 UTC

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There is a brand-new baby Poly community being established on Mastodon. I'd love to bring some more Troll energy over that way! Link in comments!

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2018/08/31
17:54 UTC

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Caught in a hurricane of emotions. Poly is hard (story in comments)

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2018/08/15
23:21 UTC

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poly_irl

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2018/08/15
16:19 UTC

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Poly troll in the wild! I'm loving @overheardnewyork lately, though the comments on this Insta post are obnoxious

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2018/06/25
02:10 UTC

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MRW I'm excitedly talking to my husband on the phone about his date tonight while food shopping and the person standing next to me is definitely eavesdropping and super confused/disturbed

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2018/06/18
23:17 UTC

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