Where should I be looking for trans girls who like to top? 🙂 thank you!

This Canadian dude for example

Been in the market for over a month now after my breakup and I have come to realise how I just might have to sleep by myself unless I start being assertive.

Forget talking to people, looking at them in the eyes is just enough to fuck with my head. I can't ask guys out directly so the only thing left is being asked by them, which won't happen because I come off as unfriendly due to not looking at them.

I walk around with like Level 10 sad+horny, go back home, do 5 rounds of self-fuckings with my toys thinking of my ex and then cry myself to sleep. My ex was like my childhood friend so I never had talking problems but that's over too.

Is it all over for me bros? Is this how my life is going to be from now on? How do I rizz up tops into staying/sleeping with me? Should I just start wearing a cardboard declaring my horny? Help.

I thought I was straight. I WAS straight. But something happened when I was 15 that turned my world upside down. Probably in the sweetest possible way. Yes, he tasted sweet. His lips and tongue were all smothered in the sweetness from the Vanilla Ice cream he was eating. I was having Ice cream too. But I was so damn sure his tongue tasted sweeter than I tasted the ice cream myself. The sweet smell of the sweat from his T shirt and the smell of vanilla from his mouth got mixed up. That crazy smell was so addictive that it gave me the strongest boner that I feel till this day.

But it wasn’t at all consensual at first. I just shocked him with a thundering kiss that he never expected. I was cooking up the idea of getting him to get intimate with me since I started having this strange feeling for him. I didn’t know how to approach him. I didn’t have the guts to tell him that I want to kiss his girlishly soft lips and that I want to slip in my tongue through his mouth to play with his strawberry pink lips.

This strange feeling started first when he accidentally sat on the back of my left hand which I placed right beside me. He didn’t bother to away. I felt his soft butt. It was softer than I ever imagined that another 15 years old boy can have. His tender and smaller body than mine felt to girlish to see him as a boy from that day on. Since that day I thought about playing with his soft tender body every single moment and thank god I could. I got the fare share of that juicy tender body that I had been dreaming of devouring for so long.

Should I keep writing?

What are the best position to do so? Any particular trick that must be taken into account?

Most of us have done a blow and go in our lives whether you’re on the giving or receiving end. You meet the guy just to suck or getting sucked, one cum and leave.

But I would love to know if the opposite happens as well, where you’re meeting someone to just eat ass and leave without expecting more. While this practice is actually common with straight people where the guy will eat the girl’s pussy and leave

So I’m going to meet a guy in a few days, we’ve been talking back and forth and we’re planning to meet up. He told me he wants me to shake my ass for him before and after sex. I am and have been getting a bit chubby and my ass is pretty plump I’d say. I tried twerking myself and I kinda got it a little but I’d love to talk to any bottoms who are twerkers to give some advice. Thanks!! 😊

After my top came prone bone he fell asleep still deep inside. His dick is thick and long enough to stay buried in me. I felt my ass completely wrap around it like a tight sleeve.

A few hours of him snoring I wiggled my butt out beneath him. If you’ve done this before, how does it feel? How long do you stay inside your bottom?

Do you guys like it? Hairy asses... tell me your opinions. :P

Question for you wonderful tops what can a bottom do to get you in the mood

Do you feel more attached or more romantic towards your partner after you had (satisfying) sex?

(Male)

TLDR: 32 yo. formerly skinny bottom, used to love sex, gained a bunch of weight during Covid, shame and bad body image, now can't relax sexually and don't want to lose my first great relationship over it. What to do?

I have tried to find advice on this topic but have come up empty-handed.

I am a 100% bottom, have always been, known it since way before I lost my virginity. No question there.

I used to be quite a skinny dude who ran a lot, so I was mostly okay with the way my body felt and looked. But during the Covid years, I gained a bunch of weight. I have been trying to eat better and have recently gotten back into running but I look very different from the way I used to.

I met my boyfriend - my first decent, caring and emotionally available one, like, ever - about a year into Covid and we have been together for 3 years now. He is wonderful and likes me the way I am, supports me and would like me to open up sexually. When we first started dating, sex went well, but since we didn't live alone together, it was not easy. Then a bunch of time passed, we both had a ton of family and work related problems, a lot of stress and we even recently left our home country because of homophobia and are now trying to build a life together abroad (which is exciting, but again, full of stress and stuff to do).

Before I met him, most of the men I had dated were guys for whom my personality and my firmness in my beliefs was too much, so nothing really lasted more than a few months. I did have some good sexual experiences, especially with my last boyfriend (we broke up shortly before Covid). We had tons of passion and we could not get enough of each other, even when the relationship itself turned out to be less than ideal (we were too different). Sex was wonderful and I long to feel that way again.

I have to mention that the guy broke my heart twice and the breakups traumatized me. I have gotten help and am mostly over it by now, but I'm not sure if that's a factor in any of this.

Now, I am okay with kissing, sometimes okay with being eaten out or fingered, but mostly I can't stop thinking about how much bigger I am, how I can hardly recognize myself and when my bf kisses my neck - which I used to be mad about when I was skinny -, the best sensation I get is feeling tickled.

I loved sex. I want to be able to enjoy sex again and open up to my boyfriend for real. He is patient and understanding but I don't want him to waste his youth - we are both 32 - next to someone who can't make him happy. (I like to give head and when I have the energy, I do it, but it happens rarely.)

I should also mention that I do have sex drive in my head and I masturbate regularly, just like before. The thought of being a bottom in a sexual situation feels nice, but when it comes to real life, it's a different story.

I have been taking antidepressants for 4 years, not sure if that matters.

Has anyone had a similar problem? I am trying to lose weight but my boyfriend says I should be able to love myself and let myself be loved the way I am now. What should I do? I am full of guilt and shame and am desperate for any advice. Thanks in advance.

I don't mean this in any negative light - I'm simply wondering what draws people to post nudes, aside from it being a thing to promote for their work/side hustle. I've posted nudes in the past on an older account years ago, and for me it was definitely a validation thing. Also, coming from a heavily controlled and highly religious environment, it's nice to just be free for a bit.

Back from a work trip to London. While having a drink in the hotel bar an older gentleman bought me a drink and begin to hit on me presuming I was gay (I’m not yet anyway just in the curious phase now lol)

I went along with it, flirted back while we had a couple more drinks before he invited me back to his room. As soon as we got in he told me to wait on the bed while he freshened up in the bathroom, before quickly re-emerging butt naked with the biggest, most perfectly shaped cock I have seen in person ! he said it’s only 8.5 inches but I would’ve said it was at least 9.5 ! The blowjob I gave him was the hottest sexual experience I’ve ever had I’ve never been as horny and aroused as I was while sucking him off. We had no condoms or lube so it didn’t go any further than oral.

Anyway we exchanged numbers and have been sexting semi regularly since I’m been home and this morning he hit me with the news that he will be in Ireland in a few weeks and has booked a hotel in my town for a night so we can pick up where we left off which I’m very excited for but the issue is that I’m not sure if I’ll be able to take his cock lol and by the way I’ve been sexting him he is expecting me to fuck like a pornstar !

It’s roughly 5 weeks until he is in town so I’m just hoping for some advice from the more experienced bottoms on here on how to best prepare myself for him so that I’m ready to be a pornstar haha Any advice is welcome and any tips on how to best prepare my ass and my throat for a big cock .

Thanks in advance

For my experience I think there is a lot of confusion about what an anal orgasm is.

Many guys whom I've met think that they get an anal orgasm every time their holes get wet and loose.. but I don't actually think so!

What do you guys actually think?! 🤔

90% of the time I'm top, how about you guys?

I live with others and wouldn’t be able to do it at home. I’m rarely home alone and would like your advice on alternatives. I’ve been thinking of renting one of those bdsm rooms, Airbnb, bathhouse,

As a vers man there are things that I'm attracted to with tops that I wouldn't with bottoms and vice versa. Is it like this for other vers men?

I'm a total bottom. I was with this Guy who couldn't get it up. We tried for over ten minutes yet he couldn't get hard. I know I shouldn't blame myself but I have never been in this situation before. After he left my place he blocked me. I'm wondering if it is my fault he couldn't get hard.

What to do when a guy can't get hard?

Anal sex isn't the only thing that we could do. He could of ate me out or make out or need fucked me with a dildo.

I'm a 23 year old virgin and I really want to have sex. Finding a hookup is relatively easy but I'm so scared of getting an STI.

Learning about STIs for 2 months definitely didn't help my situation.

How do I get over the fear?

I’ve been bottoming a few times recently. I still struggle with being able to take dick sometimes it feels uncomfortable. I have bought some plugs, can anyone give me some advice how to take dick better?!

I wanna be able to btm for like 8 inch guys ahha.

Hi All,

I use the pjur ranges of lubes (backdoor etc), and they are nice and create a soothing effect. I tried "bottoming" (well a prostate massage given with a single finger, which is not adventorous) but i was way too tight down there. I am googlin alternatives, like cbd oil lube, but anyone got any safe alternatives (not poppers)? Next time I'd try a small vibrator to relax the area and maybe a different position that opens me up.

Has anyone experience with Royal Honey for Men? Does it work?

Kind of like a cam girl room that you can rent. I read that swinger clubs offered them but not sure. I’m very interested and would like any info, thanks!

My dudes, I want your honest opinion on hairy or shaved chest, i wonder if i should shave mine or not, lmk thanks!

Hi, I swallowed cum after a great BJ session (calling it great coz he guzzled a lot of cum) and loved it! However now, I have a weird feeling my stomach, I feel like a bit nauseous. Not sure if it's something to do with cum. Is it always going to be like this? Because I really loved each drop of it but can't be doing it if it's gonna make me feel uneasy Everytime. Help please!

Last night I got some D lol of course used a condom. But after he was done he left! I was looking for the condom n couldn’t find it! Out of no where I felt something weird between my cheeks! And it was the condom! He left it in there 🙄🙄

I'm quite tight and love a good pounding. That unfortunately means I'm almost never hard while getting fucked and tbh i prefer it (as a femboy at heart) I can concentrate better on my ass and feel more pleasure when the top isnt jerking it and trying to get me hard. I want to know what you think.