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A place for any question you’ve ever been TooAfraidToAsk

Welcome to TooAfraidToAsk, a sub that's dedicated to providing a less restrictive question&answer discussion experience. We allow throwaways and do not remove 'google-able' questions. While your question may have been answered elsewhere, maybe its answer wasn't sufficient, maybe you didn't understand the answer or maybe you are looking for a discussion about the answer. At any rate, your question is welcome here as long as it follows our rules:

Rule 1 - Be Kind.

  • No asking methods of suicide or self-harm, even hypothetically

  • No providing methods of suicide or self-harm, even hypothetically

  • No advocating harm against others

  • No hateful, degrading, malicious, or bigoted speech against any person or group

  • No personal insults

Rule 2 - Be Helpful.

  • Top comments should try their best to be legitimate attempts to engage the OP
  • Cite your sources
  • De-escalate arguments if you can
  • No medical diagnoses, please encourage OP to see a physician if you are concerned

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  • No soapboxing, trolling, moralising, sealioning, or spamming
  • Try to give OP the benefit of the doubt
  • Don't question-shame the OP

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Urologist said everything is fine, but cumming is still painful. Now what?

Hi everyone!

Male, 40 here, since December 22 I had some little problems with my pelvis due to too much efforts on my bicycle. Since then, masturbation et Cumming area little painful. No pleasure when it burst.

I went to a doctor who referred me to a urologist. The result was that everything inside was fine. He even gave me a prostat exam just to be sure, but didn't give me directions on what it might be then.

Anyone else in this situation?

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2024/03/31
04:30 UTC

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How can so many subs consistently break ToS without being actioned?

2 Comments
2024/03/31
04:19 UTC

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do lesbian couples do the hot wife thing?

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2024/03/31
04:07 UTC

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I'm 26(F) and never been in a relationship. Is that a major turn off for men?

I don't even know if there's any hope for me 😂 But I've always wondered if men were freaked out if a woman hasn't ever been in a relationship, had sex, heck, even kissed anyone before.

2 Comments
2024/03/31
03:55 UTC

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Is it being unavailable emotionally a big deal for girls.?

Women keep complaining about men aren't available emotionally, as far as I'm concerned only nice guys are full of emotions.

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2024/03/31
03:32 UTC

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I cant bring back my foreskin?

I know weird question but is there any way to get it back? I just learnt that I’m circumcised and I’m curious if I can grow back my foreskin or something

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2024/03/31
03:32 UTC

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Does the orb ever stop?

Hi! Since I was ten I've been followed by a floating black smooth orb about the size of an office chair.

At first I was fine with it because it was always at least twenty feet away from me, but I noticed it had become closer to ten feet when I was sixteen. Now It's like five feet away and it really kills the vibe. Every time I'm at a party or social gathering everyone always asks "what's the orb for" or "what the hell is that" and it's really embarrassing. The worst thing about it is when jackass "class clowns" start touching it, causing their entire body to be turned inside out. I can not tell you how awkward it is when someone's organs are splattered all over the floor and everyone looks at you, and you have to try to say something funny to lighten the mood.

I asked my doctor about it and they said it was nothing. I then asked my local priest and they held up a crucifix to my face which was REALLY RUDE. Does the orb disappear when I get older? Can I take any pills or use any creams to lessen its affects?

5 Comments
2024/03/31
03:30 UTC

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Why do humans typically start to gain weight easier at their 30s? is it a change of diet or the metabolism just starts to slow down?

People say you have to consume certain amount of calories a day to gain weight, I understand that, but some people don't even change their diets and still gain weight.
The reason I ask is because I'm trying to gauge why me, past 30, can't gain weight even though I'm actively trying to gain weight and even cheating through eating unhealthy snacks.

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2024/03/31
03:24 UTC

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Has anyone ever help a girls shave her pubic hair?

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2024/03/31
03:16 UTC

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Can you get an abortion of 2/3 babies after finding out you’re having triplets?

so hypothetically say somebody is pregnant, and they really want to have children and never thought of having an abortion before and then they find out they’re having triplets. I feel like personally if I were ever in that situation, I would want to know if there was a way we could bring that number down to one because I would not financially be able to support three babies. What does one do in this situation?

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2024/03/31
03:10 UTC

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How do I give a good BJ and tit job to my aggressive bf? Also ideas on domination?

So basically my bfs birthday is coming up and we haven’t done anything over a hand job as of yet. I am a big noob and I wanna know what can I do to make it a fun experience for him?

Okay so a few points : I am a bit overweight so I can’t bend too much as in I can’t sit on the car floor and then give him one ( I can but won’t be comfortable), I simply have to bend down on my seat.

He is VERY aggressive but it’s my first time so I want to accomodate that as much as I can. What kind of bjs do aggressive men like?

Also, I have huge boobs and I want to give him a well… tit job but I don’t know how to do that?

Can you guys also give some ideas as to how can I make the experience really dominating for him?

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2024/03/31
03:08 UTC

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Why is male gymnastics so obscured and rarely admired despite being so much harder than weightlifting/calisthenics?

For those that don't know, male gymnastics is absolutely different from the female gymnastics sport. It's basically a much much harder version of the calisthenics tricks you see random street dudes pull off.

Things like Iron Cross and Planche require years of dedication to even do in the first place and these athletes need to be insanely ripped with far better muscle proportion than a bodybuilder.

So why doesn't male gymnastics get any media attention or respect at all? When people hear bodybuilder, they get a positive impression of a man. But when they hear gymnastics, they think the man is just doing ballet dances or something

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2024/03/31
03:00 UTC

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Do men like smooth or bumpy vagina walls?

I really want to know what makes a vagina feel really good. Can you describe the best vagina you’ve ever had? What was it like?

I really want to be the best pussy my next boyfriend has ever had.

EDIT: I will block and report anyone that is unhelpful or unkind. I have done so for 3 redditors already.

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2024/03/31
02:51 UTC

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Where can I sell my nudes?

Where can I sell nudes

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2024/03/31
02:51 UTC

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How do I tell me gf I'd like her to shave?

How do I (18M) tell my (18f) gf that pubic hair doesn't like bother me during sex but I don't like it if I'm going to eat her out. Like it's the same as not wanting hair in your food or mouth.

I tried asking her how she wanted me bc I'm trimmed but with a little hair and she just didn't care or have any opinion.

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2024/03/31
02:47 UTC

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Why does black women discharge so much more during sex?

No racism here at all. I've just noticed when watching professional and amateur porn, black women on average seem to have this white discharge on their partner, especially in amateur porn. Of course partly it's more noticeable because of their skin color, but the amount I've seen sometimes, I've never seen before (literally dripping off the balls of the male). Am I wrong in disproportionately noticing black women having this happen more on average than other races? If not, then why does it happen?

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2024/03/31
02:36 UTC

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What Should I Expect From My Lesbian Best Friend?

It's been around 1 year and 5 months since me (21M) and my lesbian best friend (19F) know each other (online). Ever since we met we hit it off quite well and we talk about literally anything that comes to mind.

For further context, we have never met irl and she has openly said that she would not kiss me, when I brought up us getting married for mutual benefit (she would get her parent off her back and I would get a green card). As a platonic relationship it goes as you might expect except maybe with a bit more affection and teasing.

We usually talk about nsfw subject, like mentioning something that we find hot or even just openly telling the other we are horny. I've long noticed that whenever she tells me she is I end up horny too, just from the thought of her touching herself and making lewd stuff, and sometimes when she says she just finished I tell her to go again and she does (I don't know to what extent my "request" is at merit here but nonetheless she does it)

This has gone on for a while now and the idea of me going to visit came to our minds and we're both excited about it. I was wondering what I should expect from this as, as distant best friends finally meeting, we have both stated that we plan on having plenty of physical contact (only mentioned sfw of course).

What do you guys think I should expect and/or what should I do when/if the time comes?

Edit: I forgot to mention that I to having sexual desires with her and even thinking about her while in the moment but I also don't want to lose my best friend, obviously.

12 Comments
2024/03/31
01:53 UTC

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Why do black families wear shirts of their relatives?

This has to be some cultural thing for those of my race, but my family never does this and when I ask them about it, they didn't know either. But whenever I am at work, I have been noticing more and more black people wearing custom made t-shirts of their family; either being their passed away relatives or their children being an athlete, musician, or even their graduation.

Don't know if this always the case in America but from what I know, I see it a lot in the Southern states. Is there anyone here that probably have an idea or know exactly the reason for this?

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2024/03/31
01:00 UTC

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Why the homeless have children ?

And by that i don't mean people who were doing ok and have children and then all of sudden become poor and homeless

i am talking about who are homeless and they decided to have children i have witnessed some of them in the city i live in i memorized some of them cause of how familiar they became over years and i am pretty sure i am not the only person who memories the homeless in his area when he see them often but sometimes the person (mostly women's) ended up with literally new born babies that i never saw them with before or pregnant i really want to sound respectful as much as possible cause i do feel sad for them but why do u bring a child to the world when u are not doing financially good ? Like they can't afford a roof over there head or guarantee they eat or be healthy like i personally will not get married or have children until i become ready financially and guarantee for it even if it mean it will take forever and not achieve it i am sorry but the idea of bringing a child just to drag them through suffering is horrible and this topic made me get into depression state or whem i witness this phenomenon in the street.

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2024/03/31
00:25 UTC

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Is it illegal to buy something legal off the internet and have it shipped to a random house and pick it up myself for anonymity reasons?

Yeah, title. Don’t ask what I’m buying, some fetish stuff, but want to know if I can do that. Or maybe it would be better to have it shipped to a public location? Even if it’s legal, I don’t want to arrive at a randos house and them think I’m surveying their house or trying to break in haha

EDIT: US

19 Comments
2024/03/31
00:00 UTC

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Was I taken advantage of?TW / SA, drugs

I (F21) as at a local bar and got really drunk with my friends. An older lady tried to set me up with her brother. I declined. She asked if I liked girls and I said yes. She brought me to her husband and said they had drugs if I wanted. I was extremely drunk at this point. I was like ok yea. So I went and did a ⛷️ but I really think it was something else. They started undressing me and we had sec. I barely barely remember any of it. I felt disgusting the next day and had the craziest hangover of my life for 3 days straight. Was I taken advantage of - or was it my fault I took the drugs? Help me

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2024/03/30
23:54 UTC

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Is it cheeky to ask for a flight upgrade because you’re getting married?

My partner and I are getting married this summer, woo! We’re flying from Australia to Europe for our wedding. Of course the normal thing is to pay for it, but it’s just crazy expensive. I remember in the past there was the odd story here and there that you’d get a free upgrade. Has anyone tried it recently and it worked or is it impossible now?

14 Comments
2024/03/30
23:43 UTC

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How do I get better at saying goodbye to people?

Whenever I have to say goodbye to someone, like family after they visit, or friends who move on with their lives and I don’t see them anymore, the part where I have to say goodbye is a mess for me. I am always an emotional wreck in front of whoever it is, and pretty much always end up ugly crying and humiliating myself.

How do I build up my strength so I’m not like this? I know it’s not a bad thing, because it shows how much I care about them, but I still would like to be able to get through it first and then process it after. How can I go about this?

5 Comments
2024/03/30
23:17 UTC

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Is it racist?

My partner and I are white and from a capital city, but moved to a smaller city. We have this guessing game, how many minority persons will be in the theater or restaurant.

18 Comments
2024/03/30
22:51 UTC

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Is it dumb that I want/limit fewer partners because of how society judges women with higher “bodycounts” ?

I’m turning 20 I’ve slept with 2 people and it’s not like I want to sleep around. But every time I start something new or think about casual sex the thought of having +1 on my bodycount worries me. There’s always this debate that women shouldn’t sleep around etc

I don’t think that it by itself is stopping me from having sex but it’s definitely always a thought I have

74 Comments
2024/03/30
22:49 UTC

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A friend feels unsafe around a guy but won't speak up. How can i best support her?

For context, she plays dnd weekly with a friend and a few acquaintances. But the dungeon master, is a weirdo. He's touched her ass and constantly makes weird comments about her body as well as sexualizing her dnd character. Multiple times now she texted me panicked that he's being weird again. I've told her to stop going to the dnd sessions but she says that's not an option as her mom and dad know the dungeon master. And when she told her mom about his behavior the mom essentially went "no way he's not like that, he wouldn't do such a thing". I'm at a loss here. I'm frustrated and wanna beat the guy to a pulp. I can't imagine how she feels. Not having an exit. What can I do? What can she do? Anything would be helpful.

For the record I'm 21 and she's 19. The dungeon master is 45.. which is fucked in the first place..

4 Comments
2024/03/30
22:45 UTC

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are the movies real?

Is sex actually like its shown in porn or people just "say" that its not like porn, whats the real deal is it like porn fr or not?

9 Comments
2024/03/30
22:42 UTC

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Do baseball catchers get hemorrhoids from squatting so much?

They will spend hours in a squat position during a game. And they play like 180 games a year. They must get hemmys, right?

21 Comments
2024/03/30
22:24 UTC

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If you had a 'save point' in your life that you could return to with the knowledge you have now, when would it be?

Thank you for sharing.

9 Comments
2024/03/30
22:08 UTC

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"Other than black people, none can say the N-word" is a racist rule, isn't it?

If we say only on race may do smth, that's racist. So the N-word rule itself is racist. It should be either that no one shoud say it, or everybody should be able to say it.

Its presence is like a scar left by the slavery era on the society, which won't heal unless we do smth about it.

Also, since this is the subreddit, doesn't it feel sad when a black person can say a word in a positive meaning but their friends can't?

Update: I think most folks concluded I want(or as one said, desired) to say the word, which just ain't true, as it really doesn't have that much of a use, and homie is a much better replacement for it. Jesus, all I said was I think it's as racist to say only some races can do smth as some people can't.

Or at least, that's how I feel, idk.

27 Comments
2024/03/30
21:55 UTC

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