Everyone is saying overreacting,so I can’t tell if it’s me or the school.I had heat and after hitting it have me rush of energy and had pain for 2 days in the area.I still have bumps but pain left.I was a couple feet on my sofa when I had let my head fall back to relax.But it’s the 1st time I felt that type of pain.

I am 42 and have metastatic breast cancer. It’s difficult for me to ask for/accept help, seek connection, and even identify when I need any of that. There are some who continue to maintain contact, and I’m so grateful for them but feel bad telling them I’m still feel like crap 8 mos after diagnosis. I’m tired, I’m scared, I’m sad physically, I am fatigued, in pain, nauseous, etc. I think they expect to hear that I’m doing better, but it’s early in my diagnosis and I’m still learning who I am now that my chosen career is ending because of this, and I have all the medical things to deal with. I think I feel like I don’t deserve their continued effort and it’s easier to not reply than to risk that they might get tired of hearing how poorly I’m doing. Any advice?

In Australia, a lot of places call for a gold coin donation and I never ever have any gold coins on me anymore. How do I get some?

I have a friend who has this fetish and I don't understand it at all. He likes me to make videos with me in costumes (always soft furry types) with blankets over me and then to talk while muffled, dance and make hugging motions. I asked if he was a furry and he said no. I don't think it's sexual. I think the person is autistic and virginal (haven't asked). I've tried to ask and they just say it's comforting.

Has anyone heard of this before?

This person is interested in me as a partner but this feels red flag to me. They also never say anything remotely "intimate".

For instance just recently 90 people died in Spain due to floods yet hardly any media outlets outside of Spain itself bothered to pick up on reporting it. Meanwhile if some gunman storms a school in London and shoots up 10 people, we'll see it reported all over the world extensively and then the general public mourning heavily and leaving behind tons of flowers at the site of the attack.

Isn't all lives equally to be mourned over? Oh I guess not.

Has anyone ever done laser hair removal on their scrotum? Does it sting? is there a better way for permanent hair removal of the ball area?

Hi, it seems no matter how many times a week i exfoliate with a body scrub i always have dead skin the next day when i’m in the shower, is this just a me issue or is it normal?

He's always taken me to nice restaurants & paid, stayed on the phone until 6 in the morning & also while he's at the gym working out. We've been vulnerable about personal things. Always sending songs to each other. I, along with all of my friends (including other guy friends), honestly thought the feelings were mutual but now I'm questioning myself.

We are friends from college. We are flirty with each other but nothing has happened between us at all.

I just can't get it out of my mind. But we were in a group setting at work, I turned to my left, and some coworker was staring at me with dreamy starry eyes with a smile. Nothing ever came of it (a little too young) but that look is burned into my brain

I was thinking about it after I saw a billboard that had cursive writing, and it made me wonder do other countries/languages write in cursive as well?

How to tell the difference between?

The more ‘self awareness’ I, 32F, get (thanks therapy), the more I feel like I’m a red flag as a person, especially when it comes to dating.

• hyper independent
• fearful avoidant attachment
• late diagnosed neurodivergent
• career driven (self employed)
• never had a boyfriend/partner
• never actively dated
• overweight & I wouldn’t say pretty
• few hobbies, most hobbies are solo hobbies (eg reading)
• still learning emotional identification & regulation

Context, I had a few crushes when younger which were not reciprocated and have never been asked out by someone for more than s*x.

The unknown is scary, but more and more of my social circle are dating or finding partners.

I love my career and I openly acknowledge that I have a lot of self development to do.

I do feel sometimes like something is missing but I also don’t want to be with someone who I’m settling for or for the sake of being with someone. That’s unfair on them and myself. Sometimes I feel like I don’t want a relationship either.

Am I a red flag and is that something I can work on without compromising myself?

There used to be a guy at school who would always come up to me and jokingly talk about dirty things and wanting to "do me." I was always the weird disabled girl, so that's why he thought it was funny.

He would also start rubbing the inside of my thigh as he did this.

What happens to left over foreskin after circumcision like do they stitch it together into stuffed animals?

Even rural places like New York and California are red despite everywhere else voting blue. I know there's less people in rural areas, but why are those places conservative in the first place?

They seem kind of pointless

i have autism and i usually talk with people without look at them, specially if i am nervous. but im scared that people will get mad at me if i keep doing this, but i simply can't, i get nervous and i stopped looking...

i need to get worried or is just silliness?

Clarification: my perspective is around Indvidual men and not the society at large when I use the word 'patriarchy'.
Collective Patriarchal behaviors have conventionally enforced covering women up however they have still provided access to women in what they thought was an acceptable practice e.g. marriage. Individually men in patriarchal societies also wanted to get access to woman to consume them visually or physically. Therefore, the outcome is the same i.e. men want woman to wear less clothes so that they can consume them visually or if the prevailing norms allow, physically.

i have regularly had a small amount of blood in my poop for as long as i can remember. (both in the actual pieces and liquid drops in the water) i also chronically have bristol chart type 1-2 poop, rarely differing. i have discounted the blood as just a product of minor anal fissures (?) as i have very large, firm bowel movements due to dehydration or other factors. there is not blood every time, but about once a month there will be blood for ~3 times in a row. this has been happening for a very long time and i am otherwise healthy. could this be normal? am i gonna die? i understand the best advice is always to see a doctor but i genuinely do not believe it is that serious since its been happening so consistently for so long.

It’s definitely an insecurity thing. i want to be with a woman that other men want to be with as well and i want to be a guy that other guys are envious of because i can date really beautiful women. I also don’t want other women to think i can only be with girls that are a certain level of attractiveness. i know this is very shallow and vain but is it normal or healthy to feel this way? i am in a relationship as well if that adds any context.

What if a mall santa gets a boner is there some type of protocol?

Hello I need some input. I have been basically out the door with this job but the job market doesn’t agree with me. I’ve been here for over a year. More and more everyday, my bosses become beyond insufferable. I have never worked for two people who are the biggest narcissists, manipulative sh*t talkers. I feel so trapped there. I’ve applied to so many jobs. It’s just taking a toll on my mental and I’m not the only employee who feels like this. My biggest tipping point was this: I was recently in a car accident and ending up with whiplash / mild concussion. I was at work when my adrenaline finally died out. I took my unpaid lunch and went to get checked out. My boss never asked me what happened, if I’m okay, so on and so forth. But what she did ask me if I was good to stay till the end of my shift. Meanwhile I had already forgot a client and the lighting was bothering me terribly. I was baffled and she then became passive aggressive after I said no. My point of this is would it be ridiculous of me to put my notice in when I get back from this short LOA, and attempt to try to file for unemployment? I’m really dreading going back and I’ve applied for over 100 jobs now. This job is just so AHHH

I’m 18 have no experience in women or anything ain’t been in a relationship before. She is a friend from school we used to talk quite a bit from time to time and she is a mutal friend of my close mates who knew her better than me from school. Long ass story told her I liked her and we have ended up snapping but her replies are fucking horrible (she told me that her replies are bad with everyone even my mate warned me and said her replies are fucked. I got left on delivered for 6 days but my mate said she does that cause her replies are that bad)

I don’t know what to do with her ain’t really had a deep convo with her just spoke about basic shit and it’s annoying cause gotta wait like hours to even reply so it’s some long ass convo. I told her that if I’m wasting time please let me know witch was retarded to say to her but I was running out of time with army and shit and I’m so shit and stupid at it and am getting better. She didn’t say I was wasting my time but didn’t tell me she wasn’t interested either so I don’t know what she thinks. I’m going in soon and don’t know what to do with her I really like her loads I have liked her for 6ish years and just couldn’t get over her. Should I wait till I’ve done basic training then ask her out? Do I stay In touch with her or just completely disappear then come back. I don’t know what to do it’s so annoying. I sort of wish I never told her and just waited till after training. And I know I’m stupid for even worrying about this while going into army but I just ain’t done this before and really like this girl loads.

Cheers.

I'm trying to avoid the low wages in my country by getting a remote job in a company from USA or even other English speaking country. I looked up some chat moderation jobs but despite being remote they still require you to live in USA.

I got the advantages of having a stable internet connection and being bilingual (I speak english and spanish). Because of that I was thinking in getting a moderation job or a interpreter job.

So recently I’ve been trying to track my calories and stay within a certain calorie threshold. However, I’ve always been confused. I walked on the treadmill today and burned 420 calories. In order to count my calories for the day, can I just add up the 1800 calories I ate today and subtract the 420 I burned during my workout to get the total calories I consumed for the day ?? Is that how it even works?

I have this halloween party tommorow and i dont really know anyone there, so i took a few shots worth of whisky from my mums boyfriends bottle to make it seem less intimadating. I replaced it with a little bit of water but i thought that was probably stupid after i did it, do you reckon he'll notice that its been watered down, there was about a litre in the bottle originally and i took maybe 75ml. It was 40% if that helps.

I hear Nvidia is a good download option but i want to know how i can made my computer faster without downloading a virus or spending money

for example i want to play blackmuth wukong and the game is fun as hell but sometime it lags a lot but when its not lagging hard it looks absolutely stunning

My Computer is a rog asus laptop windows 11