/r/TelegramR4R

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An r4r for those of us that use Telegram and would like to find someone to chat with.

Trying to plan your weekend? Or just looking for a like minded individual to chat with. I'd like this to be a place where people can connect no matter who you are, where you are or what you like. Please read the rules before posting.

An r4r for those of us that use Telegram and would like to find someone to chat with.

Looking for a group?

Trying to plan your weekend?

Or just looking for a like minded individual to chat with.

I'd like this to be a place where people can connect no matter who you are, where you are or what you like.

NEW! Come join our Telegram Chat Room HERE Link updated 02MAY2018!!


Moderators reserve the right to remove posts and/or right to ban users upon their discretion.

Posting on this Subreddit

Submissions to this subreddit must be properly formatted or they will be deleted.

The format for post titles is: AGE [R4R] LOCATION - TITLE

R4R denotes your gender and preference.

Example titles:

21 [M4F] Arkansas - Looking for a friend

30/29 [FM4FM] Australia - Married couple looking for roleplay with another married couple.


What is Telegram:

Telegram is a messaging app with a focus on speed and security, it’s super fast, simple and free. You can use Telegram on all your devices at the same time — your messages sync seamlessly across any number of your phones, tablets or computers.

With Telegram, you can send messages, photos, videos and files of any type (doc, zip, mp3, etc), as well as create groups for up to 200 people or channels for broadcasting to unlimited audiences. You can write to your phone contacts and find people by their usernames. As a result, Telegram is like SMS and email combined — and can take care of all your personal or business messaging needs.

Telegram FAQ

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Rules and Guidelines:

  • This subreddit is for all ages. If there is evidence of those seeking anything illegal, they will be banned and post removed.
  • No personal information, including but not limited to phone number, email addresses, or external profiles.
  • Exchanges for money, goods, or services are strictly prohibited.
  • No sexism, racism, homophobia, ad hominem posts, or rudeness will be tolerated.
  • Spam will not be tolerated and repeated offenses will result in a ban.
  • Posts including nude pictures must be marked NSFW
  • If you have an issue on the subreddit, use the report button or contact the moderators.
  • If you do not agree with a post, ignore it and move on.

Notable Telegram subs:

/r/Telegram

/r/DirtyTelegram (18+)

/r/TelegramGroups

/r/TelegramStickersShare

/r/TelegramBots

/r/TelegramR4R

8,776 Subscribers

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29 [M4F] looking for long term sexting (NOT a buyer)

Hello everyone

Like the title says I'm looking for females (or couples with at least one female) that could be interested in sexting and maybe even making it a recurring thing.

I'll describe myself a bit so you know what you'll be getting into: I'm 1.80m tall, athletic build (I do kickboxing so I'm fit but I'm not big with muscles), short black hair, dark brown eyes. I like videogames, nature, sport, reading, hanging out with friends (bowling, pool, going to the cinema/pub), board games and ttrpgs.

I'd like to start by just chatting and getting to know each other and then we'll see where it takes us ;)

I'M NOT A BUYER

1 Comment
2024/11/09
10:18 UTC

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52[M4F] Let's Have some Naughty Fun with a Q&A Game. Details in Post

Here are the “rules” of the game.

We take turns asking the other person 3 questions, one at a time. We must answer honestly. After a set of 3 questions, we swap roles. I have found this game is a good way to get to know another person and have fun. Questions can be G-XXX rated and usually get more XXX as time goes on we get more comfortable with each other and get to know each other. Questions should include Kinks, experiences, fantasies and all sorts of fun stuff.

Send me a Chat if you would like to play. A picture always gets you to the front of the queue

1 Comment
2024/11/08
17:26 UTC

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54 [M4F] Hello there

Looking for someone to flirt with during the day while I'm working for a distraction. I'm a therapist so I like to listen and validate.

1 Comment
2024/11/07
16:57 UTC

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35 [M4F] UK - Dirty Dom Seeking Freeuse Toy

I'm looking for a woman who gets off on degradation and humiliation, a freeuse doll/pig/toy with no self respect and no dignity, a filthy girl who lives to serve. Age, body and looks are not particularly important to me; I'm attracted to deviancy and desperation. I'm interested in lots of things.

1 Comment
2024/11/07
13:28 UTC

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41 [M4A] UK looking for WFH fun

Hi all.

I am trying my best to work, but keep getting distracted!

Would love some NSFW chat with anyone, maybe even pic swap or video call?

1 Comment
2024/11/06
13:10 UTC

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54 [M4F] Hello there

Looking for someone to flirt with during the day while I'm working for a distraction. I'm a therapist so I like to listen and validate.

1 Comment
2024/11/04
20:12 UTC

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36 [M4F] Tall handsome guy in Bellingham WA looking for some fun today

6’5”, good-looking, clean, and intelligent. Looking for new friends, down to meet if we hit it off.

1 Comment
2024/11/04
19:53 UTC

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28 [M4A] looking to yap, game, send memes

Hii I'm Olive, this is for anyone that wants to just talk about random stuff, sends memes or just game. I have a pc and ps5. Safe space, no judgment will be here :)

0 Comments
2024/11/03
23:29 UTC

1

24 [M4F] Singapore, looking for a sexting partner

just int in a sexting partner and nothing more, unless...

1 Comment
2024/11/03
12:06 UTC

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30 [M4F] - Disabled Man Looking For A Workout/Physiotherapy Motivation Buddy

Howdy!

I'm a disabled man with a mild case of cerebral palsy. I have to do some intense physiotherapy to keep myself functional. It's pretty draining, and although I'm pretty good at forcing myself to go, it would be better if I had a cute gym buddy to keep me motivated. I won't lie, I don't get a lot of attention from the opposite sex in any sort of way, so this is kind of pure fantasy, but it would be nice to just have someone who tells me I'm doing good or is proud of my progress. I don't want to attach a particular dynamic to this, I just want someone to motivate me and maybe get a little flirty if we're both feeling it. I'm not looking to fall in love, but I am looking to be praised/appreciated.

I'm happy to motivate you too! Going to the gym, physio, working out, whatever. It's all tough and you also deserve to be praised for your progress and effort! I'd love for us to mutually push eachother to hit our goals and go beyond them. I'm in the central european timezone, but I'm happy to accommodate whatever pace of conversation works for you.

I know this is a bit of an atypical post, but if you find yourself even remotely interested feel free to reach out, I'm happy to chat more in DMs/chat.

Thanks for reading!

0 Comments
2024/11/02
14:42 UTC

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31 [M4A] UK looking for buddy

Hey everyone, I'm looking to find someone for mutual solo sessions

I like almost everything (no blood,toilet) and I'm very dirty minded 😈 but I mainly like teens, tanlines, panties, shaved pussies, small tits

Feel free to dm me (anything)

0 Comments
2024/11/01
17:41 UTC

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44 [m4f] love to chat about kinks, fetishes, and fantasies!

It makes me type something here!

1 Comment
2024/10/30
23:45 UTC

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44 [m4f] into chatting about kinks, fetishes, and fantasies

Dee em for my tele

0 Comments
2024/10/30
23:43 UTC

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40 [M4F] Seeking Busty Lingerie Enthusiast for Casual and Flirtatious Fun

I'm 5'8", 170lbs, of Mediterranean heritage, married father of 2, fit and athletic with great arms and a runner's butt, blue eyes, salt and pepper hair with matching beard scruff. Aside from starting my silver-fox stage early - I don't look or feel 40. I'm educated, a little nerdy for all things 90s / early 2000s, love random trivia and spending time just wandering the outdoors with no particular goal in mind. Slightly above average length (6.5") with some extra girth (5.4"). Vas-safe. Love extended foreplay, oral, breast and nipple play, being teased by a partner in lingerie and using toys to enhance the experience.

I'd like to find a woman with a similar life experience to mine - race doesn't concern me (beauty comes in all colors of the rainbow) and neither does age (within reasonable legal limits). I'd like someone shorter than 5'4" but this is not a deal breaker. My preference in bodytypes runs the gamut from slim, petite, average and athletic to short-stack, curvy and voluptuous - but I hold a special affinity for those with cup sizes above and beyond the standard first 5 letters of the bra alphabet. Glasses are adorable.

Proximity to Western Maryland or South Central PA would be an added bonus if we ever decided to try in person.

Discretion is paramount and we all have our unique reasons for being here. I do not expect us to irreparably damage our lives for one another. This should be a fun escape for two consenting adults. I look forward to hearing from you.

1 Comment
2024/10/30
18:40 UTC

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28 [M4A] looking to get off honestly :)

Hello I'm a pansexual male I'm looking to have some fun I have very few limits they are +18 plus of course no scat piss blood rape feet but other then that I am fairly open to new things

1 Comment
2024/10/30
06:25 UTC

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34[M4A] looking for people to chat on telegram

Anyone would like to chat!

0 Comments
2024/10/30
05:48 UTC

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41 [M4R] #Essex looking for chatting

Hi all.

I normally wfh but today, am in the office. I am all alone and should be working, but always happy for distractions!

I love to chat about anything SFW/NSFW, and always up for a pic exchange and maybe even a video call if you are daring enough.

I am into most things, especially music and films, but can generally hold a conversation about most topics.

Happy to hear from anyone who fancies taking a punt. DMs open if you are interested!

0 Comments
2024/10/29
11:58 UTC

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22 [M4M] Asian boy looking for men

+++if you can send voice messages💗

1 Comment
2024/10/28
04:20 UTC

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32 [M4F] Online, looking for a friendly person to chat with whenever we’re free. Let’s distract each other ☺️

Hello all! I’m James from Australia. I hope you all have had a lovely weekend!

Looking for someone I can talk about life with, connect with, and distract myself with! 😂

Work days can be tedious, but I have met some truly incredible people from here. As for the female preferred, I just get along with women far better than men. I don’t have that much in common with most men. Grew up in a single parent household, and I love drag race haha

No conversation is off putting. Happy to discuss anything and everything with the right person.

Hopefully you are the one to talk with!

1 Comment
2024/10/28
02:30 UTC

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33[M4F] Looking for some fun who is nerdy and chubby

Open to have conversation to know each other or we can skip that and get naughty. Message me! 😁

1 Comment
2024/10/27
23:26 UTC

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28 [M4F] love to see your sexy high heels or feet

Send me a dm

1 Comment
2024/10/27
15:59 UTC

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38 [M4F] Germany / Online - Mature, intelligent and flirty lover… looking for the same!

Hey ladies👋,

I’m a guy looking for a mature (38+), fun and intelligent lady to get to know better and also for casual fun :) Finding someone for a long term thing, also with FwB activities would be the ideal outcome 😉

Some things about me: 38M, 5'11, in good shape thanks to regular exercise, strict on hygiene. I make a concerted effort to look sharp and smell nice. I do not smoke nor take drugs.

Building a connection and chemistry is the most important to me. I expect a fair amount of chatting and who knows, maybe if we click moving on to more naughty business. I’m educated and literate, so having good conversations shouldn’t be a problem :) Confident to say that I have a very good sense of humour (I’m quite cheeky, you’ve been warned!). Overall, I’m just looking forward to spending nice moments (sexual and non-sexual) with a fun and interesting person my age or older!

Sex wise, I’m very open minded and looking to explore and try new things (big on communication, respect for consent and boundaries 🙏). I am not the kind of person to judge or take things too seriously: my main goals are to have fun and laugh a lot!😊

I do not discriminate based on ethnicity, religion or “level of experience”. Single or desperate mothers most welcome :)

I’m based in Europe and if this is an opportunity you’d like to explore, please feel free to send me a message!

0 Comments
2024/10/27
12:09 UTC

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27 [M4A] In a sharing mood and want to share my wife’s pics & vids with y’all

Sample pics in profile.

1 Comment
2024/10/26
18:37 UTC

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54 [M4F] Older man for younger woman

Looking for someone to flirt with during the day while I'm working for a distraction. I'm a therapist so I like to listen and validate.

1 Comment
2024/10/26
17:32 UTC

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25 [M4A] I want real women, not supermodels. Older, hairier, and bigger, the better. Women with hairy armpits and BBWs to the front.

People go on about women that are skinny and young, but wait about big girls, hairy women, and older ladies? I want to see the women you know that fit anything I’ve mentioned, whether it’s older, hairy, bigger, or a mixture of the three. Don’t be afraid to show off bellies and armpits. I’m happy to hear from cucks, couples, and women that wish to submit themselves.

1 Comment
2024/10/26
15:51 UTC

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33[M4F] Looking for some fun who is nerdy and chubby

Open to have conversation to know each other or we can skip that and get naughty.

1 Comment
2024/10/25
01:49 UTC

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54 [M4F] Hello there

Looking for someone to flirt with during the day while I'm working for a distraction. I'm a therapist so I like to listen and validate.

1 Comment
2024/10/24
19:23 UTC

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49[M4A] small, uncut and in panties needs friends to play with.

I’ve been playing on kik for a long time, but telegram is so much better. Except it’s impossible to find groups. I would love to have horny telegram friends to JO with. I’m a fem CD with good taste and a sense of humor. I’m happy to meet all of you.

0 Comments
2024/10/23
18:30 UTC

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54 [M4F] Older man for younger woman

Looking for someone to flirt with during the day while I'm working for a distraction. I'm a therapist so I like to listen and validate.

1 Comment
2024/10/22
22:24 UTC

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39[M4F] British guy needs fun & flirty Dutch girl for chat (and Dutch practise) Nederland 🇳🇱

First and foremost I'm looking for a friendship, with at least a little edge of naughty (this is the dark corner of Reddit, after all 😉). But that can take many forms, and I don't really want to define it down to just a single one. But some possibilities:

  • Someone to share those dark and filthy memes that are just too much for your friends and colleagues.
  • Someone who you can just outright tell how horny and frustrated you are, and who will be happy to lend a hand.
  • Someone who won't judge you (much 😜) about that kink you're into.

Just someone that'll make me smile when I open my phone and see they've replied. It would be great to make a real connection and get to know someone; and if you're the type that enjoys sharing some naughty pics, then I'd love to see you. If not, then I'm completely fine with that too; I promise I won't even ask.

So about me. I'm 38, happily married with three kds and I live in the UK. I work as a software tester, mainly from home; so 3 days a week I have loads of "free" time to chat. I also do some private maths & physics tuition on the side, which I really love. I enjoy reading - mostly scifi & fantasy; big favourites include Hitch-Hikers' Guide to the Galaxy, Michael Crichton (Jurassic Park, Prey, Timeline...), Terry Pratchett (Thief of Time, Thud!, Going Postal), John Wyndham (Day of the Triffids, The Chrysalids), The Hobbit, Evergence. I also play quite a lot of board games; Root, Kingsburg, Ticket to Ride, Quacks of Quedlinburg... And I'm a bit of a tech geek too: my home server here has over 30TB of storage, over 10TB of which is TV shows 😁

Oh, and I also love to write and share my smutty short stories.

About you; well, other than being from, or adjacent to, The Netherlands, I don't mind really - I want to find out as we chat. Be up for a laugh and some flirting, and interested in having a good conversation. Speak English, but it doesnt need to be perfect; im happy to be some practise for you. Just be genuinely you.

Why Dutch? Well my wife is Dutch, and I currently have a 1330 day streak learning it on Duolingo. So while I don't know enough to hold a lot of our conversations in Dutch, I'd like to be able to use it a bit here and there where I can, and hopefully improve.

I've made some amazing connections in the past, some have come and gone, and some I'm still in touch with. I really hope to find some new friends.

1 Comment
2024/10/22
06:09 UTC

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