/r/TelegramR4R

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An r4r for those of us that use Telegram and would like to find someone to chat with.

Trying to plan your weekend? Or just looking for a like minded individual to chat with. I'd like this to be a place where people can connect no matter who you are, where you are or what you like. Please read the rules before posting.

An r4r for those of us that use Telegram and would like to find someone to chat with.

Looking for a group?

Trying to plan your weekend?

Or just looking for a like minded individual to chat with.

I'd like this to be a place where people can connect no matter who you are, where you are or what you like.

NEW! Come join our Telegram Chat Room HERE Link updated 02MAY2018!!


Moderators reserve the right to remove posts and/or right to ban users upon their discretion.

Posting on this Subreddit

Submissions to this subreddit must be properly formatted or they will be deleted.

The format for post titles is: AGE [R4R] LOCATION - TITLE

R4R denotes your gender and preference.

Example titles:

21 [M4F] Arkansas - Looking for a friend

30/29 [FM4FM] Australia - Married couple looking for roleplay with another married couple.


What is Telegram:

Telegram is a messaging app with a focus on speed and security, it’s super fast, simple and free. You can use Telegram on all your devices at the same time — your messages sync seamlessly across any number of your phones, tablets or computers.

With Telegram, you can send messages, photos, videos and files of any type (doc, zip, mp3, etc), as well as create groups for up to 200 people or channels for broadcasting to unlimited audiences. You can write to your phone contacts and find people by their usernames. As a result, Telegram is like SMS and email combined — and can take care of all your personal or business messaging needs.

Telegram FAQ

Need Telegram, get it here:

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Rules and Guidelines:

  • This subreddit is for all ages. If there is evidence of those seeking anything illegal, they will be banned and post removed.
  • No personal information, including but not limited to phone number, email addresses, or external profiles.
  • Exchanges for money, goods, or services are strictly prohibited.
  • No sexism, racism, homophobia, ad hominem posts, or rudeness will be tolerated.
  • Spam will not be tolerated and repeated offenses will result in a ban.
  • Posts including nude pictures must be marked NSFW
  • If you have an issue on the subreddit, use the report button or contact the moderators.
  • If you do not agree with a post, ignore it and move on.

Notable Telegram subs:

/r/Telegram

/r/DirtyTelegram (18+)

/r/TelegramGroups

/r/TelegramStickersShare

/r/TelegramBots

/r/TelegramR4R

9,239 Subscribers

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29 [M4F] Italy looking for long term sexting (NOT a buyer)

Hello everyone

Like the title says I'm looking for females that could be interested in sexting and maybe even making it a recurring thing.

I'll describe myself a bit so you know what you'll be getting into: I'm 1.80m tall, athletic build (I do kickboxing so I'm fit but I'm not big with muscles), short black hair, dark brown eyes. I like videogames, nature, sport, reading, hanging out with friends (bowling, pool, going to the cinema/pub), board games and ttrpgs.

I'd like to start by just chatting and getting to know each other and then we'll see where it takes us ;)

I'M NOT A BUYER

1 Comment
2025/01/31
21:38 UTC

1

33 [M4F] looking for lady who wants to chat, dirty or otherwise.

Hello, just a bored, lonely guy looking for some messaging company, and quite possibly an online friendship.

Up for sexting or just regular chat.

If interested, DM me. Thank you, and have a happy day.

1 Comment
2025/01/30
15:32 UTC

1

29 [M4F] hey looking for a sexy chat

Not a buyer so please don’t pm If interested dm me here

1 Comment
2025/01/30
00:27 UTC

1

52[M4F] Online - Daddy wants to make you Smile 😀

Ladies of Reddit, praising and pleasure seeking Daddy wants to make you smile and feel amazing.

Praise and compliments for your beauty, cuteness, and sexiness absolutely.

Help with the sweet release of a leg shaking orgasm also available.

Fun and flirty chat throughout the day is great as well.

1 Comment
2025/01/29
13:15 UTC

1

37 [M4F] California looking for someone to talk to especially when work is hard

Need someone to help relieve the stress from work. You don’t have to do anything crazy I just enjoy someone to talk with and laugh. If things move forward and we feel comfortable I’m happy to move in a different direction. Let’s enjoy each others company and see how well we get along

1 Comment
2025/01/29
10:07 UTC

0

34 [M4F] Sadist looking for submissive girl

I am an experienced and caring dominant master in search of a devoted submissive partner. My goal is to build a connection rooted in trust, love, and total domination. I am looking for a young, obedient little slave girl to own, train, and nurture as my cherished property.

About Me:

I embody a blend of kindness and strictness, ensuring that my sub not only feels cared for but also understands my expectations. My interests include various aspects of BDSM, such as spanking, humiliation, and BDSM play, with a focus on incorporating elements of pleasure and pain. As a sadist, I prefer a partner with masochistic tendencies.

What I’m Looking For:

  • A submissive who is eager to learn and explore.
  • Ideally, I’m drawn to younger individuals with a playful, cute aesthetic—think alt, goth, or petite (slightly curvy is also appreciated).
  • Experience level doesn’t matter; I am committed to providing the necessary training to meet my standards.

Important Aspects:

  • This relationship will hinge on mutual respect and consent.
  • Serious inquiries only; I am not interested in time-wasters.

If you resonate with this and are interested in exploring the dynamic of master and slave, please reach out via messages.

I look forward to connecting with those who are genuinely interested in serving, learning, and thriving in this special dynamic.

1 Comment
2025/01/28
10:11 UTC

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36 [M4F] Tall handsome guy in Bellingham WA looking for some fun today

I’m 6’5”, good-looking, clean, and intelligent. Looking for discreet fun, down to meet if we hit it off.

1 Comment
2025/01/27
17:04 UTC

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48 [M4R] dad bod here looking for an intimate conversation. Not buying content

Not buying content and love to chat long-term.

1 Comment
2025/01/27
08:36 UTC

1

43 [m4f] married chubby dad in Germany, up for some fun

Anyone wanna chat?

0 Comments
2025/01/26
19:45 UTC

0

35 [M4F] UK - Dirty Dom Seeking Freeuse Toy

I'm looking for a woman who gets off on degradation and humiliation, a freeuse doll/pig/toy with no self respect and no dignity, a filthy girl who lives to serve. Age, body and looks are not particularly important to me; I'm attracted to deviancy and desperation. I'm interested in lots of things.

1 Comment
2025/01/26
19:57 UTC

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39[M4F] Searching for fun & flirty Pocket Pals. Dutch a bonus 🇳🇱

You know, someone to share those dark and filthy memes that are just too much for your friends and colleagues.

Someone who you can just outright tell how horny and frustrated you are, and who will be happy to lend a hand.

Someone who won't judge you (much 😜) about that kink you're into.

Just someone that'll make me smile when I open my phone and see they've replied. It would be great to make a real connection and get to know someone; and if you're the type that enjoys sharing some naughty pics, then I'd love to see you. If not, then I'd appreciate a little something just to verify and have an idea who I'm chatting with; but I won't ask or push for some.

So about me. I'm 39, happily married with three kds and I live in the UK. I work as a software tester, mainly from home; so 3 days a week I have loads of "free" time to chat. I also do some private maths & physics tuition on the side, which I really love. I enjoy reading - mostly scifi & fantasy; big favourites include Hitch-Hikers' Guide to the Galaxy, Michael Crichton (Jurassic Park, Prey, Timeline...), Terry Pratchett (Thief of Time, Thud!, Going Postal), John Wyndham (Day of the Triffids, The Chrysalids), The Hobbit, Evergence. I also play quite a lot of board games; Root, Kingsburg, Ticket to Ride, Quacks of Quedlinburg... And I'm a bit of a tech geek too: my home server here has over 30TB of storage, over 10TB of which is TV shows 😁

Oh, and I also love to write and share my smutty short stories.

About you; well I don't mind really - I want to find out as we chat. Be up for a laugh and some flirting, and interested in having a good conversation. Speak English, but it doesnt need to be perfect; im happy to be some practise for you. Just be genuinely you.

Why Dutch? Well my wife is Dutch, and I currently have a 1300 day streak learning it on Duolingo. So while I don't know enough to hold a lot of our conversations in Dutch, I'd like to be able to use it a bit here and there where I can.

There are some nos too. If you're a real hardline conservative, or otherwise quite right wing then we just aren't going to get along. Woke is not a pejorative, trans women are women, black lives matter, and Israel and Hammas are both committing war crimes against innocent civilians. Similarly if you're suffering from anti-science delusions, then we also aren't going to connect either. The earth is round (ish), we landed on the moon, vaccines work and don't cause autism, covid is real and still a genuine problem.

I've made some amazing connections in the past, some have come and gone, and some I'm still in touch with. I really hope to find some new friends.

1 Comment
2025/01/26
08:20 UTC

2

40 [m4r] I'm in the USA, would really like to talk and get something going.

DM me to talk, I'm pretty open and easy to get along with so don't hesitate.

1 Comment
2025/01/26
03:18 UTC

1

39[M4F] Searching for fun & flirty Pocket Pals. Dutch a bonus 🇳🇱

You know, someone to share those dark and filthy memes that are just too much for your friends and colleagues.

Someone who you can just outright tell how horny and frustrated you are, and who will be happy to lend a hand.

Someone who won't judge you (much 😜) about that kink you're into.

Just someone that'll make me smile when I open my phone and see they've replied. It would be great to make a real connection and get to know someone; and if you're the type that enjoys sharing some naughty pics, then I'd love to see you. If not, then I'd appreciate a little something just to verify and have an idea who I'm chatting with; but I won't ask or push for some.

So about me. I'm 39, happily married with three kds and I live in the UK. I work as a software tester, mainly from home; so 3 days a week I have loads of "free" time to chat. I also do some private maths & physics tuition on the side, which I really love. I enjoy reading - mostly scifi & fantasy; big favourites include Hitch-Hikers' Guide to the Galaxy, Michael Crichton (Jurassic Park, Prey, Timeline...), Terry Pratchett (Thief of Time, Thud!, Going Postal), John Wyndham (Day of the Triffids, The Chrysalids), The Hobbit, Evergence. I also play quite a lot of board games; Root, Kingsburg, Ticket to Ride, Quacks of Quedlinburg... And I'm a bit of a tech geek too: my home server here has over 30TB of storage, over 10TB of which is TV shows 😁

Oh, and I also love to write and share my smutty short stories.

About you; well I don't mind really - I want to find out as we chat. Be up for a laugh and some flirting, and interested in having a good conversation. Speak English, but it doesnt need to be perfect; im happy to be some practise for you. Just be genuinely you.

Why Dutch? Well my wife is Dutch, and I currently have a 1300 day streak learning it on Duolingo. So while I don't know enough to hold a lot of our conversations in Dutch, I'd like to be able to use it a bit here and there where I can.

There are some nos too. If you're a real hardline conservative, or otherwise quite right wing then we just aren't going to get along. Woke is not a pejorative, trans women are women, black lives matter, and Israel and Hammas are both committing war crimes against innocent civilians. Similarly if you're suffering from anti-science delusions, then we also aren't going to connect either. The earth is round (ish), we landed on the moon, vaccines work and don't cause autism, covid is real and still a genuine problem.

I've made some amazing connections in the past, some have come and gone, and some I'm still in touch with. I really hope to find some new friends.

1 Comment
2025/01/25
08:41 UTC

2

41 [M4R] UK looking for chat and maybe pic swaps

Hi all

Bored, exhibitionist and bi-cur male here, UK based.

Looking for chat, pic swaps and maybe even video calls if you are feeling brave! Once I get comfortable with someone, I am definitely not shy!

Happy to start off chatting about most things, but sport, sci-fi and anime are not for me!

I am into music, mainly rock depending on my mood, good TV and film, and of course, anything X-rated.

Feel free to message and see where we end up!

1 Comment
2025/01/24
07:13 UTC

1

36 [M4F] Tall handsome guy in Bellingham WA looking for some fun today

I’m 6’5”, good-looking, clean, and intelligent. Looking for discreet fun, down to meet if we hit it off.

1 Comment
2025/01/23
16:46 UTC

1

45 [M4F] DC, Keep Me Company at Work

Bored middle aged gentleman looking for a fun distraction at work.

1 Comment
2025/01/23
12:40 UTC

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34 [M4F] Sadist looking for submissive girl

I am an experienced and caring dominant master in search of a devoted submissive partner. My goal is to build a connection rooted in trust, love, and total domination. I am looking for a young, obedient little slave girl to own, train, and nurture as my cherished property.

About Me:

I embody a blend of kindness and strictness, ensuring that my sub not only feels cared for but also understands my expectations. My interests include various aspects of BDSM, such as spanking, humiliation, and BDSM play, with a focus on incorporating elements of pleasure and pain. As a sadist, I prefer a partner with masochistic tendencies.

What I’m Looking For:

  • A submissive who is eager to learn and explore.
  • Ideally, I’m drawn to younger individuals with a playful, cute aesthetic—think alt, goth, or petite (slightly curvy is also appreciated).
  • Experience level doesn’t matter; I am committed to providing the necessary training to meet my standards.

Important Aspects:

  • This relationship will hinge on mutual respect and consent.
  • Serious inquiries only; I am not interested in time-wasters.

If you resonate with this and are interested in exploring the dynamic of master and slave, please reach out via messages.

I look forward to connecting with those who are genuinely interested in serving, learning, and thriving in this special dynamic.

1 Comment
2025/01/23
11:08 UTC

1

30 [F4M] Philippines - Looking for long term to marry. Read below 👇

Of course we have to get to know each other first. But I really want date to marry.

I really want a White guy to be honest like British, Australian or European but can be Korean or Japanese. Who has really nice hair.

Can be a bit younger or a bit older than me.

Can be who is here in my country or in their own country or going here in my country. Philippines.

Just little about me so you can ask questions. I'm short, nice and have fair skin. If you are interested just chat.

0 Comments
2025/01/22
15:11 UTC

1

31 [M4F] looking for new friends to flirt with and have fun together!

You know, someone to share those dark and filthy thoughts that are just too much for your friends and colleagues.

Someone who you can just outright tell how horny and frustrated you are, and who will be happy to lend a hand.

Someone who won't judge you (much 😜) about that kink you're into.

Just someone that'll make me smile when I open my phone and see they've replied. It would be great to make a real connection and get to know someone; and if you're the type that enjoys sharing some naughty pics, then I'd love to see you. If not, then I'd appreciate a little something just to verify and have an idea who I'm chatting with; but I won't ask or push for some.

So about me. I'm 31, happily married and raising a family, and I live in TN. I work for the government and at odd hours; so I’ll sometimes have random amounts of lots of free times during work days. I love reading - mostly scifi & fantasy; big favourites include Red Rising, Brandon Sanderson books. I have also read a decent amount of Romantasy, and if you want a man to talk to about those spicy books I can provide.

About you; well I don't mind really - I want to find out as we chat. Be up for a laugh and some flirting, and interested in having a good conversation. Speak English, but it doesnt need to be perfect; im happy to be some practise for you. Just be genuinely you.

I really hope to find some new friends! No

0 Comments
2025/01/22
01:45 UTC

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32[M4R] Thick jock likes showing off and being shared

Married submissive straight-ish jock dude here. Always knew I loved to show off, follow orders, fulfill requests, and generate be someone's reason to jerk off. Recently I've figured out what really gets me going is the pictures and videos I make for you being shared with your pervy friends. Show them what a good show off I can be, and make them jealous of your very own pocket porn star.

0 Comments
2025/01/20
16:34 UTC

1

44[M4A] married but wanting to chat. Are you with her right now?

Tell me what you are doing with her. What is she doing? What are you doing?

1 Comment
2025/01/19
06:05 UTC

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36 [M4F] Tall handsome guy in Bellingham WA looking for some fun today 

I’m 6’5”, good-looking, clean, and intelligent. Looking for new friends, down to meet if we hit it off.

1 Comment
2025/01/16
19:30 UTC

2

50 [M4A] new to tele and like to play. Check my profile

Just exploring tele and love to make new virtual friends for conversations and maybe more

0 Comments
2025/01/16
14:37 UTC

4

19 [F4M] Missouri - looking for an older man

I'm fairly new to most things but have always been curious about experiences with an older man. Younger guys tend not to have the experience nor are they particularly concerned about my pleasure either. Would love to learn and explore. Feel free to read my bio for more.

1 Comment
2025/01/15
20:40 UTC

1

45 [M4F] DC/Online - Fun at Work

Looking for a fun woman to talk to while bored at work on a child Wednesday. 45, married, neglected, white, athletic......same name as here

1 Comment
2025/01/15
12:40 UTC

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40 [M4F] #UK/Europe British university academic, looking for attention and chats

Photos posted here quite regularly. If you like the view, then feel free to message and we can swap tele!

I tend to make good friends with my online chat partners, so if you’re someone who likes to stick around rather than just sext and go, then I’d be keen!

Kink friendly, all girls welcome. Sorry, no cis men

0 Comments
2025/01/14
13:01 UTC

1

34 [M4F] Sadist looking for submissive girl

I am an experienced and caring dominant master in search of a devoted submissive partner. My goal is to build a connection rooted in trust, love, and total domination. I am looking for a young, obedient little slave girl to own, train, and nurture as my cherished property.

About Me:

I embody a blend of kindness and strictness, ensuring that my sub not only feels cared for but also understands my expectations. My interests include various aspects of BDSM, such as spanking, humiliation, and BDSM play, with a focus on incorporating elements of pleasure and pain. As a sadist, I prefer a partner with masochistic tendencies.

What I’m Looking For:

  • A submissive who is eager to learn and explore.
  • Ideally, I’m drawn to younger individuals with a playful, cute aesthetic—think alt, goth, or petite (slightly curvy is also appreciated).
  • Experience level doesn’t matter; I am committed to providing the necessary training to meet my standards.

Important Aspects:

  • This relationship will hinge on mutual respect and consent.
  • Serious inquiries only; I am not interested in time-wasters.

If you resonate with this and are interested in exploring the dynamic of master and slave, please reach out via messages.

I look forward to connecting with those who are genuinely interested in serving, learning, and thriving in this special dynamic.

1 Comment
2025/01/14
06:15 UTC

1

36 [M4F] Tall handsome guy in Bellingham WA looking for some fun today 

I’m 6’5”, good-looking, clean, and intelligent. Looking for new friends, down to meet if we hit it off.

1 Comment
2025/01/13
17:44 UTC

1

39[M4F] Searching for fun & flirty Pocket Pals. Dutch a bonus 🇳🇱

You know, someone to share those dark and filthy memes that are just too much for your friends and colleagues.

Someone who you can just outright tell how horny and frustrated you are, and who will be happy to lend a hand.

Someone who won't judge you (much 😜) about that kink you're into.

Just someone that'll make me smile when I open my phone and see they've replied. It would be great to make a real connection and get to know someone; and if you're the type that enjoys sharing some naughty pics, then I'd love to see you. If not, then I'd appreciate a little something just to verify and have an idea who I'm chatting with; but I won't ask or push for some.

So about me. I'm 39, happily married with three kds and I live in the UK. I work as a software tester, mainly from home; so 3 days a week I have loads of "free" time to chat. I also do some private maths & physics tuition on the side, which I really love. I enjoy reading - mostly scifi & fantasy; big favourites include Hitch-Hikers' Guide to the Galaxy, Michael Crichton (Jurassic Park, Prey, Timeline...), Terry Pratchett (Thief of Time, Thud!, Going Postal), John Wyndham (Day of the Triffids, The Chrysalids), The Hobbit, Evergence. I also play quite a lot of board games; Root, Kingsburg, Ticket to Ride, Quacks of Quedlinburg... And I'm a bit of a tech geek too: my home server here has over 30TB of storage, over 10TB of which is TV shows 😁

Oh, and I also love to write and share my smutty short stories.

About you; well I don't mind really - I want to find out as we chat. Be up for a laugh and some flirting, and interested in having a good conversation. Speak English, but it doesnt need to be perfect; im happy to be some practise for you. Just be genuinely you.

Why Dutch? Well my wife is Dutch, and I currently have a 1300 day streak learning it on Duolingo. So while I don't know enough to hold a lot of our conversations in Dutch, I'd like to be able to use it a bit here and there where I can.

There are some nos too. If you're a real hardline conservative, or otherwise quite right wing then we just aren't going to get along. Woke is not a pejorative, trans women are women, black lives matter, and Israel and Hammas are both committing war crimes against innocent civilians. Similarly if you're suffering from anti-science delusions, then we also aren't going to connect either. The earth is round (ish), we landed on the moon, vaccines work and don't cause autism, covid is real and still a genuine problem.

I've made some amazing connections in the past, some have come and gone, and some I'm still in touch with. I really hope to find some new friends.

1 Comment
2025/01/12
09:56 UTC

2

36 [M4F] Tall handsome guy in Bellingham WA looking for some fun today 

I’m 6’5”, good-looking, clean, and intelligent. Looking for new friends, down to meet if we hit it off.

1 Comment
2025/01/10
19:01 UTC

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