Supposedly plenty of women experience vaginal (no outside stimulation) orgasms. How many of you orgasm from penetration alone?

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We’re heading to Colette in New Orleans soon and we’ve never been to that club. I’m curious if anyone has any tips or things to know about that club. Is it mostly tourists or do locals go there as well? What areas should we definitely check out?

We’ve been to a lot of sex clubs, including Colette Austin, just not the Nola one.

From Esther Perel game.

We’re going to our first Splash Hotel Takeover soon. For those that have been to these what do the guys wear in the playroom area? I’ve seen some wear robes or even shorts, tshirts and slip on shoes. Also what condoms works best for someone with sensitivity issues.

We are no longer private. We’re a now a restricted community. Your u just be a verified/approved user to post or comment.

I know it’s a common question “what to wear to parties?” But I want to see/hear about some specific outfits you all have loved wearing!

I usually wear a mini dress with a lingerie set or a lacy one-piece underneath but I’m feeling frisky and want to switch it up a bit!

What has been your favorite outfit to wear to a party? Links welcome!

**Please be advised that all posts and comments will become visible after Friday, January 5th has passed.**

**Tell your friends if they are members of this group.**

I'm transitioning r/LifestyleLadies to Restricted instead of Private on Friday, January 5th.

I feel like we'd have more energy in this space if there was more visibility. This is just a hunch and I'm just trying to think of ways to energize the group. I'm still not convinced that this will help anything but I don't seem to have a lot of options. We will still have the private Discord community that is verified women only.

I realize a lot of women may want to leave if posts and comments become visible to the public. I hope you'll join us on Discord if you still want a completely private, women-only space.

I want to give everyone time to delete their accounts and old comments if they need to. I originally gave notice that we'd be going public in some form in September 2023 so I feel like I've given a solid heads up.

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r/lifestyleladies

What are your tips for flirting with women? What ways have women successfully flirted with you? How is flirting with women different from flirting with men?

Ladies I am in need of some advice. My amazing husband has somehow hit a wall and his confidence is shot. He has always been more of a shy guy in person, doesn’t make the first move unless he is comfortable with the other woman, over text he’s great with conversations and does a lot of the talking but in person he goes quiet which is fine because that’s where my strong point is. Well over the last weekend we went to a party to a party and he found a woman he was really interested in. He told me to go have fun with someone he wanted to try talking to her without me there. I was super excited for him to do this since it’s been something he’s been working on for awhile. I went to another part of the room and he got the courage to talk to her. After dancing a bit and chatting up some people I went on to check on him since I saw he was alone. Asked what he wanted to do and he said it’s late and he’s ready to go. As we were saying our goodbyes She walked up to him and gave him a huge hug and said they had a heart to heart. The smile on his face was amazing I loved it. Well on our way home we were talking about the party and he said “why am I such b!+ch” confused I asked what he meant and he said he really wanted to kiss that lady but never got the courage to ask. He has been beating himself up about this since. We got into a really deep conversation about why he’s so nervous. A little back story some stuff happened with a girl in high school, she didn’t like that he turned her down and said he did stuff to her that he didn’t do so that pretty much ruined his life so he’s a bit scared to make any kind of move. He’s worried to ask a woman if he can kiss her or do something and she say yes even though she really doesn’t want to and turn around and say he assaulted her or something horrible. I am trying to understand his worries but also reassure him that consent in the LS is HUGE and I don’t know of very many women that will say yes to something they don’t want to do. Or worse off say he did something she didn’t want him to do. So ladies this is where some of you may help with advice….How can I help him?

If you’d like to keep this a women only space you’ll need to get more active. I’m giving this group two more weeks to get active and then big changes will be happening. You’ve all been given a fair warning.

If you’d like to volunteer as a regular poster or discussion host that’s still, as always, available and would go a long way towards keeping this group private.

We’re packing for Disney World. What are you up to?

What is everyone pondering lately? Don’t be shy. Let’s get a chat/discussion going. 😘

Happy Hump Day ladies! What’s on your mind? Remember there are no stupid questions so feel free to ask them! Plans for the weekend? Upcoming LS vacations and adventures? Share it here!

New to the group? Introduce yourself. We don't bite unless you ask for it! ;-)

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I’m disappointed that this sub is so lifeless. Should I make it public? We’d certainly get a lot more action.

I'm quite shy and don't take many photos. However, I do like to show myself off on occasion.

Being in the lifestyle, sharing some nude and exciting photos doesn't sound like a big leap. It's also somewhat exciting but I'm unsure I'd see any money from it.

Any other women here tried it? How did you promote it and how often? Did it take long before it became worth the effort?

I'm also very scared family and friends will find them, any thoughts on trying to prevent that?

Thank you!!

We have been adding playtime toys and gadgets and sex toys like crazy at our house. I have some new ride or die toys that I love.

What’s yours? Got anything you want to recommend to others?

I know this is an unpopular opinion, but I’d love to know everyone’s opinion too. I feel like I might get roasted for this, and we’re fairly new to the LS, but here it’s goes lol

I really dislike the labels, especially ones like unicorn and bull. There’s no term for a coupled bi woman, and I’ve never run into a problem describing myself accurately without one. Using “unicorn” feels icky to me and lends itself to some weird dynamics.

More than once we’ve been approached by self-proclaimed unicorns who want to play with us, but when we politely decline they say something to the effect of, “you know I’m a unicorn, right? You’re turning me down? Seriously?” Like…single or couple, male or female, we’re all just out here trying to have fun with who we’re drawn to. You don’t get extra points for playing with a unicorn. No one is even keeping score lol

I also hate when couples (usually the guy) introduce “their unicorn” like they’re some kind of pet. Gross. Immediate turn off. I get that people have all kinds of kinks, but it seems objectifying.

I think lots of people dislike the term “bull” bc of how inappropriately aggressive it feels by the men who use it.

I kinda hate most of the labels people use in the LS. There is so much fluidity in the LS, it’s about exploration and growth, why use such specific boxes?

Recently I’ve had more couples ask if I play solo. I do but my criteria for solo play is different than as a couple. I feel a bit weird that I say I don’t when I do. But I don’t want to play with them solo but would be okay as a couple.

Not sure how to word it to them.

Just an FYI for the Austin members.

LifestyleLadies Peach Clubhouse is not affiliated with Skirt Club.

Details from the website:

Join your favourite girl-gang for sexy night of fun, frolics and cocktails!

Our ladies will arrive at 7:00p for a champagne toast and dinner to follow. Entry Tickets are $25 Per our reservation requirements there is a $40 per person minimum spend to join

Includes a reserved seat at our private table Welcome glass of champagne All additional food and beverages are on own 20% Discount for Enchantress Members

https://skirtclub.co.uk/event/skirt-society-or-dimsum-and-drinks-may12

About Skirt Club

Skirt Club was founded in 2014 by Geneviève LeJeune, having attended “play parties” with a long-term boyfriend. She soon realised she was doing things for his pleasure, not her own. ‘Sexual empowerment is not about turning your boyfriend on with another girl’ she says. ‘It’s about doing what excites you’.

Skirt Club’s mission is to build an exclusive all-female community for empowerment and sexual discovery. A network of professional women with common interests.

https://skirtclub.co.uk/about

If you’re new or it’s been a while say hello and introduce yourself. What brings you here? How long have you been in the LS? What’s your favorite dessert?

As the title says... I've been wanting to try a MFM threesome. Husband is up for it, but I'm nervous to try. Mostly how to get it started.. do I have my hubs just watch for a bit... Start with him.. stuff like that... What has your experience been like and how did you get into it?

I feel silly about that this but I get really insecure about my partner watching porn. I would never tell him he can’t, but I also can’t seem to help how I feel about it. I say I feel silly about this because I literally enjoy sharing him with other women. But this feels different somehow. We’ve watched porn together and it’s okay. I watch porn by myself and he doesn’t have any issue with it.

Does anyone else get insecure or in their head about their partner watching porn? What do you do? And if you don’t get insecure about it, how do you do that? ☺️

Hey ladies, I could use some suggestions. I'm single again, and starting to date. I'm using the Feeld app, it's more kink friendly.

The problem? My dog. His barking while I'm playing with my gentleman friends.

Hes a large boy, and not actually a huge barker. He does need more expercise than im currently giving him. Its cold as hell outside right now and im not walking him as much as i should. When I have a friend over, they always greet him and he's comfortable. He's not overly clingy or needy normally. When we move to the bedroom, I lock him into his kennel (he's very comfortable in there - it's not a punishment.) And I give him a Kong with some peanut butter or a treat toy to keep him occupied.

He usually finishes that in about 15 minutes and then can obviously hear us. He starts barking. I live in a 4 unit condo, and it's late at night. It's distracting for ME, and I can't just let him keep barking at us.

Usually I go refill the Kong or something. Last night this game happened 3x before my friend threw in the towel. It was so obnoxious.

Any suggestions on how to train him not to bark at us like that? He can chill in that kennel for hours without a peep, but obviously now he's being rewarded for bad behavior.
Help!?

I’m just feeling a little fed up from an admin point of view. We keep get the exact same message over and over again from either blank or mostly blank accounts. They are either clearly a dude’s account from the profile emoji/content or a catfishing account that looks like a guy’s idea of a woman’s account. At this point I’ve looked at/reviewed probably a thousand accounts so I have a pretty good sense of these things. Over this last year (out of 3) approximately 99% of the requests I’m seeing are from guys trying to get in.

I’m just venting a bit. So frustrating.

Let your lady friends know about this group! New women joining creates new energy!

Let a mod know if you’re vouching for someone so we can keep an eye out for them. They’ll still need to photo verify but we can relax our account and karma requirements for them.

Also, looking for someone to host a daily or weekly community engagement in the subreddit!

We agreed that we would meet on the 24th 10 days ago when we met for drinks. He told me that day he would tell me the time and location soon. I asked him this past Friday if he had details. He told me he would Sunday. On Sunday evening I asked him for details again and he said he was too busy and would tell me Monday. I now know why he said he has "low mileage."

https://imgur.com/a/SIlRPtf

Hey! Happy new year. Has anyone been to any of the Toronto LS clubs lately? How have they been? Busy? Cool people? Decent music?