We love in a rural subdivision and have a 5 acre lot. Neighbors back up to our property. Teenage son had been shooting from on our property into our lower field. Over 3 dozen shells and targets on our property. Property is marked with stakes. We've had to stop them from riding 4 wheelers on our property before, so they know where the line is.

After the shooting began the other, husband went back to the area to see who was shooting and found him on our side of the property. Husband called the mother to let her know that there was an issue and it needed to stop.

She didn't return phone call. Next morning some of the steps had been cleaned up, but none of the targets. We knew she got the message.

Yesterday morning husband our a fence up to cut off access to our side and posted private property signs along the tree line.

Tonight the kid started up again. He's shot dozens of times. He is on his side of the fence, but shooting into our field. We have a lot of wildlife that bed down in that area.

I texted the mother to let her know it was still an issue and I would be calling sheriff. They are on their way.

I hate it when my friends call the guys, that I think are pretty decently attractive, "ugly". Only for them to go on to show me pictures of more "attractive" men. My issue isn't that they aren't as into it as I am or even when they call them "ugly". My issue is when they start the comparison. Without fucking fail they will compare them to a fucking k-pop star or some random korean man.

Don't get me wrong they're really attractive but when you're comparing your run-of-the-mill guy to some random man with clear skin who can sing and dance of course he's gonna look like shit. Oviously if you're comparing Timothy Olyphant to Hyunjin from Stray Kids, the former is gonna lose the fight. One is the like the dad you never had while the other is some random man who was blessed by gods with an innate talent to sing and dance while being one of the most attractive men on earth. Which nothing against them, I love them both, but damn man. Cut me some slack.

They also almost never show me pictures of men who aren't actors either. It's like they expect me to only be attracted to men who have the potential to be on the lead in a TV show or worshipped for their looks. It's honest to god fucking annoying sometimes. Getting flammed for liking the type of guy you'd regularly see on the street because in some foreign country theres a more talented and good looking guy (that they could never have) is astounding. Anyways I do believe they're entitled to their opinions, but damn their standards are high as hell for no reason.

My doctor told me today I could not have the best treatment available for my condition unless I went on birth control. I am almost 40 and my husband has had a vasectomy. I told my Dr if by some crazy statistical nightmare I became pregnant I would have an abortion, whether I was on this medication or not.

My word was not enough. Women are not trusted with their own bodies and a baby, who will NEVER exist has more rights than us. I do not want to go on birth control, it has implications for my health. I am furious.

I love dogs but because we traveled a lot I didn’t want one. He asked for a dog he could travel with. I researched & got him the perfect small (rescue) dog for his needs/wants.

This dog turned out very anxious and over the years we had a lot of fights because he refuses to believe she can be trained/calmed (he is very anxious himself so he appreciated they were the same). Years later he begged for another dog. One he can run with and that can accompany the 1st dog. I told him no because I wanted to continue traveling. He told me you travel by yourself, he was getting it for himself. He found a med-large dog. This 2nd dog (also rescue) turned out to be the sweetest, the 1st dog turned into a bully that had bitten numerous people and would bark like crazy from any small noise because of how anxious she always was. We continued having fights about the training of the 1st dog, he always grinned when the 1st dog would misbehave. Years later, we divorced, part of it because him being reluctant to travel, not only out of the country, but just outside of the house and so I moved to the other side of the world.

Now the 1st dog just died (~10y/o, heart failure related to heart worm she had years before, that he could have avoided). Now I heard he is looking to give the 2nd dog away. He says it’s because she was the 1st dog companion and now she is gone. But to be honest he is a diagnosed narcissist and I think he was living vicariously through the 1st dog being a bully to the 2nd dog and now that there’s no perpetrator he doesn’t need the victim. I told him if he would send her to me I would take her, but the decision lies with him, as we don’t talk anymore.

I’m angry and to be honest, disgusted because we fought so much about getting a 2nd dog and now it turns out he never really care about her (and wants to move out of the country lol). What petty thing can I do to remind him of the shit person he is?

We split Feb 2019 before our son's 5th birthday. Divorce was granted without child support stating we had 50/50 when the schedule was truly 65/35. We moved away in Nov 2022. The new agreement/schedule still had the same amount of time 65/35 in larger portions instead of spread out through the year. We agreed upon meeting half way for exchange. We continued the no child support as the time/schedule was the same. Fast forward, after the order is granted, he decides he isn't going to pick our son up for any of his time. He doesn't make time to call our son who is now 10. I have asked multiple times to help with purchasing clothing and I'm told "that's your job as his parent". AITA?

I live in NYC. My bedroom is on the side of the building that forms an airshaft with a second building. The noisy neighbors live in the other building and have access to a 5th floor rooftop, while I live in the 4th floor of my building. For the last 4-5 months, these neighbors have been congregating on the rooftop where they blast music, shout, and laugh very loudly on the rooftop 3-5 nights per week. Since it is so often, this most often happens on weeknights. These gatherings are not parties but a group of 3-4 men. Occasionally, they will throw a weekend party with more people, but these are much less common and have been of lesser concern. When the loud music/shouting began months ago, I nicely asked them from out of my window if they would mind quieting down. We exchanged a brief conversation, and the obliged. Over the last 4-5 months, as my requests continued, they have obliged less and less if not at all.

Things reached a peak this evening, a Tuesday around 7pm, one of the first summery nights of the year in NYC. When they began blasting music around 7pm as I was still WFH in my room, I once again asked them to quiet down since I needed to meet with someone. They did not quiet down but only turned the music up louder and began yelling more. I went back to the window to explain my situation, and they ignored me. They continued yelling, and eventually I got frustrated and yelled at them to be quiet. At this point I was pleading with them and they just ignored me every time I went back. There is not much I can do because they live in another building. Around 9:15pm I then heard one of them drunkenly go on a 3+ min tirade about how I "deserved" for them to throw more parties and that because of me, they would be throwing a full on party every two weeks now instead of every few weeks.

This is causing me significant life stress and is messing with my ability to run my business, as my clients can hear this noise. I run an online tutoring business from my room, which mainly takes place in the evenings. At least 3 weeknights every week, there is this constant noise from around 7-11pm or later, making me unable to work and often to sleep. I have already told my LL about this and have also emailed the neighboring building's LL, but they don't do anything and it continues. Is a small claims lawsuit an option? I feel that their actions are vindictive at this point. I feel personally attacked by them after tonight.

Like the title says I ended up spending 30 bucks on my sis apple care for her beats 🎧 😭😤 i let her keep since she 16 and still in high school tho

Can’t sign on to my bank account cause they need 2 factor authentication by sending code to phone. Can’t sign on Facebook to message family cause they need 2 factor authentication to send to phone. Can’t sign on gmail to check flight info cause they need 2 factor authentication to send code to phone. Cant sign on ATT cause the need to send code to to phone number to log in. Can’t just pop out SIM card and put in new phone cause it’s eSIM. Can’t buy SIM card cause they don’t have ATT in Thailand. Can’t sign on WhatsApp cause they need my phone number. Tried calling ATT customer service to switch to another eSIM phone but they said they can’t unless the can verify by sending code to phone number on my account . Cant just buy a new phone with a data sim cause it’s a different phone number and none of my services work.

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The way they are holding this kitten while taking the poor thing to school of all places. Clearly they don't understand...

I give up on trying to find a therapist because apparently this entire industry has moved to ONLINE ONLY. It's so elitist. A lot of therapists claim to offer both but when you try to set something up, nope, sorry, online only!

tw: swearing!! this is my doordash scammer order. the summed up version is that my dasher stole my food and said they “delivered it” and i haven’t gotten a refund and i won’t get a refund.

this is the longer version with more details!! so today was the first, AND VERY LAST GODDAMN TIME I EVER USE DOOR DASH!! i had my free period today and i decided to order chick-fil-a and i get a medium fries and a 12 count chicken nugget. my delivery person lets call her janeth. my original cost for my order was $10.15, she drove a bunch to up my delivery fee to $20.78 and THEN!! she dropped it off at the wrong building. my high school has two buildings, north and south, about a quarter or third of a mile apart. im at north and i BOOK IT all the way to south, i am very out of breath by the time i get there, my food is gone. i ask the front office and they said a mom took it. so i am livid and i book it back to north. i get inside and im trying not to cry angry tears. i see my boyfriend and i yell “SOMEONE STOLE OUR FUCKING FOOD!!” he had to calm me down which did make me feel better. later i get home and the school emailed me because they pulled cams. and i shit you not, FUCKING JANETH TOOK A PHOTO OF MY FOOD AND THEN PICKED IT UP AND STOLE IT!! i am pissed off and rightfully so!! i didn’t even get a fucking refund and doordash won’t give me a refund!!