/r/IncelTears
IncelTears is a subreddit for posting screenshots of hateful, misogynist, racist, violent, and often bizarre content created by incels. This is the original IT subreddit. For now, it will be complementary to r/IncelTear and the same rules apply. We may eventually move all posting to this sub, so we are encouraging IT users to post here. In the meantime, this sub will be more open to meta discussion, memes, stories, etc.
We still don't have have a FB page.
RULES -- IGNORE THESE AT YOUR OWN PERIL:
1) Abide by Reddit's sitewide rules.
Reddit's account and community policy can be found here..
2) No encouraging suicide or violence.
If you want help or know someone who does, please check out the this page for a list of hotlines - https://ibpf.org/resource/list-international-suicide-hotlines and encouraging violence against anyone is not tolerated.
3) No username posting and avoid direct links.
Do not post screenshots that show usernames! Block out the usernames, including your own, and faces, or they wont be allowed on the sub. Do not direct link! Avoid username tagging. If needed, also remove any website URLs, to avoid redirecting some people to new sites.
4) We are inclusive.
This sub takes an inclusive and welcoming view of choices regarding consensual sexual practices, whether that's polyamory or asexuality.
5) Do not link to hostiles sites or subreddits. Do not brigade other subs.
Do not directly link to threads or comments or sites off Reddit, please use screenshots instead.
6) Keep content relevant
Try to make sure the posts are about self identified incels, not "nice guys", run of the mill sexists, or a dude kind of struggling with relationships. No videos. Discussion and advice wanted posts are allowed because they're the focus of this sub.
7) Don't be a jerk
Mods get the final call here.
/r/IncelTears
I know I'm not blowing anybody's mind here, but it bears stating. No fellas, it is YOU who throws a temper tantrum when they make a video game character look like a human being and not an airbrushed platonic ideal of sexiness. It is YOU who calls Margot Robbie "mid." It is YOU who gets violently angry at the idea of treating fat women as the objects of sexual desire (and oh boy, do you have a WIDE definition of what "fat" is).
Meanwhile, bombshell women are dating some of the world's most genetically unblessed goobers, and they're happy as pigs in shit. And no, they're not cucking him for his money, boys. They are joyfully honking his dong on the reg. Roger Rabbit and Jessica Rabbit, dickheads. Nice talking to ya.
I can't even make this up guys.. This incel slithered into my DM's to cowardly confront me (instead of on the actual post I made that triggered him) on a separate matter regarding how women hate short guys.
Anyway, I looked into this guy and found out he had bragged about witnessing a girl getting r*ped and instead of calling the police, this pos films the whole thing to save it for his later use and laughs the whole time it was happening. And they STILL question why no woman would ever want to be near them, let alone have sex with them.
When I called him out on it he adamantly refused to admit he commited an actual crime and kept saying he was "an innocent bystander"
Dude needs to develop stage 4 stomach cancer or be executed at dawn. Either way is fine by me.
I know the whole thing is getting old, but… the lulz keep coming…
Bro posts this yesterday, and wonders why women say they’ll take their chances with the bear?
The comments on this are atrocious too. Also most women I’ve met (no matter their weight) are incredibly insecure about their bodies?
Let's do a 6 months test, dude?
• First, go 3 months without having sex (I bet you're an expert at this). • After the 3 months without sex, go 3 months without eating anything, just water.
Let's see how you will be at the end of each phase, and then we will declare what a basic need really is.
Holy hell! Forgive me if it’s been talked about here before but I just watched “Don’t Worry Darling” -and there’s been a lot of talk about AI girlfriends in this sub lately, so this feels extra relevant. Scariest movie I’ve seen in a while.
Chris Pine based his character on Jordan Peterson and Olivia Wilde admits to getting sucked into the rabbit hole that is incel chatter on 4chan.
I don’t want to spoil it too much but damn it’s a perfect understated demonstration of incel vitriol spreading to the real world- “if they had their way” moment. If you’re on this sub and haven’t seen it, I’d say it’s a must watch.
Im an incel.
I’m not even demonizing women here, because men absolutely categorize women by attractiveness. I’ve been in locker rooms and I’ve heard what men say about women, and they’re brutal towards anyone that’s unattractive. Even myself, I’m very unconventionally attractive but just find myself judging women by their appearance even though they are way more attractive than me. A lot of incels cry crocodile tears even though they’re just as judgmental as the “Stacies” that they hate so much, but I absolutely see it as hypocrisy.
Regardless, my point is that why is it considered bigoted to say that pretty privilege exists? If you’re an unattractive man or woman, sorry but personality isn’t the entire reason why dating sucks (or life in general). If you’re ugly everything sucks, and it even affects your income. I feel like the attitude of this sub Reddit is to pin the entire blame on incels as if superficial standards don’t exist.
TL:DR Most incels are basically just complaining about Beauty standards, why are we bashed for saying that? It doesn’t affect men exclusively, ugly women are also suffering as well, which is where incels are wrong, but we aren’t wrong for saying that women (and people in general) are shallow. Attractive men also dunk on ugly men, so it’s not a woman problem exclusively at all. It’s so fucking naive and invalidating to say that personality is all you need, when the world clearly doesn’t operate like that
In the last few years there have been a quantity of posts/tweets/videos making up imaginary scenarios where incels "win" by acquiring a robot gf and we "lose" because we are left alone with cats. But in reality we always end up agreeing that they should go with their robot girlfriends and leave us the fk alone. In the other post a lot of people were saying this would be a win-win. Some people had mild concerns but overall the response was overwhelmingly positive.
If there's ONE thing we and incels agree on is that they need to make AI gfs so they can stop bothering real women.
It's not even a point of contention, we literally agree.
I was inspired to make this post because there is a user in here who has been increasingly spreading the "Users in this sub are just as bad as incels" narrative.
I considered ignoring it since I have them blocked, I considered calling them out by name, but instead I just want to make a post to the rest of the users who may see their comments.
I'm going to post a quote that I heard recently:
"You're trying to figure out how to operate within the ethics that you've been conditioned to believe should be extended to the people who do not operate within those lines. You cannot try to spare your oppressor because they would not think twice about eradicating you."
This person makes posts in this sub, while simultaneously degrading the women in this sub who are angry and upset that a very large group of men who hate us and would harm us if given the means and/or opportunity are spewing vitriol online. They want this sub to only be about "making fun" but no hate, reporting incel subs, or insults.
All of this is mostly to say if you see this rhetoric, treat it as it is: the same rhetoric used to excuse oppressive systems for centuries.
Hopefully this is allowed since I used the meta flair. I just hope everyone can be aware and mindful about this very harmful narrative.