Out of curiosity I decided, for the first time to take a look on a fully fledged "Incel" website, and see what the content was like. I was interested to see what they had posted, due to myself being a romantically unsuccessful male on the autistic spectrum, I thought I may have seen possible situations that I could empathize with, however a quick disclaimer-I was in no way considering joining this website, or potentially proclaiming myself to be an Incel, It was purely out of intrigue. I was shocked of the online behaviour/personas of many of the users on there. I thought i would run through what I came across and was wondering if anyone has also visited this site, and found the same thing, or perhaps anything else that I didn't discover.

1-Blanket statements written in a very childlike and immature manner, many with of them with poor spelling and punctuation, and getting angry over women not just by feeling overwhelmingly rejected by them, but getting annoyed at them over stupid petty things as well

2-Numerous use-age of the R Word

3-Lots of criticism of Reddit users, most of which are thought of as ignorant "Normies"

4-Everything being based 100% on survey and reports [The Incel wiki being the biggest source of this] with absolutely no room for flexibility where human behaviour is concerned

5-Criticism of people who try to give them signs of encouragement given to them on forums like Reddit by use of real world examples to give them hope with something they are struggling with [IE-My boyfriend/husband if 5'7'' and I don't care about his height] are just dismissed as meaningless anecdotes. One particular phrase like this i have heard is "The 5'4'' guy that slays with women that everyone on reddit seems to know"

6-Obessesion with teenage/school years love/relationships, far more so than adult life relationships, many stories given by the users on there about romantic rejection are in school and education environments, in they're world its over if you didn't succeed in getting or girlfriend or having sex during those years.

7-An obsession with "prime age" girls, the girls they usually refer to desiring are in they're teens[underage in many cases] and early twenties at the most, according to them women start lose theyre appeal when they reach 25 and by the time they are in they're 30s they are old, ugly and invisible.

8-No signs from what I saw of any of them wanting to give encouragement to each other to ascend out of they're situation, if anything they seem to want to discourage other members, and persuade them that all women-or "foids", are evil and that they are stuck in they're situation forever

These are just a few examples i could think of from my fortunately short period of visiting this website-again a quick disclaimer-I Had no plans of joining and becoming an Incel myself, it was purely out of curiosity. One member is even in the process of doing a painting of Elliott Rodger! Did anyone else who visited here find any of these things, or maybe find anything else i didn't know about?

I genuinely dont even know where this comes from

I am incel because of my face, introversion, height and ethnicity. I have been bouncing around incel spaces for quite some years. I was on , , Ruqqus then Looksmax.org. Discovering looksmaxxing in my late probably delayed me acting on my suicidal thoughts. The fact that if I can earn enough money I can finally feel confident and feel human.

In all my time in incels, not once have I held resentment against women. Why would you hate something you want? Thats just sour grape syndrome. I feel some sort of resentment against this society because it makes it so hard to even sniff my goals. Where I live for my studies, its hard to get a part time job. Many don't hire students. I can't even enjoy hobbies like reading new books, or indoor climbing or outgoing with friend without having to do some extreme budgeting. My father got into a car crash after he got let off from his job and my family been struggling ever since.

Before you say anything about therapy, I have been trying to get therapy since I was 16. What money do I have to be paying $60 per session/or week? I probably have some form of depression, since I've been self harming recently but unless my financial situation changes I just have to suck it up.

I ran a marathon 6 months and I have been running long distances ever since. Funnily enough I feel like the pain of long distance is nothing compared to the pain I feel in my daily life . I work out 4 times a week, I try eat as clean as possible.

I just want money to cope with my solitude man. I feel some sort joy when I solo hiked for 12 hours, listening to nothing but sad songs. I can't enjoy my solitude in this room.

I just came to rant but what would you do if you were my shoes.

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Figure I'd post this to follow up on the Korean incel post I saw here.

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Only women have high standards! That's why these wonderful guys are so lonely, because women are shallow and don't give them a chance!

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