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I’m a black male in my 20s from the United States and I’ll be solo traveling to Rio de Janeiro from early-mid November. I’m new to solo traveling and have never been to Brazil.

While I plan to explore the city I wanna push myself to be social and meet people.

Thoughts on gay night life, best places to go, what to expect, and any advice for going out at night(in Rio and/or in general on a solo trip)?

Also open to any additional advice to make the trip more fun while being safe.

Thanks!🇧🇷

I started to date this guy for a while, he is married and live in a open relationship. He said he would like to explore this thing more in a monogamous ways in this sense him and his husband invited me to live some months with them.

I decided to do it, but now they are talking about me paying rent.

I'm not a gold digger of sorts but I feel a little bit uncomfortable. First they are considerably rich, so they don't need that.

The other thing is : If it's to pay rent I prefer be in a one-one relationship.

For me it sounds stupid deliver resources and time and now money for something that there is no future (he is married it's not like we will marry) just based on greedy, because first of all, they invited me to stay with them.

They said they wanna do that for me don't feel obligated to do something because I'll be living for free with them, I get this point, but I have the feeling it's just about money.

I don't want be imature or Karen about that, so what you guys think about this situation?

Part of me feels that I should pay at least I wouldn't own nothing to them but the another part feels that this is a red flag.

Update : We discussed it and we solved it, it was more a question about h choice of words! Thanks for the help!

Think I’m too naive for dating apps

I’m someone who rarely uses dating apps for just fun. Don’t get me wrong, I do and I do go on meets, but I am trying to find something a bit more like a relationship than just fuck.

I just don’t understand guys intentions and think I’m just a bit naive, wish I could just move on and forget something but I feel such an urge to just go back to a guy on some things.

My example is I was chatting to someone older than me. I popped up to him, just said he was good looking, he said it back, we spoke about ourselves and got on, exchanged numbers and spoke more then went about our day.

The next day, he messaged me on the app, we spoke more again, he suggested we meet up for a coffee or something. We didn’t really mention sex much when talking, but he did suggest to meet up for a chat and date almost so I was good with that.

The next day, I messaged him and it was like a light switch. Blunt,not overly chatty. He’d reply, but not really continue the convo. I thought about post nut clarity but then thought, he didn’t even have any nudes from me, we didn’t talk much about sex, and he’s now making excuses to meet, after he was the one that suggested it and said he’ll check when he’s free and he was the one that messaged me starting a convo the next day.

I sent another message a couple of days later asking if he was still up for meeting at all and he can tell me if not. He told me what he liked about me, found me attractive but was now worried about age and how we lived an hour from each other. I guess me being hopeful took “worried” as there’s still a possibility and I also thought - this isn’t binding, we could just meet as friends that may get together for some fun. I told him I can ac com.

I sent messages the next couple of days and again, got replies, but not really continuing the conversation.

I guess I’m a bit too innocent for this game but I just want to know what went wrong? What happened? I left it and the couple of weeks later saw he was online, so sent a message just asking how he was. Again, he replied, didn’t ask me back how I was, I replied, he replied, and then he just made himself appear offline (which you can tell).

I just thought, seriously? Could have just not replied or even blocked me. Id get the picture then. I feel like messaging and just asking what changed, did he really just shoot a load over a pleasant chat and decide “not for me”. I don’t understand how guys can just fall off like that.

I know I should just let it go and don’t know why I care about someone I hardly know being blunt with me but I just feel like sending one final message saying something like “not sure what happened, you don’t even seem keen to chat as potential friends when you were so lovely before and keen to know about me. you’ve got my number if you want to contact me or just block me and I’ll get the clear picture”.

I know comments will just tell me to just forget it but for some reason it’s really stuck with me.

I guess I'm bi,atracted to older guys.Today i found this 61 y.o. daddy on grinder and tomorrow I'm going to his place to give him a blowjob and maybe more,how do o exactly do it? We've exchanged pictures and his cock is gorgeous.

I'm in a long distance relationship with an older man (55) and we'll see each other in a few months lol I know it's a very individual topic but I really appreciate different perspectives. My wish is for him to have the best sex of his life and to never forget me, it would also be my second meeting with him but the first time we only had oral sex 😇

At the time of this story, I was 20 years old, 183cm tall and 60kg. My hair is dark brown and I have a naturally hairless chest. I'm quite shy and always looked young for my age, which meant I never had much luck with girls as a teenager. While watching hours of porn as a frustrated teenager, I stumbled across bi porn, which eventually led to “real” gay porn too.

When I moved from my hometown to a bigger city for college and still wasn't having much luck with girls, I couldn't shake the idea of trying it with a guy. I even created an account on a gay dating site a few times, but I always thought, I'm not gay, I can't have my first time with a man. After a short time, I always deleted my account.

A few weeks after my 20th birthday, frustrated at still being a virgin, I signed up to this gay dating site again with something like this headline “Inexperienced but curious boy looking for first experience with a man”. I got a lot of messages, but most of them were just along the lines of “Hey, do you want sex?” or something like that and got impatient pretty quickly when I didn't want to meet up right away.

One guy was different than most though. At first I was skeptical because of his age (he was 45), but he didn't pressure me to meet him right away or send him naked pictures after two messages. He wasn't from my city and would be staying in a hotel here the next weekend. Of course, he soon invited me to visit him there too. I was very unsure whether I wanted to meet someone because I didn't want anyone to find out about me. The convincing argument for me was the fact that he was from a different city and was so much older than me. This meant that the likelihood of our social circles overlapping was low. So it was a golden opportunity for me.

My horniness was got the better of me and I agreed to meet him at his hotel. I thought maybe if I gave it a try, the desire would stop. We agreed that I just wanted to “experiment a bit”, maybe give a blowjob. He told me he was a total top and wasn't interested in my cock at all. That was fine with me as I mainly wanted to touch and play with another man's penis.

On the day of the meeting I almost got cold feet, but I had made sure not to wank the day before, which made me super horny and I said to myself “it's now or never”. I was told to come to the hotel lobby and he would come and get me. On the way there and in the few minutes I had to wait, I felt like everyone knew where I was going and what I was up to. When he came out of the elevator, I was relieved to see that he looked even better than his pictures: slightly gray hair and pretty much a prototypical dad bod. I was grateful that he kept the greeting very brief and led me straight into the elevator and to his room. He sensed my nervousness and we chatted on the sofa for a while. At one point I said that I wasn't gay though, to which he just grinned. Talking about sex in real life felt weird because I was used to only typing this stuff out in chats.

Finally he stood up and told me to do what I came for. I had to open his pants and take out his already hard cock. The feeling of another man's cock was very strange, very different from my own. At 17 cm, his cock was also a lot bigger than my 12 cm. I played around with it for a while when he said he thought I knew what to do when kneeling in front of a man like that. Of course he was right and I thought, ok, there's no turning back now, I'm going to be a real cocksucker.

I slowly started to lick his cock and take it in my mouth and I tried to imitate everything I had seen in porn. He was very encouraging and told me the best way to pleasure him. It was also very important to him that I wasn't allowed to touch myself. As I got more and more into it, he pulled me away and told me I was doing a great job and asked me if I liked it. He knew of course that I liked it and said that it would feel even better for me if I was naked. He had also been waiting to see my body properly.

This was the first time anyone other than my mother had really seen me naked. At first I left my underpants on, but he just laughed about it and told me to take everything off. I was embarrassed because I was already hard, which of course was the first thing he commented on. He said that for a straight boy I was already getting pretty aroused sucking a man's cock. I then had to turn around and show him my body, which he said was a dream for men like him.

Then I had to get back on my knees and keep sucking him. He was right that it felt better to give a blowjob naked. Exposed like that, I felt like a little slut.

He stopped me again and said that he would come soon if I kept it up. He also wanted to take care of me and I should sit on the bed. I thought it was strange that he wanted to blow me because he insisted he wasn't interested in penises, but I went along with it. It turned out that he didn't want to suck me at all, and he picked up my feet and started licking my hole. At first I wanted to protest, but it felt surprisingly pleasurable and I let him carry on. Perhaps that was an understatement, it was the hottest sensation I had felt up to that point and I wanted him to keep going. I felt like I was allowing him access to my most intimate places like a little slut.

Then he suddenly stopped and apologized because he said he remembered I didn't want to do more than give a blowjob. I said it was ok and that I loved the feeling and didn't want him to stop. He insisted on sticking to what we had agreed, which almost made me beg him to continue. He said if I was open-minded we could continue, but that would mean I would have to trust him and he would show me what real man sex was like, but only if I was sure I wanted it.

At this point I was so turned on from having his cock sucked and feeling like a slut that I figured I might as well try a little more. When would I get another chance like this? He then explained to me what he meant by 'man sex', which of course was anal, and that a bottom should prepare for it by douching etc. He even had things prepared for it in the bathroom.

I'll skip the details of that, but when I came out of the bathroom, he had also undressed and told me to get back on my knees. After a few minutes he had me lie on the edge of the bed and started licking me again. When I heard the lube tube open, I knew what was coming next. He gently massaged my hole with his tongue and added a finger. First he circled my hole, then he slid his finger right over it and finally stopped and applied gentle pressure. I was expecting it to hurt, but surprisingly it only felt a little strange, not really painful. He fingered me like that for a while and added another finger. After three fingers and a lot of licking, he said I was ready now. If I wanted to stop, this was my last chance.

My horniness had only increased with the foreplay and I was now hornier than I had ever been in my life. I just said “please keep going”. He smiled and I had to put the condom on him and rub lube on his cock. It felt strangely submissive, I had to prepare the cock that was about to take my virginity.

I got on all fours on the bed, like I'd seen women do in porn, and arched my back as best I could. He then said that when he takes my virginity and penetrates me for the first time, he wants to see my face. He had me lie on my back and spread my legs while I held my knees with my hands.

He positioned his cock against my hole. At that moment, the situation hit me a little bit. I just thought, oh my god, I'm really doing this, I came to this man who is more than twice my age and I'm letting him fuck my ass. I didn't have much time to think though and he slowly started to penetrate. His cock felt even bigger than his fingers, but the extensive preparation meant it didn't hurt at all.

He had warned me that it would feel like I had to go to the toilet, and he was right. I ignored that feeling and pushed a little with my ass like he told me to, and eventually I felt his hip against me. He had been looking at my face the whole time and when he was all the way inside me, he asked if I still thought I wasn't gay. He looked down at my little cock, which was harder than it had ever been before. He didn't wait for an answer and kissed me as he started to fuck me. I felt like a slut with his cock inside me and his tongue playing with mine. The worst part was that I was enjoying it more than I thought possible.

As he kissed me, he leaned over me so that my cock rubbed between us, which was enough to make me cum. Luckily, he thought it was sexy enough to make him cum soon after too. He told me it was okay that I came quickly and that I did great for the first time. He said my body was perfect for a passive boy and that I would make a lot of daddies happy.

Immediately after cumming, my horniness was gone and I headed home pretty quickly. I had to process what had just happened. But after a few days I was cock-hungry again...

I 23, have been seeing a guy in his 50s for about a month and I just traveled a far distance to stay with him for the week. He just left for his night shift, hes a nurse and I was trying to find something in the cabinet for my sore throat. But I found ALOT of fentanyl and hydromorphone. I dont know what to do im kinda freaking out. He doesnt seem like a user/drug addict. But i dont know… pls anyone help.

22 year old bi guy here, was always sure that I'm bi, but a few years ago when I was 20, I met an older guy, which made me realize how much I love older guys, he was in his 50s, had a great face, amazing body and overall he was very attractive, at that moment I instantly forgot about all the boys and the girls that I've met, the company of a man like him was apparently all I needed, unfortunately, it didn't work out as much as I wanted a relationship with him, he wasn't sure about the idea.

Now time to time I still feel the need to meet an older guy but it seems too hopeless, I live in Turkey where homophobia is already a problem and gay dating scene is a mess, tried dating apps but there are only bunch of trolls, when I ran to that guy it was completely random and we started talking out of nowhere, still miss him :(

Maybe this will resonate with someone. I’m a younger guy 26M who just married to partner 62M. I’m poly and we are open but usually so busy there’s no opportunity to act on that.

Maybe I’m totally missing the point but I get a bit down when I see the younger/older fetish stuff. I mean I get it, it’s hot. I’ve done it myself. I go to porn when I want to get off and it’s fantasy so I get that.

This is probably a much more universal problem I just had more experience with the younger older thing.

When I was dating around when I was younger honestly I felt treated much more like a fetish than a person.

I wasn’t treated badly it just seemed like every guy just wanted to play and was ashamed to be publicly associated because of the age difference.

I do have a bit lower testosterone it seems from tests so I might just have a lower drive than others (working on that).

Anybody else feel similar? Know it’s a lot of words 🤣

No judgement to anybody I just wish the personal connection and love was emphasized a little more too. ❤️

I’m married and I’ve figured out what I need but wondered how others felt.

Just posting this cause why not I guess. I’m 23 ftm and I kind of hate myself. I met this attractive, respectable, older man through my friend who was his neighbor. (He was interested in me and wanted my number) We talked and it seem like time stood still when I looked in his eyes but that was the most I’ll probably ever see of him again because It was during my lowest possible moment. I was suffering some mental delusions and ended up making a fool of myself. The next morning I left my buddies house totaled my car, and ended up in a mental hospital. To make the whole thing worse as soon as I got out of the hospital I tried texting him to explain what happened and that I was sorry, I’ve never experienced anything like that. And he tells me my friend told him I was on meth and sent him a pic of a red baggy he claimed to find in the bathroom. I reversed image searched it and of course there it was right on google. After seeing that he was lying I figured things would be fine but he later blocked me and never gave me the chance to show him the real me. I know I need to let it go but I’ve really always wanted a relationship with an older gentleman. I’m even seeing my ex bf again (basically still a new relationship it was very short the first time) and he’s great I really like him though he’s a couple years younger than me. I still crave attention from someone older. I fantasized about us both being with an older guy but he’s not interested. Now I’m just trying to forgive myself for everything I guess.

At 28, all I've ever wanted is to find a partner, someone older—50 or more. I've dreamed about a life together, where I'd be there for him every day, sharing the little things that build a life. I imagine cooking him dinner, making him laugh after a long day, and taking care of all the small things that make a home feel warm. It’s almost like marriage, and I can picture us together so clearly.

But there’s one big problem: I live in a country where being gay is illegal. I’m not just dealing with judgment or misunderstanding; it’s the law itself. Even a simple act of love could put me in serious danger. This reality weighs heavily on me. Each day, I feel like I’m racing against time, like my window to find someone special is closing.

It’s hard to watch others find love and build lives together, knowing I can’t do the same. Every year that goes by feels like a missed chance, another year of my dreams slipping away. There are nights I lie awake, feeling the loneliness and frustration, wondering if I’ll ever get to live the life I want.

But even with the fear, I hold on. I connect with people online who know this feeling, people who give me a sense of community even when it’s not physically close. I keep hoping that someday, somehow, I’ll find a way to live openly with someone I love. For now, I try to take things day by day, carrying this dream quietly and waiting for a chance to make it real.

For a loving monogamous relationship I've gone up to a 25 year age difference (58/33). For casual sex I'll go much higher as long as it's legal and consensual, and currently my largest age difference stands at 54 years (72/18).

Hello everyone,

I’m thinking of leaving the UK. It’s so expensive, and despite being specialised in what I do, I am struggling to keep up with all of the outgoing costs.

I’ve been looking at other destinations in Europe to go and live. Are there any in particular with a hub of older gay men (over the age of 70 and above)? I was thinking of moving to Spain perhaps, or Portugal. Somewhere with better weather, and where life is cheaper than where I’m at right now.

Thank you all for your advice.

Hi everyone, I’m 23 and I’m into older men. I just moved to a big city thinking it would have been different and I would have found easily someone serious to start a relationship with. Spoiler: it didn’t happen, I’ve just found married men people that just want NSA and nothing else..

I cant have just fun right now.. I need someone to love and share my feelings with

Should I start to go in gay bars ? I’ve used Grindr and Romeo so far , should I switch to other apps?

Hello, guys! Would you date someone whose political views are very different from yours? As a 24 yo “homocon”, I prefer to date likeminded people, but I would also give someone from the left a chance. I feel like not a lot of people share this opinion on the other side of political spectrum. Pls indicate your age and party if you feel comfortable

I am a chubby brown boy who has recently shifted to USA. I was always attracted to older daddies and men in general but was never able to do anything about it because of being from a conservative family. My parents were ashamed about me being gay and I feel ashamed to say buy I am still a virgin.

Now that I have moved to US, I can explore what I have always wanted and love and be loved by daddies. I am chubby with big moobs and want a serious long term relationship with an older grandpa who likes my features and doesn't shame me for it.

I am chubby, brown and hairy with big moobs. I always had a deep rooted fantasy of breastfeeding. Obviously I don't produce milk but having my nipples sucked, long and hard is something which gets me off. My nipples are very sensitive and I can cum just from being sucked. I would love to find some one clean, hygienic and regular to fulfill my breastfeeding needs.

Can anyone suggest what is the best way to meet older daddies as I don't have much experience?

So I'm (21) a virgin and kind of inexperienced with sexual stuff, I've had some hookups in the past which were just me giving blowjobs, but I rly want to try bottoming for the first time. I've played with fingers and plugs before and I know how to clean myself out so I'm not completely clueless, but I've wanted to find a daddy to dominate me but also is willing to be patient for my first time.

About two summers ago I was chatting with this daddy (60) I had met on Scruff who was pretty close to my hometown. I told him about how I was a virgin and wanted to bottom for the first time, and he was super nice and understanding about it. We chatted for a few weeks about both sexual and non sexual stuff, and he would tell me how we would go slow and use condoms, starting with fingers and moving up from there, etc. I was super into it and he was sweet and hot, but we ended up never really finalizing plans to meet up, and I eventually had to go back to college.

After I moved out for college I sort of got caught up in the work and stopped responding which I feel bad about, and I eventually lost/deleted the account and didn't make a new one for a year and a half until recently, where I was able to find his profile again.

The thing is I'm still away at college and won't be back to my hometown for around another two months, but I really want to message him and reconnect to potentially meet up when I go back.

Is it too soon to send a message? I'm worried that if I send one now and he responds then it'll get awkward just chatting for two months without meeting. Or is that not something worth getting worried over lol. Also any advice on how I should approach the message, like should I bring up the summer immediately or wait to mention it? Will he even remember me?

I’m 65. Was a cashier at the local Kroger store near my place. (Started during Covid to help make ends meet.) A lot of our Courtesy Clerks (baggers) were young guys; high school, early college so 18-ish. A lot of them were hot. I’m friendly, like to talk with my co-workers. I like the younger guys and I always listened to them and respected them. I never talked down to them. So they would often compete with each other to be my bagger.

There’s this one kid who I adore and we get along great but I’ve never intimated that I was attracted to him. Not openly anyway.

I’ve had some co-worker gathering at my place and most show up. Including him! Each time he asks if he could stay the night. I “jokingly” say of course but that’s as far as it goes. He’d seek me out at work so we could coordinate having our dinner break together when we worked together.

I left at the end of last year but I still shop at the store. I make a point of chatting with him whenever he’s working. We get along really well. Yesterday I told him to let me know when he has his meal break and I’ll come over and join him. We were both busy so he said he’d text me when he had a break.

So he texts me later that evening. I was in the middle of something and said I’d text him back when I’m free. I did that and told him what I had been doing. He ❤️’s it. Then he says “But anyway I’d be down to meet up for dinner or just to hang out sometime if you want?” Needless to say, I didn’t know how to respond to that. Ofc I’d love to do that but I didn’t want to seem too eager and I’m not sure what he’s really thinking. I give him a 👍. (Dumb, I know, but I didn’t want to scare him off.) Later last night he texts “I’m open next Monday or Tuesday if you wanted to do anything.”

So help me here. How do I respond? Am I reading too much into this? If it was a one-off I’d probably say that I was. But this has been a fairly regular thing with him since we met. I’ll obviously take him up on his offer; maybe grab lunch or dinner. I’d love to have him over for a movie or something but am hesitant to ask. And I don’t have a good sense of where this is going or could lead. My big question to myself is why would such an attractive young guy want to spend time with an old guy like me?

EDIT: Thank you all for your great replies. We’re having dinner next week. It’ll be informal, just hanging out together like we tend to do. We’ve known each other for a couple of years. His parents are divorced. His mom moved away to the peninsula which involves a ferry ride. He lives with his dad (who I’ve met when he shopped at the store) but his dad travels a lot. So this is all probably him wanting some older male connection. That said, there’s still that sexual innuendo he likes to toss out which I enjoy. To be clear, I’m not pressuring him into anything. He has the lead wherever he wants to take this. I’d love for it to be more intimate but that will be up to him. I’m still his friend no matter what. I’ll keep you all posted.

POST DINNER UPDATE: So, we ended up doing Chinese take-out and ate at my place while watching a movie; one he’d never seen before and that he chose. I kept it very chill and left everything up to him. We sat on the sofa together eating and watching the movie. My body language was open and he was relaxed, even sitting a bit closer than I thought he would though we never physically touched. I took that to mean he was comfortable hanging out with me. After the movie we talked a lot. He definitely has some frustrations with his dad who tends to be gone a lot and changes plans with him at the last minute. So I think I’m that older man confidant who lets him talk out his frustrations and gives a little bit of advice every now and then.

He’s been dating a couple girls I know from the store. It hasn’t gone well for a number of reasons (not necessarily his fault) and he shared that as well. He’s off to a state university for winter quarter (sad for me but only a 2hr drive 😉!).

I want to say there was some sexual tension but that might be me projecting. We stayed up until 2:30 talking and watching some episodes of “The Last of Us” then he went home. We’ll be hanging out again. He texted me the next day thanking me for having him over and that it was super fun. He’s into board games so that’s our next hangout.

I confess to a little bit of disappointment but only a little. I’m honored and humbled that he wants to spend time with me and is comfortable sharing his thoughts and feelings. It might go further but it might not. Either way, I like him and like hanging out with him.

Hello all! I (27M) met a man (63M) the last time I was in his town, almost a year ago, and met him through an app. We had a great time together, he was very caring, sweet, and knew how to push all my buttons accordingly. I enjoyed it so much that I stayed in touch with him over the year, sending lots of sexy pics, voice, and text messages during that time. He has offered to host me at the end of the month, and I excitedly said yes, I’d love to go! He’s paying for the hotel, meals, etc, and I’m flying out to the town for 4 nights. I’ve never had this experience before, being hosted, and am wondering what I should be prepared to do? We fit easily into the older/younger dom/femme types, and he’s already said our first time together, he wants to pick me up and seduce me at the hotel bar, which I wholeheartedly agreed with. Being the one hosted, should I play the sub/femme role all the time? It’s not a sugar baby situation, but I feel like if he’s the one that’s putting the week together, should I just go along with whatever he wants to do? I trust him completely, and have already met in person. Just wanted everyone’s opinion! And I’d be glad to give an update on how the week goes, if we accomplish half the things we said we were going to do to each other, fireworks are guaranteed!

This is more of me just expressing myself and calling myself out after self reflection so apologies. Feel free to ignore.

I'm still in the closet but I started off straight, and now after years and years of having a sissy kink, I guess I'm officially bisexual. I'm a muscular guy who gets attention from girls on nights out, I may come across intimidating even, because of my height and my body. But really after lacking a father figure for so long in my life and working with girls my age for the last few years, I'm just such a submissive, sensual bottom for older men.

Hearing my female colleagues tell me about guys they'd date or older men, describing in detail text messages, how the guys would make them feel, and then further detail about the sex would make me so jealous. Sometimes I wonder if I was born in the wrong body, sometimes I just want to be the girl and have an older man look after me, dominate me and see me as the bottom I know I am deep down.

Have any of you older guys ever come across a younger guy wanting to be seen like this, but feeling like they can't be?

Would this turn you off as an older man seeing me as a tall, muscular younger guy?

I was 19 and a virgin browsing sniffies looking for an older guy to hook up with. Never been with anyone before and I wanted my cock sucked very bad. I found a hefty guy who was 41 close to me and we started chatting. I told him I was into older guys and looking to have discreet fun. We talked about watching some madison ivy porn together and we found a hot video of madison ivy and dillion harper foursome we were gonna stroke each other too. I show up to his in some sweatshorts with no underwear. I was so nervous and couldn't find his house at first and his neighbors were outside lol. So he came out and he was much taller than me, I forgot what he first said but I urged him to head inside because I was so nervous and didn't want the neighbors to catch on. Once we got to his room he checked my ID then I pulled off my hoodie so I was only in my sweatshorts with no underwear. I started to rub my bulge in front of him while he was on his bed then I asked if he wanted to grab my bulge. It was so hot I've only had someone grab my bulge one other time. I then whipped it out for him and started jerking. He pulled out his laptop with the madison ivy and dillion harper foursome and I laid down on his bed completely naked. He whipped out his cock which was small I'm not big either, but I'm about 4.5 to a little over 5 inches at my biggest and have a nice cock his wasn't that nice lol. Anyways he started to jerk me, but he kept his clothes on and just had his cock out while I was fully naked. We each started stroking to the video talking about how we loved madisons and dillions big tits and I came pretty quick, but I continued to jerk myself with the cum I just shot and got hard again. He commented on how he liked my pubes and started to grab them, he played with my balls, taint, and began to stroke my cock. I then reached over to his side of the bed and started jerking his tiny cock. He asked to suck me which I obviously didn't deny the request lol. It was my first time having my cock jerked or sucked and it felt so good I started to moan when he was sucking me with my hand on his head and my toes started to curl. He finished me off by stroking me and I came all over myself again. This time he cleaned me up and licked me everywhere taking my cum off my body and kept sucking me while I was getting soft. I helped finish him by stroking his cock and he came on my hand. I would've sucked him if he had a nicer cock but the least I could do was help him finish. I got up from his bed still naked with his cum on my hand to go wash my hands and got dressed and left as the post-nut clarity was settling in. Still get hard thinking about it to this day.

Hope this is allowed here; didn’t know where else to look. I’m an older guy and work out regularly. A while back a young guy was in the hot tub, which faces the open showers. He was leaning on the edge facing the showers with his phone looking towards the showers, where I was the only one showering. I told him that’s not allowed and he took off into the locker room, saying he was watching a video. I reported it to the management but I don’t think they did anything.

In the following weeks I noticed more young guys trying out the gym facilities, and think some of them may have been leering at me but it could be paranoia. Is there some website where a video of me could have been uploaded? How would I start trying to find if it was?

Hey guys, a bit of a weird first post but here goes. I am 23 in the UK and only started seeing guys about 2 months ago. I grew up thinking being gay was bad and especially being attracted to older and I think I kind of suppressed those feelings. I am still closeted but did create a tinder assuming that only relevant people will see it if I filter for 40+ men.

I have now been dating (the third guy I met) for about 1 month now and it just feels like everything has gone so quick going from 0 experience to this. We started off with 2 normal dates (coffee/restaurant) and have seen each other almost every other night now. I really feel like I have fallen in love. But it just feels a lot as well. I am quite submissive and I really like the sex as he is quite dominant and I just feel amazing when I see him. But I also feel like I am just a toy for him and not sure what to do with this. I have brought up wanting to be more serious but it always becomes a bit of a joke. Currently our dates are that I go straight to his house and we’ll go to his bedroom and sometimes I cook (a few times now even clean) for him if he is really stressed from work and that’s it. Sexually I think it has progressed a bit quicker than I would have liked where it just feels a bit too kinky / degrading overall for how experienced I am. But I still really like it overall I think

I kind of feel like this is obviously not a super equal relationship. But I really enjoy it and honestly look forward to seeing him every time. I never had butterflies in this way. But I am not really sure if this is a wrong way to go about it and how to deal with it

For a 20 year old? I’m 36 and it feels like a HUGE age gap at a pivotal time in his life. It also makes me worry I’m unethical and creepy. He’s been pursuing me and I’ve told him I felt weird about the age difference, but he doesn’t mind I guess. I just don’t want to do anything that would be considered wrong or immoral. Normally I don’t even go below the 30s but he’s sweet and we have shared interests. I don’t want it to look like grooming or anything like that either. Is it wrong? I’m a very self conscious person and I just done want to harm anyone or do anything that would be unethical, so I decided to ask here. I haven’t met him in person or anything yet either. I wish he were older. All I seem to find are young dudes or much older ones. On the other end of the spectrum I’ve been talking with a 50 year old which is almost the same age difference but not the same at all. He and I haven’t been as chatty though and he doesn’t message me much whereas the younger guy does. I hope this isn’t against the rules or anything and please know I mean no harm whatsoever just need advice on it.

I learned the power of showing a cock outline in my pants to cruise a 50 yo man when I was 19 yo. I now live in America but I grew up in a homophobic Middle Eastern country. I was working for my father’s warehouse and one of my regular deliveries was a local restaurant. The owner was an older single man, good looking for his age and he had a Bear type body.

One day, I realized I had forgotten to have him sign his invoice, so I decided to go back when I was finished with all my deliveries. When I got there the restaurant was closed but I noticed his new Mercedes Benz and a truck in the parking lot, so I went to the back door kitchen entrance. As I approached, I could hear the voices of men saying nasty sexual things and the sounds of pleasure. I was really curious, so I slowed down and looked through the window.

I couldn't believe what i was seeing! The restaurant owner had always been one of my favorite customers and he always treated me like a friend, offering me a free meal whenever I made a delivery. I now saw him bent over a table in his restaurant kitchen with his pants down to his ankles and he was getting fucked by a younger stud that looked to be in his mid 30’s with a hairy chest and a huge cock! And to my surprise I was totally turned on watching this through the window. Afraid I might cum in my pants, I pulled my cock out and started jacking off as I watched them. I couldn’t stop looking! I shot my load quickly and immediately took off without getting caught.

I jacked off every night thinking about what I saw. The following week I made my regular delivery and he offered me some food, I kept remembering him getting fucked on that same table, moaning and begging for it. My cock started growing in my pants. For some reason I didn’t hide it from him and then he touched himself in front of me. I’m sure he thought I was cruising him, and maybe I was? I suddenly got brave enough to tell him that I had seen him getting fucked by a man last week. He was really embarrassed, scared and apologized. But then I told him not to to worry, that I was OK with it and that I had actually jerked off watching him.

His eyes immediately went straight down and I let him grab my bulge and he says I always knew you were a Big Boy! He told me he was a pervert (I didn’t even know a word for gay or homosexual) and that he was happy that I found out. He gets down on his knees, pulls my pants down and starts sucking my cock through my underwear and then he pulls out my hard cock and starts sucking it. It was my very first BJ and it felt amazing! I could feel I was about to cum and he just held my body against his face as I shot loads of my boy cum down his throat! He told me this would be our secret and that next week he would let me fuck him, which I did! He became my last delivery stop and a steady FWB customer!

So I have some vacation time I need to burn through this winter and none of my usual travel friends can get away. So I'm looking to take a solo vacation somewhere warm and where there will be a decent group of older men to meet. I've heard Palm Springs is great but would love input from anyone. This will be my first time ever doing a solo vacation like this. For reference I'm a 32 yo masc bottom and my usual range is men in their 50s-60s. Thanks!

I'm very much into older guys as many us in here are. I used to go on Grindr hoping to find an older man but it usually ended up with them being shady or one time thing. So, I started hitting the steam room at my local gym because I enjoyed the relaxation. However, it didn't take long to notice many guys would cruise in there. I caught an eye full and sometimes enjoyed the show. I realized many of them were older so I thought I'd start teasing a few of them after they had given me the "look." We all know that look when someone is checking you out. However, this was a more carnal look because we were in the steam room with only towels covering our junk. This led to me finding a Daddy (58) appearing around the same time as I did so it wasn't long before he started slowly exposing himself to me. He would led his cock hangout for a little longer until he caught me looking and then he would smile. This went on for about a month until one day we were walking out at the same time and he sparked up a conversation. I told him I was going to the clothing store and asked if he'd like to join me. He agreed and followed me. The conversation itself wasn't interesting but we exchanged numbers. As I left the store, I received his message saying he's glad we met and that we should hangout soon. I of court accepted the offer. We hooked up the first night we met. We hit it off so easily since we had already seen each other naked in the locker room plenty of times. It's been 5 months since we met and we're still hooking up. We enjoy each other's company and like to tease each other when we're in the steam room.

If you're interested in finding a Daddy, try sparking a conversation with one in the steam room. Hopefully you'll hit it off with the right one.

EDIT: I accidentally stated the Daddy is 38 when he's actually 58. Typo..