There are a lot of Asian college students, tried getting their attention on Tinder. Should I just do bar crawls instead and stuff in downtown?

I'm 5'9, have long blonde hair, I'm slim (140lbs) and have grey eyes.

I'm also a shy, nerdy guy and I've never been with an Asian woman before. I've always wanted to though but I have bad habits like not being the most social person.

I am from China 25F and my husband is from Germany 36M

Here I would like to talk about international dating experiences. :)

I would like to firstly share my story. I met my husband on Tinder. I know it sounds funny haha but surprisingly I found the love of my life. After we got married, I started online browsing other international couples in Chinese media , I came across some bloggers who posted their life of international marriages like me. I see how sweet they are meanwhile also a lots of ladies leave comment below that asking them how did they find the husband and could you introduce me a boyfriend or a girlfriend. Due to my work relation, I work with many foreigners here in China, many people come asking me how did I met my husband and ask me for some introduction of some good and nice men.

I want to support them and my friend Rachel reached out to me to start helping them. For now I managed to help around ten men find their Chinese girlfriends online(some are already planning on meeting in real life )

We only receive a small amount of money which is around 15 dollars from the ladies if you both are interested in each other. No fee from the boys. Please be assured and don’t worry :)

My WeChat account : Octavialiu321 My WhatsApp account : +86 19101532381

Welcome to hit me up if you want to know more ladies :) my WeChat and my WhatsApp all under my real information. ℹ️

Here is the story, I met my online friend online and she created an account of posting her interracial marriage which matched to me that I am also married to one German.

I got lots of ladies coming to ask us about how can they meet white men too.

Chinese Girls in the USA or Australia and around the world:)

So far we matched few men with amazing girls:) For now we do not charge anything from anybody. We do it for kindness:)

My husband makes good incomes :)

Pm me if your boys are interested :)

where all the wholesome WMAF couples at?

I live in a big European city, what's the worst reaction I can expect as a tall and lanky but not attractive white guy? How do I avoid putting her in a uncomfortable situation?
Bonus question, would you feel offended if I told you "you are so cute I'd let u eat my cat?"

How must a white man look like to attract your attention?

-style

-Facial features

-Long/short hair?

-facial hair/beard

-Scars/tattos/stretch marks

-the kind of white (American, European, slavic)

-social status/money/education

-anything else

Also bonus question: how big is too big?

I came here expecting to see white incels lusting over asian girls. Maybe some trolls, but that's it. But what I found here is the racial straight version of fujoshi. Honestly, as a white man it's the first time in my life I feel violated

I wanted to bring up a topic that’s been making waves lately, especially after watching Jenn Tran’s journey on The Bachelorette. It was exciting to see an Asian American woman in the spotlight, but like many of us expected, things played out in a pretty familiar way. Jenn ended up choosing a white man over the one token Asian guy on the show, and of course, the relationship didn’t last.

Now, I’m not here to criticize Jenn’s personal choices—it’s her life and her decision. But this situation does highlight a bigger issue around how society views WMAF vs. AMWF relationships. WMAF is often seen as "normal" or even ideal, and it can come with social advantages for Asian women like greater acceptance and opportunities. Meanwhile, AMWF relationships, where an Asian man is with a white woman, don’t get the same level of acceptance. In fact, white women who date Asian men often face judgment, and historically, Asian men have been portrayed in ways that hurt their chances of being seen as desirable partners.

The double standard is clear, and it’s something that affects both WMAF and AMWF relationships in different ways. In this community, we’ve seen firsthand how strong and meaningful WMAF relationships can be, but we should also be aware of how these broader societal narratives impact other interracial couples. Relationships, no matter the pairing, should be about love, trust, and mutual respect—not about fitting into outdated racial expectations.

I recently made a video discussing these dynamics in more depth, including the challenges Asian men face in dating and how WMAF is often framed differently in media. If you're curious or want to learn more, feel free to check it out here: https://youtu.be/b83mSwhfsOA.

I’d love to hear your thoughts—how do you feel about the way WMAF relationships are portrayed in media?

I am living in China 🇨🇳 right now as visa agents. Recently some of my friends want to look for a white boyfriend. PM me if anyone interested to know a bit.

I love this pairing so much, I’m really looking for any foreign wmaf movies or shows made in countries outside the USA

Particularly any Chinese,Korean or Japanese would be great, but any other country would be fine as well. I’m not really familiar with foreign wmaf movies/shows,so any suggestion would be much appreciated

Thanks

I know this might not be the exact type of content this sub wants but it's so dead 😭 so this is better than nothing!