me and my girlfriend have been together for almost three years, and i love this girl so much. we are each other’s first everything, and i genuinely cant see us breaking up. i dont think she knows how much i love her, and i want to promise to be with her through everything. we have always dreamed of getting married and having 2 kids, and i want to start that dream now. we probably wont actually get married for a while but i want her to know how serious i am about her. she means everything to me and we’ve grown together and been through so much throughout our time together. she is my best friend and i know i can tell her anything. the thing is,, we are both 18. i know a lot of people will think we are too young but i just wanted to get other peoples opinions. i think i rambled a little😓

GUYS I TRULY CANNOT TELL IF SHE WANTS ME AS A FRIEND OR MORE. WE ARE BOTH GIRL KISSERS, WE HAVE PLAYED ROBLOC TGTH FOR LIKE 5 HOURS MORE THAN ONCE, WE HAVE SM IN COMMON, AND WE TEXT EACGOTHER GN WITH HEARTS. OKOK so I rlly rlly like her but idk how to take this further since she also isn’t😭 like idk most of the time I have to text first, I hit her up first, and tbh it seems like I’m the one mostly keeping this going. I don’t wanna force it but I just wanna know whether or not it’s even worth it to keep this going if she doesn’t even have feelings for me.

Like is she texting hearts bcuz she likes me or bcuz I’m also doing it??😰 maybe I’m overthinking it idk but it’s the first time I’ve ever felt this way with anyone and I’ve always dated guys. I just don’t wanna get my hopes up just to get let down yk🙁 she also once told me one time after I said that I thought she was always pretty that she hadn’t seen me since this year, so ! Why is dating girls harder omg pls help

So say you slept with someone out of revenge and you’ve hung out quite a bit after. She’s really cool and I kinda like her 🤷🏻‍♀️ Should I ask her out on a date or is that not a good idea? 👀

How do I get over it, even after saying friends. She has a girl and I’m still here, self confidence tearing away.

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How many aura points do i lose for giving a girl i met on FUCKING WIZZ my all after i haven’t loved someone so hard for so long,treated her the best i could just because i didn’t wanted her to leave me because i became so attached. We talked for so fucking long. She told me she loved me, all that just so she could text me at 3:00am saying we shouldn’t talk anymore and blocks me. I begged for her back on Wizz not giving up on her because i’m ATTACHED ASF. I’ve apologized so many times for something i didn’t do. Next thing you know i’m scrolling on TikTok and her video comes up with her kissing a girl.

Sooo, I've seen a few other people ask for advice here and thought I might give it a go since I'm in a pretty confusing situation with this lady who is (sort-of?) pursuing me. Hope this post doesn't violate rule #7, I apologize if it does. She liked my profile on Boo and we have been sending voice messages back and forth for around a month now. It was obvious to me that she wanted to take things slow and that was and is perfectly fine with me. The trouble started today.

We had moved on from sending messages over the app to sending them to each others' phones a good while ago so it's been a hot minute since I looked at her profile. But I would occasionally - in the rare instances that I actually bother opening the app - look at her profile. Only just recently Boo has started having people list their orientation and today I noticed that she listed her orientation as straight. I asked her about this and her response was, "Yeah, I'm straight but no one has ever really intrigued me the way you do..." The rest of her message then largely consisted of reiterating that she was straight and then immediately undercutting that statement with things like, "straight is such a limiting answer," "I didn't really know what to put on there honestly," and, "I don't really know what I am."

As a contextual note, we're both in our mid-thirties. As a further contextual note, I'm a transwoman so this is extra confusing for me since it's making me feel weird about my gender in addition to all the other weirdness that the situation is making me feel.

Anyway, thoughts? This is my first experience of a girl who insists she's straight while acting very fucking gay towards me (there is no heterosexual explanation for the tone of our conversations). Also, sorry if this is written a bit incoherently, I really needed some red wine after today so this may not be the most well-composed thing I've ever written.

Edit: Thanks to everyone who voted and extra thanks to everyone who commented. After a good day of thinking, talking to friends, and considering what's been said here I've decided I'm going to cool things off and dial things back. I'm not gonna stop talking to her all together but I'm definitely moving on from her as a romantic option since I have a clear idea of what I'm looking for and she very much does not.

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FUBU|Lesbian(19) around Region 1.

How do I move on from her?

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I wanted to share this with someone but me nor my girl are out to our parents yet so, reddit it is. Me and my gf both 14f have been talking/ together for 6 months now and I just wanted to share a bit of our love story. We both met last year through a mutual friend and we got along great right from the start. We both New that we our sexualities were both not yet decided but we bonded so well. Feb this year we had our first kiss at sunset at a lake on our friends birthday and I must say I have never been happier. Now to cut to what happened today. My gf came to my house for a “friendly” sleepover and I must say this woman is so gorgeous like she is asleep now but she is my safety net. I don’t know what I would do without her . Ik I’m only 14 but I think I love her. This is what my life is supposed to be like . I love her so much. So yeah. That’s my lil rant but thanks for reading. Goodnight yall!